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The best thing to do is ...women should be financialy independent....and even if divorce happen husband won't have to pay any money....and if wife is not earning enough, then he should just pay for child's education and food
Unless and until there's gender neutral laws for disputes, things will escalate day by day... Maintenance and 498A is used to punish gender,not the culprit.
Because we are adopting Western culture and everyone wants to be happy all the time and people think their partners should make them happy instead of they taking responsibility for their own happiness.
@@axel3895 What people call happiness is a part of the brain's reward mechanism. The system has not evolved to make you happy all the time, it has evolved to make you chase for more. More you try pursue happiness more miserable you will be... This is why our ancient Gurus always advice us to pursue meaning and not pleasure.
@BlackpinkIstherevolution-df7nk there should be right not to marry, end to casteist mentality, right to marry person of choice etc. But we're struck in fallacy of economic development, it seems like we forgot social development is a thing😓
earlier divorces were not happening because women did not want it being dependent or less educated. Now women want it because now they are educated & independent. So past or present, it’s always depends on their choice.
@@damn7637 Ha, इसीलिए मुझे Arrange marriage पसंद नहीं है, मैं जिससे प्यार करती हूँ मैं उसकी हर चीज़ से प्यार करती हूँ, उसकी body से नहीं उसके पूरे व्यक्तित्व से प्यार करती हूँ, I hope हमारी family ये बात समझे कि पैसे और शरीर के अलावा प्यार भी मायने रखता है. Actually में family को problem नहीं होती, problem चार लोगों को होती हैं, उनके हिसाब से अगर तुम्हारे बच्चों ने अपनी पसंद से शादी की है तो हम तुम्हें इज्जत नहीं देंगे ये बात आ जाती हैं. जो मतलबी होते हैं उनको प्यार की बातें बकवास लगती है, और हमारा समाज मतलबी हैं, सच कह रहीं हूँ किसी का बच्चा मर भी जाये तो भी उन्हें फर्क़ नहीं पड़ता फिर भी हम उनकी झूठी इज्जत के लिए अपने ही बच्चों के साथ गलत करते हैं.
Am I only one who thinks divorce are good since they have already decided to separate rather than suffering unhappy and toxic marriage... Sure it also have consequences on Children Sadly.
@@Unofficial_agent first learn on what basis alimony is given. Second you will never speak this aggressively about domestic violence, dowry and any crime that happens against women.
That lowest divorce rate is artificially maintained by forcing people especially women into bad, abusive marriages. If gender neutral divorce rights is given to people than India's divorce rate will reach that of West, which is a good thing as 1 mistake shouldn't ruin someone's life. ❤
Main reason is women are becoming financially independent, otherwise in older stays people would stay in toxic marriages after getting daily slaps, punches and getting insulted by derogatory terms.
@@meera1860 but then after divorce, the husband is made to pay wife maintenance and alimony. Very often false cases are filed. This is unfair and wrong. We need men's commissions and men's ministries
Both genders should understand that marriage is invariably more of responsibilities and less of expectations. Understanding limits and respecting them.
@@krutikah1468 laws are the biggest problem. Any law that treats men as guilty just because they are men and doesn't seek any evidence from women for the allegations they make and allows extortion business to flourish, can never be a good law. Stop blaming in laws for the blunders and greed of law makers who will destroy men, families and society just to stay in power using women's votes
As a society becomes more affluent people's aspirations also increase leading to more frustrations. Frustrations lead to fissures in marital relations. All civilizations go thru these phases. Divorce rates will keep on increasing as India becomes more prosperous. This is an inevitable cycle.
Absolutely. . . Brother. . Very well said. India is going through wat USA already has gone through and reversing. Now, they are adapting bhudism, hinduism ...etc
Single,married or getting divorced is an individual's choice so society has nothing to do with it..After all everyone wants to be happy in any way they feel better..
@@kubersingh8299morality is invalid. This world is battlefield. The strong impose rules on weak. Be strong and make your own rules. Buddha clearly mentioned it in Anguttara Nikaya 3.101 about how Aristocrat are not affected by Moral laws.
People want happiness and marriage is all about compromise and adjustments. In india, love marriage is also not accepted well. When you love someone else and marry someone else its also a bad thing. Earlier marriage was bad too but divorce was a hard option for them. Now, it is easy to get divorced. So they are getting out. I wouldnt be surprised if after 10 years marriage traditions fade away or start fading away from India.
The biggest problem with our laws is that they support females to an unprecedented scale. Innocent males of all age are being targeted because of this privilege. Laws should be gender neutral.
@@KW-oc3se, basically most of women are unemployed , uneducated due to marriage burden and those who even try to take divorce have to face strong opposition by families and society
Girl- earns 0 Rs but expectations 50 lakh package, own house, car, no parents needed, vacation every month, hritik roshan like looks and body, polite, understanding, caring, loving, family oriented, career oriented, no drinks, no cigarettes, must be able to satisfy sexually, property on her name (If divorce happens, she will get it for free)
Someone very truly said.. When Man becomes independent he has to bear responsibility but when woman becomes independent she only earn for herself... 😖😖
@@riyasharma-s7w when I said Men works for their family it includes his wife, parents, children not just his parents.. And by your thinking I am sure you will not consider your own children, In-laws, husband as your family... If God exists then may you never find a partner..
@@kazuma2060Marriage stands for responsibility and sacrifices. People are either trying to extort money or just want to enjoy their life without performing their basic function towards their family.
@BlackpinkIstherevolution-df7nk Arrange marriage में बिना divorce के ही extra marital affair, domestic violence, दहेज सब मिल हो तो divorce क्यूँ ले? Indian society में तो बिना divorce के ही separate हो जाते हैं. कानूनी रूप से वहीं अलग होते हैं जो कानून मानते हैं.
not only marriages, youth are breaking up in relationship also becoming too frequent. Youths are not ready to handle the commitment. They are not ready to understand the institute of relationship based on mutual trust, love, emotion, support & respect. With increasing influence of westernisation, this seems a thing to ponder. How will you trust a guy/girl who previously ditched their respective partner in a relationship. Be it in marriage or a relationship, both involves the same constituents. We are breaking up for fun, for further exploration & for whatever the reason is but we are not ready to handle it maturely and seek a solution to it instead of ending it forever. Let it be a divorce or a breakup, it really wounded atleast one person deeply. With restrictions of law, breaking up or a divorce also invites some legal actions or financial debt. so nowadays it really difficult to build a relationship. 😊
Marriage was never been happy things in India.. We know very well how our parents been through in marriages.. n most importantly now women are also a vote bank for gov so they are making all the laws in their favour... Gov looking for their benefits
Aaj k time, ladki ke gharwale nuclear family ko preferred karte hai taaki ladke k wealth pe full control Kiya ja sake.But lots of ladke joint family ko accept karte hai
1.Laws neutral gender hone chahiye 2.Dahej ka case jhutha or galat saabit hone par double jurmana hona chahiye. 3. Or is case ke wajah se hui mansik pratadna ke liye sakht saja ka pravdhan hona chahiye. 4. Purush aayog ka gathan hona chahiye jab mahila aayog hai toh purush aayog kyu nhi?
Because people want to become happy. That’s it. It’s a personal decision and no one can say otherwise. Those talking about western ideas and Indian culture have no idea how toxic and suffocating a bad marriage can get. You have 6 to 7 decades (if you’re lucky) to spend on earth. And to spend 3 to 4 decades with someone you can’t be happy with is something no one should accept. If you have the resources and you know what is right for you, do it.
Only because of 1)Extra marital affairs... 2)Domestic violence 3)Physical,Mental and Financial torture by either sides Only 3 major reasons and i think no others reasons except some cases
In present Case scenario if Dv not done, even that's case also files under the ill story of domestic violence (DV) act. Reason behind it's grabbing money By hook or by crook and harrasr any one family members for monetory and etc. This is the real test of Indian Independence.
i am suffering from mental troma because my wife take my baby really its was a bad marriage from i get married but really frustraing now i am killing internally
I am Casanova type of guy Marriage is a fooling business one should have a good acting skills to keep marriage intact wheather it's men or women one has to sacrifice
From the special Verdict of supreme court that after Marriage extra material affairs is permitted to woman and man . In Hindu family . The social structure of their family has followed to lowest . And created lack of interest in maintaing family. As such the marriage are failing . Other than that Mobile and media has also played a vitol roll. Most woman prefer single motherhood after divorce .
Treat each other with respect....even if there's no love....There is no need of any section, any law and even divorce.... That's the secret of beautiful relationship... Love just happens.... If you treat each other right and proper... It is that simple...
3 days back a divireced woman killed her 4 year old son just because court granted her ex husband his son access. From this one can predict the situation of men in india.
More women be ""literate"" more divorce will happen. More women be ""educated"" less divorce will be there in soceity. There is big difference between educacy and literacy. Now a days women are highly literate but very less educated.
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2 words - 'Materialism' and 'Selfishness' are the primary reasons. Divorce is no longer taboo at least in all the major cities in India and self-happiness is the the final goal. In this high tech world of stiff competition - sucess is measured using the economic scale as the primary measurement tool and all other values are secondary. All of this will only get worse as time goes by and we enter the world of AI / Robotics / smartphone dating apps and will contribute to making a large proportion of the population obsolete and worthless in the years to come. This is happening globally - not in India only.
Divorce are created bcz we followed from many centuries the old societal norms... Roles of husbnd nd wife... But now the time has changed nd women wants freedom for their carrer nd choices... Today couples not want marry coz of responsibility nd dependency on each but they have to marry by family pressure.
India ka divorce rate kam hain, iska matlab ye nahi hain ki log marriage main khus hain .... Social pressure ke wajah se log divorce se darte hain .... Nahi toh divorce main india top rank karta ....
Divorce 's main reason is to both partners wants to do job A government employees boys wants government employees wife This is the big reason Boys and his family wants money People are greedy for money
Our judiciary and constitution treats women as queens and men as 6th grade citizens. The hierarchy is- -Women -Children -Wild animals -Domestic animals -Trees -Men😂 So yes, that day is not just far, many men have already started walking away from marriages. The new BNS is just gonna escalate it further. Men, stay single stay safe😊
As things are moving single mothers and fatherless children will also become common in the future I think. All thanks to adoption of dirt from the western culture.
Problem is each gender will point finger at other gender. Each gender is different Each gender is not equal Each gender has different physical and emotional need It's all about understanding human psychology if you fail to understand human psychology then no matter what even after separation u will remain unhappy.
Sadi ek tarah ka jua hai jeet gye to acha bolenge barna bura..jab logo ke bahan ki baat hoti h to unhe sab sach lgta h or jab baat apni wife ki hoti h to wife or uski family hi buri lgti h.
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The best thing to do is ...women should be financialy independent....and even if divorce happen husband won't have to pay any money....and if wife is not earning enough, then he should just pay for child's education and food
divorce is better than a bad marriage, that said we need fair and gender neutral laws.
Showoff too
Right
More divorce shows the signs of a developed nation
2000 % CORRECT
Today's media and flims destroy whole Indian culture
Unless and until there's gender neutral laws for disputes, things will escalate day by day... Maintenance and 498A is used to punish gender,not the culprit.
One gender is already punished by society.
@thezoldics7648 what they deserve? Are you crazy.
@@preetiraut7700yes, that gender is male..Men need to unite
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230 men are already United from decades to oppress other gender.
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230They will never becoz of votebank. Even the womencentric law r made by male only
This is the main reason behind India's poor rank in happiness index......unhappy marriages can affect children also.👎
Because we are adopting Western culture and everyone wants to be happy all the time and people think their partners should make them happy instead of they taking responsibility for their own happiness.
👍
What's wrong in being happy
@@axel3895 What people call happiness is a part of the brain's reward mechanism. The system has not evolved to make you happy all the time, it has evolved to make you chase for more. More you try pursue happiness more miserable you will be... This is why our ancient Gurus always advice us to pursue meaning and not pleasure.
@@axel3895 It's wrong when you derive happiness through nonsensical things 😊
@@Manas-f5iahh yes so u are saying couple should not expect anything from eachother. Keep living in bad marriage without love.
*No Marriage, No Divorce.* 😊
*No wife Happy Life.* ✨
Haha
Men should avoid women and be safe
Ver true
Single option is best
@@Its_Harshika_🤘
Divorce is better than being in an unhappy marriage.
@BlackpinkIstherevolution-df7nk demn it's bcz we made it look cool, but actually it's so degrading like💀
@BlackpinkIstherevolution-df7nk there should be right not to marry, end to casteist mentality, right to marry person of choice etc.
But we're struck in fallacy of economic development, it seems like we forgot social development is a thing😓
Divorce na de to kya kare 😢
Sab ladkiya sirf paisa dekhti hai isliy amir admi pe muh marti h
earlier divorces were not happening because women did not want it being dependent or less educated. Now women want it because now they are educated & independent. So past or present, it’s always depends on their choice.
Bcuz of inequality laws, divorce is increasing wherein dv or 498a is filled by women, which ultimately leads to divorce
Independent hai to das jagah muh Marne ka mauka bhi leti hai
@@viksb03 because of inequality in laws divorce is invreasing
Women ko sirf alimony (dowry) ka paise dikhta hai
Yes woman only want money and
Divorce is better than a bad marriage. Periodt
@thezoldics7648 Yes because our marriage is based on physical things. देह के लिए देह से जोड़ा गया रिश्ता.
@@pallavigupta2934 marriage is a business deal of body... It's not just ours, this system is made like that
@@damn7637 Ha, इसीलिए मुझे Arrange marriage पसंद नहीं है, मैं जिससे प्यार करती हूँ मैं उसकी हर चीज़ से प्यार करती हूँ, उसकी body से नहीं उसके पूरे व्यक्तित्व से प्यार करती हूँ, I hope हमारी family ये बात समझे कि पैसे और शरीर के अलावा प्यार भी मायने रखता है.
Actually में family को problem नहीं होती, problem चार लोगों को होती हैं, उनके हिसाब से अगर तुम्हारे बच्चों ने अपनी पसंद से शादी की है तो हम तुम्हें इज्जत नहीं देंगे ये बात आ जाती हैं.
जो मतलबी होते हैं उनको प्यार की बातें बकवास लगती है, और हमारा समाज मतलबी हैं, सच कह रहीं हूँ किसी का बच्चा मर भी जाये तो भी उन्हें फर्क़ नहीं पड़ता फिर भी हम उनकी झूठी इज्जत के लिए अपने ही बच्चों के साथ गलत करते हैं.
Divorce has scar on it.. nobody would like to have
@urban_hippie7723 Toxic marriage is a scar and divorce is it's treatment.
Am I only one who thinks divorce are good since they have already decided to separate rather than suffering unhappy and toxic marriage... Sure it also have consequences on Children Sadly.
@thezoldics7648 what about mental violence?
No alimony as well.... If u can't find happiness WITH him... U have NO right to be happy With his money
it can get better, my parents always have fought but they never seperated..
Our previous gen was more decent
@@Unofficial_agent first learn on what basis alimony is given. Second you will never speak this aggressively about domestic violence, dowry and any crime that happens against women.
@@Unofficial_agent Housewife को मिलती है alimony working woman को नहीं।
Divorce is much better than living in toxic relationship
No. Relationships need commitment. Dedicated efforts. Divorce is no solution. This is wrong
@@induchopra3014these people are the reason most of divorce is normalised and due it the crime rates are also increasing
Being single is better than getting married
Phale ye bta ki unemployment se sadhi kisne kr lii
That lowest divorce rate is artificially maintained by forcing people especially women into bad, abusive marriages. If gender neutral divorce rights is given to people than India's divorce rate will reach that of West, which is a good thing as 1 mistake shouldn't ruin someone's life. ❤
Main reason is women are becoming financially independent, otherwise in older stays people would stay in toxic marriages after getting daily slaps, punches and getting insulted by derogatory terms.
Days
Main reason is feminist laws. Men are realising that the game is not worth playing. Marriage is outdated. Marriage is a scam
Very very true ..divorce is much much better than toxic marriage
@@meera1860 but then after divorce, the husband is made to pay wife maintenance and alimony. Very often false cases are filed. This is unfair and wrong. We need men's commissions and men's ministries
If women are financially independent then why are they asking for money from husband
Both genders should understand that marriage is invariably more of responsibilities and less of expectations. Understanding limits and respecting them.
Laws are the problem
That's why I never wanted marriage.
I want to be taken cared of but if that doesn't happen then I will not take responsibility of wahmen.
Very true. More responsibilities and less expectations ❤
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230in laws of women are the problem not laws
@@krutikah1468 laws are the biggest problem. Any law that treats men as guilty just because they are men and doesn't seek any evidence from women for the allegations they make and allows extortion business to flourish, can never be a good law. Stop blaming in laws for the blunders and greed of law makers who will destroy men, families and society just to stay in power using women's votes
As a society becomes more affluent people's aspirations also increase leading to more frustrations. Frustrations lead to fissures in marital relations. All civilizations go thru these phases. Divorce rates will keep on increasing as India becomes more prosperous. This is an inevitable cycle.
It is more due to feminism and its horrible laws against men. Men need to wake up
Absolutely. . . Brother. . Very well said. India is going through wat USA already has gone through and reversing. Now, they are adapting bhudism, hinduism ...etc
Materialistic not prosperous only
Well written sir
Single,married or getting divorced is an individual's choice so society has nothing to do with it..After all everyone wants to be happy in any way they feel better..
@thezoldics7648I hope you know that your opinion holds no value. What one should do or not will always be an individual choice.
Divorce is not our culture
We r hindu and indian
We forgot our culture and rituals
And everyone wants to print money
In all this what role does morality play ...by your statement adultery too is justified if it gives you happiness???
@@kubersingh8299morality is invalid.
This world is battlefield. The strong impose rules on weak. Be strong and make your own rules.
Buddha clearly mentioned it in Anguttara Nikaya 3.101 about how Aristocrat are not affected by Moral laws.
We are happy married.. I have not seen any who divorced and happy.. that will never work!
People want happiness and marriage is all about compromise and adjustments. In india, love marriage is also not accepted well. When you love someone else and marry someone else its also a bad thing. Earlier marriage was bad too but divorce was a hard option for them. Now, it is easy to get divorced. So they are getting out. I wouldnt be surprised if after 10 years marriage traditions fade away or start fading away from India.
The biggest problem with our laws is that they support females to an unprecedented scale. Innocent males of all age are being targeted because of this privilege. Laws should be gender neutral.
Yes most of the laws designed to help poor, uneducated woman but that has become a weapon against men
@@KW-oc3se😂😂😂 accha drama hai but last thing I know is women who even dare to take divorce are side line by society
@@attn2020 so a rich women should not take divorce 😄😁
@@KW-oc3se, basically most of women are unemployed , uneducated due to marriage burden and those who even try to take divorce have to face strong opposition by families and society
Not only in India. Laws in most countries support women.
Girl- earns 0 Rs but expectations 50 lakh package, own house, car, no parents needed, vacation every month, hritik roshan like looks and body, polite, understanding, caring, loving, family oriented, career oriented, no drinks, no cigarettes, must be able to satisfy sexually, property on her name (If divorce happens, she will get it for free)
True..women's expectations have no limit. But when man expects even a simple thing, they call it dowry
Because mard uski khubsurti par mar mit'ta hai
@@WhySujatha particularly uski figure
@@Unofficial_agent inner beauty se pahle outer beauty hi dekhi jati hai. Inner beauty 1st meeting me pata nahi chalti
I think you have never met an educated women
Jab tak marriage money ke base pe hogi tab tak aisa hota rahega money ke alawa aur bhi factors important hone chahiye
Exactly
Government should check the eligibility for marriage by conducting exams ( MET ) i bet the divorce rate will fall down
😂😂
Western country mein sabse pehle ye xam lena hoga 😂😂😂
Yes many people are not eligible
And what would be the parameters??? Tool size??? 😂😂😂
I would be topper as mine is 10.5 inch ( 26.5 cm )
Someone very truly said..
When Man becomes independent he has to bear responsibility but when woman becomes independent she only earn for herself...
😖😖
This is not true, we should not generalise.
you are doing for your family thn we forced to do stuff for soemone else ungrateful family thats the diff
@@riyasharma-s7w when I said Men works for their family it includes his wife, parents, children not just his parents..
And by your thinking I am sure you will not consider your own children, In-laws, husband as your family... If God exists then may you never find a partner..
Very true. And when man start earning, he thinks about his family. When woman starts earning, she thinks that she doesn't need a man
@@riyasharma-s7wwomen never think about family. They think about themselves.
People are becoming mature and independent.
Just by not marrying?? Really 😮
@@Geextech yes why marry when you can enjoy your life your own company I mean yes their are merits of marriages but their are demerits too.
@@kazuma2060yes same as being married there are cons of being single, So everything is fine in their own way.
@@kazuma2060Marriage stands for responsibility and sacrifices. People are either trying to extort money or just want to enjoy their life without performing their basic function towards their family.
@@awisin871 yeah marriage stands for sacrifices and responsibility but only by women
Because parents force their children to marry.
@thezoldics7648 it should be individual decision to get married or not.
@BlackpinkIstherevolution-df7nk Arrange marriage में बिना divorce के ही extra marital affair, domestic violence, दहेज सब मिल हो तो divorce क्यूँ ले?
Indian society में तो बिना divorce के ही separate हो जाते हैं.
कानूनी रूप से वहीं अलग होते हैं जो कानून मानते हैं.
@BlackpinkIstherevolution-df7nkit's a myth
Divorce is increasing in India this is good news I think for India and It's growth
Separation is better than toxic relationships
Who cares, I'm divorced but i never regret it, I'd say have fun with whoever you want without commitments.
Marriage is a defunct institution. Ours is a singles group for 40+, all never married and we all are very happy.
Until you get old and strive for loved ones... You would look back and you would have none
@@darshanrajpattanaik2154 that's the limitations of this
Whats wrong with divorces? Stop the mentality to be stuck in a toxic relationship.
Divorce is ok but Alimony?? Why will the Males only be liable for alimony??
@@virtualdhruv3557ok then give all the money back and all the furniture given in the name of dowry
@@virtualdhruv3557 1 crore dahez maangne walo ke mooh se yeh sab shobha nhi deta 😁😁😁
I ask what is correct about marriages when laws are anti men and marriage is a scam
Then also stop the mentality of free life long alimony
not only marriages, youth are breaking up in relationship also becoming too frequent. Youths are not ready to handle the commitment. They are not ready to understand the institute of relationship based on mutual trust, love, emotion, support & respect. With increasing influence of westernisation, this seems a thing to ponder. How will you trust a guy/girl who previously ditched their respective partner in a relationship. Be it in marriage or a relationship, both involves the same constituents. We are breaking up for fun, for further exploration & for whatever the reason is but we are not ready to handle it maturely and seek a solution to it instead of ending it forever. Let it be a divorce or a breakup, it really wounded atleast one person deeply. With restrictions of law, breaking up or a divorce also invites some legal actions or financial debt. so nowadays it really difficult to build a relationship. 😊
Exactly 🥺🥺
Marriage was never been happy things in India.. We know very well how our parents been through in marriages.. n most importantly now women are also a vote bank for gov so they are making all the laws in their favour... Gov looking for their benefits
Divorces cases was low coz women were oppressed now when govt and women empowerment are increasing women are taking divorce from bad marriages ,
Marriage is couple entering big responsibility. Together committed to faithful understanding... growing. Difficult but can be achieved.
Aaj k time, ladki ke gharwale nuclear family ko preferred karte hai taaki ladke k wealth pe full control Kiya ja sake.But lots of ladke joint family ko accept karte hai
Ha joint family sirf ladke ko chahiye fir chahenge ladki apna ghar chhodkar aaye.
@@Vedantuvasi-fx2xy mere matlab sirf itna hai ki har time ladki galat nahi hoti esa jesa upar comment vala dikhane ki koshish kar raha hai
Shaadi ka base hi love h
Lekin yaha shaadi nahi business deal hoti h
1.Laws neutral gender hone chahiye
2.Dahej ka case jhutha or galat saabit hone par double jurmana hona chahiye.
3. Or is case ke wajah se hui mansik pratadna ke liye sakht saja ka pravdhan hona chahiye.
4. Purush aayog ka gathan hona chahiye jab mahila aayog hai toh purush aayog kyu nhi?
Kyuki india 3rd rank par ata hai domestic violence pae
Kbhi north Bihar ghumo
Waha par aurat ka nar khana bhut common
@@Shambhavi7889to kya galat hai
@@Shambhavi7889 haha maximum false hote hai..
@@arrashsengupta2571 दहेज के case file ही नहीं होते समझे, मेरी Friend की शादी में भी 10 लाख दहेज की demand पूरी की गई थी, it's normal thing in Bihar.
@@pallavigupta2934 bihar ma nhi hote hoge baki jagah hote hai lol
Over modern couples girlfriend/Boyfriend jesa hote hai. Kuch hone main backup karte hai aur better choice karte hai.
Jitna western culture India mai ayega utna ye sab case badhega ..
Why people like you blaming west for everything wrong in india india is not Paradise everything is ok ok
Love marriage is the main reason
So being in toxic marriages is indian culture by your logic?
Toxic by what point of view @@endisnear306
@thezoldics7648 it can become toxic if later the boy's family torture her for dowry, or the woman torture the husband for other reasons
Also prepare a video on how to be beneficial to be neutral or individual without marriage is it necessary to engage or self in marriage relationship?
Main reason is men are not leaving orthodox thinking bt women now know dt this relation is about equality not about men god and women maid.....
Madam ldkiyn apn s upar wale ldke s shadi krti h ..isliy orthodox mentality nh Jaa rh h
@@rohansingh7858aadmi aadmi hi hota h chahe vo job chhoti kre ya bdi uske andr man hone ka alg hi ego hota h
If women want equality then why ask for money from husband
@@Pinkisuthar158ha aadmi aadmi hota h isliye sabse jyada suicide wahi karta h sabse jyada heart attack se wahj Marta h
Because people want to become happy. That’s it. It’s a personal decision and no one can say otherwise. Those talking about western ideas and Indian culture have no idea how toxic and suffocating a bad marriage can get. You have 6 to 7 decades (if you’re lucky) to spend on earth. And to spend 3 to 4 decades with someone you can’t be happy with is something no one should accept. If you have the resources and you know what is right for you, do it.
Only because of
1)Extra marital affairs...
2)Domestic violence
3)Physical,Mental and Financial torture by either sides
Only 3 major reasons and i think no others reasons except some cases
You missed the narssicistic behaviour
In present Case scenario if Dv not done, even that's case also files under the ill story of domestic violence (DV) act.
Reason behind it's grabbing money By hook or by crook and harrasr any one family members for monetory and etc.
This is the real test of Indian Independence.
i am suffering from mental troma because my wife take my baby really its was a bad marriage from i get married but really frustraing now i am killing internally
26 Year old!no marriage no divorce happy life 😊💯🙂
Enjoy.. Life will get a diff track after 30. Plan and pick carefully.
I am Casanova type of guy Marriage is a fooling business one should have a good acting skills to keep marriage intact wheather it's men or women one has to sacrifice
Beautifully explained
Respect 🙏🏻
Well mujhe bohot kuch knowledge toh nahi hai but ha ek important reason person ka anger and narcissist hona bhi hai...
From the special Verdict of supreme court that after Marriage extra material affairs is permitted to woman and man . In Hindu family .
The social structure of their family has followed to lowest . And created lack of interest in maintaing family.
As such the marriage are failing .
Other than that Mobile and media has also played a vitol roll.
Most woman prefer single motherhood after divorce .
Divorces ke asli reasons ka sach logoan ko pata chal jaaye toh unke hosh udd jaayeinge
kya h
@@ruchashinde9735 Its a perfect business model. Not for the husband or wife. But for some people in the Justice System.
Law is the main reason for divorces.... It is doesn't provide fairness to both parties
Before marrying people should be forced to learn what is marriage all about and why they want to marry someone.
I suggest you to make one about the misuse of hindu marriage act and the suffering of men under these sexist laws.
Be single, Be happy
Read books, feel good👍
Treat each other with respect....even if there's no love....There is no need of any section, any law and even divorce.... That's the secret of beautiful relationship... Love just happens.... If you treat each other right and proper... It is that simple...
Kindly Make a case study on sufferings of children with divorced parental issues.
3 days back a divireced woman killed her 4 year old son just because court granted her ex husband his son access. From this one can predict the situation of men in india.
No that's because of postpartum depression
@@Healthyfitdietput this so called depression in dustbin 🗑️
@@jashanbirsingh It is true you can search on Google. Many women face this depression after delivery
Kleshi, bullying aur violent partner ka hona bhi ek bada karan hai. Financially independent hone ke kaaran victim partner alag hone mein hi apana bhalla samjhata hai.
Bhut galat hai ap medam
Anurag Pandey ji
Aap इस कोचिंग में सामिल हो गए जी
❤🎉 आपकी और केशरी पाण्डेय जी दोनो ही बेहतर आवाज के साथ समझाते है
धन्यवाद
More women be ""literate"" more divorce will happen.
More women be ""educated"" less divorce will be there in soceity.
There is big difference between educacy and literacy. Now a days women are highly literate but very less educated.
Same with guys... guys are 200 years behind. They know nothing other than doing job
Keep telling that yourself
@@ananyanegi9423
Insha allah..just wait and watch... Next 10years only.
@@Natasha25Dec HOW 200 YEAR BEHIND
VIRGINITY MATTERS MOST
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2 words - 'Materialism' and 'Selfishness' are the primary reasons. Divorce is no longer taboo at least in all the major cities in India and self-happiness is the the final goal. In this high tech world of stiff competition - sucess is measured using the economic scale as the primary measurement tool and all other values are secondary. All of this will only get worse as time goes by and we enter the world of AI / Robotics / smartphone dating apps and will contribute to making a large proportion of the population obsolete and worthless in the years to come. This is happening globally - not in India only.
Divorce are created bcz we followed from many centuries the old societal norms... Roles of husbnd nd wife... But now the time has changed nd women wants freedom for their carrer nd choices... Today couples not want marry coz of responsibility nd dependency on each but they have to marry by family pressure.
India ka divorce rate kam hain, iska matlab ye nahi hain ki log marriage main khus hain .... Social pressure ke wajah se log divorce se darte hain .... Nahi toh divorce main india top rank karta ....
It is good that divorce rate is increasing..required for womem
You will realize later
Materialism is the main cause!!!
Truee people are blind can't see beyond
Womens side only show kiya hai aur second side show kyu nhi kiya
Divorce 's main reason is to both partners wants to do job
A government employees boys wants government employees wife
This is the big reason
Boys and his family wants money
People are greedy for money
Agreed
Amidst the absense of gender neutral laws and increasing misuse of law by women, a day is not far when men walk away from marriage altogether.
Stop it men also misuse the laws i saw most of them women also walk away from marriage
Our judiciary and constitution treats women as queens and men as 6th grade citizens.
The hierarchy is-
-Women
-Children
-Wild animals
-Domestic animals
-Trees
-Men😂
So yes, that day is not just far, many men have already started walking away from marriages. The new BNS is just gonna escalate it further. Men, stay single stay safe😊
Now a days women want wealth without any effort 😂
Men mind still stuck on 18th century
Exactly 😂
Actually some men are triggered by the fact that in the future they can't beat women
@@Shambhavi7889 men never want to beat women , actually its women who want to beat men
@@SACHIN_DAHIYA_JAAT ofcourse
Because men exploited women
Still women's conditions are bad in South Asian and middle eastern countries
Better not to merry
As things are moving single mothers and fatherless children will also become common in the future I think. All thanks to adoption of dirt from the western culture.
That's why India ranks 3rd in domestic violence cases
@@Shambhavi7889doesnt matter as long there is stability
Being with parents who are not happy with each other, they give mental tortures to children. It's better they get divorce.
Stop targeting western culture .
Divorce rates are much much higher than stated in this video !
Bcz adultry is not a crime now....
And, divorcees become too toxic for second marriage. Personal experience.
😢😢😢how
Becouse now women are aware of their rights and saying no to abuse.
BECAUSE WOMAN MISUSE THIER RIGHT THATS WHY
Western colture also provides rights to 50% of spouse property one should see that also
इस देश में लड़कियों के लिए डाइवोर्स लेना नया धंधा और फ़ायदेमंद सौदा हो चुका है ।
Ladko ki galti hai samne dikh raha hai ki acchi ladki nhi hai tabhi pigal ke gir jate hai ishi ladkiyo ke liye
Western culture, capitalism,Insta reels,Extra women empowerment
All that he said is so true
I’ma cry 😢
Pehle hi compatibility dekhkar shadi karni chaiye
...divorce se achha
Hamara dil apke pass hai apka dil hamare pass hai = divorce
No husband .no tension 😂
No wife no tension 😂😂😂 wasey teri bro Tera hubby to hai hi😂😂😂😂
@@HimanshuSharma-mh7bz kya matlab. .samjha nahi
@@tabuhafeez9810 rocket science nahi hai tera bro is your hubby hai na 😆😆😆
@@HimanshuSharma-mh7bz mera bro mera husband ? .kya matlab
Because of promicious past
Marriage is a business in India from thousands of years this is the result
Anurag sir u r my fav I luv ur voice ❤
❤❤😊
Same here... His voice is really good
Thanks bro
Nothing wrong in divorce, pehle aurat ghut ghut ke jeeti thee, ab usme sehna band Kiya hai,
Simply marriage he nhi krni chahiye 😂😂
Those who are saying divorce is better than toxic marriage please visit family court one time then you will see which gender fault is it.
Problem is each gender will point finger at other gender.
Each gender is different
Each gender is not equal
Each gender has different physical and emotional need
It's all about understanding human psychology if you fail to understand human psychology then no matter what even after separation u will remain unhappy.
Anurag Pandey sir>>>>>>>>>>>
Sadi ek tarah ka jua hai jeet gye to acha bolenge barna bura..jab logo ke bahan ki baat hoti h to unhe sab sach lgta h or jab baat apni wife ki hoti h to wife or uski family hi buri lgti h.
Foreign influence and mobile 📲
And .. in exams you are asked to write essays and articles on "how educating a girl is equal to educating a family"
😂😂😂
Just take out the maintenance and alimony from law and see how the women will never take divorce
Very simple answer, western culture
No wife .. happy life ❤🎉
Reason is just unreasonable expectations, love if based onconditions wont work
Multiple partners
Premarital virginity loss
Marriage is an option not something essential
So called love marriage