I definitely agree with the lack of nuance in social media. It seems like everyone wants to do the best mic drop, not actually actively listen and engage in activism. It is so tiring to be told you aren't a good enough ally just because you don't perform your activism on social media. Who are we performing for? If it's just for each other, how does that really help the people in need? Thank you for your nuanced opinions on the internet's reactivity. I think it's a message we all need to hear.
This has been me too!!! I've been so stressed about social media thinking I have to have lots to say about BLM, and that I have to prove that I donated to the cause. When really, it's the donations themselves that help, not the screenshots. And as I'm white and no expert on racism, I feel better sharing posts from the black community. Having positive chats with people who don't agree is also important imo, because if you just shout people down it pushes them further towards the right it seems.
Lucy this was such an interesting discussion. The Internet is strange and performative right now. But also it is so nice to see people engage with Black Lives Matter. Even if a lot of people are just following the trend it will be giving them information and things to consider.
I'm right there with you on the whole outer appearance affecting self-perception thing. But honestly it's made me look at my need to dress up and put on makeup in a more positive light. I'd always assumed I did this to try and impress people (that's...essentially what society says all this is for), but lockdown has proven that to be completely untrue. Turns out I'm doing this for me. It helps me feel sexy and on top of things, with or without anybody around. Let's not judge ourselves for that and be glad we've found something so relatively easy to give us some much-needed serotonin!
I could not agree more! I find on days I don't "get ready" (i.e. hair, makeup, an outfit with a necklace) I'm just not as productive. I've realised that it's a ritual more than anything and catching myself in the mirror and feeling cute makes me feel a little boost through the day! Absolutely the kind of thing we should be celebrating!
I just love your videos, you really articulate yourself well and intelligently, which a lot of the time you do not see on social media. It’s the stuff you want to see as an escape, but more creative and more intelligent with the topics and ways you talk about important things alongside the trivial. It makes you think without being overwhelmed by a mega serious video. Keep doing what you’re doing - and I loved this chatty style video. If there’s something you feel you want to talk about, definitely do this again. Thanks again from a (very) long time viewer that doesn’t often comment or engage as much as I should.
I think its really important to recognise that not everyone will have the exact same opinion as yourself, especially when social media can make it seem like there is only one right way to feel and one right way to act and create change. In my experience when you flat out tell people they're wrong and refuse to talk to them about the issue it just raises walls. I've also just had a social media detox (as I was starting to pick fights with my extended family on Facebook) and I feel so much better!!
I think I agree in that I dislike the 'one-upping' on social media and I think we need to let people speak out in a way that is authentic to their voice. Not everyone has a loud, confident or angry voice and bringing that to a post when others know your true nature can feel forced and seem disingenuous. If you are an encourager, I've found value in publically thanking others for sharing useful information, celebrating positive action in others, showing kindness to those with an interest in the cause and being open about your own journey and failings can seriously change minds and start conversations just like being angry can. If you are angry, please do share that and let those real feelings show, it does make a difference. If you aren't that person, you can still contribute and bring massive change and give others a platform that is supportive and caring
thank you, I feel like this could really help soften my content and others content if desired and may make social media a lighter place when it gets too much :)
Your thoughts on social media really struck a chord with me and I wholeheartedly agree. I feel like people’s eagerness to publicly call out people who are on the same journey as them, and who have the same goal is really unhealthy. An acquaintance of mine recently posted something very problematic on her Facebook page but it was clear that she had posted it with the intention of showing her support for the black lives matter movement. I panicked and commented on it publicly without thinking - as I didn’t want it to be seen by anyone it would upset. She took it down immediately - which I was later relieved about as, once I’d had some time to reflect on it, I realised it would have been much kinder to have messaged her privately - and this also could have opened up a productive conversation. If it had been left up longer, and if others had resonated with my comment and piped up too - she only would have felt more embarrassed which may have scared her off communicating her support in future. I never commented with the intention of one-upping her or anything, but I’ve definitely been feeling under pressure to be SEEN speaking up and I think that likely subconsciously influenced my quick reaction. Commenting seemed like the obvious thing to do as it’s what I’ve seen everyone else doing. I also hardly ever post, or comment, on social media but I’ve been sharing a fair amount of anti-racist resources on my stories during the protests - and even though I’ve been having private conversations about racism with friends and family and I know that I will continue to support the movement for as long as the movement is necessary - I feel this pressure to keep up the momentum of these stories as evidence that I’m doing the work - even if I’m doing the work elsewhere with greater effect. If that makes any sense at all 🙈 Sorry for the essay - apparently I have a lot of thoughts on this haha! Thanks for a great video 😊
wow i never realized how much i missed your original filming space till now. always an iconic background 🙌🏽 love you lucy, your insightful commentary has kept me sane and living thru quarantine
Refreshing to hear someone talk about the lack of conversation and open-mindedness on this issue in particular but also in general. Super thoughtful and introspective in comparison to the 2D chatter going on 😊
I'm so glad you said what you said in this video! I feel a lot of people hold back what they want to say for fear of being attacked which is sad and people need to be more open to hearing other people's opinions. I hope you're looking after yourself! Loved your videos during lockdown.
I love what you've said about our reaction times, this ’click bate’ medium of expressing an opinion and in many ways feeling like we immediately need to use our voice. The reality is I'm often unsure of exactly where I sit in some debates. I think it is important to listen and maintain a curiosity about varying opinions and what people have to say. As my knowledge grows and I continue to have insightful conversations, so does the strength of my opinion. Right now a lesson from my dad which is ’to think before you speak’ holds true. However I cannot ignore a quote that struck a cord with me throughout all this. ”There comes a time when silence is betrayal.” It seems like I will constantly be working to find a balance between using my voice with the hope of contributing to positive change, while allowing myself and others time to formulate opinions without judgement. Your voice and open discussions hold power Lucy. Thank you for continuing to share.
Rachael O'Brien this was a really lovely comment to read, thanks for sharing your thoughts. Finding the balance is so important, and I wholeheartedly agree on silence being betrayal
Thank you Lucy, you've really summed up my feelings too. Balanced, thoughtful responses are so much more valuable than knee-jerk performative gestures, and really do allow for some real, essential conversations to be had, instead of polarising arguments.
Really love your insightful thoughts on how everything is playing out online. These are the exact feelings I've been having, and for the first week or so I was so frustrated with all of it. Once I started to realize that what I was seeing wasn't just in my head, and other people felt that way too, I was able to more or less, let go of expectations from people on social media. I could work through things and start reading more and talking with my friends about things, without worrying about the fact that it was mostly not on social media, since I had felt really pressured early on to do things in that specific way.
I am totally the same way with the outward appearance thing. If i don’t get dressed and made-up in the morning i feel like i never really started my day and it almost is like looking put together is part of what wakes me up. And i don’t really feel like myself if i don’t either.
Completely agree with having a purpose about work. Before I got my recent job, which is quite a time-consuming role, I used to do a lot of volunteering. I really miss giving up my time and contributing to something good.
I feel like I'm in a better place too. I had this entire moment last week where I was OK SO THIS IS LIFE now and god, Lucy, I'm feeling so much more clearheaded!! Glad to see you do well 💗💗 or atleast we're trying right 🤗
Being at peace with the way you eat is worth so much. Eating is important for your body, both your physical and mental health. Letting go of what 'should' be can be helpful for a lot of people who are used to diet culture. But generally, when you look at things from a perspective of loving yourself and wanting to nurture your body, that's a very good starting point :)
I completely feel you on recognizing and understanding your body so much better since lockdown and its so weird how it just took slowing down and being alone to do so. Really lovely to see you back in your appartment and hearing that you feel much healthier!!
Lucy, thank you for this lovely video. Whenever youtubers talk about weight and food and exercise, I've the tendancy to get triggered and it makes me feel really uncomfortable for a few days. Hearing you talk about food so honestly, and movement...So refreshing and I felt so safe. It was just so matter of fact, no drama, and completely what movement and food is all about. Thank you.
I loved this honest video, only thought I had was when you recommended some people you said ‘I’ve probably said that wrong’ or ‘sorry I said that wrong’ regarding their names maybe you could have done some more research on how to pronounce their names as they’re people you respect. I’ve seen a lot of people speaking up on how this highlights they are different/ not the norm. Genuinely not sure if this would personally annoy them just something to think about. Thanks for always being truthful I respect you a lot and definitely support you finding a higher purpose in order to help others I’m backing you all the way!! (If you aren’t Lucy and feel you have something to say about my comment I’d love to have a conversation as I feel I have quite a phonetic name and don’t come across this issue/ is it an issue?)
Thank you for this - I've spent the last year studying online discourse from a psychological perspective and I agree that social media "trends" and back-and-forth doesn't create the space for the discussions we need to have. I've definitely seen this throughout the BLM movement, with so many people trying to "out-woke" each other or show that they're a better ally than everyone else. Yes, it's important to hold people accountable and educate on correct terminology etc., but I feel like the performative aspect is very polarizing and shuts a lot of people out of the conversation.
Wow Lucy! That “also listening to people who have a different opinion than us” was so good to hear from an influencer! It simply opens up our minds! ;) thank you!! ❤️
I recently took a full social media break and it was so good it made me want to quit everything forever. But like you said, as stressful as it is there is a lot of important stuff happening on there. Been trying to do quick dips in and out to stay caught up with things. Also I love the coffee and catch up style vids!
Totally agree with having the workspace thing, I got so used to doing 100% of my uni work in the library that I absolutely slumped trying to do all of my assignments in my bedroom or kitchen table in lock down, did not end well... 😅 (ooo I have a fashion recommendation, Balzac Paris, such a cute sustainable brand, would love to see your thoughts on their pieces!)
This is so relatable; before lockdown I was also doing all my uni work in the library and switching to doing it at home, mainly sitting on my bed, really reduced my motivation more than I expected.
I really enjoyed Dita Von Teese's book "You're Beauty Mark..." She goes into how she always has her hair and makeup done for herself because that is what is comfortable for her. It gave me some good insights on self care and confidence.
It's so interesting to me that what seems to be happening in the UK with social media is uncannily similar to what I see happening in NYC & across the US. Of course this is all one movement, so it makes sense. In some strange way it's comforting to know it's not just Americans. You've articulated so much of what I've been feeling about it, thanks for sharing xo
I so agree with you about how social media has become just one big echo chamber. Especially here in the US where the whole issue has started. I’ve been avoiding posting on social media for this reason. It really seems like there is only one right opinion and everyone else is wrong. I also agree with people focusing the issue on themselves, letting everyone know that they are for the movement and that they’re “woke” so as to fulfil their own image, which to me I just find immature and just counterproductive. It’s okay to disagree and not always go along with what is “trendy”, that’s not the point of ethics and politics. Personally, this has really irritated me. It’s one thing to have a conversation, it’s another thing to post a selfie at a riot so that everyone know that you’re going along with the trend.
wellness has also been on my mind recently. i used to be go go go before lockdown and i so don’t want to lose the slower pace and more intentional lifestyle i’ve picked up during quarantine. it’s enticing to go back to being busy, but at the end of the day, it won’t help me. thanks so much for your thoughts ♥️
A. Loved this. A great balance of light and weightier topics. B. that cardigan is just *chef’s kiss* C. Disordered eating thoughts are a really hard one during this uncontrollable madness. I’m in ED recovery, but spent the night back at my old uni flat yesterday moving out, and being back in an environment where I was so ill has sent me on a spiral. Environment and space has such an impact on your sense of well-being, how safe or energised or cosy we feel. Right now, when the everything seems kind of dark, food and exercise has been conditioned to be our go to control - I think we need to treat ourselves like some kind of super sensitive plant, like an orchid, one that needs so much harmony and care and stasis in order to thrive. Try to notice how you feel each day, and see what would make you bloom 🌸 (urgh cheesy I pushed the metaphor too far)
I *super* relate to feeling like I need a greater purpose outside work, but in finding that purpose have become a caricature of the fast-paced, overworked Silicon Valley that I grew up in. I've been surrounded by workaholics my whole life, and grew up with a mindset that I was lesser than my peers who were in every club/extracurricular activity... I really believed that the value endowed by my local community of hyper-competitive busybodies was intrinsic. Moving away from SV allowed me to grow out and embrace the things that make me feel human. I can make music with friends across the world now with an online orchestra I started, and feel everyone loving the community I've helped build. I may still be working too hard, but at least the payoffs of community and happiness are well worth my time and effort.
Everything you said was so well articulated - especiaaaaally the social media aspect. Love hearing people have these realizations during lockdown because I’ve been having so many too. I don’t know if you believe in astrology, but if you have any Libra in your chart, that could be a good explanation for why you feel better when you put on jewelry/makeup/look cleaner. I have a Libra Rising; rising is the place that holds how you like to see yourself as and what you like to see around you, and Libra is the zodiac sign known for balance, aesthetic, and beauty, so personally during lockdown, I’ve been wearing less makeup but I will still put on jewelry and do masks to make sure my skin is glowing, and I’ll put on dresses because it allows me to be comfortable in the house without being too fancy or doing too much work, but it also allows me to feel like myself.
Sorry to hear about your underactive thyroid. I also initally got a subclinical diagnosis and I remember it was quite challenging to deal with finding the right level and the body changes that had come before. Today I've got mine sorted. Hope it'll stabilise for you soon too!
I just want to thank you for your videos. I use your videos as aids to talk to my teenage daughter about life issues. You have definitely helped us connect on a deeper level! Love your videos!
Hey Lucy, I wanted to reply to something you said in your video about feeling weird about posting because what good are you doing (sorry, I am paraphrasing 😅). I have enjoyed your videos for a few years now but especially during those crazy times I always get excited when I see you uploaded. Your videos are so aesthetically pleasing and calming and at the same time you manage to present very important ideas, that always leave me thinking. It is so obvious that you are an incredibly smart person and I always enjoy listening to your ideas and opinions. In this video especially you raised so many important points. I especially connected with your ideas surrounding „hip and cool activism“ because this is something I have been thinking about a lot lately. So to finally come to an end (sorry for the rambling), I can understand that it might feel like: how is me posting a video helping anyone? But it really is. Your videos feel like hanging out with a friend discussing important issues and I always leave feeling calmer and thinking about certain aspects further so you are helping! Loads of love from Germany! ♥️
I'm totally with you that the pressure to speak out on the protests has really resulted in performative action and some simply terrible takes and I also have felt incapable of expressing that without coming across like a dick. You did it really eloquently, I'm glad to see other people feeling this way and not being awful, thank you
Totally relate to what you were saying about realising what you want to do job and career-wise - I think rona has made a lot of people think about what actually fulfils them, as we're spending so much more time with ourselves and have been doing the same routine for months! It's been a somewhat uncomfortable shift for me, but also exciting to potentially start pursuing a new direction after all this!
I love so much how whenever I watch this type of video from you I feel like I'm having a good heart to heart with a close friend, even though you probably have no idea who I am ahah 😅
I genuinely loved this video. This is why I am subscribed. I am glad you spoke about people trying to out ally one another as I think that adds to the performative aspects of the movement.
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girl an office space is a LIFE CHANGER. look up some productivity setups on youtube and get some inspo. it's worth it.
I am exactly the same about my appearance as you are. I just feel so much better when I've made a bit of effort but through lockdown it all seemed so pointless so I just didn't bother and it made me feel so shit about myself. I do however think it was helpful for me mentally just to spend a bit of time not looking my best and just accepting who she was a bit more and coming to terms with and just accepting what I naturally look like because at the end of the day beauty comes from within and no one is as critical of our appearances are we are with ourselves.
Oh yeah, that Colston statue had to go! Bristol city centre is so much nicer without it. Health is a good thing to focus on, because when the world whirls around us, at least we have a fair bit of control on our eating and exercise.
I've just been diagnosed with underactive thyroid too - the thing that my specialist discovered is that i have a "curable" type so according to an x ray if i cut a bit out of my left thyroid things should even out, for now im taking pills. I have experienced a weird shift in my weight. i don't feel like eating much food at all and i have PCOS but my waist is stomach and face seems slimmer while my face remains just a chubby as always - it's like im going through a similar weight change you mentioned that was unhealthy last year? the hormonal changes have made me get mad as acne for the first time ever may be unrelated but probably a hormonal shift.
Just so that you know, you helped me a lot during these last few months, i've been watching you forever but these last months... i just love how honest your 168 hour's are
The black lives matter movement is amazing but I think people are also not aware of all the hate crimes that happened against asians during the coronavirus.. I just feel like we need to be aware of racism as a whole and not just towards one race. I'm really happy though that people are being aware of these things because of this movement
Love this! Such interesting thoughts on all this. Have been really analysing my relationship to social media lately. It's an ongoing journey! And my relationship with wellness has been on a rollercoaster after peaking mid lockdown :') we'll get there!
I honestly just listening to what you have to say haha I don’t know if that’s weird but I always love hearing your insights into pop culture and current events 💕 you always make your points so clear and understandable!
With social media it’s become somewhat frustrating for me to see content lacking substance being pushed to the front. Of course light hearted pieces still have their own merit. And I know it isn’t completely creators’ faults because they don’t want to be left behind due to not posting as much, so many times people put out more pieces at a lower quality. Part of being a professional creative unfortunately is maintaining relevancy.... I’m not sure what the solution would be. :/ I would just like to see more higher quality pieces substance-wise being pushed as well
I’ve always felt an odd connection to Lucy. I can relate a lot health wise, and have also loved her content for years. We have similar deficiencies and intolerances, and I also have an under active thyroid (Hashimotos). So, when she talks about new things working for her, I’m always interested to try them out too!
Hi @Lucy Moon :) Some interesting thoughts about social media, I can understand that feelings about quick reactions. I would like to say that I believe showing you have donated to appropriate organisations is not always a 'one-up -manship' type move. I posted print screens that I had donated to show all my friends (especially my friends who are people of colour/ethnic minorities/BAME) that actions speak as loud and often louder than words and that I am holding myself accountable for my actions eg) showing that I am not all talk. I posted other things too eg) information. In my post about donations and organisations and education part of my caption asked my followers what they had done, are doing, or actively plan to do in future (this could be donations, following people of different ethnicities and cultures etc, sharing information, signing petitions, protests, difficult conversations). By doing this I felt it was reminding us all to take this seriously and put a continued effort in to improving the situation and doing what we can, but I also ensured them that this does not happen overnight and baby steps are better than no steps. I got a First-Class degree in Social Policy so this is not the first time I have discussed equality and I feel my actions were genuine.
loved this! completely with you on the whole internet discussion. I also really struggled at the beginning of lockdown with eating and it's still a journey..! thanks for making a really thoughtful video x
I've been following you on Twitter for a while but only just found your channel here! I love these chatty style vids, and agree with a lot of what you said here. I also love Natacha Oceane's channel, intuitive eating is a game changer!
thank you so much for being so open about your health struggles! I have the same exact health issues aka an underachieve thyroid, a Vitamin B12 and Vitamin D deficiency - I don't know if you're already in treatment for that, but I would HIGHLY recommend it! For me, those health issues strongly affected my mental health and my energy (aka I was exhausted all the time) but supplements and stuff has really improved my physical and mental health! so yea - bottom line is that I would really recommend starting some sort of treatment and especially being consistent with it. but obvi every body and mind is different - hope that you find something that works for you 💞
Such interesting thoughts!! I agree, I felt quite overwhelmed as to how to 'speak' out and wasn't sure how to do so. Some people I follow were like you HAVE to speak, but sometimes doing what you do behind the scenes is as good as doing that! Sharing resources, having conversations etc is worthwhile on social media but it shouldn't be a competition, I agree with #blackouttuesday but it felt like people who hadn't even considered the movement previously jumped on the bandwagon?? Hope you're doing okay xxxx
I have had so many chats with friends about social media presence during this time and ultimately I think that everyone has their own medium to support blm. I use/post on my socials a lot, so to stay silent in the Midst of a revolution would be louder than my friend who posts one photo a year on their holiday yanno. I have to have my own conversations with my circle and not expect them to be using the same medium to support black lives. One conversation a day keeps systemic oracism at bay. Even if that conversation is just with yourself or an email to your mp.
Loved the video. You coming across more of yourself I know I don't know you so I don't know "yourself" but u seem so confident and glowy :) coffee and chats are the best 😁
Thank you for all this quarantine content. PS: you've inspired me to buy the Canon M50 because I've loved the look of your videos (can't wait to shoot some content 🤗) !
lovely video and loads of great thoughts!! i agree heavily on the social media commentary...very interesting seeing both the direct and indirect coversations evolve
It's weird that you have started to realise that you need something to "aspire to" or have a purpose to work towards. It's something that I've realised. I don't know if it's lockdown, losing my job or something else, but I've slowly felt more and more that just working is fine but not fulfilling. I'm yet to discover what will be my calling for lack of a better word, but listening to you talk about working for a non-profit, it's certainly something I'm going to look into.
Totally with you on the outward appearance effecting my inner self. Except for me I feel best and most productive in sporty clothes and a ballcap. Thats my get shit done and FEEL GOOD outfit 🥰 love your videos Lucy
Such a good vid, thank you :) I’d like to recommend Abi Sharp and STephanie Buttermore for their intuitive eating content :) but yay for movement and eating intuitively!
Thank you! I’m glad it’s not just me feeling like this. Especially older generations on social media are doing things in a bit of a tone deaf way but have good intentions and I think there is a space for those conversations but in a compassionate way not in a shaming way (perfect ally work). I don’t want people to think I’m not anti-racist for not making a statement. I don’t want to make a performative statement without having done the work of reading the books or doing the introspective reflection. I don’t want to be taking up space talking about my experiences of white privilege and facing my internalised racism but I also want to make other white people aware of their privilege and how to sit with discomfort and face their racism. I don’t know how to deal with these dilemmas on how to be a good ally. I’m just not sure that twitter is able to have these nuanced discussions with its short-form format.
I don't think some people on internet platforms realise the extent to which they can exert a lot of effort preaching to the choir while totally removed from mainstream discourse. We live in a democracy, if you want to affect change you need broad appeal. In a majoritarian political system like ours, you need to work towards consensus and compromise. You achieve neither by subjecting people to purity tests and narrow-minded dogmatism. It must be accepted that people can agree on the objective but disagree on the means. Oh and I make sure to read both left and right wing media. I can't think of a practical reason why you shouldn't.
For some of us right wing media is a barrage of dehumanizing and racist commentary that rings true to discrimination we have faced in real life. I don't need to read/watch Fox racists, I interact with racists in real life enough.
The posting donation screenshots felt so weird... a bit like it's the Virgin Media run 5 donate five for competitive allyship. This was such a great video! Thank you for sharing your thoughts, and the fab info in the description box
Was interesting to hear more about your thyroid issues atm, have your doctors spoken to you about Hashimoto’s Thyroiditis? It is an auto-immune hypothyroidism disorder that is linked with things like coeliac and gluten intolerances (I have both coeliac and hashimoto’s)
Hey Lucy !! Loved your video and your views, especially on feeling like you don’t have a voice in the BLM “movement” if you don’t agree 100% with “public opinion”, thank you for putting it into words. Also really glad you’ve found out about Natasha Ocean, she’s the best 😉 loved that insta post you made about weight gain and couldn’t agree more Xx
Lucy your make up looks lovely in this vid!! But also I'm really glad you mentioned wellness and balance. I've thrown all my self-care/health out the window during lockdown, almost feels like there's no point?
Great video. I'd love to see other creators talk about this! I have really enjoyed putting together outfits just for me, not worrying about other people's perceptions. That being said, your video call beauty video was a game changer. It made me realise the small things I could do to look better on zoom XD
Tbh last week I found social media a bit too much like I agree with the message of the black lives movement but it was a lot last week like all down my feeds people saying the exact same thing and like personally I have mixed feelings about the protests due to the virus and did not like how people were acting like if you disagreed with the protested you are part of the problem like some people are against them due to the virus, like its not a black and white thing and did not like how people were acting like it was.
What do you do to help your Vit D and B12 deficiencies? I have these too and get medication and injections for them but I still feel very fatigued all the time. These videos are very nice to watch since I recognise a lot of your struggle during this quarantine.
Hey Lucy! I have hypothyroid as well. I feel that B-12 deficiency lol. Have you had your hoshimoto antibodies tested? My mom has been in the similar boat as you with weight and exercise and hoshimotos has really affected her during lockdown.
I appreciate this video. Nathan zed also made a video about the recent commodification of black lives matter Edit: so glad you called out his vid in your video
I definitely agree with the lack of nuance in social media. It seems like everyone wants to do the best mic drop, not actually actively listen and engage in activism. It is so tiring to be told you aren't a good enough ally just because you don't perform your activism on social media. Who are we performing for? If it's just for each other, how does that really help the people in need? Thank you for your nuanced opinions on the internet's reactivity. I think it's a message we all need to hear.
This has been me too!!! I've been so stressed about social media thinking I have to have lots to say about BLM, and that I have to prove that I donated to the cause. When really, it's the donations themselves that help, not the screenshots. And as I'm white and no expert on racism, I feel better sharing posts from the black community. Having positive chats with people who don't agree is also important imo, because if you just shout people down it pushes them further towards the right it seems.
Lucy this was such an interesting discussion. The Internet is strange and performative right now. But also it is so nice to see people engage with Black Lives Matter. Even if a lot of people are just following the trend it will be giving them information and things to consider.
I'm right there with you on the whole outer appearance affecting self-perception thing. But honestly it's made me look at my need to dress up and put on makeup in a more positive light. I'd always assumed I did this to try and impress people (that's...essentially what society says all this is for), but lockdown has proven that to be completely untrue. Turns out I'm doing this for me. It helps me feel sexy and on top of things, with or without anybody around. Let's not judge ourselves for that and be glad we've found something so relatively easy to give us some much-needed serotonin!
I could not agree more! I find on days I don't "get ready" (i.e. hair, makeup, an outfit with a necklace) I'm just not as productive. I've realised that it's a ritual more than anything and catching myself in the mirror and feeling cute makes me feel a little boost through the day! Absolutely the kind of thing we should be celebrating!
well said!
I just love your videos, you really articulate yourself well and intelligently, which a lot of the time you do not see on social media. It’s the stuff you want to see as an escape, but more creative and more intelligent with the topics and ways you talk about important things alongside the trivial. It makes you think without being overwhelmed by a mega serious video. Keep doing what you’re doing - and I loved this chatty style video. If there’s something you feel you want to talk about, definitely do this again. Thanks again from a (very) long time viewer that doesn’t often comment or engage as much as I should.
I think its really important to recognise that not everyone will have the exact same opinion as yourself, especially when social media can make it seem like there is only one right way to feel and one right way to act and create change. In my experience when you flat out tell people they're wrong and refuse to talk to them about the issue it just raises walls. I've also just had a social media detox (as I was starting to pick fights with my extended family on Facebook) and I feel so much better!!
I think I agree in that I dislike the 'one-upping' on social media and I think we need to let people speak out in a way that is authentic to their voice. Not everyone has a loud, confident or angry voice and bringing that to a post when others know your true nature can feel forced and seem disingenuous. If you are an encourager, I've found value in publically thanking others for sharing useful information, celebrating positive action in others, showing kindness to those with an interest in the cause and being open about your own journey and failings can seriously change minds and start conversations just like being angry can. If you are angry, please do share that and let those real feelings show, it does make a difference. If you aren't that person, you can still contribute and bring massive change and give others a platform that is supportive and caring
thank you, I feel like this could really help soften my content and others content if desired and may make social media a lighter place when it gets too much :)
Your thoughts on social media really struck a chord with me and I wholeheartedly agree. I feel like people’s eagerness to publicly call out people who are on the same journey as them, and who have the same goal is really unhealthy.
An acquaintance of mine recently posted something very problematic on her Facebook page but it was clear that she had posted it with the intention of showing her support for the black lives matter movement. I panicked and commented on it publicly without thinking - as I didn’t want it to be seen by anyone it would upset. She took it down immediately - which I was later relieved about as, once I’d had some time to reflect on it, I realised it would have been much kinder to have messaged her privately - and this also could have opened up a productive conversation. If it had been left up longer, and if others had resonated with my comment and piped up too - she only would have felt more embarrassed which may have scared her off communicating her support in future. I never commented with the intention of one-upping her or anything, but I’ve definitely been feeling under pressure to be SEEN speaking up and I think that likely subconsciously influenced my quick reaction. Commenting seemed like the obvious thing to do as it’s what I’ve seen everyone else doing.
I also hardly ever post, or comment, on social media but I’ve been sharing a fair amount of anti-racist resources on my stories during the protests - and even though I’ve been having private conversations about racism with friends and family and I know that I will continue to support the movement for as long as the movement is necessary - I feel this pressure to keep up the momentum of these stories as evidence that I’m doing the work - even if I’m doing the work elsewhere with greater effect. If that makes any sense at all 🙈
Sorry for the essay - apparently I have a lot of thoughts on this haha! Thanks for a great video 😊
wow i never realized how much i missed your original filming space till now. always an iconic background 🙌🏽 love you lucy, your insightful commentary has kept me sane and living thru quarantine
Refreshing to hear someone talk about the lack of conversation and open-mindedness on this issue in particular but also in general. Super thoughtful and introspective in comparison to the 2D chatter going on 😊
This coffee chat videos are my favourite.
I'm so glad you said what you said in this video! I feel a lot of people hold back what they want to say for fear of being attacked which is sad and people need to be more open to hearing other people's opinions. I hope you're looking after yourself! Loved your videos during lockdown.
I love what you've said about our reaction times, this ’click bate’ medium of expressing an opinion and in many ways feeling like we immediately need to use our voice.
The reality is I'm often unsure of exactly where I sit in some debates. I think it is important to listen and maintain a curiosity about varying opinions and what people have to say. As my knowledge grows and I continue to have insightful conversations, so does the strength of my opinion.
Right now a lesson from my dad which is ’to think before you speak’ holds true.
However I cannot ignore a quote that struck a cord with me throughout all this.
”There comes a time when silence is betrayal.”
It seems like I will constantly be working to find a balance between using my voice with the hope of contributing to positive change, while allowing myself and others time to formulate opinions without judgement.
Your voice and open discussions hold power Lucy. Thank you for continuing to share.
Rachael O'Brien this was a really lovely comment to read, thanks for sharing your thoughts. Finding the balance is so important, and I wholeheartedly agree on silence being betrayal
@@lucymoonyou’re very pretty and nice as a boy I must say you’re what every boy likes and wants to have as their girlfriend
Thank you Lucy, you've really summed up my feelings too. Balanced, thoughtful responses are so much more valuable than knee-jerk performative gestures, and really do allow for some real, essential conversations to be had, instead of polarising arguments.
Really love your insightful thoughts on how everything is playing out online. These are the exact feelings I've been having, and for the first week or so I was so frustrated with all of it. Once I started to realize that what I was seeing wasn't just in my head, and other people felt that way too, I was able to more or less, let go of expectations from people on social media. I could work through things and start reading more and talking with my friends about things, without worrying about the fact that it was mostly not on social media, since I had felt really pressured early on to do things in that specific way.
I am totally the same way with the outward appearance thing. If i don’t get dressed and made-up in the morning i feel like i never really started my day and it almost is like looking put together is part of what wakes me up. And i don’t really feel like myself if i don’t either.
Completely agree with having a purpose about work. Before I got my recent job, which is quite a time-consuming role, I used to do a lot of volunteering. I really miss giving up my time and contributing to something good.
I LOVE THIS 💚
I feel like I'm in a better place too. I had this entire moment last week where I was OK SO THIS IS LIFE now and god, Lucy, I'm feeling so much more clearheaded!! Glad to see you do well 💗💗 or atleast we're trying right 🤗
Being at peace with the way you eat is worth so much. Eating is important for your body, both your physical and mental health. Letting go of what 'should' be can be helpful for a lot of people who are used to diet culture. But generally, when you look at things from a perspective of loving yourself and wanting to nurture your body, that's a very good starting point :)
I completely feel you on recognizing and understanding your body so much better since lockdown and its so weird how it just took slowing down and being alone to do so. Really lovely to see you back in your appartment and hearing that you feel much healthier!!
Lucy, thank you for this lovely video. Whenever youtubers talk about weight and food and exercise, I've the tendancy to get triggered and it makes me feel really uncomfortable for a few days. Hearing you talk about food so honestly, and movement...So refreshing and I felt so safe. It was just so matter of fact, no drama, and completely what movement and food is all about. Thank you.
I loved this honest video, only thought I had was when you recommended some people you said ‘I’ve probably said that wrong’ or ‘sorry I said that wrong’ regarding their names maybe you could have done some more research on how to pronounce their names as they’re people you respect. I’ve seen a lot of people speaking up on how this highlights they are different/ not the norm. Genuinely not sure if this would personally annoy them just something to think about. Thanks for always being truthful I respect you a lot and definitely support you finding a higher purpose in order to help others I’m backing you all the way!! (If you aren’t Lucy and feel you have something to say about my comment I’d love to have a conversation as I feel I have quite a phonetic name and don’t come across this issue/ is it an issue?)
Thank you for mentioning this and reframing it for me - deffo something I’ll avoid doing in the future ❤️
Thank you for this - I've spent the last year studying online discourse from a psychological perspective and I agree that social media "trends" and back-and-forth doesn't create the space for the discussions we need to have. I've definitely seen this throughout the BLM movement, with so many people trying to "out-woke" each other or show that they're a better ally than everyone else. Yes, it's important to hold people accountable and educate on correct terminology etc., but I feel like the performative aspect is very polarizing and shuts a lot of people out of the conversation.
Wow Lucy! That “also listening to people who have a different opinion than us” was so good to hear from an influencer! It simply opens up our minds! ;) thank you!! ❤️
Listening to your videos while getting things done, it's my fav. ❤️
Sameeee
saaaaame
I recently took a full social media break and it was so good it made me want to quit everything forever. But like you said, as stressful as it is there is a lot of important stuff happening on there. Been trying to do quick dips in and out to stay caught up with things.
Also I love the coffee and catch up style vids!
Totally agree with having the workspace thing, I got so used to doing 100% of my uni work in the library that I absolutely slumped trying to do all of my assignments in my bedroom or kitchen table in lock down, did not end well... 😅 (ooo I have a fashion recommendation, Balzac Paris, such a cute sustainable brand, would love to see your thoughts on their pieces!)
This is so relatable; before lockdown I was also doing all my uni work in the library and switching to doing it at home, mainly sitting on my bed, really reduced my motivation more than I expected.
I really enjoyed Dita Von Teese's book "You're Beauty Mark..." She goes into how she always has her hair and makeup done for herself because that is what is comfortable for her. It gave me some good insights on self care and confidence.
It's so interesting to me that what seems to be happening in the UK with social media is uncannily similar to what I see happening in NYC & across the US. Of course this is all one movement, so it makes sense. In some strange way it's comforting to know it's not just Americans. You've articulated so much of what I've been feeling about it, thanks for sharing xo
Your thoughts on social media put a feeling I've been having into word perfectly. Thank you for sharing those thoughts with us!
i LOVE Natasha Oceane!! Her channel is so great and such a healthy approach to wellness
I so agree with you about how social media has become just one big echo chamber. Especially here in the US where the whole issue has started. I’ve been avoiding posting on social media for this reason. It really seems like there is only one right opinion and everyone else is wrong. I also agree with people focusing the issue on themselves, letting everyone know that they are for the movement and that they’re “woke” so as to fulfil their own image, which to me I just find immature and just counterproductive. It’s okay to disagree and not always go along with what is “trendy”, that’s not the point of ethics and politics. Personally, this has really irritated me. It’s one thing to have a conversation, it’s another thing to post a selfie at a riot so that everyone know that you’re going along with the trend.
wellness has also been on my mind recently. i used to be go go go before lockdown and i so don’t want to lose the slower pace and more intentional lifestyle i’ve picked up during quarantine. it’s enticing to go back to being busy, but at the end of the day, it won’t help me. thanks so much for your thoughts ♥️
A. Loved this. A great balance of light and weightier topics. B. that cardigan is just *chef’s kiss* C. Disordered eating thoughts are a really hard one during this uncontrollable madness. I’m in ED recovery, but spent the night back at my old uni flat yesterday moving out, and being back in an environment where I was so ill has sent me on a spiral. Environment and space has such an impact on your sense of well-being, how safe or energised or cosy we feel. Right now, when the everything seems kind of dark, food and exercise has been conditioned to be our go to control - I think we need to treat ourselves like some kind of super sensitive plant, like an orchid, one that needs so much harmony and care and stasis in order to thrive. Try to notice how you feel each day, and see what would make you bloom 🌸 (urgh cheesy I pushed the metaphor too far)
I *super* relate to feeling like I need a greater purpose outside work, but in finding that purpose have become a caricature of the fast-paced, overworked Silicon Valley that I grew up in.
I've been surrounded by workaholics my whole life, and grew up with a mindset that I was lesser than my peers who were in every club/extracurricular activity... I really believed that the value endowed by my local community of hyper-competitive busybodies was intrinsic.
Moving away from SV allowed me to grow out and embrace the things that make me feel human. I can make music with friends across the world now with an online orchestra I started, and feel everyone loving the community I've helped build. I may still be working too hard, but at least the payoffs of community and happiness are well worth my time and effort.
Your video always puts me in a good mood!:)
Thank you Lucy!😊
Hope everyone who watches this video alright!:)
Totally agree, really missed your original space. Love the chat! ☕️ and you mug is gorgeous 💖
Everything you said was so well articulated - especiaaaaally the social media aspect. Love hearing people have these realizations during lockdown because I’ve been having so many too. I don’t know if you believe in astrology, but if you have any Libra in your chart, that could be a good explanation for why you feel better when you put on jewelry/makeup/look cleaner. I have a Libra Rising; rising is the place that holds how you like to see yourself as and what you like to see around you, and Libra is the zodiac sign known for balance, aesthetic, and beauty, so personally during lockdown, I’ve been wearing less makeup but I will still put on jewelry and do masks to make sure my skin is glowing, and I’ll put on dresses because it allows me to be comfortable in the house without being too fancy or doing too much work, but it also allows me to feel like myself.
Sorry to hear about your underactive thyroid. I also initally got a subclinical diagnosis and I remember it was quite challenging to deal with finding the right level and the body changes that had come before. Today I've got mine sorted. Hope it'll stabilise for you soon too!
I just want to thank you for your videos. I use your videos as aids to talk to my teenage daughter about life issues. You have definitely helped us connect on a deeper level! Love your videos!
Hey Lucy, I wanted to reply to something you said in your video about feeling weird about posting because what good are you doing (sorry, I am paraphrasing 😅). I have enjoyed your videos for a few years now but especially during those crazy times I always get excited when I see you uploaded. Your videos are so aesthetically pleasing and calming and at the same time you manage to present very important ideas, that always leave me thinking. It is so obvious that you are an incredibly smart person and I always enjoy listening to your ideas and opinions. In this video especially you raised so many important points. I especially connected with your ideas surrounding „hip and cool activism“ because this is something I have been thinking about a lot lately. So to finally come to an end (sorry for the rambling), I can understand that it might feel like: how is me posting a video helping anyone? But it really is. Your videos feel like hanging out with a friend discussing important issues and I always leave feeling calmer and thinking about certain aspects further so you are helping! Loads of love from Germany! ♥️
I'm totally with you that the pressure to speak out on the protests has really resulted in performative action and some simply terrible takes and I also have felt incapable of expressing that without coming across like a dick. You did it really eloquently, I'm glad to see other people feeling this way and not being awful, thank you
Totally relate to what you were saying about realising what you want to do job and career-wise - I think rona has made a lot of people think about what actually fulfils them, as we're spending so much more time with ourselves and have been doing the same routine for months! It's been a somewhat uncomfortable shift for me, but also exciting to potentially start pursuing a new direction after all this!
Ooh best of luck with it!
Lucy Moon thank you Lucy! ☺️✨
I love so much how whenever I watch this type of video from you I feel like I'm having a good heart to heart with a close friend, even though you probably have no idea who I am ahah 😅
I genuinely loved this video. This is why I am subscribed. I am glad you spoke about people trying to out ally one another as I think that adds to the performative aspects of the movement.
girl an office space is a LIFE CHANGER. look up some productivity setups on youtube and get some inspo. it's worth it.
I am exactly the same about my appearance as you are. I just feel so much better when I've made a bit of effort but through lockdown it all seemed so pointless so I just didn't bother and it made me feel so shit about myself. I do however think it was helpful for me mentally just to spend a bit of time not looking my best and just accepting who she was a bit more and coming to terms with and just accepting what I naturally look like because at the end of the day beauty comes from within and no one is as critical of our appearances are we are with ourselves.
Oh yeah, that Colston statue had to go! Bristol city centre is so much nicer without it. Health is a good thing to focus on, because when the world whirls around us, at least we have a fair bit of control on our eating and exercise.
I've just been diagnosed with underactive thyroid too - the thing that my specialist discovered is that i have a "curable" type so according to an x ray if i cut a bit out of my left thyroid things should even out, for now im taking pills. I have experienced a weird shift in my weight. i don't feel like eating much food at all and i have PCOS but my waist is stomach and face seems slimmer while my face remains just a chubby as always - it's like im going through a similar weight change you mentioned that was unhealthy last year? the hormonal changes have made me get mad as acne for the first time ever may be unrelated but probably a hormonal shift.
Just so that you know, you helped me a lot during these last few months, i've been watching you forever but these last months... i just love how honest your 168 hour's are
The black lives matter movement is amazing but I think people are also not aware of all the hate crimes that happened against asians during the coronavirus.. I just feel like we need to be aware of racism as a whole and not just towards one race. I'm really happy though that people are being aware of these things because of this movement
Love this! Such interesting thoughts on all this. Have been really analysing my relationship to social media lately. It's an ongoing journey! And my relationship with wellness has been on a rollercoaster after peaking mid lockdown :') we'll get there!
I honestly just listening to what you have to say haha I don’t know if that’s weird but I always love hearing your insights into pop culture and current events 💕 you always make your points so clear and understandable!
With social media it’s become somewhat frustrating for me to see content lacking substance being pushed to the front.
Of course light hearted pieces still have their own merit. And I know it isn’t completely creators’ faults because they don’t want to be left behind due to not posting as much, so many times people put out more pieces at a lower quality. Part of being a professional creative unfortunately is maintaining relevancy....
I’m not sure what the solution would be. :/ I would just like to see more higher quality pieces substance-wise being pushed as well
I’ve always felt an odd connection to Lucy. I can relate a lot health wise, and have also loved her content for years. We have similar deficiencies and intolerances, and I also have an under active thyroid (Hashimotos). So, when she talks about new things working for her, I’m always interested to try them out too!
Lucy, I’m with you on so much! I like getting dressed up and made up a bit even when there’s nowhere to go.
Hi @Lucy Moon :) Some interesting thoughts about social media, I can understand that feelings about quick reactions. I would like to say that I believe showing you have donated to appropriate organisations is not always a 'one-up -manship' type move. I posted print screens that I had donated to show all my friends (especially my friends who are people of colour/ethnic minorities/BAME) that actions speak as loud and often louder than words and that I am holding myself accountable for my actions eg) showing that I am not all talk. I posted other things too eg) information. In my post about donations and organisations and education part of my caption asked my followers what they had done, are doing, or actively plan to do in future (this could be donations, following people of different ethnicities and cultures etc, sharing information, signing petitions, protests, difficult conversations). By doing this I felt it was reminding us all to take this seriously and put a continued effort in to improving the situation and doing what we can, but I also ensured them that this does not happen overnight and baby steps are better than no steps. I got a First-Class degree in Social Policy so this is not the first time I have discussed equality and I feel my actions were genuine.
Also love your purpose move RE encouraging voting! and your jewelry/makeup look
So nice to hear about you working on your wellness, I also love natacha ! I hope you’re doing well & I loved the video :)
omg i started watching natasha ocean a couple of months ago, so glaf you are, shes so inspirational and real
loved this! completely with you on the whole internet discussion. I also really struggled at the beginning of lockdown with eating and it's still a journey..! thanks for making a really thoughtful video x
Loved all of this video, but adored especially when you talked about that higher purpose in your work. Same here, I guess.
Thanks for sharing all of this, Lucy! Really resonated with me, the bit about social media especially is weirdly reassuring :)
I've been following you on Twitter for a while but only just found your channel here! I love these chatty style vids, and agree with a lot of what you said here. I also love Natacha Oceane's channel, intuitive eating is a game changer!
the whole style of this video is so calming🕊 also some really interesting points to mull over, loved the vid x
thank you so much for being so open about your health struggles! I have the same exact health issues aka an underachieve thyroid, a Vitamin B12 and Vitamin D deficiency - I don't know if you're already in treatment for that, but I would HIGHLY recommend it! For me, those health issues strongly affected my mental health and my energy (aka I was exhausted all the time) but supplements and stuff has really improved my physical and mental health! so yea - bottom line is that I would really recommend starting some sort of treatment and especially being consistent with it. but obvi every body and mind is different - hope that you find something that works for you 💞
I love these more thoughtful videos, Lucy! Really interesting to hear deeper opinions
Such interesting thoughts!! I agree, I felt quite overwhelmed as to how to 'speak' out and wasn't sure how to do so. Some people I follow were like you HAVE to speak, but sometimes doing what you do behind the scenes is as good as doing that! Sharing resources, having conversations etc is worthwhile on social media but it shouldn't be a competition, I agree with #blackouttuesday but it felt like people who hadn't even considered the movement previously jumped on the bandwagon?? Hope you're doing okay xxxx
I have had so many chats with friends about social media presence during this time and ultimately I think that everyone has their own medium to support blm. I use/post on my socials a lot, so to stay silent in the Midst of a revolution would be louder than my friend who posts one photo a year on their holiday yanno. I have to have my own conversations with my circle and not expect them to be using the same medium to support black lives. One conversation a day keeps systemic oracism at bay. Even if that conversation is just with yourself or an email to your mp.
Loved the video. You coming across more of yourself I know I don't know you so I don't know "yourself" but u seem so confident and glowy :) coffee and chats are the best 😁
Thank you for all this quarantine content. PS: you've inspired me to buy the Canon M50 because I've loved the look of your videos (can't wait to shoot some content 🤗) !
You are so lovely and you make me feel less alone. The pit in my stomach about everything going on has slightly decreased
I swapped my chair for an exercise ball would recommend (and it’s pretty fun😂)
lovely video and loads of great thoughts!! i agree heavily on the social media commentary...very interesting seeing both the direct and indirect coversations evolve
Just want to say this was such an interesting video I really appreciate your honesty and you are great !!!
It's weird that you have started to realise that you need something to "aspire to" or have a purpose to work towards. It's something that I've realised. I don't know if it's lockdown, losing my job or something else, but I've slowly felt more and more that just working is fine but not fulfilling. I'm yet to discover what will be my calling for lack of a better word, but listening to you talk about working for a non-profit, it's certainly something I'm going to look into.
Totally with you on the outward appearance effecting my inner self. Except for me I feel best and most productive in sporty clothes and a ballcap. Thats my get shit done and FEEL GOOD outfit 🥰 love your videos Lucy
Such a good vid, thank you :) I’d like to recommend Abi Sharp and STephanie Buttermore for their intuitive eating content :) but yay for movement and eating intuitively!
This felt like a catchup with a friend i love it and your content lately has been great!! 💕💕
Thank you! I’m glad it’s not just me feeling like this. Especially older generations on social media are doing things in a bit of a tone deaf way but have good intentions and I think there is a space for those conversations but in a compassionate way not in a shaming way (perfect ally work). I don’t want people to think I’m not anti-racist for not making a statement. I don’t want to make a performative statement without having done the work of reading the books or doing the introspective reflection. I don’t want to be taking up space talking about my experiences of white privilege and facing my internalised racism but I also want to make other white people aware of their privilege and how to sit with discomfort and face their racism. I don’t know how to deal with these dilemmas on how to be a good ally. I’m just not sure that twitter is able to have these nuanced discussions with its short-form format.
I love your videos so much. Ready to get myself some coffee and waffles and sit down and watch this! X
I don't think some people on internet platforms realise the extent to which they can exert a lot of effort preaching to the choir while totally removed from mainstream discourse. We live in a democracy, if you want to affect change you need broad appeal. In a majoritarian political system like ours, you need to work towards consensus and compromise. You achieve neither by subjecting people to purity tests and narrow-minded dogmatism. It must be accepted that people can agree on the objective but disagree on the means.
Oh and I make sure to read both left and right wing media. I can't think of a practical reason why you shouldn't.
Such a good comment! People need to stop polarising politics, left and right wing both have valid points
THIS!
For some of us right wing media is a barrage of dehumanizing and racist commentary that rings true to discrimination we have faced in real life. I don't need to read/watch Fox racists, I interact with racists in real life enough.
The posting donation screenshots felt so weird... a bit like it's the Virgin Media run 5 donate five for competitive allyship. This was such a great video! Thank you for sharing your thoughts, and the fab info in the description box
Was interesting to hear more about your thyroid issues atm, have your doctors spoken to you about Hashimoto’s Thyroiditis? It is an auto-immune hypothyroidism disorder that is linked with things like coeliac and gluten intolerances (I have both coeliac and hashimoto’s)
Hey Lucy !!
Loved your video and your views, especially on feeling like you don’t have a voice in the BLM “movement” if you don’t agree 100% with “public opinion”, thank you for putting it into words.
Also really glad you’ve found out about Natasha Ocean, she’s the best 😉 loved that insta post you made about weight gain and couldn’t agree more
Xx
Lucy your make up looks lovely in this vid!! But also I'm really glad you mentioned wellness and balance. I've thrown all my self-care/health out the window during lockdown, almost feels like there's no point?
You word things so well!!
this was such a nice video to watch it felt like just having a meaningful conversation with a friend i love thoughtful things like this ❤
That's exactly how I've felt for a very long time, not only in social media but in my group of friends and tb, I dunno what to do about it
I love these videos. I always do my makeup whilst listening :)
Love this so much! I love the way you talk about things x
I relate on sooooo many levels.
Great video. I'd love to see other creators talk about this!
I have really enjoyed putting together outfits just for me, not worrying about other people's perceptions. That being said, your video call beauty video was a game changer. It made me realise the small things I could do to look better on zoom XD
I completely agree. The attention economy is very overwhelming right now.
Tbh last week I found social media a bit too much like I agree with the message of the black lives movement but it was a lot last week like all down my feeds people saying the exact same thing and like personally I have mixed feelings about the protests due to the virus and did not like how people were acting like if you disagreed with the protested you are part of the problem like some people are against them due to the virus, like its not a black and white thing and did not like how people were acting like it was.
You look stunning! Love your chatty videos x
What do you do to help your Vit D and B12 deficiencies? I have these too and get medication and injections for them but I still feel very fatigued all the time. These videos are very nice to watch since I recognise a lot of your struggle during this quarantine.
Hey Lucy! I have hypothyroid as well. I feel that B-12 deficiency lol. Have you had your hoshimoto antibodies tested? My mom has been in the similar boat as you with weight and exercise and hoshimotos has really affected her during lockdown.
I appreciate this video. Nathan zed also made a video about the recent commodification of black lives matter
Edit: so glad you called out his vid in your video
Don't let the Americans change how you (correctly) spell words. RealiZation*
Another great and succinct video as always! Hope you're doing well!
She's British so she uses British spelling lol
Really liked this video lucy!