I work too hard. I wouldn't wanna come back home to face another piece of work. From a woman i need tranquility, peace and collaboration. Not indifference.
As a nigerian Canadian that lived in Canada for the vast majority of my life. Im going back to africa. Africa is where asia was 30 years ago about to blow up. Sky is the limit in africa especially east africa. Kenya rwanda for me 👍🏾 Passport bros we up
The difference is that the asians owned Asia,and they still do.Now the asians own africa, with the exception of the elite in africa the common african family is below the poverty line and more than likely will remain there.China is only building roads and bridges to make it easier for them to extract resources. Africa will never be a super power until they own their own resources which they don't. The world health organization said that nigeria,which has the largest gdp of all Black African countries is a failed state.
@@givemhell4924 Asians own Asia? The average Indian or China man or Vietnamese is dirt poor. The corporations own everything everywhere! Even in the west right now there trying to lower living standards down to third world level. Wake up
NEVER MARRY AFRICAN-AMERICAN... Its a bad deal, for you and your future children! She can divorce you and start gender change for your kids, and its legal in her country
@@partingalano And i will cheat on her so badly i will catch an STD... Once the green card is ready... i will wait a lil bit till her teeth starts falling off before i divorce her
I'm a Nigerian guy but I can never marry any American woman, I had a Nigerian girl whom I was madly in love with but the moment she went to USA for education I forgot about her because ladies pick bad character easily from other ladies more than good behaviour .
You forgot about her abi she forgot you dey here dey lie 😂😂😂😂 ..you better don't join this Akatas and start bashing Nigerian women ...most this folks no get papa o you wan dey compare girl wey get home training to AA ppl wey no get papa talk of home training.
@@opeyemiadegoke361Oh, please! Stop playing ostrich. Do you see the ones who haven't stepped out of Nigeria but get their content on twitter? Do you see their takes on relationships and feminism?
Let’s not leave out the most important part, in Nigeria a man can legally have 4 wives! Yes, FOUR and you think a Nigerian man will marry one woman with attitude who’s not traditional? Women literally have to start using logic!😂
African American women can adapt/change to African culture if they really want, but their pride and overwhelming sense of American entitlement have completely stripped them of their natural order of women hood, and femininity.
I have to disagree from what I see. They can try and fake it for a while but if any difficult or just non perfect situation arises the true demon will come out and they will quit and run.
What do you mean "American entitlement?" Lots of BA women travel to do phenomenal work. Perhaps, if you practiced what you preached, and saw your women as women, you would know that and stop generalizing. Also, stop acting like BA have had the same privileges as others. Secondly, stop acting as if entitlement only exists in the US. Trust and believe it exists, elsewhere. Furthermore, there are times when those US passports PROTECT Black American women from those, who want to really harm, and mistreat them out of jealousy. There are A LOT more BA women doing beautiful things around the world, than what you, and others, will give them credit for. 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵
If you are from the African Continent, why don't you direct those sentiments against those, who are REALLY bringing entitlement, as opposed of used BA women as a scapegoat to your frustrations because you see them as easy targets? 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸
That nonsensical speech from that first chick was pathetic 😂 Begging for African men's affection. They have no use for you or the sistahood ,other than that green card access .
Plus if there going out of seas that have no protection so going over there is risk over especially if there this emotional with an attitude that could get yourself locked up or meet Davy Jones locker if your not careful
@@laurenclark1990 miss me with your nonsense. Make your own damn paradise. If you need a man to make feminine, you was never feminine in the first place. BW have been telling BM they aren’t ish for 40 years and you don’t need a man. You’re on your own. I live a full and fruitful life with my Japanese fiancé who’s naturally feminine, fit and friendly.
@@laurenclark1990 "Create their paradise...?" This girl talks as if she is the main character in a Disney movie. Honey, anything drawn with pencil or computers is a piece of fiction.
Start slow King. Southeast Asia may be a huge culture shock at first. I'd suggest start with London, Paris or Mexico(just to get out the country). That's just my (21 country traveled) opinion. Good luck
The first woman basically using history as an excuse for piss poor behavior and performance as a spouse is laughable. If men from multiple cultures are saying the same thing its time to look inward and fix yourself. A relationship is a selfless endeavor. You don't lose yourself, but your spouses desires take a greater priority. If a man constantly says they want certain things, and its not something unreasonable or will kill you, what's the excuse for not making it a priority and getting offended when he gets upset? Entitlement and Narcissism is an epidemic
No. Your kind are talking about yourselves. If the collective of BA women were poor spouses, you would not have risen-to a certain degree-in the way that you have. 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵
BOTH of your desires take a priority. It's not one or the other. So, often, it were BA wives sacrificing their needs for their husbands. Many BA women of this generation saw this and saw the consequences. 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 Look outside of your own stories.
Well let's get this straight b/c she is leaving out a lot of information. Firstly, ADOS/FBA women do have a tribe. It's called the 304 tribe. Second, they wrecked their own homes & families by selling out. When the government came & offered them the deal to get rid of their husbands & men for a welfare check, they willingly accepted the terms. When white, Hispanic, Asian & Middle-eastern women were given the same terms they [generally] refused it. Thirdly, saying some ABW can cook means NOTHING. That's an anecdotal. To be generally true, 50% or more of ABW must be able to cook [healthy wholesome meals]. NOT that mac & cheese slop they call cooking.
You need to "hear a speech." When have you ever heard the stories of your own women. Treat your women with feminine nurture and they will be "easy to get along with." Its simple, Sir. 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻
@@laurenclark1990 We hear our women's story everyday. I know more about the politics at their job than I do my own. Shhhh. If u dated women, u would praise us for how easy we make it look.
@@laurenclark1990no your natural state is supposed to be feminine you shouldn't need a man to make you feminine just like a man doesn't need a woman to make him masculine...
Why only Black American women? Why don't Black American men work on themselves and learn to be better men for their communities? It's so interesting the lies and manipulation going on. Black American women sacrificed and labored for the community, were trained to sacrifice themselves for BA men's interests, and now you all are talking about "working on themselves?" Kindly note that lots of BA women are doing the healing work, and they are leaving one-sided loyalty, behind. 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹
How did that mentality from SOME of our Sistas come about? When a man is loving, gentle, and brings wellness to a woman's life, you won't hear that from her. 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼
It don't matter what culture you came from and how you grew up. Men are simple creatures and no man should have to put up with a rebellious jezebel woman. Women you are designed to be a helpmeet to a man and to help him build his house. This is how the most high designed you and this is your purpose. It don't matter what culture you come from your role is supposed to be the same as every other woman. Men don't put with the foolishness from these women. You are the head, the king, and the priest of your home. If a woman ain't trying to get with your program then you send her on her way and find a replacement.
I don't even understand why black Americans waste their time explaining stuff to Nigerians. Just ignore them... Don't deal with them separate yourself from them... Live your life.. Just because they are black doesn't mean you have to interact.
They are shades of brown skin, European anthropologist catogorized people in to races. You are also brown skin go learn about the colorspectrum, black is charcoal, black oil or black pigment and in the colorspectrum black is the absorption of all colors in the colorspectrum. Chocolate os brown, cocoa is brown, coffee is brown. Johann Friedrich Blumenbach has been called 'The Father of Physical Anthropology' because of his pioneering publications describing human racial variation. He proposed a racial typology consisting of five 'major varieties/races' of humanity. "The truth sounds like hate to people who hate to hear the truth.." My take on European race theory. You want to hide something from so called "black" people put it in a book. 👀❓ Trance Atlantic slave trade to the Americas, South and North America and the Caribbean between the 1600 and 1900 was when Europeans started using race theory to categorize people in black, yellow, red and white which is ridicules if you have understanding about DNA or cell mutations or understand the etymology of the word black. Did you know that energy can neither be created nor destroyed. It can only be transformed or transferred from one form to another. 23 chromosomes from your father and 23 chromosomes from your mother genetic data morphing together forms You. According to advanced modern day science there is no such thing as race in genes or biology it is a social concept that people accepted often by force or willful ignorance. (Read Race and the genetic revolution) DNA makeup, genomes and chromosomes will tell your biological ancestry. Where our forebears came from can be seen in our DNA, but ancestry does not map onto race, because race is a myth, differences in skin and hair color are principally genetically determined. Africa has the origin of everybody in the world from the tallest to the shortest, darkest brown skin color to the lightest hue, coarse hair to kinky to straight to frizzy hair all genetic information stored in DNA. Races are those generalized labels such as "black", "white", "Yellow" and "Red". They are judged by the traits that people display. Ethnicity are groups of people that have their own customs and languages that have settled in locations around the world. Africa has the most diverse genetic gene pool, meaning a person from Ethiopia, Mozambique, Ghana, Sudan or Africans in the diaspora and everybody else, on a genetic level we might be totally different but we as dark browned to light hues skinned people share the same root. We have advanced technology even scientists have agreed that in biology there is no such thing as race. Today there is broad agreement among scientists that typological conceptions of race have no scientific basis. So called Black race did not exist until Europeans decided to use a similar categorization systems, terms and phrases they created or found in the bible and switched terms and replace them with a color system and conveniently used it to categorize enslaved Africans like cattle during the trans Atlantic European slave trade. Race is a social construct. (Research anthropology and race or read The Göttingen school of history or read about genetics, DNA, genomes, chromosomes and cell mutations.) While ethnicities do exist, races have been proven to be biologically inaccurate. Most of the time people judge a race by the physical traits a person has. For instance, someone belonging to the so called "black race" is supposed to have dark skin. So does this mean that a person belonging to an ethnic group in Africa is part of the black race? No. We cannot assign a race to a person from any ethnic group for the following reasons: 1) First, all ethnicities were originally one group that came Sub-Saharan Africa. They lived there for at least 2 million years. Because of this, people from all ethnic groups today have 99.9 percent of their genetics in common. 2) It was only 60,000 years ago that a group of Africans left Africa and formed the various ethnic groups. 3) We can observe that the traits that have been traditionally associated with race are shared across all ethnic groups. In other words, dark skin is seen in the ethnic groups in the Indian subcontinent, in the Middle East, in South America, and many other parts of the world...not just in Africa. 4) And finally, ethnic groups have been mating with each other for thousands of years after their initial move out of Africa. This means that that all people are genetically mixed. There are no "pure" ethnic groups despite what some people may want to think. So ethnicities do exist, but we can't group any ethnic group or any person into a race based on their physical traits. Races are a socially constructed myth. People actually have more in common genetically than they do different, despite what society and the media has taught us. (read Robert Sussman had titled his book "The myth of race, the troubling persistence of an unscientific idea.") The phrase "willful ignorance" has come to mean any situation in which people intentionally turn their attention away from an ethical problem that is believed to be important by those using the phrase (for instance, because the problem is too disturbing for people to want it dominating their thoughts, or from the knowledge that solving the problem would require extensive effort) The contemporary word race itself is modern; historically it was used in the sense of "nation, ethnic group" during the 16th to 19th centuries. (People with a God complex, who also described us as beast or animals. Their theory doesn't make race a fact specially a color like black like charcoal when our shades ranges from darkest brown to tanned brown and light hues but Europeans decide what our identity is.) Pseudo science they used to fit their fantasy of a superior race and to distance themselves from a African origin. (Describing people in ancient days was normal: People used many ways to describe what they witnessed, Moor and blackamoor. A Middle English word for "Ethiopian" (perhaps also "a negro" generally) was blewman "blue man." burned skin, pale man or red man, kemet and many other words even made up terms, nothing new i am aware of that.) Today we can accurately describe skin color. The term black itself is incorrect in to describe skin color, black is said to be "the sum of all colors" when a blackish stain is obtained from the mixture of various pigments. And black is said to be the "absence of color" when all light radiation is removed. A black object absorbs all wavelengths of light and reflects none and that's why it appears black. Etymology of the color black. In English, “black” comes from the Old English blæc (“absolutely dark”, “absorbing all light”, “colour of soot or coal”), descending from the Proto-Germanic blakaz (“burned”; source of other Germanic words such as Swedish bläck [“ink”] and the Dutch blaken [“to burn”]), from the Proto-Indo-European bhleg (“to burn”, “ (How we see skin color) Skin color ranges from darkest brown to the lightest hues. As sunlight, which is a combination of all wavelengths hits an object, some materials will absorb specific wavelengths. The wavelengths that aren't absorbed get reflected. This reflected light then reaches our eyes and makes us perceived the reflecting object as being a particular color. I never understood why English speaking people call brown skin ranging from the darkest brown to light tanned brown as black, charcoal is black. Chocolates, coffee bean, cacao, coconut, brown sugar, clay, mud or Africa reddish brown dirt. I'd rather call it beautifully brown. I tend to have this discussion with people who come off as colorblind to the color brown specially English speaking people. What is science the systematic study of the structure and behaviour of the physical and natural world through observation, experimentation, and the testing of theories against the evidence obtained. Race is pseudo science. Respectively we can agree to disagree or correct me if you think i'm wrong.
We started calling ourselves African American when the pro blacks got jealous of others being called hyphenated names by the white media. A Korean or Nigerian will not use hyphens cause they know what they are but Americans have to put you in a box.
@@miirobrightvisions that's because you're an actual African none of us actually consider ourselves Africans it just denotes that we're genetically Americans of African descent.
@@firsteyebeats2617 you ever heard of God made the universe and we can enjoy it at free will. To answer your question. I am planning on returning to where I came from soon. Coming here was just a part of the journey in my life. I have acquired what I came for.🙏🏿
I don't care to hear the excuses of modern women. Bottom line the modern woman is the USa is a horrible choice for a wife. There is no way around it. At 53 years old, I am retires, financially is a doing very well and I just want peace and to be respected and loved. I cannot and will not try to change or teach a grown woman how to be a suitable spouse. Modern women have made it crystal clear, The don't want a man, they don't need a man and they clearly have no respect or appreciation for a man. So fine. Let them go and have at it. I don't care what happens to them. They are independent and they can handle it on their own. You can't be a BOSS chick them be a damsel in distress. GTFOH.
It's so crazy how the tables turn. Being a teen in the early 2000's, in an urban city in USA, I was taught that to be a "housewife" was the same as being a bum ass gold digger. No one respected a girl who didn't have a job. In the 2000s men wanted an "independent woman"... All the guys I knew wanted a "boss Bitch". And not just referring to making money, but a bossy alpha female. I was affected deeply by this because I didn't fit the type & was often insulted for being too shy, quiet, and reserved.
Thank you for saying this. I went to college in the late 90s/early 2000s. All the men I knew wanted to be with a working woman. It seemed like being a housewife wasn’t even an option. Maybe I just associated with the wrong men. 🤷🏻♀️
The problem is that you only dealt with a certain type of man and you try to build your life around them. Most men dont mind if their women work in fact it helps the family if she does. What they dont like is when she get her paycheck and thinks that is her money and not the family money. Most people want to adopt the black Christian delusion of what is man is also woman but what is woman is woman. Women who has a good man and can help the family grow and improve usually set aside a nest egg for themselves in case things goes south. They usually are on his insurance and thats help her. Also most men if the relationship go south would rather they move out then the woman especially if she has kids. We dont buy ourselves a home we buy it for the woman. If the house belongs to his family then that is another story especially if its his mother house.
I live in New Orleans and I don’t know not one woman that doesn’t take pride in her superb cooking skills. I’ve been cooking since I could see over the stove.
In general, African American women don't know how to deal with conflict...without having to get the government or not-interested parties involved, which is why they're not good candidates for marriage. The strength of a family in African cultures is based on the ability to handle conflict within the family, without having to get third parties involved. Whether it's a conflict between husband and wife, in-laws, having or not having kids, infidelity, property and inheritance after an elderly parent dies etc. This is why Africans are so against divorce, because it's a confession that a. the family is weak and b. it's a third party outside of the family, without the best interest of family, coming in to deal with a conflict. African cultures literally worship marriage, and are very focused on what the objective of a marriage is: to have children, carry on a family legacy, and set your children up to have better futures than you did - regardless of if you're a poor person living in a hut or a wealthy person living in a mansion, marriage is seen the same way, and has the same level of reverence. If you have a historical heritage, trauma that makes it impossible to achieve those objectives or too difficult for you to do so because of all the psychological baggage that you have, God bless you and all the empathy in the world to you, but you're a poor candidate for marriage...and anyone who ends up marrying you will ultimately come to regret it. The issue isn't the conflict of cultures, it's the willingness to overcome the conflict to achieve the objective, and truth be told, and a lot of brothas know this, sistas almost always want you to submit to their plight, trauma and issues over your own, and if you're unwilling to do that, they'll fight you tooth and nail, because they don't know how to compromise or to agree to disagree, and that's the inherent politics that they've had since the Black Feminists broke up the Black Nationalist movement in the 1970's over disagreements...that attitude and willingness to break up the family and community, if you don't get what you want or to ally with third parties (i.e. white feminists, family courts etc) rather than sit down and negotiate a solution that doesn't ultimately jeopardize the objectives of family, is what ultimately makes them incapable of being good marriage partners, regardless of which culture they seek such relationships with.
With so many beautiful and marriageable African women, why would and African men look outside for a wife. Africans aren’t looking outside to marry. We’re good! Black American women, you had your chance with your American brother but you spoiled that. Now they’re in our continent getting wives. We don’t blame them.
You don’t speak for all African men! Been married to my Yoruba husband for 4 years living happily in Abuja. I’m a housewife so cook and clean! He pays all the bills!
@@TraditionallyModernizedIt's all over social media how these Black American women act they've been possessed by some Jezebel spirit, think they can do no wrong and don't listen to anything a black man has to say. I don't even want to go into the type of men they have kids with we're just done trying to reason with them.
@@TraditionallyModernized Ok let’s also talk about how my Yoruba husbands child’s mother (also Yoruba) abandoned their baby with him at 9 months old. The child is 6 years old now. I’ve been raising the baby as my own! I cook her favorite meals, help with homework, wipe her tears from bad dreams, brew herbal teas and lemon when she’s sick, etc. What about this behavior is traditional from a Yoruba woman that abandoned her baby in infancy?
You're talking about the book Black Rednecks and they're a loud minority because the American government wants people to think that's how most of us are. Now I will say most of the women act like that which is why they're the least married group of women.
@@cbfbmc I haven't watched the video just read the book. The way the English man dealt with the issue was by force and obviously we can't do that because we don't run the government. We just have to wait until they literally kill each other off. In the meantime those of us who don't subscribe to that backwards culture are going overseas.
I'm African. My mom has been a housewife and my father has mistreated her despite the fact that she is very faithful, cooks every day, several times a day and let him do everything he wanted career wise and raised the kids that have his last name, so much so that he is rich rich. But he has continuously mistreated her. Now the same man because he knows how he treated his own housewife doesn't want me to be one. A lot of these so called modern women were raised that way by their fathers to protect them against y'all African men are as much trash as y'all.
You don't know anything about us then Black American men have always been egalitarian talk to any woman who has been with a Black American man there isn't any DV going on.
I've been a passport bro in Thailand for almost 4 years now. I've never seen a western woman Hook up with an Asian man. Lots of lesbian action on the other hand.
What she says has nothing to do with being a shitty partner. Black women are used to being mean, aggressive, wild and a man is supposed to just take it because she has a vagina. Men want peace, if you can't bring that, most men aren't going to want you past sex.
The oldest skeleton found in south America in a region of Brazil was of a black woman they call Luzia, it dated 11,500 year's old. Question; what do you think happened to their ancestors because you know she wasn't alone? We are indigenous to North and South America!
Aa problem of most americans. Regardless of skin color. White americans go overseas and tell germans they are actually germans. Eventhough they have zero idea about german culture or proclivities. For some reason americans do not understad this.
COOKING!!!! Most black American women ain't gonna cook. Bottom line. Most black women have to visit folks for Christmas dinners or Thanksgiving Day dinners because they don't know how to prepare those meals at all. However, other women of other cultures cook and are skilled at it.
That's funny... I know this chick that married a nigerian. .... he played her good. Taking her money and sending it to his wife in Africa. I need to help my sister and stuff. I hate to say she deserved it ..... she earned it.
Yea I believe it. So many countless stories of this. There is a guy right now who is around 30 and married a older 65+ lady and two year hit and is ready to divorce and bring real wife over. They have people spreading awareness on tiktok and other social media platforms but these women dont listen. They say people are hating on them or jealous. So they will learn.
...Ummm, y'all do realize that Nigerian women agree wuth their men? In normal cultures men usually hold veiws and women follow. The world is like, "Why are American Black men allowing their women to be like that?"
@@TheSoloTravelerORD interesting take. If you feel that you are admitting that another group was able to conquer you and take your property. Latinos, Africans etc were subject to colonization but didn’t let Europeans take their women and children but ABM did? See how you are making yourselves look bad?
@@brandihebert5617Read Daughters Of The Trade you were never our "women" to begin with. For the most part the slave trade was male oriented you were just brought across the middle passage 100+ years later to set up breeding farms.
@@TheSoloTravelerORDyou are a weak dude. You just ain’t enough man. Every chick I ever had from all over the world that I met in America. American women included all bowed down. Why because I am a man. I never want any woman. They want me. Your past being a beta bra. You go thousands of miles to get a wife and get laid. That is straight weak. The woman that you think is masculine is masculine because you don’t act like a man around her.
Nigerian men are very very traditional to the core so if you meet one that's willing to ALLOW/ACCEPT you run their papers in order to become a citizen? My sister, you are getting a big fat L. Our men don't joke with their pride and they always want to be the trad man and we all know how most women can be when they do something for a man I have friends that migrated to US, UK, Canada.. and they always say nothing will make them marry women there because they don't know how to be a trad woman.
Big difference. I can go to Philippines and my culture is totally different than this Asian girls. But yet they WANT us to come. Whether we're white or black these Asian women LOVE what American men have to offer. But men in these other countries aren't begging for American women to marry. Sex?? Sure. Nobody is pining to marry American women. It's not an issue of a difference in culture, they don't like the difference in attitude and mentality. But I show up in the Philippines?? These beautiful Asian women be fighting to lock us down.
Dude I think you have some kinda hurt against Nigerian men. You have showcase nothing but the bad side of the relationship of Nigerian men. Everything was good until she said something negative about African American black men
Not all African Americans is from Africa it got we was broken up. Some is from Africa some is from Egypt. In some is from other places. America went you to believe we all? Was? From? Africa. No we wasn't.😮 Black people really need to do a research.
The woman is no ignorant. Africa has over 50 countries. She doesn't even know which one she comes from. Not all African countries like each other. That like saying an American English woman can go to Ireland, because they both have white skin, and claim that's her heritage. You just gave another reason why any many men within African ain't dealing with you. The need to be right.
The most famous phase used by bw is........." NOT EVERY BLACK WOMAN" 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂✌️😎
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@@missklassy9783statically true. Only 20% in poverty
As a south african black man, I'd be very reluctant to settle with a BA woman. They are too masculine.
I can. I could handle dragon.
I work too hard. I wouldn't wanna come back home to face another piece of work.
From a woman i need tranquility, peace and collaboration. Not indifference.
As a nigerian Canadian that lived in Canada for the vast majority of my life. Im going back to africa. Africa is where asia was 30 years ago about to blow up. Sky is the limit in africa especially east africa. Kenya rwanda for me 👍🏾
Passport bros we up
yes sir 💪🏽💪🏽
The difference is that the asians owned Asia,and they still do.Now the asians own africa, with the exception of the elite in africa the common african family is below the poverty line and more than likely will remain there.China is only building roads and bridges to make it easier for them to extract resources. Africa will never be a super power until they own their own resources which they don't. The world health organization said that nigeria,which has the largest gdp of all Black African countries is a failed state.
@@givemhell4924Asia do not own africa
@@givemhell4924read about Africa & don't just watch the news
@@givemhell4924 Asians own Asia? The average Indian or China man or Vietnamese is dirt poor. The corporations own everything everywhere! Even in the west right now there trying to lower living standards down to third world level. Wake up
They were only traveling just cuz they thought they could flex on passport bros.... they thought wrong
Ok, the real question is why should a Nigerian man marry an African American woman over a Nigerian woman? Shaming is not going to help her case.
NEVER MARRY AFRICAN-AMERICAN... Its a bad deal, for you and your future children!
She can divorce you and start gender change for your kids, and its legal in her country
Exay 100%
"Let me emasculate you for a green card"
@@partingalano And i will cheat on her so badly i will catch an STD... Once the green card is ready... i will wait a lil bit till her teeth starts falling off before i divorce her
@@partingalano 😂😂
I'm a Nigerian guy but I can never marry any American woman, I had a Nigerian girl whom I was madly in love with but the moment she went to USA for education I forgot about her because ladies pick bad character easily from other ladies more than good behaviour .
You forgot about her abi she forgot you dey here dey lie 😂😂😂😂 ..you better don't join this Akatas and start bashing Nigerian women ...most this folks no get papa o you wan dey compare girl wey get home training to AA ppl wey no get papa talk of home training.
You’re a wise man.
@@opeyemiadegoke361Oh, please! Stop playing ostrich. Do you see the ones who haven't stepped out of Nigeria but get their content on twitter? Do you see their takes on relationships and feminism?
Smart man brother!. Once they come ro the states, they not worth a shit anymore lol
THE WORLD DOESN'T OWE YOU UNDERSTANDING ...
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@@antares3097 it is the same all over the world since the dawn of time ..
Let’s not leave out the most important part, in Nigeria a man can legally have 4 wives! Yes, FOUR and you think a Nigerian man will marry one woman with attitude who’s not traditional? Women literally have to start using logic!😂
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@@missklassy9783 I’m not interested in European women and you’ll never catch me clicking on a video speaking of European women specifically!😂🤦🏾♂️
What is wrong with African Men?. You should only be scared if you are not family oriented.
What's your source?
@@ProfessionalCleancutguyjust search it up on Google about law in jamaica than you will know
African American women can adapt/change to African culture if they really want, but their pride and overwhelming sense of American entitlement have completely stripped them of their natural order of women hood, and femininity.
I have to disagree from what I see. They can try and fake it for a while but if any difficult or just non perfect situation arises the true demon will come out and they will quit and run.
What do you mean "American entitlement?" Lots of BA women travel to do phenomenal work. Perhaps, if you practiced what you preached, and saw your women as women, you would know that and stop generalizing. Also, stop acting like BA have had the same privileges as others. Secondly, stop acting as if entitlement only exists in the US. Trust and believe it exists, elsewhere. Furthermore, there are times when those US passports PROTECT Black American women from those, who want to really harm, and mistreat them out of jealousy. There are A LOT more BA women doing beautiful things around the world, than what you, and others, will give them credit for. 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵
Also, are you Black American? If not, are you African'-which nation? Flower 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼 🌼
If you are from the African Continent, why don't you direct those sentiments against those, who are REALLY bringing entitlement, as opposed of used BA women as a scapegoat to your frustrations because you see them as easy targets? 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸
Bingo...👍
That nonsensical speech from that first chick was pathetic 😂 Begging for African men's affection. They have no use for you or the sistahood ,other than that green card access .
Sisters..., I heard man in Dubai got money and they love when women yell at them... Go try it and let me know how it goes...😂🚔
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Lol
A black American woman’s biggest challenge is dealing with rejection. We already know how emotional they are. 💯
Plus if there going out of seas that have no protection so going over there is risk over especially if there this emotional with an attitude that could get yourself locked up or meet Davy Jones locker if your not careful
African men are seeing the same thing we see, but over there fall in line or get a b$&ten behind!
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All I hear is “that’s the way we are and not going to change”
Take me as I am lol
No. That's what you want to hear. How have you helped BA women create their paradise, so they can be treated like women? 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻
@@laurenclark1990 miss me with your nonsense. Make your own damn paradise. If you need a man to make feminine, you was never feminine in the first place. BW have been telling BM they aren’t ish for 40 years and you don’t need a man. You’re on your own. I live a full and fruitful life with my Japanese fiancé who’s naturally feminine, fit and friendly.
@@laurenclark1990
"Create their paradise...?"
This girl talks as if she is the main character in a Disney movie. Honey, anything drawn with pencil or computers is a piece of fiction.
@@laurenclark1990Use that black girl magic ✨️ !
Cultural differences is totally different from being a good person with good morals,respect and home training
respect is respect in any and every culture. most bw lack respect.
Lots of Black American women have that, too. 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸
@@laurenclark1990then they are the silent majority 😒
"good morals,respect"
Not in AMERICA!
We want our black women back !!
Ordered my passport today.
Back in Kenya.
Start slow King. Southeast Asia may be a huge culture shock at first. I'd suggest start with London, Paris or Mexico(just to get out the country). That's just my (21 country traveled) opinion. Good luck
Whole lotta Gang shit!!😎 #SYBM #PassportGang
Where are we going??
I still see and hear NO ACCOUNTABILITY some of these women will never learn.
So how come the other way is working, African American men are marriing African women with no problems.
The first woman basically using history as an excuse for piss poor behavior and performance as a spouse is laughable. If men from multiple cultures are saying the same thing its time to look inward and fix yourself. A relationship is a selfless endeavor. You don't lose yourself, but your spouses desires take a greater priority. If a man constantly says they want certain things, and its not something unreasonable or will kill you, what's the excuse for not making it a priority and getting offended when he gets upset? Entitlement and Narcissism is an epidemic
The first lady know's, that Black women from America, are the worst women to be with.
No. Your kind are talking about yourselves. If the collective of BA women were poor spouses, you would not have risen-to a certain degree-in the way that you have. 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵
BOTH of your desires take a priority. It's not one or the other. So, often, it were BA wives sacrificing their needs for their husbands. Many BA women of this generation saw this and saw the consequences. 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 Look outside of your own stories.
Correction: would not. . . 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹
Well let's get this straight b/c she is leaving out a lot of information. Firstly, ADOS/FBA women do have a tribe. It's called the 304 tribe. Second, they wrecked their own homes & families by selling out. When the government came & offered them the deal to get rid of their husbands & men for a welfare check, they willingly accepted the terms. When white, Hispanic, Asian & Middle-eastern women were given the same terms they [generally] refused it. Thirdly, saying some ABW can cook means NOTHING. That's an anecdotal. To be generally true, 50% or more of ABW must be able to cook [healthy wholesome meals]. NOT that mac & cheese slop they call cooking.
American woman stay away from me😂
She just read off plenty of reasons why we aren't marrying them. They aren't marriage material.
Who wants to hear a speech all of the time? Just be easy to get along with, damn.
You need to "hear a speech." When have you ever heard the stories of your own women. Treat your women with feminine nurture and they will be "easy to get along with." Its simple, Sir. 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻
@sreprezents lmao
@@laurenclark1990
We hear our women's story everyday. I know more about the politics at their job than I do my own. Shhhh.
If u dated women, u would praise us for how easy we make it look.
@@laurenclark1990the world doesn't owe you understanding just be feminine and friendly and fit...
@@laurenclark1990no your natural state is supposed to be feminine you shouldn't need a man to make you feminine just like a man doesn't need a woman to make him masculine...
SiS..THEY DON'T WANT US. Don't TRY to CONVINCE THEM. BE YOUR BEST VERSION. GOD KNOWS WHERE YOU ARE. TRUST..IT WILL HAPPEN.
Most men in the world🌏🌍🌎are traditional men and wanted traditional women🤦imagine that🤔💰🛂✈️
Being traditional and claiming to being traditional are two different things. 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹
🔄 Being traditional and not being traditional or two different things 😉
Nobody wants American women, especially "black" American women.. they are at the bottom of dating class, worldwide
Sisters have to work on themselves, physically,mentally and spiritually. There’s no other option
work on themselves? lol sisters are "perfect" and skrong. independent. don't need no man.
Why only Black American women? Why don't Black American men work on themselves and learn to be better men for their communities? It's so interesting the lies and manipulation going on. Black American women sacrificed and labored for the community, were trained to sacrifice themselves for BA men's interests, and now you all are talking about "working on themselves?" Kindly note that lots of BA women are doing the healing work, and they are leaving one-sided loyalty, behind. 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹
That they refuse to do, work on themselves!
And LOTS of Sistas are doing healing work. Doing beautiful work, every day-doing it for their families, men folk, and communities members. 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵
How did that mentality from SOME of our Sistas come about? When a man is loving, gentle, and brings wellness to a woman's life, you won't hear that from her. 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼
It don't matter what culture you came from and how you grew up. Men are simple creatures and no man should have to put up with a rebellious jezebel woman. Women you are designed to be a helpmeet to a man and to help him build his house. This is how the most high designed you and this is your purpose. It don't matter what culture you come from your role is supposed to be the same as every other woman. Men don't put with the foolishness from these women. You are the head, the king, and the priest of your home. If a woman ain't trying to get with your program then you send her on her way and find a replacement.
I don't even understand why black Americans waste their time explaining stuff to Nigerians. Just ignore them... Don't deal with them separate yourself from them... Live your life.. Just because they are black doesn't mean you have to interact.
Exactly 😂😂
Facts
They are shades of brown skin, European anthropologist catogorized people in to races. You are also brown skin go learn about the colorspectrum, black is charcoal, black oil or black pigment and in the colorspectrum black is the absorption of all colors in the colorspectrum.
Chocolate os brown, cocoa is brown, coffee is brown.
Johann Friedrich Blumenbach has been called 'The Father of Physical Anthropology' because of his pioneering publications describing human racial variation. He proposed a racial typology consisting of five 'major varieties/races' of humanity.
"The truth sounds like hate to people who hate to hear the truth.."
My take on European race theory. You want to hide something from so called "black" people put it in a book.
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Trance Atlantic slave trade to the Americas, South and North America and the Caribbean between the 1600 and 1900 was when Europeans started using race theory to categorize people in black, yellow, red and white which is ridicules if you have understanding about DNA or cell mutations or understand the etymology of the word black.
Did you know that energy can neither be created nor destroyed. It can only be transformed or transferred from one form to another.
23 chromosomes from your father and 23 chromosomes from your mother genetic data morphing together forms You.
According to advanced modern day science there is no such thing as race in genes or biology it is a social concept that people accepted often by force or willful ignorance.
(Read Race and the genetic revolution)
DNA makeup, genomes and chromosomes will tell your biological ancestry. Where our forebears came from can be seen in our DNA, but ancestry does not map onto race, because race is a myth, differences in skin and hair color are principally genetically determined.
Africa has the origin of everybody in the world from the tallest to the shortest, darkest brown skin color to the lightest hue, coarse hair to kinky to straight to frizzy hair all genetic information stored in DNA.
Races are those generalized labels such as "black", "white", "Yellow" and "Red". They are judged by the traits that people display.
Ethnicity are groups of people that have their own customs and languages that have settled in locations around the world.
Africa has the most diverse genetic gene pool, meaning a person from Ethiopia, Mozambique, Ghana, Sudan or Africans in the diaspora and everybody else, on a genetic level we might be totally different but we as dark browned to light hues skinned people share the same root. We have advanced technology even scientists have agreed that in biology there is no such thing as race. Today there is broad agreement among scientists that typological conceptions of race have no scientific basis.
So called Black race did not exist until Europeans decided to use a similar categorization systems, terms and phrases they created or found in the bible and switched terms and replace them with a color system and conveniently used it to categorize enslaved Africans like cattle during the trans Atlantic European slave trade.
Race is a social construct.
(Research anthropology and race or read The Göttingen school of history or read about genetics, DNA, genomes, chromosomes and cell mutations.)
While ethnicities do exist, races have been proven to be biologically inaccurate. Most of the time people judge a race by the physical traits a person has.
For instance, someone belonging to the so called "black race" is supposed to have dark skin.
So does this mean that a person belonging to an ethnic group in Africa is part of the black race?
No. We cannot assign a race to a person from any ethnic group for the following reasons:
1) First, all ethnicities were originally one group that came Sub-Saharan Africa. They lived there for at least 2 million years. Because of this, people from all ethnic groups today have 99.9 percent of their genetics in common.
2) It was only 60,000 years ago that a group of Africans left Africa and formed the various ethnic groups.
3) We can observe that the traits that have been traditionally associated with race are shared across all ethnic groups. In other words, dark skin is seen in the ethnic groups in the Indian subcontinent, in the Middle East, in South America, and many other parts of the world...not just in Africa.
4) And finally, ethnic groups have been mating with each other for thousands of years after their initial move out of Africa. This means that that all people are genetically mixed. There are no "pure" ethnic groups despite what some people may want to think.
So ethnicities do exist, but we can't group any ethnic group or any person into a race based on their physical traits. Races are a socially constructed myth. People actually have more in common genetically than they do different, despite what society and the media has taught us.
(read Robert Sussman had titled his book "The myth of race, the troubling persistence of an unscientific idea.")
The phrase "willful ignorance" has come to mean any situation in which people intentionally turn their attention away from an ethical problem that is believed to be important by those using the phrase (for instance, because the problem is too disturbing for people to want it dominating their thoughts, or from the knowledge that solving the problem would require extensive effort)
The contemporary word race itself is modern; historically it was used in the sense of "nation, ethnic group" during the 16th to 19th centuries.
(People with a God complex, who also described us as beast or animals. Their theory doesn't make race a fact specially a color like black like charcoal when our shades ranges from darkest brown to tanned brown and light hues but Europeans decide what our identity is.)
Pseudo science they used to fit their fantasy of a superior race and to distance themselves from a African origin.
(Describing people in ancient days was normal: People used many ways to describe what they witnessed, Moor and blackamoor. A Middle English word for "Ethiopian" (perhaps also "a negro" generally) was blewman "blue man." burned skin, pale man or red man, kemet and many other words even made up terms, nothing new i am aware of that.)
Today we can accurately describe skin color.
The term black itself is incorrect in to describe skin color, black is said to be "the sum of all colors" when a blackish stain is obtained from the mixture of various pigments.
And black is said to be the "absence of color" when all light radiation is removed. A black object absorbs all wavelengths of light and reflects none and that's why it appears black.
Etymology of the color black.
In English, “black” comes from the Old English blæc (“absolutely dark”, “absorbing all light”, “colour of soot or coal”), descending from the Proto-Germanic blakaz (“burned”; source of other Germanic words such as Swedish bläck [“ink”] and the Dutch blaken [“to burn”]), from the Proto-Indo-European bhleg (“to burn”, “
(How we see skin color)
Skin color ranges from darkest brown to the lightest hues. As sunlight, which is a combination of all wavelengths hits an object, some materials will absorb specific wavelengths. The wavelengths that aren't absorbed get reflected. This reflected light then reaches our eyes and makes us perceived the reflecting object as being a particular color.
I never understood why English speaking people call brown skin ranging from the darkest brown to light tanned brown as black, charcoal is black.
Chocolates, coffee bean, cacao, coconut, brown sugar, clay, mud or Africa reddish brown dirt. I'd rather call it beautifully brown.
I tend to have this discussion with people who come off as colorblind to the color brown specially English speaking people.
What is science
the systematic study of the structure and behaviour of the physical and natural world through observation, experimentation, and the testing of theories against the evidence obtained.
Race is pseudo science.
Respectively we can agree to disagree or correct me if you think i'm wrong.
You talk like we Nigerians care one bit about if you want to engage with us or not ...
@opeyemiadegoke361 You responded to this person. Clearly, you are triggered.
We just Americans not African American just Americans and we got to stop teaching that history that was taught to us by another race
We started calling ourselves African American when the pro blacks got jealous of others being called hyphenated names by the white media. A Korean or Nigerian will not use hyphens cause they know what they are but Americans have to put you in a box.
As an African I 1000% agree. I am in America but do not considered myself African American. I am African all day and night.
@@miirobrightvisions that's because you're an actual African none of us actually consider ourselves Africans it just denotes that we're genetically Americans of African descent.
@@miirobrightvisionsWHY YOU AIN'T AFRICAN ALL DAY IN AFRICA??
@@firsteyebeats2617 you ever heard of God made the universe and we can enjoy it at free will. To answer your question. I am planning on returning to where I came from soon. Coming here was just a part of the journey in my life. I have acquired what I came for.🙏🏿
NEWS 📰 FLASH.......Ladies, the passport 🛂 doesn't work in the other direction
We are not Africans. We are aboriginal Americans. We are natives to these lands not africa.
@ 10:00, American women are over-promised happiness, so they're the least likely to find it but are also cursed to be underwhelmed in life.
My dream is to have black American women return to black men and start cooperating with us and build together.
Never gonna happen
Too late
2 late for that brother 😅
Oh so a pipe dream
lol,keep dreaming.mr.whyte supremay owns them and make sure the blk family structure stay destroyed.
🤣🤣🤣 That's like saying rap will end and b's and h's vulgar language stop from the music 🤡
They will always get L's in Africa 😂😂😂
Got my passport
Nigeria women are behaving like these American women these days . Divorce is flying high in nigeria now
I don't care to hear the excuses of modern women. Bottom line the modern woman is the USa is a horrible choice for a wife. There is no way around it. At 53 years old, I am retires, financially is a doing very well and I just want peace and to be respected and loved. I cannot and will not try to change or teach a grown woman how to be a suitable spouse. Modern women have made it crystal clear, The don't want a man, they don't need a man and they clearly have no respect or appreciation for a man. So fine. Let them go and have at it. I don't care what happens to them. They are independent and they can handle it on their own. You can't be a BOSS chick them be a damsel in distress. GTFOH.
That "Jesus Christ" voice kills me every time 🤣🤣🤣
Many women dont want to cook and will tell you they dont want to cook. Dont marry them.
It's so crazy how the tables turn. Being a teen in the early 2000's, in an urban city in USA, I was taught that to be a "housewife" was the same as being a bum ass gold digger. No one respected a girl who didn't have a job.
In the 2000s men wanted an "independent woman"... All the guys I knew wanted a "boss Bitch". And not just referring to making money, but a bossy alpha female. I was affected deeply by this because I didn't fit the type & was often insulted for being too shy, quiet, and reserved.
Thank you for saying this. I went to college in the late 90s/early 2000s. All the men I knew wanted to be with a working woman. It seemed like being a housewife wasn’t even an option. Maybe I just associated with the wrong men. 🤷🏻♀️
The problem is that you only dealt with a certain type of man and you try to build your life around them. Most men dont mind if their women work in fact it helps the family if she does. What they dont like is when she get her paycheck and thinks that is her money and not the family money. Most people want to adopt the black Christian delusion of what is man is also woman but what is woman is woman. Women who has a good man and can help the family grow and improve usually set aside a nest egg for themselves in case things goes south. They usually are on his insurance and thats help her. Also most men if the relationship go south would rather they move out then the woman especially if she has kids. We dont buy ourselves a home we buy it for the woman. If the house belongs to his family then that is another story especially if its his mother house.
99% of men don't want a boss B. Stop lying, women were sold the Boss B mentality we never asked for that 🐂💩
@@CF.A working woman and a fake boss B are 2 different things. It's okay to work, however y'all don't know how to balance both most of the time
I live in New Orleans and I don’t know not one woman that doesn’t take pride in her superb cooking skills. I’ve been cooking since I could see over the stove.
Imagine traveling halfway across the globe and you *still* have terrible tastes when finding a mate
@@missklassy953and which country men is that?
Good post.
In general, African American women don't know how to deal with conflict...without having to get the government or not-interested parties involved, which is why they're not good candidates for marriage. The strength of a family in African cultures is based on the ability to handle conflict within the family, without having to get third parties involved. Whether it's a conflict between husband and wife, in-laws, having or not having kids, infidelity, property and inheritance after an elderly parent dies etc. This is why Africans are so against divorce, because it's a confession that a. the family is weak and b. it's a third party outside of the family, without the best interest of family, coming in to deal with a conflict.
African cultures literally worship marriage, and are very focused on what the objective of a marriage is: to have children, carry on a family legacy, and set your children up to have better futures than you did - regardless of if you're a poor person living in a hut or a wealthy person living in a mansion, marriage is seen the same way, and has the same level of reverence. If you have a historical heritage, trauma that makes it impossible to achieve those objectives or too difficult for you to do so because of all the psychological baggage that you have, God bless you and all the empathy in the world to you, but you're a poor candidate for marriage...and anyone who ends up marrying you will ultimately come to regret it.
The issue isn't the conflict of cultures, it's the willingness to overcome the conflict to achieve the objective, and truth be told, and a lot of brothas know this, sistas almost always want you to submit to their plight, trauma and issues over your own, and if you're unwilling to do that, they'll fight you tooth and nail, because they don't know how to compromise or to agree to disagree, and that's the inherent politics that they've had since the Black Feminists broke up the Black Nationalist movement in the 1970's over disagreements...that attitude and willingness to break up the family and community, if you don't get what you want or to ally with third parties (i.e. white feminists, family courts etc) rather than sit down and negotiate a solution that doesn't ultimately jeopardize the objectives of family, is what ultimately makes them incapable of being good marriage partners, regardless of which culture they seek such relationships with.
An African man is not going to put up will a woman who does not cook and who is not respectful.
With so many beautiful and marriageable African women, why would and African men look outside for a wife. Africans aren’t looking outside to marry. We’re good! Black American women, you had your chance with your American brother but you spoiled that. Now they’re in our continent getting wives. We don’t blame them.
You don’t speak for all African men! Been married to my Yoruba husband for 4 years living happily in Abuja. I’m a housewife so cook and clean! He pays all the bills!
@smadden3933 Yes, I do speak for the majority. Your sole situation doesn't represent the majority.
@@TraditionallyModernizedIt's all over social media how these Black American women act they've been possessed by some Jezebel spirit, think they can do no wrong and don't listen to anything a black man has to say. I don't even want to go into the type of men they have kids with we're just done trying to reason with them.
@@TraditionallyModernized Ok let’s also talk about how my Yoruba husbands child’s mother (also Yoruba) abandoned their baby with him at 9 months old. The child is 6 years old now. I’ve been raising the baby as my own! I cook her favorite meals, help with homework, wipe her tears from bad dreams, brew herbal teas and lemon when she’s sick, etc.
What about this behavior is traditional from a Yoruba woman that abandoned her baby in infancy?
@smadden3933 your sole situation doesn't represent the majority. Keep focusing on your husband.
We already know this...🤔 '
@5:00 You can tell she's crazy. Anytime you tell the truth about American BW they call it hateful rhetoric
There a video out about the Africa American culture of today and where it originally came .from.the south of England very disturbing.
Thomas Sowell did that research
You're talking about the book Black Rednecks and they're a loud minority because the American government wants people to think that's how most of us are. Now I will say most of the women act like that which is why they're the least married group of women.
Thank you u seen the video?
@@cbfbmc I haven't watched the video just read the book. The way the English man dealt with the issue was by force and obviously we can't do that because we don't run the government. We just have to wait until they literally kill each other off. In the meantime those of us who don't subscribe to that backwards culture are going overseas.
Simply put, men are looking for woman that are traditional like there mothers...not boss chicks, men don't want trash!
This so-called Black American woman mentally inadequate, just busy to be baby factory period 😮😮😢
Yo that first girls lace front is craaaaaazy😂
I like that. That first woman is hoping this african brother changes. Because, you know, no woman needs to ever put in any kind of effort at all.
What a sad state of affairs AA women are in. I don’t feel sorry for them because they put themselves in this position.
It doesn't mean that he's with the wife. December is called "dirty December". It's just promiscuity galore.
I'm African. My mom has been a housewife and my father has mistreated her despite the fact that she is very faithful, cooks every day, several times a day and let him do everything he wanted career wise and raised the kids that have his last name, so much so that he is rich rich. But he has continuously mistreated her. Now the same man because he knows how he treated his own housewife doesn't want me to be one.
A lot of these so called modern women were raised that way by their fathers to protect them against y'all
African men are as much trash as y'all.
You don't know anything about us then Black American men have always been egalitarian talk to any woman who has been with a Black American man there isn't any DV going on.
Thank you! I grew up around African men and what my eyes have seen is crazy. It's not all a fairytale. A lot them cheat and disrespect their wives.
We have culture African and the world follows us
Passport bros we up ✈️ ✈️✈️✈️✈️
I wonder if he was talking about her 🤣🤣🤣
All I hear is "You need to accept me as I am, bcuz I ain't changing"
I've been a passport bro in Thailand for almost 4 years now. I've never seen a western woman Hook up with an Asian man. Lots of lesbian action on the other hand.
What she says has nothing to do with being a shitty partner. Black women are used to being mean, aggressive, wild and a man is supposed to just take it because she has a vagina. Men want peace, if you can't bring that, most men aren't going to want you past sex.
The oldest skeleton found in south America in a region of Brazil was of a black woman they call Luzia, it dated 11,500 year's old. Question; what do you think happened to their ancestors because you know she wasn't alone? We are indigenous to North and South America!
There is a reason my wife is Japanese 😂😂😂
Passport 🎉😂😂😂
Aa problem of most americans. Regardless of skin color. White americans go overseas and tell germans they are actually germans. Eventhough they have zero idea about german culture or proclivities. For some reason americans do not understad this.
COOKING!!!! Most black American women ain't gonna cook. Bottom line. Most black women have to visit folks for Christmas dinners or Thanksgiving Day dinners because they don't know how to prepare those meals at all. However, other women of other cultures cook and are skilled at it.
That last chick look terrible 😖
Shows us that look and mindset exists in Africa too.
@ajdynamo6866 Well she said she lives in Houston, TX alot of Nigerians down there
Poor Sistas
No comment.
Imagine being from America and thinking you're the victim of history compared to an African man. Wow.
They always thinking the grass is greener on the other side! Better stop listening to people like Mrs. "Sprinkle Sprinkle" and Steve Harvey! 😂
That's funny... I know this chick that married a nigerian. ....
he played her good. Taking her money and sending it to his wife in Africa.
I need to help my sister and stuff. I hate to say she deserved it ..... she earned it.
Yea I believe it. So many countless stories of this. There is a guy right now who is around 30 and married a older 65+ lady and two year hit and is ready to divorce and bring real wife over. They have people spreading awareness on tiktok and other social media platforms but these women dont listen. They say people are hating on them or jealous. So they will learn.
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Que the Mayweather gif "You get a L, L, L, L, L, L, L" 😂😂😂😂
Stop making excuses and change your attitudes (and weight) or Pookie and Ray Ray gon have a lot of BWs to service....Passports up!
Stop making excuses and treat your women like women. 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹
@@laurenclark1990 If they acted like women...they would be treated like women. 👍
...Ummm, y'all do realize that Nigerian women agree wuth their men? In normal cultures men usually hold veiws and women follow. The world is like, "Why are American Black men allowing their women to be like that?"
Because ABW don't belong to Americna Black men. They belong to WM.
@@TheSoloTravelerORD interesting take. If you feel that you are admitting that another group was able to conquer you and take your property. Latinos, Africans etc were subject to colonization but didn’t let Europeans take their women and children but ABM did? See how you are making yourselves look bad?
@@brandihebert5617Read Daughters Of The Trade you were never our "women" to begin with. For the most part the slave trade was male oriented you were just brought across the middle passage 100+ years later to set up breeding farms.
@@TheSoloTravelerORDyou are a weak dude. You just ain’t enough man. Every chick I ever had from all over the world that I met in America. American women included all bowed down. Why because I am a man. I never want any woman. They want me. Your past being a beta bra. You go thousands of miles to get a wife and get laid. That is straight weak. The woman that you think is masculine is masculine because you don’t act like a man around her.
Thos is the same for men as well. In these Larumos , Hispanic countries, if you are not the top G , they will play you dirty
Goodness it 2023 I'm central African grew up in the states but the conversations are getting repeatative
Nigerian men are very very traditional to the core so if you meet one that's willing to ALLOW/ACCEPT you run their papers in order to become a citizen? My sister, you are getting a big fat L. Our men don't joke with their pride and they always want to be the trad man and we all know how most women can be when they do something for a man
I have friends that migrated to US, UK, Canada.. and they always say nothing will make them marry women there because they don't know how to be a trad woman.
They can't be housewives hanging out and partying
its too late. no amount of explaining is going to change the ABW image abroad.
Big difference. I can go to Philippines and my culture is totally different than this Asian girls. But yet they WANT us to come. Whether we're white or black these Asian women LOVE what American men have to offer. But men in these other countries aren't begging for American women to marry. Sex?? Sure. Nobody is pining to marry American women. It's not an issue of a difference in culture, they don't like the difference in attitude and mentality. But I show up in the Philippines?? These beautiful Asian women be fighting to lock us down.
Why arent those foreign men marrying their women?
Dude I think you have some kinda hurt against Nigerian men. You have showcase nothing but the bad side of the relationship of Nigerian men. Everything was good until she said something negative about African American black men
Nah, I have no issues against my bros. I'm only show casing how screwed up ABW are thinking they can be like passport bros
Yes. Men stop loving women who nag. If you've ever twice asked a man to do something, he does not love you.
In actuality we are not African we are native to this country the African-American is something that they put a tag on us that's not our identity
DON'T BRING MY GOD INTO THIS 😅
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Doesn't matter the history. The man was telling the truth. Stop making excuses.
Just tell them all, BYE FELICIA!!! 😂
Funny things I meet african bro here in the us. They got baby mothers just like us. I don't have any kids yet. Ain't find a good enough woman yet.
Foreign men know what's up.
Lol the violin😂😅
Wig, lashes, makeup....
3:13.. that does not mean you get to act so shameful... Your man/ a man is a shamed of the way you behave
Not all African Americans is from Africa it got we was broken up. Some is from Africa some is from Egypt.
In some is from other places.
America went you to believe we all? Was? From? Africa. No we wasn't.😮 Black people really need to do a research.
We ain't from know Egypt majority of us is from Ghana, Nigeria, Congo, and Angola through transatlantic slave trade. Most BA are of Nigerian orgin.
Damn, that woman looked like a Black Madame Blossoms with all that damn makeup on.
1:41 NO, you don't know our culture STOP!!!
The woman is no ignorant. Africa has over 50 countries. She doesn't even know which one she comes from. Not all African countries like each other. That like saying an American English woman can go to Ireland, because they both have white skin, and claim that's her heritage. You just gave another reason why any many men within African ain't dealing with you. The need to be right.
Huge difference in a woman saying "I LOVE TO COOK" VS "YEAH I WILL THOUGH"
Lol
Excuses 101.
The biggest boss women move that a woman can do is to shell that home and family. That is clout. That is a flex.
Another BANGER ORD
What is taking Ls?
Taking loses