RIGHT?!?!? JFC it's getting insane. Credit is meant to be given to the person you got the idea from....but it's turned into this thing where you're supposed to now go on deep dives to make sure you credit the person who originally did it, just in case the actual person you got the idea from wasn't the original. It's gotten friggin WEIRD. So just credit the Ancient Egyptians for your black eyeliner and you'll be good!
I stopped following anything to do with the beauty community after being actively engaged for years once I realized how much I was being advertised to without my knowledge. Even now I’ll find creators who’s content I love and then they’ll start slipping stuff like bloom into their videos without even mentioning it except for a hashtag partner in the caption. Capitalism rules! 🤘
Exactly!!!!!! We need a whole new system for social media etiquette - I teach English, and getting kids to use full stops/periods is hard work now, because in their comments/messaging a full stop connotes anger or hostility 😑😑
APA and MLA still make my eye twitch from college 🤣 My writing class turned me every which way but loose! It went from “ I love writing 😍” to “No I don’t 😭” very quick!
It's because of the learned helplessness that's rampant on TikTok. Unless you explicitly tell them what to do and how to find something step by step, they will act like it's not there at all. I see this all the time on manga recommendation TikToks. The poster will put the title in the caption, in the tags, or at the top of the video, and you will still see multiple comments on the video asking for the name of the manga. They won't even check to see if the OP or another commenter has answered the question before asking it. Ppl are just lazy, and if they're not spoon-fed something, then they refuse to do it themselves.
As a law student, I feel like these people genuinely, as creators, need to learn what actually counts as intellectual property and exercising their "rights" this is just unhinged behaviour!
And here's the thing: it's tiktok. It's not like Instagram where someone will take the time to open their Instagram and check the handle to find the OG creator because you can click the handle tagged on screen- no on Tiktok you can surprise: save the video. The caption does not save with the video which is why most people will post the person's handle in the video or verbally/physically show them. Even with reposts and having folders on tiktok- would you want to bother scrolling through all of that or are you scrolling, seeing the video, immediately saving it and moving on?
Literally, a lot of people put things in the caption and there are still comments WHERE IS THIS FROM, WHAT MOVIE THIS IS.. just fckin read it in the caption or listen
this is wild bc a visual/spoken credit is waaaaay better than a tag. She was comparing her case with paid posts with brands when the FTC guidelines for sponsored content are literally visual/spoken clarifications bc just putting “@ /brand partner” isn’t enough.
RIGHT and like she could of just gone oops and tagged her and move on. but she went above and beyond to personally apologize AND was so considerate in the messages.
@@ASMRyouKidding genuinely reaching An apology is the only thing she can do What else is there to do? Turn back time? She already made the mistake and she genuinely apologized But I guess since the apology doesn't mean anything, she should move on pretend it didn't happen? you would be mad at that too, because she didn't acknowledge her mistake Most people in TikTok admit that seeing her profile in the video is even better, bc most of them won't look in the caption And AGAIN she is still credited in the video, and on instagram caption and all, and deleted all of her videos and pictures even if she lost money just because the girl was upset The brand thing makes you sound like her, that's an unreasonable comparison Not tagging an ad for a company is illegal and has a different process, even tho a lot of influencers do it, not tagging (still credited) in a makeup look that inspired her isn't. Also she didn't even make that exact makeup, which isn't that original, she made a different version of it That's not under any copyright law, crediting the inspiration is just common decency, no one's obligated to do so So no, she isn't owed some imaginary amount of money, the people that wanted to see her video looked her up, the people that didn't wouldn't have opened the caption to seek for a tag either, so she didn't lose anything because of the way the credit was made.
Now she is saying the problem is that she didn't want her face being shown on Anna's tiktok for safety reasons! If this is the case, then why was she begging to be tagged?
That girl has no idea what it’s like to be an illustrator. Our art is just straight up stolen online without even our names mentioned, let alone a clear screenshot of the original post. Be grateful you were mentioned right from the start omg
No literally! The amount of artists I follow that have made MULTIPLE posts asking for it to stop is insane. People go out of their way to HIDE watermarks as well and this girl is mad op put a photo of her work with her handle in the video??? Bffr that's a privilege I wish I had
Bro I have people legit pretend to be me and I can't even fucking report them and they don't even credit my original account when they steal every single thing off of it and follow all of my followers and then I get DM's of people asking me if that's real or not so yeah a lot of online circumstances is wishing you did get credit
She didn’t want an apology, she didn’t want her to fix the situation by tagging her, she wanted her to be the big evil bad guy that makes her look better by comparison. All she wants is to be the victim in the situation that everyone rallies around but she didn’t get that when the other girl was apologetic and humble.
I think the way that she kept saying “learn something” implying the girl was stupid or uneducated is def a micro aggression so I can see why she’s being accused of racism.
Yea it’s unhinged already and she probably didn’t even draw that line consciously but that’s what micro aggressions are, sometimes unconscious but extremely CRUEL. Like idk if she’s racist, but the way she kept repeating it is so gross. She thought it was such a good comeback 🤮
@ and then the way she said later in another video something about the way the girl was responding to her. As if it wasn’t the nice thing ever. That’s another thing that pinged my flag. She might not realize it but she shouldn’t brush it off. If that many people are saying it she should look at it and figure out why.
That is true but it's an absolute stretch to say that it's racism. It's belittling absolutely but idk about racism it could be but it doesn't seem that way. like I said I agree that I can see where it's coming from but, it's such a stretch. The girl is very childish, condescending and belittling. I hate to be. Family member that says one tiny thing wrong she probably would never let you live it down. She just seems like the type that needs to be right
@princessofjedi I don't need to be explained micro aggressions, I'm native American I deal with them all the time. I don't believe she's intentionally being racist I think she's just being abitch and refuse to admit when she's wrong. Like I said I can see where people are seeing that, there's no need to be rude all I'm doing is showing a difference side of it. I literally agreed with you that it could be that but, I personally don't think it is, she seems completely like the type that NEEDS to have the last word and has to be right no matter the situation.
the most frustrating part is how the smaller creator keeps repeating “I just want a tag” when the other creator literally added the tag on instagram and then explained she was trying to edit the tiktok, but it hadn’t gone through, and also apologized and agreed that she should be better about actually tagging. I’m sorry but literally what else could you want her to do to resolve this situation.
Commented the same thing, also said I would've took down the video, untagged her in the edit, and posted an inspo pic from 2008/2009 cause that is NOT an original look. Be so fr.
these text make me livid. some people just don't know how to treat others. it's so easy to ignore a message or apology you don't believe but to respond in such a hateful way that girl clearly just wanted to be bitter
she couldve just commented on the video “omg thanks for using me as inspo you did great!” and would’ve gotten more positive traction on her page. now she’s made a bad name for herself!
okay quick update on this situation too: hadley has since posted a newer video saying she was more upset over the fact that she’s a minor, and the larger content creator posted her face? go check that video out, the back peddling is so nuts. she says she feels unsafe with a larger creator posting her picture with her face because she’s 17??? and was trying to make it seem like that was always her biggest concern more than the credit/tagging…. like girl we’re not stupid you never mentioned this until now after you realize you’re in the wrong
bro WHAT is she on about??? like this is all so chronically online, she really needs to take a break if she's gonna get this worked up over being "tag-tagged"
But she's trying to reach more people and even posted on her story saying "helllo" to 500k profile visits on her Instagram story??? And she made a TH-cam since she's getting noticed more??? You're posting yourself on the internet but it's bad when a big creator does it because of something you purposely did? And caused?
I'm going to sound real old here but jesus, this is giving young and petty. The first girl was real generous saying that we're all trying to be better but the Hadly girl isn't giving me that vibe at all. Hung up on a missing tag? There's people that are dying, Kim!
I'm 19 and it's giving "I'm in middle school with no sense of taking accountability or thinking I can do wrong because I was never held accountable at home"
People never cease to amaze me by how worked up they get over very small situations. She had no malicious intentions. She even went above and beyond deleting the videos. She needed to do neither. Still posting a video about how she didn’t credit you enough (and how Hadley was talking in the texts) shows a severe lack of awareness that shocks me. Anyone have any insight on why this is so common anymore? Is it just the “drama gets views” thing a la that girl getting w that other girl’s ex bf (forget her name). Like is leaning into a “villain arc” rly worth it??
So idk do yall think this is genuine obliviousness + “main character syndrome” + a genuine belief that other ppl are always out to get you or is it just a views tactic?
@b.oconnor3745 The way she sounded like she was about to cry in her video trying to defend herself makes me lean towards her being in denial that she's not 100% in the right and is throwing a tantrum because people are calling her out on it. Maybe she also has views in the back of her mind, but I think she's more worried about other people's perception of her not aligning with her own perception of the situation and how she handled it.
The way I would've replied off rip with "I put your handle and a screenshot of your video in the actual video, is that not credit? Have a good day, sis."
putting credit in the actual video feels like more credit than only tagging her in the caption smh this feels like drama that did not need to happen its so silly 😭 also thank you queen for reading comments again 🩷🫂 ur the best
She’s so much nicer than me if I got told “learn something” after I already gave credit I’d make a video giving credit to the makeup department for a random zombie movie
The cry crack in her voice is such a clear display of like she really REALLY wants to go viral and be a big creator so bad. That's the real reason she's so upset that someone with so much reach didn't tag her to the highest degree of exposure like a brand deal. She wants the quick fame so bad. If you get tired of grinding at 15k then being an influencer is not the career path for you to pursue.
My thoughts: - Zombie makeup isnt exactly original to begin with? ive def seen something similar. -Brands would REQUIRE a tag. -"is it me right now?" yes sweetie it is. - the way she was speaking was so kind. she was admitting her mistake and validating your feelings of being irritated etc. that shows legitimate 'remorse', for lack of a better term. Explainations are not always excuses. get over it. Thankyou for a dumb drana video. I needed it after the nightmare shift I had today at the hospital.
people shouldn't be influencers if they don't want to influence people... like why are you mad that someone liked your content so much they tried it themselves
that's honestly what i was thinking, like at the end of the day trying to be a creator and posting on a public account means you should at least to an extent be aware that you're releasing things into the void so to speak, and honestly that someone could be inspired or copy or whatever. especially bc there was never outright passing it off as their own, so at the end of the day you should know going into it this kinda thing could and does happen and you sign up for that (not saying its necessarily okay or commenting on that, but purely the fact that this is a risk you take, and if you want to ensure nobody copies or is inspired by what you post then the only way to prevent it is ... not post publicly. or at least take it in stride when there was credit of any form, feel like even that is something to be grateful of tag or not bc not everyone's that lucky, but that's just me)
she did all that over a tag. the girl literally credited her in the video, with a screenshot and everything. honestly doing more than most people would when it comes to crediting others. like what the hell is she upset over?
Isn’t it obvious that an edited screenshot + mention in a video takes more energy and time than a tag in the description?? Even though it’s not as beneficial for the og creater it’s OBVIOUSLY not malicious if you go out of your way to edit in a screenshot + tag in a video? Am I going mad?
Looks like she was mad that she didn't get enough new followers after the tag in the video and thought that if she was on the caption tag she would. I bet she thinks she is losing on massive influencer status.
I feel like the OP of the makeup look was realllllly looking for some drama to get into 🙄 because the girl that took all her videos down went SO far above and beyond the call of duty and was SO kind and patient with her, meanwhile OP makeup girly is talking down to her like she's a naughty child 🤮
She really sounds as if she is about to cry... the other woman was sooo nice and SHE was the one reacting so rude, especially in her personal messages.
(wrote this before seeing the comments saying exactly this) i know i don't account for the whole world population (or for the viewers on tiktok in this case) but i barely read those captions below, i pay muuuuch more attention to the actual video and the closed captions on the video when ppl are talking. the first girl explained herself so well, so kindly and (to me) with honesty, and also did it to her privately... the 2nd girl just wants to turn this into a big creator "mistreating" a small creator situation, trying to win the public's sympathy for the narrative she invented just to get her more attention then grow her audience, how annoying
8:57 I don’t know how she’s being so nice. I would’ve blocked the girl after the first response, let alone the “just tag me, it’s not a hard concept.” genuinely infuriating.
Maybe im being too nice or smthn but all those texts seem like she got some insecurity or personal issues going on, the jumping straight to be rude and assuming bad intent is weird. its like when someone lashes out at dumb shit after having a big fight with a friend like i dont think ur mad abt the make up lol
This happened to me on twitter YEARS ago. I was like 17 and brand new to Twitter and had no idea how tagging and stuff worked. But I posted a funny meme about a show I watched using an artist's picture and their name/handle was on the photo in very clear view. in large letters. It got a lot of likes/retweets within the little community of fans of the show and the artist got SO SO SO SO SO angry at me. I apologized, told them I didn't know actually tagging the artist was a thing and they like made a whole hashtag about it in the art community and humiliated me 🥲I tagged them in the comments after that but it was brutal and very embarrassing, I got torn to shreds. I really did think their handle being on the picture was enough, but boy did I learn that day. I stopped being a fan of their work after that. I understand wanting credit for your work but a little kindness goes a long way!
I swear people's online beef just shows you their own insecurities and their clear need for therapy. How people handle situations always shows you more about them than anything else.
“You need to tag me in your Instagram Halloween outfit pictures because you happened to be a makeup look that was ✨inspired by ME✨ so….” is wild af and reads as satire. I wouldn’t believe it if someone told me without showing me the videos lmaoooo
girly is in the wrong for sure but I really hate it when people say “if this is your biggest problem….” as if a person can’t be complaining about something small while also having big problems.
12:30 Quick question... "Are we just wearing piercings copying my 10 month old Grandson's sicky runny nose, Hadley??" 😏 YOU COULD'VE TAGGED HIM!! It's so easy. He doesn't have social media, but his name is ZAYDEN! Your bad, Ms. Had!! 🫨🙃🙄
@justingraves8649 it actually makes perfect sense that jeffree starr was the racist rude ass unlikeable blueprint they use to create their online personas
I think the pink haired girl is sincerely, no joke, delulu. Like, she sounds like she is suffering from some form of paranoid anxiety (the crying, the being convinced that she is being attacked) and probably could use a therepist (or a better therepist). Pity she is on such a huge platform like this though...
She’s so nice because I wouldn’t t have apologized. Credit on the screen is enough. It’s not that deep. It’s not even an “ I messed up” moment. People need to touch grass.
How is this girl digging her heels in and doubling down SO HARD, to the point of being obnoxious and condescending? Is it rage bait at this point? When she said "it's really *not* that hard" I got literally angry.
"hi, thanks for crediting me in your video! would you mind also tagging me in your caption of your posts?" "ok!" "thank you!" and just like that the situation couldve been solved.
she kept emphasizing "just tag me so i can see the video" when like. why would you get so heated over it then, you obviously wanted to be tagged bc you wanted to gain followers from this like this whole thing is just giving obsessed with getting tiktok likes in a really unhealthy way, time to log off seriously
The girl who is being accused was so incredibly kind and patient. This Hadley girl was so mean and nasty for no reason. She needs to grow tf up and chill. So annoying.
What she wanted was for the girl to actually be a bad person, and she got mad when she wasn't. Not only did she apologize, but she had an honest and legitimate reason why she missed tags and went above and beyond in making amends. That only made the girl angrier. Because out of the 2, the girl hollering for an acknowledgment is actually the bad person.
Okay but I wasn't surprised when it turned out to be a white girl named Hadley who was talking to her like that. I think that's where the race is coming into play here.
Girl I was dealing with a nuclear family member in my household having undiagnosed brain damage at 17 then cried because my friend wore a size smaller pants than me.
The whole thing is ridiculous because glossygurl mentioned the inspiration for the Halloween look! Yeah, she didn’t physically tag Hadley is dead in the description or comments, but she showed your post within her video!
When you said 'do you want her to just cease to exist', yes, that is what they want. There are many people out there who genuinely believe that if you are problematic or hurt anyone ever, you need to be sent to the fringes of society so nobody ever has to see you ever again.
it makes me so mad bc the filler vids she wasn't originally mad at, like this girl was inspired by a makeup look and a tag for every single vid the makeup is in is ACTUALLY INSANE standards. like this girl obviously means well and profusely apologized now the reprimanding is actually insane. i hate ppl like this makes me so angry
Hadley reminds me of one of those people that will never be satisfied no matter what you do. It really grinds my gears when you genuinely meant no harm to someone, apologize, and try to make it right and they still choose to be nasty and condescending. The poor girl came to her personally and apologized in a multitude of ways in an era where a lot of people would love drama and making large scenes. Ms. Hadley is a mean girl period. To be quite honest no shade but the makeup look isn’t something that hasn’t been done before 🤷🏻♀️
She seems to be just projecting her own insecurities of feeling less of a creator which is really her own problem. And it shouldn't matter that much, especially to passive aggressively attack the person after they sincerely apologized. It's not like it's a complete copy, it's goddamn makeup she did herself. I think she may just be jealous and fishing for attention and trying to blow this whole disagreement up for clout, but it's literally just laughable. Also putting an @ in a video instead of a tag is still crediting.
It's crazy how they're so strict about needing to credit each other properly but they won't disclose ads lmao
Cognitive dissonance is a hell of a drug
LMAO RIGHT
RIGHT?!?!? JFC it's getting insane. Credit is meant to be given to the person you got the idea from....but it's turned into this thing where you're supposed to now go on deep dives to make sure you credit the person who originally did it, just in case the actual person you got the idea from wasn't the original. It's gotten friggin WEIRD. So just credit the Ancient Egyptians for your black eyeliner and you'll be good!
I stopped following anything to do with the beauty community after being actively engaged for years once I realized how much I was being advertised to without my knowledge. Even now I’ll find creators who’s content I love and then they’ll start slipping stuff like bloom into their videos without even mentioning it except for a hashtag partner in the caption. Capitalism rules! 🤘
REAL!!
It's as if she's upset she was credited using APA style instead of MLA. 😂
THIS 😂
😂😂😂
Exactly!!!!!! We need a whole new system for social media etiquette - I teach English, and getting kids to use full stops/periods is hard work now, because in their comments/messaging a full stop connotes anger or hostility 😑😑
Lmaoooooo
APA and MLA still make my eye twitch from college 🤣 My writing class turned me every which way but loose! It went from “ I love writing 😍” to “No I don’t 😭” very quick!
SHE LITERALLY MENTIONED HER INSIDE OF THE VIDEO. Who gives a damn if she got tagged in the caption?!?!?!
That’s what i was saying…. Like but she mentioned her and showed her profile INSIDE the video…isn’t that better??
@@P1kiepi3ikr, like I share videos on Snapchat… no captions there just what’s in the video. She’d be crying about that if it was the opposite tbh. 😂😂😂
It's because of the learned helplessness that's rampant on TikTok. Unless you explicitly tell them what to do and how to find something step by step, they will act like it's not there at all. I see this all the time on manga recommendation TikToks. The poster will put the title in the caption, in the tags, or at the top of the video, and you will still see multiple comments on the video asking for the name of the manga. They won't even check to see if the OP or another commenter has answered the question before asking it. Ppl are just lazy, and if they're not spoon-fed something, then they refuse to do it themselves.
The second girl seems like she would get angry and blow you up on socials if you showed up wearing the same outfit as her somehow lol
Accurate. Such a non-issue.
she would post a vid wearing a black jumper and leggings and then she will get mad that another girl wore the same basic jumper/legging combo
As a law student, I feel like these people genuinely, as creators, need to learn what actually counts as intellectual property and exercising their "rights" this is just unhinged behaviour!
nobody checks tik tok captions like that she needs a reality check💀
Right? I thought it’d be better that she typed it out on the screen and verbally acknowledged her but idk lol
And here's the thing: it's tiktok. It's not like Instagram where someone will take the time to open their Instagram and check the handle to find the OG creator because you can click the handle tagged on screen- no on Tiktok you can surprise: save the video. The caption does not save with the video which is why most people will post the person's handle in the video or verbally/physically show them. Even with reposts and having folders on tiktok- would you want to bother scrolling through all of that or are you scrolling, seeing the video, immediately saving it and moving on?
that part
Literally, a lot of people put things in the caption and there are still comments WHERE IS THIS FROM, WHAT MOVIE THIS IS..
just fckin read it in the caption or listen
EXACTLY! I usually find accounts through a pinned comment
this is wild bc a visual/spoken credit is waaaaay better than a tag. She was comparing her case with paid posts with brands when the FTC guidelines for sponsored content are literally visual/spoken clarifications bc just putting “@ /brand partner” isn’t enough.
I think tags help more with algorithm
She’s literally arguing with the wall like you asked for the tag and the girl forgot then DIRECTLY apologized to you like literally a nothing sandwich
RIGHT and like she could of just gone oops and tagged her and move on. but she went above and beyond to personally apologize AND was so considerate in the messages.
@@ASMRyouKidding she got mentioned be so ffr
@@ASMRyouKidding Shit happens. They forgot and were apologetic instead of doubling down like most people. Doesn't give anyone the right to lash out
@@ASMRyouKidding genuinely reaching
An apology is the only thing she can do
What else is there to do? Turn back time? She already made the mistake and she genuinely apologized
But I guess since the apology doesn't mean anything, she should move on pretend it didn't happen? you would be mad at that too, because she didn't acknowledge her mistake
Most people in TikTok admit that seeing her profile in the video is even better, bc most of them won't look in the caption
And AGAIN she is still credited in the video, and on instagram caption and all, and deleted all of her videos and pictures even if she lost money just because the girl was upset
The brand thing makes you sound like her, that's an unreasonable comparison
Not tagging an ad for a company is illegal and has a different process, even tho a lot of influencers do it, not tagging (still credited) in a makeup look that inspired her isn't.
Also she didn't even make that exact makeup, which isn't that original, she made a different version of it
That's not under any copyright law, crediting the inspiration is just common decency, no one's obligated to do so
So no, she isn't owed some imaginary amount of money, the people that wanted to see her video looked her up, the people that didn't wouldn't have opened the caption to seek for a tag either, so she didn't lose anything because of the way the credit was made.
aka "she credited me, but I still want MORE."
Now she is saying the problem is that she didn't want her face being shown on Anna's tiktok for safety reasons! If this is the case, then why was she begging to be tagged?
Not even that but why is she posting content online if she’s so worried about safety?
fr and if shes a makeup influencer how does she expect to do anything without her face being shown ? that's where the makeup goes
That girl has no idea what it’s like to be an illustrator. Our art is just straight up stolen online without even our names mentioned, let alone a clear screenshot of the original post. Be grateful you were mentioned right from the start omg
No literally! The amount of artists I follow that have made MULTIPLE posts asking for it to stop is insane. People go out of their way to HIDE watermarks as well and this girl is mad op put a photo of her work with her handle in the video??? Bffr that's a privilege I wish I had
Bro I have people legit pretend to be me and I can't even fucking report them and they don't even credit my original account when they steal every single thing off of it and follow all of my followers and then I get DM's of people asking me if that's real or not so yeah a lot of online circumstances is wishing you did get credit
She didn’t want an apology, she didn’t want her to fix the situation by tagging her, she wanted her to be the big evil bad guy that makes her look better by comparison. All she wants is to be the victim in the situation that everyone rallies around but she didn’t get that when the other girl was apologetic and humble.
I think the way that she kept saying “learn something” implying the girl was stupid or uneducated is def a micro aggression so I can see why she’s being accused of racism.
Yea it’s unhinged already and she probably didn’t even draw that line consciously but that’s what micro aggressions are, sometimes unconscious but extremely CRUEL. Like idk if she’s racist, but the way she kept repeating it is so gross. She thought it was such a good comeback 🤮
@ and then the way she said later in another video something about the way the girl was responding to her. As if it wasn’t the nice thing ever. That’s another thing that pinged my flag. She might not realize it but she shouldn’t brush it off. If that many people are saying it she should look at it and figure out why.
That is true but it's an absolute stretch to say that it's racism. It's belittling absolutely but idk about racism it could be but it doesn't seem that way. like I said I agree that I can see where it's coming from but, it's such a stretch. The girl is very childish, condescending and belittling. I hate to be. Family member that says one tiny thing wrong she probably would never let you live it down. She just seems like the type that needs to be right
@@stephanieann6622 like I said, they are microagressions. Many people don't recognize them.
@princessofjedi I don't need to be explained micro aggressions, I'm native American I deal with them all the time. I don't believe she's intentionally being racist I think she's just being abitch and refuse to admit when she's wrong. Like I said I can see where people are seeing that, there's no need to be rude all I'm doing is showing a difference side of it. I literally agreed with you that it could be that but, I personally don't think it is, she seems completely like the type that NEEDS to have the last word and has to be right no matter the situation.
the most frustrating part is how the smaller creator keeps repeating “I just want a tag” when the other creator literally added the tag on instagram and then explained she was trying to edit the tiktok, but it hadn’t gone through, and also apologized and agreed that she should be better about actually tagging. I’m sorry but literally what else could you want her to do to resolve this situation.
“I just want a tag”
*gets tagged*
“NO NOT LIKE THAT”
she had so much patience, i could neverrrr
LITERALLY. At that point I'd just get mean af LOL
Commented the same thing, also said I would've took down the video, untagged her in the edit, and posted an inspo pic from 2008/2009 cause that is NOT an original look. Be so fr.
I was going to crash out to I'm not going to lie
FR! I would’ve lost my shii on her
100% I would have lost my mind instantly.
Spoiled brat. These people are going to have such a hard life when they grow up.
Yes!! 😂
Agreed !
Seriously! Was thinking if this is enough to get So heated over life is going to be Very difficult for her
these text make me livid. some people just don't know how to treat others. it's so easy to ignore a message or apology you don't believe but to respond in such a hateful way that girl clearly just wanted to be bitter
this! the whole point of texting imo is that it gives you time to formulate a good response. like take a minute to think before responding girly
she couldve just commented on the video “omg thanks for using me as inspo you did great!” and would’ve gotten more positive traction on her page. now she’s made a bad name for herself!
these makeup artists are becoming more and more unhinged 🐸
It's 1 thing, or another w/ them.
Beauty influencers have always been garbage, have we all forgotten Dramageddon?
These aren't even makeup artists. These are just makeup influencers
okay quick update on this situation too: hadley has since posted a newer video saying she was more upset over the fact that she’s a minor, and the larger content creator posted her face? go check that video out, the back peddling is so nuts. she says she feels unsafe with a larger creator posting her picture with her face because she’s 17??? and was trying to make it seem like that was always her biggest concern more than the credit/tagging…. like girl we’re not stupid you never mentioned this until now after you realize you’re in the wrong
bro WHAT is she on about??? like this is all so chronically online, she really needs to take a break if she's gonna get this worked up over being "tag-tagged"
How could a tiktok creator not want their face in a tiktok?? That's a weird excuse to come up with after the fact.
No, if that was her original issue she would have said something about it the first time in the messages 🙄
@@sprout1588sooooo chronic
But she's trying to reach more people and even posted on her story saying "helllo" to 500k profile visits on her Instagram story??? And she made a TH-cam since she's getting noticed more??? You're posting yourself on the internet but it's bad when a big creator does it because of something you purposely did? And caused?
I'm going to sound real old here but jesus, this is giving young and petty. The first girl was real generous saying that we're all trying to be better but the Hadly girl isn't giving me that vibe at all. Hung up on a missing tag? There's people that are dying, Kim!
I'm 19 and it's giving "I'm in middle school with no sense of taking accountability or thinking I can do wrong because I was never held accountable at home"
People never cease to amaze me by how worked up they get over very small situations. She had no malicious intentions. She even went above and beyond deleting the videos. She needed to do neither. Still posting a video about how she didn’t credit you enough (and how Hadley was talking in the texts) shows a severe lack of awareness that shocks me. Anyone have any insight on why this is so common anymore? Is it just the “drama gets views” thing a la that girl getting w that other girl’s ex bf (forget her name). Like is leaning into a “villain arc” rly worth it??
So idk do yall think this is genuine obliviousness + “main character syndrome” + a genuine belief that other ppl are always out to get you or is it just a views tactic?
@b.oconnor3745 The way she sounded like she was about to cry in her video trying to defend herself makes me lean towards her being in denial that she's not 100% in the right and is throwing a tantrum because people are calling her out on it. Maybe she also has views in the back of her mind, but I think she's more worried about other people's perception of her not aligning with her own perception of the situation and how she handled it.
I love it when unhinged/no-nonsense Angelika shows up
Right? 😂 Angelika better watch out, she didn't tag her in the caption! She's gonna go off on her😂
Literally making all this drama for no actual reason💀 that’s so embarrassing for her that poor other girl did nothing wrong
Angelika be careful! She's probably going to want you to tag her on this video since you're using her content. 😅
Then be angry that per privacy was compromised GGRRRR. 😡🤬😡🤬
The way I would've replied off rip with "I put your handle and a screenshot of your video in the actual video, is that not credit? Have a good day, sis."
"The way she was talking to me" girl you assumed her tone, it was a TEXT conversation
“girl who u fightin 😭” to that hadley girl in Jenna Marbles voice cause like lol
That hit me with a wave of nostalgia daaamn
That line is still such a staple in my vocabulary
Which JM video is that from?
@kellyhenderson2015 the I want a new face video has it but she used the line a lot
@@kaylaf7804 thank you!!
putting credit in the actual video feels like more credit than only tagging her in the caption smh this feels like drama that did not need to happen its so silly 😭 also thank you queen for reading comments again 🩷🫂 ur the best
Bruh im so with you, what the fuck kind of resolution did this "smaller creator" want?! Other than her obv being hella hateful and weird.
Nothing would’ve satisfied her. 🤦🏻♀️
She’s so much nicer than me if I got told “learn something” after I already gave credit I’d make a video giving credit to the makeup department for a random zombie movie
When 90% of people are telling you you are wrong… but you keep saying no, I’m not…
Can’t help people like that.
The cry crack in her voice is such a clear display of like she really REALLY wants to go viral and be a big creator so bad. That's the real reason she's so upset that someone with so much reach didn't tag her to the highest degree of exposure like a brand deal. She wants the quick fame so bad. If you get tired of grinding at 15k then being an influencer is not the career path for you to pursue.
My thoughts:
- Zombie makeup isnt exactly original to begin with? ive def seen something similar.
-Brands would REQUIRE a tag.
-"is it me right now?" yes sweetie it is.
- the way she was speaking was so kind. she was admitting her mistake and validating your feelings of being irritated etc. that shows legitimate 'remorse', for lack of a better term. Explainations are not always excuses. get over it.
Thankyou for a dumb drana video. I needed it after the nightmare shift I had today at the hospital.
“Is it me right now?”
Yes???????
Wow she had the potential to have this lead to so many amazing opportunities for her & totally ruined it for herself by the way she handled this.
The condescension is absolutely stupid… like it actually sounds so stupid
people shouldn't be influencers if they don't want to influence people... like why are you mad that someone liked your content so much they tried it themselves
And she gave credit!
that's honestly what i was thinking, like at the end of the day trying to be a creator and posting on a public account means you should at least to an extent be aware that you're releasing things into the void so to speak, and honestly that someone could be inspired or copy or whatever. especially bc there was never outright passing it off as their own, so at the end of the day you should know going into it this kinda thing could and does happen and you sign up for that
(not saying its necessarily okay or commenting on that, but purely the fact that this is a risk you take, and if you want to ensure nobody copies or is inspired by what you post then the only way to prevent it is ... not post publicly. or at least take it in stride when there was credit of any form, feel like even that is something to be grateful of tag or not bc not everyone's that lucky, but that's just me)
she did all that over a tag. the girl literally credited her in the video, with a screenshot and everything. honestly doing more than most people would when it comes to crediting others. like what the hell is she upset over?
Isn’t it obvious that an edited screenshot + mention in a video takes more energy and time than a tag in the description?? Even though it’s not as beneficial for the og creater it’s OBVIOUSLY not malicious if you go out of your way to edit in a screenshot + tag in a video? Am I going mad?
Looks like she was mad that she didn't get enough new followers after the tag in the video and thought that if she was on the caption tag she would. I bet she thinks she is losing on massive influencer status.
I feel like the OP of the makeup look was realllllly looking for some drama to get into 🙄 because the girl that took all her videos down went SO far above and beyond the call of duty and was SO kind and patient with her, meanwhile OP makeup girly is talking down to her like she's a naughty child 🤮
17:47 I seriously thought the same thing, like she is about to cry over a stupid tag
She really sounds as if she is about to cry... the other woman was sooo nice and SHE was the one reacting so rude, especially in her personal messages.
She was so rude to her in the messages actually crazy how she said “she was being disrespectful” girllll that’s you
8:00 is so funnyyyy cause its genuinely how this gen reacts with apologies
If a brand paid you, you would tag them… yea because they are getting paid to do that…
you know its a good day when youre bored and see that Angelika just uploaded
Bec like I was bored and she posted 😂❤
Normal people simply comment something nice on the video thats about them so it drives engagement back to them.
(wrote this before seeing the comments saying exactly this) i know i don't account for the whole world population (or for the viewers on tiktok in this case) but i barely read those captions below, i pay muuuuch more attention to the actual video and the closed captions on the video when ppl are talking. the first girl explained herself so well, so kindly and (to me) with honesty, and also did it to her privately... the 2nd girl just wants to turn this into a big creator "mistreating" a small creator situation, trying to win the public's sympathy for the narrative she invented just to get her more attention then grow her audience, how annoying
I like to see examples of good ppl on the interwebs cause if it had been me this exchange would have become a competition on who can go lower fastest
Okay, but the way you are heated about this drama, speaks to me 😂 agree with all your comments, love your sarcasm
8:57 I don’t know how she’s being so nice. I would’ve blocked the girl after the first response, let alone the “just tag me, it’s not a hard concept.” genuinely infuriating.
Maybe im being too nice or smthn but all those texts seem like she got some insecurity or personal issues going on, the jumping straight to be rude and assuming bad intent is weird.
its like when someone lashes out at dumb shit after having a big fight with a friend like i dont think ur mad abt the make up lol
What s bizarre reaction to an apology that wasn't needed in the first place.
I never read captions.
This happened to me on twitter YEARS ago.
I was like 17 and brand new to Twitter and had no idea how tagging and stuff worked. But I posted a funny meme about a show I watched using an artist's picture and their name/handle was on the photo in very clear view. in large letters. It got a lot of likes/retweets within the little community of fans of the show and the artist got SO SO SO SO SO angry at me.
I apologized, told them I didn't know actually tagging the artist was a thing and they like made a whole hashtag about it in the art community and humiliated me 🥲I tagged them in the comments after that but it was brutal and very embarrassing, I got torn to shreds. I really did think their handle being on the picture was enough, but boy did I learn that day. I stopped being a fan of their work after that. I understand wanting credit for your work but a little kindness goes a long way!
Don't let Hadley find out about SSSniperwolf, she'll have a conniption 🤣
This tik tok drama is such a WASTE of energy. Like girl, GET OVER IT! She didn't tag you, she apologized, move TF on!
I swear people's online beef just shows you their own insecurities and their clear need for therapy. How people handle situations always shows you more about them than anything else.
The eye roll when watching Hadley’s video is so real lol
“You need to tag me in your Instagram Halloween outfit pictures because you happened to be a makeup look that was ✨inspired by ME✨ so….” is wild af and reads as satire. I wouldn’t believe it if someone told me without showing me the videos lmaoooo
literally all she had to say was "please can you tag me in the caption next time so i get a notification" or smth like that
“A half ass credit”….
The fact she acknowledged her mistake and tried to make it up to her and not defend herself is the level of maturity and patience of this woman 👏👏👏
girly is in the wrong for sure but I really hate it when people say “if this is your biggest problem….” as if a person can’t be complaining about something small while also having big problems.
Shut up please and touch some grass
12:30 Quick question... "Are we just wearing piercings copying my 10 month old Grandson's sicky runny nose, Hadley??" 😏 YOU COULD'VE TAGGED HIM!! It's so easy. He doesn't have social media, but his name is ZAYDEN! Your bad, Ms. Had!! 🫨🙃🙄
Something else must've been going on in the life of the girl demanding a tag because this situation does not warrant her reaction AT ALL.
TH-cam beauty guru culture started these MUAs I fear
Tiktokers: This comment copied me.😭😭
(cough) Jeffree Star (cough)
@justingraves8649 it actually makes perfect sense that jeffree starr was the racist rude ass unlikeable blueprint they use to create their online personas
I think the pink haired girl is sincerely, no joke, delulu. Like, she sounds like she is suffering from some form of paranoid anxiety (the crying, the being convinced that she is being attacked) and probably could use a therepist (or a better therepist). Pity she is on such a huge platform like this though...
That girl was being so nice about it. She did not need to apologize 😪
She’s so nice because I wouldn’t t have apologized. Credit on the screen is enough. It’s not that deep. It’s not even an “ I messed up” moment. People need to touch grass.
How is this girl digging her heels in and doubling down SO HARD, to the point of being obnoxious and condescending? Is it rage bait at this point? When she said "it's really *not* that hard" I got literally angry.
15:50 angelika you are MESSY for this 😂😂😂😂😂
She’s being so nice about it too. My anger issues could never.
13:24 it’s giving entitled mean girl….
"I might death threat myself"
😂😂😂 I wasn't expecting that!
"hi, thanks for crediting me in your video! would you mind also tagging me in your caption of your posts?" "ok!" "thank you!" and just like that the situation couldve been solved.
sometimes when i giggle at angelika’s videos i think about lily behind the scenes editing these and i give her a mental round of applause
she kept emphasizing "just tag me so i can see the video" when like. why would you get so heated over it then, you obviously wanted to be tagged bc you wanted to gain followers from this like this whole thing is just giving obsessed with getting tiktok likes in a really unhealthy way, time to log off seriously
The girl who is being accused was so incredibly kind and patient. This Hadley girl was so mean and nasty for no reason. She needs to grow tf up and chill. So annoying.
Apparently she is 17 so make sense that she still has some growing up to do 😅
At this point, when someone says they got death threats, I just roll my eyes. It just doesn't give the same meaning anymore
My ears literally started to hurt after hearing "tag me" 20 times in a row.
NEW VID AND IM SUPER ERARLY AND HAVENT HEARD ABOUT THIS BEFORE LETS GOOO
What she wanted was for the girl to actually be a bad person, and she got mad when she wasn't. Not only did she apologize, but she had an honest and legitimate reason why she missed tags and went above and beyond in making amends. That only made the girl angrier. Because out of the 2, the girl hollering for an acknowledgment is actually the bad person.
Okay but I wasn't surprised when it turned out to be a white girl named Hadley who was talking to her like that. I think that's where the race is coming into play here.
This girl is 17… it probably *is* the biggest issue for her rn 😭
Like 17 year olds can’t go through anything hard💀💀
Girl I was dealing with a nuclear family member in my household having undiagnosed brain damage at 17 then cried because my friend wore a size smaller pants than me.
@ right that’s what I’m saying 😭
@@Brooklynlamar1 notice how I said biggest issue and not hard… as in she’s blowing things out of proportion.
im a gen z who wants apologies but then accepts them LOL
The whole thing is ridiculous because glossygurl mentioned the inspiration for the Halloween look! Yeah, she didn’t physically tag Hadley is dead in the description or comments, but she showed your post within her video!
Ive been screaming GET A GRIP this while video. She wouldve gotten 1 reply and then im moving on
People like her would not survive being an illustrator 💀
People need to get real problems this is embarrassing.
When you said 'do you want her to just cease to exist', yes, that is what they want. There are many people out there who genuinely believe that if you are problematic or hurt anyone ever, you need to be sent to the fringes of society so nobody ever has to see you ever again.
I cannot fathom being so upset over a tag? Literally, she still gave credit. Pretty sure youtubers credit snippets with onscreen credit?
It’s just never that serious, she didn’t invent zombie makeup girl just get over it 😭
it makes me so mad bc the filler vids she wasn't originally mad at, like this girl was inspired by a makeup look and a tag for every single vid the makeup is in is ACTUALLY INSANE standards. like this girl obviously means well and profusely apologized now the reprimanding is actually insane. i hate ppl like this makes me so angry
"I knew you felt a way about not being tagged and I felt a way about you not being tagged" maybe we all need to go outside and touch grass again
Crash out culture got another one. She's young, Hopefully she'll learn.
Hadley reminds me of one of those people that will never be satisfied no matter what you do. It really grinds my gears when you genuinely meant no harm to someone, apologize, and try to make it right and they still choose to be nasty and condescending. The poor girl came to her personally and apologized in a multitude of ways in an era where a lot of people would love drama and making large scenes. Ms. Hadley is a mean girl period. To be quite honest no shade but the makeup look isn’t something that hasn’t been done before 🤷🏻♀️
I completely agree with you - the amount of entitlement is astounding.
Ahhh I’m so happy you actually made a video on this, I love your content!
She seems to be just projecting her own insecurities of feeling less of a creator which is really her own problem. And it shouldn't matter that much, especially to passive aggressively attack the person after they sincerely apologized. It's not like it's a complete copy, it's goddamn makeup she did herself. I think she may just be jealous and fishing for attention and trying to blow this whole disagreement up for clout, but it's literally just laughable. Also putting an @ in a video instead of a tag is still crediting.