South Korea Conservative Dating Culture

[@iwantabiscuitplz]

That explains why K-dramas make it a HUGE moment when the leading characters hug or hold hands 😂

[@lene_kuchisabishii]

Well it’s fictional when I read the comments.. 😂😂 but well it’s just like Hollywood, Disney.. people want to believe, not reality 🤭

[@jaydoesweirdthings305]

That makes more sense now

[@menumlor9432]

I never thought of that. 😂

[@kostas6612]

It's red panty night 😂

[@marktheshark7588]

Because that's first base for them😂

[@Eatlovetravelasia]

That’s why they r so quick to be in a relationship 😂😂😂

[@SossCarti]

this the comment LUL

[@cathdan]

Lol. The hookup culture in Korea nightclub is crazy though. So in this sense they are in a relationship for a night. And break up the next day.

[@Eatlovetravelasia]

@@cathdan 😳😳😳🤣🤣🤣

[@Oioi-qx9uy]

@@cathdan It's the same in every country, and each person thinks differently😶‍🌫️
There are many cases where they meet lightly in the home appliance world club.
But i’m not . There are people like me who just go dancing 💃🏻💃🏻🕺🏽🕺🏽

[@yunkee95]

modern problem,modern solution

[@_kwpn]

This interviewer is so calm respectful fine gorgeous and understanding

[@marte1376]

For real!!!

[@deathbysvent]

interviewee? Men are not usually described as gorgeous. He is the interviewer.

[@05tf]

@@deathbysvent no he means the interviewer obviously so not interviewee?

[@matteomarku7177]

@@05tf then should have said handsome elegant or shit like that, u dont call a man gorgeus

[@05tf]

@@matteomarku7177 i can do whatever the fck i want lil bro

[@piet.11555]

This lady is so honest. What she say is totally true. I visit the Hyundai manufacturer in 2022. Beautiful country, extremely good manners and truly conservative. Love South Korea people.

[@sarak.8859]

can we please appreciate how understanding and respectful the interviewer is? so wonderful to see!

[@Seetiyan]

Is that so rare? More often I've seen the person being interviewed be an a-hole. But maybe we're seeing different things. 😆

[@robertvandeveer1846]

He was trying to figure out how "traditional" she is...

[@vincentkenswiel9747]

Respect di man

[@rashb3994]

​@@SeetiyanIt's that the interviewer isn't baiting her while pretending to be respectful, he's actually respectful. A lot of interviewers put on the act then ask a out of line question so if the person gets agitated, they can say yeah but I was respectful, don't blame me.

[@rafaelodossantos4210]

Anh zai le donneur de lecons

[@filipe_paixao]

1) meet at club at beginning of night
2) enter relationship, have fun, end relationship
3) continue the night

[@sineadiloveyou]

Yeah no. I wait like 6 months (since starting dating).

[@filipe_paixao]

@@sineadiloveyou refering to the usual "loophole" in Korea

[@sineadiloveyou]

@@filipe_paixao ok but how would you know they do that?

[@Thunderscreamer]

@@sineadiloveyou I think they laid it out pretty well! Become BF/GF real fast, do BF/GF activities, then break up real fast

[@aeroAdvocate]

@@sineadiloveyou You're not Korean; you're not relevant in this context. This is how it typically goes.

[@AlliIsNotaGirlkisser]

I love their outfits! Both of them are really stylish :]

[@audistik1199]

He’s immaculate.

[@NeithDollhouse]

Traditionally you shouldn't be having sex until you're married

[@nicesterhill]

Nonsense

[@giggitygiggitygiggity]

@@nicesterhill "traditionally"

[@larpy]

Facts! That’s why so many unwanted babies because sex before marriage. Ppl should stick to sex after marriage like Back in the past

[@u2beuser714]

​@@nicesterhill Its statistically proven that if people wait till marriage the relationship lasts longer and healthier on avarage

[@jeroenvermunt3372]

@@u2beuser714 seems like a classic example of survivorship bias

[@athapa01]

I m just looking at her clothes, simple yet stylish!

[@lissandrafreljord7913]

She's dress like its 2005.

[@caramelgirl6962]

also makeup

[@ryabow]

I was thinking the same thing. having a belt but not using it as a belt seems odd, though. but i'm a white guy, the hell do i know?

[@sakuraisp6974]

That’s not simple

[@willa9880]

​@@lissandrafreljord7913She still looks great so ur point is ??

[@griffinina]

The traditional way is no sex before married, girl 😅😅😅
That's the society modern standard you mentioned there.

[@mooonslight]

As i was about to comment too hahahaha 😂

[@doujinflip]

Traditionally girls married and began families in their teens too, so there’s that.

[@henriquealejandro7247]

Uhh no it's not

[@serenahuhfashion]

‘traditional’ could be different how long you travel back, I meant for my parents generation but you are totally right, before my grandparents generation which probably is about 100 years ago, they see each other on their marriage date for the first time haha

[@lio-o97]

​@@doujinflipmy grandma was mom at 18 which is way more ideal than 14-16 and nowadays we live very long means you should be at least 18 or up to start a family, take responsibility before becoming a parent, most teenagers are very immature and grow slowly these days compared back then

[@jackiemcmenamin9806]

Natural beauty at its finest.

[@HermanWillems]

hahahaha south korea and natural beauty. You know that plastic surgery there is done ALOT and therefore the quality of it is also high and then you barely see it. She looks high class, not normal korean.

[@mynameissongohanandamnotah17]

natural and sk doesn't go well together

[@user-cu3ki8wq5n]

Girl sk is the top country for plastic surgery

[@asmmirzaoglu5145]

Actually, this comment is not even for you personally, but for this general misperception. I live in South Korea, and the most "natural" young girl here uses 20 to 30 skin care products or methods weekly. Despite all the care products they use to keep their skin white, they use umbrellas even in sunny weather! Of course, there are less well-groomed women here (usually just older ones), but you won't see them on screens easily.

[@russelphilips3749]

It should be the case everywhere.
There has been no value left regarding intimacy etc. this should be a very private and precious thing.

[@icemuckbanggg]

I can translate what she said: "One night stands are frowned upon. Koreans do it anyway. For those who don't want to feel shame they become boyfriend and girlfriend first. However I'm not going to talk about how common it is to become boyfriend and girlfriend after 2 or 3 dates because i don't want to say anything distasteful on camera. "

[@r0conscious]

Right? Thanks, I feel like she's either fooling herself or just out of touch with society, it's 2024, a city like Seoul is such a modern place. I lived in Tokyo before and live in Beijing now, I met locals like her before who really believe everyone is so traditional still, but in reality so many are having one night stands and casual sex, and sooooo many are cheating, it's crazy

[@samgyeopsal569]

@@r0consciousone night stands are much less common in China, Korea and Japan, compared to France and USA

[@r0conscious]

@@samgyeopsal569 in the bigger modern cities (Tokyo, Seoul, Beijing, Shanghai) you'd be surprised though

[@Jhhhhyhhnjgy]

@@samgyeopsal569however cheating is more prevalence and socially acceptable for example in a country like Japan

[@kajeki]

You are spot on!! I think publically it's one thing; in an interview she better give this answer... But in private??? Oh it's another story. When I visited Korea many times, I was a bit surprised to find that casual sex was kind of normal, because of public fakery like this and the facade of sexual prudishness presented by Korean media. When no one's looking, Seoul is a very wild place. Don't be fooled by this interview at all.

[@doujinflip]

The “boyfriend/girlfriend” label (and likewise breaking up too) gets declared quickly and almost casually though, because they’re fooling themselves into believing they’re in something serious when they’re still just feeling each other out.

[@ajrt_2118]

And this is why this way really isn’t any better. It’s like American conservative Christian’s getting married at 20 so they can say they never had sex before marriage but wonder why they are divorced at 30…

[@kant.68]

I agree, but some people just click very quick and just want to be with someone

[@user-ry6jj6kx2s]

Yes! They call each other bf/gf super quickly so they can feel okay about what they are doing together, say they love each other super quickly without understanding what that means, then break up super fast without learning patience and communication skills within a relationship. Then repeat.

[@user-og2wt3le4j]

There is something similar in Japan. Couples come out as an official couple and then get serious.

[@richie6799]

the bf/gf title is not marriage. you are supposed to enter the title when you become exclusive to test out whether or not youll be suited for marriage. there is no difference between exclusively dating and being bf/gf. the arrogance in thinking the western way is more efficient when the divorce rates are nearly 14 times higher in the US.

[@ManfrediniPS]

That should be a worldwide tradition.

[@emersonmcwhinney9802]

💀💀💀 no thanks

[@RK-cj4oc]

​@@emersonmcwhinney9802Fatherless ahh behavior.

[@amiccus_]

@@RK-cj4oc Perpetuating outdated negative "traditions" ahh behavior

[@MrPosiden360]

@@amiccus_negative behaviour to care about a person before you are quite literally in the most intimate position as humans…that’s negative?

[@nobodythenobody9779]

It has advantages and disadvantages... Mostly advantages tho 😅

[@kayaroots5386]

Який неймовірний випуск та чудовий приклад для наслідування. Мрію, аби Україна стала такою ж безбар'єрною❤
Мішель класна, у Олександра топова футболка. Хороший тандем вийшов)

[@RyonMugen]

Bro your outfit is AMAZING! I love the pants, the belt, the tucked in shirt, Sleeves rolled up. You look GREAT!

[@MayDavid-jv4ik]

the shirt isnt tucked in and the sleeves arent rolled up..

[@maurice4046]

​@@MayDavid-jv4ik They are tho???

[@TheBlobik]

@@MayDavid-jv4ik His shirt seems to be tucked in and the sleeves arent exactly "rolled" up, but they are up

[@marte1376]

And he's in great shape as well. Looks like a dancer body

[@aiduka642]

The glaze is crazy

[@magicmaker319]

I like her speech and attitude.

[@marcelyrocha2105]

“are you open mind?” always got me 😂

[@joebagodonuts4039]

Excellent to hear some societies still have a modicum of decency!!! Bravo!!!

[@craigfelter]

Maybe things have changed, but when I was in college, in the realm of Asian girls, Korean girls were the easiest to get in the sack. Chinese girls were in the middle, and Japanese girls were damn near impossible.
Maybe being an international student loosens them up some.

[@edwigeguerin894]

Relationships have a better shot at success when people get to know each other emotionnally before getting to know each other physically.
However it depends on how much you know yourself and your worth for things to be healthy.

[@dripxenseixensei3822]

You’re smart! Many people don’t know that because they lack knowledge which result in lack of awareness. The more you know about someone, the more predictable they are, which means the success rate of the relationship would be higher if both partners knew enough about each other so they would know what to do keep the relationship healthy and what to expect from each other. It’s refreshing to see people with common sense like you 🤓

[@rorykim974]

It can be known better in a relationship. It doesn't necessarily require.

[@coffeetae]

Thing is a lot of korean relationships end up being short term and stay surface level. The lines of when a relationship begins and what defines the start are so blurry there. You can be in the talking stage with a person and they would unknowingly consider it dating.

[@darkangel7248]

Yes , and this is so in balkan and eastern europe 😊

[@registeredjopper]

Not really? Pretty sure this is very dependent on who you are and not a universal truth at all.

[@teefrankenstein4340]

I hope they keep these standards because they help build a solid foundation for a good relationship.

[@karenjaime2302]

only enter in a relationship for have sex doesn't seem like a solid foundation

[@teefrankenstein4340]

@@karenjaime2302 That’s not what they are taking about or what I am talking about.

[@itsDemeGoD]

@@karenjaime2302That’s not the point at all, The point is you shouldn’t be having sex just for the sake of having sex, you should never let lust control you that’s how people who shouldn’t be having kids together end up having kids, it’s also knowing that every time you have sex there is a risk of pregnancy so if she ends up pregnant at least it’s in the parameters of a relationship so both parents will be present in the kids life

[@itsDemeGoD]

especially here in the west because sex is being treated like it’s not a big deal, male or female a high body count is disgusting and it shows you have no self discipline or control

[@nikolas_mancebo]

​@@karenjaime2302you can always look at life with a cynical lens if you want to

[@shenbagadevi384]

Oh my God this man's voice it's really subtle and calming 😌

[@FancyBarnacles]

she's so pretty and stylish!!!

[@theglobalwarming6081]

Agreed

[@Bill-mq7wr]

Go outside

[@Scoloswine.]

@@Bill-mq7wr tf?

[@danieldemicco4769]

In Korea you have 'One Nights' and relationships and not much between.

[@applesidertea]

It’s the ‘in between’ that gets folks into trouble.

[@over9000lord]

What can fit 'in between' here?

[@Bobsbobss]

Thats pretty much everwhere

[@typorad]

Friends with benefits, basically ​@@over9000lord

[@kimchi4712]

Correct

[@brianticas7671]

I just had a date with a Korean girl here in LA ca USA. Very beautiful educated women. Very well mannered.

[@chhimisherpamingilicious6491]

Been so long Tapai ko vlog hereko
Glad you’re back again hakunamata….

[@bunnygene1338]

Still having intimacy before marriage is not that conservative 😂 conservative is when you are abstinence to intimacy before marriage.

[@ChimChimChums]

People are wildin' up and still calling themselves conservatives😂

[@emanueldelacruz1101]

For western standards it is traditional. Westerners have 23x the same day they meet

[@TheStepmonkey]

​@@emanueldelacruz1101 True, they act like bunnies

[@freyaegrey]

In Christianity yes. Not in all religions or cultures.

[@kant.68]

Not in 2024, in 2024 is being committed and low body count and dating for marriage

[@nicojourney]

I heard that people get together as a couple just to do it and then breakup...so there's that too.

[@dripxenseixensei3822]

This ain’t the West, especially America. Just because you heard something, doesn’t make it true. You have to be shown empirical evidence for it to be true. South Korea value social harmony, family, romantic relationships, relationships etc. that’s why you don’t see them running around in the streets acting like wild animals the way most westerners do.

[@doujinflip]

Probably explains why they count their relationship length down to days 📆

[@xejelah]

sounds like a Muslim marriage - it just takes one word and you're divorced

[@hey_you.]

​@@xejelah Fr😂

[@aijaylee5680]

Yeah, and so no one is really that interested in marriage when you can get these many times back

[@abrahamluna8758]

That only applies for Koreans dating Koreans. Because foreigners dating Koreans is another different story. More quicker and with shortcuts

[@joshgarcia7148]

Amen. I hope they keep some semblance of values.

[@ObeidGharib]

This is not a cult as you have described it, this is called STANDARDS. 🙌🏾

[@kiwikorean]

It's definitely not conservative with young people anymore. That's why there are so many love motels.

[@rorykim974]

No. It's still not much different for the young generation in korea.

[@Liyyameow]

The a big reason for all the love hotels is that many young adults still live at home with family, not only that but the walls don’t do much soundproofing

[@oishyzaman5513]

Sir love motels are mostly used by married people and cheating in relationships not for young people only

[@jiminswriter4209]

For some young people, not most.

[@kiwikorean]

@jiminswriter4209 no one said most

[@ohromantics]

This is amazing trivia. Like, not "the game" of trivia, its just good to know. Thank you!

[@hunterkingxx1809]

The thumbnail for this is so funny. Because it plays a bit of the video where the subtitles as she is speaking say “it is traditionally not common too” then it cuts back the still thumbnail with the subtitles of “have sex”. Which I found very funny.

[@chacmool2581]

I've toured South Korea by bicycle several times, and the Love Motel is ubiquitous. On weekends, it is not uncommon in regular hotels to see young couples checking in to spend the weekend together. I can't imagine that there is no fucking involved.

[@unabashed]

Because they're "boyfriend and girlfriend" so it's seen as tolerable.

[@xOmniCloudx]

​@@unabashedNo, I personally know a lot of people going there for one night stands.

[@hitmusicworldwide]

​@@xOmniCloudxit's been like that for over 50 years

[@xOmniCloudx]

@hitmusicworldwide I know. It was among the poorest countries in the world, so people from developed countries exploited it for hookups and other things like they always do in that dynamic.

[@michaellim4165]

Hookup culture is a dirty western mindset that is slowly invading the pure South Korean culture.

[@if3522]

Ok so I am confused. Korean people usually state their intentions after 3-5 dates and start becoming boyfriend and girlfriend. Three to five dates and give up the goodies is not that conservative.

[@Squidmoto3]

Compared to the west it definitely is. 3-5 dates before even kissing would literally never fly in the US unless you're a teenager. They would just think you're not interested.
So if your "stated intention" is to be with someone, at that point I don't see what waiting does - especially because marriage is basically becoming a thing of the past, so no one is waiting for that anymore unless you're like some brainwashed alt-right evangelical christian.

[@lexieliu5339]

I knew I wasn’t the only one thinking the same thing. Lol

[@edwigeguerin894]

😂😂.
For real ?
3 to 5 dates only ?
I thought they meant months of dating ( with many many dates).
It explains so much.
Thank you

[@believensee8621]

It doesn't mean you give up the goods the minute you become a couple. It means you don't give up goods BEFORE a commitment. Western women take note.

[@Prinzyxox]

@@believensee8621Just the women? Does that not apply to Western men also?

[@TheChancelX]

Good interviewer, respectful understanding. Good job bro

[@sabath.a.gurung7476]

I thought she was gonna say- before marriage 😂❤

[@serenahuhfashion]

😅😅 that is too long ago haha

[@whitekiki]

Now physical intimacy with a relationship becomes traditional and conservative? 😅 oh god what kind of era we are live in 😢

[@그의97]

Yes 💔💔

[@laurakubickova8777]

It’s not conservative, it’s respectful. It need to be like this in whole world.

[@keisuke880806]

Couldn't agree more!

[@Eurocoo]

My craziest experiences hooking up were in Korea, its just as modern as anywhere else bro

[@Kyle-wu7lf]

self-respect, wouldn't you say?

[@Dee_65]

YES!

[@BCA-kj9yx]

I'm Korean and I totally agree with your opinion. It's disrespectful to have sex with many other women(men) before marriage

[@CS-wn2sz]

This should honestly be how it is

[@Heyjeh1]

This is how it use to be here. There was no such thing as a hook up.

[@kud5659]

Right!? When I was growing up in the 90s 2000s you had to put in the time and effort for it to become physical. Girls giving it away so quickly were considered hoes.

[@jasondavidnow]

1st get to know yourself , gifts, values, strengths, mission vision purpose, weaknesses, your wounds and begin to heal and control yourself. 2nd date someone who has done the same. 3. Talk about what you want to give and receive and the purpose for dating. 4. if youre on the same page for longevity…then date, then kiss. (If you can control yourself). Then get married then get really creative as much as possible for the rest of your life and stay spiritually, emotionally, psychologically and physically healthy so you can do so! 😂

[@SombatSuksom]

depends on the Money in your bank. 😂😂😂😂

[@VikramjitSingh-vu8bj]

101 % true 😂

[@alexdecasi]

Indeed 😂. It goes without saying 😅

[@mitchreviews5291]

This is how I conduct an interview 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@serenahuhfashion]

It was a great interview🎉🎉 ❤❤ thank you Jerry!!!

[@justme5876]

Can we be friends?!😭😭😭😭

[@serenahuhfashion]

@@justme5876 ❤️❤️❤️

[@Kai04834]

When she said that that’s changing slowly, my heart started pounding, like wtf!? that should be the normal standard for everywhere in the world, having sex without being anything to the other person is just sick

[@kajeki]

Sick??...

[@Kai04834]

@@kajeki yes

[@iwannadancewithgeorge]

it's not sick, it's natural. and it's perfectly fine as long as it's safe and consensual

[@Kai04834]

@@iwannadancewithgeorge I disagree

[@darkskieshoseokx8239]

If this actually makes you uncomfortable and sick, then you need to evaluate why you care about other peoples lives so much. Especially others on the whole other side of the world

[@kanyar7415]

In India 'everything' should be after marriage only😂

[@Hubbyhappymeals]

This is very similar and common in MANY countries in Asia (coz im not so sure in some countries) not only in Korea.

[@mystictraveler8642]

Yes.

[@laurendavis4584]

And just worldwide. It's down to personal preference.

[@supriyathapa682]

In my country, sex is shunned before marriage and we as a young generation also have same priority. Sex and intimacy is sacred to us.

[@justsayroe5907]

Listen, this has nothing to do with the interview, but this man is GORGEOUS my goodness 👀 every interview I see, he looks polished and his hair is so beautifully done. 🔥😊 what is his IG lol

[@BluePinkLove]

😂 i be thinking the same

[@tinytailsandme]

His accent also 🥰

[@CammieKN]

Same!

[@buyungadil1]

African accent ​

[@DondreLetrelMcIntyre]

“has that changed over the years” my boy tryna calculate his likelihood 😂

[@gccbytmfrd]

She’s so pretty 🥹 I wanna know who she is

[@yrunaked4]

Stalker mode activated 😂

[@osundefosa]

She's average looking to me.

[@serenahuhfashion]

❤😍thank you for the compliment!

[@gccbytmfrd]

@@serenahuhfashion Ohh you’re very welcome!! 🥰🥰

[@sonofsarek]

God forbid getting to know someone before engaging in an act that can create a child. Think people.

[@scarletaviaru]

Yes, I believe people have a right to do as they wish with their bodies but for fuck sake, wrap it up first gentlemen

[@maryam-dj2kw]

And then breaking up with them after doing the deed lmao

[@jamessantiago8055]

That’s biblical, you get married first then do everything you want as a married couple and by that you’re not sinning.

[@Spider-Complexion]

Korea is not primarily influenced by the Bible tho lol

[@egemenozcan8219]

Korean girls are shy but lovely

[@lady_sherl6067]

That explains why some Korean men will say you are boyfriend and girlfriend after the first date and claim they are in love with you.

[@lazyscorpion3889]

Just to sleep with you and then ghost you many girls fall for that. You need to know how fake theyre to be safe

[@HermanWillems]

@@lazyscorpion3889 But then they step up their faking game all the way to the day before marriage just to get.... it. And then decline marriage.

[@streetpsyche]

How paradigm shifts with changing times and cultural shock 🤔. Not only in Korea, it used to be the same here in my country Nigeria 🇳🇬.. but this is gradually changing now

[@mbabaziangellah481]

In my country if a girl would get pregnant before marriage/ cohabiting,her brother would take her to the waterfall and push her or to an island and tie her on a tree for wild animals to enjoy but these days, almost every young girl is a single mother. Civilization has destroyed almost everyone 😢

[@Ama._775]

@@mbabaziangellah481what country is that because I never heard this in Ghana 🇬🇭

[@mbabaziangellah481]

@@Ama._775 Western part of Uganda ( Banyankole and Bakiga tribes)

[@NgoziB]

I am also from Nigeria, gradually is under statement

[@KaTheMagician]

@@mbabaziangellah481this is sick wtf 😅

[@jessemathieu1594]

I feel like it’s not such a bad thing at all, as long as everyone is free to choose this, it avoids confusions, miscommunication, feeling led on etc

[@Patricksstealthvanlife]

" ....changing slowly ? Is there a chance it could change before the end of this interview ? " 🤔

[@blackpearl6189]

I love your style!🔥

[@stanleysegal7159]

His style is a slimy pick up ploy

[@yasmimlins94]

Nice interview, and with the hallyu growing everyday, knowing about culture it's important.

[@HauntinglyAsh]

From what I’ve seen..this makes sense. There doesn’t seem to be as much casual “dating”. You may go out once or twice, but you really don’t date without being a couple. They also celebrate how many days you’ve been together vs years.

[@xavierjaramillo8376]

Really glad there are still these types of cultures. Todays values are corrupted.

[@xprrj]

Yep, that's why they start dating so fast and also break up so fast 😅 Yes, there are definitely many conservative, traditional people, but it's quite similar to what it is back home. In my personal experience, korean people think we, westerners are much more sexually liberated than they are but truth be told, the only different thing is how sex is portrayed in the media and how society reacts to it. However, you will commonly find people having one night stands, affairs, fetishes, they just don't talk much about it.

[@dripxenseixensei3822]

Stop the cap. Westerners mindset or philosophy is very different from South Korea. I’m from the West, my best friend is Korean so I know a lot. South Korea hate violence and problematic people, that’s why they take their image and reputation seriously. They hate guns, drugs, prostitution etc. they value social harmony. In the West, it’s narcissism everywhere lmao.

[@KarizmaJohnson-qr2lp]

How is getting know someone before you give your energy out to them physically a bad thing, this generation only thinks about sex.

[@jiminswriter4209]

It is not as common in Korea to have one night stands or alternative lifestyles. There is a harsh stigma against premarital pregnancy. People are expected to get married if that happens.

[@auristelafiona18]

here, things are getting wild

[@Brigadier07]

It's not traditional if you don't get married first. Unless they are trying to change tradition. A delusional change

[@JayBigDadyCy]

This dude needs to interview everyone. He is great at it. It may seem like a simple short, but the way he asks and how non biased and un- opinionated he is, is perfect. He also speaks slowly and clearly. You hear a lot of younger interviewers rushing their words. Which can mess someone up whose English is a second language.

[@vinnythep4216]

Bro thought he was fly with that respectful looking shirt 😂

[@minervaloves]

These two are so good looking and I love their sense of fashion too.

[@Kushal6831]

Korean couple culture

[@karolgomez537]

This is very funny cause I saw a Korean man answering this kind of question like this "there's a motel on every corner here so what you think?" 😂

[@mr.melone520]

The fact that this isn’t the norm everywhere is crazy

[@flemming2662]

Girl has never been to Hongdae, Itaewon or Gangnam on a Friday night 😂

[@luckywinner4936]

It’s a great tradition Korea should keep!

[@nmariette2948]

Ya …. This is definitely changing quickly with younger generations. Lots of Koreans don’t want relationships. Situationships are becoming a big thing here tho

[@3264headtrip]

Western Culture may not be so great for a Traditional family - she seems to be a genuine person.

[@GMmaker23]

I do like your conservative point of view.

[@anastasiap1856]

Yes, and they also become "boyfriend and girlfriend" after 3 days of knowing eachother lmao. When I used to study in Korea 90% of the Korean girls I've met got into "relashionships" like a week after meeting the guys.

[@saralowe5306]

I hope it never changes !

[@jbstepchild]

I like that simple lowers the expectation an makes for better couples getting to know a persons values

[@HARUKANAKAMURA18]

This interviewer is soo fine 😳

[@megamilyon6111]

Gross.

[@HARUKANAKAMURA18]

@@megamilyon6111 You

[@moveongamer703]

Now don't ask India (Daru pite hai chal) 👹

[@soleilsoleil3]

i didn’t care what she was staying in just loveee her style

[@blobdestroyer1792]

Really cool information. I’d love to know about North Korean dating next 😁👍

[@alterrrrrrr]

Impossible

[@Bantuarise]

Good luck🤞🏿with that😅😂

[@user-Griezman]

한국인들은 북한에 대해 전혀 관심이 없습니다 같은 민족이지만 교류를 하지 않습니다

[@proteanalias]

Yo that top is fire! I love the clasps.

[@hc7719]

Shes talking about more about what is viewed as "ideal" when she says traditional, as in this is how the tradition is. And the mindset is still there. Which is true. The reality is much different and not so much conservative as it is promiscuous. However, people still hold their ideal s.o. to the "traditional" standard. It still exists in the mindset, but it is changing, because it is probably slowly coming to terms with the reality that is modern korean dating. Source: I'm korean american whos lived in korea for the first half of my life.

[@aleksandra7720]

She is so wonderful and that dating rules sound like what it should be. For me personally, it is not about some morals it is about I cannot be intimate with someone who I don't know and don't trust

[@chrisraines1564]

Really have to say. The "hunting" scene and soju and beer places say otherwise.

[@user-jm2wr1bg4t]

Not only korea. Its also have in sri lanka 🇱🇰 it's true. But its depend on some decisions 😅

[@SammaVaca]

That’s very wholesome.

[@Damonistique]

Thanks to this video and the comments, I have finally understood how it works for the people with plenty of partners whom they don't know 😅

[@6and771]

Her English is so good!!!👍👍👍💯💯💯🙌🙌🙌

[@serenahuhfashion]

❤❤thank you!!!

[@ZomB940]

Reason #184,849,735,820 why these cultures are infinitely better than western culture as a whole.

[@dripxenseixensei3822]

Everywhere you walk in South Korea, you’re either going to see a couple hugging, holding hands or being romantic. Koreans take family, romantic relationships, friendships or relationships in general very seriously. They value social harmony, it’s part of their culture. My best friend is Korean and the time I spend with her almost a year ago in South Korea, was the best experience in my life. Koreans do know how to make you feel special, because they genuinely value relationships. They’re professionals at what they do. Get yourself a Korean friend or partner, get interested in the culture and your life will blossom 🇰🇷❤️

[@Jimmy.Sun-Sq]

Darling you sure leaving in fantasy😂 Keep going🎉

[@dripxenseixensei3822]

@@Jimmy.Sun-Sq objective truth is absolute, that’s why you can’t prove me wrong 😂

[@coffeetae]

That’s interesting because I had the opposite experience with a lot of Koreans during my time living there. The ones I found that truly valued relationships were gyopos or those just highly exposed to foreign cultures.

[@dripxenseixensei3822]

@@coffeetae your perception of people or things in general shapes your reality. If you’re not aware of that, then you’re already setting yourself up for failure.
The reason why my Korean friend and I are best friends is simply because, there’s no reason for us to not be 😂 Don’t understand what I mean? It means that there are reasons for us to be best friends, therefore we are. We are compatible, we know each other very well, so we both have become predictable, which builds trust and comfort. Because we are compatible, bonding and communication comes natural. And because we know each other very well, the trust is there. So we have no choice but to be best friends because we both wanted to. Actions and decisions are determined by “reason” which is inevitable.
I will note that - you are attracted to what you are, in other words, you are subconsciously attracted to someone or something that is a reflection of your personality or you. So if you’ve had bad experiences, then you need to become more aware of your personality, self awareness, and figure out who’s at fault.

[@coffeetae]

@@dripxenseixensei3822 It’s great that you and your best friend have a good relationship. I also had great korean friendships. I was simply stating that in general, I (and other foreigners that I have heard of) have noticed the culture difference in relationships. It’s a deep rooted issue in korean culture that I wouldn’t be able to begin getting into. I certainly never encountered the same issue with my friendships back home, so I would not consider myself the direct problem but rather the cultural difference in values. Consider yourself lucky if you never had a single bad experience.

[@minacruzel6387]

This is true! I’ve also heard from Korean friends tho that Koreans get into relationships SUPER fast! I think it’s called the 3 date rule or something

[@nataliadourado8007]

And that's the most sensible thing to do in my opinion. Sex creates a deep emotional bond, so you have to be sure the other person is going to be with you in a relationship.

[@echosmoon5605]

Well them girls were definitely practicing American Traditions whilst I was there 😂

[@olisix]

Hook up culture in Korea is wild even for western understanding. The whole bf and gf thing is also something else. Don't get fooled, many people call each other bf and gf from the first date easily. Is she living in some different K-Drama Korea perhaps 😂

[@Oioi-qx9uy]

We usually have time to get to know each other before the first date
😂

[@victoriousvic23]

I love it! People are getting way too wild here. Love the more conservative ways.

[@Ace-ht1is]

It only takes a month or less for them to become a couple all the time.