There’s a quote that I read that really sticks with me “No matter who you are or what you do, there will always be someone who doesn’t like you but at the same time, there will always be someone for you.” As a people’s pleasure, this helps remind me not to go overboard as not everyone is going to like me
as a 16yr old thank you so much for saying ”how others perceive you doesn’t change who you are” and that life doesn’t really have a purpose other than happiness. your videos always help me a lot & i’m so grateful to have found them
✨Time stamps✨: - having a focus point 1:28 - don't put someone on a pedestal 2:35 - having flaws 3:47 - give everything a day (to think things over) 4:58 - communication is key 5:41 - being "weird or different" 6:37 - dealing with hate 9:09 - how others perceive you doesn't change who you are 10:02 - not having a "purpose" in life 10:35
@@the_serene202 when she says have a “focus point” she means when stuff is changing around you, focusing on something that’s constant will help you deal with that change easier
I love this kind of videos because it kinda helps to heal old wounds. I’m 25 now but some things from my teenage years haunt me to this day. And hearing someone sharing their experience being the same as mine is… refreshing? Helps to think “wow so that’s normal and nothing to be ashamed of!” So thank you very much. ♥️
Timestamps for you guys and Via [11:45] [12:25] things that apply to via doesn't mean it applies to you!!! [1:35] --> you need a focus point when change is happening [2:35] --> everyone is just a human and has the same ending, you know nothing about your celebrity crush. don't put them on a pedestal [3:43] --> flaws are a good thing [4:34] --> take in flaws of your friends [5:00] --> give everything a day [5:52] --> communicating solves most things [6:14] --> friendship takes time to build [6:59] --> just be yourself and don't worry you're too 'weird' or 'odd'. don't hide your authentic self [9:32] --> no matter what you do there are always gonna be haters. you gotta be relevant to be hated on. [10:45] --> you don't have a purpose in life. you can build your own if you want to, but a purpose in life is not mandatory so it's okay if you don't have one
Via,can you make a video about comfort zone? Like I am curious about how you got used to going to the gym or how you continue things when you are anxious instead of just giving up. Love ya
just 13 minute of via feels like 5 minute... I might need a longer version just to hear her talk♡︎ (she makes me laugh and it feels like someone is finally talking to me personally)
You made me understand something that was so simple and obvious, but because of a person's tendency to do things or be something "expected" in different departments of life, we completely forgot that we're only human. It's as if mistakes aren't even possible. Being a teenager is like a baby opening their eyes for the first time in the "real world" where changes are constant and we don't notice we are part of it. I'm so glad i discovered you Via, your awareness and down-to-earth personality touched me.
I found via a couple years ago with her "I have no fiends" short / reel / tiktok and I'm really happy to see her learning the same things I have in my own journey through life. From what I'm hearing I think she must be doing better and the future looks bright.
I’m 16 and I have no friends so I started TH-cam so that I can start a community and share my life with people ,but you inspired me to post so thank you 💗🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
Am 16 and I found so much comfort in your videos I struggle with anxiety and you really helped me to look at it with different perspective, Ty so much for being here 🩵🤍
hi via! this video was posted with such immaculate timing. something happened between me and my girl bsf and i thought we would have a falling out because of it. thus, i gave her the silent treatment and made everything super uncomfortable between us. but when i was watching this video it really reminded me of the importance of communication and the fact that i am well overdue an explanation for her. thank u so much for this, it really gave me the strength to talk to her again.
So, I am starting my college this august and honestly I am so anxious about it cause yk it's a huge change for me school to college, so my older sister advised this one thing she said "I know you'll manage the studies but the most imp advice I can give you is that make friends wisely" And that is stuck with me and for me I feel grateful because you have actually changed me a lot (in a good way) Thanks via, I adore you 💗🌷
PLEASE make this into a series!! I love watching your videos whenever im journaling or doing my skincare because it feels like im listening to an old friend giving an advice whenever im tired or just done with life
im so glad i found your channel. generally i don't get 'inspired' by other people but watching your videos just teach me to relax a lil which is super helpful. even when you're just taking yourself out on a solo date it's really healing to see someone just want nothing more than to simply just live life. keep doing what you're doing as its amazing!
via, you have helped me so much with building confidence as well as helping me figure out who i am and figuring out who i want to be. thank you so much for your videos 🎀
Dude you helped me sm. I’m 13 (ik I’m young) but you definitely helped me a lot. I started journaling my thoughts I also dropped all my toxic friends. I’m gone through sm and I’m so proud of my self❤.
I agree with you about not taking advices from anyone that is actually true by experience,& I always ask my self is this person tryna give me some advices actually living the life I want to live!
Via!!! I love your vids 😭😭😭 I had a mental breakdown again today!! You honestly help me become my best self!! I can’t thank you enough for being such an amazingly and inspiring human being!! I’m forever grateful!!!
Always love your videos ❤️ I can't wait until we're all older and we can look back and think 'gee, things weren't as bad as they seemed' or 'the solution to being happy was so much closer in reach than I ever could've realised' 💕✨
I don’t understand how could people hate u via , you are litteraly so clever and perfect . Every time im upset im coming here to watch your videos beacouse it’s always makes me feel so comfortable . Thank you for being here
I'm a teenage girl and I relate a lot to the subjects you talk about in your videos. Especially the fact that we all try to fit in when we are young and the feeling of guilt and fear that comes when you do anything. Sometimes you feel as if everything you do is wrong or like you could've done it differently. You also feel lost because you don't have a strong sense of identity yet. In the end, there is no right way of doing things, you just experiment them. The thing that helped me the most was figuring who I was, by fiding what I liked to do, what was truly important to me (friendships, family, hobbies etc...) and putting less pressure on myself, I'm still young. I already figured out by myself some of the things you mentioned and that makes me happy.
You dont know how much i love your videos🫶🏼 i started watching your videos from the one called alone in ny and you grew so much!! Happy about that you deserve the world😭
i was just going thru some shit and after 20 mint she just posted this and all my worries and stress was gone.....thats how miracles work, via is a goddess for real..love u via ❤
never ever think you wasted your teenage years or the years behind you. those years where you wish you knew something or could’ve done something else brought you to where you are now. be grateful that the flaws your past self made are not ones that you continue to show now and be kind to who you once were.
no words can describe how much comport i found in you and your videos i watch your vlogs 24/7 thanks for helping me out of that hole i‘m stuck in for years❤
i'm 17 and i've been watching vias vids for months now and they're usually all so inspiring and relatable but the "not having a purpose" point really threw me off for me, having a purpose is one of the most liberating things i have. sure, working towards my goals is tough and yes everything i do is for that purpose but i could never idly breeze through life like that. my purpose it what guides my decisions and steers my focus, my purpose is something that motivates me to get out of bed, to go to college, to get a job i believe that you don't have to have a purpose to be happy, but gliding through life with that specific mindset of "i just want to be happy" is such a waste of potential that's all, do better
no bcs the way your videos would've helped me soo much in early middle school and still help me now (going into my second year of highschool!) love u and ur content always viaaa
Thanks you so much for this via again and yesssss please a series of this will be soo good ( for my life) cuz whatever u have said just made me question myself like what am I doing? Your advices are the best which is helping me a lot though my Teenage luvvvu a lottt 💕
Your videos are what comforts me daily so much, you're like that big sister who is truthful yet soothing about life and it's struggles, love you so much Via, hope you have an amazing week 💗 💗💗
I LOVE WHEN YOU UPLOAD OMGGGGG!! wee teenager from Scotland here and your videos make me feel sm better for being “behind,” when social media really warps your perception of who you should be and when, when in reality you should probably just be worried about just now. Thank you for feeling like the big sister I don’t have ❤❤❤
im literally turning 17 this September and this girl i found on a random day and random hour is just changing my life into the better, i literally have fixed myself into a better way with those amazing episodes, i appreciate via so much and i love her so much, please don't give up!!
Hey Via, I discovered your channel few months ago thanks to this first video about teenage years. I relate to you a lot about the things you share in your videos ! This community really feels like a safe place ✨
Honestly bro Via literally is soo relatable because honestly yeah I dont know who I am or my personality and I always try to fit in and I am definitely not very communication type of person so since I watched her video I'm gonna try to be more communicative
I’ve been watching ur vids since ur first few vids and I can believe how far you’ve made it (honestly I can bcs ur so good @ what you do). I’m so proud of you viaaa💗💗
I actually started watching you like a year ago and I kinda knew you were gonna blow up cause you are so wise and funny so yea this vid is also amazing btw 🥰
Yay via posted thank you so much for this video via and also this is so true especially in high school I felt like I couldn’t be myself because of my friends or Other people and now I just have to work on myself more to realize what makes me feel happy and what makes me feel like myself. 💕
There’s a quote that I read that really sticks with me
“No matter who you are or what you do, there will always be someone who doesn’t like you but at the same time, there will always be someone for you.”
As a people’s pleasure, this helps remind me not to go overboard as not everyone is going to like me
Real!!!
new via vid dropping is like getting hope to continue living
Totally agree!! ❤
@@zmartwychwstaniepoety i agree !!
Real
as a 16yr old thank you so much for saying ”how others perceive you doesn’t change who you are” and that life doesn’t really have a purpose other than happiness. your videos always help me a lot & i’m so grateful to have found them
This video is really smth
The thing about not needing a purpose is such a good point omg 😭
✨Time stamps✨:
- having a focus point 1:28
- don't put someone on a pedestal 2:35
- having flaws 3:47
- give everything a day (to think things over) 4:58
- communication is key 5:41
- being "weird or different" 6:37
- dealing with hate 9:09
- how others perceive you doesn't change who you are 10:02
- not having a "purpose" in life 10:35
thank youu❤
Thanks, but I didn't get the "focus point"😅
@@the_serene202 when she says have a “focus point” she means when stuff is changing around you, focusing on something that’s constant will help you deal with that change easier
@@Kitkit759 ohh now I get it thx lots !😊
Your perspective on not having/needing a life purpose is actually so refreshing. i've never heard anyone put it like that
The celebrity one is so real esp for Korean idols
Its like... Theyre human like everyone, nothing special😭
yes
taking in personalities is so real bc i used to imitate my fav youtubers so often it felt uncanny
Ong this is so real
Itadori?? what are you doing here?!!
I love this kind of videos because it kinda helps to heal old wounds. I’m 25 now but some things from my teenage years haunt me to this day. And hearing someone sharing their experience being the same as mine is… refreshing? Helps to think “wow so that’s normal and nothing to be ashamed of!”
So thank you very much. ♥️
Same!!!
Timestamps for you guys and Via [11:45]
[12:25] things that apply to via doesn't mean it applies to you!!!
[1:35] --> you need a focus point when change is happening
[2:35] --> everyone is just a human and has the same ending, you know nothing about your celebrity crush. don't put them on a pedestal
[3:43] --> flaws are a good thing
[4:34] --> take in flaws of your friends
[5:00] --> give everything a day
[5:52] --> communicating solves most things
[6:14] --> friendship takes time to build
[6:59] --> just be yourself and don't worry you're too 'weird' or 'odd'. don't hide your authentic self
[9:32] --> no matter what you do there are always gonna be haters. you gotta be relevant to be hated on.
[10:45] --> you don't have a purpose in life. you can build your own if you want to, but a purpose in life is not mandatory so it's okay if you don't have one
THANK YOUU❤❤
Via,can you make a video about comfort zone? Like I am curious about how you got used to going to the gym or how you continue things when you are anxious instead of just giving up. Love ya
Finding your videos actually helped me so much with my insecurities, thank you so much, I love you!
just 13 minute of via feels like 5 minute... I might need a longer version just to hear her talk♡︎ (she makes me laugh and it feels like someone is finally talking to me personally)
Same 😂
As a 14 yr Old you started to change my mental mindset to love myself more! Thank you Via!
You made me understand something that was so simple and obvious, but because of a person's tendency to do things or be something "expected" in different departments of life, we completely forgot that we're only human. It's as if mistakes aren't even possible. Being a teenager is like a baby opening their eyes for the first time in the "real world" where changes are constant and we don't notice we are part of it.
I'm so glad i discovered you Via, your awareness and down-to-earth personality touched me.
I found via a couple years ago with her "I have no fiends" short / reel / tiktok and I'm really happy to see her learning the same things I have in my own journey through life. From what I'm hearing I think she must be doing better and the future looks bright.
I’m 16 and I have no friends so I started TH-cam so that I can start a community and share my life with people ,but you inspired me to post so thank you 💗🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
Via is my comfort creator for real
Same!
Am 16 and I found so much comfort in your videos I struggle with anxiety and you really helped me to look at it with different perspective, Ty so much for being here 🩵🤍
hi via! this video was posted with such immaculate timing. something happened between me and my girl bsf and i thought we would have a falling out because of it. thus, i gave her the silent treatment and made everything super uncomfortable between us. but when i was watching this video it really reminded me of the importance of communication and the fact that i am well overdue an explanation for her. thank u so much for this, it really gave me the strength to talk to her again.
So, I am starting my college this august and honestly I am so anxious about it cause yk it's a huge change for me school to college, so my older sister advised this one thing she said "I know you'll manage the studies but the most imp advice I can give you is that make friends wisely" And that is stuck with me and for me I feel grateful because you have actually changed me a lot (in a good way) Thanks via, I adore you 💗🌷
PLEASE make this into a series!! I love watching your videos whenever im journaling or doing my skincare because it feels like im listening to an old friend giving an advice whenever im tired or just done with life
I agree!!!
Via is my free therapy
Literally!!! She amazing!!
I love these part 2 updates to your past videos. It shows how much you grew 💛
ilysm via ur videos r so comforting
im so glad i found your channel. generally i don't get 'inspired' by other people but watching your videos just teach me to relax a lil which is super helpful. even when you're just taking yourself out on a solo date it's really healing to see someone just want nothing more than to simply just live life. keep doing what you're doing as its amazing!
Via is funny and lovable she make me feel very comfortable and relatable watching her videos .WE ALL LOVE YOU VIA
via, you have helped me so much with building confidence as well as helping me figure out who i am and figuring out who i want to be. thank you so much for your videos 🎀
Dude you helped me sm. I’m 13 (ik I’m young) but you definitely helped me a lot. I started journaling my thoughts I also dropped all my toxic friends. I’m gone through sm and I’m so proud of my self❤.
I agree with you about not taking advices from anyone that is actually true by experience,& I always ask my self is this person tryna give me some advices actually living the life I want to live!
Via!!! I love your vids 😭😭😭 I had a mental breakdown again today!! You honestly help me become my best self!! I can’t thank you enough for being such an amazingly and inspiring human being!! I’m forever grateful!!!
Always love your videos ❤️ I can't wait until we're all older and we can look back and think 'gee, things weren't as bad as they seemed' or 'the solution to being happy was so much closer in reach than I ever could've realised' 💕✨
please make this a series, i love you tysm for the advices 🥺🤧💕💕
I don’t understand how could people hate u via , you are litteraly so clever and perfect . Every time im upset im coming here to watch your videos beacouse it’s always makes me feel so comfortable . Thank you for being here
I’m so grateful for all of your advice ❤❤
your videos are litteraly making my life so much better
I'm a teenage girl and I relate a lot to the subjects you talk about in your videos. Especially the fact that we all try to fit in when we are young and the feeling of guilt and fear that comes when you do anything. Sometimes you feel as if everything you do is wrong or like you could've done it differently. You also feel lost because you don't have a strong sense of identity yet. In the end, there is no right way of doing things, you just experiment them. The thing that helped me the most was figuring who I was, by fiding what I liked to do, what was truly important to me (friendships, family, hobbies etc...) and putting less pressure on myself, I'm still young. I already figured out by myself some of the things you mentioned and that makes me happy.
You dont know how much i love your videos🫶🏼 i started watching your videos from the one called alone in ny and you grew so much!! Happy about that you deserve the world😭
i was just going thru some shit and after 20 mint she just posted this and all my worries and stress was gone.....thats how miracles work, via is a goddess for real..love u via ❤
i love ur vids via they r really relatable 🫶
they have helped me so much
don’t stop what ur doing ilysm 💗
a fresh breath of air this sunday! thank you via ❤
never ever think you wasted your teenage years or the years behind you. those years where you wish you knew something or could’ve done something else brought you to where you are now. be grateful that the flaws your past self made are not ones that you continue to show now and be kind to who you once were.
whyy do your videos always make me cry, i love you Via
i love your talk vids - they rlly are relating and calming.
Same!!!
i am really greatfull that you are on this platform ,love ya!
you're so real girl i never get tired of your videos! ♥♥
no words can describe how much comport i found in you and your videos
i watch your vlogs 24/7
thanks for helping me out of that hole i‘m stuck in for years❤
i always get so happy to see your posts ! thank you for uploading this , you and your videos always made me feel extremely comforted
Your videos are super relatable and therapeutic, keep it up please❤🙏🏽
girl ilyy, you're so comfortable to watch
Yesss Via posteddd, your vids are like a gift to my soul gurl, keep going strong
i really admire and appreciate you a lot, Via ♡ thank you for all that you do 🩷🌷
YESS a series plss, I love hearing your advices and all
i'm 17 and i've been watching vias vids for months now and they're usually all so inspiring and relatable but the "not having a purpose" point really threw me off
for me, having a purpose is one of the most liberating things i have. sure, working towards my goals is tough and yes everything i do is for that purpose but i could never idly breeze through life like that.
my purpose it what guides my decisions and steers my focus, my purpose is something that motivates me to get out of bed, to go to college, to get a job
i believe that you don't have to have a purpose to be happy, but gliding through life with that specific mindset of "i just want to be happy" is such a waste of potential
that's all, do better
Hi Via! 🤍 Your vlogs are always comforting and like hanging out with a friend
your videos sometimes make me open my eyes to things, it's incredible. never stop, Via!
no bcs the way your videos would've helped me soo much in early middle school and still help me now (going into my second year of highschool!) love u and ur content always viaaa
Thanks you so much for this via again and yesssss please a series of this will be soo good ( for my life) cuz whatever u have said just made me question myself like what am I doing? Your advices are the best which is helping me a lot though my Teenage luvvvu a lottt 💕
so happy to get to see a new vlog of yours 🫶🏻
this is so helpful, thank u viaaaaaaaa
THANK YOU, VIA. From the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU. ❤ This video of yours uplifted my soul!
Your videos are what comforts me daily so much, you're like that big sister who is truthful yet soothing about life and it's struggles, love you so much Via, hope you have an amazing week 💗 💗💗
Seeing this in my teenage years is so comforting, ur like my big sister 😭💗
i love you for these videos bc these videos are so real
I LOVE WHEN YOU UPLOAD OMGGGGG!! wee teenager from Scotland here and your videos make me feel sm better for being “behind,” when social media really warps your perception of who you should be and when, when in reality you should probably just be worried about just now. Thank you for feeling like the big sister I don’t have ❤❤❤
teenager from scotland as well , who also feels behind !! im so glad im not alone in that experience 😭
Girl you are so pretty, your sense of style is so cute!!!!!!
this helped me alottt, i would love to see the series if you made onee
you make me so happy 💗you're like an elder sister to me love you via💗
Happy Sunday Via ! Def missed you ! ♥️ today better be sweet to you !
I love your videos during my time discovering myself after wasting my highschool years. ❤❤❤
youre literally inspiring me to keep living and keep going. Love ya!! ❤❤
i missed your journal entries Via♡♡♡
girl your fashion sense is so nice😍
im literally turning 17 this September and this girl i found on a random day and random hour is just changing my life into the better, i literally have fixed myself into a better way with those amazing episodes, i appreciate via so much and i love her so much, please don't give up!!
omg i was downloading some of your vids so i can listen to it outside and i… omg i miss you so much❤
I'm honestly obsessed with the fits!! I live for these videos 🌷😭
Me at my almost 20 year old birthday watching this, I'm still lost lol
Omg yessss YESSS I watched the other video maybe 10.000 times. So happy for a part two
Hey Via, I discovered your channel few months ago thanks to this first video about teenage years. I relate to you a lot about the things you share in your videos ! This community really feels like a safe place ✨
you look so pretty via, i love u❤
My fav TH-cam be pretty as always fr.love u via
via posts videos exactly when I need them
Honestly bro Via literally is soo relatable because honestly yeah I dont know who I am or my personality and I always try to fit in and I am definitely not very communication type of person so since I watched her video I'm gonna try to be more communicative
today and tomorrow is gonna be a great day if via posts ☺️
Discovered your channel not a so long time ago but I can say I find you just so inspiring. Go on!!
Loved this as always, just what I needed ❤❤
We love you for being this realistic and relieving us through let us know it's okay if we don't have a purpose.
I literally love u so much thank u for making videos
I'm a high schooler, and i love your videos sm I, especially these ones. I take in as much advice as possible 😭💗
Love your personality, love your videos, never change, and keep doing your good work 😁😂
Via you're my comfort youtuber, I'm glad you exist to give everyone great advice ❤❤
I love your videos so much!! So thanks for making them ❤
I’ve been watching ur vids since ur first few vids and I can believe how far you’ve made it (honestly I can bcs ur so good @ what you do). I’m so proud of you viaaa💗💗
Thank You for this amazing Video! Stay healthy and Happy Via! Love You ❤
I love your content via, am always looking forward to your videos stay amazing girlie 💖
Im so happy i found ur account you've helped me so muchh ❤
I actually started watching you like a year ago and I kinda knew you were gonna blow up cause you are so wise and funny so yea this vid is also amazing btw 🥰
I'm grateful for finding your channel, sis ❤
Yay via posted thank you so much for this video via and also this is so true especially in high school I felt like I couldn’t be myself because of my friends or
Other people and now I just have to work on myself more to realize what makes me feel happy and what makes me feel like myself. 💕
enjoyed this cute and cozy kind of vlog, Via! ❤