@@trydowave The whole point of this video is to actually....I know it sounds really odd and scary and profound...not use an app or your phone and talk to human beings in real life
“We need to first white board the issue so we can drill down on the game changing paradigm shift that really squeezes the juice out of a more goal-oriented approach that can move the needle.” Every corporate talk ever!!!
Have you seen modern women? They're in their phones 24/7. Instagram, TikTok and OnlyFans broke them. Even at the clubs. They come all decked out to sit on the couch and stare at their phone.
if the democrats didn't push a culture war onto boys and girls they wouldn't have disrupted the fertility rate.... but this was their intention all along GIRLS: girl power, pink power, crack the glass ceiling, pay inequity, be a boss, lean in, get an abortion, birth control, dont cook, dont clean, be a queen, slay girlfriend, etc BOYS: toxic masculinity, manspreading, mansplaining, rainbow agenda, drag queens, homosexuals, effeminate famous males, metrosexuals, manscaping, etc the democrats have intentionally destroyed the fertility rate, because they are scared of climate change and global warming, overpopulation and overpollution
The part about dressing and grooming is 100% accurate. I’ve seen young people out in public in pajama pants and raggedy logo T shirts and it’s sad. They can’t even muster a nice trouser and crisp shirt/sportcoat. It’s sad. Clothing/grooming is a reflection of self esteem From my observation at least half of our people look like they got their clothes from the goodwill dumpster. No hot guy or gal would be interested in somebody who shows up slovenly or unkempt. It started with ‘casual Friday’ and now it’s ’homeless chic’. 😂 You deserve an Emmy for this season Bill great writing. 🎉
Men aren't dressing to attract women because they do not want to attract women. It's a simple cost-benefit analysis. The deal society is offering men right now is unacceptable, so they are checking out. Men have decided not to participate as the only form of protest they have. Bill is not helping by blaming the victim here.
0:39 There was a WSJ article recently or some other newspaper that said that a lot of Gen Z women consider themselves to "be in a relationship" after they have gone out once with a guy. And that guy is usually going out with several different women but doesn't consider himself to be in a relationship with any of them.
it's hypergamy. bill wants everyone to think it's not happening. There isn't an expert that doesn't think it's not happening. It's happening, and it's increasing. Societal collapse may change this. I thank god im not an incel but I have been for short periods and even that is horrid
When you have two sentences that can stand on their own and are connecting it with a conjunction (for, and, nor, but, or, yet, so), you must put a comma on the word before the conjunction. Examples Correct: Robert blushed in embarrassment, but the girls giggled in laughter. Incorrect: Robert’s pants ripped, and tore straight through to his underwear. Why: You do not need a comma here because Robert’s pants are the implied subject. The second half cannot stand by itself.
Bill's thing should have been, to be accurate & honest & including himself (since he's the expert, ..I guess), 7 words. - "You Don't Have Their, ..Or My.., Money!" - Since that's what it's really all about.
@@The_R-n-I_Guy Bill's the last one to care about "respecting" women. You should see how he talks about them on his Club Random podcast. Besides, he said in his segment that douchebags are the ones who get women, and that's something he genuinely believes.
Agree, he seems quite physically fit and actually looks like a lot of Silicon Valley tech bosses who run "campuses" instead of "offices" - perfect outfit for a TED parody And this was an actually decent TED talk
@@lolodee3528no it’s not. He has a huge head for his body. That’s actually a plus in tv and movies etc. To be a game show host it’s almost mandatory lol
I simply don't buy the "kids today aren't interested in sex". They're just afraid. Kids are simply too online. Guys are afraid of being "toxic" and the "girl boss" archetype isn't sexy to most guys.
There are NOT nearly as many "girl bosses" as men imagine. Plenty of girl EMPLOYEES, girl ASSISTANTS...not so many girl bosses--especially women in their 20s for god's sake! Like Maher said: GROW UP (& Get Real!)
I think real people haven’t changed that much it’s just they spend too much time on social media and their phones and simply think they have changed. Or at least, think they are supposed to be things they truthfully aren’t. In a world of self-ID etc, no wonder young generations don’t know how to communicate with one another. If you don’t know who or what you are - how can you expect anyone else?
Another important thing is to find women that actually share the same interests as you. I’ve met tons of really cool girls that love video games, fantasy books, comics, rock music, cartoons, etc. It’s really not that hard or rare lol.
Depends on your generation and location. It's pretty rare to find Gen X women into games. Especially where I live. Granted I live in a terrible place to find women, Las Vegas, people here are into lame stuff like gambling, alcohol, and pot.
Okay, this was a stretch and I admire that. He nailed it too. All those wretched buzzwords and the ludicrous style of TED talks! 😃😂😅🤣 And the writers should take a bow as well.
He didn't nail it. This was the most boomer new rules ever. Completely out of touch with modern reality. He should try his own advice at places where people don't know who he is.
I liked that he was making fun of Ted which is insufferable to me. I think his obsession with the youngest generation has lost its humor and I am nearly his age.
Wonder why Millenials and Gen Z are doom spending? Not getting married? Not starting families? Why is civil unrest growing while the wealth gap is larger than it ever has been in history? First-time home ownership is OVER. "Starter home" are over 400k average income is 58k. We've put in 77 bids in middle TN on first home and were outbid by cash investors EVERY TIME. Now, we're priced out due to price and mortgage rates. It's because this economy is not for us, it never has been since we've been around. It priced us out and left us behind before we got here. This doesn't end well for society at every socioeconomic level..
That's certainly part of it, but what is the response to it? I don't mean to diminish our struggles and the factors that played into it though. There have been countless moments and generations throughout history where things like "finding a partner or soulmate or lover" were extremely luxurious notions - the fact is, our society is changing and people are starting to realize the nature of marriage/courtship/relationships whatever you want to call it is changing too.
And GenX is the 1st to not have pensions plus fought 3 wars. Boomers fought in Vietnam. Their parents fought WW2 and Korea. Their grandparents fought WW1 and survived a depression. You think you have it worse than them? Hint: you don’t. Everybody had it tough somehow. Yet they still managed to find each other, get married and have kids.
Yes and we heard; they rather be near bears than the majority of average men. Unless you are Tyrone or Chad don't bother with them beyond common curtesy. Honestly being none select is a blessing since it means more money/less stress too bad some men can't recognize the blessing in disguise.
Literally no female I know can hold a conversation with me for even an hour. They're all miserable, can't answer simple questions and just in general don't have anything going on with their lives. I'm VERY attentive and have proven on more than one occasion to know more about someone than the person in question. Trust me, the problem is NOT that women don't get attention or care.
Honestly I like Bill, but, if you saw him in person you would not say that. He is old and wrinkled. You are forgetting the magic of TV. Strategic lighting and heavy makeup.
@@bobbykiriakidis9753I mean sure, the guy is old, no one is saying that 20yo girls are going to start putting Up posters of him in their bedrooms, but he looks healthy for his age, I would sign being in that shape at 68 right now
Thank you for this extremely important TED talk. When I have my husband go through the Birds and the Bees with our boys, I will follow up with this video and a “no glove, no love” motto. Thanks for this powerful contribution to humanity.
To guys about paying for a date: If you have a good feeling, pay up. If you don't think you will see each other again, split. If she is on a lot of dates just for somebody to buy her dinner, split. Don't let her use you. If she talks about the patriachy and the importance of feminism, she should pay everything. Break the mold.
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"My concern would be she felt the need to talks about the patriarchy and the importance of feminism", like duh, I would feel insulted that she felt the need to say so. OK, she thinks I do not think females can be humans too??
if the democrats didn't push a culture war onto boys and girls they wouldn't have disrupted the fertility rate.... but this was their intention all along GIRLS: girl power, pink power, crack the glass ceiling, pay inequity, be a boss, lean in, get an abortion, birth control, dont cook, dont clean, be a queen, slay girlfriend, etc BOYS: toxic masculinity, manspreading, mansplaining, rainbow agenda, drag queens, homosexuals, effeminate famous males, metrosexuals, manscaping, etc the democrats have intentionally destroyed the fertility rate, because they are scared of climate change and global warming, overpopulation and overpollution
The best part about Bill’s TED Talk is that all of these things are directly under your control. Bill isn’t saying you have to make more money, own a house, or drive a new car. His changes are either behavioral or involve consumables or easily-replaced things.
The best advice my uncle gave me when I went to college when I told him I saw so many beautiful women was “the worst thing they’ll tell you is no” . I said hi to everyone 😂
I get that a lot of women mock the shit out of nerdy guys, but why would any man want to date a woman who thinks that perfectly legitimate hobbies and interests are childish and stupid? That just seems like a recipe for more resentment and hatred.
Exactly. Why would you want to be with someone who clearly doesn’t even like you for who you are? Sounds like you’re setting yourself up for an abusive failure of a relationship.
@@nightmarishcompositions4536 Yeah. It seems like far better advice to look for someone who actually likes similar things, but not necessarily the exact same type. That can broaden your horizons a lot more than usual.
Because guys with these kinds of hobbies often suffer from obsessive &/or juvenile dispositions. If you ever look up how these man children react to writers making any changes to their particular beloved franchise or read any of their views on the opposite gender you'll clearly see why the ladies avoid these lunatics at all cost. Major media conglomerates certainly haven't helped reign in these emotionally stunted individuals by continually making properties that were originally intended for children increasingly more adult oriented in really cynical &/or creepy ways.
@IMAT01these guys should just eat better and start exercising for a quarter of the day and join together until women are dressing up like gandalf and reciting the silmarillion in high-elvish. They had better!
Because those "hobbies and interests" and not in any fkn way legitimate for a male over age 12 The fact that you're asking that question means you grew up without a dad, or he was not telling you the way shite really works No woman in the history of forever is going to be turned on by an adult aged guy acting in childish ways. You will lose every single time to the man who has set those things aside, or at least hidden them away. Nobody can force you to accept reality, but the world will move on without you and won't feel a damn thing about it
This is brilliant! I tried the dating apps. None of the men want to meet in person, just another app. It's insane! I thought the whole point was to meet in person & actually have a real life relationship!
As a man who did better than he should’ve in the dating world. And now happily married. I wish I went to this TEDTalk when I was 25. Although I must say, I did always pay for dinner. I can’t speak for everything else thanks, Bill.
As a woman and a lifelong geek, let me tell you that the "act normal" part is almost entirely wrong. You be you, enjoy your hobbies and don't try to be someone you're not. There are plenty of nerdy girls out there who enjoy a night of rolling dices, my men.
If by "many" you mean .0001 percent, sure. You're dead on. Btw, the guys who actually make you wet won't be saying things like "milady" and quoting Tolkien. Unless your super gross, then yeah, get what ya can
I'm nerdy in different ways, but was thinking the same thing. There are a lot of women who enjoy L.A.R.P. and Ren Fairs and other stuff that many would find repellant or repugnant. To each his or her own. Moreover, there are plenty of women who'll respect and indulge a man's "foibles" when they are attracted to the man (attracted for several other reasons), and they'll enjoy their free time to do their own thing while the man is enjoying his hobby. All interests need not be shared to couple successfully. I'm a mature single woman. I'm geeky as a logophile, and in a few other ways. D&D and gaming aren't my interests, and I don't see myself with a man who is a big gamer (the other kind, with headset and chair, not Maher's G.A.M.E.r) nor a man into L.A.R.P. --but someone who enjoys group face to face game nights, or a range of other things I'm not already into, would not be excluded from consideration.
Um, no. The ratio of nerdy girls to guys playing dice and card games is 100 to 1. As a woman, you probably like those odds. But for the 99 guys you aren't dating that day, they need to pretend to not be interested in that stuff. It doesn't mean you can't be interested in that stuff, but that is 3rd date conversation after you've gotten laid. The first dates are about future plans, positive things happening etc. This goes for any hobby that isn't "normal", that doesn't play into you, as a man being a good parent, provider, and companion.
if the democrats didn't push a culture war onto boys and girls they wouldn't have disrupted the fertility rate.... but this was their intention all along GIRLS: girl power, pink power, crack the glass ceiling, pay inequity, be a boss, lean in, get an abortion, birth control, dont cook, dont clean, be a queen, slay girlfriend, etc BOYS: toxic masculinity, manspreading, mansplaining, rainbow agenda, drag queens, homosexuals, effeminate famous males, metrosexuals, manscaping, etc the democrats have intentionally destroyed the fertility rate, because they are scared of climate change and global warming, overpopulation and overpollution
Yep, I love the 30's, they are orgasm machines the do it over and over and over until thirsty and tired, yet sometimes it happens earlier. We can give them what they want and it is more about them then ourselves.
When million of people are having the same problems at the same time, problems which their fathers and grandfathers didn't have, the problem is probably not those individuals' fault.
Social Media will convince you of whatever you want. If you don't like what others are saying you scroll on until someone tells you what you want to hear. People used to say I'm not a victim, I'm a survivor. Now everyone is a victim who doesn't think they're going to survive. Life is hard, especially when you're comparing yours to everyone else's. Succeeding is hard, if it was easy everyone would do it. Saying no one has it harder than you does not come from deprivation it comes from expectations. I feel sorry for the Internet generation because it makes it easier to lose hope when you're told there is none. I'm not saying it's easy for you or dismissing your concerns, they're real and justified but the misconception that other generations all owned houses and lived the high life belies the truth of slums, projects, trailer parks and apartment buildings which have always been a part of life.😮
@@brooklynebony best advice I've read in these comments so far. It's easier to blame others for your short comings that to look in the mirror at the ACTUAL reason. You.
Excellent. Now we need a video for women telling them that not every man who approaches them to express a discreet interest is a misogynistic, useless sex criminal who should be MeToo'd, reported for sexual harassment, cancelled, fired, have his business ruined, etc. Because that's what scares many men today after decades of feminist hate from many women.
Bill, these women are not approachable anymore. If you try to talk to one, they treat you like a creeper. Its exhausting and not worth it. I was married for 17 years and dated multiple others.
Why do you care what they think? Just move on to the next one...and the next...and the next. As far as age goes, it doesn't really matter. Especially with how ineffectual and lame these boys today are. These girls would never tell their friends or relatives, but they are desperate for connection and real human contact with an actual, you know, MAN! Numbers, numbers, numbers...only do the things that work and forget what people who don't know think or say. Real life experiences and success are the ONLY metrics that matter
Someone needs to explain hypergamy and the mouse utopia experiment to old Bill. It's not a coincidence that every single developed country has the exact same problem with birth rates. Also dating app usage isn't decreasing because so many young people are now meeting in person. It's because so many people have given up on dating. The number one way couples meet is still dating apps... there are just fewer of them.
App usage is going down because they gave been enshittified. Useless ads, bad matches, and a sh*tload of robots, some not even chatgpt based. Essentially since OkCupid has been bought out by Tinder.
Brilliant dating advice for the average young man struggling to settle down and start a family in an economy largely ruined by boomers... from an unmarried, childless multimillionaire in his 60s.
Ever since women have been programmed to be a BOSS BABE, its been hard for younger guys. Im glad i grew up in the 80s and 90s. My game was strong - i treated them like people and they treated me well. It's that simple ❤
Exactly. I won't say it's wrong. It's just times have changed. No longer does a woman have to settle for an ugly dude just to keep from starving to death. She can make her own money to survive and go after the good looking men. Good looking men are scoring left and right in this country. It's tough for us not blessed with good looks. I was doing fairly well, but my girl lost her drive after menopause, so I'm in a bad position right now.
Just as porn has set unachievable expectations for women, so too social media and rom coms have set expectations that are impossible for men to adhere to. I had many relationships in my teens and into my 20's, but by my 30's I realized life was more fun, simpler and easier if I took it on alone. So many common troubles go away when you're alone. So now I'm 47 and I've been alone for 12 years and in those years I've made more progress than I did in the previous 20 years adulting. A high percentage of women are unreasonable and untrustworthy. If you want men to chase women again. Make women great again.
My father told me to never deny a man the chance to be a gentleman, he was raised to open the door and pull your chair out for you, make sure to thank him when he does.
Yeah, & he also, I'm guessing, lived in a time before we all became "equal" in all things. There were roles observed that both required something from &, at the same time, benefitted/comforted/bolstered both parties, the female & the male. That's all gone, now. It's ALL gone, now. About 20 years ago, I heard one of the leading activists of the radical 60s-70s feminist movement state that, "Well, we wanted what we thought men had over us, all the good things without considering the bad things about being a man that truly did exist, ..the things we'd rather not be saddled with. We were, to say the least, nearsighted. Well, we won, ..we got our way, ..& found out that it wasn't all about getting the job & holding the money or no more standing on the street & whistling at the girls going by. In the long run, it turns out we also bred or at least created a whole population of smaller, intimidated men & mean, self-absorbed & vindictive women and it's just not working very well for anybody." So, Madam, maybe now it should be you opening doors & pulling out chairs for your "gentleman". Equality's a real gas, isn't it?
The truth is that a lot of guys just aren't interested in dating anymore, especially considering all the effort, expectations, and occasionally nasty rejection they have to go through when they're expected to 'lead.' Seems it's becoming more common for men to feel totally content with their job, video games, online communities, and an occasional fap. As a person who's worked in the tech industry for 7 years, I was surprised the first time I met someone who had zero interest in dating, but over time I realized that it's becoming more common. And no, that doesn't mean that all of the men in this group are unhealthy 'neckbeards' or incels, though I know those exist as an even smaller minority. I'd imagine that a big part of the discrepency between the number of single men vs single women is that some of the guys who are really into dating have multiple girlfriends. They're more appealing, put in more effort, and hell, maybe they're the ambitious go-getters that are going to pass down their genes to future generations. Some folks just want to live and enjoy the life they prefer. Gotta admit, it really is fascinating to see this happen as technology continues to advance though. It's a two-way street, and both men and women need to put in some effort if they truly do care about eachother. If some women become tired of every guy they date turning out to be a deuche, a narcissist, or a player, maybe it's time for it to become more common for women to be the one to reach out to a guy first. Want a good guy as a boyfriend, and tired of trying to change other people in vain? Maybe you'll have to find him instead of expecting him to be searching for you. Don't give up.
I gave up on women years ago. I was married for 12 years to abwomen Ibmet at uni. My wife ran off with her doctor who was 🎉 his patients. She seemed shocked when she found out she wasnt the only special one. Two years on dating apps. Three replies. Talking to women at work you would think the hard thing is deciding who to turn down or how to juggle multiple partners. Tried bars but the culture or approaching folk is gone people find you odd. Old folk like Bill Mar are tone def.
Maybe he exaggerates for entertainment, purposes. I hope you get out there again! So sorry for your awful marriage experience. It must be hard to trust after that betrayal.
Hey man - From a man to a man, It's not your fault,. But if you want to date, you have to be competitive , and men know how to do this. It's totally fine if you want to give to give up. It's totally understandable. People kinda suck - I know - I am one. If you want to date, you can totally make it work.
Valid. Also the 63% single men and the 34% single women... He's an older promiscous Hollywood celebrity. He knows exactly why the younger women are not "single".
I wouldn’t go to a man who settled down with his first girlfriend for tips on getting laid, I wouldn’t go to a man who isn’t married for tips on getting a wife. Luckily for bill he isn’t giving advice on getting into a lifelong relationship genius, he said in the first 20 seconds of the fake Ted talk that it’s about getting laid. If you want advice on making a girl settle for you for life this isn’t the place for you lol
I think Bill Maher is way off on what is really going on out here in the dating scene. Plus, he's not a married man and never will be, and his generation is not up to date. It almost sounds like he's been recruited to try to make men accept the irresponsibilities of women out here today. Last week was an attack on Tate and the Manosphere. Noted Tate isn't the best role model, but he wasn't lying about how young men and women are carrying on in society today. This week is a lesson on how to date women?? What women exactly, the ones pretending to be men and 304s with astronomical body counts?? And heard what he said, "women are feminists in theory" ??? In theory????...so he admits there's a double-standard women do and men are supposed to shut up and take it?? Well, it just tells us how much out of touch that he is with this crisis.
Far as I recall, Bill does fine not stereotyping & generalizing other groups; why does he constantly do it with the younger generation? Giving him the benefit of the doubt here, I think he's actually trying to help.
That’s makes two old comedians that he stole from on this bit. He stole lick the alphabet from Sam Kennison. They were both far better comedians than Bill.
@@barrym2112 nothing wrong with recycling old jokes when they're still true today... he was conveying that guys need to stop being lazy & take care of business. Hygiene is a #1 for me regardless of anything else 🤷🏼♀️
Bill really does not understand that young people are past the sexual revolution and is mad they have different values. Real problem is if people were doing the opposite he would still be mad, Bill just wants to be mad for mads sake. This is not a problem.
So men get to take zero responsibility for their failures in dating? Straight dudes who place all the blame on women for the lack of attention they give them are setting themselves up to be a genetic dead end.
I trust Bill on a lot of issues because he’s centrist politically, but I wouldn’t think he’s an expert on romance if he’s never had a wife or kids before.
@@seanlawrence5014It's not about a wife or kids. It's about getting laid. He's definitely no expert though because he gets them at Hollywood parties where they come to meet men like him.
0:31 could be cuz more young women than young men are dating older ppl but I like the fact that Bill was confused (if genuine). Prob reflects that he's used to dating women his age
That's the thing. He's completely out of touch on this issue because he gets girls at Hollywood parties where they specifically come to meet rich celebrities like him. So he thinks he's got mad game.
@@robertcowan7610 Bill has said he didn't talk to any women and have any sex during college on his Club Random podcast. That's part of why he is so hung up on this issue.
You did not mention another important thing , working out. Hit the gym and pump iron.Having a good build and wear the right clothes.Two very important things also good grooming.
Plenty of women are stuck with a guy who just can't seem to keep a job (and now can't seem to get one!), so yanno what? that wallet thing is actually REALLY important. Not the only thing of course, but definitely #1 priority if you want a long term relationship.
A couple of things I learned over the years: Get fit, get clean, and look as good as possible. Stand up straight and act like you are happy to be alive. Get a job. Watch your language. Make her feel safe. Don't lie. Women don't want a little boy. Act like a man. Think James Bond, not Justin Beeber. If you want a girl you have to actually talk to them. In person. You will be rejected about 3/4ths of the time. Most of those girls are either taken, or just scared lke you are. Rejection means nothing. You learned something, and there is always another one. If you like a girl, you are going to have to approach her and talk to her eventually. It might as well be now. Make it clear, but not in a creepy way, that you are not there to be her friend. If she wants a friend, you are not him. In order to meet girls, you have to talk to them. You are going to have to have a conversation with her. Say hello and ask her questions. Act interested. Take her out somewhere fun. Put down the phone and talk to her. She doesn't want to be alone either; you just have to convince her of that.
@@margo3367 Omg, no wonder young men are afraid to say hello. You have to tell young people that so they keep connecting. Too many go into deep despair after breakups and rejections and give up.
@@margo3367 There's always another woman. There's always another female. There's always another self-identified woman. There's always another person. There's always another person you may be interested in in the gender of your choice. I mean her choice. I mean zirs choice. Oh nevermind.
Being successful professionally and financially gives game. Not through the money itself, but rather being accomplished and having that reflected in one’s personality.
"The greatest pickup line is still "hello"" is one of the most profound things I've ever heard
Try that on a dating app and see how far u get.
@@trydowavethat’s why it’s for real life…
@@trydowave He’s not talking about apps. That’s the point..
@@trydowave The whole point of this video is to actually....I know it sounds really odd and scary and profound...not use an app or your phone and talk to human beings in real life
I hate the hello text. Ugh. Be intelligent. Say something
“We need to first white board the issue so we can drill down on the game changing paradigm shift that really squeezes the juice out of a more goal-oriented approach that can move the needle.”
Every corporate talk ever!!!
With about a half dozen double -entrendres😂
Doesn't anyone speak English anymore! Whst a word salad of bs 😂
Horrible flashbacks to my working days.
at the end of the day
avoid clichés
It’s about making more money. Bottom line issues. Corporate has a tendency to pass expenses along to the client or public.
"I don't have a girlfriend, I just know a woman who would get really mad if she heard me say that." -Mitch Hedberg
My man! An escalator can never break, it can only become stairs.
I almost broke a rib laughing when Mitch said that
As a long time Bill enthusiast. This is some of his best work. Well done Bill.
On tinder, men swipe yes on 51% of women. Women swipe yes on 5% of men.
@@erwind917 compete or quit
It was BRILLIANT! Simply hilarious but truthful 😊
You are an NPC 😢sorry
@@toddfoglia1882 NPC?
"Your shoes shouldn't look like Bathtub Toys" Hahahaha 😂😂😂😂😂😂!!!
I'm guessing there are quite a few out there who took offense to that after looking over at their shoes.
Yet Bill wear new balance during that segment. That's get women hot. 😂
I so hate crocs!
OMG, I will never own a pair of those hideous clodhoppers. If you own crocs, you are a lost soul and you've completely given up.
@@MentalD2000 He was portraying a typical TED Talk outfit. That was the joke
“If you want to bone, put down the phone” 😂😂😂💀💀
Not true at all. Bill is beyond out of touch.
Well said. He's been losing touch for roughly the last decade.
@@vincentfalcone9218Yup. He gets his women from Hollywood parties where they come to meet rich celebrities and thinks he's got mad game.
Have you seen modern women? They're in their phones 24/7. Instagram, TikTok and OnlyFans broke them. Even at the clubs. They come all decked out to sit on the couch and stare at their phone.
if the democrats didn't push a culture war onto boys and girls they wouldn't have disrupted the fertility rate.... but this was their intention all along
GIRLS: girl power, pink power, crack the glass ceiling, pay inequity, be a boss, lean in, get an abortion, birth control, dont cook, dont clean, be a queen, slay girlfriend, etc
BOYS: toxic masculinity, manspreading, mansplaining, rainbow agenda, drag queens, homosexuals, effeminate famous males, metrosexuals, manscaping, etc
the democrats have intentionally destroyed the fertility rate, because they are scared of climate change and global warming, overpopulation and overpollution
The part about dressing and grooming is 100% accurate. I’ve seen young people out in public in pajama pants and raggedy logo T shirts and it’s sad. They can’t even muster a nice trouser and crisp shirt/sportcoat. It’s sad. Clothing/grooming is a reflection of self esteem From my observation at least half of our people look like they got their clothes from the goodwill dumpster. No hot guy or gal would be interested in somebody who shows up slovenly or unkempt. It started with ‘casual Friday’ and now it’s ’homeless chic’. 😂 You deserve an Emmy for this season Bill great writing. 🎉
Men aren't dressing to attract women because they do not want to attract women. It's a simple cost-benefit analysis. The deal society is offering men right now is unacceptable, so they are checking out. Men have decided not to participate as the only form of protest they have. Bill is not helping by blaming the victim here.
@@DurkaDur-bx4ks they don’t know what they’re missing. Health and looking one’s best is a good thing. ☺️🔥🔥
@@DurkaDur-bx4ks and that's okay, but don't complain when people aren't attracted to your messy behind.
@@DurkaDur-bx4ksThen they're succeeding! 🥳
@@IntoTheMusic87 Good. That's just what "they" would want you to think/say.
0:39 There was a WSJ article recently or some other newspaper that said that a lot of Gen Z women consider themselves to "be in a relationship" after they have gone out once with a guy. And that guy is usually going out with several different women but doesn't consider himself to be in a relationship with any of them.
I assumed it was just that they were dating older men, but that also makes sense. I’m guessing it’s a mix of both (over 20% difference is huge!)?
That's Chad for ya
In other words, what has always been that if a woman has low self esteem she will like a man with over inflated egos.
it's hypergamy. bill wants everyone to think it's not happening. There isn't an expert that doesn't think it's not happening. It's happening, and it's increasing. Societal collapse may change this. I thank god im not an incel but I have been for short periods and even that is horrid
@@vincentfalcone9218 And Tyrone.
I know Bill Maher, says a lot of crazy stuff but, I wasn't expecting this, what a man.👍
When you have two sentences that can stand on their own and are connecting it with a conjunction (for, and, nor, but, or, yet, so), you must put a comma on the word before the conjunction.
Examples
Correct: Robert blushed in embarrassment, but the girls giggled in laughter.
Incorrect: Robert’s pants ripped, and tore straight through to his underwear.
Why: You do not need a comma here because Robert’s pants are the implied subject. The second half cannot stand by itself.
I'm here for it. I quite enjoy his humor 😅
@@reasonably.responsibleMe too! 😊 "G.A.M.E." makes perfect sense.✌️❤️🌼
“You’re NOT THEM!” 😂😂😂
which are "3 words" according to Maher and his writers ... :/
@@sejuanisupportonly7385 - A contraction is, by definition, one word.
@@sejuanisupportonly7385 Maybe I'm dumb, but I count three words. Am I missing something?
Bill's thing should have been, to be accurate & honest & including himself (since he's the expert, ..I guess), 7 words. - "You Don't Have Their, ..Or My.., Money!" - Since that's what it's really all about.
@@ezra842 "You're" is TWO words, hence the apostrophe. You are not them == You're not them. FOUR words. :)
If you wanna be with women, it's important that you like women.
Respecting women is the first step
@@The_R-n-I_Guy Bill's the last one to care about "respecting" women. You should see how he talks about them on his Club Random podcast. Besides, he said in his segment that douchebags are the ones who get women, and that's something he genuinely believes.
bullshit
@@ダニエル-x5dyep
And to treat them as human beings, with a basic sort of respect.
I know that Bill is doing a bit here with the blue jeans and the black shirt, but it’s honestly a fucking great look for him. He looks fantastic.
Agree, he seems quite physically fit and actually looks like a lot of Silicon Valley tech bosses who run "campuses" instead of "offices" - perfect outfit for a TED parody
And this was an actually decent TED talk
I know right? My thought too.
His head fits his body. His scale is fine.
@@lolodee3528no it’s not. He has a huge head for his body. That’s actually a plus in tv and movies etc. To be a game show host it’s almost mandatory lol
That’s all he wears when at home dude😎. VOTE BLUE 💙💙💙💙🙏🏽✌️🌞❤️
I simply don't buy the "kids today aren't interested in sex".
They're just afraid.
Kids are simply too online. Guys are afraid of being "toxic" and the "girl boss" archetype isn't sexy to most guys.
There are NOT nearly as many "girl bosses" as men imagine. Plenty of girl EMPLOYEES, girl ASSISTANTS...not so many girl bosses--especially women in their 20s for god's sake! Like Maher said: GROW UP (& Get Real!)
Guys are very afraid of being falsely accused of some sort of sessual harassment just for saying hello.
@isaidpianissimo2475 I saw how false allegations took down a POPULAR US SENATOR, and people wonder why we are scared of interacting with women
@@isaidpianissimo2475 If you're not really physically attractive it's VERY risky to hit on random women.
I think real people haven’t changed that much it’s just they spend too much time on social media and their phones and simply think they have changed. Or at least, think they are supposed to be things they truthfully aren’t. In a world of self-ID etc, no wonder young generations don’t know how to communicate with one another. If you don’t know who or what you are - how can you expect anyone else?
One of Bill's best New Rules in a LONG time! So freaking good. 😂😂😂
Another important thing is to find women that actually share the same interests as you. I’ve met tons of really cool girls that love video games, fantasy books, comics, rock music, cartoons, etc. It’s really not that hard or rare lol.
Yes, those are the best. I love meeting women that are also huge movie fans like me.
It's pretty telling that this WISDOM didn't even occur to Maher - great point!
My sis and I both met our spouses at sci fi conventions. We ain't the only ones by a long shot.
Good , practical advice 😉
Depends on your generation and location. It's pretty rare to find Gen X women into games. Especially where I live. Granted I live in a terrible place to find women, Las Vegas, people here are into lame stuff like gambling, alcohol, and pot.
Okay, this was a stretch and I admire that. He nailed it too. All those wretched buzzwords and the ludicrous style of TED talks! 😃😂😅🤣 And the writers should take a bow as well.
He didn't nail it. This was the most boomer new rules ever. Completely out of touch with modern reality. He should try his own advice at places where people don't know who he is.
@@ranndino 🙄
I liked that he was making fun of Ted which is insufferable to me. I think his obsession with the youngest generation has lost its humor and I am nearly his age.
@@barrym2112 Agreed. Generational humor is pretty flabby-minded, and I'm older than Bill.
@@ranndinoor maybe it is a sign that modern reality should actually pay attention to those who came before and learn how they managed to succeed.
Wonder why Millenials and Gen Z are doom spending? Not getting married? Not starting families? Why is civil unrest growing while the wealth gap is larger than it ever has been in history?
First-time home ownership is OVER. "Starter home" are over 400k average income is 58k.
We've put in 77 bids in middle TN on first home and were outbid by cash investors EVERY TIME. Now, we're priced out due to price and mortgage rates.
It's because this economy is not for us, it never has been since we've been around. It priced us out and left us behind before we got here. This doesn't end well for society at every socioeconomic level..
I agree.
Excuses
That's certainly part of it, but what is the response to it? I don't mean to diminish our struggles and the factors that played into it though.
There have been countless moments and generations throughout history where things like "finding a partner or soulmate or lover" were extremely luxurious notions - the fact is, our society is changing and people are starting to realize the nature of marriage/courtship/relationships whatever you want to call it is changing too.
I’m in California. It’s way worse. I make decent money too. Can’t afford shit.
And GenX is the 1st to not have pensions plus fought 3 wars. Boomers fought in Vietnam. Their parents fought WW2 and Korea. Their grandparents fought WW1 and survived a depression. You think you have it worse than them? Hint: you don’t. Everybody had it tough somehow. Yet they still managed to find each other, get married and have kids.
"Women are humans, and they want you to listen."
That was my TED talk, thank you.
But they keep saying stupid things.
More like, they want you to do nothing but listen, ad nauseam.
@@lockywolf__2181… probably the stupidest thing I’ve read today - well done.
Yes and we heard; they rather be near bears than the majority of average men. Unless you are Tyrone or Chad don't bother with them beyond common curtesy. Honestly being none select is a blessing since it means more money/less stress too bad some men can't recognize the blessing in disguise.
Literally no female I know can hold a conversation with me for even an hour. They're all miserable, can't answer simple questions and just in general don't have anything going on with their lives. I'm VERY attentive and have proven on more than one occasion to know more about someone than the person in question. Trust me, the problem is NOT that women don't get attention or care.
The black t-shirt and jeans look is worth revisiting.🙂 Dude does not look 68.
Ageist
Honestly I like Bill, but, if you saw him in person you would not say that. He is old and wrinkled. You are forgetting the magic of TV. Strategic lighting and heavy makeup.
Its called having an easy, privileged life... sitting around talking and smoking d0pe.
@@bobbykiriakidis9753I mean sure, the guy is old, no one is saying that 20yo girls are going to start putting Up posters of him in their bedrooms, but he looks healthy for his age, I would sign being in that shape at 68 right now
yea he looks much older
Thank you for this extremely important TED talk. When I have my husband go through the Birds and the Bees with our boys, I will follow up with this video and a “no glove, no love” motto. Thanks for this powerful contribution to humanity.
To guys about paying for a date:
If you have a good feeling, pay up.
If you don't think you will see each other again, split.
If she is on a lot of dates just for somebody to buy her dinner, split. Don't let her use you.
If she talks about the patriachy and the importance of feminism, she should pay everything. Break the mold.
Women dont date to get free dinners
LMFAO, keep rubbing those pennies together. I know many women that would show you where to shove your money.
@@charlottesmith2439
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"My concern would be she felt the need to talks about the patriarchy and the importance of feminism", like duh, I would feel insulted that she felt the need to say so. OK, she thinks I do not think females can be humans too??
@@charlottesmith2439 Dump those ones
Not going to lie. Bill is right about everything and his approach to women is extremely attractive.
The greatest pick up line is Hello! Bill nailed it with that one
This was the best TED talk ever. Well done!!!
Now that was absolutely on point! We’re outside tonight boys! 🍻
This is better than most actual TED Talks.
Bill is doing Casual Friday in real time.
He's mimicking Ted Talker's dress , son.
Nice pun 😉
if the democrats didn't push a culture war onto boys and girls they wouldn't have disrupted the fertility rate.... but this was their intention all along
GIRLS: girl power, pink power, crack the glass ceiling, pay inequity, be a boss, lean in, get an abortion, birth control, dont cook, dont clean, be a queen, slay girlfriend, etc
BOYS: toxic masculinity, manspreading, mansplaining, rainbow agenda, drag queens, homosexuals, effeminate famous males, metrosexuals, manscaping, etc
the democrats have intentionally destroyed the fertility rate, because they are scared of climate change and global warming, overpopulation and overpollution
I feel like Bill is doing mark Zuckerberg at a Facebook meeting
Once you stop chasing approval. The world is yours.
Agreed 👍
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Except…the approval of women you want to date.
The best part about Bill’s TED Talk is that all of these things are directly under your control.
Bill isn’t saying you have to make more money, own a house, or drive a new car. His changes are either behavioral or involve consumables or easily-replaced things.
Legitimately refreshing.
The best advice my uncle gave me when I went to college when I told him I saw so many beautiful women was “the worst thing they’ll tell you is no” . I said hi to everyone 😂
How'd it work out?
Today the worst thing they can do is accuse you of false accusations. And then you’re fucked.
@@Handsomebwonderful1984 Bingo.
@@Handsomebwonderful1984
Today, the worst thing a college girl can do is distract you from your path
@@Handsomebwonderful1984you are a douche. Go away.
Love this talk! Thanks Bill.
I get that a lot of women mock the shit out of nerdy guys, but why would any man want to date a woman who thinks that perfectly legitimate hobbies and interests are childish and stupid? That just seems like a recipe for more resentment and hatred.
Exactly. Why would you want to be with someone who clearly doesn’t even like you for who you are? Sounds like you’re setting yourself up for an abusive failure of a relationship.
@@nightmarishcompositions4536 Yeah. It seems like far better advice to look for someone who actually likes similar things, but not necessarily the exact same type. That can broaden your horizons a lot more than usual.
Because guys with these kinds of hobbies often suffer from obsessive &/or juvenile dispositions. If you ever look up how these man children react to writers making any changes to their particular beloved franchise or read any of their views on the opposite gender you'll clearly see why the ladies avoid these lunatics at all cost. Major media conglomerates certainly haven't helped reign in these emotionally stunted individuals by continually making properties that were originally intended for children increasingly more adult oriented in really cynical &/or creepy ways.
@IMAT01these guys should just eat better and start exercising for a quarter of the day and join together until women are dressing up like gandalf and reciting the silmarillion in high-elvish. They had better!
Because those "hobbies and interests" and not in any fkn way legitimate for a male over age 12
The fact that you're asking that question means you grew up without a dad, or he was not telling you the way shite really works
No woman in the history of forever is going to be turned on by an adult aged guy acting in childish ways.
You will lose every single time to the man who has set those things aside, or at least hidden them away.
Nobody can force you to accept reality, but the world will move on without you and won't feel a damn thing about it
This is brilliant! I tried the dating apps. None of the men want to meet in person, just another app. It's insane! I thought the whole point was to meet in person & actually have a real life relationship!
Thanks so much for Martin Short last week. I laughed so hard I peed, and it felt so good.
He's the guest host on Jimmy Kimmel this week. He's hilarious.
Thanks for sharing, diaper dude.
@@MarvinThiessenmen don't speak this way. Clearly a woman. And someone who probably nodded approvingly at this segment
This is the sickest roast i have ever received 😂. It is so spot on, feels personal😅
As a man who did better than he should’ve in the dating world. And now happily married. I wish I went to this TEDTalk when I was 25. Although I must say, I did always pay for dinner. I can’t speak for everything else thanks, Bill.
Thank you Bill, I was lost but now I am found
As a woman and a lifelong geek, let me tell you that the "act normal" part is almost entirely wrong. You be you, enjoy your hobbies and don't try to be someone you're not. There are plenty of nerdy girls out there who enjoy a night of rolling dices, my men.
THANK YOU! Poor Bill. Paying for his "dates" makes him so sadly weird on this topic.
If by "many" you mean .0001 percent, sure. You're dead on.
Btw, the guys who actually make you wet won't be saying things like "milady" and quoting Tolkien.
Unless your super gross, then yeah, get what ya can
I'm nerdy in different ways, but was thinking the same thing. There are a lot of women who enjoy L.A.R.P. and Ren Fairs and other stuff that many would find repellant or repugnant. To each his or her own. Moreover, there are plenty of women who'll respect and indulge a man's "foibles" when they are attracted to the man (attracted for several other reasons), and they'll enjoy their free time to do their own thing while the man is enjoying his hobby. All interests need not be shared to couple successfully. I'm a mature single woman. I'm geeky as a logophile, and in a few other ways. D&D and gaming aren't my interests, and I don't see myself with a man who is a big gamer (the other kind, with headset and chair, not Maher's G.A.M.E.r) nor a man into L.A.R.P. --but someone who enjoys group face to face game nights, or a range of other things I'm not already into, would not be excluded from consideration.
Um, no. The ratio of nerdy girls to guys playing dice and card games is 100 to 1. As a woman, you probably like those odds. But for the 99 guys you aren't dating that day, they need to pretend to not be interested in that stuff. It doesn't mean you can't be interested in that stuff, but that is 3rd date conversation after you've gotten laid. The first dates are about future plans, positive things happening etc. This goes for any hobby that isn't "normal", that doesn't play into you, as a man being a good parent, provider, and companion.
@@Medina-bk2fo I would appreciate the man to pick up the check on our date.
Take a closer look at modern women as well, Bill. These aren't the same women from the 70's, 80's, and 90's.... They've changed.
Dating. Dating has changed.
(This is a Metal Gear Solid reference)
Yeah. I'm O.L.D..
if the democrats didn't push a culture war onto boys and girls they wouldn't have disrupted the fertility rate.... but this was their intention all along
GIRLS: girl power, pink power, crack the glass ceiling, pay inequity, be a boss, lean in, get an abortion, birth control, dont cook, dont clean, be a queen, slay girlfriend, etc
BOYS: toxic masculinity, manspreading, mansplaining, rainbow agenda, drag queens, homosexuals, effeminate famous males, metrosexuals, manscaping, etc
the democrats have intentionally destroyed the fertility rate, because they are scared of climate change and global warming, overpopulation and overpollution
@@robertacomstock3655 they've always been the same.. now they just have attention overload.
50 years is nothing. People are the same as they've always been.
It’s not lesbians, Bill, it’s that age group dating older men.
High value men get harems going on dating apps.
Women date older men until they get even older.
Yep, I love the 30's, they are orgasm machines the do it over and over and over until thirsty and tired, yet sometimes it happens earlier. We can give them what they want and it is more about them then ourselves.
It’s likely both, Didn’t something like 40% of Gen Z identify as queer? Also some of that is women dating the same man.
This isn't rocket science. In recent times, women have had their pick of the litter. It's biology...
When million of people are having the same problems at the same time, problems which their fathers and grandfathers didn't have, the problem is probably not those individuals' fault.
Social Media will convince you of whatever you want.
If you don't like what others are saying you scroll on until someone tells you what you want to hear.
People used to say I'm not a victim, I'm a survivor.
Now everyone is a victim who doesn't think they're going to survive.
Life is hard, especially when you're comparing yours to everyone else's.
Succeeding is hard, if it was easy everyone would do it.
Saying no one has it harder than you does not come from deprivation it comes from expectations.
I feel sorry for the Internet generation because it makes it easier to lose hope when you're told there is none.
I'm not saying it's easy for you or dismissing your concerns, they're real and justified but the misconception that other generations all owned houses and lived the high life belies the truth of slums, projects, trailer parks and apartment buildings which have always been a part of life.😮
Your implication is a little reductive, but I agree it should be thought about.
Agreed.
just take bill's advice and stop making excuses.
@@brooklynebony best advice I've read in these comments so far. It's easier to blame others for your short comings that to look in the mirror at the ACTUAL reason. You.
Bill says a lot of truth in this.
Knowing how to have a conversation is not just a problem a lot of men have. I speak to a lot of women who have absolutely nothing to say.
A lot of them have personalities of a stray cat.
Excellent. Now we need a video for women telling them that not every man who approaches them to express a discreet interest is a misogynistic, useless sex criminal who should be MeToo'd, reported for sexual harassment, cancelled, fired, have his business ruined, etc. Because that's what scares many men today after decades of feminist hate from many women.
Bill, these women are not approachable anymore. If you try to talk to one, they treat you like a creeper. Its exhausting and not worth it. I was married for 17 years and dated multiple others.
I mean, they're more approachable and easier to bang than ever provided you're a world famous millionaire or 6'2"+.
@IMAT01lol my exact thought. “These 19 year olds today just aren’t interested in my 50 year old ass”
Yeah, that's what happened to you: women became less approachable! lol
Why do you care what they think? Just move on to the next one...and the next...and the next.
As far as age goes, it doesn't really matter. Especially with how ineffectual and lame these boys today are.
These girls would never tell their friends or relatives, but they are desperate for connection and real human contact with an actual, you know, MAN!
Numbers, numbers, numbers...only do the things that work and forget what people who don't know think or say. Real life experiences and success are the ONLY metrics that matter
@IMAT01 When did he say he approaches women who are the age of his daughter?
I sent this to all my boys. Amazing job. Love it.
Someone needs to explain hypergamy and the mouse utopia experiment to old Bill. It's not a coincidence that every single developed country has the exact same problem with birth rates.
Also dating app usage isn't decreasing because so many young people are now meeting in person. It's because so many people have given up on dating. The number one way couples meet is still dating apps... there are just fewer of them.
Jesus Christ a Whatifalthist incel in the wild 😂 for the love of God take an internet break
@@softjones3128 reasons. They can't be excused because I'm married and 6'2". I only know all this because my brilliant short friend taught me
The numbers don't lie but liars use numbers
App usage is going down because they gave been enshittified. Useless ads, bad matches, and a sh*tload of robots, some not even chatgpt based. Essentially since OkCupid has been bought out by Tinder.
Who cares… If you hate women, they will hate you back.
Bill Maher, still funny after all these decades!
Yas, , and still funny if he would stop complaining about "woke" (whatever that is ),,...
Are you the guy they planted in the audience
@@HrtlessCloud LMFAO 🤣
He has writers you know, whom he has hired.....
still crazy after all these years. Paul Simon
Brilliant dating advice for the average young man struggling to settle down and start a family in an economy largely ruined by boomers... from an unmarried, childless multimillionaire in his 60s.
Yup. Who has a reputation of hiring women for "services". Hard pass.
@@drg19841There's nothing wrong with that as long as he doesn't claim to have mad game that would work for an average guy.
@@ranndino well said.
Do you think he got anything wrong?
@@YaelOrel it's the sage wisdom of hunting tips from a vegan.
“She wants you to spell the alphabet with your tongue….” Hilarious!!!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂
He stole that line from Sam Kennison. It was one of the best standup bits of all time. RIP Sam 😢.
and true! come on!!
It really wasn't that funny lol
Was an homage, not bit theft
Bill Maher…….. An American hero!
Face-to-face interaction & communication that is the key to any relationship
Ever since women have been programmed to be a BOSS BABE, its been hard for younger guys. Im glad i grew up in the 80s and 90s. My game was strong - i treated them like people and they treated me well. It's that simple ❤
0:32 Because all the women are sleeping with the same man..
Bingo!
exactly and there is nothing wrong with that
@@chesterbelleWomen acting like prostitutes and asking from men to treat them like ladies 😂. Nothing wrong with that?
Exactly. I won't say it's wrong. It's just times have changed. No longer does a woman have to settle for an ugly dude just to keep from starving to death. She can make her own money to survive and go after the good looking men. Good looking men are scoring left and right in this country. It's tough for us not blessed with good looks. I was doing fairly well, but my girl lost her drive after menopause, so I'm in a bad position right now.
It's also because people just bullshit, lie and exaggerate about their situations.
Thank you, Bill. This was incredibly educational and informative.
Bill should have over 10 million followers…
Take it from the shyest guy in the world! If you don't take the risk of rejection you'll never experience the rewards!!
So true!!!
@thatgirlkells5505 not mine 🤓🖕
Where are you supposed to meet single women in real life!?
@@MatthewTheWandererthey're never, ever single. There's always 10 guys in their phones they either talk to or hook up with.
@@modickens1272 So, what are we supposed to do, then!?
Such practical advice…so practical, in fact, it’s almost certain to not work on any girl under 40 now.
Just as porn has set unachievable expectations for women, so too social media and rom coms have set expectations that are impossible for men to adhere to.
I had many relationships in my teens and into my 20's, but by my 30's I realized life was more fun, simpler and easier if I took it on alone.
So many common troubles go away when you're alone. So now I'm 47 and I've been alone for 12 years and in those years I've made more progress than I did in the previous 20 years adulting. A high percentage of women are unreasonable and untrustworthy. If you want men to chase women again.
Make women great again.
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Bill this is a MASTERPIECE!!!
This is the video I didn't know I needed. Thank you, Bill!
New Rule is hilariously awesome!
My father told me to never deny a man the chance to be a gentleman, he was raised to open the door and pull your chair out for you, make sure to thank him when he does.
Yeah, & he also, I'm guessing, lived in a time before we all became "equal" in all things. There were roles observed that both required something from &, at the same time, benefitted/comforted/bolstered both parties, the female & the male. That's all gone, now. It's ALL gone, now. About 20 years ago, I heard one of the leading activists of the radical 60s-70s feminist movement state that, "Well, we wanted what we thought men had over us, all the good things without considering the bad things about being a man that truly did exist, ..the things we'd rather not be saddled with. We were, to say the least, nearsighted. Well, we won, ..we got our way, ..& found out that it wasn't all about getting the job & holding the money or no more standing on the street & whistling at the girls going by. In the long run, it turns out we also bred or at least created a whole population of smaller, intimidated men & mean, self-absorbed & vindictive women and it's just not working very well for anybody." So, Madam, maybe now it should be you opening doors & pulling out chairs for your "gentleman". Equality's a real gas, isn't it?
Spot on, says this single 75 year old broad.
cheers!
Bill Maher is The Greatest!
I love Bill Maher!!!!🤣🤣
The truth is that a lot of guys just aren't interested in dating anymore, especially considering all the effort, expectations, and occasionally nasty rejection they have to go through when they're expected to 'lead.'
Seems it's becoming more common for men to feel totally content with their job, video games, online communities, and an occasional fap. As a person who's worked in the tech industry for 7 years, I was surprised the first time I met someone who had zero interest in dating, but over time I realized that it's becoming more common. And no, that doesn't mean that all of the men in this group are unhealthy 'neckbeards' or incels, though I know those exist as an even smaller minority.
I'd imagine that a big part of the discrepency between the number of single men vs single women is that some of the guys who are really into dating have multiple girlfriends. They're more appealing, put in more effort, and hell, maybe they're the ambitious go-getters that are going to pass down their genes to future generations. Some folks just want to live and enjoy the life they prefer.
Gotta admit, it really is fascinating to see this happen as technology continues to advance though.
It's a two-way street, and both men and women need to put in some effort if they truly do care about eachother.
If some women become tired of every guy they date turning out to be a deuche, a narcissist, or a player, maybe it's time for it to become more common for women to be the one to reach out to a guy first. Want a good guy as a boyfriend, and tired of trying to change other people in vain? Maybe you'll have to find him instead of expecting him to be searching for you. Don't give up.
That's right. They are too lazy to make the effort.
I gave up on women years ago. I was married for 12 years to abwomen Ibmet at uni. My wife ran off with her doctor who was 🎉 his patients. She seemed shocked when she found out she wasnt the only special one.
Two years on dating apps. Three replies. Talking to women at work you would think the hard thing is deciding who to turn down or how to juggle multiple partners. Tried bars but the culture or approaching folk is gone people find you odd.
Old folk like Bill Mar are tone def.
Maybe he exaggerates for entertainment, purposes. I hope you get out there again! So sorry for your awful marriage experience. It must be hard to trust after that betrayal.
Hey man - From a man to a man, It's not your fault,. But if you want to date, you have to be competitive , and men know how to do this. It's totally fine if you want to give to give up. It's totally understandable. People kinda suck - I know - I am one. If you want to date, you can totally make it work.
Says the man who has never maintained a relationship
Why should he when he gets laid on a regular basis.
Valid. Also the 63% single men and the 34% single women... He's an older promiscous Hollywood celebrity. He knows exactly why the younger women are not "single".
I wouldn’t go to a man who settled down with his first girlfriend for tips on getting laid, I wouldn’t go to a man who isn’t married for tips on getting a wife. Luckily for bill he isn’t giving advice on getting into a lifelong relationship genius, he said in the first 20 seconds of the fake Ted talk that it’s about getting laid. If you want advice on making a girl settle for you for life this isn’t the place for you lol
Bill: "Women are humans, just like us, they're just people"
Also Bill: "Man up!"
Large thank you to my father for teaching me all these lessons so that I do t have watch Bill Maher TED talk.
I am 6 3, Hispanic and Catholic and I am still single
Oh, man, we are screwed. I had no idea it was this bad.
Its perfectly ok and fine to be single. ! Nothing wrong with it. Bill Maher is single. Freedom is a good thing..... ❤
@@lopresti4559Maher gets laid. Pretty sure this guy means he isn't.
Hmm... If I were your height I'd be running a harem. The good news is the you can develop other qualities. Not much anyone can do about height.
@@ranndino "running a harem' LOL! That's called short man syndrome
Hey Bill, thanks for the TED Talk 😂😅
I think Bill Maher is way off on what is really going on out here in the dating scene. Plus, he's not a married man and never will be, and his generation is not up to date. It almost sounds like he's been recruited to try to make men accept the irresponsibilities of women out here today. Last week was an attack on Tate and the Manosphere. Noted Tate isn't the best role model, but he wasn't lying about how young men and women are carrying on in society today. This week is a lesson on how to date women?? What women exactly, the ones pretending to be men and 304s with astronomical body counts?? And heard what he said, "women are feminists in theory" ??? In theory????...so he admits there's a double-standard women do and men are supposed to shut up and take it?? Well, it just tells us how much out of touch that he is with this crisis.
"If you want to moan, put down the phone." LMFAO
Far as I recall, Bill does fine not stereotyping & generalizing other groups; why does he constantly do it with the younger generation?
Giving him the benefit of the doubt here, I think he's actually trying to help.
Redd Foxx urged people to “clean your ass” back in the ‘70s, and it’s a timeless message
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And he was right. Clean your ass folks.
Props to you for that message and knowing who Redd is. You are a rare one of culture!
That’s makes two old comedians that he stole from on this bit. He stole lick the alphabet from Sam Kennison. They were both far better comedians than Bill.
@@barrym2112 nothing wrong with recycling old jokes when they're still true today... he was conveying that guys need to stop being lazy & take care of business. Hygiene is a #1 for me regardless of anything else 🤷🏼♀️
“It’ll be ten times more likely the man is the one who f**ks it up”
Do you speak from experience, Bill?
BEST! TED! TALK! EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
From what i see from young men it’s not a lack of “game” but more so that they don’t want to deal with modern women.
It's a lack of money. You can't have a gf without it.
@@guyfawkes8384 you don't need a shitton of money to have GF. Another myth.
That’s because they don’t know how to be men.
@@imajeepster A "shitton", no, but I would say a majority of women, esp good looking ones, want a man who does well financially.
@@imajeepster
The type of gf one can have without riches are the types most don't think about looks wise.
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Ray is amazing 🐐
Thank you for having him Bill
Just donated my Crocs. Thanks Bill.
Bill has done this exact topic many times before.
Bill really does not understand that young people are past the sexual revolution and is mad they have different values. Real problem is if people were doing the opposite he would still be mad, Bill just wants to be mad for mads sake. This is not a problem.
@@John-kx9vq - Uh, it's an entertainment show. He's a comedian. You don't need to analyze Bill, unless you want him to mock you I suppose.
That was constructive. Put ALL the blame for everything on men. I can see how that's going to work because I've already seen how it has worked.
So men get to take zero responsibility for their failures in dating?
Straight dudes who place all the blame on women for the lack of attention they give them are setting themselves up to be a genetic dead end.
Bill is 68 years old and has taken up the "blame the college kids" mantle for the last 10 years. Did you really expect any better?
I trust Bill on a lot of issues because he’s centrist politically, but I wouldn’t think he’s an expert on romance if he’s never had a wife or kids before.
@@seanlawrence5014It's not about a wife or kids. It's about getting laid. He's definitely no expert though because he gets them at Hollywood parties where they come to meet men like him.
@@seanlawrence5014he's had hundreds of escorts. The man knows what he's talking about 🙄
Bill being the voice of reason again.
It’s incredible how many guys need to hear this.
The numbers don't lie but liars use numbers 🤓 🖕
Brilliant, funny, and so spot-on!
You’re always on point Bill!!!!!
He didn’t pay off my student loans…and “game” doesn’t work on these women now adays. They don’t care
0:31 could be cuz more young women than young men are dating older ppl but I like the fact that Bill was confused (if genuine). Prob reflects that he's used to dating women his age
@@ダニエル-x5d ahh makes sense
He was dating Cara Santa Maria for a few years and she's 28 years younger than him.
He dates someone that old? I thought he only dated women in their 20s.
@@missbeazly50That's correct. The original poster is incorrect.
All good points - that being said, I bet Maher didn't become a Lothario until he got famous lol
@@unodos149 Bill is known for buying escorts. He’s not exactly a Lothario.
That's the thing. He's completely out of touch on this issue because he gets girls at Hollywood parties where they specifically come to meet rich celebrities like him. So he thinks he's got mad game.
Bill sold weed to get through college, and he's funny. I'm sure he did alright with women before he became famous.
@@robertcowan7610I bet you're right.
@@robertcowan7610 Bill has said he didn't talk to any women and have any sex during college on his Club Random podcast. That's part of why he is so hung up on this issue.
The parody of the TED talk is the best part
You did not mention another important thing , working out. Hit the gym and pump iron.Having a good build and wear the right clothes.Two very important things also good grooming.
You wanna get some? Grow your WALLET. Frankly, it's the only thing women TRULY care about
Plenty of women are stuck with a guy who just can't seem to keep a job (and now can't seem to get one!), so yanno what? that wallet thing is actually REALLY important. Not the only thing of course, but definitely #1 priority if you want a long term relationship.
A couple of things I learned over the years:
Get fit, get clean, and look as good as possible.
Stand up straight and act like you are happy to be alive.
Get a job.
Watch your language.
Make her feel safe.
Don't lie.
Women don't want a little boy. Act like a man. Think James Bond, not Justin Beeber.
If you want a girl you have to actually talk to them. In person.
You will be rejected about 3/4ths of the time. Most of those girls are either taken, or just scared lke you are.
Rejection means nothing. You learned something, and there is always another one.
If you like a girl, you are going to have to approach her and talk to her eventually. It might as well be now.
Make it clear, but not in a creepy way, that you are not there to be her friend. If she wants a friend, you are not him.
In order to meet girls, you have to talk to them.
You are going to have to have a conversation with her.
Say hello and ask her questions. Act interested.
Take her out somewhere fun.
Put down the phone and talk to her. She doesn't want to be alone either; you just have to convince her of that.
Are cybernetic screen zombies able to reprogram themselves with human traits? I think you lost them at "in person".
“…there’s always another one”. You make women sound like possessions.
Not necessarily in that order.
"Act interested." NOPE, be interested.
"Put down the phone and talk to her." not these kids
@@margo3367 Omg, no wonder young men are afraid to say hello. You have to tell young people that so they keep connecting. Too many go into deep despair after breakups and rejections and give up.
@@margo3367 There's always another woman. There's always another female. There's always another self-identified woman. There's always another person. There's always another person you may be interested in in the gender of your choice. I mean her choice. I mean zirs choice. Oh nevermind.
Great Ted Talk 👏👏👏
Now do one for women
Or are we still not holding them accountable in any way shape or form 😂
You know the answer to that one. Imagine telling every group that is not doing well that they should “ just step up and do better” hahah.
@@DurkaDur-bx4ks he’s never come across as a man one would aspire to be.
Bill wearing the new balance shoes at his Ted Talk on Game is priceless.
Great segment, Bill. Top-notch truthful laughs.
It turns out, you don’t need game for a woman….You need $$$, a job and a house!
Money is the BIGGEST thing for a man's confidence.
Yes, back to basics. It's all Biden's fault. /s
You need good looks.
Being successful professionally and financially gives game. Not through the money itself, but rather being accomplished and having that reflected in one’s personality.
No, just money….
I don't get why they set the public sound volume higher than Bill's.