I clicked on this video and I learned a lot about myself too (analytical) and my partner (Patient). This is helpful not just to solidify our relationships with our children, but with adults as well. ✊🏾 I feel empowered. Thanks a lot for creating this talk.
That awkward moment when you come to find out about your child's behaviour and find out a bit more about your own (analytical)... Great content, made me smile and feel warm inside watching it.
This was great, thanks, I have been researching "did i have a panic attack" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Wanatthew Janlizabeth Eradicator - (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some incredible things about it and my co-worker got great success with it.
There is a version of this for kids from a book called, "The Treasure Tree" and it's a story that talks about the four temperment types; Lion, Otter, Beaver, and Golden Retriever. It's excellent to help kids understand temperment types as well as adults.
would have been such a help to my poor wonderful children if I'd heard you 30 years ago!!! Really enjoyed your talk & will certainly share your wisdom with others. I've taken notes!
Hi Valentina, I think you actually meant to thank Jennifer Nacif who gave this Ted talk. She's such an appealing personality & presented it so well. I see you're a student. It will be a big help to you if & when you have children!
I’m a newbie primary teacher. I’m Struggling how to adjust on how to deal with my divergent students in class thankfully I found this very helpful video. The hardest part of being a teacher is not how to teach them the lesson I think It’s how to deal and understand them.
DO the teaching, leave parenting to their parents. I've taught for 26 years now...leave the stress out. Behavior in the class is why we have classroom management and special education to refer certain students to as well as other support staff. We cannot be everyone.
You are already a very good teacher if you think about that! [I have had great teachers like you and I am very very thankful for that! That's not the norm and usually it comes back to you from the children :) everyone in my class was always very thankful for the teachers and so we behaved better than other classes. We all have a strong bond to the teachers and often we made surprises for them during high school time.] I think if you have the empathy, keep it and live it, but also care for your self and stop if you overwork yourself. Children will feel it, understand it and will give you credit for this! (especially teenager acknowledge it a lot when people stand up for themselves and set their limits in a healthy way. You might not notice at first but it will pay out :) ) good luck!
Kelly Hicks reminded us about 4 typical human behaviors, but I truly believe that everybody has a mixed off all. I used to be very social, but as a parent of 3 girls, I am turning to more dominant/authoritative figure, but I dont deny to experience melancholy low key moments. Why do we always have to find a name for everything? Why do we always have to justify and judge our actions? Look at animals with their unconditional love to their kids, prioritising the little ones over everything even their own wellbeing! No words - just actions. Accept and respect people for who they are. Do your diligence as a parent! Find time to know your kids better.
Now imagine accomplishing this with 30 to over 150 students and you have a sense of what an average teacher must achieve along with all the other planning and administrative work being asked of them.
Their job isnt to raise it's just to teach,.dead brainly read books to students, most of them succeed at that. Sadly others fail miserably some of them csrr for the well being of the child , and how they work and what makes them tick, but it's their fault they became a job, ppl love easy jobs.
I have 3 children, my respect to teachers, specially those that are loaded like you, those who put unforgettable treasures, stories or words of encouragement that mark the life of their students. Thank you for making the difference.
Wow. This was really good. I wish that every parent could see this. It would help us all learn how to better raise our children and not just get frustrated with them when they don't fit in a box of how we wish they would behave.
Nice Video! Sorry for chiming in, I would appreciate your thoughts. Have you tried - Trentvorty Kids Science Theorem (Sure I saw it on Google)? It is a great one off product for becoming an excellent parent without the headache. Ive heard some super things about it and my mate after a lifetime of fighting got cool success with it.
im not a parent but still watched it.....andi could really categorised the types....my keyword is safety, my sister's is power and my cousin's is clarity
Thank you!!! Now I have new ideas about how to manage my daughter behavior in critical moments. I just have to breathe put back my self and go to my daughter with this in mind! Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Very interesting way of explaining the four major temperaments of humans. By increasing our understanding of what makes people tick it enables us to be more tolerant and accepting of others as well as giving us a toolkit to facilitate motivation in others.
Wow that was very easy to understand. I instantly started recognizing who is who from my siblings. I instantly knew my daughter was the connection and fun 😂 I have realized she is easily distracted or persuaded if I give her something better to do than her bad actions. Something fun like hide and seek is honestly all it takes for her to forget something. Very helpful video
As mentioned, understand ourselves (emotions, or temperament) first then understand others, first step to create empathic conversations. Parenting is more demanding in that aspect, because the family is sharing multiple stages of our life, but if approached properly , the journey is a lot of fun. Thanks for sharing.
Quite a clear categorization and definition, Thank you! However, I still can't identify my kids in those types. Is that possible that kids have mixed characters of those types or perhaps they are young to express themselves? At what age do they really express who they are?
So true. My daughter likes to do things with friends. She is like the one who likes safety. But if I treat her the way the speak does, she still won’t feel safe. Because she is also a perfectionist. The pressure comes from herself not from me.
absolutely loved this! We really just need to love them as they are, only then can we help them become who they're meant to be. Not who we want them to be.
simetimes, it's really hard to be patient as parents when coming across unexpected urgent situations, however, we as parents should keep that in mind nurturing and motivating children rather important than threatening and bribing
This was very insightful, I learned so much. I would love to learn more on how you would expand this idea with the children who are these personality's but also have the added ADHD, or BD, Autism, things like that.
I have this problem where my husband and son are both very into control and power and I am the patient one who just wants everything to stop being a power struggle. I am currently trying to figure out how to motivate my son to care about school and learning, and I can't quite see how this applies. I've been trying to offer him simple choices that are all acceptable for years, but lately he's been opting for the "avoid doing anything productive and waste time" option.
Abigail Cantrell, maybe he’s doing that “freezing up” thing she talked about. Maybe he doesn’t do well under pressure so you may have to be more creative in motivating him.
Omg! She described me to the T...the one child was me now...lol...perfectionist with stomach problems... I really paid attention cause she described me at that point...wow...lol
In my school, one of the teachers had a big bullying situation. There was a lot of consequences and no learning. I pulled the child over and told them they were in charge of making sure the whole group behaved. Within a week, there was no more bullying. No one could explain what happened to the child. (except myself and the now well-behaved child)
I think most children and adults are a combination of personality traits. Key word for parents "empathy."
parents SHOULD have empathy but many don't unfortunately. Too many irresponsible people.
It's amazing how many parents miss this. Knowing your kid's personality is the key to motivating them!
Thanks for sharing
I have two daughters and found this really helpful to think about them and myself. A great way to look at the strengths of children. Thank you. Jen.
Jennifer so happy this helped, thanks for sharing
I clicked on this video and I learned a lot about myself too (analytical) and my partner (Patient). This is helpful not just to solidify our relationships with our children, but with adults as well. ✊🏾 I feel empowered. Thanks a lot for creating this talk.
That awkward moment when you come to find out about your child's behaviour and find out a bit more about your own (analytical)...
Great content, made me smile and feel warm inside watching it.
Igor Miguel thanks for sharing !
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This was great, thanks, I have been researching "did i have a panic attack" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Wanatthew Janlizabeth Eradicator - (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some incredible things about it and my co-worker got great success with it.
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You need time for yourself too, get lots of self care its not being selfish at all
Not only your talk is amazing n great but you are also. Thank you bless you n All your dreams come true.
Wow Arline thank you so much for such a kind message
I have 4 girls!!! I am DYING laughing! She just described my 4 girls EXACTLY!
Meaning you get to early on work well with them.
LOVE this presentation! You sure are captivating, thank you for these lessons for our children and the future. Much obliged.
There is a version of this for kids from a book called, "The Treasure Tree" and it's a story that talks about the four temperment types; Lion, Otter, Beaver, and Golden Retriever. It's excellent to help kids understand temperment types as well as adults.
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Thank you . I’ll check out the book. 😊
You need time for yourself too, get lots of self care its not being selfish at all
My eyes are opened from this talk. I have twins, and wow the personalities are different. So this talk surely helps with tailoring my love to them
Hi Natalie in my conferences I use a lot of videos about twins to ilustrate the differences
You need time for yourself too, get lots of self care its not being selfish at all
would have been such a help to my poor wonderful children if I'd heard you 30 years ago!!! Really enjoyed your talk & will certainly share your wisdom with others. I've taken notes!
Hi Valentina, I think you actually meant to thank Jennifer Nacif who gave this Ted talk. She's such an appealing personality & presented it so well. I see you're a student. It will be a big help to you if & when you have children!
She is gorgeous! Really profound teaching presented very clearly & in a clever visual way!
I’m a newbie primary teacher. I’m Struggling how to adjust on how to deal with my divergent students in class thankfully I found this very helpful video. The hardest part of being a teacher is not how to teach them the lesson I think It’s how to deal and understand them.
DO the teaching, leave parenting to their parents. I've taught for 26 years now...leave the stress out. Behavior in the class is why we have classroom management and special education to refer certain students to as well as other support staff. We cannot be everyone.
Thank you for your advice ma’am.
Very true. Now that you know which part is most challenging you can be mindful of the strategies to deal. Hugs from U.S!
You are already a very good teacher if you think about that! [I have had great teachers like you and I am very very thankful for that! That's not the norm and usually it comes back to you from the children :) everyone in my class was always very thankful for the teachers and so we behaved better than other classes. We all have a strong bond to the teachers and often we made surprises for them during high school time.]
I think if you have the empathy, keep it and live it, but also care for your self and stop if you overwork yourself. Children will feel it, understand it and will give you credit for this! (especially teenager acknowledge it a lot when people stand up for themselves and set their limits in a healthy way. You might not notice at first but it will pay out :) ) good luck!
Things are different if you are in a border town or inner city school.
I adore how she is enjoying her talk.
I have a sensitive sweet one and a serious rule follower. This is so true about what motivates them. You cant approach them the same way.
Thanks for sharing
Thank you
I loved it.... not just for child to understand ownself and many others. Thank you for being so clear
Kelly Hicks reminded us about 4 typical human behaviors, but I truly believe that everybody has a mixed off all. I used to be very social, but as a parent of 3 girls, I am turning to more dominant/authoritative figure, but I dont deny to experience melancholy low key moments. Why do we always have to find a name for everything? Why do we always have to justify and judge our actions? Look at animals with their unconditional love to their kids, prioritising the little ones over everything even their own wellbeing! No words - just actions. Accept and respect people for who they are. Do your diligence as a parent! Find time to know your kids better.
You need time for yourself too, get lots of self care its not being selfish at all
Now imagine accomplishing this with 30 to over 150 students and you have a sense of what an average teacher must achieve along with all the other planning and administrative work being asked of them.
Their job isnt to raise it's just to teach,.dead brainly read books to students, most of them succeed at that. Sadly others fail miserably some of them csrr for the well being of the child , and how they work and what makes them tick, but it's their fault they became a job, ppl love easy jobs.
You need time for yourself too, get lots of self care its not being selfish at all
I have 3 children, my respect to teachers, specially those that are loaded like you, those who put unforgettable treasures, stories or words of encouragement that mark the life of their students. Thank you for making the difference.
@@anaaraiza5351 Thank you for your kind words. Be well and enjoy the adventure of raising your children. Have fun.
At the beginning it takes time but later it is automatic I Work with more Than 200 people, and it really helps
Wow. This was really good. I wish that every parent could see this. It would help us all learn how to better raise our children and not just get frustrated with them when they don't fit in a box of how we wish they would behave.
@Valentina Rodriguez (Student) في
You need time for yourself too, get lots of self care its not being selfish at all
Incredible and amazing presentation,
immensly wonderful.
i will rate it no 1.
The INCEPTOR thank you soooo much !!!
Nice Video! Sorry for chiming in, I would appreciate your thoughts. Have you tried - Trentvorty Kids Science Theorem (Sure I saw it on Google)? It is a great one off product for becoming an excellent parent without the headache. Ive heard some super things about it and my mate after a lifetime of fighting got cool success with it.
Yes!! Love this one :) connect before correcting
Exactly
great points in very over the top presentation
I loved your style!!!
Great talk ! Respecting individuality is key !!!
Thank you
great talk
Thank you
Amazing presentation and insightful content!! I learned a lot about myself and the people I interact with from this video! Thank you for sharing. 💛
Thank you for your words
You need time for yourself too, get lots of self care its not being selfish at all
im not a parent but still watched it.....andi could really categorised the types....my keyword is safety, my sister's is power and my cousin's is clarity
Super
Thank you!!! Now I have new ideas about how to manage my daughter behavior in critical moments. I just have to breathe put back my self and go to my daughter with this in mind! Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Very interesting way of explaining the four major temperaments of humans. By increasing our understanding of what makes people tick it enables us to be more tolerant and accepting of others as well as giving us a toolkit to facilitate motivation in others.
Thank you
You need time for yourself too, get lots of self care its not being selfish at all
Love it. Manipulation to motivation.
Thanks
Wow that was very easy to understand. I instantly started recognizing who is who from my siblings. I instantly knew my daughter was the connection and fun 😂 I have realized she is easily distracted or persuaded if I give her something better to do than her bad actions. Something fun like hide and seek is honestly all it takes for her to forget something. Very helpful video
lol same
Yeiiii love to read this, if I can help please contact me on insta
You need time for yourself too, get lots of self care its not being selfish at all
This was wonderful. Manipulation into motivation
Gracias
This is one of my favorite channels. It's so inspirational
Thank you Valerie
As mentioned, understand ourselves (emotions, or temperament) first then understand others, first step to create empathic conversations. Parenting is more demanding in that aspect, because the family is sharing multiple stages of our life, but if approached properly , the journey is a lot of fun. Thanks for sharing.
You need time for yourself too, get lots of self care its not being selfish at all
The best talk ever!
Thank you for a fantastic presentation. 👍
Something I have been looking for to motivate my child. Thanks for the techniques!
Quite a clear categorization and definition, Thank you! However, I still can't identify my kids in those types. Is that possible that kids have mixed characters of those types or perhaps they are young to express themselves? At what age do they really express who they are?
Simply google DISC personality test. Accurate for me. It's free too.
This is very inspiring and it will help us mothers.
I am thankful to watch this talk while my baby is still young. I wish you to write a book about this topic.
I have 3 books the lattest the soul of success helps you find your life mission through your personality style, its in Amazon. Thanks for asking
Excellent 👌🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🏆
Gracias
Wow such good arguments so well put I love the way she speaks
Thank youuuuu Ioana !
That was informative and entertaining. Great talk!
So true. My daughter likes to do things with friends. She is like the one who likes safety. But if I treat her the way the speak does, she still won’t feel safe. Because she is also a perfectionist. The pressure comes from herself not from me.
Of course but we can be part of the journey
You need time for yourself too, get lots of self care its not being selfish at all
Oh my gosh!!!!! I was laughing so hard. That is exactly my household. She has given me such an insight. Amazing!
Super thanks for sharing
you are a great help /instruction to my life
Suuuper thanks for sharing
Wao!! that was beautiful, such a nice way to bring out the points.
Thank you
absolutely loved this! We really just need to love them as they are, only then can we help them become who they're meant to be. Not who we want them to be.
Well said Taraji
You need time for yourself too, get lots of self care its not being selfish at all
Well explained!
Thank you
哇喔! 覺得很顛覆已經習以為常的習慣呢! 甚至我忍不住反思，在朋友、職場、對自己，都可以用這些方法呢! 腦袋開始要忙碌了，要開始學習別再用同樣的方式對待各式各樣的人了。
Great presentation.. 👌
Thank you
👏👏👏👏Wonderful! I learnt a lot
Yeiiii thanks
Fantastic presentation 😊
Thank you Tina
that was great!
Thank you
Thank you!!!
It was like hearing her describe all of my boys! I really needed to see this 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Such a clear and informative information! Love it! Will now try to track the traits in my children)
Katia Aleksandrova soooo happy it helps !
wow this is a great person
Suuuuuper thanks
thank you so much for such an amazing video
Power. Connection/Fun. Safety. Clarity.
Julie Pastore perfect summery !
Well said and full of knowledge.
Muchas gracias
Inanilmaz gercekten cok cok basarli!!!
Thank youuu
simetimes, it's really hard to be patient as parents when coming across unexpected urgent situations, however, we as parents should keep that in mind nurturing and motivating children rather important than threatening and bribing
Agree
You need time for yourself too, get lots of self care its not being selfish at all
Loved this!
Yeiiiii
Excellent!! What would you say to those types of children to motivate them to be ready to go to school on time?
Very interesting ❤❤❤
This was very insightful, I learned so much. I would love to learn more on how you would expand this idea with the children who are these personality's but also have the added ADHD, or BD, Autism, things like that.
Are you an I in DISC, Or social in your terminology?
I am a D actually a D and after that an I on the DISC
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Motivation is important to do something
If only I had had a mother like you....
Fantastic! it was fun and educating! that's doesn't happen a lot
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You Dance well and it is more than words
I watched this so many times. Thank you so much. This was brilliant.
Amazing 💟
Thank you!
Yeiiii
Great speaker !!!
nerdyme69 thank you so much
Aaawww thanks !
Wow.knowledge is power thnx alot
So agreeee
This.... Was brilliant. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
I just wish it were longer
Súper Thank you
wonderful
Thank youuuu
Game changer!
Yeiiiii thank you !
Actually in my book the soul of success I talk about game changers andvtheir personality style
Love it. Thank you so much
Mai Tran thank you !!!! for your comment :-)
I have this problem where my husband and son are both very into control and power and I am the patient one who just wants everything to stop being a power struggle. I am currently trying to figure out how to motivate my son to care about school and learning, and I can't quite see how this applies. I've been trying to offer him simple choices that are all acceptable for years, but lately he's been opting for the "avoid doing anything productive and waste time" option.
Abigail Cantrell, maybe he’s doing that “freezing up” thing she talked about. Maybe he doesn’t do well under pressure so you may have to be more creative in motivating him.
Please send me an insta so I can help you in a voice message
You need time for yourself too, get lots of self care its not being selfish at all
You are awesome 😩👌🏻👌🏻
Thank youuuu
I just want her dress
This's some interesting talk.
This is much better teaching than Honoust than ,Dale Carnigie old book
Wow thank you what a great compmiment!
Omg! She described me to the T...the one child was me now...lol...perfectionist with stomach problems... I really paid attention cause she described me at that point...wow...lol
Hi. I'm Anna too...
She is lovely and inspiryi g 🎉😊
Thank youuu
Great talk now I only have to tune in which mode my daughter is in. She can have them all
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Beautiful ❤
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Thanks that was very helpful and awesome..
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I have 3rd kind of son he is kind gentle and loving 😊
In my school, one of the teachers had a big bullying situation. There was a lot of consequences and no learning. I pulled the child over and told them they were in charge of making sure the whole group behaved. Within a week, there was no more bullying. No one could explain what happened to the child. (except myself and the now well-behaved child)
You need time for yourself too, get lots of self care its not being selfish at all
That’s so interesting. Thanks for sharing ❤
Great talk.
I think you’re great!
Thank you Lori
Your girls are gorgeous. Like Mama.
Great mam
wow, I have three sisters and all four of us fit a different personality that she described.
Super
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