So you expected the second helper to clean the whole day and still be a nanny in the middle of the night. When is her break or clock out time like other normal jobs? Did you even pay her enough to work 24 hours? I don’t think you were being reasonable to be honest. Being a nanny and being a cleaner are two different jobs for two different people. We as black people like abusing helpers and making them do both jobs for one pay. That’s ridiculous.
Hello Nanazille, I didn't expect her to work the entire day. My helper/nanny usually works half-days on Saturdays and takes Sundays off. She is compensated fairly, and I ensure she has what she needs. It's important to acknowledge that, as a community, we should avoid taking advantage of our helpers, and I'm proud to say that's not the case in my situation. In the process of selecting a helper, there's a clear distinction between a helper and a nanny. When scouting for assistance, the ladies are given the choice to work as a helper only, a nanny, or a combination of both. This information is communicated upfront, and they make a decision based on their preference. Having been through this process, I understand the importance of respecting their choices and ensuring a fair working arrangement. So, if you think I'm clueless about this whole helper-hunting process, think again. I Just wanted to drop some truth bombs about my helper/nanny adventures.😉
Lol so you basically saying working half day on Saturday and being off on Sunday is more reason for them to work 24hrs are you hearing yourself? This video is a shame the fact that you did it edited and posted it sana you need help there is something wrong
Well, if thinking it's a shame helps you sleep better at night, then sweet dreams. But I did mention she was compensated, so maybe try listening a bit more carefully next time. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and if you feel that way it’s okay! 😊
Kanjan mara Nanazille, make it make sense.. Siyizinja vele nathi as "blacks" because some of the stories we hear about our fellow blacks treating our helpers are disgustingly inhuman. First of all we do not know their relationship/contract agreement so we really don't know ukusebenziswana kwabo. I doubt that a 24hour service was expected from her. I don't think ubaba wezi ngane would've told the mother to stay the night & expected the nanny/helper to take care of everything whilst his also there. Looks can be deceiving yes but I doubt that is the case la kwaMohlala, they don't seem to strike like heartless ruthless people. uAunty has EVERY right to speak up whenever she's unable to continue or do something that's beyond her means and THAT shouldn't turn us into horrible monsters just because "we pay them" - NO ONE IS ANYONE'S SLAVE!!!!!!!!!!!!! It's extremely pivotally important to have a good, transparent & honest relationship with abasizi betu because at the end of the day siyadingana. We need to be there for one another more especially in such incidences, singabantu, siyakulumiseka & siyapilisana futhi. I WAS NEVER THERE but I don't think uAunty was ill-treatment kulela khaya & I'm sure she got what she deserved for that.
@@SindisiweM my point is she was not doing anything all day regarding the taking care of her household or children, the least she could do was take care of her kids at night while the maid is resting. And as much as you are saying all this. I understand you. There are two sides to every story, if we fetched all those helpers they would have stories themselves so lets not be so sure just cos you know the storyteller doesn’t mean you know the whole story. Five or six helpers left some even without notice, lets not act as if she is not the common denominator in all this. Six ladies cannot be all wrong and yena as an employer aberight all the time. There is no way.
Yoh i also had a lady who vanished into thin air, till today i don’t know what happened to her. The trauma and hurt that was caused by her doing that to me 💔 yoh. I never had the courage to look for another helper, i was haunted by ‘what if she disappeared with my child?’ or ‘what if a new one disappears with my child?’, Ive haven’t healed shem, my helper was from Swaziland. My mom asked to raise my child and she’s been living with my little one ever since and baby is safer and better taken care of ❤️. I just wish life would’ve been set up differently so i could cater for all my child’s needs but ke…. Super grateful for my mom for stepping in coz i was in the brink of losing my mind because of a person who vanished just like that and not having the audacity to tell me that she’s leaving. And believe you me, I have never stepped on her toes, she had the house all to herself almost all the time, looking after 1 child, well paid, i even did my laundry and cooked all meals so that she doesn’t have too much work to do but ke 😭
I feel your pain Nozipho ey 😩 I never wanted a Nanny/ helper because of the scary stories we hear out there. I can only imagine how you felt when you found her Missing in action. Thank God your baby is safe and sound in your mothers home😊 saze sahlukumezeka ema kwethu 😩
@@ThandohMohlala thank you for your kind words mama, I’m so sorry you had to go through sooo much with your helpers, I’m happy order is restored once again in your home, hope this time around it lasts forever ❤️
My 1st helper would leave the kids with diapers from the morning and she would say she's tired looking after 2 young kids and the house. When we have people from church for counseling she leaves everything and sits wuth us till im done with the person and even comments. She left saying shez sick but will come back. I just said "God i dont want her to come back" and she never did. The second helper said she dreamdt about my kids before she met them...the day she started working she cleaned the while house, bathed the kids, did their hair and cooked. The house was sooooo super clean i was like "Lord this is the one" i then told her to check rampers from the closet for her child kanti she will go an extra mile and take even the dishes...mind you when she comes in the morning she doesn't carry a bag but when she leaves she has 2 plastic bags so heavy that she doesnt even want to look at me. She was soooo good but she was a thief.Ai helpers can be a headache i tell you. Its been a struggle finding the right helper...i now get help once in a while from people at church. Otherwise im done for now with helpers tjoe
@@ThandohMohlala it's the character sis... People can do strange things I tell you. Especially when you're younger than them they take advantage of your kindness
I ended up putting my child in school because of this. Had 7 nannies in 1 year 😭. By 16 months he was in day care. SOOO Much better! I’m traumatised by helpers and don’t mind doing everything else by myself for my child. I have someone to clean , wash and iron twice a week and I’m good. The last Nannie left and told me via text on a Sunday night. Haha. So many have an attitude especially if you’re young and black.
Not all are bad honestly the helper I have today is heaven sent. Just pray about it and be clear to them during interviews about your expectations. All the best with you future Helper 🧡🧡
so matured hope jasmin outgrows the sickness when she grows up cos that one nearly took me to witkoppies ke sa cope at all.looking forward for more vlogs ngwetji ya mohlala.❤❤❤❤
Kunzima ukuba a young wife and mom! Bakudriver njengeplate lokudla.... My shortest contract was overnight. My current one is on her 2nd year. We are happy.
I always we are one blessed generation, kodwa we face a lot of challenges shame 😩 Overnight ai 😳😂🤭I WONDER WHAT SHE DID…. I can’t wait to say “it’s been 2 years” nami🤭🤭🥹
Det red lipstick on u bona ubabhabhi 🥵🥵u dd a simple make-up but bona u luk fabulous hlee hot 🔥🔥sana 💯 n am s glad at last 🙏God answered ur prayers n u hve a beautiful home n family ❤️❤️❣️❣️💯
Helpers are a great help, but some of them are a nightmare! Pray for your future helper so you don’t have to experience what you’ve experienced at home ☺️
Thanks for sharing your opinion, but I stand by my experience and the way I presented it. If introspection is needed, maybe it's worth considering for both parties. Have a great day!😊
Excuse me but pardon my intrusion.. Busisiwe are you sure you're not just a "hater" or just "sad" or something because which EXACT part of the story was she ever rude or selfish??? Please, maybe I've missed that part🧐?!
@@SindisiweM you are not excused this is my point of view she was rude to her helpers and fired them at any small inconvenience as if she is perfect she wanted them not to have a life not to get sick nje she wanted them to be robots I'm sure she is your friend and la thetsana listen this is a public platform and if you put out a video we will tell you the truth suck it!
@@SindisiweM and first of all I can't hate someone I don't even know this video is on a public platform if you didn't know and sana I'm not sorry for saying it like it is she was rude to the helpers and that's not Ubuntu
How did no one end up in jail or the hospital after Jazzy Jazmine facial reconstruction mara ke 👀👀👀😳?? I didn't mean to giggle a little but why did she seem to be chilled when that picture was taken though😅. Yoh uAunty would've been dead shem hai kabi whaaaaat!!! I love what you said at the end ALL OF IT, it couldn't have been more truer. We need to take care of one another because siyadingana kodwa RESPECTFULLY so.
Things could’ve been escalated but I had to keep calm and remember she has a family back home she has to feed and hearing the heartbreaking stories I just had to let her go calmly. Jasmine was playing so I interrupted when I took the picture for the agency Thank you Cindy it’s funny how adults miss the part my kids got hurt but I’m rude 🫠
I remember when I moved to joburg to go live with my mom because I was doing my 1st year that side she had uAunty who had been with her for almost 15 years or so on who raised my older siblings so it was my first time meeting her it started off fine but as time went on she was so mean towards me , afakaze when I talk to my mom bout personal stuff and she’d constantly question my moms parenting towards me💔she proceeded to take advantage of my mom engasa clean(ini) nakahle so we let her go mind you apart from her salary my mom did everything for her including buying her electricity and groceries
I’m truly sorry that you had to experience that with your aunty🫂🫂💖 My point exactly, when you’re nice you’re taken advantage off. When you stand your ground you’re a bad guy, it’s a lot ey 😩
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Cos ya’ll work them like slaves till 10pm. When do they get time to talk to family and friends. You need to specify a time when they work and when they take a break and when they knock off. Ya’ll work them 16 hours and think they should also sleep when you like and not have a life. Cumon….
So you expected the second helper to clean the whole day and still be a nanny in the middle of the night. When is her break or clock out time like other normal jobs? Did you even pay her enough to work 24 hours? I don’t think you were being reasonable to be honest. Being a nanny and being a cleaner are two different jobs for two different people. We as black people like abusing helpers and making them do both jobs for one pay. That’s ridiculous.
Hello Nanazille,
I didn't expect her to work the entire day. My helper/nanny usually works half-days on Saturdays and takes Sundays off. She is compensated fairly, and I ensure she has what she needs. It's important to acknowledge that, as a community, we should avoid taking advantage of our helpers, and I'm proud to say that's not the case in my situation.
In the process of selecting a helper, there's a clear distinction between a helper and a nanny. When scouting for assistance, the ladies are given the choice to work as a helper only, a nanny, or a combination of both. This information is communicated upfront, and they make a decision based on their preference. Having been through this process, I understand the importance of respecting their choices and ensuring a fair working arrangement.
So, if you think I'm clueless about this whole helper-hunting process, think again. I Just wanted to drop some truth bombs about my helper/nanny adventures.😉
Lol so you basically saying working half day on Saturday and being off on Sunday is more reason for them to work 24hrs are you hearing yourself? This video is a shame the fact that you did it edited and posted it sana you need help there is something wrong
Well, if thinking it's a shame helps you sleep better at night, then sweet dreams. But I did mention she was compensated, so maybe try listening a bit more carefully next time. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and if you feel that way it’s okay! 😊
Kanjan mara Nanazille, make it make sense.. Siyizinja vele nathi as "blacks" because some of the stories we hear about our fellow blacks treating our helpers are disgustingly inhuman. First of all we do not know their relationship/contract agreement so we really don't know ukusebenziswana kwabo. I doubt that a 24hour service was expected from her. I don't think ubaba wezi ngane would've told the mother to stay the night & expected the nanny/helper to take care of everything whilst his also there. Looks can be deceiving yes but I doubt that is the case la kwaMohlala, they don't seem to strike like heartless ruthless people. uAunty has EVERY right to speak up whenever she's unable to continue or do something that's beyond her means and THAT shouldn't turn us into horrible monsters just because "we pay them" - NO ONE IS ANYONE'S SLAVE!!!!!!!!!!!!! It's extremely pivotally important to have a good, transparent & honest relationship with abasizi betu because at the end of the day siyadingana. We need to be there for one another more especially in such incidences, singabantu, siyakulumiseka & siyapilisana futhi. I WAS NEVER THERE but I don't think uAunty was ill-treatment kulela khaya & I'm sure she got what she deserved for that.
@@SindisiweM my point is she was not doing anything all day regarding the taking care of her household or children, the least she could do was take care of her kids at night while the maid is resting. And as much as you are saying all this. I understand you. There are two sides to every story, if we fetched all those helpers they would have stories themselves so lets not be so sure just cos you know the storyteller doesn’t mean you know the whole story. Five or six helpers left some even without notice, lets not act as if she is not the common denominator in all this. Six ladies cannot be all wrong and yena as an employer aberight all the time. There is no way.
Yoh i also had a lady who vanished into thin air, till today i don’t know what happened to her. The trauma and hurt that was caused by her doing that to me 💔 yoh. I never had the courage to look for another helper, i was haunted by ‘what if she disappeared with my child?’ or ‘what if a new one disappears with my child?’, Ive haven’t healed shem, my helper was from Swaziland. My mom asked to raise my child and she’s been living with my little one ever since and baby is safer and better taken care of ❤️. I just wish life would’ve been set up differently so i could cater for all my child’s needs but ke…. Super grateful for my mom for stepping in coz i was in the brink of losing my mind because of a person who vanished just like that and not having the audacity to tell me that she’s leaving. And believe you me, I have never stepped on her toes, she had the house all to herself almost all the time, looking after 1 child, well paid, i even did my laundry and cooked all meals so that she doesn’t have too much work to do but ke 😭
I feel your pain Nozipho ey 😩
I never wanted a Nanny/ helper because of the scary stories we hear out there. I can only imagine how you felt when you found her Missing in action.
Thank God your baby is safe and sound in your mothers home😊
saze sahlukumezeka ema kwethu 😩
@@ThandohMohlala thank you for your kind words mama, I’m so sorry you had to go through sooo much with your helpers, I’m happy order is restored once again in your home, hope this time around it lasts forever ❤️
I could listen to you 24/7....and you do seem like a bubbly person ❤
Road to 10k🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Awuu Thank you Phozy 🥹🤭
My 1st helper would leave the kids with diapers from the morning and she would say she's tired looking after 2 young kids and the house. When we have people from church for counseling she leaves everything and sits wuth us till im done with the person and even comments. She left saying shez sick but will come back. I just said "God i dont want her to come back" and she never did.
The second helper said she dreamdt about my kids before she met them...the day she started working she cleaned the while house, bathed the kids, did their hair and cooked. The house was sooooo super clean i was like "Lord this is the one" i then told her to check rampers from the closet for her child kanti she will go an extra mile and take even the dishes...mind you when she comes in the morning she doesn't carry a bag but when she leaves she has 2 plastic bags so heavy that she doesnt even want to look at me. She was soooo good but she was a thief.Ai helpers can be a headache i tell you.
Its been a struggle finding the right helper...i now get help once in a while from people at church. Otherwise im done for now with helpers tjoe
Not her invading your privacy, then adds comments while you’re counselling someone 🫨
Why do people take advantage of kindness?
@@ThandohMohlala it's the character sis... People can do strange things I tell you. Especially when you're younger than them they take advantage of your kindness
I ended up putting my child in school because of this. Had 7 nannies in 1 year 😭. By 16 months he was in day care. SOOO Much better! I’m traumatised by helpers and don’t mind doing everything else by myself for my child. I have someone to clean , wash and iron twice a week and I’m good. The last Nannie left and told me via text on a Sunday night. Haha.
So many have an attitude especially if you’re young and black.
We go through a lot trying to balance motherhood and everything in between 🥹🫠
I pray I find a good helper for me n my kids honestly🙏🏼After listening to this ndavele ndanestress coz wow😅Bayahlupha naba abantu
Not all are bad honestly the helper I have today is heaven sent. Just pray about it and be clear to them during interviews about your expectations.
All the best with you future Helper 🧡🧡
@@ThandohMohlala Thank you hun❤
Saw you there by Mrs Ntuli's channel and I'm loving it here❤
Yay! Thank you for coming this side. Welcome welcome to our TH-cam family 🥰🥹
You such a hilarious story teller "ngathi we khekhe lebus ngiphumele igate "😂😂😂😂
Thank you so very much my beautiful....about your current helper,how did you find her n where is she from?
Hey hey 😊
I got her through an agency. I’ll look their contact details then share them with you
@@ThandohMohlala thank you so very much my beautiful 😍
Yohh my helper is starting on Monday ne, I pray for no drama cz yohhh I don’t have the energy but I need the help❤❤❤look beautiful Mommy
All the best!!
Continue to pray, hopefully you don’t have to experience what I went through with my helpers
I really hope people knew what kind of a person you are. une nhliziyo enhle ngisho noma umuntu ehlangana nawe your aura is so welcoming nje.
Awuuuu bakithi thank you soo much. I highly appreciate your comment ♥️🥰
Thank youu😊
I would like to say, that I have not skipped any ads 😂
I learned a lot today
Thank You Mainah 🤭 you’re highly appreciated
so matured hope jasmin outgrows the sickness when she grows up cos that one nearly took me to witkoppies ke sa cope at all.looking forward for more vlogs ngwetji ya mohlala.❤❤❤❤
Thank you 😊 I’ll keep videos and vlogs coming!!
See you on the next one
Kunzima ukuba a young wife and mom! Bakudriver njengeplate lokudla.... My shortest contract was overnight. My current one is on her 2nd year. We are happy.
I always we are one blessed generation, kodwa we face a lot of challenges shame 😩
Overnight ai 😳😂🤭I WONDER WHAT SHE DID….
I can’t wait to say “it’s been 2 years” nami🤭🤭🥹
You look so pretty Thando 🩷
Thank you Very much 🥹😊
I love your stories ma'am 😍 looking forward for more❤❤
Thank you Bianca 🤭
I’ll see you on the next one💃
I really get you sisters,,, i have been there. I think this people take advantage because you are good to them..
I do believe I was taken advantage of because of my age 😒. But the experience was eye opening and I’m grateful for the one I have now 🥰
One of my helpers used to also kneel everytime she spoke to me and she was way older than me
I’m sure it was an uncomfortable experience. I’m not saying don’t respect me but please don’t kneel 😩
😂😂😂you such a good story teller hle 😂😂but i pray aunty number last stays ❤❤❤
She’s such a darling and she really loves being here. We love having her as part of our family ❤️
You are so beautiful young and matured Thando🥰🥰😍😍❤️❤️
Thank youu Thambi 🤭🥹
One thing I have realized about people from Zim once they get comfortable they will show you flames shame
Det red lipstick on u bona ubabhabhi 🥵🥵u dd a simple make-up but bona u luk fabulous hlee hot 🔥🔥sana 💯 n am s glad at last 🙏God answered ur prayers n u hve a beautiful home n family ❤️❤️❣️❣️💯
Maaaaam stop it i like it🤭😊🥹
Thank you very much…. And yes God is a faithful God, my helper is an phenomenal person ♥️
I've experienced bo auntie and it wasn't even my own house but my mom's😭 imagine when I do have my own house, I'm gonna cry🙌🏾
Helpers are a great help, but some of them are a nightmare!
Pray for your future helper so you don’t have to experience what you’ve experienced at home ☺️
You are very rude and selfish to all of them sana sometimes the problem is you and what's sad is you don't even see it sana introspect sehh
Thanks for sharing your opinion, but I stand by my experience and the way I presented it. If introspection is needed, maybe it's worth considering for both parties. Have a great day!😊
Excuse me but pardon my intrusion.. Busisiwe are you sure you're not just a "hater" or just "sad" or something because which EXACT part of the story was she ever rude or selfish??? Please, maybe I've missed that part🧐?!
@@SindisiweM you are not excused this is my point of view she was rude to her helpers and fired them at any small inconvenience as if she is perfect she wanted them not to have a life not to get sick nje she wanted them to be robots I'm sure she is your friend and la thetsana listen this is a public platform and if you put out a video we will tell you the truth suck it!
@@ThandohMohlala Hao motho shame that's why basa last
@@SindisiweM and first of all I can't hate someone I don't even know this video is on a public platform if you didn't know and sana I'm not sorry for saying it like it is she was rude to the helpers and that's not Ubuntu
How did no one end up in jail or the hospital after Jazzy Jazmine facial reconstruction mara ke 👀👀👀😳?? I didn't mean to giggle a little but why did she seem to be chilled when that picture was taken though😅. Yoh uAunty would've been dead shem hai kabi whaaaaat!!!
I love what you said at the end ALL OF IT, it couldn't have been more truer. We need to take care of one another because siyadingana kodwa RESPECTFULLY so.
Things could’ve been escalated but I had to keep calm and remember she has a family back home she has to feed and hearing the heartbreaking stories I just had to let her go calmly.
Jasmine was playing so I interrupted when I took the picture for the agency
Thank you Cindy it’s funny how adults miss the part my kids got hurt but I’m rude 🫠
I remember when I moved to joburg to go live with my mom because I was doing my 1st year that side she had uAunty who had been with her for almost 15 years or so on who raised my older siblings so it was my first time meeting her it started off fine but as time went on she was so mean towards me , afakaze when I talk to my mom bout personal stuff and she’d constantly question my moms parenting towards me💔she proceeded to take advantage of my mom engasa clean(ini) nakahle so we let her go mind you apart from her salary my mom did everything for her including buying her electricity and groceries
I’m truly sorry that you had to experience that with your aunty🫂🫂💖
My point exactly, when you’re nice you’re taken advantage off. When you stand your ground you’re a bad guy, it’s a lot ey 😩
@@ThandohMohlala all the time hey 😑😫
At least all de best ❤️
Yoh lo olimaze uJazz, my heart 💔💔💔💔💔💔 so sorry momma.
I’m glad you finally found the right one yazi 🙏🏻♥️🥺
Yeehy I almost chose violence that day but because i have the softest husband wangikhuza 😩
I think you and I had the same helper cause I had the same person and she used to drink 😂😂😂
Maybe we shared a helper🤣😂 the things we go through Kodwa….
Looking back now all you can do is laugh 😆
My son is 16months old but I’ve had 4 Nannies. Bayahlupha shame 😩😭
Ey Phindile ungaphinde usho futhi 😭🤣 ende we need them bathong.
Don’t give up you’ll find the right one for you.
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Not her leaving the kids by themself 😩
That lady didn’t love her job she was only there for money to be honest she didn’t care 😭😩
Thina ke it’s the guy who helps out in the yard 😭 he disappears for days every time he gets paid
Ende when you fire them it look/feels like you’re the wrong one 😩😭
I remember the nanny chronicles from your IG stories
Nanny’s/ Helpers have shown me real flames 😂🤣
I’m glad it over now
Lmfao listening to you tell these stories 😂😂😂
😂🤣😂🤣 ey ngibuye kude yoh
Oh no...she really got hurt by that fall 😢
Keke le birthday tu you😅😅😅❤
Isimanga seKati 😂🤣😂😭
Ur story is my story
You look stunning babe,kopa details tsa therapist you went to, i need to make a huge decision that will affect my kids..i need help
Hey Mama may you kindly send me a DM 🙏🏼
not on instagram unfortunately
0794692070 you can text me
@@ThandohMohlala Done
I am a new Sabby and Loving you already
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Sem' mnandi ke lo mgosi😂😂
🥹🤣🤣🤣
These helpers don’t sleep at night, they are on their phones. 😞
😂🤣😂 They’re on the phone from 12am until 5am.
I don’t mind iPhone as long as you won’t be too tired to work
Cos ya’ll work them like slaves till 10pm. When do they get time to talk to family and friends. You need to specify a time when they work and when they take a break and when they knock off. Ya’ll work them 16 hours and think they should also sleep when you like and not have a life. Cumon….
I just fired my 10th 🤦♀️
😊🤝Sis you’re not alone.
We need to pray bathong we can’t all suffer like this.
I wish i could hear what you saying 😂
What language do you speak?🥹
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Not them swearing at you 😳
When they said “To go is to see” they really meant it we go through it as humans 😂
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My other concern is that I love storytimes but they are told in natuve language. So...👎
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