Well that was a relaxing way to spend my morning since I've overdone it a bit yesterday. Probably won't be doing anything quote unquote "productive" for the entire day. Except basic daily things. The emotional definition and 22-12 discussion is quite an important one imo. As someone with an open SP, not a single hexagram. I have found it fairly insulting, I have taken it personally sometimes, when people have refused to share their emotions. It has been at times a slightly parasitical feeling but not one that is out of place. Like, I want the emotional energy for stimulation but also, if the other person doesn't share the emotional energy they seem to kind of self destruct. I am intentionally getting more socially skilled partly for this.
very interesting! I imagine you're particularly sensitive to feeling unexpressed emotions...all in the right timing tho eh!? It's true that a lot of defined emotionals can feel emotionally constipated if they weren't met with openness and curiosity upon expressing as a child -- might not feel safe for them to express. I've found that an open ESP that is accepting of my expression (no matter how ungraceful it can be at times) can be incredibly healing :) --Teresa
@humandesigncoffeetalk Yeah, some SP's to the throat seem to see it as ONLY a burden and then you're stepping closer to borderline territory imho. I think this partly depends on their relationships as well as their parenting. While I'm aware of the practicality of relating to defined SP's by identifying their emotions (probably from about seven years old according to childhood stories) it's not just that. Without any definition in the SP, it is an energy I don't have. So I need it from the world. (Need motivation as well). Life being as complicated as it is though, there are also a lot of other elements. I find sacral defined types often evaluate things partly on how tough of an animal they perceive the other to be. So where they see you as not particularly tough they won't confide the emotion.
I enjoyed it sooo much! Thank you!!! Lots of love from Chile! I have a small retreat center in the mountains in Chile, I am making it a HD lab! You are welcome whenever you want to come visit! Mi casa es tu casa!!!!! Love, love to you!
Love you! You are so authentic! Thank you!!!! Love your coffee talks!
Well that was a relaxing way to spend my morning since I've overdone it a bit yesterday. Probably won't be doing anything quote unquote "productive" for the entire day. Except basic daily things.
The emotional definition and 22-12 discussion is quite an important one imo. As someone with an open SP, not a single hexagram. I have found it fairly insulting, I have taken it personally sometimes, when people have refused to share their emotions. It has been at times a slightly parasitical feeling but not one that is out of place. Like, I want the emotional energy for stimulation but also, if the other person doesn't share the emotional energy they seem to kind of self destruct. I am intentionally getting more socially skilled partly for this.
very interesting! I imagine you're particularly sensitive to feeling unexpressed emotions...all in the right timing tho eh!? It's true that a lot of defined emotionals can feel emotionally constipated if they weren't met with openness and curiosity upon expressing as a child -- might not feel safe for them to express. I've found that an open ESP that is accepting of my expression (no matter how ungraceful it can be at times) can be incredibly healing :)
--Teresa
@humandesigncoffeetalk Yeah, some SP's to the throat seem to see it as ONLY a burden and then you're stepping closer to borderline territory imho. I think this partly depends on their relationships as well as their parenting.
While I'm aware of the practicality of relating to defined SP's by identifying their emotions (probably from about seven years old according to childhood stories) it's not just that. Without any definition in the SP, it is an energy I don't have. So I need it from the world. (Need motivation as well). Life being as complicated as it is though, there are also a lot of other elements. I find sacral defined types often evaluate things partly on how tough of an animal they perceive the other to be. So where they see you as not particularly tough they won't confide the emotion.
I enjoyed it sooo much! Thank you!!! Lots of love from Chile! I have a small retreat center in the mountains in Chile, I am making it a HD lab! You are welcome whenever you want to come visit! Mi casa es tu casa!!!!! Love, love to you!
oh how lovely!!❤️❤️❤️
Can we do a wine talk? I would love it!