Don't feel guilty about waiting to have people visit after you have the babies. I had C- sections with both of my girls because they were breech. With my first, my parents and my in-laws were there immediately and the hospital actually allowed all of then to hold my daughter before I was even out of recovery. Then my in-laws stayed at the hospital all day the first day. I wasn't happy with how everything went, so with my second, I decided to not have visitors until I decided I was ready. That was the BEST decision I've ever made. It's hard recovering from a c-section. It was so nice for my husband and I to just enjoy our new baby girl by ourselves for as long as we wanted. Congratulations, I'm so happy for you and I can't wait to see the babies! Praying for healthy babies and an easy recovery for you.
To be honest, I think you wanting to see everyone meet the babies is amazing! You look wonderful, and I'm praying for you, your husband and sweet babies! 💕
i’m 36+1 with my spontaneous didi twin girls today, and i’m so nervous about birth.. it’s my first pregnancy and birth, so i’m praying it all goes well. thank you for your video. :)
I don’t think you should feel guilty at all about having people wait to visit. It is hard taking care of two babies and having a c-section. For me I felt the same way I did not even really want my parents present during the birthing process. But I had such a brutal labor I don’t remember most of it. And honestly your so focused on the labor looking back on it it did not matter that my parents were there when initially I just wanted it to be me and my husband. I was also grateful for all the help I got from my family , as for me my twins were my first babies and I was a bit surprised by how scared I was to hold them, be alone with them. I felt like I had no clue! Looking back on it now I do think I was a bit ridiculous , if I ever have a second pregnancy I would not over think things so much. I wish you the best in your delivery and with your twins! My girls are just over 3 now and they are the best thing I have ever done in my life. True blessings 😇
Awww, I bet they are a blessing! Thank you for your input, I had our twins on Monday and I was afraid to hold them too. Not now but for a minute I was. I agree about not overthinking everything, now it seems umimportant especially compared to other things like getting them fed.
I birthed naturally at home. I only let immediate family visit for the first week but no one could hold my daughter except me for the first week, as well. I wanted to be alone and it was amazing.
Ps. I LOVE Brighton (not sure your spelling). But you saying he'd be like the bright after a storm, that's how I spelled it. Plus, it goes with Edith's middle name!
I had an emergency c-section at 3am in the morning. We didn't have visitors until the late morning. My parents also didn't know about the section because we didn't want to worry them!
@@crossingmasondixon Our family knew that I was in labour but we requested they not come to the hospital! My labour was 24+ hours and my little guys heart rate was dropping so we didn't have a choice! The c-section itself was alright and to be honest the recovery wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. I just made sure not to lift anything heavier than baby (8.8lbs)! And I didnt drive for 6 weeks after which was hard.
Emily Taylor congrats on their birth! I’d love it if you had the time to do a Q&A. My questions: how hard was it to find clothes that fit by the end? Did you have any embarrassing or tmj symptoms (like lots of gas/farting) during your pregnancy?
Wow, congrats on getting this far along.. im just 28weeks along and can't wait to get to 36weeks. I've 2 csections and both of them, family members are allowed to see the babies after a week. And we're planning to do same with our twins. Either way, both families won't even come untill after a week because they kept saying we need time to rest and heal after c section.
Don't feel guilty about waiting to have people visit after you have the babies. I had C- sections with both of my girls because they were breech. With my first, my parents and my in-laws were there immediately and the hospital actually allowed all of then to hold my daughter before I was even out of recovery. Then my in-laws stayed at the hospital all day the first day. I wasn't happy with how everything went, so with my second, I decided to not have visitors until I decided I was ready. That was the BEST decision I've ever made. It's hard recovering from a c-section. It was so nice for my husband and I to just enjoy our new baby girl by ourselves for as long as we wanted. Congratulations, I'm so happy for you and I can't wait to see the babies! Praying for healthy babies and an easy recovery for you.
Oh my goodness! I would have been so mad! Thank you. Recovery is no joke!
To be honest, I think you wanting to see everyone meet the babies is amazing! You look wonderful, and I'm praying for you, your husband and sweet babies! 💕
i’m 36+1 with my spontaneous didi twin girls today, and i’m so nervous about birth.. it’s my first pregnancy and birth, so i’m praying it all goes well. thank you for your video. :)
I don’t think you should feel guilty at all about having people wait to visit. It is hard taking care of two babies and having a c-section. For me I felt the same way I did not even really want my parents present during the birthing process. But I had such a brutal labor I don’t remember most of it. And honestly your so focused on the labor looking back on it it did not matter that my parents were there when initially I just wanted it to be me and my husband. I was also grateful for all the help I got from
my family , as for me my twins were my first babies and I was a bit surprised by how scared I was to hold them, be alone with them. I felt like I had no clue! Looking back on it now I do think I was a bit ridiculous , if I ever have a second pregnancy I would not over think things so much. I wish you the best in your delivery and with your twins! My girls are just over 3 now and they are the best thing I have ever done in my life. True blessings 😇
Awww, I bet they are a blessing! Thank you for your input, I had our twins on Monday and I was afraid to hold them too. Not now but for a minute I was. I agree about not overthinking everything, now it seems umimportant especially compared to other things like getting them fed.
I birthed naturally at home. I only let immediate family visit for the first week but no one could hold my daughter except me for the first week, as well. I wanted to be alone and it was amazing.
Wow, that is amazing!
Ps. I LOVE Brighton (not sure your spelling). But you saying he'd be like the bright after a storm, that's how I spelled it. Plus, it goes with Edith's middle name!
Thank you! I was so undecided but we named him Ira Brighton 💕
I had an emergency c-section at 3am in the morning. We didn't have visitors until the late morning. My parents also didn't know about the section because we didn't want to worry them!
Scary! I thought about not telling anyone when our c-section date is.
@@crossingmasondixon Our family knew that I was in labour but we requested they not come to the hospital! My labour was 24+ hours and my little guys heart rate was dropping so we didn't have a choice! The c-section itself was alright and to be honest the recovery wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. I just made sure not to lift anything heavier than baby (8.8lbs)! And I didnt drive for 6 weeks after which was hard.
We are waiting for the birth vlog!! We can't wait to see the babies👍
Can't wait to see the babies!!! 💙❤
Wow! You’re almost there. Congratulations!
Would you be able to do a Q&A video before you deliver?
I didn't, babies are here! But we can do one now.:-)
Emily Taylor congrats on their birth! I’d love it if you had the time to do a Q&A. My questions: how hard was it to find clothes that fit by the end? Did you have any embarrassing or tmj symptoms (like lots of gas/farting) during your pregnancy?
Wow, congrats on getting this far along.. im just 28weeks along and can't wait to get to 36weeks. I've 2 csections and both of them, family members are allowed to see the babies after a week. And we're planning to do same with our twins. Either way, both families won't even come untill after a week because they kept saying we need time to rest and heal after c section.
I didn’t have c-sections and waited days to have visitors.
I totally get why!
Congratulations! Will you upload a delivery vlog next time?
Yes, soon!
Hi congrats i wish you the best for you and your babies!! Could you do a barebelly shot?? God bless you and happy new year
No. And please stop asking.