This isn't headline news, but an in-depth video essay. You can't judge a 2000-words explanation by four words. Still, I changed the title & thumbnail to minimise a chance of them being used out of context. If my point isn't clear enough: No, Jin doesn't groom Jungkook, as a best friend or more than that. There's no problem with their age gap today. This video explains why and the fatality of that allegation. Ideally, censorship in a mature discussion isn't right, but we're a part of a fandom where Pdogg says, "You must've been practicing a lot," to Jin can be trended on Twitter as a way to cancel him, so I should've known better and be more considerate in the future. I work in academia, hence I believe nothing is too taboo to be discussed as long as it's done with ample research. However, I'm willing to compromise with how I present it. I keep the video since it helps many people to learn and assure them that it's nothing like that between Jinkook. I also think that it's better for fans to find this video when they search about "grooming" instead of threads that defame them. Furthermore, I didn't do it solely to "defend Jin/JK" because I believe they're capable of defending themselves very well and speaking up when there's a need for it. They're bigger than this whole argument. I did it as fans for the fans so that we can be more cautious in throwing labels/assumptions, especially in the context of shipping real people which is the reason the video exists. It's made upon issues that were raised by my subscribers who encountered these allegations within the shipping community, and so do I while maintaining the channel-unfortunately, I already deleted the comments. Instead of answering the question again and again, I figured making a video would be easier so that I can refer future concerns to this video. Thank you so much to those who appreciate my work & shared how this video has helped them. It means a lot to me 🙂
It appears to me that every aspect of their lives are on camera. They were all also under the care of adults in the management. It also seems to me that Jin undertook a quasi parental responsibility of JK, ensuring he was in school and eating correctly. Why did anyone think Jin was grooming JK. Plus from what I've seen of JK, he doesn't allow anyone to bully or control him.
@@wendygolding3564 i agree. even at a young age, I saw jk as one who can take care of himself and would not allow himself to be bullied. i saw clips where suga also took part in taking care of jk. I saw jin trying his best to be responsible eldest of the group and doing what is expected of an eldest even when he himself is the youngest in his own family and may not have any idea how it is to take care of those younger than him. I just feel bad that if its jinkook, people are quick to judge and dislike
I just don’t understand how can someone throw words like pedo to literally anyone. It’s a really big word. Just to satisfy your shipping and prove they are real y’all go to this extent? Remember BTS relationship with e/o is beyond shipping. Doesn’t matter if one ship has a lot moments than the other nothings gonna change their relationship. Don’t put your shipping agenda into their relationship. Respect each one of them as a human. They aren’t your tools to play with. Day by day shippers are being toxic and toxic. They have forgotten basic human decency in the name of shipping.
Maybe some of them really don't know what it means and at the same time, no one is patient enough to explain about it. Even if it's just one or two people, if someone changes their mind after watching this video then I'm grateful.
very well said. other shippers are just really immature and are just becoming insecure now that genuine Jinkook moments are being revealed. they do have a close bonding but no one really knows what kind of relationship they have so it is just really disrespectful and unfair for people to give such negative comments. and if in case there is more to just being friends, there is nothing wrong with it.
@@abigailreyes1503 too many so-called fans are just for ships that they cant even confirm whats real or not. I mean i've been a jinkooker for more than 2years now but cant really confirm the realness of their relationship as a couple, to think that i have watched tons of jinkook videos. So for them the even label jin badly is totally ignorant and irresponsible.
For God's sake, I didn't know there were people who accuse Jin of such disgusting terms and behavior; like even the way they allow themselves to speak for someone else's life in such ways is terribly wrong. Throughout years, Jin's and Jk's relationship (whatever it is) not only has gotten bigger, but also it's become much more stronger and matured in many ways one could point out. How can one call that grooming when looking at it we only see Jin's unconditional love growing for Jungkook and the other members, and for Heaven's sake for how long are these people going to see Jk as a baby? The man is almost 25 and he's still a baby?! And again the never ending saga of Jin being an old man and a parent (In worst terms a mom) to Jk when there's just literally a five-year-age gap. Aren't those people the ones with the paedophile tendencies? Because well based on their small heads Jin must've been five when he had Jk! Sorry, I got angry while remembering and well now introduced to some new toxic people, but again thank you so much for taking your time to talk about such important issues. Not many do this, so when I see one like you, I don't have any choice but to appreciate you and your beautiful channel
Wow, really I dont know how to react to those accusations hurled to Jin. I'm appalled and anger is rising within me. I'm a senior citizen already and only during the pandemic that I'm drawn to BTS particularly to Jin. Why Jin? As what I've watched past you tube posts, Jin is the least aside being the oldest. He isn't a dancer and singer, making him the underdog of the group. I've been known in my community as a person who has the heart for underdog persons so that make Jin my bias but I like BTS as a whole. He has improved a lot and I would say he really has the talent for singing and dancing but that he was more interested in acting. He is becoming more popular and gaining more fanbase (mostly mature people) that some would try to put him down. We call it crab mentality,
@@franciscacachero8105 Honestly, I've always believed in Jin's talent (I've been their fan since 2014). The unfortunate, though, was that he wasn't given much of the chance to prove himself and also to improve in his work. And just like you mentioned, dear, now that he's actually shining through their recent works, some immature people are trying all in them to bring him down which is not going to work at the end if we true ARMYs here stand by his side and also our other six great men.
@@franciscacachero8105 When I started to become interested in BTS and Jinkook, I could easily understand why Jin likes JK, but wondered, why Jk was so interested in Jin. JK said, that he and Jin are similar in character, both straightforward. I don't now. Jin's "persona" after 2015 is this cheerful, secure guy, sometimes even a bit annoying to me because he can be quite insensitive (New Year video 2019/2020, BE behind the scenes with Jimin). At the same time there are his songs, particularly "abyss", but also "tonight" and "moon". It must be very difficult to keep your 2 sides (of course, there are more) separated. I wish, he could integrate them better, but this is, what a "persona" does to you. It must be very annoying, when people just like you because of your visuals, something you can't do much about. And now he is so good at singing and dancing!!! Actually, I listen to his songs most. I am not so sure about the underdog thing, it probably always was a mixture, because he was the oldest hung too (and the cook!). Really annoying, that these kids write this accusations, but frankly, I am sure, they don't know, what they are saying. I think, they just lash out at anything that stand in their way to fantasize about Jungkook. Or anything, that is old (meaning ourselves). Happens, can't do much about it, only wait, until they get out of it and try to keep calm and give meaningful context like moonbathingrite. Same thing happened in the women's movement. The main problem the youngsters have is the "old woman". I couldn't believe ist at first.
I think people mix it and confuse it with the phrase "Jin raised Jk", the members use it but the fans have twisted it let's remember that Jk had a life before bts that his parents raised him until he was 13 years old, he had his personality and he take he's decisions like joining big hit. And the members are not brothers, they did not grow up from babies together, although Jk was 13 years old when they met he was more mature due to the industry where he was and according to him he said it when he met Jin caused an impact on him. There is no problem in which something else will develop later, it would be very natural.
You're right. Some people take the joke too literally. I feel bad for not mentioning this point in the video... I also want to point out that: Jungkook is Bangtan's baby, not ARMY's baby.
@@moonbathingrite it's okay dear, do not worry.. your video always informative.. maybe you can use it in the next video.. keep it up... I'm on your way
Just makes my blood boil when people talk about Jin and JK like that, I’m 69 and have watched these two for years it’s all love and respect between them, 5 years is nothing, JK is a Man not a child who needs babying , if they Love each other Great, it’s their business, not ours. Jin is respectful and treats them All with respect 💜💜💜💜💜💜
Wow, so just having their happy, playful moments leads to this type of accusations. I am just disgusted 😒. Jin is someone who doesn't use his hyung card on anyone from very beginning. He always steps aside from spotlight just so the members can shine more. He was so caring towards each members even young Jungkook . Who do yall think let a member have dinner with their own family just so the member can get rid of the homesickness .I have no words. Just because your ship doesn't have moments, doesn't make Jin a criminal. How delusional people can be ? Hybe should definitely sue this people. Thanks for making this informative video, people should be more educated about this topics.
Could doesn't mean they would though 🙁 Honestly I don't want to speak about this, but when I think that most likely HYBE would do absolutely nothing, I changed my mind. This issue is too important to be brushed off like it never happened.
@@moonbathingrite yeah, they definitely should sue this morons.But I am not really hopeful about this. It just blows my mind, how someone can say this type things about someone without knowing a fraction of their life. If someone is victim, let them say for themselves. Don't ruin these beautiful moments. Just thier own shipping agenda being not fulfilled leads to this type of accusations. I can't honestly think if anyone of them reveals their relationship in future,what will happen then? I am terrified to think that.
agree. Hybe or BH should do something about this hate comments about Jin or any member for that matter. and I would think that they are partly to blame on why some fans became toxic and delusional. they encouraged fanservice among members and this is the result.
@@abigailreyes1503 yup, they are partly to blame for this. Fan service is a factor to gain popularity in kpop. But when it is too much, fans really can't differentiate between fan service and reality. And when they can't get enough, they get mad and do this type of delusional things.its just very sad to see people spending their whole day just to speculate over something, they don't know about. I hate this 😠.
@@emptysky5026 yes, fanservice is dangerous for the young and immature fans who cannot distinguish between what is real and not, especially if there is so much skinship.
Thank you very much for this very informative video. I hope people will see how wonderful Jin is as a person. It was very clear that Jin never use any advantages he has to jk or any members . It's his genuine personality that made them love him so much . Sadly those ships will never accept anything that will defy what they are believing. They will always turn a blind eye to the truth even if it's serve infront of them .
I think there is another twisted kpop fan service culture about faking this “we’re a family, we’re brothers” atmosphere. Actually, when they were trainees, they had absolutely no idea who would be in the final debut team, so the trainees back time were pure competitors to each other. imagine a bunch of teenager boys, compete with each other everyday, a lot pressure, live together, must be full of chaos and fights(actually so many kpop teams proved there’s no such we love each other as a whole thing). That proves how more valuable Jin treated jk so well back then, because he literally tried his best to take care his competitor so the younger one could insist to the end. Funny thing is, Jk is not the only one who got the treatment like driving him elsewhere, but other members also got this(they said during interviews), I believe even some of the trainees that never made it to debut also got it. Jin is that nice. To me, it is so ironic that the fake we’re a family thing is so popular in fandom, but when it comes to some pure, real, sincere relationships, fans seem freaking out and throwing the worst words they can find to smear it.
Everything is too ironic if you put it like that 🙁 I think in one interview someone also mentioned about how chaos their dorm was back then, so Jin moved to the dorm later could be helpful in some ways. The competitor part gives a whole new meaning to 'Jinkook is close since the beginning' because they managed to surpass that easily. I'd say Jin-Jungkook connection is truly one of a kind not only in the K-pop industry but also in general. Too bad some people fail to appreciate the sincerity between them.
@@moonbathingrite the thought that these so-called fans label jin badly never even backpedaled as to what is the real scenario of being a trainee and debut days back then. They were surrounded by lotsa people everyday. Jk became a trainee at 15. They debuted when he was almost 17. Jin even have a different set of friends back then. By the time jinkook became really close, JK was already 17 years old and Jin 22 Korean age.
i would like to say that jinkookers should also stop saying that jinkook is real since 2013, or seokjin waited for jungkook to turn legal... i dont think its right to ship minor jungkook with anyone or romanticizing his bond with other members while he was a kid. also jin isnt a predator he wouldnt purposely wait for him to be an adult... they became closer but it was natural not something seokjin planned.
How you deliver your point is amazing! The way you explained the words those people threw in comments and at the same time you show how SJ and JK relationship is not like that at all. I start to feel people who threw those comments really need to start reading books more to educate themselves before they come to social media. Well done!
twitter is flooded by comments and fantasies mostly from the younger generation who super idolize the maknae and even the maknae ships. sorry to say that most of these people are immature. they are also getting to be insecure of jinkook so they resort to these unpleasant criticisms on jin. and with Jin being given the spotlight with the recent songs, the toxic solo stans of the maknaes are really getting insecure. of course I do not mean all of maknae stans, only those who are toxic, immature and insecure.
Can we pls appreciate seokjin for being nice to jk? I dont undertstand why they doing this to my seokjin. I felt sad when i watch/read some bad comments to kim seokjin.. to those toxic human being pls leave them alone!!
Another comment, but I just wanted to add That the one video in bangtan bomb where Jin and Jk are choosing their ice cream flavor from the machine sums up, in a simple way, the way they are together: Jin suggests Jk in his own innocent playful manners, and at the end we all can see that Jk has his own choice with Jin and he's not being forced by him in any ways. In fact, the person who brings out the best matured traits of Jk is actually Jin. I believe at times the rest of the members see Jungkook as the youngest a lot and therefore treat him as that as well while with Jin, I always feel like Jungkook gets to be someone as more than that concept; he's who he is when he's with Jin. To me the moment I see Jinkook together, I feel like I see the real Jin and Kook, not that it's not the case with the other members, but these two bring out the most natural relationship I ever want to accomplish for myself in my life, being it a friendship, romance etc.
And in the recent Vanity Fair interview! JK deliberately changed his answer to Jin's because "you know me better than me" and he's probably scared of hurting the fans, lol. It's a small moment but I think it's very representative of their relationship too.
@@moonbathingrite I just saw that Vanity Fair game show video. you mean JK's original answer to the 2nd question was not the guess that Jin gave? wonder what erased. why did he say "you know me better than I do"?
@@moonbathingrite maybe his changing the answer was the reason most of them laughed. RM even bent while laughing. it seems they edited/cut that portion when JK wrote the new answer of "Love Army". they only showed the part where he was erasing the middle part of the board which is the original (short) answer. perhaps it was kmichi : )
@@moonbathingrite Yes, you're right, dear. Overall, their relationship is coming so natural and they don't need those (mostly false) analysis that I feel like other shippers fear what they have, and they try so hard to poison whatever they have through these shallow attempts.
*Those who accuse Jin of “grooming” and “p*dophilia” are simply new BTS fans (I don’t want to call them ARMY cos they don’t deserve to be one) or solo/maknae line stans only.* *_Much worse, probably, they are those who sexualize BTS and addict to 18+ fanfics, so they personify their thirst over Jungkook through Jin, and accuse Jin to be the one who s*xualize when THEY ARE THE ONE WHO HAVE DIRTY MIND AND EXAGGERATE Jin’s actions_* 🙄🙄
I have seen with my own eyes that they have lil 7 on their dn but hate on jin , misgendering him, calling him p*do just to proof that their ship is valid and yes it's done by some makneline shipprs you know the 2 famous ship of this fandom vk**k and j!k00k . most account has more than 1k+ followers some have more than 50k followers. it doesn't matter if are new or old those shippers needs to stop throwing around words like p*do , gr*0ming without knowing actual meaning. Whoever they are shipper, solo whatever it does not matter they should never cross their limit.
@@Purplecandy4 i don’t mind any ships (not only to BTS) if that’s what makes fans happy and also helps with idol groups’ popularity, but throwing names and misjudging other members just to prove their point, or in this case, their ships… it really makes me sick. They are so malicious, clouded by their over-sexualized fantasies, to the point they are becoming toxic and stupid. I feel sorry for them because they are so blinded by their lust towards Jungkook (or maknae line) that they think maknae line is still in their teenage years after 8 years and only the hyung line is getting older 🙄 those toxic fans are using inappropriate words towards Jin just to show that they are “smart” and know words like p*dophilia without fully understanding the word itself. Or simply, they are so jealous because Jin didn’t give up on Jungkook and the maknae line, even though they were immature and hardheaded before. Jin is the best hyung to BTS and those stupid fans are just jealous because nobody trust them as much as BTS trust and rely to Jin. 🥴
not necessarily new BTS fans. these could even be those following them since years ago but idolize only their bias or ship. now that BH is showing a lot of Jinkook moments than before, these toxic solo stans and other shippers are getting insecure. Jin is also having the spotlight in the recent songs, so the more they are insecure. and these toxic people only believe the fanservice moments of their ships. even if you give them genuine jinkook moments, they have a ready distorted storyline that suits their ship. ridiculous!
I have never thought Jin was abusing JK. I am very surprised that anyone does. In groups where there are single sex members it is natural for the members to be affectionate and close. Some will be closer than others because they are just a bit more compatible and fit together. Their behaviors and beliefs are more in sync. All the members should be allowed to develop their own identities and preferences, and permitted the privacy to do so.
I think it's uncommon for ARMY in general who value OT7, but it happens many times from the shippers. I don't think they understand the term either, they just want to use anything to diminish the bond between Jin & JK as they see it as a "threat" for their ships. Since I maintain a Jinkook channel, I received those comments too.
@@moonbathingrite I'm just very glad that the boys lookout for young JK. HE chose Jin among the six. All baby him, well maybe with an exception of RM n Suga(not very obvious). They care for him but they rarely baby him which is also good, he's a well-rounded impromptu family.
P.S. 💜 Watching Jin&JK's genuine bond, making me wish to be in the same kind of relation- full of love, respect, support, care & common joy. For me they are synonym of Love doesn't matter the label. Doesn't matter what is the character of their relation. They are happy together and it's enough. So I send them tons of warm thoughts and words of support, believing as always, that Truth and Love will win in the end.💜
Yes, as a jinkooker myself and many jinkookers out there - we are not labelling their relationship rather we celebrate the bond that these two people share and it radiates whenever they are together.
Thank you for suggesting this topic. The opening is based on real comments that I already deleted from this channel, but I don't know that it's worse out there on Twitter. Feel free to use this video as a template to answer them. PS. Wings and LY: Tear are still my favourite albums because I love ANGST (with a happy ending 😉).
I believe that their relationship started from feelings of affection and care as brothers, Jin as the youngest in his family found a younger brother figure in Jungkook. Likewise, Jungkook, who at that time was far from his family, found an older brother figure in Jin. They have lived together as a group for many years, there is nothing wrong if that sense of care and affection develops and turns into more than just brothers.
THANK YOU for taking the initiative to do this series. You will get many negative comments but you are doing what I consider god’s work by taking on this massive challenge to educate the fans. When I read recently that over 50% of BTS fans are under 18, I understood where perceptions come from and instead of screaming, shouting, yelling and fighting, education is power and if you can educate even 1% of BTS fans, you have accomplished the task you set yourself to tackle. So kudos! Looking forward to the next phase of the series.
That's an interesting fact. Once I saw a polling about 'When did you become an ARMY?' and most answered Dynamite. The fandom is just too big today with too many competing narratives. I wonder how those hate comments and counter arguments will be since I only explain about facts here. Besides, most likely it won't be on TH-cam but Twitter just like what happened on Ep.05 behind 🤷
@moonbathingrite i, for one, became a BTS fan, when I saw Dynamite. and I am in my senior years. I saw different ship videos and I can say that Jinkook has the special relationship. after watching these different videos, I see other ships as fanservice. especially the ways JK acts when he is with Jin is so different with others. and with the fandom being more than 50% from the younger group and who fantasizes more the maknae group and ships, how was that derived? based on surveys, twitter, social media? the youth are the ones active in social media. I know a lot of people who are more than 30, 40, 50 and even 60 yrs old but not have been accounted for in this census.
@@abigailreyes1503 Hi, I am probably even more senior than you. I totally agree with your reasoning and I can prove your point. I only recently registered with TH-cam and I still haven't registered as an Army, because I don't feel confident enough to do so without help. But I will, because it is important to me. I am sure, Jinkook is in a special relationship, but it might be better not to go into the details for that. I just found out, that TH-cam deleted the discussion in one of my favorite channels (vintage maze) for the protection of children (hear, hear). Dynamite is not my favorite song. I heard BTS songs first on the last big demonstration I went to (2018 or 2019).They played N.O., Not today and Fire. I was charmed. I prefer the old songs, although I need translations and often explanations. I like the music, the choreography, but the lyrics most. They are important to young people. I read that most Jinkook supporters are older and therefore more experienced in love (hopefully). We have to be careful how to deal with the younger group and direct our anger more to those who are responsible for misdirections. For example: Whenever I type "Jinkook" in TH-cam, I am offered a "Jikook" selection time and again. Why? Its annoying!
5 years gap is their main accuse to show hatred towards jinkook's relationship ... Actually I believe the reason Jungkook change to matured guys with tattoos and so on is to prove to army and the world that he is very matured and masculine man now ,, not as baby and innocent man that know nothing .. The fact that he wanted to go gym and do tattoo at the beginning year of debut but he cannot do it because the company wanted an 'innocent young man' concept on him ,, and the fact that jin cannot become himself at the beginning of their debut year because the company wanted to keep 'the cool guy' concept to jin is more mature topic to be discussed rather than 5 years gap is a crime in love ... In the future ,, Jungkook is 35 and jin is 40 ,, is it still a crime? Or is it a crime because the youngest and eldest title to both jinkook?? Their love is mature love based on pure love and trust to each other not just for se*ual interaction in front of the camera only ... 😊💜💜
I noticed their company image as well. JK complaining that he is not allowed to work out because of his "young boy" image and Jin in festa 2018 or 19 that he was supposed to be "the cool guy" because he was/is so handsome. And it took him until 2015 (!) to actually get out of this. Very annoying, to say the least. But remembering my student days I do think age is important at that time in life. E.g. we looked up to s.o. who already had their degree. But maybe this was more because they already knew things we did not, or a mixture? After that, age becomes less important as you say. It crossed my mind recently that it might become more important again, when you are really old (the difference between a 75 year old and an eighty year old). Just my thought, not important. I wouldn't dare to categorize their relationship which makes me happy to watch, but tell me, what does everybody mean by "pure" love? I am at a loss.
@@siggispock5102 for me "pure love" is a love that you feel happy just by seeing your partner face ... No need words or action to describe the love .. as you know jinkook is know as the bickering duo or tom and jerry .. but do you notice their smile and laugh when bickering?? Does you often see people bicker with such happy smile?? It is just pure happiness for them and also for jinkookers .. As we know ,, small things matters the most for jk 😊❤️
@@sha3848 Thank you, I can get along with this and like the explanation a lot. I was just worried that "pure" is seen in contrast to "dirty" and dirty equals sexual.
You are a really cool and responsible fan to do this! People casually throw such serious words around (some of them might not understand them because there is no formal education related to this) but you took the time to present the research and make people understand how damaging are the words that they are using simply because they do not like a ship. It must have been uncomfortable at your end to read people say such things about Jin, but as always you managed to do it with research and without attacking anyone else. I hope people who come across carry the same attitude and don't hate on the members because of shipping. Thanks for this! Edit: Thanks a lot for making this public again. I saw some people saying such things again and was really missing this! This would come in handy the next time someone brings up this topic to paint them in a negative light, although I really hope that doesn't happen.
We wish... But I think it's going to keep coming in the future for a simple, inevitable fact that Jin & JK are getting closer day by day. Besides this on Jin's side, I also received some comments about JK. Mostly the arguments revolve around how he doesn't deserve Jin.
@@moonbathingrite Recently, a lot of (epecially newer) Jinkookers have started moving like the two big ships where they base the narrative of their ship mostly on jealousy, skin ship, etc. And since JK is physically affectionate in general, people start to question his feelings when that loses its exclusivity. I didn't know it had gotten to this level though. Maybe that's why most ships that involve JK tend not to have him as their bias because the shippers paint him in an inferior light. It's upsetting though because none of them can support Jin as much as JK does personally and professionally...or other members too for that matter.
I'm making the poll because I'm curious about this too and it shows. I wonder if the narrative is mostly about JK being jealous, would it be possible that JK is their bias? Someone said that most ships, not just Jinkook, "token stan" JK just for his relation to their bias and I couldn't agree more.
wow, this channel really goes deep when it comes to social issues surrounding jinkook and the other members. tbh, it was really shocking to see these comments circulating the internet. i always thought the only problem they have for jin and jk was just the age gap compared to their ships, can't believe people somewhat labeled jin a predator, a p**o. they just hated the fact that it is what it is, so airheads really found a loophole within their relationship, these people are a mess.
Jinkook has sooo many stereotypes around them. Since their moments are always obvious and in no need for a complex analysis, this is the reason I made this channel in the first place.
these are toxic followers of other ships who are getting insecure since they are seeing a lot of genuine jinkook moments. these are also toxic solo stans who are getting insecure since he has been getting the spotlight, more line distribution and a lot of praises lately, especially with the latest songs like Butter, PTD, Film Out and covers of Fix You and I'll Be Missing You.
Love you for this. You should get an bravery award for voicing the sensitive topic n educating people. My heart aches to know that people said those words about Jin. Rooting for JinJanKook❤️
I am not into shipping, I simply like their moments which shows genuine relationship wether they are together or friends. But those toxic shippers that describes Jin as manipulator and predictor are insane and have some serious issues . 5 years gape is nothing at all they are both still in their twenties, I don’t know how is this an issues . Jin is one of the kindest soul I ever met I don’t know how his kind act toward JK was described like that . Shippers becoming crazy day by day forcing their fantasies into their artist forgetting that they are human too . These two seriously so pure and innocent.
Thank you so much for this video. It's really an important topic and those kind of people who accuse Jin with all of these things are the ones with the sick minds. This is not a shipping game. They really desided to attact the genuinest duo just because their ship doesn't give them what they expected. Sick people!
Thank you for making this. Your video was very informative and detailed. I appreciate the immense research you did to reasonably present the reality of how vastly different is a consensual relationship between a predatory one. I hope more people will learn from your video and cease painting Jin as a villain in their own narrative. I look forward to your future videos in this series. I have yet to read the latest chapter on your fanfic but I will do so, I promise. I love the way you write and your stories had captured my heart. Xoxo
you may not probably expect this kind of comprehensive analysis from immature ships who are used to cuts and edits in their videos just to satisfy their imagination. they then force the narrative that jinkook has a brotherly or worse parent-son relationship. they are just really insecure. I know a lot of couples (different or same gender) where age gap is even more than 5 years.
i love you. I think you are a real one. I had to respond to some people from 1 of the 2 popular ships over this subject 2 weeks ago and I did not have your composure. Thank you for making this video.
Thank you for making this video. I do hope shippers or people in general will be more informed after watching this video and not make any allegation or label Jin or anyone so flippantly.
Thank god you decided to do this video. I just hope that the immature and young ARMY fans will find it within their intellectual capacity to sit through this video and learn a thing or two. I really, really, REALLY wish that those who made those comments will watch it and open their minds. Like I said earlier in a comment at your community post, I also have been trying to correct people on IG whenever they say that Jin "groomed" JK to be his bestfriend or worse, boyfriend, because it sounds predatory. Some will acknowledge that correction, the more combative ones will challenge my comment, but many others will just ignore. So now when I encounter these comments again, I will refer this video in the hope that they will get schooled. We really need INTELLIGENT and REFLECTIVE videos that you put out here in this platform so thank you very much for taking the time to make them. I can imagine that between work, your personal life, and the fiction that you churn out in Ao3, you must be pretty busy, and yet you took time to do this. So thank you very, very much. Gomawo!
I think some people takes Jin's joke of "raising Jungkook" too literally. Even "raise/groom him to be his best friend" has a rather negative connotation since it implies that Jungkook has no sense of agency.
@@moonbathingrite I agree. While it IS true that Jin did in a sense, raise JK -- waking him up in the morning, driving him to school, paying for his meals, bringing him home with him during the weekends to their house so that his Mom could feed both of them -- this does not mean that JK was/is bereft of his right and freedom to choose to go with Jin or not, hang out with Jin or not, In short, you are correct, it does not mean that Jungkook has no sense of agency and to think that is to utterly disrespect him. ARMY should STOP infantilising JK because he is an 'effin 23 year old MAN. Man, not child.
You said it...immature fans (they are not army if they give hate to any member). no matter how much education or videos you show them, it will be useless. these are toxic and insecure people who have been brainwashed by their ship's videos full of cuts and edits. for the mature fans of non-jinkook ship, they will not be giving such hate. i also know that some of them have even jumped ship to jinkook after watching the more comprehensive and genuine jinkook videos.
@@abigailreyes1503 Carefull, carefull, lets not fall into the trap "mature and immature fans". You probably know much more about the toxic comments than me and I am sure, it is disgusting. And I agree, they are brainwashed by their ships videos full of cuts and edits. But who makes these videos and how aware are they of what they are doing? I don't know, do you? And don't forget, other ships are supposed to protect Jinkook. I saw a Jikook video recently and it was well made and convincing, but wrong off course. I even suspect J-Hope and Jimin consciously reenacting the Osaka scene, why: to protect Jinkook? Or because this is, what the company is demanding? Who in the company? The marketing team? But from what I have seen and what I know about young fans, they are serious people and responsible. I am biased of course...
I'm proud of you, and I appreciate you for taking the time to write such an educational and well-spoken message. I really wanted to say something to everyone who has feminized and grooming Jin because of a video that someone mentioned, and they follow it is too frustrating and unsophisticated. Well, who am I to blame? The majority of the army in this fandom is naïve and immature. Whatever Jinkook has it too pure and true. In my opinion, if we place Jinkook under one label, it will make them less, because I believe they are so much more than that. For me, it's enough that they're happy with each other’s presence and sharing moments are too beautiful already. Like Jungkook said, small things matter the most.
When I first knew about BTS, This was ultimate ship. Until today, it still is. There’s something special and pure about their bond. People who keeps using age gap as an excuse, because they can’t accept jinkook’s bond superiority. Thank you for the in depth research about the terms they’ve been throwing to Jin. Hopefully, those ignorants will get some education from this research.
I’m sorry for jin bc of those kinds of people. I think they’re just closed minded, deniably bitteriffic and toxic (not a fan indeed) earthlings. They are probably threathen bc they all noticed that “something” bw jinkook. I appreciate so much this kind of brave and discussed properly perplexing matter, it’s so unfair to jin being hurt and prejudiced like that.
If Jinkook is problematic because he met Jin when he was 13, then every ship with Jungkook and other BTS members is problematic. They ALL met him when he was underage. And I know it's mostly Taekook and Jikook fans spreading this BS about Jinkook but I wonder what kind of people fetishize teen K-pop stars and desperately try to convince everyone they are in a relationship with each other. What I like about Jinkook shippers is that they are not deluded. All the Jinkook content I have watched always frames how brotherly Jin and JK's relationship was in the start. Even when he turned 18, because Jin never really seemed attracted to JK until the last couple of years. Almost all of us supporting this ship don't care if Jinkook is real or if those two end up dating other people. We just appreciate the positive, affectionate, at times seemingly romantic (could be or not be so) relationship. That's because both Jin and Jungkook are adults and we are all just observers who don't know them in person. Stop infantilizing that poor man in his freaking 20s. The people who still view him as a child AND thirst over him are the real ped*s 🤬
Wow, thank you so much for bringing us this video. It is so so well explained and I really hope people will stop and think twice before throwing such horrible words out there that have nothing to do with reality. I will consider myself lucky in life if I will ever meet someone with whom I can have the bond that JK and Jin share!!! Thank you for your efforts and please don't mind the negative comments.
Thank you for the deep analysis and beautiful delivery, I know you worked hard for that! Been watching a lot of jinkook shippers compilation videos, I actually could see why people falsely accused Jin gro*m JK (aside from just them being jealous). Shipper accounts tend to fixated on exaggerating skinship as sexual tension, they slow mo-ed everything, even just an eye contact (members cant look in the eyes to each other w/o being labeled as "moment"??). Videos like Jin 'drowning' young JK still circulates around the internet, while I believe it would never be published by the member in the first place if it was what we assumed. Aside from the topic, the way I see it, JK is always a touchy-type to everyone, so did the other members. So I will just pass anything like neck massaging, playing with others' hair/head. But still I cant deny how Jin and JK always gravitate toward each other, demolishing my rationalization above (say, they are just brothers or in mom-son relationship). There are "real moments/clues" that cant be debunked by mere- "aaah, nope, they cant be a real couple." (and you already covered some of it on your previous videos exquisitely). The back hug out of nowhere and the awkward silent atmosphere following it in ITS? the songs' lyrics that seems like message to e/o and released in the same date only a year apart (and to know that both of them only make music based on their own experiences)? the ye*bo slip of the tounge several times? You cant just make up those things only to please the audiences, no😅 Anyway, great content as always! I actually felt unsettled at the beginning of this video, but fortunately your eloquent & thorough explanation really hit the point👏🏻
Jimin published the video of Jin 'drowning' JK by kissing him on the cheek. Jinminkook were at a Waterpark together. There was a lot of questionable content published before BTS were popular, which lead to an article speculating about Jinkook's sexual orientation. With that article plus the rise in BTS' popularity, BH took control of the content...and Jinkook. 🙂💜
@@lrhlrh7393 true. and I even saw in another video that non-jinkook ship was claiming the underwater incident was not Jinkook but their ship. so ridiculous. so the video author presented a lot of proofs that it was Jin. I suppose most of the Jinkookers here have watched that other channel video who proved it was Jin. and in the comment section of that video, an intruder (other ship fanatic) even said that how could that be Jin when Jin was with JM and RM in the stingray place where Jin was so scared while JK was snorkling with JH, V and Suga. I had to contradict the commenter to say that the stingray and snorkling activities were in Saipan trip and was different from the Jinmimkook waterpark activity. it only proved that this other shippers do not do their homework. making such comment since she could not accept the underwater incident.
@@abigailreyes1503 When other shippers are confronted with indisputable proof like yours, the next tactic is to change the narrative. Instead of Taekook kissing each other, it's now "Jin is trying to drown JK". I've even seen "Jin has JK in a headlock and Jk is desperate to escape ". Notice all the narratives involve Jinkook fighting or trying to hurt each other. The mental gymnastics to avoid the truth is astounding.
I can't believe this even has to be explained about jin, it was obviously jungkook solo stans or some crazy jikook or taekook shippers, makes me sick 😔
I was unaware that these comments were being said about Jin and, to be honest, it saddens me greatly. I have been conscious of a lot of negativity by solo stans of late which I do not understand. Why he is not allowed even one moment in glory when theirs have had so many baffles me. Are they so selfish, because the members they say they love so much would be so disappointed in them? I am quite sure they would not approve of their behaviour towards a person that is special to them. Jin is such a caring person to not only the maknae line who let's face it, all adore him and all want his love and attention but also the hyungs as well. Jungkook is especially close to him because he has always been there for him since he was thirteen providing him with love and attention, taking him home to his family and providing him with a family here in Seoul and a big brother in Seoul. The friendship and love they have is precious and not something to be made into what it's not to satisfy some jealous fantasy of solo stan fans. RM relies on him a lot and has often said he finds him inspirational, Suga sees him as his soulmate, J Hope thinks he keeps the group together. They all rely on him and all love him and he genuinely loves the Army and is so grateful to them. Yet how must he feel when he gets this type of hateful comments regularly for being good at his job and for being loving and kind. It is no wonder that he wanders into the Abyss of his mind. I am grateful that he seems resilient enough to overcome this and has family and members who love him. We should all be aware though no matter how strong a person is and no matter how much support, sometimes there can still be a breaking point if the hate continues. Big Hit or Hybe should find the people responsible for these comments and take legal action no matter the age. If they don’t they are equally culpable.
Thank you, for stand up for “jinkook/kookjin”! 👍😊 I hope they don’t read anything about the accusations. They live a quite hard life and should not have to deal with some people’s thoughts. It was a well done video, where you described both sides. It was also the truth, when you told them that they actually could be sued. I don’t want anybody to be sued, I just would like that people think before they write!
Honestly, me too. Those people who accuse him could be a minor or in a vulnerable position themselves, that's why I believe education is more important. At the same time, I wish HYBE at least spoke more about this matter. Not specifically about Jin since it'll only feed the media, but warning fans about defamation of their artists and the consequences each time an issue arises. After all, Jin has been accused with these words for long.
omg... i haven't thought that those kind of comments could exist from Jinkook moments... how could they bring shame to such genuine friendship/relationship. These moments are a result of being together for 10 years. Have they seen the pure admiration in JK's eyes every time he watches his Jin hyung during interviews and award speeches? That is not the eyes of someone being taken advantaged of.
Sadly, yes... Generally ARMY love them--the same way we all root for Vmin--but the loudest backlashes mostly come from the two biggest ship in BTS. I could only wish to be able to look at someone the way JK looks at Jin. I wonder how it feels to have that much adoration for someone 😊
You've made series of amazing videos, so talented ! I'd love to see more videos in the future and wish you a bright path to achieve your dream (whatever it will be). Love JinKook bond 💜
This line 'Many shipping narratives resembles toxic behaviour which are more alarming than the five-year age gap' is it. Its so true but people accept them. The video is really good.
Not hoping that you'll find more of those comments, but please link this video so that those who need to learn about this is informed about the subject.
Why are they so cruel the WORDS that they use is inhuman is it a crime to LOVE and BE LOVE regardless of age and gender I LOVE JINKOOK coz they are pure no hessitation to JIN whenever JK touches him and vice versa LOVE JINKOOK FOREVER
Kudos to you for taking in the hate and turning it into a lesson. Kudos to the jinkookers who have always remained calm, logical and polite when dealing with hate comments in any jinkook videos.
Wooowww....tq for this explanation. I feel sorry for Jin that there are ppl who judges Jin like that, they must have a big whole in their brains n in their hearts. Jin is the most humble, kind hearted n a person fun to be with. Not to mention his beautiful handsomeness. The facts that we see in many clips that JK realy sincerely adores Jin, and he is the one who is very clingy to him. As Jin is a very lovevable guy, also he has a great personality. Not only JK who loves to be super close to Jin, but also Tae n Joon . That's why there are NamJin, n TaeJin too. All BTS member love Jin, respects him n always praise him. Jin is like the most wanted best friend in the group. If he's what the bad ppl think he is, he will not be in BTS for this long. Crazy how ppl twisted things to their liking just to put someone down to the ground. Jiiiinnn....no worries, we know who u really are and we 💜💜💜💜 u even more.
Many videos bout Jinkook i saw. Never change my mind that JINKOOK ship so sweet beautiful touching n natural from their heart. No matter bout age, in fact they grow up together, JK not kid anymore. I always interest every moment they hv, sad happy jealous etc all bout them 🥰. Respect for Jinkook. I love Jinkook 💜. Hope they happy always from deep heart. Thanks for created this video. I love that 💜
This video is for fools, stupid, blind and deaf to reality. These people should not be called a fan or ARMY. Jin and Jungkook love that began as friends or siblings should not be judged in case it ends up like a couple relationship. It's not Jin's fault that his relationship with Jungkook blossomed and grew like a flower built by trust and full of admiration towards each other. They can't blamed Jungkook too for loving Jin more than a brother or friend. If you watch some videos of them as a group together all the members wants Jin attention even SG, JH and RM mostly JM and V. Not only JK. This proofs that Jin is a nice person that everyone needs in their life. Young people nowadays is lack of attention and nurturing. They are blind from their fantasies. They even educate themselves, they easily judged the actions they saw in Jinkook. Maybe they hurt and not accepting the fact that their ships are fake and just for fanservices. They didn't know what they are doing which result for being an toxic fan or solo stan. This video is great and also a wake up call to people who are fooled.
This video was so difficult to watch.....it was very well researched and presented, but the content is indeed a sensitive topic. I see comments almost daily about people saying negative things abt Jin & JK's bond and it hurts to see how many people agree with opinions that paint Jin as someone who took advantage of JK :/ I'm happy that this video exists to show people that those opinions are baseless and harmful accusations
Well done analysis 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 All boils down to how uneducated and disrespectful people can be. JIN is such a wonderful, humble pure-hearted and loving person that all BTS members love most especially JK 💜💜💜 Keep doing more JINKOOK videos 😍😍😍
i hope your content will be watched by many, especially those blinded by "ships"..this is well explained and i hope that a lot will be enlightened with the negative grooming and "pedo" issue they are throwing at jin. Jin doesn't deserve to be called as one.
You always give me this feeling that I should look forward to your videos. The content itself is satisfying. Its detailed by detailed. Informative. I hope everyone will watch your videos. Its an eye opener. Thank you for this. xo
Thank you for this great video. I hope it can reach those people that making accusations to jin and spreading hates everywhere. I don't have twitter and I don't want it so idk how worse is this matter. But when some channels that I followed on TH-cam had talked about this issue, it angered me so much to think that some people misinterpreted Jin's way of taking care of jk as grooming him. Seriously guys, what are they talking about, do they even know what grooming is? It is so disrespectful, how could they labelled jin as ped*? Please don't ruin jinkook's beautiful bond.
How ridiculous to think Jin would ever do anything to hurt JK , what is wrong with people, there’s nothing wrong with Jin and JK falling in love with each other, 5 years age difference is nothing, leave these boys alone, I’m 69 and I think their relationship is something SPECIAL 💜💜💜💜
Istg I've never seen such a beautiful bond like the one jinkook has... I hate to even label it. And i can't believe some people actually think in such vile ways about them. 😑
Thank you for the video thou it’s painful to watch, knowing that there r ppl who really throw the p*do & gr**ming words so easily without even trying to understand what’s that. This is not even about a ship war. This is a serious accusation. Also they think they just want to drag j!n down by saying this but they also drag JK down at the same time. They basically said that JK has no power (if that situation was real) Like, come on!?
thank you so much for this!! you are very responsible and wise to do this. i don't really have a problem with ships, but people shouldn't let that be the only way they see the members. they should be able to look past that and see that all the members have a genuine, beautiful relationship with each other. the same with jin and jungkook. when i look at them, i see a precious relationship like an older brother with his younger brother.
yes sis thanks for you video so educated Jinkook is a mature young man and Jk is not baby ,5 years is nothing Jk say he is more comfortable with older people. I think Jk so lucky get Jin and another members
Thank you Q, for making this video, i also saw one of the qrt on twitter which said that shipping jin with jk was a crime. When i saw that i cried all day and bcs of that I rarely open twitter till now. I dont understand how can they said that to jin just bcs they want to validate their ship?! before shipper we are an ARMY. I hope jinkooker doesnt start a problem like make a "thread" or anything comparing one shipper to another, because it will drag other members i dont want that happen again in the future. It really broke my heart :(
thank you for this. your videos are always profound and comprehensive. a number of comments here say that educating these haters or toxic non-army or even having them watch these kinds of videos can be an eye-opener. I don't think it will matter. a lot of these people are immature and nothing can change their minds. these people are becoming very insecure with jinkook and with jin as a member. a lot of jinkook moments are now being shown. and with the recent songs, Jin was given the spotlight he truly deserves. so the immature shippers will post all negative comments, adjectives, name-calling pertaining to Jin.
That's fine. Changing people is hard, but it doesn't mean that we must stop trying. Even if it's only one person who's changed, then this video has done its job 😊
thank you so much for this video. it was really disturbing to read all those comments on twitter... i unfollowed one of my mutual after they said its okay to ship liskook, and all the jungkook x bts member ships except jinkook and yoonkook... they didnt explain why so i assumed they have a problem with the age gap and theyd rather ship jungkook with random female idols he has no connection with than his own members thats so weird lmao
I always think shipping simply means rooting for two people who match each other very well and have a beautiful connection. So, I don't get it when people ship someone based on speculations and "hidden clues" when the two people never interact in the first place. I have no reason to root for two strangers.
@@moonbathingrite exactly 😭 i love every ship in bts but i feel so bad for jungkook for being shipped with every human being in the industry, people who he doesnt even talk with... and every time theres a bts dvd release (memories, winter package etc) theres a whole ship war always involving him throwing the words queerbaiting, fanservice (and now grooming apparently...) around.
I literally just this week came across a so called jinkook/kookjin shipper the said " jin raised jungkook to be the perfect partner/boyfriend". I could not believe what I was seeing.
@@moonbathingrite it's either that or they saying they have been together since jk was 15 not realizing how that makes jin look. Then do the so called analyst and make the relationship seem so toxic with a few sweet moments here and their. Even worst I believe that majority of the jinkook shippers is jin bias
Thank you for this video I leared something I understand where this hate coming from 'cause I'm a shipper and I realized I'm becoming blinded like about wanting jinkook always together(but until now I'm still convince jinkook is real I ship them in a deeper level than before now I don't want to be blind and not seeking for the fact, and I think some fans are blinded by skinship) to the point I'm not even seeking for the truth but just my assumption just to make myself happy that sometimes I feel annoyed(not hatred) to some member but I'm glad I managed to knock some sense to my mind and stop becoming toxic I respect that we all have our own opinion but is it worth it to hate one ship or member or start a ship war? We all love the boys so why can't we just ship what we want but not too much to the point we all spreading false ,hate the members and making assumption that didn't even make any sense just to prove your ship is real this is just proving how irresponsible some fans truly are We are just making our boys lives miserable I'm sad about this they are hating one member I don't like it when fans hating even one member of bangtan. And army hating one another instead of loving each other but wow this vid. is amazing !
Thanks for making this video! I'm a fan of your jinkook fanfics and recognized your pen name immediately. Educating people who throw buzzwords is a stressful effort. Jin is a good person. He doesn't deserve to be attacked like this.
the age gap thing is the worst one as how those popular ships claims Jin and JK as mom and son ( they can’t accept the fact that these two are closed ones obviously and just to make their fav ship seems real) I belong to no OTP ships but this age gap mom son usage thing by toxics are so eww. No one irl calls someone 5 yrs older a mom or a dad . Your videos are so on point and love it 💜
People who criticize these two especially Jin were just jealous because they have a beautiful chemistry. Also, no one in their right mind will mention p***philia just because of their age gap. Like come on people, it’s 2021!!! Shipping aside and no offence meant but Jin and Jungkook has the purest relationship.
I've been enjoying jinkook moments from memories 2020 too much that I didn't know some people labeled jin like that...... idk perhaps they're jealous of their happy moments? Sighs some people really be saying sh*ts like that so easily.... even if they ship other ships from the group, why can't they just accept that their ships is not the only ships that matter?
yes, these toxic shippers are just insecure of jinkook which is said to be under-rated before. but now that more jinkook moments are being shown and jinkook following is significantly increasing, their ship is being threatened so they resort to bashing or worse hate comments and name-calling.
Hello, I want to point out that a subscriber once said that there's also some Jinkook accounts that instigated the fight by feeling superior and diminishing other ships, so the "bad words" are also a response to that. I just want to say that the ship war didn't only start from other ships, but also from those who support them 🙂
@@moonbathingrite I think I know which jinkooker you are talking abt . That person mentioned that they didn't actually compare any ship they are trying to show jinkook also has beautiful moments to the some hateful j1k00k shippers who were stalking there acc and harassing them calling them delusional etc via dm telling the jinkook acc owner to stop shipping jin&kook . The jinkook acc owner told them not to stalk their page but the other shippers was still harassing them. So the whole ship war was actually started by other shippers and here jinkookers got into fight with them . You are probably not so active on twitter that's why you don't know what a toxic place this fandom has become nowadays. And the sad part is, between this whole ship war only jin get dragged awfully by this hateful shippers. I just want every shippers to be mature and stop the ship war, it's annoying af .
@@Purplecandy4 sorry to say and I am not generalizing...i think these stalkers or toxic fans are from the younger group who are very active in twitter. these are the immature ones who don't think thoroughly and just say what they want without limits. i know youth nowadays are really more into people of their same age and this is the reason they idolize the maknaes and the taekook / jikook / vmin ships. they do not really know yet the realities of the world just like age gap in relationships. so they stalk and camp at jinkook channels and worse make Jin the victim of their bashing and insults.
@@abigailreyes1503 hmm maybe you are correct. Honestly this 2 group i mean t@ek00k and j1k00k are the most annoying shippers i have ever encountered. And the saddest part is jin is their punchbag. t@k00kers main target is jin for taejin and kookjin and j1k00kers main target is also jin for kookjin/jinkook. Do you know t@ek00kers went too far that they sent BH email telling them to stop performing "so what" song because it has taejin moments. They harassed jin because jin posted tae's pic on his birthday to say HBD to Tae those shippers harassed him saying that jin is thirdwhilling between Tae and Jk . now days j1k00kers are doing same thing with jin calling him p*do just because of jin&jk's interactions. It's not only for ship but the entire makneline stans has enormous amount of hatred towards jin. I am just tired seeing shitty coments as a jin bias it hurts me seeing jin getting unwanted hate from the makneline stans. What did jin ever do to them that they can't even have minimum respect for Jin. Jin has always been nice to everyone. Ppl outside of bts too always says how nice person jin is how polite respectful person jin is. I just don't understand why these solos/shippers has so much hatred for jin. They can ship/stan whoever they want but they need to stop being aggressive disrespectful towards jin.
All I know is together they make me smile laugh and cry. It's tangible respect love and friendship 💜❤️. 🙏🏽. Smile and be happy stay happy. I feel it all the way in norcal 🇺🇸💘
How can You call urself a true "ARMY" if you only love one, and try to put down the other members? Jin is my Bias but i Love them all.. Jin doesn't deserve such disgusting words from blind and narrow- minded people.😔 I think they are only jealous to Jin coz Jk love his Jin hyung the most, Jk love all his hyung but when it comes to Jin it's something different. To those haters: try to open der eyes and minds, Jk is not a baby anymore, he also more bigger and stronger than Jin, and if like other may say that he being grooming/harrassed by Jin he can totally depend himself. But FYI, jk eyes tells everything, recently he being Bolder and even not afraid to express How he truly admires and Love Jin. Bts is Our Idols, but the truth is They have their own lives behind off cam and no one can dictate them who can they choose to love and to be with at the end. So haters stop spreading hates and bad words especially to Jin coz a kind man like him doesn't deserve hates But "LOVE".. lastly, no matter what Jinkook/Kookjin relationship have, I still SUPPORT, RESPECT, AND LOVE THEM..💕💗💖 #spreadlovenothates. #welovejin/jinkook.💕💖💗 #OurMoon 🌙
wow idk abt this, i mean how could ppl so cruel n mean n accused jin as p**o???! jin is that innocent n lovely n still accused as manipulate the members, wooow im shocked n feeling pain not just he is my ult bias but as human being how could they said those cruel to lovely jin who even bts love n adore his caring n kindness
Jungkook is not a kid he is mature enough to know that what is right for him and even if jk is 13 year old when he come seoul but now he knows what is right or wrong and even if someone do something bad to him that time why he respect, love, care for him till now he is a mature man who takes his own decision
It's pitiful and shameful to accuse Jin of something that apparently is not, Jin is a very sweet and lowkey person selfless and kind. Jk is a strong person I doubt that he would bear mistreat so many years, so let's not mistreat anyone with hatred and wrong accusations, idols are just people who are hurt by our comments. Can you be happy and smile around your abuser??
Thank you for giving justice to Jin.....being a Jinkookers i'm very happy that their bond are so pure and they have so many moment behind the scene which we will not realise if no one point out to us thru fan make analysis etc. I never thought that people will treat that as Jin grooming/harassing JK...how absurd....im sure they are the jealous people that cant stand watching Jinkook being happy and blissful in their world....
Thank you so much for this sensitive approach to a very difficult subject. I must admit, the thought of Jin using the age gap did cross my mind, when I didn't know anything about them. Until 2014 he seems to have been close friends with s.o., who later wrote songs mainly about sex and drugs.( If it is true, what I saw.) And JIN spoke occasionally about his "dark side", leaving one to wonder, what he means by this. But as soon as I saw more of Jinkook, I changed my mind and I happily support them now. First I didn't quite understand the concept of seniority because In western cultures we have a different approach to age, but I remembered my feelings towards senior students who already had their degrees when I was just a beginner. Although I find it strange, that Jin is "senior" to Suga who is only three month younger, I assume it gives a structure which can be helpful. I too like to believe that people are not ignorant, but just don't know, so thank you again for your insightful video.
It's not "drugs" but weed which is legal is some countries but not in South Korea. He was caught while doing it in Thailand because his friend snitched. The Korean law permitted them to proceed with the legal process although it happened in another country since he's a Korean citizen and the law still applies. He hasn't been active as a rapper since 2017, parted ways with his old rapper crew, then worked mainly as a producer. He escaped his toxic circle and in a good supportive system now. I just want to set the facts straight to refrain from speaking ill of someone who's been through a lot and recovering. Thank you 😊
@@moonbathingrite Thank you for enlightening me. I suspected as much. Glad to hear, he escaped the toxic circle. From my personal perspective this whole thing about "drugs" (marihuana) is difficult to understand and mad. In my student days love/sex, politics and mariuhana belonged together, were part of the subculture. Must admit though, that later I met young people who were influenced in a negative way by smoking weed and had to rethink my position to some extend. Not knowing Korea and the language makes it difficult to understand things for s.o. who is living in a western european country and from another generation. Like, what is the grey area? Tattooing is illegal, but JK and a lot of other people seem to have them. What about homosexuality? It is not illegal, but you can't have an official partnership or marry or adopt children. Not that my country is something to boost about... Love the BTS songs which are critical of society: education, rat race, mental health. I hope so much, that they are able to move something, with the help of someone like you who fights misconception.Thank you! By the way, the first time I heard BTS songs was on a demonstration: N.O., Not today, Fire. I will never forget.
You're right. I feel partially responsible for any possible misunderstanding because I'm the one who talked about him in Ep.05 & Ep.05 Behind of my series. There are soo many grey areas in Korea like you mentioned and most of them root in "social stigma" besides the actual law. I mentioned about homosexuality in the queerbaiting video essay in case you're interested and you haven't watched. Also, I love that you're drawn to BTS from those classics! 😊
I really admire seokjin because he's been handsome well-hening there all his friends and the most patient. I❤️U seokjin ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ From Indonesia
Everyone talks like jin was such a big man when he joined the group. I didn't know once you turn 20 your just automatically adult. If you look on jin when he just started he was still young mentally and a bit physically. I think the two of them was just two boys who missed home and shy become good friends and then eventually become really attached to each other. I won't say they are together and I won't say they're not all I know they have a beautiful relationship that either way if perfectly fine.
It is really such in bad taste that other shippers would throw shades and negative things to Jin when in fact it is very obvious that it takes two to tango to have a relationship. Remember how good Jin is in suppressing his feelings that it even came to some points that he can wear a poker face. We see how Jungkook is/was so whipped with him till date..There are also some toxic shippers who claimed thatJin was drowning JK in 2016 when obviously they were kissing under watee and Jimin quickly covered for them. Now that Jinkook is becoming famous these delulu shippers...sorry to mention Taekook shippers, are making up stories about Jin. I am not saying this because I am a Jinkooker but notice the difference between Jinkook and taekook shippers. I am not bother if this shipper i mentioned will say we are delulu but hey remember what V said once? Get out of your imagination! So who's the delulu shippers then??
Im actually saddened that there are so called fans who would label jin in a bad way. I think they cant just accept that the ship they are supporting has less traction when it comes to proving its realness. When they saw that Jin and Jk has more chemistry, more unedited videos that almost confirm a possible relationship, these "fans" labeled Jin badly so they can ship JK to some members that they support. Its actually irresponsible and pure evil. Cant they not even see that JK is sneaky when it comes to jin before he turned 20? Its actually JK who is always vocal about his admiration for Jin in their earlier debut days. Jin was, if the rumors were true, is nursing a broken heart because of their previous bts trainee Kidoh.
I think it's because Jin is sooo transfixed in the moment, looking as if he even forgets to breathe. No j-hope, no camera, no crowd... Just Jungkook singing.
These ignorant and stupid "armys" acting like they did something there by saying stupid stuff. The fvck you mean Jin was grooming Jk, y'all forgot they are with other members do you all really think the other members would let that happen?! Like wtf! And you better stop acting like 5 years age gap is too much! Stupid! You all are disrespecting Seokjin to this extent just so you can go on with your ships! I wanna throw hands, some delusional shippers are really disgusting! Seokjin can pull anyone he wants if he wants to and my man has been nothing but good to all his members and some you all really have the audacity to accuse him! Fvck you all!
very true. these are not real army. these are immature, toxic and insecure people. really disgusting. and you're right. Jin has been so giving for the members especially the maknae group, especially with JK who has a special place in his heart. and I would think that even if he has proven himself with his singing and dancing, he did not complain about his little line distribution in a lot of BTS song because it is okay with him for the maknae vocals to shine. and then these toxic fans pay him with disrespect.
People should really be careful throwing such words around for any person, if they don't know the truth. Most are not even mature enough to even completely understand what the words mean. This is a serious issue.
In fact that Jin waited till Jungkook had the legal age so they could date in private end first time they have an intimate moment when they take the shower together in a hotel on osak where 2016 when Jungkook turn adult. Jungkook said i promised you to grow up fast to Jin. They where in love already when Junkook was under the age but Jin waited for him to get the legal age. Jin did everything right he waited to the legal age. Jin end Jungkook are the most beautiful couple in the whole wild world hom can they claim that? They don't know about love they have any experience of being in a relationship or being in love. I will believe in Jin end Jungkook as a romantic couple end i will support them. 👨❤️👨
Hello, I'm sorry but I'm not speculating about those on the video. Those things that you mentioned are private stuffs that were shared between them, so fans can't know for sure. The only ones who could/should speak about those are Jin & Jungkook themselves.
Thanks for this video. I am not aware of this becoz i have yt and fb acct only. We cannot judge a person on what we have seen and knew on the surface by watching videos etc becoz we do not know the truth and circumstances. To like and love somebody, artist etc is a choice. If you have nothing good to say shut that beautiful mouth and pretty brain of yours. Educate yourselves to treat people fairly and as a fan/s accept ur idol/s for who and what they are. If you have unpleasant judgment of a person or of others, something is wrong with you. Look at yourself on a mirror and if broken repair or have it repaired. Our world needs a positive thinking and productive young generation.JINKOOK had and has done a lot of good deeds and everybody knows and I do not need to mention, except you judgmental beings. What about you? Think about it becoz it is not yet too late. Okay? Good words makes good people😇👍
same here. i am only in YT and FB. i have twitter but only browse through some sites like Billboard and BH but not making comments. it is a reality that those active in twitter are the younger generation who are mostly immature and toxic. but I am not generalizing.
labelling happens when people believe they can make diagnosis, label just because they read, learned about a certain label or disorder. They play the authority to use it on people. This is problematic because just because of that small/miniscule knowledge, you destroy people and even their future... i hope people dont lightly throw diagnosis and labels on people especially if they dont have the education/training enough to do so. Thank you for this vid. I hope this will not only educate others out there but also make them realize effects of their behavior on people.
What baffles me the most is this mostly happened just because of a ship. Just because JK is closer to Jin than their preferred member. Are they even Army to be able to say these things? No one has a problem accepting V and Jimin are soulmates, but when it comes to Jin & JK, people are ruder (although Jimin also receives a lot of hate because of ship wars 😢). It's crazy seeing how much people would demonise them for something so unnecessary.
This isn't headline news, but an in-depth video essay. You can't judge a 2000-words explanation by four words. Still, I changed the title & thumbnail to minimise a chance of them being used out of context.
If my point isn't clear enough: No, Jin doesn't groom Jungkook, as a best friend or more than that. There's no problem with their age gap today. This video explains why and the fatality of that allegation.
Ideally, censorship in a mature discussion isn't right, but we're a part of a fandom where Pdogg says, "You must've been practicing a lot," to Jin can be trended on Twitter as a way to cancel him, so I should've known better and be more considerate in the future.
I work in academia, hence I believe nothing is too taboo to be discussed as long as it's done with ample research. However, I'm willing to compromise with how I present it. I keep the video since it helps many people to learn and assure them that it's nothing like that between Jinkook. I also think that it's better for fans to find this video when they search about "grooming" instead of threads that defame them.
Furthermore, I didn't do it solely to "defend Jin/JK" because I believe they're capable of defending themselves very well and speaking up when there's a need for it. They're bigger than this whole argument. I did it as fans for the fans so that we can be more cautious in throwing labels/assumptions, especially in the context of shipping real people which is the reason the video exists.
It's made upon issues that were raised by my subscribers who encountered these allegations within the shipping community, and so do I while maintaining the channel-unfortunately, I already deleted the comments. Instead of answering the question again and again, I figured making a video would be easier so that I can refer future concerns to this video.
Thank you so much to those who appreciate my work & shared how this video has helped them. It means a lot to me 🙂
Thank you for watching 😊
It appears to me that every aspect of their lives are on camera. They were all also under the care of adults in the management. It also seems to me that Jin undertook a quasi parental responsibility of JK, ensuring he was in school and eating correctly. Why did anyone think Jin was grooming JK. Plus from what I've seen of JK, he doesn't allow anyone to bully or control him.
@@wendygolding3564 i agree. even at a young age, I saw jk as one who can take care of himself and would not allow himself to be bullied. i saw clips where suga also took part in taking care of jk. I saw jin trying his best to be responsible eldest of the group and doing what is expected of an eldest even when he himself is the youngest in his own family and may not have any idea how it is to take care of those younger than him. I just feel bad that if its jinkook, people are quick to judge and dislike
I just don’t understand how can someone throw words like pedo to literally anyone. It’s a really big word. Just to satisfy your shipping and prove they are real y’all go to this extent? Remember BTS relationship with e/o is beyond shipping. Doesn’t matter if one ship has a lot moments than the other nothings gonna change their relationship. Don’t put your shipping agenda into their relationship. Respect each one of them as a human. They aren’t your tools to play with. Day by day shippers are being toxic and toxic. They have forgotten basic human decency in the name of shipping.
Maybe some of them really don't know what it means and at the same time, no one is patient enough to explain about it. Even if it's just one or two people, if someone changes their mind after watching this video then I'm grateful.
IKR? It's disgusting really and very disrespectful! The extent they will do and go just to satisfy their delusional stupid mind!
very well said. other shippers are just really immature and are just becoming insecure now that genuine Jinkook moments are being revealed. they do have a close bonding but no one really knows what kind of relationship they have so it is just really disrespectful and unfair for people to give such negative comments. and if in case there is more to just being friends, there is nothing wrong with it.
Well said, dear
@@abigailreyes1503 too many so-called fans are just for ships that they cant even confirm whats real or not. I mean i've been a jinkooker for more than 2years now but cant really confirm the realness of their relationship as a couple, to think that i have watched tons of jinkook videos. So for them the even label jin badly is totally ignorant and irresponsible.
For God's sake, I didn't know there were people who accuse Jin of such disgusting terms and behavior; like even the way they allow themselves to speak for someone else's life in such ways is terribly wrong. Throughout years, Jin's and Jk's relationship (whatever it is) not only has gotten bigger, but also it's become much more stronger and matured in many ways one could point out. How can one call that grooming when looking at it we only see Jin's unconditional love growing for Jungkook and the other members, and for Heaven's sake for how long are these people going to see Jk as a baby? The man is almost 25 and he's still a baby?! And again the never ending saga of Jin being an old man and a parent (In worst terms a mom) to Jk when there's just literally a five-year-age gap. Aren't those people the ones with the paedophile tendencies? Because well based on their small heads Jin must've been five when he had Jk! Sorry, I got angry while remembering and well now introduced to some new toxic people, but again thank you so much for taking your time to talk about such important issues. Not many do this, so when I see one like you, I don't have any choice but to appreciate you and your beautiful channel
Wow, really I dont know how to react to those accusations hurled to Jin. I'm appalled and anger is rising within me. I'm a senior citizen already and only during the pandemic that I'm drawn to BTS particularly to Jin. Why Jin? As what I've watched past you tube posts, Jin is the least aside being the oldest. He isn't a dancer and singer, making him the underdog of the group. I've been known in my community as a person who has the heart for underdog persons so that make Jin my bias but I like BTS as a whole. He has improved a lot and I would say he really has the talent for singing and dancing but that he was more interested in acting. He is becoming more popular and gaining more fanbase (mostly mature people) that some would try to put him down. We call it crab mentality,
S ur correct
@@franciscacachero8105 Honestly, I've always believed in Jin's talent (I've been their fan since 2014). The unfortunate, though, was that he wasn't given much of the chance to prove himself and also to improve in his work. And just like you mentioned, dear, now that he's actually shining through their recent works, some immature people are trying all in them to bring him down which is not going to work at the end if we true ARMYs here stand by his side and also our other six great men.
@@franciscacachero8105 When I started to become interested in BTS and Jinkook, I could easily understand why Jin likes JK, but wondered, why Jk was so interested in Jin. JK said, that he and Jin are similar in character, both straightforward. I don't now. Jin's "persona" after 2015 is this cheerful, secure guy, sometimes even a bit annoying to me because he can be quite insensitive (New Year video 2019/2020, BE behind the scenes with Jimin). At the same time there are his songs, particularly "abyss", but also "tonight" and "moon". It must be very difficult to keep your 2 sides (of course, there are more) separated. I wish, he could integrate them better, but this is, what a "persona" does to you. It must be very annoying, when people just like you because of your visuals, something you can't do much about. And now he is so good at singing and dancing!!! Actually, I listen to his songs most. I am not so sure about the underdog thing, it probably always was a mixture, because he was the oldest hung too (and the cook!). Really annoying, that these kids write this accusations, but frankly, I am sure, they don't know, what they are saying. I think, they just lash out at anything that stand in their way to fantasize about Jungkook. Or anything, that is old (meaning ourselves). Happens, can't do much about it, only wait, until they get out of it and try to keep calm and give meaningful context like moonbathingrite. Same thing happened in the women's movement. The main problem the youngsters have is the "old woman". I couldn't believe ist at first.
People list their minds. They are grown man. Jungkook is going to be 24.
I think people mix it and confuse it with the phrase "Jin raised Jk", the members use it but the fans have twisted it let's remember that Jk had a life before bts that his parents raised him until he was 13 years old, he had his personality and he take he's decisions like joining big hit.
And the members are not brothers, they did not grow up from babies together, although Jk was 13 years old when they met he was more mature due to the industry where he was and according to him he said it when he met Jin caused an impact on him.
There is no problem in which something else will develop later, it would be very natural.
You're right. Some people take the joke too literally. I feel bad for not mentioning this point in the video... I also want to point out that: Jungkook is Bangtan's baby, not ARMY's baby.
agree
@@moonbathingrite Do not worry your video is very informative, maybe you can use it for a video in the future touching this point 🤗
Totally agree..🤍💜
@@moonbathingrite it's okay dear, do not worry.. your video always informative.. maybe you can use it in the next video.. keep it up... I'm on your way
Just makes my blood boil when people talk about Jin and JK like that, I’m 69 and have watched these two for years it’s all love and respect between them, 5 years is nothing, JK is a Man not a child who needs babying , if they Love each other Great, it’s their business, not ours. Jin is respectful and treats them All with respect 💜💜💜💜💜💜
Wow, so just having their happy, playful moments leads to this type of accusations. I am just disgusted 😒. Jin is someone who doesn't use his hyung card on anyone from very beginning. He always steps aside from spotlight just so the members can shine more. He was so caring towards each members even young Jungkook . Who do yall think let a member have dinner with their own family just so the member can get rid of the homesickness .I have no words. Just because your ship doesn't have moments, doesn't make Jin a criminal. How delusional people can be ? Hybe should definitely sue this people. Thanks for making this informative video, people should be more educated about this topics.
Could doesn't mean they would though 🙁 Honestly I don't want to speak about this, but when I think that most likely HYBE would do absolutely nothing, I changed my mind. This issue is too important to be brushed off like it never happened.
@@moonbathingrite yeah, they definitely should sue this morons.But I am not really hopeful about this. It just blows my mind, how someone can say this type things about someone without knowing a fraction of their life. If someone is victim, let them say for themselves. Don't ruin these beautiful moments. Just thier own shipping agenda being not fulfilled leads to this type of accusations. I can't honestly think if anyone of them reveals their relationship in future,what will happen then? I am terrified to think that.
agree. Hybe or BH should do something about this hate comments about Jin or any member for that matter. and I would think that they are partly to blame on why some fans became toxic and delusional. they encouraged fanservice among members and this is the result.
@@abigailreyes1503 yup, they are partly to blame for this. Fan service is a factor to gain popularity in kpop. But when it is too much, fans really can't differentiate between fan service and reality. And when they can't get enough, they get mad and do this type of delusional things.its just very sad to see people spending their whole day just to speculate over something, they don't know about. I hate this 😠.
@@emptysky5026 yes, fanservice is dangerous for the young and immature fans who cannot distinguish between what is real and not, especially if there is so much skinship.
Thank you very much for this very informative video. I hope people will see how wonderful Jin is as a person. It was very clear that Jin never use any advantages he has to jk or any members . It's his genuine personality that made them love him so much . Sadly those ships will never accept anything that will defy what they are believing. They will always turn a blind eye to the truth even if it's serve infront of them .
very well said. Jin has been so giving to all the members.
I think there is another twisted kpop fan service culture about faking this “we’re a family, we’re brothers” atmosphere. Actually, when they were trainees, they had absolutely no idea who would be in the final debut team, so the trainees back time were pure competitors to each other. imagine a bunch of teenager boys, compete with each other everyday, a lot pressure, live together, must be full of chaos and fights(actually so many kpop teams proved there’s no such we love each other as a whole thing). That proves how more valuable Jin treated jk so well back then, because he literally tried his best to take care his competitor so the younger one could insist to the end. Funny thing is, Jk is not the only one who got the treatment like driving him elsewhere, but other members also got this(they said during interviews), I believe even some of the trainees that never made it to debut also got it. Jin is that nice. To me, it is so ironic that the fake we’re a family thing is so popular in fandom, but when it comes to some pure, real, sincere relationships, fans seem freaking out and throwing the worst words they can find to smear it.
Your comment is so insightful and extremely well said!!!
100% agree.
Everything is too ironic if you put it like that 🙁 I think in one interview someone also mentioned about how chaos their dorm was back then, so Jin moved to the dorm later could be helpful in some ways. The competitor part gives a whole new meaning to 'Jinkook is close since the beginning' because they managed to surpass that easily. I'd say Jin-Jungkook connection is truly one of a kind not only in the K-pop industry but also in general. Too bad some people fail to appreciate the sincerity between them.
@@moonbathingrite the thought that these so-called fans label jin badly never even backpedaled as to what is the real scenario of being a trainee and debut days back then. They were surrounded by lotsa people everyday. Jk became a trainee at 15. They debuted when he was almost 17. Jin even have a different set of friends back then. By the time jinkook became really close, JK was already 17 years old and Jin 22 Korean age.
Jungkook was 13 when he joined training. And 15 when bts debute. Jungkook will be 24
i would like to say that jinkookers should also stop saying that jinkook is real since 2013, or seokjin waited for jungkook to turn legal... i dont think its right to ship minor jungkook with anyone or romanticizing his bond with other members while he was a kid. also jin isnt a predator he wouldnt purposely wait for him to be an adult... they became closer but it was natural not something seokjin planned.
How you deliver your point is amazing! The way you explained the words those people threw in comments and at the same time you show how SJ and JK relationship is not like that at all. I start to feel people who threw those comments really need to start reading books more to educate themselves before they come to social media. Well done!
True. Nowadays the thing that people read the most is twitter feed 😢
twitter is flooded by comments and fantasies mostly from the younger generation who super idolize the maknae and even the maknae ships. sorry to say that most of these people are immature. they are also getting to be insecure of jinkook so they resort to these unpleasant criticisms on jin. and with Jin being given the spotlight with the recent songs, the toxic solo stans of the maknaes are really getting insecure. of course I do not mean all of maknae stans, only those who are toxic, immature and insecure.
Can we pls appreciate seokjin for being nice to jk? I dont undertstand why they doing this to my seokjin. I felt sad when i watch/read some bad comments to kim seokjin.. to those toxic human being pls leave them alone!!
Another comment, but I just wanted to add That the one video in bangtan bomb where Jin and Jk are choosing their ice cream flavor from the machine sums up, in a simple way, the way they are together: Jin suggests Jk in his own innocent playful manners, and at the end we all can see that Jk has his own choice with Jin and he's not being forced by him in any ways. In fact, the person who brings out the best matured traits of Jk is actually Jin. I believe at times the rest of the members see Jungkook as the youngest a lot and therefore treat him as that as well while with Jin, I always feel like Jungkook gets to be someone as more than that concept; he's who he is when he's with Jin. To me the moment I see Jinkook together, I feel like I see the real Jin and Kook, not that it's not the case with the other members, but these two bring out the most natural relationship I ever want to accomplish for myself in my life, being it a friendship, romance etc.
And in the recent Vanity Fair interview! JK deliberately changed his answer to Jin's because "you know me better than me" and he's probably scared of hurting the fans, lol. It's a small moment but I think it's very representative of their relationship too.
@@moonbathingrite I just saw that Vanity Fair game show video. you mean JK's original answer to the 2nd question was not the guess that Jin gave? wonder what erased. why did he say "you know me better than I do"?
It's not, you can see he erased it. He probably answered with a food name but Jin's suggestion is better than his initial thought.
@@moonbathingrite maybe his changing the answer was the reason most of them laughed. RM even bent while laughing. it seems they edited/cut that portion when JK wrote the new answer of "Love Army". they only showed the part where he was erasing the middle part of the board which is the original (short) answer. perhaps it was kmichi : )
@@moonbathingrite Yes, you're right, dear. Overall, their relationship is coming so natural and they don't need those (mostly false) analysis that I feel like other shippers fear what they have, and they try so hard to poison whatever they have through these shallow attempts.
*Those who accuse Jin of “grooming” and “p*dophilia” are simply new BTS fans (I don’t want to call them ARMY cos they don’t deserve to be one) or solo/maknae line stans only.*
*_Much worse, probably, they are those who sexualize BTS and addict to 18+ fanfics, so they personify their thirst over Jungkook through Jin, and accuse Jin to be the one who s*xualize when THEY ARE THE ONE WHO HAVE DIRTY MIND AND EXAGGERATE Jin’s actions_* 🙄🙄
They are not ARMY, because they only stan and respect their bias, and you are right on this so-called FAKE ARMY are BABY ARMY
I have seen with my own eyes that they have lil 7 on their dn but hate on jin , misgendering him, calling him p*do just to proof that their ship is valid and yes it's done by some makneline shipprs you know the 2 famous ship of this fandom vk**k and j!k00k . most account has more than 1k+ followers some have more than 50k followers. it doesn't matter if are new or old those shippers needs to stop throwing around words like p*do , gr*0ming without knowing actual meaning. Whoever they are shipper, solo whatever it does not matter they should never cross their limit.
@@Purplecandy4 yes and i feel sad, because Jin was pure and kind, and he don't deserve that kind of treatment
@@Purplecandy4 i don’t mind any ships (not only to BTS) if that’s what makes fans happy and also helps with idol groups’ popularity, but throwing names and misjudging other members just to prove their point, or in this case, their ships… it really makes me sick. They are so malicious, clouded by their over-sexualized fantasies, to the point they are becoming toxic and stupid. I feel sorry for them because they are so blinded by their lust towards Jungkook (or maknae line) that they think maknae line is still in their teenage years after 8 years and only the hyung line is getting older 🙄 those toxic fans are using inappropriate words towards Jin just to show that they are “smart” and know words like p*dophilia without fully understanding the word itself.
Or simply, they are so jealous because Jin didn’t give up on Jungkook and the maknae line, even though they were immature and hardheaded before. Jin is the best hyung to BTS and those stupid fans are just jealous because nobody trust them as much as BTS trust and rely to Jin. 🥴
not necessarily new BTS fans. these could even be those following them since years ago but idolize only their bias or ship. now that BH is showing a lot of Jinkook moments than before, these toxic solo stans and other shippers are getting insecure. Jin is also having the spotlight in the recent songs, so the more they are insecure. and these toxic people only believe the fanservice moments of their ships. even if you give them genuine jinkook moments, they have a ready distorted storyline that suits their ship. ridiculous!
I have never thought Jin was abusing JK. I am very surprised that anyone does. In groups where there are single sex members it is natural for the members to be affectionate and close. Some will be closer than others because they are just a bit more compatible and fit together. Their behaviors and beliefs are more in sync. All the members should be allowed to develop their own identities and preferences, and permitted the privacy to do so.
I think it's uncommon for ARMY in general who value OT7, but it happens many times from the shippers. I don't think they understand the term either, they just want to use anything to diminish the bond between Jin & JK as they see it as a "threat" for their ships. Since I maintain a Jinkook channel, I received those comments too.
@@moonbathingrite I'm just very glad that the boys lookout for young JK. HE chose Jin among the six. All baby him, well maybe with an exception of RM n Suga(not very obvious). They care for him but they rarely baby him which is also good, he's a well-rounded impromptu family.
I will forever say the way some ppl infantilize JK is disturbing and weird
Jungkook is a grown man.
P.S. 💜 Watching Jin&JK's genuine bond, making me wish to be in the same kind of relation- full of love, respect, support, care & common joy. For me they are synonym of Love doesn't matter the label. Doesn't matter what is the character of their relation. They are happy together and it's enough.
So I send them tons of warm thoughts and words of support, believing as always, that Truth and Love will win in the end.💜
Aye aye ... my full support.
@@maznahyaacob1193 💜
Yes, as a jinkooker myself and many jinkookers out there - we are not labelling their relationship rather we celebrate the bond that these two people share and it radiates whenever they are together.
@@jan_jankook5953 Exactly 💜
@@agagreen2733 i support them too!
Thank you for suggesting this topic. The opening is based on real comments that I already deleted from this channel, but I don't know that it's worse out there on Twitter. Feel free to use this video as a template to answer them.
PS. Wings and LY: Tear are still my favourite albums because I love ANGST (with a happy ending 😉).
Yes, we know 😉 Noumena has shown 😉
I believe that their relationship started from feelings of affection and care as brothers, Jin as the youngest in his family found a younger brother figure in Jungkook. Likewise, Jungkook, who at that time was far from his family, found an older brother figure in Jin. They have lived together as a group for many years, there is nothing wrong if that sense of care and affection develops and turns into more than just brothers.
@@tchristi2187 true... You cannot predict and dictate "love".
THANK YOU for taking the initiative to do this series. You will get many negative comments but you are doing what I consider god’s work by taking on this massive challenge to educate the fans. When I read recently that over 50% of BTS fans are under 18, I understood where perceptions come from and instead of screaming, shouting, yelling and fighting, education is power and if you can educate even 1% of BTS fans, you have accomplished the task you set yourself to tackle. So kudos! Looking forward to the next phase of the series.
That's an interesting fact. Once I saw a polling about 'When did you become an ARMY?' and most answered Dynamite. The fandom is just too big today with too many competing narratives. I wonder how those hate comments and counter arguments will be since I only explain about facts here. Besides, most likely it won't be on TH-cam but Twitter just like what happened on Ep.05 behind 🤷
@moonbathingrite i, for one, became a BTS fan, when I saw Dynamite. and I am in my senior years. I saw different ship videos and I can say that Jinkook has the special relationship. after watching these different videos, I see other ships as fanservice. especially the ways JK acts when he is with Jin is so different with others. and with the fandom being more than 50% from the younger group and who fantasizes more the maknae group and ships, how was that derived? based on surveys, twitter, social media? the youth are the ones active in social media. I know a lot of people who are more than 30, 40, 50 and even 60 yrs old but not have been accounted for in this census.
@@abigailreyes1503 Hi, I am probably even more senior than you. I totally agree with your reasoning and I can prove your point. I only recently registered with TH-cam and I still haven't registered as an Army, because I don't feel confident enough to do so without help. But I will, because it is important to me.
I am sure, Jinkook is in a special relationship, but it might be better not to go into the details for that. I just found out, that TH-cam deleted the discussion in one of my favorite channels (vintage maze) for the protection of children (hear, hear).
Dynamite is not my favorite song. I heard BTS songs first on the last big demonstration I went to (2018 or 2019).They played N.O., Not today and Fire. I was charmed. I prefer the old songs, although I need translations and often explanations. I like the music, the choreography, but the lyrics most. They are important to young people. I read that most Jinkook supporters are older and therefore more experienced in love (hopefully). We have to be careful how to deal with the younger group and direct our anger more to those who are responsible for misdirections. For example: Whenever I type "Jinkook" in TH-cam, I am offered a "Jikook" selection time and again. Why? Its annoying!
5 years gap is their main accuse to show hatred towards jinkook's relationship ... Actually I believe the reason Jungkook change to matured guys with tattoos and so on is to prove to army and the world that he is very matured and masculine man now ,, not as baby and innocent man that know nothing .. The fact that he wanted to go gym and do tattoo at the beginning year of debut but he cannot do it because the company wanted an 'innocent young man' concept on him ,, and the fact that jin cannot become himself at the beginning of their debut year because the company wanted to keep 'the cool guy' concept to jin is more mature topic to be discussed rather than 5 years gap is a crime in love ... In the future ,, Jungkook is 35 and jin is 40 ,, is it still a crime? Or is it a crime because the youngest and eldest title to both jinkook?? Their love is mature love based on pure love and trust to each other not just for se*ual interaction in front of the camera only ... 😊💜💜
I noticed their company image as well. JK complaining that he is not allowed to work out because of his "young boy" image and Jin in festa 2018 or 19 that he was supposed to be "the cool guy" because he was/is so handsome. And it took him until 2015 (!) to actually get out of this. Very annoying, to say the least. But remembering my student days I do think age is important at that time in life. E.g. we looked up to s.o. who already had their degree. But maybe this was more because they already knew things we did not, or a mixture? After that, age becomes less important as you say. It crossed my mind recently that it might become more important again, when you are really old (the difference between a 75 year old and an eighty year old). Just my thought, not important.
I wouldn't dare to categorize their relationship which makes me happy to watch, but tell me, what does everybody mean by "pure" love? I am at a loss.
was jungkook 15 and jin 20 years old man?
@@siggispock5102 for me "pure love" is a love that you feel happy just by seeing your partner face ... No need words or action to describe the love .. as you know jinkook is know as the bickering duo or tom and jerry .. but do you notice their smile and laugh when bickering?? Does you often see people bicker with such happy smile?? It is just pure happiness for them and also for jinkookers .. As we know ,, small things matters the most for jk 😊❤️
@@sha3848 Thank you, I can get along with this and like the explanation a lot. I was just worried that "pure" is seen in contrast to "dirty" and dirty equals sexual.
how this be an issue...people should go get educated and stop throwing irresponsible accusations like this. thank you for this.
You are a really cool and responsible fan to do this! People casually throw such serious words around (some of them might not understand them because there is no formal education related to this) but you took the time to present the research and make people understand how damaging are the words that they are using simply because they do not like a ship.
It must have been uncomfortable at your end to read people say such things about Jin, but as always you managed to do it with research and without attacking anyone else. I hope people who come across carry the same attitude and don't hate on the members because of shipping. Thanks for this!
Edit: Thanks a lot for making this public again. I saw some people saying such things again and was really missing this! This would come in handy the next time someone brings up this topic to paint them in a negative light, although I really hope that doesn't happen.
We wish... But I think it's going to keep coming in the future for a simple, inevitable fact that Jin & JK are getting closer day by day. Besides this on Jin's side, I also received some comments about JK. Mostly the arguments revolve around how he doesn't deserve Jin.
@@moonbathingrite Recently, a lot of (epecially newer) Jinkookers have started moving like the two big ships where they base the narrative of their ship mostly on jealousy, skin ship, etc. And since JK is physically affectionate in general, people start to question his feelings when that loses its exclusivity. I didn't know it had gotten to this level though. Maybe that's why most ships that involve JK tend not to have him as their bias because the shippers paint him in an inferior light. It's upsetting though because none of them can support Jin as much as JK does personally and professionally...or other members too for that matter.
I'm making the poll because I'm curious about this too and it shows. I wonder if the narrative is mostly about JK being jealous, would it be possible that JK is their bias? Someone said that most ships, not just Jinkook, "token stan" JK just for his relation to their bias and I couldn't agree more.
wow, this channel really goes deep when it comes to social issues surrounding jinkook and the other members.
tbh, it was really shocking to see these comments circulating the internet. i always thought the only problem they have for jin and jk was just the age gap compared to their ships, can't believe people somewhat labeled jin a predator, a p**o. they just hated the fact that it is what it is, so airheads really found a loophole within their relationship, these people are a mess.
Jinkook has sooo many stereotypes around them. Since their moments are always obvious and in no need for a complex analysis, this is the reason I made this channel in the first place.
these are toxic followers of other ships who are getting insecure since they are seeing a lot of genuine jinkook moments. these are also toxic solo stans who are getting insecure since he has been getting the spotlight, more line distribution and a lot of praises lately, especially with the latest songs like Butter, PTD, Film Out and covers of Fix You and I'll Be Missing You.
Love you for this. You should get an bravery award for voicing the sensitive topic n educating people. My heart aches to know that people said those words about Jin. Rooting for JinJanKook❤️
I am not into shipping, I simply like their moments which shows genuine relationship wether they are together or friends. But those toxic shippers that describes Jin as manipulator and predictor are insane and have some serious issues . 5 years gape is nothing at all they are both still in their twenties, I don’t know how is this an issues . Jin is one of the kindest soul I ever met I don’t know how his kind act toward JK was described like that . Shippers becoming crazy day by day forcing their fantasies into their artist forgetting that they are human too . These two seriously so pure and innocent.
Thank you so much for this video. It's really an important topic and those kind of people who accuse Jin with all of these things are the ones with the sick minds. This is not a shipping game. They really desided to attact the genuinest duo just because their ship doesn't give them what they expected. Sick people!
Thank you for making this. Your video was very informative and detailed. I appreciate the immense research you did to reasonably present the reality of how vastly different is a consensual relationship between a predatory one. I hope more people will learn from your video and cease painting Jin as a villain in their own narrative. I look forward to your future videos in this series. I have yet to read the latest chapter on your fanfic but I will do so, I promise. I love the way you write and your stories had captured my heart. Xoxo
Jin as a villain only exists on my fic, lol.
you may not probably expect this kind of comprehensive analysis from immature ships who are used to cuts and edits in their videos just to satisfy their imagination. they then force the narrative that jinkook has a brotherly or worse parent-son relationship. they are just really insecure. I know a lot of couples (different or same gender) where age gap is even more than 5 years.
i love you. I think you are a real one. I had to respond to some people from 1 of the 2 popular ships over this subject 2 weeks ago and I did not have your composure. Thank you for making this video.
Thank you for making this video. I do hope shippers or people in general will be more informed after watching this video and not make any allegation or label Jin or anyone so flippantly.
Thank god you decided to do this video. I just hope that the immature and young ARMY fans will find it within their intellectual capacity to sit through this video and learn a thing or two. I really, really, REALLY wish that those who made those comments will watch it and open their minds. Like I said earlier in a comment at your community post, I also have been trying to correct people on IG whenever they say that Jin "groomed" JK to be his bestfriend or worse, boyfriend, because it sounds predatory. Some will acknowledge that correction, the more combative ones will challenge my comment, but many others will just ignore. So now when I encounter these comments again, I will refer this video in the hope that they will get schooled.
We really need INTELLIGENT and REFLECTIVE videos that you put out here in this platform so thank you very much for taking the time to make them. I can imagine that between work, your personal life, and the fiction that you churn out in Ao3, you must be pretty busy, and yet you took time to do this. So thank you very, very much. Gomawo!
I think some people takes Jin's joke of "raising Jungkook" too literally. Even "raise/groom him to be his best friend" has a rather negative connotation since it implies that Jungkook has no sense of agency.
@@moonbathingrite I agree. While it IS true that Jin did in a sense, raise JK -- waking him up in the morning, driving him to school, paying for his meals, bringing him home with him during the weekends to their house so that his Mom could feed both of them -- this does not mean that JK was/is bereft of his right and freedom to choose to go with Jin or not, hang out with Jin or not, In short, you are correct, it does not mean that Jungkook has no sense of agency and to think that is to utterly disrespect him. ARMY should STOP infantilising JK because he is an 'effin 23 year old MAN. Man, not child.
You said it...immature fans (they are not army if they give hate to any member). no matter how much education or videos you show them, it will be useless. these are toxic and insecure people who have been brainwashed by their ship's videos full of cuts and edits. for the mature fans of non-jinkook ship, they will not be giving such hate. i also know that some of them have even jumped ship to jinkook after watching the more comprehensive and genuine jinkook videos.
@@abigailreyes1503 Carefull, carefull, lets not fall into the trap "mature and immature fans". You probably know much more about the toxic comments than me and I am sure, it is disgusting. And I agree, they are brainwashed by their ships videos full of cuts and edits. But who makes these videos and how aware are they of what they are doing? I don't know, do you? And don't forget, other ships are supposed to protect Jinkook. I saw a Jikook video recently and it was well made and convincing, but wrong off course. I even suspect J-Hope and Jimin consciously reenacting the Osaka scene, why: to protect Jinkook? Or because this is, what the company is demanding? Who in the company? The marketing team?
But from what I have seen and what I know about young fans, they are serious people and responsible. I am biased of course...
the video I was referring to is: the ultimate jikook video by spoopimin
I'm proud of you, and I appreciate you for taking the time to write such an educational and well-spoken message. I really wanted to say something to everyone who has feminized and grooming Jin because of a video that someone mentioned, and they follow it is too frustrating and unsophisticated. Well, who am I to blame? The majority of the army in this fandom is naïve and immature. Whatever Jinkook has it too pure and true. In my opinion, if we place Jinkook under one label, it will make them less, because I believe they are so much more than that. For me, it's enough that they're happy with each other’s presence and sharing moments are too beautiful already. Like Jungkook said, small things matter the most.
When I first knew about BTS, This was ultimate ship. Until today, it still is. There’s something special and pure about their bond. People who keeps using age gap as an excuse, because they can’t accept jinkook’s bond superiority. Thank you for the in depth research about the terms they’ve been throwing to Jin. Hopefully, those ignorants will get some education from this research.
I’m sorry for jin bc of those kinds of people. I think they’re just closed minded, deniably bitteriffic and toxic (not a fan indeed) earthlings. They are probably threathen bc they all noticed that “something” bw jinkook. I appreciate so much this kind of brave and discussed properly perplexing matter, it’s so unfair to jin being hurt and prejudiced like that.
If Jinkook is problematic because he met Jin when he was 13, then every ship with Jungkook and other BTS members is problematic. They ALL met him when he was underage. And I know it's mostly Taekook and Jikook fans spreading this BS about Jinkook but I wonder what kind of people fetishize teen K-pop stars and desperately try to convince everyone they are in a relationship with each other.
What I like about Jinkook shippers is that they are not deluded. All the Jinkook content I have watched always frames how brotherly Jin and JK's relationship was in the start. Even when he turned 18, because Jin never really seemed attracted to JK until the last couple of years. Almost all of us supporting this ship don't care if Jinkook is real or if those two end up dating other people. We just appreciate the positive, affectionate, at times seemingly romantic (could be or not be so) relationship. That's because both Jin and Jungkook are adults and we are all just observers who don't know them in person. Stop infantilizing that poor man in his freaking 20s. The people who still view him as a child AND thirst over him are the real ped*s 🤬
On the nail!!
Wow, thank you so much for bringing us this video. It is so so well explained and I really hope people will stop and think twice before throwing such horrible words out there that have nothing to do with reality. I will consider myself lucky in life if I will ever meet someone with whom I can have the bond that JK and Jin share!!! Thank you for your efforts and please don't mind the negative comments.
Thank you for the deep analysis and beautiful delivery, I know you worked hard for that! Been watching a lot of jinkook shippers compilation videos, I actually could see why people falsely accused Jin gro*m JK (aside from just them being jealous). Shipper accounts tend to fixated on exaggerating skinship as sexual tension, they slow mo-ed everything, even just an eye contact (members cant look in the eyes to each other w/o being labeled as "moment"??). Videos like Jin 'drowning' young JK still circulates around the internet, while I believe it would never be published by the member in the first place if it was what we assumed.
Aside from the topic, the way I see it, JK is always a touchy-type to everyone, so did the other members. So I will just pass anything like neck massaging, playing with others' hair/head. But still I cant deny how Jin and JK always gravitate toward each other, demolishing my rationalization above (say, they are just brothers or in mom-son relationship). There are "real moments/clues" that cant be debunked by mere- "aaah, nope, they cant be a real couple." (and you already covered some of it on your previous videos exquisitely). The back hug out of nowhere and the awkward silent atmosphere following it in ITS? the songs' lyrics that seems like message to e/o and released in the same date only a year apart (and to know that both of them only make music based on their own experiences)? the ye*bo slip of the tounge several times? You cant just make up those things only to please the audiences, no😅
Anyway, great content as always! I actually felt unsettled at the beginning of this video, but fortunately your eloquent & thorough explanation really hit the point👏🏻
Jimin published the video of Jin 'drowning' JK by kissing him on the cheek. Jinminkook were at a Waterpark together. There was a lot of questionable content published before BTS were popular, which lead to an article speculating about Jinkook's sexual orientation. With that article plus the rise in BTS' popularity, BH took control of the content...and Jinkook.
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@@lrhlrh7393 true. and I even saw in another video that non-jinkook ship was claiming the underwater incident was not Jinkook but their ship. so ridiculous. so the video author presented a lot of proofs that it was Jin. I suppose most of the Jinkookers here have watched that other channel video who proved it was Jin. and in the comment section of that video, an intruder (other ship fanatic) even said that how could that be Jin when Jin was with JM and RM in the stingray place where Jin was so scared while JK was snorkling with JH, V and Suga. I had to contradict the commenter to say that the stingray and snorkling activities were in Saipan trip and was different from the Jinmimkook waterpark activity. it only proved that this other shippers do not do their homework. making such comment since she could not accept the underwater incident.
@@abigailreyes1503 When other shippers are confronted with indisputable proof like yours, the next tactic is to change the narrative. Instead of Taekook kissing each other, it's now "Jin is trying to drown JK". I've even seen "Jin has JK in a headlock and Jk is desperate to escape ". Notice all the narratives involve Jinkook fighting or trying to hurt each other. The mental gymnastics to avoid the truth is astounding.
I can't believe this even has to be explained about jin, it was obviously jungkook solo stans or some crazy jikook or taekook shippers, makes me sick 😔
I was unaware that these comments were being said about Jin and, to be honest, it saddens me greatly. I have been conscious of a lot of negativity by solo stans of late which I do not understand. Why he is not allowed even one moment in glory when theirs have had so many baffles me. Are they so selfish, because the members they say they love so much would be so disappointed in them? I am quite sure they would not approve of their behaviour towards a person that is special to them. Jin is such a caring person to not only the maknae line who let's face it, all adore him and all want his love and attention but also the hyungs as well. Jungkook is especially close to him because he has always been there for him since he was thirteen providing him with love and attention, taking him home to his family and providing him with a family here in Seoul and a big brother in Seoul. The friendship and love they have is precious and not something to be made into what it's not to satisfy some jealous fantasy of solo stan fans. RM relies on him a lot and has often said he finds him inspirational, Suga sees him as his soulmate, J Hope thinks he keeps the group together. They all rely on him and all love him and he genuinely loves the Army and is so grateful to them. Yet how must he feel when he gets this type of hateful comments regularly for being good at his job and for being loving and kind. It is no wonder that he wanders into the Abyss of his mind. I am grateful that he seems resilient enough to overcome this and has family and members who love him. We should all be aware though no matter how strong a person is and no matter how much support, sometimes there can still be a breaking point if the hate continues. Big Hit or Hybe should find the people responsible for these comments and take legal action no matter the age. If they don’t they are equally culpable.
Thank you, for stand up for “jinkook/kookjin”! 👍😊
I hope they don’t read anything about the accusations. They live a quite hard life and should not have to deal with some people’s thoughts. It was a well done video, where you described both sides. It was also the truth, when you told them that they actually could be sued. I don’t want anybody to be sued, I just would like that people think before they write!
Honestly, me too. Those people who accuse him could be a minor or in a vulnerable position themselves, that's why I believe education is more important. At the same time, I wish HYBE at least spoke more about this matter. Not specifically about Jin since it'll only feed the media, but warning fans about defamation of their artists and the consequences each time an issue arises. After all, Jin has been accused with these words for long.
omg... i haven't thought that those kind of comments could exist from Jinkook moments... how could they bring shame to such genuine friendship/relationship. These moments are a result of being together for 10 years. Have they seen the pure admiration in JK's eyes every time he watches his Jin hyung during interviews and award speeches? That is not the eyes of someone being taken advantaged of.
Sadly, yes... Generally ARMY love them--the same way we all root for Vmin--but the loudest backlashes mostly come from the two biggest ship in BTS.
I could only wish to be able to look at someone the way JK looks at Jin. I wonder how it feels to have that much adoration for someone 😊
@@moonbathingrite I wish that too. that look of admiration is too pure and sincere
You've made series of amazing videos, so talented !
I'd love to see more videos in the future and wish you a bright path to achieve your dream (whatever it will be).
Love JinKook bond 💜
God bless you and jinkook.. Always 💜💜💜
Thank you for making this video.. Very helpful 💜💜
This line 'Many shipping narratives resembles toxic behaviour which are more alarming than the five-year age gap' is it. Its so true but people accept them. The video is really good.
thank you so much for this. i'm actually had enough of some mindless people who always threw those words around to people, its just not it.
Not hoping that you'll find more of those comments, but please link this video so that those who need to learn about this is informed about the subject.
@@moonbathingrite will do!
Why are they so cruel the WORDS that they use is inhuman is it a crime to LOVE and BE LOVE regardless of age and gender I LOVE JINKOOK coz they are pure no hessitation to JIN whenever JK touches him and vice versa LOVE JINKOOK FOREVER
You know Jin is an angel really he is the closet thing to an angel for me and people saying these things about him is just a Sin realy/
Thank you for taking the time to address this important topic in a very well done video. I appreciate it. Lots of love.
Kudos to you for taking in the hate and turning it into a lesson. Kudos to the jinkookers who have always remained calm, logical and polite when dealing with hate comments in any jinkook videos.
Wooowww....tq for this explanation.
I feel sorry for Jin that there are ppl who judges Jin like that, they must have a big whole in their brains n in their hearts. Jin is the most humble, kind hearted n a person fun to be with. Not to mention his beautiful handsomeness. The facts that we see in many clips that JK realy sincerely adores Jin, and he is the one who is very clingy to him. As Jin is a very lovevable guy, also he has a great personality. Not only JK who loves to be super close to Jin, but also Tae n Joon . That's why there are NamJin, n TaeJin too. All BTS member love Jin, respects him n always praise him. Jin is like the most wanted best friend in the group.
If he's what the bad ppl think he is, he will not be in BTS for this long.
Crazy how ppl twisted things to their liking just to put someone down to the ground.
Jiiiinnn....no worries, we know who u really are and we 💜💜💜💜 u even more.
Well said
Many videos bout Jinkook i saw. Never change my mind that JINKOOK ship so sweet beautiful touching n natural from their heart. No matter bout age, in fact they grow up together, JK not kid anymore. I always interest every moment they hv, sad happy jealous etc all bout them 🥰. Respect for Jinkook. I love Jinkook 💜. Hope they happy always from deep heart.
Thanks for created this video. I love that 💜
This video is for fools, stupid, blind and deaf to reality. These people should not be called a fan or ARMY.
Jin and Jungkook love that began as friends or siblings should not be judged in case it ends up like a couple relationship.
It's not Jin's fault that his relationship with Jungkook blossomed and grew like a flower built by trust and full of admiration towards each other. They can't blamed Jungkook too for loving Jin more than a brother or friend.
If you watch some videos of them as a group together all the members wants Jin attention even SG, JH and RM mostly JM and V. Not only JK. This proofs that Jin is a nice person that everyone needs in their life.
Young people nowadays is lack of attention and nurturing. They are blind from their fantasies. They even educate themselves, they easily judged the actions they saw in Jinkook. Maybe they hurt and not accepting the fact that their ships are fake and just for fanservices. They didn't know what they are doing which result for being an toxic fan or solo stan.
This video is great and also a wake up call to people who are fooled.
This video was so difficult to watch.....it was very well researched and presented, but the content is indeed a sensitive topic. I see comments almost daily about people saying negative things abt Jin & JK's bond and it hurts to see how many people agree with opinions that paint Jin as someone who took advantage of JK :/ I'm happy that this video exists to show people that those opinions are baseless and harmful accusations
Well done analysis 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 All boils down to how uneducated and disrespectful people can be. JIN is such a wonderful, humble pure-hearted and loving person that all BTS members love most especially JK 💜💜💜 Keep doing more JINKOOK videos 😍😍😍
i hope your content will be watched by many, especially those blinded by "ships"..this is well explained and i hope that a lot will be enlightened with the negative grooming and "pedo" issue they are throwing at jin. Jin doesn't deserve to be called as one.
You always give me this feeling that I should look forward to your videos. The content itself is satisfying. Its detailed by detailed. Informative. I hope everyone will watch your videos. Its an eye opener. Thank you for this. xo
Thank you for this great video. I hope it can reach those people that making accusations to jin and spreading hates everywhere. I don't have twitter and I don't want it so idk how worse is this matter. But when some channels that I followed on TH-cam had talked about this issue, it angered me so much to think that some people misinterpreted Jin's way of taking care of jk as grooming him. Seriously guys, what are they talking about, do they even know what grooming is? It is so disrespectful, how could they labelled jin as ped*? Please don't ruin jinkook's beautiful bond.
How ridiculous to think Jin would ever do anything to hurt JK , what is wrong with people, there’s nothing wrong with Jin and JK falling in love with each other, 5 years age difference is nothing, leave these boys alone, I’m 69 and I think their relationship is something SPECIAL 💜💜💜💜
Istg I've never seen such a beautiful bond like the one jinkook has... I hate to even label it. And i can't believe some people actually think in such vile ways about them. 😑
Thank you for the video thou it’s painful to watch, knowing that there r ppl who really throw the p*do & gr**ming words so easily without even trying to understand what’s that.
This is not even about a ship war.
This is a serious accusation.
Also they think they just want to drag j!n down by saying this but they also drag JK down at the same time.
They basically said that JK has no power (if that situation was real) Like, come on!?
thank you so much for this!! you are very responsible and wise to do this. i don't really have a problem with ships, but people shouldn't let that be the only way they see the members. they should be able to look past that and see that all the members have a genuine, beautiful relationship with each other. the same with jin and jungkook. when i look at them, i see a precious relationship like an older brother with his younger brother.
yes sis thanks for you video so educated Jinkook is a mature young man and Jk is not baby ,5 years is nothing Jk say he is more comfortable with older people. I think Jk so lucky get Jin and another members
Thank you Q, for making this video, i also saw one of the qrt on twitter which said that shipping jin with jk was a crime. When i saw that i cried all day and bcs of that I rarely open twitter till now. I dont understand how can they said that to jin just bcs they want to validate their ship?! before shipper we are an ARMY. I hope jinkooker doesnt start a problem like make a "thread" or anything comparing one shipper to another, because it will drag other members i dont want that happen again in the future. It really broke my heart :(
Please don't cry because of random strangers on the internet 😊 It's always good to take some time away from Twitter.
thank you for this. your videos are always profound and comprehensive. a number of comments here say that educating these haters or toxic non-army or even having them watch these kinds of videos can be an eye-opener. I don't think it will matter. a lot of these people are immature and nothing can change their minds. these people are becoming very insecure with jinkook and with jin as a member. a lot of jinkook moments are now being shown. and with the recent songs, Jin was given the spotlight he truly deserves. so the immature shippers will post all negative comments, adjectives, name-calling pertaining to Jin.
That's fine. Changing people is hard, but it doesn't mean that we must stop trying. Even if it's only one person who's changed, then this video has done its job 😊
Wow I just watched your vid idk how I missed it but OMG tysm for talking about this, we really need people like you for this fandom 💜
Thank you so much ... its so nice and clear,... i really do hope that no one will call jin this kind of label anymore...
I have come across many comments like that on Twitter... just to feel superior over damn ships, they throw words away like that...
thank you so much for this video. it was really disturbing to read all those comments on twitter... i unfollowed one of my mutual after they said its okay to ship liskook, and all the jungkook x bts member ships except jinkook and yoonkook... they didnt explain why so i assumed they have a problem with the age gap and theyd rather ship jungkook with random female idols he has no connection with than his own members thats so weird lmao
I always think shipping simply means rooting for two people who match each other very well and have a beautiful connection. So, I don't get it when people ship someone based on speculations and "hidden clues" when the two people never interact in the first place. I have no reason to root for two strangers.
@@moonbathingrite exactly 😭 i love every ship in bts but i feel so bad for jungkook for being shipped with every human being in the industry, people who he doesnt even talk with... and every time theres a bts dvd release (memories, winter package etc) theres a whole ship war always involving him throwing the words queerbaiting, fanservice (and now grooming apparently...) around.
JK doesn't queerbait someone it's just how he behaves 😢
Oh, you're right! 😳
@KookjinJinKook2015 yes they always coment Jk had a crush on IU maybe they forget IU collaboration with SG not Jk.
I literally just this week came across a so called jinkook/kookjin shipper the said " jin raised jungkook to be the perfect partner/boyfriend". I could not believe what I was seeing.
Unfortunately, that mindset also comes from the shippers... That's why I think it really needs to be addressed.
@@moonbathingrite it's either that or they saying they have been together since jk was 15 not realizing how that makes jin look. Then do the so called analyst and make the relationship seem so toxic with a few sweet moments here and their. Even worst I believe that majority of the jinkook shippers is jin bias
People that say that are Sick and Dirty Minded
Thank you for this video I leared something I understand where this hate coming from 'cause I'm a shipper and I realized I'm becoming blinded like about wanting jinkook always together(but until now I'm still convince jinkook is real I ship them in a deeper level than before now I don't want to be blind and not seeking for the fact, and I think some fans are blinded by skinship) to the point I'm not even seeking for the truth but just my assumption just to make myself happy that sometimes I feel annoyed(not hatred) to some member but I'm glad I managed to knock some sense to my mind and stop becoming toxic I respect that we all have our own opinion but is it worth it to hate one ship or member or start a ship war? We all love the boys so why can't we just ship what we want but not too much to the point we all spreading false ,hate the members and making assumption that didn't even make any sense just to prove your ship is real this is just proving how irresponsible some fans truly are We are just making our boys lives miserable I'm sad about this they are hating one member I don't like it when fans hating even one member of bangtan. And army hating one another instead of loving each other but wow this vid. is amazing !
Thanks for making this video! I'm a fan of your jinkook fanfics and recognized your pen name immediately. Educating people who throw buzzwords is a stressful effort. Jin is a good person. He doesn't deserve to be attacked like this.
Hello! I'm always happy to find someone from Ao3 💜
the age gap thing is the worst one as how those popular ships claims Jin and JK as mom and son ( they can’t accept the fact that these two are closed ones obviously and just to make their fav ship seems real)
I belong to no OTP ships but this age gap mom son usage thing by toxics are so eww. No one irl calls someone 5 yrs older a mom or a dad .
Your videos are so on point and love it 💜
a much needed video!!! your videos are always great and you speak very well. thank you
People who criticize these two especially Jin were just jealous because they have a beautiful chemistry. Also, no one in their right mind will mention p***philia just because of their age gap. Like come on people, it’s 2021!!! Shipping aside and no offence meant but Jin and Jungkook has the purest relationship.
Watched your video again after 11 month. It is so good! As are your other publications. I am really a fan of yours! Thank you!
Your hard work deserve more millions of views
Thank you! Though I think a million views for this video would be a bit concerning 😅
Why???
I've been enjoying jinkook moments from memories 2020 too much that I didn't know some people labeled jin like that...... idk perhaps they're jealous of their happy moments? Sighs some people really be saying sh*ts like that so easily.... even if they ship other ships from the group, why can't they just accept that their ships is not the only ships that matter?
yes, these toxic shippers are just insecure of jinkook which is said to be under-rated before. but now that more jinkook moments are being shown and jinkook following is significantly increasing, their ship is being threatened so they resort to bashing or worse hate comments and name-calling.
Hello, I want to point out that a subscriber once said that there's also some Jinkook accounts that instigated the fight by feeling superior and diminishing other ships, so the "bad words" are also a response to that. I just want to say that the ship war didn't only start from other ships, but also from those who support them 🙂
@@moonbathingrite I think I know which jinkooker you are talking abt . That person mentioned that they didn't actually compare any ship they are trying to show jinkook also has beautiful moments to the some hateful j1k00k shippers who were stalking there acc and harassing them calling them delusional etc via dm telling the jinkook acc owner to stop shipping jin&kook . The jinkook acc owner told them not to stalk their page but the other shippers was still harassing them. So the whole ship war was actually started by other shippers and here jinkookers got into fight with them . You are probably not so active on twitter that's why you don't know what a toxic place this fandom has become nowadays. And the sad part is, between this whole ship war only jin get dragged awfully by this hateful shippers. I just want every shippers to be mature and stop the ship war, it's annoying af .
@@Purplecandy4 sorry to say and I am not generalizing...i think these stalkers or toxic fans are from the younger group who are very active in twitter. these are the immature ones who don't think thoroughly and just say what they want without limits. i know youth nowadays are really more into people of their same age and this is the reason they idolize the maknaes and the taekook / jikook / vmin ships. they do not really know yet the realities of the world just like age gap in relationships. so they stalk and camp at jinkook channels and worse make Jin the victim of their bashing and insults.
@@abigailreyes1503 hmm maybe you are correct. Honestly this 2 group i mean t@ek00k and j1k00k are the most annoying shippers i have ever encountered. And the saddest part is jin is their punchbag. t@k00kers main target is jin for taejin and kookjin and j1k00kers main target is also jin for kookjin/jinkook. Do you know t@ek00kers went too far that they sent BH email telling them to stop performing "so what" song because it has taejin moments. They harassed jin because jin posted tae's pic on his birthday to say HBD to Tae those shippers harassed him saying that jin is thirdwhilling between Tae and Jk . now days j1k00kers are doing same thing with jin calling him p*do just because of jin&jk's interactions. It's not only for ship but the entire makneline stans has enormous amount of hatred towards jin. I am just tired seeing shitty coments as a jin bias it hurts me seeing jin getting unwanted hate from the makneline stans. What did jin ever do to them that they can't even have minimum respect for Jin. Jin has always been nice to everyone. Ppl outside of bts too always says how nice person jin is how polite respectful person jin is. I just don't understand why these solos/shippers has so much hatred for jin. They can ship/stan whoever they want but they need to stop being aggressive disrespectful towards jin.
All I know is together they make me smile laugh and cry. It's tangible respect love and friendship 💜❤️. 🙏🏽. Smile and be happy stay happy. I feel it all the way in norcal 🇺🇸💘
How can You call urself a true "ARMY" if you only love one, and try to put down the other members? Jin is my Bias but i Love them all.. Jin doesn't deserve such disgusting words from blind and narrow- minded people.😔
I think they are only jealous to Jin coz Jk love his Jin hyung the most, Jk love all his hyung but when it comes to Jin it's something different. To those haters: try to open der eyes and minds, Jk is not a baby anymore, he also more bigger and stronger than Jin, and if like other may say that he being grooming/harrassed by Jin he can totally depend himself. But FYI, jk eyes tells everything, recently he being Bolder and even not afraid to express How he truly admires and Love Jin. Bts is Our Idols, but the truth is They have their own lives behind off cam and no one can dictate them who can they choose to love and to be with at the end. So haters stop spreading hates and bad words especially to Jin coz a kind man like him doesn't deserve hates But "LOVE".. lastly, no matter what Jinkook/Kookjin relationship have, I still SUPPORT, RESPECT, AND LOVE THEM..💕💗💖
#spreadlovenothates.
#welovejin/jinkook.💕💖💗
#OurMoon 🌙
wow idk abt this, i mean how could ppl so cruel n mean n accused jin as p**o???! jin is that innocent n lovely n still accused as manipulate the members, wooow im shocked n feeling pain not just he is my ult bias but as human being how could they said those cruel to lovely jin who even bts love n adore his caring n kindness
Jungkook is not a kid he is mature enough to know that what is right for him and even if jk is 13 year old when he come seoul but now he knows what is right or wrong and even if someone do something bad to him that time why he respect, love, care for him till now he is a mature man who takes his own decision
I will always support jinkook
It's pitiful and shameful to accuse Jin of something that apparently is not, Jin is a very sweet and lowkey person selfless and kind. Jk is a strong person I doubt that he would bear mistreat so many years, so let's not mistreat anyone with hatred and wrong accusations, idols are just people who are hurt by our comments. Can you be happy and smile around your abuser??
Thank you for giving justice to Jin.....being a Jinkookers i'm very happy that their bond are so pure and they have so many moment behind the scene which we will not realise if no one point out to us thru fan make analysis etc. I never thought that people will treat that as Jin grooming/harassing JK...how absurd....im sure they are the jealous people that cant stand watching Jinkook being happy and blissful in their world....
Thank you so much for this sensitive approach to a very difficult subject. I must admit, the thought of Jin using the age gap did cross my mind, when I didn't know anything about them. Until 2014 he seems to have been close friends with s.o., who later wrote songs mainly about sex and drugs.( If it is true, what I saw.) And JIN spoke occasionally about his "dark side", leaving one to wonder, what he means by this. But as soon as I saw more of Jinkook, I changed my mind and I happily support them now.
First I didn't quite understand the concept of seniority because In western cultures we have a different approach to age, but I remembered my feelings towards senior students who already had their degrees when I was just a beginner. Although I find it strange, that Jin is "senior" to Suga who is only three month younger, I assume it gives a structure which can be helpful. I too like to believe that people are not ignorant, but just don't know, so thank you again for your insightful video.
It's not "drugs" but weed which is legal is some countries but not in South Korea. He was caught while doing it in Thailand because his friend snitched. The Korean law permitted them to proceed with the legal process although it happened in another country since he's a Korean citizen and the law still applies.
He hasn't been active as a rapper since 2017, parted ways with his old rapper crew, then worked mainly as a producer. He escaped his toxic circle and in a good supportive system now. I just want to set the facts straight to refrain from speaking ill of someone who's been through a lot and recovering. Thank you 😊
@@moonbathingrite Thank you for enlightening me. I suspected as much. Glad to hear, he escaped the toxic circle. From my personal perspective this whole thing about "drugs" (marihuana) is difficult to understand and mad. In my student days love/sex, politics and mariuhana belonged together, were part of the subculture. Must admit though, that later I met young people who were influenced in a negative way by smoking weed and had to rethink my position to some extend.
Not knowing Korea and the language makes it difficult to understand things for s.o. who is living in a western european country and from another generation. Like, what is the grey area? Tattooing is illegal, but JK and a lot of other people seem to have them. What about homosexuality? It is not illegal, but you can't have an official partnership or marry or adopt children. Not that my country is something to boost about...
Love the BTS songs which are critical of society: education, rat race, mental health. I hope so much, that they
are able to move something, with the help of someone like you who fights misconception.Thank you! By the way, the first time I heard BTS songs was on a demonstration: N.O., Not today, Fire. I will never forget.
You're right. I feel partially responsible for any possible misunderstanding because I'm the one who talked about him in Ep.05 & Ep.05 Behind of my series. There are soo many grey areas in Korea like you mentioned and most of them root in "social stigma" besides the actual law. I mentioned about homosexuality in the queerbaiting video essay in case you're interested and you haven't watched. Also, I love that you're drawn to BTS from those classics! 😊
I really admire seokjin because he's been handsome well-hening there all his friends and the most patient.
I❤️U seokjin ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
From Indonesia
Everyone talks like jin was such a big man when he joined the group. I didn't know once you turn 20 your just automatically adult. If you look on jin when he just started he was still young mentally and a bit physically. I think the two of them was just two boys who missed home and shy become good friends and then eventually become really attached to each other. I won't say they are together and I won't say they're not all I know they have a beautiful relationship that either way if perfectly fine.
It is really such in bad taste that other shippers would throw shades and negative things to Jin when in fact it is very obvious that it takes two to tango to have a relationship. Remember how good Jin is in suppressing his feelings that it even came to some points that he can wear a poker face. We see how Jungkook is/was so whipped with him till date..There are also some toxic shippers who claimed thatJin was drowning JK in 2016 when obviously they were kissing under watee and Jimin quickly covered for them. Now that Jinkook is becoming famous these delulu shippers...sorry to mention Taekook shippers, are making up stories about Jin. I am not saying this because I am a Jinkooker but notice the difference between Jinkook and taekook shippers. I am not bother if this shipper i mentioned will say we are delulu but hey remember what V said once? Get out of your imagination! So who's the delulu shippers then??
Im actually saddened that there are so called fans who would label jin in a bad way. I think they cant just accept that the ship they are supporting has less traction when it comes to proving its realness. When they saw that Jin and Jk has more chemistry, more unedited videos that almost confirm a possible relationship, these "fans" labeled Jin badly so they can ship JK to some members that they support. Its actually irresponsible and pure evil. Cant they not even see that JK is sneaky when it comes to jin before he turned 20? Its actually JK who is always vocal about his admiration for Jin in their earlier debut days. Jin was, if the rumors were true, is nursing a broken heart because of their previous bts trainee Kidoh.
Well done, fighting 💪 💜
yesss the moment in Malta its like JK sing it For Jin my heartty
I think it's because Jin is sooo transfixed in the moment, looking as if he even forgets to breathe. No j-hope, no camera, no crowd... Just Jungkook singing.
@@moonbathingrite yeah true bae
Is this when JK SANG LOST STAR?
People who had bad comment is people who jealous with Jinkook.. and they are is bad person..😠
These ignorant and stupid "armys" acting like they did something there by saying stupid stuff. The fvck you mean Jin was grooming Jk, y'all forgot they are with other members do you all really think the other members would let that happen?! Like wtf! And you better stop acting like 5 years age gap is too much! Stupid! You all are disrespecting Seokjin to this extent just so you can go on with your ships! I wanna throw hands, some delusional shippers are really disgusting! Seokjin can pull anyone he wants if he wants to and my man has been nothing but good to all his members and some you all really have the audacity to accuse him! Fvck you all!
very true. these are not real army. these are immature, toxic and insecure people. really disgusting. and you're right. Jin has been so giving for the members especially the maknae group, especially with JK who has a special place in his heart. and I would think that even if he has proven himself with his singing and dancing, he did not complain about his little line distribution in a lot of BTS song because it is okay with him for the maknae vocals to shine. and then these toxic fans pay him with disrespect.
People should really be careful throwing such words around for any person, if they don't know the truth. Most are not even mature enough to even completely understand what the words mean. This is a serious issue.
In fact that Jin waited till Jungkook had the legal age so they could date in private end first time they have an intimate moment when they take the shower together in a hotel on osak where 2016 when Jungkook turn adult. Jungkook said i promised you to grow up fast to Jin. They where in love already when Junkook was under the age but Jin waited for him to get the legal age. Jin did everything right he waited to the legal age. Jin end Jungkook are the most beautiful couple in the whole wild world hom can they claim that? They don't know about love they have any experience of being in a relationship or being in love. I will believe in Jin end Jungkook as a romantic couple end i will support them. 👨❤️👨
Hello, I'm sorry but I'm not speculating about those on the video. Those things that you mentioned are private stuffs that were shared between them, so fans can't know for sure. The only ones who could/should speak about those are Jin & Jungkook themselves.
@@moonbathingrite Thanks then I know that.
Sorry but those are just assumptions. Respect for their special bond for me is better..😍😍😍💜💜💜
heiii u're back.. thank you for making this video.. i'm enjoying ur video... hi from indonesia
hello!
@@moonbathingrite are you from ind?
Thanks for this video. I am not aware of this becoz i have yt and fb acct only. We cannot judge a person on what we have seen and knew on the surface by watching videos etc becoz we do not know the truth and circumstances. To like and love somebody, artist etc is a choice. If you have nothing good to say shut that beautiful mouth and pretty brain of yours. Educate yourselves to treat people fairly and as a fan/s accept ur idol/s for who and what they are. If you have unpleasant judgment of a person or of others, something is wrong with you. Look at yourself on a mirror and if broken repair or have it repaired. Our world needs a positive thinking and productive young generation.JINKOOK had and has done a lot of good deeds and everybody knows and I do not need to mention, except you judgmental beings. What about you? Think about it becoz it is not yet too late. Okay? Good words makes good people😇👍
same here. i am only in YT and FB. i have twitter but only browse through some sites like Billboard and BH but not making comments. it is a reality that those active in twitter are the younger generation who are mostly immature and toxic. but I am not generalizing.
labelling happens when people believe they can make diagnosis, label just because they read, learned about a certain label or disorder. They play the authority to use it on people. This is problematic because just because of that small/miniscule knowledge, you destroy people and even their future... i hope people dont lightly throw diagnosis and labels on people especially if they dont have the education/training enough to do so. Thank you for this vid. I hope this will not only educate others out there but also make them realize effects of their behavior on people.
What baffles me the most is this mostly happened just because of a ship. Just because JK is closer to Jin than their preferred member. Are they even Army to be able to say these things? No one has a problem accepting V and Jimin are soulmates, but when it comes to Jin & JK, people are ruder (although Jimin also receives a lot of hate because of ship wars 😢). It's crazy seeing how much people would demonise them for something so unnecessary.
I saw this type of comment from long ago..finally u said ...negative mindset people they r ..some r another ship fan....
missed u! csnt wait to dive into this discussion
Thank you so much for this