I'm pretty sure she wasn't unhappy being with him. Just not as happy as she could of been if she was with a woman. She really loved Luke, just not in that way.
The guy I dated before I came out was the cutest at my school haha and the same goes with my friend who is a lesbian. We seem to have ironically great taste in men...
BeYourself what? No way it's a choice. People are gay in countries where being gay gets you killed. Some people change when they come out, because they stop being afraid that people will suspect they're gay, or just because they become older since most people generally change through their lifetime.
Iridescent • i agree, it felt so warm watching everyone engage in the platform. I still love the OG youtubers most. Ps: raise da roof was my dance move in 2012 :D
Does anyone else always watch relationship type videos or videos saying someone is straight after their coming out video? I did the same thing with Connor, Joey, Troye, etc. It's just something about seeing their emotions in the video I guess..
I dont typically watch the main herd of youtubers, I hate watch a few lol but I see what you are saying it also is odd because people think its a "bad" or ignorant thing to be able to tell when someone is gay or trans, but we as humans more so the later gens can pick up on those things, it is not a big deal, but yet you have ppl loke Shane who fought hard against the allegations, and had his girlfriend support them but he would joke about being gay, gush over guys, and their body language was just not there yet they fought tooth and nail. Id understand if your family is supper religious or in the public eye or conservative but if your family is ok with you making jokes about rape, race, anal sex, and all the other things Shane talks about I am pretty sure they'd be ok with his sexual prefrence cause ho estly I would be more ashamed of my self for embarrassing my family by the vulgar jokes and TMI of sexual prefrence, basically what it all comes down to is marketing and public relations for these youtuber some feel that if they are hetro are in a hetro ship theyll gain more loyal viewers, they fear lossing money/views over lossing fans even if it is say 10 due to their sexual prefrence, hence shane coming out as BI it gives him the ability to engage the spectrum of all fans, and feed that fantasy of "I could be with this person one day". That probably makes more sense in my head, but if people are looking for genuine relationships they should look outside of youtube as the majority of them are glorified business partnerships./longrantreplysorry
So weird that she is gay! I would have never ever guessed that was the reason she broke up with him. Its sad that she had to pretend she was in love with him just to fit into society or be seen as normal. Very sad.
Sad that he wasn't actually being loved, because she couldn't love him. And sad that she felt required by society to have to date guys and suppress her feelings.
No, no, no. She didn't have to INVOLVE HIM! Come on people! If it was the other way around ya'll wouldn't be defending HER who is clearly NOT the victim!
everyone is feeling bad for ingrid but luke is the one i feel sorry for. he loved her and she faked it. imagine how awkward it mustve been for him to be in a relationship for a really long time and realizing that none of it was true.
I dated guys before I came out because I was in denial in a way. I had already told my friend and I just said I was wrong and I just had friend crushes on girls. I also thought I might like those guys. But I only liked them as friends
She looks like she had to make up the answers to these questions and she really does look unhappy and afraid, but I'm glad she came out and now she can be comfortable with girls and not hiding herself with guys, to be honest I didn't think she would be lesbian or gay, and when I heard about it I'm just like wow, I'm so happy for her even tho I don't watch her videos but I still support her :)
I just wish she hadn't wasted this guy's time. You can totally tell he was more into her than she was into him. I don't pity him because he's a good guy but I honestly think that all people deserve to be in a healthy relationship.
As a lesbian who used to date a guy (I thought I was bi for a while) at the time I liked him. I ignored some problematic stuff like he didn't have a drivers license, still lived at home, mom still took care of him ect. I hadn't been in a relationship before and I liked the attention I got from him. But I never consciously wished he was a girl. I didn't want to reciprocate physical affection (kissing was fine but anything more I couldn't bring myself to do). I can see she had love for him, but wasn't in love.
painful to watch in hindsight. love him for supporting her thru it all must have been a hugh knock to his ego. sure he understands not him just that hjes a nice guy more than anything...
For all the people saying Luke is such a dork because of the scandal: isn't Luke Ingrid's last boyfriend who she was talking about in the coming out video? The one who supported her through all this and took it so well? Maybe you shouldn't judge people based on what could be just a rumor or exaggerated. I Think it proves that he really isn't that heartless after all..
I just don't get how you can get a relationship with someone you're not actually in love with. I don't say this to be mean or anything I just don't get it yet so many people are in relationships with people they aren't actually in love with.
No no I didn't say that, I'm sure she loved him! But she wasn't in love with him. But in this case I can kinda understand, she talked about it in her coming out video too. It mainly irritates me with other people, when they get into relationships eventhough they're not even in love
Seriously guys not being offensive or an ass but they do not look like a couple that would last; you know when a couple has a chance when you look at them and see how freaking sweet and just lovey dovey they are but these two aren't. Actually they look like friends here, I can't get the intimate romantic vibe from them. So maybe they are better off as friends
i wonder how he felt not she cos she cheated on him why would she even have boyfriends first if she knew shes gay? for me those peopel who had opposite sex partners first in lifetime are not a real gay cos really ? if u really are gay your first boyfriend would be a girlfriend !
TO ALL THE CONCERED PEOPLE ABOUT THEIR BREAKUP!! First off, they broke up June 3rd! And why? LUKE DIDNT CHEAT ON HER, people photoshopped pictures of Luke with another girl. Why would he cheat anyway?? You could see in his eyes every time he looked at her, THAT HE LOVED HER!! He said in a blog after they broke up that they thought it would be better if they were just friends. Ingrid(not trying to be rude) was too blind to believe Luke when he told her he never cheated, and believed what the photos said and what they showed. She let people on the web trick her into believing that he cheat when he didn't. But just let it go, I mean seriously. Luke is in an amazing place. He is creating professional-type music videos now, and is coming far into the music world. Ingrid has a new boyfriend she is happy about, but doesn't ever show pics or anything of him on Instagram, Twitter, or TH-cam. But that's ok. A lot of people say she isn't as in love with Her current boyfriend as she was with Luke, which I kinda believe. But Luke has moved on and he has so many doors opening for him. You should be proud for him and supporting him, NOT tearing him down and making him sad and angry and frustrated with all the comments about him cheating on her. Ok? Now let's SUPPORT LUKE!!!!!
Just a grandma from down south passing by when y'all's "cuteness" grabbed me. You are two are made for each other. Hope you stay together. You're a great example for the younger generation. Hope you don't mind me stopping by now & then. Many blessings...
I hope they are still friends, and he was understanding when he saw her coming out video. They made good friends, but you can see thats all it was for her
Sorry but I had to say this coz I thought it was funny, but when you said that you like to describe your relationship like a babies bottom I just thought 'full of s***.' Sorry but I just LOL'ed at myself for it
I can’t find it now but remember that one video where luke asks Ingrid out in his bedroom and her face is like “wtf no” and her polite little voice says “no thank you “ 😂 I thought that was staged back then ..but... maybe she was trying to be nice ?!
Accio love reminds me of Luke...she smiles when he's not looking,she daydreams when she's not there,it won't be long till they discover Luke and Ingrid love each other .
Not trying to be mean, because I'm so proud of Ingrid and I love her so much, but I feel bad for Luke. He loved her, and even if she wanted, she couldn't. Just hurts to know that you gave your everything to a person when all the while, they couldn't and also that you just can't love the person who's so much into you, because of who you are. :((
I remember being SO obsessed with this couple... Oh how times have changed.
Ale Bernal how long have they been together?
This is back when Ingrid was still pretty and had some style.
Fernanda pessoa they broke up years ago, I remember it. It was so fricken dramatic and the tea they spilt was honestly so crazy.
@@braedendixon1557 what was the tea ??
@@donedone874 she's gay
"If you could change one thing about luke what would it be?"
Ingrid: his gender
nko354 Ha!!!! I thought the same thing.
lmfao I was just about to comment that but then I seen your comment 😂😂
I whispered that to myself as I watched this hahaha
I was thinking the same thing. Like what do you want to Change........... His Genitals
nko354 I was thinking the same thing 😂😂😂
I'm pretty sure she wasn't unhappy being with him. Just not as happy as she could of been if she was with a woman. She really loved Luke, just not in that way.
Jennie Nguyen I agree
"If you could change one thing about Luke what would it be?"
His gender
ahahahahaha that's what I was thinking XD
WAIT IS HE GAY ?
Nope she's gay
mcshmooties lowkey i think luke is and i feel like he has feelings for joey tbh lol
bahahah you ass 😂😂
when ur gay and u still get all the cute guys
The guy I dated before I came out was the cutest at my school haha and the same goes with my friend who is a lesbian. We seem to have ironically great taste in men...
Storm Rose the men have the great taste in lesbians:D
Storm Rose no I bet you're both pretty
ikr :'( i can't even get one cute boy and i'm no even gay. what can i say, i have an ugly face.
cocobana29 hhhh
Well this is awkward
I was thinking the same thing
Well I watched this video a year ago and I was thinking that there was no chemistry between them; and the atmosphere was kind of awkward.. Who knew!!!
athena ky I always thought it was because he was gay.
Boy was I shocked.
^ same!
When he asked about one thing she could change about him, she definitely wasn't thinking stinky armpits
shes a totally different person wow
She looks and acts like a totally different person
you're hot
Lucy Kay dude she really does omg
She chose to be gay...proof that it's a choice and lots of people go through "transitions"
BeYourself what? No way it's a choice. People are gay in countries where being gay gets you killed.
Some people change when they come out, because they stop being afraid that people will suspect they're gay, or just because they become older since most people generally change through their lifetime.
"I guess he was cute"
This was my favorite time on TH-cam (2012)
Ana Esthetic yea me too youtube is so boring these days it's sad
Iridescent • i agree, it felt so warm watching everyone engage in the platform. I still love the OG youtubers most.
Ps: raise da roof was my dance move in 2012 :D
I feel like she feels really uncomfortable
Because she's gay
me here straight after her coming out video. wow love you ingrid!
Same haha
Me to.
Shay7941 sameeeeee
Hahahaha same
Lol same
THIS JUST CAME UP ON MY SUGGESTED HAHAHA major throwback
same
aw I never thought ingrid would be gay, but I'm so so so so proud of her coming out. so much respect for her
I'm not sure she was until Hannah Hart got her claws into her.
@@DanFrederiksen what year was that 2014?
@@DanFrederiksen That’s not how it works. If your gay then your gay and your always like that. And yea I know this is old.
@1 Yea. U can’t make someone something they aren’t. U just r what u r. Simple.
And them never kissing on camera finally makes sense
Does anyone else always watch relationship type videos or videos saying someone is straight after their coming out video? I did the same thing with Connor, Joey, Troye, etc. It's just something about seeing their emotions in the video I guess..
Joey never had a girlfriend tho
shaynamitchell07 nor troye xD
I dont typically watch the main herd of youtubers, I hate watch a few lol but I see what you are saying it also is odd because people think its a "bad" or ignorant thing to be able to tell when someone is gay or trans, but we as humans more so the later gens can pick up on those things, it is not a big deal, but yet you have ppl loke Shane who fought hard against the allegations, and had his girlfriend support them but he would joke about being gay, gush over guys, and their body language was just not there yet they fought tooth and nail. Id understand if your family is supper religious or in the public eye or conservative but if your family is ok with you making jokes about rape, race, anal sex, and all the other things Shane talks about I am pretty sure they'd be ok with his sexual prefrence cause ho estly I would be more ashamed of my self for embarrassing my family by the vulgar jokes and TMI of sexual prefrence, basically what it all comes down to is marketing and public relations for these youtuber some feel that if they are hetro are in a hetro ship theyll gain more loyal viewers, they fear lossing money/views over lossing fans even if it is say 10 due to their sexual prefrence, hence shane coming out as BI it gives him the ability to engage the spectrum of all fans, and feed that fantasy of "I could be with this person one day". That probably makes more sense in my head, but if people are looking for genuine relationships they should look outside of youtube as the majority of them are glorified business partnerships./longrantreplysorry
- "I guess I thought he was cute"
- "I guess so, she said :("
It's not you, Luke! You are cute, just not a woman. ❤️
"The cutest *boy*"
that was 2012? holy shit.. time flies!
This makes me super uncomfortable.
seeing this after her coming out vid. Anyone else?
Mee
NOW I KNOW WHAT SHES THINKING !!!!
So weird that she is gay! I would have never ever guessed that was the reason she broke up with him. Its sad that she had to pretend she was in love with him just to fit into society or be seen as normal. Very sad.
She had tons of boyfriends all those years before she came out, not just this one, good for her
I know. She mentioned in her coming out video.
prettycici x No,she has another one after this dude
Monica S @who?
Usha Tasnim he cheated on her, that's why they broke up
Sad that he wasn't actually being loved, because she couldn't love him.
And sad that she felt required by society to have to date guys and suppress her feelings.
***** he was being loved, just she wasnt in love theres a big difference
Who cares
god
i feel so sad for her
she had to lie ... and what we see here isn't really her
it's so so so sad :(
***** yep 😂😂😂😂
She didn't have to lie. I feel more bad for Luke in this situation. She wasted his time.
+Crystal I know right
+Crystal um??? She obviously felt like she had to keep that part of her a secret and lie about being straight which is sad.
No, no, no. She didn't have to INVOLVE HIM! Come on people! If it was the other way around ya'll wouldn't be defending HER who is clearly NOT the victim!
everyone is feeling bad for ingrid but luke is the one i feel sorry for. he loved her and she faked it. imagine how awkward it mustve been for him to be in a relationship for a really long time and realizing that none of it was true.
Good point
Marami styles that's a little ignorant. I'm sure she did love him, it's not as black and white as that.
This reminds me of Ross from Friends lol
I dated guys before I came out because I was in denial in a way. I had already told my friend and I just said I was wrong and I just had friend crushes on girls.
I also thought I might like those guys. But I only liked them as friends
She probably did love him, just didn’t know it was in a different way. She didn’t know, maybe she though she lived him.
This is so weird to watch after watching g her video. It's weird to think that she was really unhappy here :( but I'm so proud of her!!!
I guess she wasn't super unhappy, she just wasn't truly happy but it's not Luke's fault!
She looks like she had to make up the answers to these questions and she really does look unhappy and afraid, but I'm glad she came out and now she can be comfortable with girls and not hiding herself with guys, to be honest I didn't think she would be lesbian or gay, and when I heard about it I'm just like wow, I'm so happy for her even tho I don't watch her videos but I still support her :)
I wasn't saying it was likes fault at all!!! I think she was as happy as she could be in the situation she was in!
Hali Shotz haha I know lol :)
I just wish she hadn't wasted this guy's time. You can totally tell he was more into her than she was into him. I don't pity him because he's a good guy but I honestly think that all people deserve to be in a healthy relationship.
Looking at this now… they’re actually pretty awkward but I thought they were soooo perfect back in the day 😂
SAME. Also, why am I here watching this video again?! 😂
Is it me or does Ingrid’s current girlfriend look like Luke?
Omg!! Yes!!
omg yes! i thought i was the only one who thought this lol
Yes!!
aw there is just no chemistry between them...now we know why!
This was my first destination after watching her video.
She's trying so hard... and it's so sad.
also even her voice pitch is so high, so girly... now she just speaks in her normal voice, and it's fine...but this one is cringe
+AtTimesCritical ikr
What would be the one thing you would change?
.... *supression level 10000%*
She's literally so awkard here ghn you see her now and she's happy, more weird, and herself and comfortable with Hannah
She looks so unhappy
I tend to think they are evil narcissists
Literally no chemistry here. She secretly wants a lady.
TD TD she announced that she's lesbian
"I guess I thought he was cute...the cutest boyyyy..." 😂
As a lesbian who used to date a guy (I thought I was bi for a while) at the time I liked him. I ignored some problematic stuff like he didn't have a drivers license, still lived at home, mom still took care of him ect. I hadn't been in a relationship before and I liked the attention I got from him. But I never consciously wished he was a girl. I didn't want to reciprocate physical affection (kissing was fine but anything more I couldn't bring myself to do). I can see she had love for him, but wasn't in love.
painful to watch in hindsight. love him for supporting her thru it all must have been a hugh knock to his ego. sure he understands not him just that hjes a nice guy more than anything...
For all the people saying Luke is such a dork because of the scandal: isn't Luke Ingrid's last boyfriend who she was talking about in the coming out video? The one who supported her through all this and took it so well? Maybe you shouldn't judge people based on what could be just a rumor or exaggerated. I Think it proves that he really isn't that heartless after all..
Actually no, she had a boyfriend after Luke who seemed really nice and i personally think she looked a lot happier with him than Luke
No she had a boyfriend after luke
Yeah its chrnov on instagram lol ure so confident in your comment xD
jiowee maybe you should get your info straight before making any claims
shook. luke and ingrid were some of the first people i watched on yt. i remember they played games like limbo with joey. times have changed!!!
I just don't get how you can get a relationship with someone you're not actually in love with. I don't say this to be mean or anything I just don't get it yet so many people are in relationships with people they aren't actually in love with.
You can't say she didn't love him that's not fair to say. I'm sure they're really close friends still.
No no I didn't say that, I'm sure she loved him! But she wasn't in love with him.
But in this case I can kinda understand, she talked about it in her coming out video too. It mainly irritates me with other people, when they get into relationships eventhough they're not even in love
bicooo1 so they're only supposed to be in a relationship if they've in love?
Well I always thought that was sort of the idea of a relationship, yes. But many people seem to disagree?
bicooo1 She did it because of internalized homophobia, not 'just because'.
She made her boyfriend tag with him private.
Seriously guys not being offensive or an ass but they do not look like a couple that would last; you know when a couple has a chance when you look at them and see how freaking sweet and just lovey dovey they are but these two aren't. Actually they look like friends here, I can't get the intimate romantic vibe from them. So maybe they are better off as friends
Anneska Kirideska you is a psychic.. I like you
@Anneska Kirideska you knew! haha
Wow...
who´s watching this 2016?
2019
She's so much happier now x
Plot twist.. Luke is gay too.
aw cute little closeted Ingrid
I wonder how she felt back then haha
MarieC NP probably uncomfortable
i wonder how he felt not she cos she cheated on him
why would she even have boyfriends first if she knew shes gay?
for me those peopel who had opposite sex partners first in lifetime are not a real gay cos really ? if u really are gay your first boyfriend would be a girlfriend !
PB, it is indeed more complicated than people think.
@@szatanowska Compulsory heterosexuality really does suck. And if u don’t know what that is look it up. And yea I know this is old.
TO ALL THE CONCERED PEOPLE ABOUT THEIR BREAKUP!! First off, they broke up June 3rd! And why? LUKE DIDNT CHEAT ON HER, people photoshopped pictures of Luke with another girl. Why would he cheat anyway?? You could see in his eyes every time he looked at her, THAT HE LOVED HER!! He said in a blog after they broke up that they thought it would be better if they were just friends. Ingrid(not trying to be rude) was too blind to believe Luke when he told her he never cheated, and believed what the photos said and what they showed. She let people on the web trick her into believing that he cheat when he didn't. But just let it go, I mean seriously. Luke is in an amazing place. He is creating professional-type music videos now, and is coming far into the music world. Ingrid has a new boyfriend she is happy about, but doesn't ever show pics or anything of him on Instagram, Twitter, or TH-cam. But that's ok. A lot of people say she isn't as in love with Her current boyfriend as she was with Luke, which I kinda believe. But Luke has moved on and he has so many doors opening for him. You should be proud for him and supporting him, NOT tearing him down and making him sad and angry and frustrated with all the comments about him cheating on her. Ok? Now let's SUPPORT LUKE!!!!!
Ewww, it's so awkward. It's so sad that she felt she needed to hide. I'm glad that she's now been out for a year.
Ashlee Dawn it always didnt feel genuine on her side, and I always wondered about that. When she came out it made so much sense, so proud of her:)
"If you could change one thing about Luke.. What would it be?"
I think we all know the answer to this question now...
I would love to see a video of these two again! Obvs in a non romantic way.
I think they cared for each other...
He kind of reminds me of Joshua
yeah!!! I was thinking that too
Joshua who?
*sobs*
*wails*
*screams*
*jumps out a window*
*stabs self*
Who's watching in 2020 🤦🤣
if you could change one thing about luke what would it be ?
ingrid was probobly thinking :"gender..."
The fact that this was almost 12 years ago 😭 I’m putting myself in a nursing home rn
so awkward seeing this in 2016
2019 people :D
@@nourake341 2022 now. All these comments are 3 years apart lol
For some reason this is now the funniest thing ever foekkffk
More like the best friend tag!
well this is awkward
"during this time, I became painfully aware of how in love ingrid and luke were" - joey graceffa, in real life
Just a grandma from down south passing by when y'all's "cuteness" grabbed me. You are two are made for each other. Hope you stay together. You're a great example for the younger generation. Hope you don't mind me stopping by now & then. Many blessings...
What is the one thing you could change about Luke... His gender
Does anyone else think she looks like a young Lea Salonga?
Oh My Gosh!!! YASSSSS!!!
Young Tati Westbrook
I remember watching this when it came out. 4 years later it came up on my recommended.
3:53-4:00 she looks so unhappy & sad. Anyone else notice?
i miss them so so much they were my otp
I hope they are still friends, and he was understanding when he saw her coming out video. They made good friends, but you can see thats all it was for her
Guys, stop talking about the breakup.
Is it just me but did Ingrid's voice change dramatically, I love Ingrid 2015 way more.
LMAOOO the armpit comment and here we are 3 years later she posts her armpit hair on IG
Who else is watching this after her amazing coming out video?🙋🏼🙋🏼🙋🏼
Why is she so giggly and talking in such a high pitched voice sounds like a needy gf she is sooo diff when she's by herself
You guys are so adorable. The way they look at each other & the cute little inside jokes they're having throughout the video.. so cute!!
Sorry but I had to say this coz I thought it was funny, but when you said that you like to describe your relationship like a babies bottom I just thought 'full of s***.' Sorry but I just LOL'ed at myself for it
Why am I watching this right now
Same
I can’t find it now but remember that one video where luke asks Ingrid out in his bedroom and her face is like “wtf no” and her polite little voice says “no thank you “ 😂 I thought that was staged back then ..but... maybe she was trying to be nice ?!
good old time...
im ready for this plot twist
am i the only one that can here after Ingrids video? i think not! proud of you ingrid
Little did he know...
I MISS THEM
That's really sad...but I heard she got a new boyfriend
they didnt even kiss wtf
haha love when shes talking about him being cute she says 'ahh, the cutest BOY'
who is watching this after the coming out video? looking back now you can see the lack of chemistry!
& loyal. So awk.😳
Aww that sucks that they broke up :(
Accio love reminds me of Luke...she smiles when he's not looking,she daydreams when she's not there,it won't be long till they discover Luke and Ingrid love each other .
Ingrid is so fake it's funny
Gabriel Tapia no shes not, what the heck?
She's not fake! What makes her fake? She wanted to fit in
I think he meant about how shes acting fake because shes gay.........
Ella Rose Scott no...just in general - and all the time
One thing you'd change about Luke... He'd be a girl.
It was good while it lasted :)
Will constantly be checking old vids to reminisce the good times ^^
Not trying to be mean, because I'm so proud of Ingrid and I love her so much, but I feel bad for Luke. He loved her, and even if she wanted, she couldn't.
Just hurts to know that you gave your everything to a person when all the while, they couldn't and also that you just can't love the person who's so much into you, because of who you are. :((
I feel like Ingrids vice is very high pitched ._.
Gabi Maza right? that's I what I was thinking.
He reminds me of Sharpes brother from highschool musical... Any one else, just me?
im still thinking my ex is gay.. and he just keeping to hide it with all those hoes and cheating.
kristīne Perro same tbh
kristīne Perro 😂😂😂