@@TheEsquireofSports it's not just them,I'm a white dude and went through this sort of shxt with our white ladies🤣,I just leave them with their delusions
I know right it's absolutely crazy. In the old days you'd have to fight to find out about someone's secret now they just televise it for the entire world
Well, at least I give her credit for not being rude after the rejection. I rejected a female in the apartment complex where I live, in the best way I knew how, and she became vengeful. She proceeded to tell as many women in the complex that I was weird, etc. That guy who rejected the female in the video got off lucky. Some women think there’s an unwritten rule that THEY should do the rejecting; not men.
Had an ex tell me this. Said she witnessed a female publicly destroy a guy trying to shoot his shot (HBCU days). Said she was so glad she was a female bc if she had to endure what happened to that guy she wouldn't be able to take it.
Getting rejecting is a-MAJOR-part of the dating game,I've been rejected many times by women,just kept on trying. LOL. When I used to go to clubs ( this was when I was in the military )plus size girls would ask me to dance with them,so i did. My military buddies would make fun of me for dancing with them and they asked me why one night after leaving a club to head back to base. So,I said-IF they have the courage to walk across a dance floor to ask for a dance,I'll dance with any female. LOL. Most of these women I became good friends with.
I don’t think it’s the rejection side that has her crying it’s knowing that there are good men out there, who are kind respectful loving and considerate of their partner, and living with right now that she doesn’t have it or anything near it. It hurts to see love in other places when you don’t have it.
She would be ready to end it all if she were to deal with the kind of hard rejections us dudes have had to face whenever we were pursuing chicks. She cant even take that lightweight rejection without being a blubbering mess.
@@candyxox the men you dealt with do not represent men as a whole. Those are exceptions. We deal with rejection way more than women do. We handle it better. Your anecdotal experience doesn't negate that fact.
I think if the sister takes the nose ring out and shape and style her hair better, she will get more attention. But unfortunately, she may have some insecure issues, all that crying and stuff, thats a basket case, waiting to happen.
Say it again and again!!!! Damn 😠....but at the same time I take that ring as a clue, I stay away from any bw with that look " bull ring in nose" fk 👎 no,that's multiple red flags!!!!! 😳 in one
😂 The one time they get rejected after the thousands of times men get rejected, and she falls to pieces, men don't get rejected in a nice way either. To be honest rejections makes you stronger.
The sister needs to get rid of that nose ring, but she is still a beautiful woman. She also seems to have a decent personality. Based upon this sister’s behavior, I’m guessing that men usually approach her and she’s not used to being the assertive one, when it comes to breaking the ice. Either way, as long as she keeps a decent personality. I think she will do all right. Oh yeah, getting rid of the nose ring will help too.
@@George-fc4vv Nothing is wrong with a sister sporting her natural hair, but the problem was she had a fade. Fades that are really for brothers don't look good on sisters. A large nose like ring and a man's hairstyle on a woman..... smh No. l am sure heterosexual men do not wish to date women that look like and act like men. Just as heterosexual women do not wish to date men that look like and act like women. l am just saying .
I Would have told her the same thing? And for no other reason that nose ring. That's crazy and then listen to how she keep making noise with the keys man. No way, no way. I hate those nose rings seriously and for whatever reason. It looked nasty, but you can't tell them nothing you know, Can't tell him nothing at the end of the day. They don't want to hear Nothing. See how fragile her little emotions are with the brother. Tell her the truth? Just 1000 truth, I'm already dating, then she all in pieces cause. They have such egoes and such pride on the shoulder. Sad state of affairs.
I dont really believe she cries believe she got rejected by the guy. She cries possibly because she feels very lonely and seeing a decent man being in a healthy relationship makes her super envious
Its hard for me to feel sorry for her. Wn will get picked waaay more than a man almost all the time. Also for every one guy that turns her down, she probably turned down 20-30 menn went on about her business. And he did it very nicely🤦🏿. Nobody is meant for everybody. Its part of the process
Careful, you're too logical, direct and honest that most can't handle these days. You'll mess up their programming which can cause defects and malfunction to he or she's main software.
I being a man wrote the book on dealing with rejection is something that women can't master. Women can reject men and get a way with it , but when they're being rejected, it's the end of the world for them.
I reject women at my job over the many encounters I’ve had either because I was in a relationship, not interested and ultimately because I don’t mess with people I work with. Then I hear rumors about myself or these women will be super rude when it’s time to collaborate . 😂
I commend her for trying. That's very hard to do. It's hard going out on a limb like that. Facing rejection is like facing stage fright to me sometimes😅👏🏾
I was around this 50 yr old man today " thirsty sucker " he had gotten rejected by atleast 5 wmn " within a hour or two " do you think he gave up ? No Sir No ma'am.......he one of them type of dudes where rejection is nothing because he's so 🤷 use to it 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Serious to her, because we don't know the type of guys she has dealt with and been mistreated by... Sista, don't cry, look at it like this, you are learning and understanding what type of guy you want, what characteristics to look for in a great guy ... The most important watch out for those wolves in sheep's clothing.👍🏿
Women get mad/annoyed if you try to approach them respectfully, so men just stopped hollering. You can’t even say an innocent “Good morning” to some of these women without receiving the Giannis mean mug and attitude. 😂
We men experience rejection more than women. And we’re used to it. Some of us Just keep it moving, develop ourselves by working out, stack paper, etc. it’s playing the odds … improve yourself to better your outcome!
Phil!! When you brought up she should take the ring out her nose. You were spot-on! I watched this video on another channel. A podcaster said that was the issue. B1
Are you serious?! Do you know how many times, as men, we are rejected by women when we approach them?! Women are so spoiled! You can't always get what you want! Get over it!
Not sure why this is even getting any traction, this is what guys have gone through from the beginning of time. You shoot your shot, you get a "no" then move on to the next. Same with job interviews, loan... essentially anything in life that requires to take a shot. These are the girl bosses of the world... only bosses when they get their way but real life doesn't care about your ego or self proclaim boss title, life will humble you at each turn and you better have built some though skin or else you will end up making a lot of videos with tears on how things didn't go your way.
Well she can complete for him or she can find another guy. Its not the end of the world she is still young. Men get rejected everyday. At least he was honest and respectful.
This makes me think of when you're paid no attention to as a boy by the same girls who grow up to crush on you when you become a man. And sometimes they're even taken already.
She probably turned down one hundred other guys. Men generally have to be attracted to you. And women, because of WS plot of building them up and holding their men back, no longer factor a man's attraction based on his ability to provide for a family; they can afford now to concentrate on his looks, private part size, and other external features and quite frankly many women are not a "super" handsome guys equal but they believe they are because of what they have accumulated of worldly attributes and wealth. They got it all wrong but I don't know how this delusion can be fixed.
This upsets me when women shoot they're shot at men because those adorable men already have someone! And honestly, everybody's not going to get a husband or a boyfriend! Every man isn't going to get the woman that they want either, but i get it. She's young and she wants to start her love life, however sometimes it's best to wait ir sit it out all together. Shout out to the giy for being honest and staying true to his significant other. 🙌🏾
That nose ring woulda been the deal breaker for me. Instant NO. I remember some women wanted to fight me because I turned them down. The situations were hilarious
If you're trying to pick a man or woman on just looks, you're in for a rude awaking...stop approaching a man or woman saying how nice they look, because that's a line they probably heard often so you gain nothing saying it.
Hell I developed a tougher skin though out the years and hell I took a lot a no’s but hell I got them yeses . Maryland showing❤ she gonna break some hearts too .
She's definitely a attractive woman...so she'll be fine.. What probably hurts her the most is that was a genuinely a goodman..a one woman man who could had dealt with her if he was single . So for other women watching this this shouldn't deter you from going for a man you're interested in..these things do happen .
I rejected this lady at work and she spread rumors that I was gay. Women in the workplace will try to make your life a living hell if you reject them.
Good. Never date a coworker ever
Damn ,that happened to me plenty of times .....you gay you gay you gay you gay gay gay gay when I simply wasn't interested 🤷 leave me alone
I just keep it extra professional,no small talk with the ladies, don't need their drama anymore
A similar incident happened to me
@@TheEsquireofSports it's not just them,I'm a white dude and went through this sort of shxt with our white ladies🤣,I just leave them with their delusions
He probably told u that because of that bull ring. Ladies, please let that crap go. It's very uncouth!!!
😂😂😂
That hair cut isn't helping things either
In the western world, which has bastardized it, but overseas and indigenous cultures it's part of a feminine dress.
I personally hate it.
Thought the hair style was a lesbian thing.
That’s all I kept staring at while watching this video. That damn Nose Ring
That septum ring sent up red flags!
😅😅😅
I guess crying on the internet is the norm now. Smh
Its a Gen Z thing.
@besharafereg2198 some people in my age does it too
I know right it's absolutely crazy. In the old days you'd have to fight to find out about someone's secret now they just televise it for the entire world
Putting her personal business online is another strike against her in my book.
it’s so pathetic
Well, at least I give her credit for not being rude after the rejection. I rejected a female in the apartment complex where I live, in the best way I knew how, and she became vengeful. She proceeded to tell as many women in the complex that I was weird, etc. That guy who rejected the female in the video got off lucky. Some women think there’s an unwritten rule that THEY should do the rejecting; not men.
Facts
Must be pretty bad out there to be giving credit.
I call cap 😂, since when has black men been the most desired ? Assuming you're black that is 👀
Yeah sound about right. Weird turning down a woman. Wouldn't be surprised she threw in your gay.
@@blackworldtraveler3711it's always been like that 😂
This is why women don’t approach, rejection is soul crushing to them
Yup
Had an ex tell me this. Said she witnessed a female publicly destroy a guy trying to shoot his shot (HBCU days). Said she was so glad she was a female bc if she had to endure what happened to that guy she wouldn't be able to take it.
Sounds childish to me tbh, somebody tells you no & all of a sudden your life is over??😂😂
Better than getting killed, men take the lives of women who reject them, hence why women always give their number, or smile in an awkward situation
Too bad. Welcome to life, ladies.
Zero sympathy considering how they react when men loose all of their assets in a divorce.
Facts🤣💯
😆😂
The bull ring and high top fade probably wasn't his style.
Right like wtf 😭😭😭😭😭
High top mohawk and bull nose ring. Wondering why. 😂
BRUH TAKE IT EASY ON HER BRUH😂🤣😂🤣
🎯🎯🎯🎯
No ...... he's telling her the truth
@@robertmarley8852and a lot of men will still say yes to her if she wanted to smash….. us men don’t get that luxury so easily
Getting rejecting is a-MAJOR-part of the dating game,I've been rejected many times by women,just kept on trying. LOL. When I used to go to clubs ( this was when I was in the military )plus size girls would ask me to dance with them,so i did. My military buddies would make fun of me for dancing with them and they asked me why one night after leaving a club to head back to base. So,I said-IF they have the courage to walk across a dance floor to ask for a dance,I'll dance with any female. LOL. Most of these women I became good friends with.
Very nice. And for both genders dangerous game
Girl, it's not that serious. You'll find someone else, if you're a good person.
That nose ring isn’t really helping things.
😂
😆
point on
😂😅
She might also be part of the rainbow community. Most black women who look like her go both ways
I don’t think it’s the rejection side that has her crying it’s knowing that there are good men out there, who are kind respectful loving and considerate of their partner, and living with right now that she doesn’t have it or anything near it. It hurts to see love in other places when you don’t have it.
I think this is it…. There are great men out there that have to be very careful in a cold world…..
I agree. She seems soft hearted and feminine.
It's a cold world every man for himself
C Murda
Then why Not say that? That's how we heal as a people... Stop BS ing and start really helping our people!! FBA.
Men she doesn't believe she has access to..pretty much?
Ladies 😂 not every men out there is thirsty don't let this internet fool yall
*MOST* men are.
*MOST* men would screw a dead elephant in the *A$$* talking about *"this is some good *PU$$Y* cuz"*
🎯Bing
Not every man is thirsty but *MOST* are
This video show and proves that women can’t take rejection, regardless of how you as a man respond.
She would be ready to end it all if she were to deal with the kind of hard rejections us dudes have had to face whenever we were pursuing chicks. She cant even take that lightweight rejection without being a blubbering mess.
Same goes for men.
@@candyxox men, on average, handle rejection way better than women.
@apexone5502 the hell. I've rejected men nicely and they either insulted me or tried to guilt trip me with the "who you think you better than" line.
@@candyxox the men you dealt with do not represent men as a whole. Those are exceptions. We deal with rejection way more than women do. We handle it better. Your anecdotal experience doesn't negate that fact.
I think if the sister takes the nose ring out and shape and style her hair better, she will get more attention. But unfortunately, she may have some insecure issues, all that crying and stuff, thats a basket case, waiting to happen.
A lot of basket cases out here 👀
Ladies, that septum ring in your nose is a turn off, most brothers will not go for that!!
Thank you! It is a major turn off.
Exactly. Sometimes it looks like a booger 👎
Say it again and again!!!! Damn 😠....but at the same time I take that ring as a clue, I stay away from any bw with that look " bull ring in nose" fk 👎 no,that's multiple red flags!!!!! 😳 in one
Facts bro!! I would have rejected her too! F’ing gross!
Thank you for telling her my mind. For God seek that septum ring or whatever they call it is a major off to me as a man.
I just got rejected myself today the only thing I can tell her is keep your head up and welcome to a mans world.
😂 The one time they get rejected after the thousands of times men get rejected, and she falls to pieces, men don't get rejected in a nice way either. To be honest rejections makes you stronger.
People have to understand them. rejection is a part of life.. the gentleman was at least honest and polite.
😂😂😂
@@lisajones3398What’s funny? Did I miss the joke?
@@usmokndopeordogfood7542 yes, you missed the joke
When I get rejected which is never because I no longer pursue women, I look at it they’re saving me future divorce and alimony payments. 😂
@@lisajones3398 Oh ok, must be a lame joke then.
Septum Theory is undefeated.
Women can't handle the rejection that men face on a daily basis.
The sister needs to get rid of that nose ring, but she is still a beautiful woman. She also seems to have a decent personality. Based upon this sister’s behavior, I’m guessing that men usually approach her and she’s not used to being the assertive one, when it comes to breaking the ice. Either way, as long as she keeps a decent personality. I think she will do all right. Oh yeah, getting rid of the nose ring will help too.
Rid of that butchy shop haircut too!
@@bobby8474 I agree. 👍
@@bobby8474 she'd look even better with some braids
Bullring?...instant NOOO😊 she looks like Radio Raheem😂😂😂
Back in my day a girl had a diary, now in 2024 girls have Tik Tok to vent. Hahahahaha 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Smokey's quote. She gonna cry in the car.
She shouldn't cry. We all get rejected. It hurts. But, you have to move one and try again.
One damn rejection... ONE! And she falls to pieces. And dude didn't really reject her because he was taken and respecting that relationship.
There may have been more, this one just pushed her over emotionally. Seems there could've been more ijs
He was being nice. He wasn’t into her. That hairstyle and the nosering are not cute.
Yea that look reminds me of a man hating feminist. Haircut, septum ring n all
Her is natural what's the problem
She’s pretty I think 🤔 he has a girlfriend
@@George-fc4vv
Nothing is wrong with a sister sporting her natural hair, but the problem was she had a fade. Fades that are really for brothers don't look good on sisters. A large nose like ring and a man's hairstyle on a woman..... smh No. l am sure heterosexual men do not wish to date women that look like and act like men. Just as heterosexual women do not wish to date men that look like and act like women. l am just saying
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@@George-fc4vv so what, the guy just wasn't interested
I Would have told her the same thing? And for no other reason that nose ring. That's crazy and then listen to how she keep making noise with the keys man. No way, no way. I hate those nose rings seriously and for whatever reason. It looked nasty, but you can't tell them nothing you know, Can't tell him nothing at the end of the day. They don't want to hear Nothing. See how fragile her little emotions are with the brother. Tell her the truth? Just 1000 truth, I'm already dating, then she all in pieces cause. They have such egoes and such pride on the shoulder. Sad state of affairs.
She needs to LOSE THE BULL RING.
😂 rejection works both ways
She's a weirdo.. people don't just automatically like you because you like them
@@Gymrat187 lol that part 😅
Those nose rings are like bright colors in the Animal kingdom. A warning of the danger to come of you take the chance..
I dont really believe she cries believe she got rejected by the guy.
She cries possibly because she feels very lonely and seeing a decent man being in a healthy relationship makes her super envious
Most women aren't built for Cold Approaching and it shows..😮
I agree. That's why I don't do it. I would be so crushed. 😢
Its hard for me to feel sorry for her. Wn will get picked waaay more than a man almost all the time. Also for every one guy that turns her down, she probably turned down 20-30 menn went on about her business. And he did it very nicely🤦🏿. Nobody is meant for everybody. Its part of the process
Careful, you're too logical, direct and honest that most can't handle these days. You'll mess up their programming which can cause defects and malfunction to he or she's main software.
😂
Keep your head up sister the right brother will come along.
She probably passed up twenty guys for a man that all of friends liked. Now she doesn't have a chance she's hurt
U see that nose ring, run fast
Rejection is part of life and not just dating. It’s a game of numbers.
I being a man wrote the book on dealing with rejection is something that women can't master. Women can reject men and get a way with it , but when they're being rejected, it's the end of the world for them.
They can dish it out but can't take it
Bull ring gots to go!!!!!!
Black is beautiful even her silk skin!
women will have to learn to deal with rejection as men do. Equality for all.
She is 25, so she has about 5 good years to find a husband to settle down....
And if a guy did cry about being rejected, he would unanimously and universally be looked at as weak and girls wouldn't give them a mercy date.
The rejection street runs both ways.😅
Her net worth is zero…no personality at all
I have rejected some women when I find out they have more than 2 children's under the age of 17 years old.
Easy fix... change that hairstyle. Grow it out. She's very pretty and that's why it's easy. Why don't she this?
😂 move on 🤷♂️💯🙏
I reject women at my job over the many encounters I’ve had either because I was in a relationship, not interested and ultimately because I don’t mess with people I work with. Then I hear rumors about myself or these women will be super rude when it’s time to collaborate . 😂
Now they know how it feels when us Men get rejected. The tables are turning and this is a wonderful thing!
I commend her for trying. That's very hard to do. It's hard going out on a limb like that. Facing rejection is like facing stage fright to me sometimes😅👏🏾
I was around this 50 yr old man today " thirsty sucker " he had gotten rejected by atleast 5 wmn " within a hour or two " do you think he gave up ? No Sir No ma'am.......he one of them type of dudes where rejection is nothing because he's so 🤷 use to it 😂😂😂😂😂😂
As men, you probably have been rejected since you started school!
Serious to her, because we don't know the type of guys she has dealt with and been mistreated by... Sista, don't cry, look at it like this, you are learning and understanding what type of guy you want, what characteristics to look for in a great guy ... The most important watch out for those wolves in sheep's clothing.👍🏿
Shooting your shot with a crooked septum ring is nasty work
She'll live😂 We do.
Imagine how many men she's rejected this month. B please😂
Women get mad/annoyed if you try to approach them respectfully, so men just stopped hollering. You can’t even say an innocent “Good morning” to some of these women without receiving the Giannis mean mug and attitude. 😂
We men experience rejection more than women. And we’re used to it. Some of us Just keep it moving, develop ourselves by working out, stack paper, etc. it’s playing the odds … improve yourself to better your outcome!
Yeah I got over it by 10th grade.
Got my passport at 18 and didn’t even care anymore.
These sistas might as well get a dog or a cat like Kevin Samuel said😂😂😂
Men had to deal with rejection everyday they shoot their shot. You accept and move on or maybe try again when the timing is right.
For this woman to be crying over this guy that rejected her...he must have been super *RICH! $$*
Welcome to the club sis 😂😂😂😂
Phil!! When you brought up she should take the ring out her nose. You were spot-on! I watched this video on another channel. A podcaster said that was the issue. B1
At least she didn't call him gsy afterwards 😳
Asking a man if hes gay is disrespectful, so is it ok for me to ask you to kneel down at that moment.
I LOOK AT IT THIS WAY:
"NO" is significant, but "WHY" is irrelevant! Uncle Phil might be right about that septum ring, though!
Rejection is good dont loose your mind keep it pushing go to the next i seen people go crazy behind rejection or taking out
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At least she was rejected nicely. Not sure how many times I as a man have been rejected nastily even asking someone out nicely.
Exactly. A lot of them can dish out a harsh rejection but cant even take a soft Rejection in return. A lot of them are a joke nowadays
REJECTION IS A PART OF LIFE GROW UP.
If he is being faithful and telling you the truth that's not rejection he is being responsible. If he was single and turn you down that's rejection
Back in the day, people who used to cry on the phone and now since social media taken over, they using it as a therapy section
Are you serious?! Do you know how many times, as men, we are rejected by women when we approach them?! Women are so spoiled! You can't always get what you want! Get over it!
Welcome to being a functioning adult where you're often told no
I can only give her credit for not being rude after being rejected. Men get rejected all the time. Welcome to the real world.
How many good guys ehe rejected, this is probably karma.
She's 25 and Single 🤔
Hold on to that Masculine Woman Strong and Independent Persona your gonna Need it when your Old 🤣🤣🤣
I honestly thought that was Mr. T. for a moment.💀🤣
Anyways, you got rejected, move on the next one.
Things so bad that you have to cry now? Lmao
It was the bull ring. 🤷🏿♂️
And the stud outfit and the 90s high top fade.
@@bossplayermfs5972 lol
Not sure why this is even getting any traction, this is what guys have gone through from the beginning of time. You shoot your shot, you get a "no" then move on to the next. Same with job interviews, loan... essentially anything in life that requires to take a shot. These are the girl bosses of the world... only bosses when they get their way but real life doesn't care about your ego or self proclaim boss title, life will humble you at each turn and you better have built some though skin or else you will end up making a lot of videos with tears on how things didn't go your way.
Well she can complete for him or she can find another guy. Its not the end of the world she is still young. Men get rejected everyday. At least he was honest and respectful.
Every time I see this I’m like why is crying😂 She wanted to be lied to or something?
No, it's being rejected (in her eyes.) This is how good bm have felt after they've been hurt by bw for years. Karma is something else.
This makes me think of when you're paid no attention to as a boy by the same girls who grow up to crush on you when you become a man. And sometimes they're even taken already.
She probably turned down one hundred other guys. Men generally have to be attracted to you. And women, because of WS plot of building them up and holding their men back, no longer factor a man's attraction based on his ability to provide for a family; they can afford now to concentrate on his looks, private part size, and other external features and quite frankly many women are not a "super" handsome guys equal but they believe they are because of what they have accumulated of worldly attributes and wealth. They got it all wrong but I don't know how this delusion can be fixed.
💯it can’t
Great video coverage Phillip 💯 It happens all the time to men. We rub it in our chest and let it roll off our backs
He was so “chivalrous”
Give him enough time dealing with women nature
“Chivalry is dead and women killed it” - Dave Chappelle
Bro Phillip you are a great educator of our community we are thankful
This upsets me when women shoot they're shot at men because those adorable men already have someone! And honestly, everybody's not going to get a husband or a boyfriend! Every man isn't going to get the woman that they want either, but i get it. She's young and she wants to start her love life, however sometimes it's best to wait ir sit it out all together. Shout out to the giy for being honest and staying true to his significant other. 🙌🏾
The nose ring and radio Raheem cut ain't helping her cause
😂😂
She definitely needs a whole new look. Seems like she has a pleasant personality.
I wonder if she had that nose ring in her nose at the time
Like you said men go thru worse 10 fold every single day
These women are crazy as hell.
That nose ring woulda been the deal breaker for me. Instant NO. I remember some women wanted to fight me because I turned them down. The situations were hilarious
If you're trying to pick a man or woman on just looks, you're in for a rude awaking...stop approaching a man or woman saying how nice they look, because that's a line they probably heard often so you gain nothing saying it.
Yes. Please take those THINGS out of your nose. For real.
Hell I developed a tougher skin though out the years and hell I took a lot a no’s but hell I got them yeses . Maryland showing❤ she gonna break some hearts too .
Exactly I'm sure she turned some guys down
@@johnlawful2272That part 🙌🏾
She's definitely a attractive woman...so she'll be fine.. What probably hurts her the most is that was a genuinely a goodman..a one woman man who could had dealt with her if he was single . So for other women watching this this shouldn't deter you from going for a man you're interested in..these things do happen .
U call that bait!? 😮😂😂😂😂😂👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🤷🏽 "he gon cry in the car" in the Smokey voice