How Habits of Honesty and Transparency Can Transform Your Life | Jennah Dohms | TEDxWhiteRock

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  • What if there was a habit that could help people break out of unhealthy patterns and into their dreams and goals? Jennah Dohms shares the need for true transparency and accountability with others. She experiences the benefit of this by using an accountability trio which regularly goes through a list of ten life questions together. She emphasizes that hard truths can come from a place of love and not judgement. To learn more about the list of questions visit jennahdohms.com.
    Jennah Dohms is a motivated young woman who loves problem solving, empowering others and being a life-long learner. Some learning experiences include working on Parliament Hill, teaching English in the Middle East and China, directing events for different industries and working with Executive leadership teams. She is inspired to use her variety of international and professional experience to contribute to human development and dignity. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @coolfix948
    @coolfix948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    Honesty needs courage

    • @awanfarrell2880
      @awanfarrell2880 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      The truth hurts

    • @fierce5273
      @fierce5273 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I also think you need to be able to trust someone to be honest with them. Some people react abusively to the truth unfortunately. I wish that weren't true... :(

    • @offthewallart08
      @offthewallart08 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Love this

  • @mustafaamjad899
    @mustafaamjad899 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Honesty. Such a simple policy that if we follow it truly, we can be happy and guilt free.
    Despite knowing that, sometimes we unfortunately fail to do even that

    • @himadrisonai8291
      @himadrisonai8291 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      people seems to be dishonest because of fear or greediness....if due to fear then it is acceptable..or if the reason is greediness then karma hits back

  • @angeliajackson6727
    @angeliajackson6727 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Receive criticism and not be defensive about your failures - that spoke to me

  • @msve3730
    @msve3730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    The most honest people sleep well at night

    • @mikedrink3127
      @mikedrink3127 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree

    • @habibaroyees
      @habibaroyees ปีที่แล้ว

      ♥️

    • @hmdm5527
      @hmdm5527 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bs most lier lack empathy they care for no one but themselves.

    • @himadrisonai8291
      @himadrisonai8291 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@hmdm5527may be

  • @RedhairedShanks09
    @RedhairedShanks09 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Being honest requires courage to take the pain you get from being truthful with yourself. If you start being an enjoyer of pain. You will not be deceptive, ever.
    And you will be truthful with yourself.

  • @RC-ey4gm
    @RC-ey4gm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I agree. Better to be known fully then to believed for a false version of yourself.

  • @missx2830
    @missx2830 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    It can be really hard to look at yourself with complete honesty

    • @himadrisonai8291
      @himadrisonai8291 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      tes...sooooooo tough

    • @wesgh9579
      @wesgh9579 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, but well worth the journey, and more worth the freedom of becoming the true you!!

  • @nyriekathrynhadnot2015
    @nyriekathrynhadnot2015 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I have learned that honesty gets me in trouble, gets a negative reaction, hurts others.

    • @nyriekathrynhadnot2015
      @nyriekathrynhadnot2015 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I am trying to be less afraid

    • @lillithjones3787
      @lillithjones3787 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Its the approach maybe, being honest doesn't necessarily be to be hurtful, people do understand with few words sometimes...

  • @arlinegeorge6967
    @arlinegeorge6967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Beautiful amazing soul . So true habits of being honest let u live in peace. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.

  • @tylertaws476
    @tylertaws476 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Honesty is the best policy.

  • @alkasoli4002
    @alkasoli4002 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Truth hurts...but speaking out truth improves your memory power...oru kallam parayan ayiram kallam parayendi varrumennu parayarille.. angane..lie has a beauty only for a short period of time...but the beauty of truth is everlasting

  • @RogerWaters-ed3cy
    @RogerWaters-ed3cy 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love the fact that being honest is a good attitude. But sometimes you don't need honesty. You may have a bad attitude that you are aware of it. You just have to work on it and start to leave it. Honesty is good but we don't have to mistakenly consider being haughty with being honest. And after that we need to be honest with ourselves. Because if we don't we cannot be honest to anyone.

    • @stampingwithtori
      @stampingwithtori 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't understand your comment. Who was talking about being haughty?

  • @victorallencook7107
    @victorallencook7107 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I call out my OWN shortcomings .

  • @ryanfrizzell736
    @ryanfrizzell736 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good video about truth and honesty. Now I have more truth and honesty instruments to exercise. Thanks!

  • @brendantate2079
    @brendantate2079 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great talk!! I will start the process (writing the rules and the reason) for this today. Maybe I will invite strangers to be part of my circle..

  • @nellygirl
    @nellygirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I needed this tonight

  • @basslineur3965
    @basslineur3965 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This was an amazing talk

  • @victorallencook7107
    @victorallencook7107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The current situations and conditions require endurance and patience .

  • @ko1533
    @ko1533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for the great video

  • @michaelpacinelli4476
    @michaelpacinelli4476 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey thank you!

  • @michaelhibbert1613
    @michaelhibbert1613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    she’s very beautiful and great, deep words!

  • @JoelSHansen
    @JoelSHansen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Amazing talk!

  • @frankiej2682
    @frankiej2682 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    amazingly helpful

  • @ali.tomlinson
    @ali.tomlinson ปีที่แล้ว +6

    mutual accountability within a cohort is the most transparent growth builder. Kind collaboration creates an explosion of possiblities. I was so fortunate to virtually meet Ms. Dohms, eventhough it was a short twenty minute group interview, I felt honored to pick her brain.

  • @bubsyoutube
    @bubsyoutube 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Authentic Honesty Is The Way

  • @gavintoohey6604
    @gavintoohey6604 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you :)

  • @victorallencook7107
    @victorallencook7107 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I call out my OWN transgressions and short comings .

  • @treharrison4097
    @treharrison4097 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She had I business being this relatable

    • @lyra9988
      @lyra9988 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What?

    • @neighbor9672
      @neighbor9672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lyra9988 they meant to type "She had no business being this relatable."

  • @dailybliss1
    @dailybliss1 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️ the smile

  • @ethanmiller3287
    @ethanmiller3287 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    amazing

  • @victorallencook7107
    @victorallencook7107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's always love ............🙏✊👊👍👋🌞🌛🌱💧

  • @aadacharn1717
    @aadacharn1717 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Her voice is soft ,so deep of honest and respectful. I will be honest one day.😂

  • @VereniceBellido
    @VereniceBellido 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm trying to do my life beautiful, and beauty is honest

  • @kellykat32
    @kellykat32 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Listen at .25x faster

  • @KoolT
    @KoolT ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Let's hope this is instilled in childhood

  • @mariannbjorklund700
    @mariannbjorklund700 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The sad part of this is that if you have been told that YOUR honesty is dangerous you honestly believe that YOU are dangerous.

  • @Wavyboyangel029
    @Wavyboyangel029 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen 🙏 ❤❤❤

  • @blairgreen3546
    @blairgreen3546 ปีที่แล้ว

    What are the other 6 questions? Please do share

  • @jackiec498
    @jackiec498 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "...and the Truth will set you free." -Jesus
    Sounds a lot like sponsorship as it's done in 12-step groups.
    I had never been ok with myself before AA.

    • @abonyfidow9659
      @abonyfidow9659 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So AA helped and not God.

    • @panes840
      @panes840 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abonyfidow9659 no AA incorporates stuff and even if it doesn't incorporate it a variety of things can help and work in synergy.

  • @marilynm111
    @marilynm111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The honesty really bothers other people. They are use to being dishonest.
    It’s funny in a way.

  • @freedom4all418
    @freedom4all418 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    there there is no worse addiction than the addiction to narcissistic supply people will risk their very lives every single day all day just to get it I've never seen any other addiction including drugs or alcohol but a person will literally die for

  • @victorallencook7107
    @victorallencook7107 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And yet , I don't condemn anyone .

  • @mcdonnell-douglasdc-1087
    @mcdonnell-douglasdc-1087 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You should always be honest. So tell everyone that you are dishonest. 😁

    • @jesselaaldea3456
      @jesselaaldea3456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What are the benefits on being dishonest?

    • @zed9616
      @zed9616 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jesselaaldea3456 to prevent yourself hurting others especially those who close to you

  • @kiransrihari1052
    @kiransrihari1052 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What is the meaning of mutual accountability?

    • @MatthewVo
      @MatthewVo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When both parties take full responsibility in their actions with each other.

    • @Traces13
      @Traces13 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@MatthewVoMutual Accountability: if you can be honest and still live, I can be honest and know I'm not going to die.

  • @benjamingranat3387
    @benjamingranat3387 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok, but how do I start?

    • @caseyhenriette5772
      @caseyhenriette5772 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I suggest start reflecting on who you are and what you do in a daily bases. Now try to say your answers to a person who you are close with. Do they agree? Are you telling the truth?
      -hope this was helpful

  • @christopherleatherwood1670
    @christopherleatherwood1670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    something is off about her smile

    • @christopherleatherwood1670
      @christopherleatherwood1670 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @In a Universe where Deception halts Progress yeah your right

    • @add852
      @add852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kinda ironic because she's talking about honesty but her smile looks fake

  • @amitsangwan6187
    @amitsangwan6187 ปีที่แล้ว

    honestly अभी मैं chanting कर रहा हूँ ओर you tube देख रहा हूँ🙏🙏!!

  • @user-sj5eu4he6v
    @user-sj5eu4he6v 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    achingly beautiful

  • @gummybears1760
    @gummybears1760 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have no friends. Can two chill people adopt me?

  • @ryanng754
    @ryanng754 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    We do anything is not suppose because they are not really on earth, the world is all wrong like majority. It is necessary to do it all wrong to reflect on wrong mindset.

  • @scarycat3344
    @scarycat3344 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was so be honest in school they dropped me

  • @user-dn9vd9xg9p
    @user-dn9vd9xg9p 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What about govt transparency? NIH did a grant study on dental white fillings. Guess what study was referring to? Increasing estrogen in body from these white fillings. Shouldn't MALES have a choice before these dental white fillings are used? This study determined whether placement of composite (white) dental restorations (fillings) & increasing the concentrations of bisphenol A (BPA) had estrogenic-like properties that raised concerns about safety abiut . amounts of the chemicals leached out of dental sealants and detected in saliva soon after the sealants were applied. Dental composites also contained some of these compounds? Why wasn't the public made aware of this and shouldn't it had been transparent?

    • @panes840
      @panes840 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So what is a person to do? Mercury fillings are worse. Also I'd like to see the science that says such levels are detrimental to health. How much worse is concentration of BPA in a composite filling than a plastic water bottle? How much worse is the BPA in comparison to over types of xenoestrogens that are in the environment? Just saying.

  • @leonardbarfied4895
    @leonardbarfied4895 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏💯💯💖💖💙💙💙💙

  • @chriszablocki2460
    @chriszablocki2460 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like car. I really do like car. Baby steps.

  • @Madhuwellness
    @Madhuwellness 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Diplomacy or honesty

  • @janosraduly2796
    @janosraduly2796 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Take a look if you got 1 minute.

  • @graceamelia1331
    @graceamelia1331 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just hard to find a sincere man with much love ❤️💖💖 my opinion🤔

    • @Randy2244Fit
      @Randy2244Fit 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      We are in this world. We are🙏🏻

  • @kavinvanich
    @kavinvanich 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Honesty needs courage lmao

  • @PinkWytchBytch
    @PinkWytchBytch 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The beginning of this video really didn’t get me, I was hoping for something a bit more upfront instead of a backstory…. I definitely don’t want to come off as hateful, this just wasn’t what I needed at the moment

  • @stephenyoung9188
    @stephenyoung9188 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m sure she’s a believer in Christ!

  • @ryanng754
    @ryanng754 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well, never know the meaning of trust and misuse the word, total no awareness about word.

  • @AWayOfLiving84
    @AWayOfLiving84 หลายเดือนก่อน

    👣🌏🕵🏻‍♂️☯️

  • @skatty_08
    @skatty_08 ปีที่แล้ว

    q pro

  • @user-endorphin
    @user-endorphin 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Provided weve been sucessor fvk

  • @0NISH1
    @0NISH1 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🚔💅💜💀💀💀💀💙🥶🚔

  • @marilynm111
    @marilynm111 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You know what dishonest You Tube Thumbnails:)

  • @SamuelProwant
    @SamuelProwant ปีที่แล้ว

    Lost four friends so far.

  • @lol-wg6gu
    @lol-wg6gu 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Says the dishonest people

  • @chriszablocki2460
    @chriszablocki2460 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really?...

    • @chriszablocki2460
      @chriszablocki2460 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're not actually looking for honesty. My honesty goes unrequited. And you're simply not worth the compromise (honesty).

    • @chriszablocki2460
      @chriszablocki2460 ปีที่แล้ว

      Honesty is ruthless. Did you notice the positive effects of flattery? For example: "that was a really great speech. It transformed my life positively. ☺"

  • @Yvagne
    @Yvagne 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ahem, ahem, I know you are reading this.

  • @antonkostornichenko2666
    @antonkostornichenko2666 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Don’t believe in your tense smile. It seems like she tries to convince herself. It looks like a bad playing a role. Especially on 3:10

  • @Fippity_Fipper
    @Fippity_Fipper 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Typical Psycho babble infomercial what more could I have expected from this channel?
    Also, her pacing was unreasonably long. Hella annoyed.