Update what's happening, Opening up about my past, Thankyou's/Mentions ♡ ❤️ 🧡

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  • @NANov5
    @NANov5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    HI sunshine , sorry its took so long , it took me 5 goes to watch this 😢, i new you were troubled , im sooooo sorry you went through this !!! Its actually broke my heart , you get out there nd you show THEM your life matters , you are loved , ❤❤❤

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @NANov5 hi Nan may i ask what your really name is Sylviamarty1979@gmail.com it's ok is you don't wanna give i will understand my darling i cannot Wait for the day to meet you i will Treat you To a slap Up meal i feel you you care about me so much it must of been so hard for you to watch ❤️ i really value and treasure our friendship xxxxx

  • @Smithyfc17
    @Smithyfc17 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for the mention/shoutout mate much appreciated 👍 🙏

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @Smithyfc17 aww you're welcome my good friend sending you my love ❤️

  • @aaronclough7387
    @aaronclough7387 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You have my full respect

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @aaronclough7387 this Means alot to me oh my god my friend thankyou so much xx

    • @aaronclough7387
      @aaronclough7387 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Martdiva1979❤

  • @kc3654
    @kc3654 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Wholesome and beautiful as always marty ❤❤❤❤
    Happy birthday to Nan in heaven 🌹🌸 😇
    Thank you for sharing your memories, they all hit home xxx

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @kc3654 this means alot it really does i can't thankyou enough xxx

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@kc3654 i am truly touched ❤️ 🧡 xx

  • @Tinamaria75
    @Tinamaria75 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi my love, I am so sorry about your troubles and your past. You are a beautiful soul, keep strong and being you. ❤❤❤❤

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @Tinamaria75 hi ya tina thankyou ever so much For subscribing it really does mean alot i have haven't i had my troubles but hopefully coming out of them Now yeah you're right Keep strong and Being Me thankyou for your Positively this means alot it really does xx

  • @helenlynn974
    @helenlynn974 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Great video Martin!
    Well done for opening up to us your friends, we are always here for you never forget that x

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @helenlynn974 it really does help talking to you it Really does knowing you're there it is Such a big help xxx

  • @_emmalouise
    @_emmalouise 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hi Mart, just trying to catch up with some of your videos. I’m so sorry to hear what you have been through, I bloody hate bullies. You are a lovely person xx ❤

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @_emmalouise hi emma this means really alot to me you Saying i am a lovely person i can't thankyou enough yeah totally agree hate bullies no Need is there thankyou for saying you're sorry to Hear the hard time i have been through i am touched really i am sending you my love xx

  • @Daniel-oc4hf
    @Daniel-oc4hf หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    RIP your mum btw, she seemed like such a lovely lady

  • @JC-rt7xw
    @JC-rt7xw หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hi Martin I’m new to your channel and subscribed, I’m so sorry what happened to you in your past and you are very brave opening up to what happened, it’s good for your mental health to talk, I came across your channel and loved your positive outlook to life, your helping me at the moment to be more postivi I’m a carer for my mum and just found out my sister only 57 may have early onset dementia just awaiting results on the 23rd , so please keep up with the positive videos they help me, xx

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @JC-rt7xw hi Jacqueline firstly thankyou ever so much For subscribing to my Channel this means alot to Me it Really truly does thankyou for understanding Really means alot 💕 i Am truly truly sorry To Hear your Sister ❤️ she Found 0ut she Has dementia 😘 i think that is wonderful ❤️ you are taking care 0f your sister ❤️ 💙 ♥️ i appreciate that ❤️i Am really really proud 0f you taking care of you sister i Am sending you My Love oh wow my Videos are helping you that's amazing aww xxxx💙 ♥️

  • @yasminchohan2863
    @yasminchohan2863 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    🙏🏽 Martin you are doing absolutely brilliant, so, so, so brave and strong.
    It literally tore my heart apart listening and watching you relive your past.
    All that trauma and pain 😢
    Please never feel like you have to justify yourself to anyone, just keep being real and you do you! Whatever it takes. I am no councillor by all means but know it will be a long and painful journey ahead , and yes there will be good and bad days like you have mentioned, however in order to fully heal and move forwards you will have to address the past and fully close that chapter, just remember to do it on your terms and what feels right first you. You are an absolute beaut and we want to see that gorgeous smile back on your face, no matter how long it takes we will be here for you and Soxy always!!!
    Never loose your sparkle hun ✨💖xxx

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @yasminchohan2863 hi yasmin it is so good to hear from you i know i always feel i have to Justify myself and i shouldn't thankyou millions for being there supporting me and my channel you mean alot to me you are a dear friend absolutely never lose ya sparkle ✨️ million % me and soxy are sending our love to you my darling xxx

  • @stustreams
    @stustreams หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Your brave for opening up about everything Martin, just think of it like this, you got through all that stuff, it’s made you strong and powerful. Keep that head held high 😊

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @stustreams aww i Will do it Has hasn't it i am so Glad i finally Opened up aww my dear friend 💖 i really do appreciate this this means alot xx

  • @patricialloyd3773
    @patricialloyd3773 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So so sorry to hear of the trauma you have suffered over the years 😢 & thank you for sharing it with us & it hopefully helping someone else to open up about their traumas. I so feel for you Martin. Sorry again I’m missing some videos yet to catch up on but it’s so hectic here with my grand-baby n daughter whom I love to bits. Sometimes I watch yr videos but still not got around to commenting on them. This video I’ve only just finished watching in bed after taking hours to watch because of my granddaughter interrupting. At nearly 9 months old it’s tricky & so hard to even get through a half hour episode of Emmerdale. Keep moving onwards & upwards Martin. You’re a hero you really are. I don’t what I would do if alone like you…. you have come so far you really have. Lots of love & best wishes xxx

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @patricialloyd3773 aww no need to be sorry it is Great to hear from you oh my god 9 months old your Granddaughter now where on earth have them 9 months gone this means Alot to me you have touched me with your words ❤️ i am stronger than think lots of love and hugs xxx

  • @kc3654
    @kc3654 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I identify with your story so much. Also doing videos to help others along the work capabilities assessment would be amazing ❤❤❤

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @kc3654 it would wouldn't it i am glad that i am doing these videos i really feel i am getting out and like you say helping others are oh my you can identify with my story my email address Sylviamarty1979@gmail.com message me anytime if you wanna swap numbers i am here for you always xxx

  • @carolb9208
    @carolb9208 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I hope im not speaking out of turn but i feel it would have been a happier home just you & Sylvia, sounds like you both put up with a lot😢x

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @carolb9208 it really would of absolutely i totally totally agree with you no ya not at all seeing you all my love ❤️ oh my god ya right we did xx

  • @lynnedawson4116
    @lynnedawson4116 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hi Martin, just finished watching the last half of your video. You are one hell of a brave guy! To open up about such abuse and cruelty, which started when you were a child. I am so sorry to hear what an awful, vile man Arthur was. It was criminal how he abused and physically assaulted you - he should have served time behind bars! Whilst he may have accompanied you at your appointments, the older and taller you got, he realised he couldn’t get away with the physical and verbal assaults towards you. I’m sorry Martin, I only know what you say, but based on this, my opinion of Arthur is below zero. Bullies are weak Martin, they leave their victims alone when their victims are too much of a match. You’ve never been weak - you have the bravery and courage to talk about such vile abuse on social media - that’s what I call being a man!!! Well done lovely. Arthur wasn’t a man, he didn’t have the guts to be a man. Sending hugs to you and gorgeous Soxy❤️

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @lynnedawson4116 hi Lynne i totally agree he should of it was f*cked up because one minute he would have my back sticking up for me if people bullied me And he would take me to places fishing and golf than next time he'll be beating the crap 0ut of me he really ruined it for himself silly man cause he be telling us all about his life and work we'll be laughing but he was a b*rstard to everyone just no need for it but i can leave that behind me now a change is gonna come a good one...can i just say you have been amazing seriously you truly have thankyou for coming into my life you have been An Absolute HUGE BIG MASSIVE Help you Truly have i honestly cannot thankyou enough the advice you have given i have taken it to my heart thank god for you i hope one day we meet lunch is on me soxy loves ya btw sending all my love to you xxxx

    • @lynnedawson4116
      @lynnedawson4116 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Awww Martin, thank you for your kind a d beautiful words - you really are heaven sent🥰 absolutely not, I wouldn’t dream of yiy paying, Lunch is on me!!!
      You are so brave lovely, well done to you for having the strength and courage. 🥰
      Any advice, you just ask hun. Big hugs and loves to you and Soxy ❤️

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @lynnedawson4116 awww you are so welcome you are a true friend you truly are oh behave lol treating me to lunch you little devil you lol aww absolutely i feel so i Can turn to you for advice i really can xxxx

  • @Michelle-ll3wq
    @Michelle-ll3wq หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It's always good to talk Martin and thank you for sharing this difficult time 😢.
    They'll be brighter days, keep talking to your trusted friends.❤X

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @Michelle-ll3wq you're so right i need to keep talking to my trusted friends very true better days are definitely definitely coming i feel it to xxx

    • @Michelle-ll3wq
      @Michelle-ll3wq หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@Martdiva1979I've read all your messages on this upload, and it seems you have some very caring TH-cam friends on here for support

  • @rudolphred239
    @rudolphred239 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hi Martin. What a brave video you have just done. You should be sooo proud of yourself for so many reasons. No doubt this video will help so many others who aren't ready to talk about what's happened to them / or what they are going through will their mental health. I'm so sorry for what you had to go through when growing up but look at your now, take it day by day my friend. You have come so far, please be proud of yourself because we your subscribers are. Just remember you never have to explain yourself to anyone, you keep being you. After the bills are paid you spend YOUR money on whatever you like, it's YOUR life. Sending so much love to you and Soxy. xxxxx

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @rudolphred239 HI RUDOLPH it is lovely to hear from you my good friend i hope you are ok soxy and i wanna send our Love ❤️ ya right after the bills are paid i am getting my life back again going out doing things walking 🚶‍♂️ seeing friends definitely definitely gonna treat myself sending you nothing but love thankyou for being part of my life xxxxxx

  • @lynnedawson4116
    @lynnedawson4116 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hello lovely, I’ve started watching your video, am almost half way through - I will continue with it when I come home from work tonight, but so far, I am disgusted and appalled by your physical and mental abuse by Arthur and those in school - particularly the teachers and headmaster. Arthur did not deserve any of your compassion when he became ill, but you are an angel and rose above it. I could cry for you lovely. You are amongst friends now Martin, who are in abundance. Sylvia is looking down on you, proud of her gorgeous son ❤️

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @lynnedawson4116 he didn't did he not at all i totally feel you i do i feel they held me back all of them arthur all the bullyies they stopped me from being me but not anymore awww you are so right absolutely sylvia is definitely looking down on over me i am so grateful you saying that 💖 all my love with the warmest of hugs is coming your way xx

    • @shellydee9377
      @shellydee9377 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Mart is such a kind and caring man, Arthur took advantage of that.
      His mum seemed lovely too, so obviously he takes after her and no doubt she'll be watching over him and VERY proud.😇
      Soxy bloody ADORES him!🤗💙XX

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@shellydee9377 I CAN'T THANKYOU ENOUGH HONESTLY FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART I DEFINITELY DO TAKE AFTER MUM SYLVIA BLESS HER SHE IS DEFINITELY LOOKING OVER ME SHELLEY THANKYOU MY GOOD FRIEND YEAH YOU'RE RIGHT ARTHUR TOOK THAT FROM ME ROBBED ME OF MY CHILD HOOD STOLE MY CONFIDENCE BUT NO MORE BEING A VICTIM IN THE PAST SOXY IS ADORABLE ISN'T HE BLESS HIM XXX

    • @lynnedawson4116
      @lynnedawson4116 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Absolutely agree with everything you say@shellydee937👌

    • @lynnedawson4116
      @lynnedawson4116 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You be you Martin - everyone loves you that you are you! I know i say it a lot, but you are heaven sent - an angel. And soxy is an absolutely gorgeous boy ❤️

  • @stustreams
    @stustreams หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You don’t owe anyone an explanation about your hours or benefits Martin, F the haters. It’s your business and nothing to do with anyone, stick your head up high with pride and be you my dear friend ❤too right you can treat yourself, we all deserve treats now and again 😊

    • @sueturner7990
      @sueturner7990 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Martin your fab you don't have to explain yourself to people sweetheart keep doing what your doing and do what's right for you treat yourself why not it's your money just be you you seem like a really down to earth person anything I can do message me take care both you and soxy ❤❤❤❤

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @sueturner7990 much appreciated i am sending you my love this means alot to me it really does thankyou for being here for me yeah definitely will message you my email Sylviamarty1979@gmail.com can't thankyou enough xxx

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@stustreams Love that F the haters 💯 % they are nosy some people i have found a good loyal friend in you your videos really do relax me absolutely go treat myself i deserve it hope your work Has been Going Well xx

  • @debbierice2653
    @debbierice2653 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love ❤ your channel Martin its so real relatable and honest , another incredibly brave video i was greatly shocked and saddened to hear about your past . You will rise from that like a phoenix from the flame's you are a fighter and we all love you dearly on hear. obviously i don't know you in person but we know you on hear we get what a good kind soul you are i was so damn angry that all that happened to you. Had a friend that went through similar things that happened to you via your stepdad at home but it was his own mum , just awful was around the same age too right up till he was 27. Its frightening how people can be behind closed doors. And a big yes to treating yourself we are only here a short while and we need to do what makes us happy. You deserve all the bloody treats in the world 🌎 and have a cheeky cake or two with that coffee you where talking about why not i say. Xxxx😊🎉❤😊

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @debbierice2653 THANKYOU MILLIONS FOR WATCHING AND SUPPORTING MY CHANNEL OT TRULY MEANS THE WORLD TO ME I CAN'T THANKYOU ENOUGH YOU ARE SUCH A LOVELY FRIEND THANKYOU FOR ALL YOUR KIND WORDS I'M SLOWLY GETTING THERE definitely need a big cake don't i i deserve it i am gonna get one When i get paid Next week you take care big hugs xxx

  • @Daniel-oc4hf
    @Daniel-oc4hf หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hey man, I'm 33 and like a drink of wine, but I work, I'd love to hang around with you and buy us drinks and food and give kitty snacks, I'm like you, I look after my mum and take care of her and such, you're like an older version of me. you're cool, and I like you a lot. I hope things are good for you my friend.

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @Daniel-oc4hf hi Daniel i really love your personality you are just so lovely i am really touched with your message thankyou for subscribing to my channel i would to hang out with you and i Appreciate that you wanna buy is drinks and buy my kitty snacks i Appreciate it very much awww you look after you mum that i think is beautiful so lovely you should be ready proud 0f yourself for doing that and she is super proud of you here is my email address message me please and if you would like i will Give you my number my darling xxx

    • @NANov5
      @NANov5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤️🙏❤️​@@Martdiva1979

  • @shellydee9377
    @shellydee9377 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mart, my dear friend. It sounds like you've been a victim of emotional child abuse and sadly it's impacted on your adult life. I'm sorry, but Arthur sounded like a right bully, just like the rest of his family.
    Try not to dwell on the past, as difficult as it is to stop 're-living ' it. Happy thoughts only.
    I'm always here for you Mart and Soxy too 🤗💙.
    Lots of love from a very rainy Manchester ☔☔☔

    • @Martdiva1979
      @Martdiva1979  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @shellydee9377 aww yeah the family were absolute b•rstards excuse my language they were nasty to me humiliated me so bad i put up with it but i feel a change is gonna come i have done a lot of thinking and nope no more being a victim in the past positive vibes Manchester wooohoooo yaaaaay all my love coming your way xxxx