The majority of affairs start with friends (37%) or people at work (30%). The average married woman has her first affair 7 years into marriage. Up to 50% of all divorces in the U.S. are primarily caused by extramarital affairs. Most states are no fault states so there really is a reason to be cautious.
Yeah the chances of finding something worth it are like near 0 nowadays while the chances of losing everything and ending up in misery are inversely proportional. Thanks to statistics I've become allergic to gaslight. I know the right girl *exist* for me, but in my experience, there's an ocean of landmines around her. Even if being alone hurts, I know it will hurt less than messing up--again. Relationships are broken and we can't just pretend they aren't when we are seeing its effects all around us, and especially even more on social media.
There's nothing a wife can do for you that you can't hire for and live in peace without legal entanglements that always put you at risk of losing half your shyte. Kids? Surrogacy. Loving? Pay for GF experience. Stay safe guys.
Especially when no fault divorce tries forcing men to stay in a relationship with a cheating wife or the man gets took to the cleaners. Heaven forbid the biased judges do what's best and right over favoring women, especially with the women want equality bs. Courts favor women, so where's equality?
Divorce rates are at 50% so if 1 in 2 cars were totaled every year would anyone drive? If divorce was fair it would be different, men getting custody 50% of the time, women pay CS 50% of the time and women pay alimony 50% of the time.
There's nothing a wife can do for you that you can't hire for and live in peace without legal entanglements that always put you at risk of losing half your shyte.
Or court rules 90% in favor of women or child support or permanent alimony, part of unfair laws that literally land u in prison. Recently a Georgia case blew up on social media: A guy buys a house, then marries a woman with a child, then she divorces him and takes the house AND he has to pay her all the bills. Men see that unfairness and go like: Heeelll naaaah!
@@joshanonline THe women who end up with nothing, nevery put anything into the marriage in the first place. They think they should get paid just for breathing
There's one too many of these cases. One guy in CA skipped college for the trades. He bought land, built his own house by 25, family and friends helping. Got married and at 29 or 33 I forget, he lost it in divorce. Why? He came home to find a random balls deep in her right in the living room. She didn't even care to hide. She rushed and filed for divorce and cleaned him like a whistle. That story was on Tom Leykis. That show was wild, glad it's on YT. These days marriage is like men fall in love but women are in business.
Well, this DEFINITELY needs a part 2 where they come together as a full couple, but agree that marriage is off the table for at least 5 years. Possibly even 10. That way, there's no pressure on either of them.
@@timothyhansen6581 they won't... Because In a twist he'll take his walls down and she'll find out that as thrilling as the chase was he's boring and she'll be tempted and will cheat with a co worker who sparks the thrill in her again and they'll have a messy divorce and she'll take him to the cleaners but he'll have proof and a cut throat lawyer and she'll monologue at the end how even though he was right he had no right to destroy her in court
Divorce laws need to be changed and judges shouldn't be allowed to throw out prenups; even by law! Prenups need to be a man's duty to decide, not a judge's!
It's funny how she can recognize the facts, but still sees him as being unreasonable. I wonder what her opinion would be if she was the one taking all the risks instead of him.
Had my one and only divorce at 43 I’m 58 now was left broke never going back for a second bite of that rotten apple called marriage. Have friends I share values with and hobbies. If I want a woman in the physical sense I rent one a lot cheaper than marriage. Congratulations, ladies you played yourselves.
Women don't care about men's perspectives, standards etc. They are natural narcs and natural egomaniacs. Proof? See how they go off when they are told they can't meet a man's standard. Whenever they want their way what's their go to mo? Yep, tears, gas lighting, out right manipulation, insults, guilt tripping, need to be right, etc.
And when a divorce comes she takes half of what was his in the first place. Always saying what men want to hear before marriage. True colors show after marriage and/or during divorce. Women are majorly responsible for his way of thinking with all the bs feminist man hating propaganda.
Romance between work colleagues, especially those with different levels of authority, should be avoided.
Yep mom used to say never get your bread and meat in the same store.
The majority of affairs start with friends (37%) or people at work (30%). The average married woman has her first affair 7 years into marriage. Up to 50% of all divorces in the U.S. are primarily caused by extramarital affairs. Most states are no fault states so there really is a reason to be cautious.
How is 17 most but yes marriage nowadays is foolish
Yeah the chances of finding something worth it are like near 0 nowadays while the chances of losing everything and ending up in misery are inversely proportional. Thanks to statistics I've become allergic to gaslight. I know the right girl *exist* for me, but in my experience, there's an ocean of landmines around her. Even if being alone hurts, I know it will hurt less than messing up--again.
Relationships are broken and we can't just pretend they aren't when we are seeing its effects all around us, and especially even more on social media.
There's nothing a wife can do for you that you can't hire for and live in peace without legal entanglements that always put you at risk of losing half your shyte. Kids? Surrogacy. Loving? Pay for GF experience. Stay safe guys.
Especially when no fault divorce tries forcing men to stay in a relationship with a cheating wife or the man gets took to the cleaners. Heaven forbid the biased judges do what's best and right over favoring women, especially with the women want equality bs. Courts favor women, so where's equality?
Divorce rates are at 50% so if 1 in 2 cars were totaled every year would anyone drive?
If divorce was fair it would be different, men getting custody 50% of the time, women pay CS 50% of the time and women pay alimony 50% of the time.
No, but if in every accident one car got totalled and the other got a magical upgrade, more people would drive.
There's nothing a wife can do for you that you can't hire for and live in peace without legal entanglements that always put you at risk of losing half your shyte.
Wait.
This woman asked out her boss????
Ever hear of "Me Too"?
Or court rules 90% in favor of women or child support or permanent alimony, part of unfair laws that literally land u in prison.
Recently a Georgia case blew up on social media: A guy buys a house, then marries a woman with a child, then she divorces him and takes the house AND he has to pay her all the bills. Men see that unfairness and go like: Heeelll naaaah!
@@joshanonline THe women who end up with nothing, nevery put anything into the marriage in the first place. They think they should get paid just for breathing
There's one too many of these cases. One guy in CA skipped college for the trades. He bought land, built his own house by 25, family and friends helping. Got married and at 29 or 33 I forget, he lost it in divorce. Why? He came home to find a random balls deep in her right in the living room. She didn't even care to hide. She rushed and filed for divorce and cleaned him like a whistle. That story was on Tom Leykis. That show was wild, glad it's on YT. These days marriage is like men fall in love but women are in business.
Well, this DEFINITELY needs a part 2 where they come together as a full couple, but agree that marriage is off the table for at least 5 years. Possibly even 10. That way, there's no pressure on either of them.
@@timothyhansen6581 they won't... Because In a twist he'll take his walls down and she'll find out that as thrilling as the chase was he's boring and she'll be tempted and will cheat with a co worker who sparks the thrill in her again and they'll have a messy divorce and she'll take him to the cleaners but he'll have proof and a cut throat lawyer and she'll monologue at the end how even though he was right he had no right to destroy her in court
Gary has the right idea, stay single. Don't become someone elses ATM.
exactly right
Divorce laws need to be changed and judges shouldn't be allowed to throw out prenups; even by law! Prenups need to be a man's duty to decide, not a judge's!
It's funny how she can recognize the facts, but still sees him as being unreasonable. I wonder what her opinion would be if she was the one taking all the risks instead of him.
What fool would walk headlong into ruin😂
As you get ready to jump out of the plane the guy says, oh ya 50% of the chutes will not open, good luck!
You can build something meaningful with or getting marriage or signing a contract that you can’t read before you sign
Had my one and only divorce at 43 I’m 58 now was left broke never going back for a second bite of that rotten apple called marriage. Have friends I share values with and hobbies. If I want a woman in the physical sense I rent one a lot cheaper than marriage. Congratulations, ladies you played yourselves.
Every bar in these stories is called "O'Malley's" 🤦🏽♂️😂
Statements of largely truth are self supporting. If she wants to disagree then let her show her evidence to the contrary.
She doesn't understand what he's trying to tell her.....
It's not that women don't know what men want. It's that they don't care.
She *_doesn't care_* what he's trying to tell her.
Fixed that for you.
Women don't care about men's perspectives, standards etc. They are natural narcs and natural egomaniacs. Proof? See how they go off when they are told they can't meet a man's standard. Whenever they want their way what's their go to mo? Yep, tears, gas lighting, out right manipulation, insults, guilt tripping, need to be right, etc.
I don’t see her advocating for getting rid of alimony
Or men getting the kids 50% of the time.
One of the alarms bells is she states she doesn't want to change him BUT she likes who he can be. That is a red flag called I can fix him.
And when a divorce comes she takes half of what was his in the first place. Always saying what men want to hear before marriage. True colors show after marriage and/or during divorce. Women are majorly responsible for his way of thinking with all the bs feminist man hating propaganda.