I was in Cebu at Ayala Mall and my wife was getting her hair done. I was wandering around the mall and a young lady approached me. After a minute or two of small talk started to move on and she asked if I wanted her phone number. I told her I was married and she said “I don’t care”. I thought to myself she might not care but my wife cares a lot, and I headed back to the hair salon.
A woman once explained it to me. You follow your path and a matching woman will be there. If you like hiking, you will meet someone that like’s hiking while hiking. You like swimming, those girls are at the beach not the bar. You like drinking, those girls are at the bar. Follow your path.
Sorry for everyone's bad experiences with women from my country,I myself am not a control freak like most women from my country.I married a Spanish guy and he's head of household and I ask for permission if I want to buy anything with his credit card,I run nothing in the home and I know my place as a woman.Nice video and well done, much love from the USA,in the state of Arizona
Respect for you. As Jesus Said, the man is the head of the household, men should not misunderstood this by controlling his wife. Both should love and respect each other, each has his own function I'm the family...
@@thepositiveside2197 Thank you 😊God bless you 🙏.I am Filipina but different than the average Filipina,I was born in Manila but spent most of my life in the USA, I am not loud nor am I comfortable when other Filipinas at a party get too loud.I am one of the few doctile Filipinas who would shush some loud ones and another good trait I learned living in the USA is not to participate in Kwentohan or gossip,I don't believe in ruining someone's reputation with my mouth.I am Filipina but this is the reason I don't hang around other Filipinas due to them wanting to talk so much, I prefer the company of other Americans because they don't gossip as much as the Filipinas.
Monica you are a credit not only to Filipinas but to women everywhere. I honor you and respect your husband for having excellent taste in women, great wisdom & great blessings from God. Thank you for sharing your story. I especially appreciate the tidbit about gossip.
Great vid! My checklist was no kids, never married, college educated, good career, small family, equal attractiveness as myself, etc. Happily married for 11 years now and we live as equals. Most foreigners go for the youngest, hottest piece of tail they can get. Then they wonder why things didn't go well.
Filipina’s are generally reserved, a higher end Filipina 99% of the time is not going to approach you ..unless you look like Chris Hemsworth…an attached Filipina will not trade ya for CH if she’s committed to you though.They are extremely loyal..dating is no difference from western countries, there’s just more opportunities in phil.
Two different experiences. Me - my wife is from a rural part of the Philippines. Over the past 20 years she has taught me about love and family and she has managed to be continuously promoted and earns over $200k/year which is slightly more than me and not bad for a girl who is not from the states. She is also an excellent mother, again, teaching me how to do better as my own family experience was not the best. My friend - My friend met a good girl from a rural part of the Philippines too, but he said he wanted a "wild girl". So he moved on and met a girl from metro manila. She gave him sex and attention and they married. She refused to work and chose to spend her days at home playing poker on her phone and chatting with men in the middle east. She would drive to the casino 3 hours away and sleep in a hotel alone and she continued doing this when they had kids, leaving the husband who was already working hard to tend to the kids for the two days when he should have been resting. I walked into their home one day to see their youngest child with wrists tied to his highchair screaming his head off while she sat on the sofa playing poker. All sex stopped and all signs of affection stopped after the kids were born. My friend gave up hoping for a change and has accepted he will have to just watch porn. I blame him of course, he let it happen, but this is a warning to others and yes it can happen and does happen in America too. Choose carefully, choose wisely, think with the big head not the little one because the little one has no brain.
Especially good advice for people who are shy or insecure. I have seen so many foreigners or expats come out here who don't have maybe the best social skills and have come looking for love. Very rare to find it in the bars and clubs, and especially after Covid a lot of freelancers hanging around, these guys are looking in the wrong places. Guys get caught in the trap of feeling they are saving someone when really they are just taken advantage of. The Philippines is a beautiful country with a great culture and some of the most giving people in the world, but the poverty divide is huge so always advise caution first. Take your time getting to know someone as the traditional courtship still does exist here for sure as you mentioned in the video. I think good advise is to take up some hobbies and you can meet some great people with similar interests and strike up a conversation.
Opportunist do not care if you are married. This weekend we was clubbing at Cortes Ibiza in Quezon City. You will be amazed how Filipinas were hovered over our VIP table and asking if I had an open marriage. They do not care and are DTF.
He 💯 Right people. In 2019 I when to Robinson Mall in Manila to buy a new phone 📱 🔌 charger and as I was waiting in line, this beautiful Filipina approach me. I thought 💭 she was gonna ask me for money 💵 but she never did... We hang out at mall walking around, she ride with me to my hotel room 🛏️ 😜 and yes we had fun. To this day I still don't understand what her intentions was with me but I got to say, that was one of my best experience ever.
I was at Greenhills Mall in Manila this past March. My wife was several booths away, looking for bargains without her American husband being too close by to accidently jack up the prices for her. Two young sales ladies in a booth invited me to sit down and have a sample of the massage machine they were selling. I did, they introduced themselves, and I introduced myself back to them. There were two ladies, probably in their mid-30s, standing by the side of the booth. They both rushed over and introduced themselves to me. They certainly were not Booth workers, just people standing around. I smiled, held up my hand and pointed to my wedding ring. It did not mean a thing. They kept aggressively trying to talk to me and strike up some kind of conversation. I found it quite funny. They only backed off when my wife showed up to see what trouble I had gotten myself into. 😁😁
Eye contact is all you need to know. They will "talk" make 1st contact with the eyes. Works great in the malls. If see "locks in" with the eye contact, approach. If not interested she will immediately turn her head away from you.
Go ahead Jay and Kay. Keep dropping that knowledge on the new comers and future comers. Your sound advice is very much needed, to avoid future headaches and heartbreaks. 🤙🏽
I chat with a girl for 2 weeks met her at the airport she met me at a Chinese restaurant with her whole family, they were offering me nice crab and lobster and everything I said wow these are nice people. But little did I know I was the one that was going to pay the bill at the end and it was 10,000 pesos in 1 hour. As approximately $200 on food at the restaurant with her family.
If you’re looking for woman for sexual matters you will find it i mean there’s alot of it around the world but if you’re decent enough to look for decent woman there’s alot of it around the world too. I mean scammers are everywhere around the world. Most of them approach you for money. It’s not about nationality but necessity.
Basically, you get the person that you deserve mo matter what country you are in. Like don't go looking for a wife in bars and depressed areas and expect a good and honest relationship from people who seems to be a interested in you.
Jay thank you for this information and my fiance of 3YEARS told me, when I finally come to cebu, she going to be with me everywhere I go and I don't mind, again, blessings jay and blessings to the first lady 💖 amen 🙏
I love your videos so much because you give so much great advice I am currently in a relationship with a Filipina girl and with all your good advice you keep me on my A-game to watch out for all the red flags
My best friend who is married to a Filipino Introduced me to his wife childhood friend and that's how I got to know my wife and married her it's been 10 year now much happiness and love for she and i
As an Afro-Latino that used to live in Hawaii and who had a Filipina girlfriend, I can say for the most part your description of Filipina character is on point. Also, Filipinas indeed are old fashion and love courtship. In this day and age with soo much fakeness and lack of the acknowledgement of gender roles, Filipinas are a hidden gem because they are highly family orientated and very feminine. Good video Bro.
Man that's a bomb shirt I wish I was there so I can get me some clothes again. This is an interesting subject because I experienced a lot of that before I found me a good one. It took me 10 years to realize what was good in the Philippines.
I like to keep a low profile here Jay I'm really not interested in being involved with a Filipina and I look more like the people here so they don't really know I'm not from here a lot of research has to be done before starting a relationship here or anywhere else for that matter
I like you met my wife on line from the Philippines after three trips to the Philippines including a three months stay there thanks to COVID closing the country . Three months living with her and her family there. Convinced me that I was blessed. BUT DO BE CAREFUL. There are a lot of great Filipinas, but like everywhere there some who aren't genuine. Great video.
That’s good to know. It’s also good to know that when you do initiate with them, they ain’t going to give you the stink eye or outright ignore you like the States. The background of your vid reminds me of Hawaii.
Let's be real, as a native Filipino, we usually know that it's either these girls came from bars or super poor to find an old foreigner guy, be extra careful and don't assume too much lol.
Large age gaps are mostly unrealistic and unfair. It’s probably not going to work. These older guys are better off with an older widow. She will look 10 years younger anyway and will be more compatible.
Yes that’s true, they are not going to fall all over you but when you approach them the response and chances of getting a date are higher than in your own country
Last time I was there in 2019, I was with my asawa, who was on a line ordering something while I stood back and off to the side. This really cute young lady stood on line as well but close to where I was standing and I could feel that she wanted me to approach. If they are interested they can make it known in subtle ways but the key is you have to be aware of it. There is a difference between a woman being nice or helpful and one who is actually looking for something
Every Filipina loves to be courted...respected and love not just her but her whole family. You will have to prove that you really love and care for her for lifetime. We don't need expensive things just a simple life, your love and your time.
In my 9 years living in the Philippines i have never had a Filipina come up to me and hit on me, my experience , Filipina are mostly shy, but they are very easy to get a date from and talk to , in the west most girls especially the pretty ones are actually rude to you if you even say hi, Filipina are friendly, it’s easy to find a pretty Filipina to date, very easy . But you have to have a personality and do most of the work.
@@emiliomagnus940 my foreigner husband earns well. I earn well too. It’s the other way around. My families are earning well and give more gifts to my children and him. Most important he earns to feed his family and schooling. They don’t need his gifts, just provide his family welfare. Many I knew that don’t rely on foreigner husband to feed them. Filipinas are independent and work. Don’t generalize. Foreigners picking up anybody in the street, so what you expect?
Visiting the Philippines is Definitely one of the Top things on My list to Do. Hopefully within the next 6 months I Will be able to do just that. Shalom Fam ✊🏾🧔🏾
I guess the law in the Philippines should be more stricter and if women who is doing a prostitution should be jailed. Because not all Filipina are not easy to get and if foreigner just want or looking for a girl here just for a night out don't do it here in the Philippines go to other country where prostitution is legal.
I’m surprised to hear that! I always thought that foreign men were looking for a one;or two night stand with a loose young woman for a few hours of a sexual encounter.
Countries like Philippines,Thailand,Brazil,Colombia,Dominican republic are places where most men who do not have street smarts or experience with women will get taken advantage of because the first women they see they fall in love, Or bring them back to the USA then the foreign women become “modern woman westernized” and take him to divorce court and then leave the USA with the money she took from the divorce and then she’s in her home country retired, With possibly a new boyfriend or old boyfriend she had in her country that these American men do not know about. If you want a foreign women find her in the middle or upper class areas and make sure shes not apart of the club life and has a job, is family oriented and does not want to come to the USA, and wants to get married and stay in her own country and not leave the culture.
Just found your channel. YEP 👍 right on…. The Filipina culture and the Filipina ways of socialization are definitely shy . As old school Vegas guy there is a saying “when you look around the room and you can’t find the MARK your it”.
Like I said before J. Guys should try the asking for directions intro, then talking alittle with her and coming cleaning why you spoke with. Also try the speaking with women at high hotels. They a usually prettier because they higher for looks. Tell you gonna check out but you think she is beautiful/ pretty and you would like to get to know her, and get her number. Give it a try, it works.
Hahaha! Good advice and they are educated as well and decent though not all are decent.maybe. Filipinas are getting liberated when it comes to sex. Be careful of Aids too.
The genuine Filipinas I met when I first video chat with them they are so shy they hide their faces. They either zoom in way too close or just show half of their face. Or cover their face with their hands. And they are extremely beautiful it’s not like they are ugly and trying to hide it. It’s just shyness until after a few calls and they get comfortable talking with you
Man love the video clips haha Dont be a menace to society while drinking your juice in the hood. Love that movie. My personal opinion, woman that approach men are working girls very confident and probably high maintenance woman like you said, woman shooting their shot The only thing that falls in your lap is headaches here lol
Y'all are making this too complicated. If you stare at a Filipina She knows you like her. If you smile at her And she smiles back go say hi. It's that easy. 😎
Lol i feel you i go nowhere in the phillipines without my wife with me she is a good women i never had issuses with that family thing i am 65 she is 59 been toghter for 11 years she does not let her family take advantage of me
So....basically treat them LIKE WOMEN in a Traditional sense?....be polite ...courteous....a gentleman...you know...everything the women in the US DON'T want us to be?...Perfect!...packing my bags and heading there in 2024!! (A brother's gotta save up that flight money1...hahah!)
If a guy wants a Filipina to fall into his lap, all he has to do is go to a Gogo bar. Filipinas will definitely fall into your lap. It's going to cost you in drinks and or a bar fine, if that's your thing, but a Filipina will definitely fall into your lap at a Gogo bar. The mamasan will even bring girls to you on a silver platter.
I will like to meet you in person hopefully very soon; I just went back to US cos I lost my dad unfortunately my asawa is still in Phillipine: As soon as I am back to Phillipine I will surely message you I am one of your dedicated followers and I still need more knowledge in regards to Phillipine
They are also shy bc they underestimate themselves. No matter how beautiful they are they think you deserve someone even more attractive just by being a nice successful foreigner. They will be flattered and very happy and surprised you chose them instead of the hundreds of others. They have their weird beauty standards like light skin and pointy nose. So they could be the beautiful cute girl next door type and think they are average or so bc over there they are. They have a different set of standards for Beauty
Yeah! When women try to appraoch you get your attention and try desperately that's a red flag don't get mistaken hooking up with her because they see you as a opportunity, they like you because they like you who you are but they like you because of what you can give to them. If you want to have you want to have traditional woman you have to be a traditional mandon't bring your western antics because you might get a woman that're trying to avoid. Start with courting stage,dating, knowing her.
Jay, I would sing & believe me the only thing that would approach me is a howling dog or a wolf! Lol! Hire me as a your sidekick singer & you guys wont have to worry having a woman approach you for any reason other than for earplugs! Lol, ha ha ha! Jay & Kay coming correct with common sense knowledge yet again! Adios!
It is ur choice to get a decent filipina..they are not easy to get..u need to take a lot of effort...filipinas who grab their opportunities to u most of them dont have work and scammer..
If they talk about money very soon then pull the plug fellas. They might have one eye on your wallet and the other eye on some other guy's trouser snake. stay alert gents
The two I talked to were crazy if that's what they are I don't want one. These weren't street girls one was province girl and the other from cebu very nice and normal at first but turned in to jealous freaks making things up in their head.
Philipina's, they have a way of saying yes, which is to raise their eyebrows. If you catch her eye, raise your eyebrows to her and watch her reaction. If she raises her eyebrows too or smiles, start talking to her.
Most women in almost every country usually don't approach a man. The ones that do, maybe are opportunists or workers or not. This isn't a rule in the Philippines. It's just a rule in life. There is no difference in women around the world in this regard. Women in America generally don't approach men either.
A show idea- Jay do a show on (Johnny Bravo) tips for guys that struggle speaking to women LOL J. Bravo tips may be what is missing for guys coming the with no game or swag. LOL Jay think about it.
In my whole adult life, I've been approached about 2x while walking in the mall. Both times they offered massage service with happy ending. Getting approached like that from out of the blue is so out of character for a Pinay, that as a local pinoy I'm automatically guarded that her accomplices might jump me from behind. She was in civilian clothes, there was no massage establishment in sight -- that means she's a freelancer.
If a Filipina approaches you as a man.............. she's mostly trying to solicit money from you asking for a donation or help but will give you a free gift of a ballpen after you give your donation.
That is true. Filipina (women) don't talk to strangers right away. only women on same gender they will approach. Be careful when fillipino (men /women) ask money at first meeting... red flags🚩 because true fillipino values will not ask money even they helped you. In this modern times of generation they looked foreigners as possible people can help their entire family problems specially thru financial aspect. Be careful. True Filipina is independent, had career/ work and have money on her own.
It's phenomenon in the Philippines. Some ladies just want to take you from your women or some ladies want you to share her with your wife/Gf. Yes it's about the ATM or sperm.
I have a question. After marrying your Filipina wife Did you apply for citizenship? Or are you still on a tourist visa for 36 months? I see that sometimes people have to leave and come back on visa runs… Is that because they choose not to Marry? Just curious. Excuse my ignorance in this issue.
also be careful guys when filipinas approach you. It's unnatural on average in general and they might be looking for help instead of love. be aware.
Peter true, see what I wrote above ..you are correct 100%
“Help” ? You mean $$. Not help.
@@eigobike3929 yeah they need help with money situation. it's still help at end result
I was in Cebu at Ayala Mall and my wife was getting her hair done. I was wandering around the mall and a young lady approached me. After a minute or two of small talk started to move on and she asked if I wanted her phone number. I told her I was married and she said “I don’t care”. I thought to myself she might not care but my wife cares a lot, and I headed back to the hair salon.
A woman once explained it to me. You follow your path and a matching woman will be there. If you like hiking, you will meet someone that like’s hiking while hiking. You like swimming, those girls are at the beach not the bar. You like drinking, those girls are at the bar. Follow your path.
Love that Jozef. It makes perfect sense. Live one's life, we don't directly control everything by worrying and pushing.
I totally agree
Sorry for everyone's bad experiences with women from my country,I myself am not a control freak like most women from my country.I married a Spanish guy and he's head of household and I ask for permission if I want to buy anything with his credit card,I run nothing in the home and I know my place as a woman.Nice video and well done, much love from the USA,in the state of Arizona
Respect for you. As Jesus Said, the man is the head of the household, men should not misunderstood this by controlling his wife. Both should love and respect each other, each has his own function I'm the family...
@@thepositiveside2197 Thank you 😊God bless you 🙏.I am Filipina but different than the average Filipina,I was born in Manila but spent most of my life in the USA, I am not loud nor am I comfortable when other Filipinas at a party get too loud.I am one of the few doctile Filipinas who would shush some loud ones and another good trait I learned living in the USA is not to participate in Kwentohan or gossip,I don't believe in ruining someone's reputation with my mouth.I am Filipina but this is the reason I don't hang around other Filipinas due to them wanting to talk so much, I prefer the company of other Americans because they don't gossip as much as the Filipinas.
Monica you are a credit not only to Filipinas but to women everywhere. I honor you and respect your husband for having excellent taste in women, great wisdom & great blessings from God. Thank you for sharing your story. I especially appreciate the tidbit about gossip.
Great vid! My checklist was no kids, never married, college educated, good career, small family, equal attractiveness as myself, etc. Happily married for 11 years now and we live as equals. Most foreigners go for the youngest, hottest piece of tail they can get. Then they wonder why things didn't go well.
Man if everyone was as logical as you, we would way less problems in the western world.
Excellent point in how to identify an authentic Filipina vs. one with the intentions of only targeting your wallet.
Yes there has been lies spread that it will fall in your lap
Filipina’s are generally reserved, a higher end Filipina 99% of the time is not going to approach you ..unless you look like Chris Hemsworth…an attached Filipina will not trade ya for CH if she’s committed to you though.They are extremely loyal..dating is no difference from western countries, there’s just more opportunities in phil.
I seen unattractive men who been hooking up with the hottest filipina chicks in the Philippines guess it depends on the person 🤷🏽♂️
Oh, yeah, they do approach you dude. No matter how old you are. They are desperate to get out from poverty.
Two different experiences.
Me - my wife is from a rural part of the Philippines. Over the past 20 years she has taught me about love and family and she has managed to be continuously promoted and earns over $200k/year which is slightly more than me and not bad for a girl who is not from the states. She is also an excellent mother, again, teaching me how to do better as my own family experience was not the best.
My friend - My friend met a good girl from a rural part of the Philippines too, but he said he wanted a "wild girl". So he moved on and met a girl from metro manila. She gave him sex and attention and they married. She refused to work and chose to spend her days at home playing poker on her phone and chatting with men in the middle east. She would drive to the casino 3 hours away and sleep in a hotel alone and she continued doing this when they had kids, leaving the husband who was already working hard to tend to the kids for the two days when he should have been resting. I walked into their home one day to see their youngest child with wrists tied to his highchair screaming his head off while she sat on the sofa playing poker. All sex stopped and all signs of affection stopped after the kids were born. My friend gave up hoping for a change and has accepted he will have to just watch porn. I blame him of course, he let it happen, but this is a warning to others and yes it can happen and does happen in America too. Choose carefully, choose wisely, think with the big head not the little one because the little one has no brain.
Well obviously he is retarded for marrying her. But banging that type of girl is great dude.
lol sounds like the dude who wanted a "wild girl " got what he wanted.
Especially good advice for people who are shy or insecure. I have seen so many foreigners or expats come out here who don't have maybe the best social skills and have come looking for love. Very rare to find it in the bars and clubs, and especially after Covid a lot of freelancers hanging around, these guys are looking in the wrong places. Guys get caught in the trap of feeling they are saving someone when really they are just taken advantage of. The Philippines is a beautiful country with a great culture and some of the most giving people in the world, but the poverty divide is huge so always advise caution first. Take your time getting to know someone as the traditional courtship still does exist here for sure as you mentioned in the video. I think good advise is to take up some hobbies and you can meet some great people with similar interests and strike up a conversation.
Yes I suggest that as well
Yup! Same values, hobbies etc.
THIS IS THE BEST ADVICE I HAVE HEARD FOR ANYONE SINGLE LOOKING FOR A LIFE-MATE IN THE PHILIPPINES... 15 YEAR EXPAT.
Opportunist do not care if you are married. This weekend we was clubbing at Cortes Ibiza in Quezon City. You will be amazed how Filipinas were hovered over our VIP table and asking if I had an open marriage. They do not care and are DTF.
Yes if you’re looking for that it will come to your table literally hahahaha
He 💯 Right people. In 2019 I when to Robinson Mall in Manila to buy a new phone 📱 🔌 charger and as I was waiting in line, this beautiful Filipina approach me. I thought 💭 she was gonna ask me for money 💵 but she never did...
We hang out at mall walking around, she ride with me to my hotel room 🛏️ 😜 and yes we had fun.
To this day I still don't understand what her intentions was with me but I got to say, that was one of my best experience ever.
I was at Greenhills Mall in Manila this past March. My wife was several booths away, looking for bargains without her American husband being too close by to accidently jack up the prices for her. Two young sales ladies in a booth invited me to sit down and have a sample of the massage machine they were selling. I did, they introduced themselves, and I introduced myself back to them. There were two ladies, probably in their mid-30s, standing by the side of the booth. They both rushed over and introduced themselves to me. They certainly were not Booth workers, just people standing around. I smiled, held up my hand and pointed to my wedding ring. It did not mean a thing. They kept aggressively trying to talk to me and strike up some kind of conversation. I found it quite funny. They only backed off when my wife showed up to see what trouble I had gotten myself into. 😁😁
They were on the hunt lol
@@TheBlackFilipino For sure
Correct
@Rick Welcome to the Philippines Bro 🏝️🌴😂 lol . The hustle is real out there.
Choose very wisely listen with your eyes 👀.most are not looking for love they're only looking for monetary enrichment. go with the flow .
Good info man! Shoutout the the Filipina First Lady for her insight as well!
I would say overall I agree with you. But girls still do stare and flirt in certain ways from a distance.
Eye contact is all you need to know. They will "talk" make 1st contact with the eyes. Works great in the malls. If see "locks in" with the eye contact, approach. If not interested she will immediately turn her head away from you.
@@KennyInSubic for sure!! They have several different ways they act when they like your appearance.
Exactly that’s how it comes to you.
You are right about that Kenny
Hahaha! Yes but once you approach, they run away! Thats a girl gem I should say. You run after her hahaha
Go ahead Jay and Kay. Keep dropping that knowledge on the new comers and future comers.
Your sound advice is very much needed, to avoid future headaches and heartbreaks. 🤙🏽
Thanks 🙏 for watching
I am happy she agreed to be in the video
I chat with a girl for 2 weeks met her at the airport she met me at a Chinese restaurant with her whole family, they were offering me nice crab and lobster and everything I said wow these are nice people. But little did I know I was the one that was going to pay the bill at the end and it was 10,000 pesos in 1 hour. As approximately $200 on food at the restaurant with her family.
Wow that’s what happens sometimes
Never let them meet you at the Airport. One of the oldest tricks in the book. You got off with a $200 lesson.
@@TheBlackFilipino They want to control your movement and also make sure you don't meet a 19 yo hottie.
If you’re looking for woman for sexual matters you will find it i mean there’s alot of it around the world but if you’re decent enough to look for decent woman there’s alot of it around the world too. I mean scammers are everywhere around the world. Most of them approach you for money. It’s not about nationality but necessity.
Well, you got a story out of it at least…
Basically, you get the person that you deserve mo matter what country you are in. Like don't go looking for a wife in bars and depressed areas and expect a good and honest relationship from people who seems to be a interested in you.
Careful too because sometimes if she's pretty and too pretty she might not be what you think she is.
Yeah
Jay thank you for this information and my fiance of 3YEARS told me, when I finally come to cebu, she going to be with me everywhere I go and I don't mind, again, blessings jay and blessings to the first lady 💖 amen 🙏
Super sound advice brother... That could go far in any country
I love your videos so much because you give so much great advice I am currently in a relationship with a Filipina girl and with all your good advice you keep me on my A-game to watch out for all the red flags
My best friend who is married to a Filipino Introduced me to his wife childhood friend and that's how I got to know my wife and married her it's been 10 year now much happiness and love for she and i
As an Afro-Latino that used to live in Hawaii and who had a Filipina girlfriend, I can say for the most part your description of Filipina character is on point. Also, Filipinas indeed are old fashion and love courtship. In this day and age with soo much fakeness and lack of the acknowledgement of gender roles, Filipinas are a hidden gem because they are highly family orientated and very feminine. Good video Bro.
Man that's a bomb shirt I wish I was there so I can get me some clothes again. This is an interesting subject because I experienced a lot of that before I found me a good one. It took me 10 years to realize what was good in the Philippines.
Contact me Mark theblackfilipino@gmail.com
Keeping it 💯as always. Keep bringing the knowledge to the masses. I've been enjoying the Philippines 🇵🇭since may 9th when I touched down
Congratulations on your visit
I like to keep a low profile here Jay I'm really not interested in being involved with a Filipina and I look more like the people here so they don't really know I'm not from here a lot of research has to be done before starting a relationship here or anywhere else for that matter
I like you met my wife on line from the Philippines after three trips to the Philippines including a three months stay there thanks to COVID closing the country . Three months living with her and her family there. Convinced me that I was blessed. BUT DO BE CAREFUL. There are a lot of great Filipinas, but like everywhere there some who aren't genuine. Great video.
That’s good to know. It’s also good to know that when you do initiate with them, they ain’t going to give you the stink eye or outright ignore you like the States.
The background of your vid reminds me of Hawaii.
Let's be real, as a native Filipino, we usually know that it's either these girls came from bars or super poor to find an old foreigner guy, be extra careful and don't assume too much lol.
Large age gaps are mostly unrealistic and unfair. It’s probably not going to work. These older guys are better off with an older widow. She will look 10 years younger anyway and will be more compatible.
Yes that’s true, they are not going to fall all over you but when you approach them the response and chances of getting a date are higher than in your own country
Oh yes
Can't wait for the fall to get out to the Philippines. First time seeing your content , excellent and Insightful video 👌🏼
Thanks 🙏 for watching
this is why i go for the older buttered faced one's that are chubby with stretchmarks. after all... its just a hot poke in the end.
Agreed with her 💯 % the girl will approach you wanted something from you. Filipinas are more reserved.
Focus on yourself, find happiness for yourself, the women will follow. Focus on yourself gentleman, that's sexy. Nice video bro.
Another great video from a brotha. I plan to follow your advice and keep the videos coming.
Joseph
Good info, I will be careful in all of my encounters.
Life is a funny game of cat and Mouse. Thats why I choose to be a wolf
Lol
I totally agree with you on that Jay...
Yea sir
another PSA from TBF!!! its truth if you dont heed this then you have only yourself to blame
Philippines is the last place left for an older man to find a nice younger life partner.
However, you can screw up.
Last time I was there in 2019, I was with my asawa, who was on a line ordering something while I stood back and off to the side. This really cute young lady stood on line as well but close to where I was standing and I could feel that she wanted me to approach. If they are interested they can make it known in subtle ways but the key is you have to be aware of it. There is a difference between a woman being nice or helpful and one who is actually looking for something
Indicators of interest
Yes that’s how it comes
Right on, those who keep themselves aware will spot things right away and my eyes and ears are always on alert.
Great advice.
Thanks 🙏 for watching
Every Filipina loves to be courted...respected and love not just her but her whole family.
You will have to prove that you really love and care for her for lifetime.
We don't need expensive things just a simple life, your love and your time.
In my 9 years living in the Philippines i have never had a Filipina come up to me and hit on me, my experience , Filipina are mostly shy, but they are very easy to get a date from and talk to , in the west most girls especially the pretty ones are actually rude to you if you even say hi, Filipina are friendly, it’s easy to find a pretty Filipina to date, very easy . But you have to have a personality and do most of the work.
if a filipina will like a foreigner that means she needs a financial saviour. That's the reality
@@emiliomagnus940 I've also been to the Phillipines 3 times.....Still in the Phillipines.And I'll add there Family never ask me for Anything.
@@emiliomagnus940 my foreigner husband earns well. I earn well too. It’s the other way around. My families are earning well and give more gifts to my children and him. Most important he earns to feed his family and schooling. They don’t need his gifts, just provide his family welfare. Many I knew that don’t rely on foreigner husband to feed them. Filipinas are independent and work. Don’t generalize. Foreigners picking up anybody in the street, so what you expect?
@@marierocher4422 are you living in the Philippines at the present or in other countries?
@@emiliomagnus940 other country. What make it different?
Visiting the Philippines is Definitely one of the Top things on My list to Do. Hopefully within the next 6 months I Will be able to do just that. Shalom Fam ✊🏾🧔🏾
MLSO may do just that
I guess the law in the Philippines should be more stricter and if women who is doing a prostitution should be jailed. Because not all Filipina are not easy to get and if foreigner just want or looking for a girl here just for a night out don't do it here in the Philippines go to other country where prostitution is legal.
I’m surprised to hear that!
I always thought that foreign men were looking for a one;or two night stand with a loose young woman for a few hours of a sexual encounter.
Countries like Philippines,Thailand,Brazil,Colombia,Dominican republic are places where most men who do not have street smarts or experience with women will get taken advantage of because the first women they see they fall in love, Or bring them back to the USA then the foreign women become “modern woman westernized” and take him to divorce court and then leave the USA with the money she took from the divorce and then she’s in her home country retired, With possibly a new boyfriend or old boyfriend she had in her country that these American men do not know about. If you want a foreign women find her in the middle or upper class areas and make sure shes not apart of the club life and has a job, is family oriented and does not want to come to the USA, and wants to get married and stay in her own country and not leave the culture.
Right on point! She is a gem really. Guys this a great advice of all the advice. :)
Wow such tunnel vision concept of people.
Thanks for the advice. One day I'll be there I hope.
You will do it. Freedom will ring one day.
Just found your channel. YEP 👍 right on…. The Filipina culture and the Filipina ways of socialization are definitely shy . As old school Vegas guy there is a saying “when you look around the room and you can’t find the MARK your it”.
hmm good info Jay, yes i will look out for those foreign
hunters
Like I said before J. Guys should try the asking for directions intro, then talking alittle with her and coming cleaning why you spoke with. Also try the speaking with women at high hotels. They a usually prettier because they higher for looks. Tell you gonna check out but you think she is beautiful/ pretty and you would like to get to know her, and get her number. Give it a try, it works.
Hahaha! Good advice and they are educated as well and decent though not all are decent.maybe. Filipinas are getting liberated when it comes to sex. Be careful of Aids too.
You and Kay are special people. God bless you.
Thanks 🙏 for that
@@TheBlackFilipino My pleasure.
Heading over there would love to meet you.
Great channel. Appreciate you man.
Thanks 🙏 for watching Greg
Brother jay in the near future im getting your merch z again blessings always 🙏
The genuine Filipinas I met when I first video chat with them they are so shy they hide their faces. They either zoom in way too close or just show half of their face. Or cover their face with their hands. And they are extremely beautiful it’s not like they are ugly and trying to hide it. It’s just shyness until after a few calls and they get comfortable talking with you
so nice having Kay on this video on her experiences and recommendations. Great video Jay! :)
I am happy she did it
Man love the video clips haha Dont be a menace to society while drinking your juice in the hood. Love that movie.
My personal opinion, woman that approach men are
working girls
very confident and probably high maintenance woman
like you said, woman shooting their shot
The only thing that falls in your lap is headaches here lol
Y'all are making this too complicated. If you stare at a Filipina She knows you like her. If you smile at her And she smiles back go say hi. It's that easy. 😎
Lol i feel you i go nowhere in the phillipines without my wife with me she is a good women i never had issuses with that family thing i am 65 she is 59 been toghter for 11 years she does not let her family take advantage of me
Thats very interesting topic men!
So....basically treat them LIKE WOMEN in a Traditional sense?....be polite ...courteous....a gentleman...you know...everything the women in the US DON'T want us to be?...Perfect!...packing my bags and heading there in 2024!! (A brother's gotta save up that flight money1...hahah!)
lol exactly
If a guy wants a Filipina to fall into his lap, all he has to do is go to a Gogo bar. Filipinas will definitely fall into your lap. It's going to cost you in drinks and or a bar fine, if that's your thing, but a Filipina will definitely fall into your lap at a Gogo bar. The mamasan will even bring girls to you on a silver platter.
I will like to meet you in person hopefully very soon; I just went back to US cos I lost my dad unfortunately my asawa is still in Phillipine: As soon as I am back to Phillipine I will surely message you
I am one of your dedicated followers and I still need more knowledge in regards to Phillipine
It's true that life will come to you if you're patient and take the trash in your life out to the curb.
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Guys, you have to take it as it is. The pandemic did not improved girls lives, quite opposite of it. They can not eat their shyness.
Lol its in our blood lol but then we survived until now LOL
i think not to go for all woman..stds is a big prob
Good you are thinking
What's happening with the covid policy over there? Do we still need to get shots? Do children still need to double mask?
They are also shy bc they underestimate themselves. No matter how beautiful they are they think you deserve someone even more attractive just by being a nice successful foreigner. They will be flattered and very happy and surprised you chose them instead of the hundreds of others. They have their weird beauty standards like light skin and pointy nose. So they could be the beautiful cute girl next door type and think they are average or so bc over there they are. They have a different set of standards for Beauty
Facts! Stay king and build kingdoms, cheers!
Yeah! When women try to appraoch you get your attention and try desperately that's a red flag don't get mistaken hooking up with her because they see you as a opportunity, they like you because they like you who you are but they like you because of what you can give to them. If you want to have you want to have traditional woman you have to be a traditional mandon't bring your western antics because you might get a woman that're trying to avoid. Start with courting stage,dating, knowing her.
Love your vids, Ill be there in 3 years
Regular membership out give me a break I'm so tired of everyone looking for a dime
Jay, I would sing & believe me the only thing that would approach me is a howling dog or a wolf! Lol! Hire me as a your sidekick singer & you guys wont have to worry having a woman approach you for any reason other than for earplugs! Lol, ha ha ha! Jay & Kay coming correct with common sense knowledge yet again! Adios!
It is ur choice to get a decent filipina..they are not easy to get..u need to take a lot of effort...filipinas who grab their opportunities to u most of them dont have work and scammer..
Yup! I hope they take your advice
If they talk about money very soon then pull the plug fellas. They might have one eye on your wallet and the other eye on some other guy's trouser snake. stay alert gents
The two I talked to were crazy if that's what they are I don't want one. These weren't street girls one was province girl and the other from cebu very nice and normal at first but turned in to jealous freaks making things up in their head.
Hell dont go further!
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I want to move there
CORRECT
When other women move towards she gives that evil eye this my cash cow lol
Correct lol
Philipina's, they have a way of saying yes, which is to raise their eyebrows. If you catch her eye, raise your eyebrows to her and watch her reaction. If she raises her eyebrows too or smiles, start talking to her.
Sup big bro
Hey Billy
Most women in almost every country usually don't approach a man. The ones that do, maybe are opportunists or workers or not. This isn't a rule in the Philippines. It's just a rule in life. There is no difference in women around the world in this regard. Women in America generally don't approach men either.
Unless you're driving a Ferrari
@@ikeskifan That's so true. If you appear to have money, they will come after you.👍🏽👍🏽
A show idea- Jay do a show on (Johnny Bravo) tips for guys that struggle speaking to women LOL J. Bravo tips may be what is missing for guys coming the with no game or swag. LOL Jay think about it.
I actually know the two girls in your thumbnail. It is a photo made by Oscar Hermosisima
Oh yeah there’s a lot of them in Malate. Be careful guys.
If a Filipina sends the first message on a dating site be considered a red flag.?
I agree with this viedo ,but be careful how you approach. New law in philliphines 11313 anti catcalling
If any guy is out here catcalling something is wrong with them
In my whole adult life, I've been approached about 2x while walking in the mall. Both times they offered massage service with happy ending. Getting approached like that from out of the blue is so out of character for a Pinay, that as a local pinoy I'm automatically guarded that her accomplices might jump me from behind. She was in civilian clothes, there was no massage establishment in sight -- that means she's a freelancer.
If a Filipina approaches you as a man.............. she's mostly trying to solicit money from you asking for a donation or help but will give you a free gift of a ballpen after you give your donation.
That is true. Filipina (women) don't talk to strangers right away. only women on same gender they will approach. Be careful when fillipino (men /women) ask money at first meeting... red flags🚩 because true fillipino values will not ask money even they helped you. In this modern times of generation they looked foreigners as possible people can help their entire family problems specially thru financial aspect. Be careful. True Filipina is independent, had career/ work and have money on her own.
So true. :)
It's phenomenon in the Philippines. Some ladies just want to take you from your women or some ladies want you to share her with your wife/Gf. Yes it's about the ATM or sperm.
Let just say, there's no perfect place in the world 🌍
Are you from Atlanta Ga?
I have a question. After marrying your Filipina wife Did you apply for citizenship? Or are you still on a tourist visa for 36 months? I see that sometimes people have to leave and come back on visa runs… Is that because they choose not to Marry? Just curious. Excuse my ignorance in this issue.
Yes that’s because they choose not to marry. I am a permanent resident 13a visa
Hellooooo Everbody
Hellooooo Everbody
I just left the Philippines June 9th ... Already miss the Philippines.....