Married = off limits period. if they cheat with you, they'll cheat on you..he lacks integrity period. If he's recently broken up, he needs to heal. Rebounds are not solid foundations to build on.
I never understood women who get with married men. They don't mind being a man's side dish and getting in the way of another woman's struggle, potentially causing her more pain. That's just wrong on so many levels. That situation will never work out, and Karma will come with a vengeance. I do judge, because it happened to my mom.
2:23 the married man situation was messy. The man wasn’t even available. He’s lying about everything. He’s not divorced and has no intention of doing so. He was enjoying the side chick leading her on.
Oh boy, my family recently tried to turn my attention towards a man that is so recently divorced that he's still moving himself into a new place, with a 3 year old child. I don't trust my family's judgements in this regard
I stopped telling my family who I was dating years ago. Too many family members encouraged me to date men who were separated from their wives. Disgusting. I found out those family members were hooking up with married men.
Never allow yourself to be the rebound chick. You will be left heartbroken and he will walk away once he's dumped his heartache onto you and is feeling better. It happened to me in my early 20s and it took me YEARS to get over it. Any man who is unavailable to you for whatever reason is not yours to keep. Walk away and find someone else.
yup, on the first date he told me that he is divorced, I asked when did he divorce - this year spring, date was in October I think. I did not go on the second date and it was one of the reasons, will most definitely not going to be a rebound, ew.
Separated is not divorced. It’s not judging, it’s holding people accountable for poor decision making to hopefully break the cycle of delusion and self sabotage. If you get in the dirt with people, expect to get dirty🤷🏾♀️
This video was sent from God I just know it 😂 the man who was talking about not being with a man who’s recently separated, I’m in this same situation with a man who just got divorced and he happens to look and sound EXACTLY like the man talking. 😂🤦🏽♀️ I hear you loud and clear, Lord.
To post my experience: Once started talking to a police officer romantically. Got my number, decided to text him, in text message he seem extremely clueless and dont know what to do about his life, deceptive, didn’t want to even tell me how old he was, evading every question. He didn’t know if he was coming or going. Safe to say I ended the communication the same day I got his number.
I'm not sorry, but being a police officer or soldier is a red flag by default. The rate of DV in those circles is far too high (speaking from experience too).
I don't care what trauma you've been through. You don't go after married men! I don't feel sorry for those women, nor do I make excuses for them! I will judge that because it's wrong!
@-._.-KRiS-._.- DID you miss the part where she said that some women purposefully get with married men because they've had trauma in their childhood? You need to go back and listen again.
Am a woman but majority of us women are just desperate for relationships, the Lady really had the nerves to stomach that man's BS..When you prioritize yourself as a woman you'll have zero tolerance to men's B'S also you'll be able to detect early red flags and detach yourself immediately.
When can I hope for this to kick in? No you’re correct finally single but didn’t expect to be here at this stage of life so big readjustments needed so got a dog - to Love go out with friends and have been forging a new path
❤ 1:49 most of the time they’re the ones that ruined the marriage , and in other circumstances they may be telling the truth but you need to stay out of it period. They need a full divorce. Man or woman needs a full divorce before dating again stay away from separated and married people.
If he’s not divorced, he’s married. That’s a good boundary to have. Ladies, these boundaries are for your protection. You can save yourself so much more hurt by breaking it off as soon as you even think there’s a wife.
I feel like this was way too easy to see through and avoid! Women are out here really getting fooled like that?? Like how? Substance abuse clouding your judgment?
Women can find themselves believing the wildest things, especially if we’ve had absent/neglectful/abusive fathers. Shame on you for implying any woman who has been hurt by a man’s lies must be a drug user.
Woman at 17:00 so you were late to an appointment by 15 minutes and expected them to make time for you or see you before they were able to it pissed you off? Were you mad at yourself? (In 2023 or whatever) because that’s the only thing that’s logical in the situation
Why not judging ? If you get yourself involved with a man who is in a relationship surely you are allowing yourself to express to others - THAT YOU DONT care about the other woman in his life or even worst their kids - BUT YOU DON’T want to judged! I judge any woman who doesn’t run immediately away from a man who is in a relationship or faked a separation…. Don’t really care if you pursue a man which has no integrity and low standards and get hurt by it I call it KARMA - carry yourself with pride and dignity and ensure that the men you meet have the same standards-
Uhmmm...nooooo....I don't know about any one else but I don't like the fact that this guy (11:22) right here keeps referring to feminine energy as also being "UNhealed". 🙅🏽♀️ He said it more than once AND even the suggestion that feminine energy is UNhealed and masculine energy IS healed is not only untrue but is patronizing and manipulative! It wouldn't be hard to believe that the purpose of his channel is not to help women but to get endless attention from women, have permission to boss them around and make money from us all at the same time!!!! HE sounds like a wanna be alpha male predator...go back and listen to it because it's important to note how they sound while professing to help! watch their words ladies...watch their words. Be well! 🙏🏽
I think what he means is that a man that is unhealed will always be or lean in their feminine energy. I mean that is how you identify an unhealed man, same goes for unhealed women - they are dominantly in their masculine energy. A HEALED man will be in their masculine energy and feminine energy comes secondary.
Some rebound actually becomes the wife even if the man cheats on them . Which is crazy I seen a man get in a rebound relationship and now they have kid together
Question: How many times should we comment about the awful audio before you do anything about it? Some clips are too loud and some clips are barely audible. Unsubscribing.
It's kind of mean to say but this reminds me of Friends episode where Chandler couldn't stop looking at his dates eyelashes that were similar to first lady's... Very over-applied.
Married = off limits period. if they cheat with you, they'll cheat on you..he lacks integrity period.
If he's recently broken up, he needs to heal. Rebounds are not solid foundations to build on.
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I never understood women who get with married men. They don't mind being a man's side dish and getting in the way of another woman's struggle, potentially causing her more pain. That's just wrong on so many levels. That situation will never work out, and Karma will come with a vengeance. I do judge, because it happened to my mom.
2:23 the married man situation was messy. The man wasn’t even available. He’s lying about everything. He’s not divorced and has no intention of doing so. He was enjoying the side chick leading her on.
Raise your standards by lowering your tolerance for mistreatment
Normalise leaving after the FIRST red flag.
Did that! 😂
Again, we see the red flags but choose to ignore them for this pursue of love.
Red flag and love is an oxymoron mentality
Stop painting those red flags 🚩green 🚫💚
@@EthersMysticalChildTarot8014 When you choose to wear rose colored glasses you see 🌹 instead of 🥀
Oh boy, my family recently tried to turn my attention towards a man that is so recently divorced that he's still moving himself into a new place, with a 3 year old child. I don't trust my family's judgements in this regard
I stopped telling my family who I was dating years ago. Too many family members encouraged me to date men who were separated from their wives. Disgusting. I found out those family members were hooking up with married men.
Don't do it... reconsider! 💯
@cierrabennett206 don't I know it, it never crossed my mind. Within a couple weeks he was with another gal, and I hope it works out for them
Dude at 10:00 I love you! Haha “these are not kings they are predators” you are correct
Never allow yourself to be the rebound chick. You will be left heartbroken and he will walk away once he's dumped his heartache onto you and is feeling better. It happened to me in my early 20s and it took me YEARS to get over it. Any man who is unavailable to you for whatever reason is not yours to keep.
Walk away and find someone else.
yup, on the first date he told me that he is divorced, I asked when did he divorce - this year spring, date was in October I think. I did not go on the second date and it was one of the reasons, will most definitely not going to be a rebound, ew.
Separated is not divorced. It’s not judging, it’s holding people accountable for poor decision making to hopefully break the cycle of delusion and self sabotage. If you get in the dirt with people, expect to get dirty🤷🏾♀️
This video was sent from God I just know it 😂 the man who was talking about not being with a man who’s recently separated, I’m in this same situation with a man who just got divorced and he happens to look and sound EXACTLY like the man talking. 😂🤦🏽♀️ I hear you loud and clear, Lord.
A guy should not be getting to know you or vet you through texts thats what dating is for 🎯
100%
Lazy unproductive interaction
To post my experience:
Once started talking to a police officer romantically. Got my number, decided to text him, in text message he seem extremely clueless and dont know what to do about his life, deceptive, didn’t want to even tell me how old he was, evading every question. He didn’t know if he was coming or going. Safe to say I ended the communication the same day I got his number.
I'm not sorry, but being a police officer or soldier is a red flag by default. The rate of DV in those circles is far too high (speaking from experience too).
@@LadyAstarionAncuninI agree. They are players. I'm too old to be entertaining that. Life is too short. They change girls like changing underwear.
The first story got on my nerves “I think that might’ve been his baby all along”
FCUKING DUH!!!!!! 🤦🏽♀️
I'd be like, "That sounds like a you problem. Lemme direct you to a therapist."
You don't understand narcissist abuse, but you might someday
Its different when you are in it and you like him
@@guacgirl she’s out of it….and still dumb
The married man was never leaving his wife. He was just leading her on.
I don't care what trauma you've been through. You don't go after married men! I don't feel sorry for those women, nor do I make excuses for them! I will judge that because it's wrong!
Did you miss the part where he lied about being married?
Nobody cares about your judgement tho 😂 who are you?
@kosmicinclinations3333 You obviously care. 🙄 Why does my comment bother you so much. Have you been with someone who was married?
@-._.-KRiS-._.- DID you miss the part where she said that some women purposefully get with married men because they've had trauma in their childhood? You need to go back and listen again.
@@godschildyesa lot of bully mentality in this comment section. Don’t give them any attention.
Am a woman but majority of us women are just desperate for relationships, the Lady really had the nerves to stomach that man's BS..When you prioritize yourself as a woman you'll have zero tolerance to men's B'S also you'll be able to detect early red flags and detach yourself immediately.
When can I hope for this to kick in? No you’re correct finally single but didn’t expect to be here at this stage of life so big readjustments needed so got a dog - to Love go out with friends and have been forging a new path
@christinejones4785 Self awareness
❤ 1:49 most of the time they’re the ones that ruined the marriage , and in other circumstances they may be telling the truth but you need to stay out of it period. They need a full divorce. Man or woman needs a full divorce before dating again stay away from separated and married people.
And separated is still married
That's why over 70% of divorces in the U.S. are initiated by women. If a man is divorced/divorcing, chances are high that it wasn't by his choice.
If he’s not divorced, he’s married. That’s a good boundary to have. Ladies, these boundaries are for your protection. You can save yourself so much more hurt by breaking it off as soon as you even think there’s a wife.
I feel like this was way too easy to see through and avoid! Women are out here really getting fooled like that?? Like how? Substance abuse clouding your judgment?
abuse can make terrible men feel familiar to us. saying this because i've dealt with abuse since i was a child. it's always easier said than done tbh
Women can find themselves believing the wildest things, especially if we’ve had absent/neglectful/abusive fathers. Shame on you for implying any woman who has been hurt by a man’s lies must be a drug user.
Woman at 17:00 so you were late to an appointment by 15 minutes and expected them to make time for you or see you before they were able to it pissed you off? Were you mad at yourself? (In 2023 or whatever) because that’s the only thing that’s logical in the situation
9:57 💯 and 11:20 💯
I feel like she dated my ex husband 😂
What is up with the sound volume?
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The woman telling the man needs to pay her bills, he’s not your dad, you are not a child. Pay your own way
Some women want that experience of a man financially taking care of her. You aren’t like that, move on.
I'm sorry nobody wants to take care of you. Please stop projecting your reality onto other women🫶
@@kosmicinclinations3333 I’m not looking for a bank account, I’m looking for a partner. Im an adult. I take care of myself. Grow up
@@mun3698 what are you, YT traffic paw patrol? Mind your business
Why not judging ? If you get yourself involved with a man who is in a relationship surely you are allowing yourself to express to others - THAT YOU DONT care about the other woman in his life or even worst their kids - BUT YOU DON’T want to judged!
I judge any woman who doesn’t run immediately away from a man who is in a relationship or faked a separation….
Don’t really care if you pursue a man which has no integrity and low standards and get hurt by it
I call it KARMA - carry yourself with pride and dignity and ensure that the men you meet have the same standards-
Red flag dj
Uhmmm...nooooo....I don't know about any one else but I don't like the fact that this guy (11:22) right here keeps referring to feminine energy as also being "UNhealed". 🙅🏽♀️
He said it more than once AND even the suggestion that feminine energy is UNhealed and masculine energy IS healed is not only untrue but is patronizing and manipulative! It wouldn't be hard to believe that the purpose of his channel is not to help women but to get endless attention from women, have permission to boss them around and make money from us all at the same time!!!! HE sounds like a wanna be alpha male predator...go back and listen to it because it's important to note how they sound while professing to help! watch their words ladies...watch their words. Be well! 🙏🏽
I knew some gen Z snowflake would be boo boo hurt lmao
I think what he means is that a man that is unhealed will always be or lean in their feminine energy. I mean that is how you identify an unhealed man, same goes for unhealed women - they are dominantly in their masculine energy. A HEALED man will be in their masculine energy and feminine energy comes secondary.
Some rebound actually becomes the wife even if the man cheats on them . Which is crazy I seen a man get in a rebound relationship and now they have kid together
Question: How many times should we comment about the awful audio before you do anything about it? Some clips are too loud and some clips are barely audible. Unsubscribing.
Her eyelashes are distracting. geez
Lol sounds like a you problem
Don't be weird?? Idk sounds like you need a self care day😂😂
Stop looking then 😂
It's kind of mean to say but this reminds me of Friends episode where Chandler couldn't stop looking at his dates eyelashes that were similar to first lady's... Very over-applied.
Good thing you not wearing them