To everyone out here.... Iam telling you ur way more worthy than u think💖💖💖💖 self love is the key... love urself and ur amazing 💖💖💖 ur unique be ego u r... trust me I don't know who u are or what u are... I just love u..... ur beautiful, amazing and awesome 😘 trust in urself💖 I love u all
I got block and I’m happy as hell, I was dealing with a Victim, I was talking to someone that didn’t have any dreams, goals or ambitions, they also did Drugs! I wanted to see my lover change for the better.....but I guess it was to much for them to handle.... so be happy, someone is coming that’s on your level that’s good enough for you and won’t block you but will talk to you.... be strong my ppl, try to smile and pray, forgive the person and ask God for your dream person 🙏🏽😇
How do you handle the block? Im in the same boat. We aren't exes just friends that could have been more. She was into drugs and started to see someone else. She lied about being with someone and I caught her in the lie, and confronted her and then I got blocked. I keep thinking about her.
Got blocked by my ex for 3months now. Blocked as in everything. My crazy days of trying to stalk him are over. But I keep seeing his friends posting videos of him. And I can't help it but miss him. Even got jealous at some point. I miss him. I wish we could just sort everything out.
I have been blocked, and being in the military stationed overseas it is really hard. Her and I been together for 8 months I lost my cool and not even minutes later I was blocked on everything. It’s been 3 weeks since that day and the range of emotions I have went through in my spare time are really hard on me. Especially when I am far away not knowing what she’s doing. Just gonna go off grid and focus on me. If she comes back great, if not well I will do better for the next time. However, I do not wish this kind of pain and frustration on anyone it’s terrible and drives curiosity and frustration to its boiling point.
Hey Eddie K, thank you for sharing! It is important that someone in your position, stationed overseas, away from home, friends, and family, keep their head cool, calm, and collected. I highly suggest that you look into meditation in order to keep a clear mind and let go of the emotional pain and frustration currently clouding your mind. You need to focus on the things that you can control, not on wondering what she's doing. - Coach Adrian
Love Advice TV I’ve been meditating and I have erased my social media apps kinda went off grid. The only means of me reaching out to her if I choose to, is email which I have yet to get a reply from.....yes I’m guilty of reaching out I’ll be honest. I have goals that are keeping me busy and focused it’s just those times where my mind spools up the good times and it really digs in and really pushes on the sore wounds. I have accepted that it was my fault and I caused it.... I just don’t see how Someone could go to a great extent to cut me out over a outburst when I have dealt with her in the same situation, but I never blocked her though. Most of the time I’m fine the no contact and block is the killer because I like to talk about things out, I guess I just gotta wait it out.....
My ex played hot and cold, so I tore into them and said exactly what was on my mind. The whole works: "Immature, coward, afraid of love, avoidant, you need help." That surprisingly didn't get me the block, but when I posted a meme about proper communication I expect in future relationships - that did the trick. I feel better now that I'm blocked to be honest, I finally have some freaking closure. I'm sure I'll hear from my ex months down the road (or even years). It's a shame, because it'll only take me a few more weeks to get over them. Sucks to suck.
He blocked me on everything for 5 weeks. I let it be but continued to make my social media pages public. At 5 weeks, he unblocked everything! I know he blocked me initially because I went crazy & text bombed him.
Was together almost 3 years she blocked me on everything now just over a month ago I had to get in touch but still didn’t get any answer as to why. I don’t think I want her back anymore she’s hurt me deep and I thought we were together for ever I was about to propose to her 😢
I blocked her on ALL social media. Best thing I ever did. She actually called me to attempt to get me back, like an adult. Social media is not the real world, get over it
I dumped my ex on new years because of communication , he was HORRIBLE at it. I had a moment and ended the relationship . I came to my senses and tried to repair only to find out im blocked full on. My mindset is ok fine whatever. People who block and ghost you aren't even worth your time . Focus on you and be the best version of yourself. Thats my mindset at least. Other than the communication issue we had a great connection and everything in common. After i found out im blocked and ghosted. I realized i do not want that from my partner. I need someone who is isn't quick to block and ghost when shit gets real.
She blocked me months after NC. (She broke up with me). I never harassed her or desperately texted her or anything. Felt like a bad sting to my heart :/
He blocked me on FB because I refused to allow and accept his disrespect because he continued posting on FB about his ex. He have mental issues. I’m glad he showed his true colors. I rather be with a full grown man who respects me and who’s over his ex and want to move forward and appreciates my value.
Similar situation except it was disrespect towards me for wanting sexual intimacy while not being in relationship anymore. I refused and now I'm blocked for the first time since we met. Throwing a massive tantrum because I didnt comply. He can sit in his own mess and stew.
He blocked me on instagram and facebook and I did nothing wrong. I posted things as usually nothing sad,dramatic or something like that...When he broke up with me he was like "I wanna keep talking with you", but I started the "no contact", never begged him to take me back, we didn't fight when he broke up with me, we had a nice conversation and I respected his decision.. I really don't understand why he did this..
My ex blocked me on FB because he saw that my guy friend (who is gay) commented on a post and it appeared as we were flirting. My ex saw it and blocked me. I haven’t reached out because it’s not my fault that he misunderstood instead of asking me. But we weren’t on speaking terms for about a week after the breakup. He is extremely stubborn. I’m just giving him space. Any advice?
I blocked my ex on social media for cancelling our wedding without giving me a reason then disappearing for several months. Then he tried to re connect through a relative.No contact don’t work on me. I only lose the feelings more.
From my experience, someone willing to block you on everything (unless you are both very young) is not someone you want in your life. Accepting that they saved you by doing that might take you years to realize but I feel that one day you will see this as a good thing.
Ex just blocked me on insta and Facebook. We got into an argument when I was apologizing for basically lying and told me to have a nice life, she’s done :(
I am saving up for a session Although I think its too late Last time we spoke he told me to leave him alone and move on I betrayed his trust in the worst way Not only did I hurt him,I hurt myself A year nearly its been and i still watch your videos with hope
Love Advice TV you have come to know me quite well 🙈haha I love all of you guys I cant show him my light as I never see him anymore but still your videos are a comfort and i thank you for that x
Same.... he blocked my on fb... i didn't do anything , we hung up the phone after je broke up witj biz phone, then instantly blocked me. Not sure if I am blocked on the phone or email, haven't tried to reach ,out i did message him on Twitter,.haha your the child I would pray for him jahha not good but , he was literally got off the phone with asking me when inwas going act like an adult
I was blocked on social media and I honestly don't know y... not sure if she's blocked my phone number, I text her my 1st drunk text last week and it was the 1 and only text, 7 weeks into no contact... wasn't rude or anything.. reason y being blocked didn't freak me out and I managed 7weeks without any form of contact was out of pure respect and love that i still have for her and always will... Watching ur videos has also been a big help especially when I'm struggling and looking for answers... thanks team
My ex block me on facebook and then she unblocked me after a month.. after i know that she unblocked me... well,, i Block her.. its Revenge Time baby !! 😆😂
Its been a week since she blocked me everywhere and it's all my fault.. weeks after she left me I wasn't blocked but my desperation and frustrating her made her block me everywhere... I feel so lost and empty... i really need her back in my life.
Go down on prayers also me its now three weeks my bf ended our relationship from just ablue,when i tried to ask and beg he blocked me everywhere....but i love him and im praying to God to restore my relationship
I told my ex I didn't want to be friends.... cause I love her and want to be with her so I said we shouldn't be friends. So she thought I was cutting ties, and she blocked me
He blocked me because he thinks I’m spreading lies and rumors about him but I’m not. I told two people about the pain I was going through because of the end of the relationship, and one of them has been telling him lies.. that I’m telling a bunch of people that he cheated on me, which I never said to anyone, and just a bunch of stuff. So now he blocked me because of something I didn’t do, and didn’t give me a chance to defend myself.
My ex broke up with me last night and blocked me on everything I was begging and pleading for him not to go but he told me he was done and not ganna change his mind. We were arguing because hes in the army and he doesnt have alot off free time but when he does he wants to spend all of it with his friends which was absolutely fine I just didn't understand why he couldn't talk to me while he was with them since we barley have time together. My birthday is valentines day and it's coming up and the night before we broke up I mentioned that I felt like he was going to and he said I wouldnt do that to you it's no need to think that especially not before your birthday...and then he does it anyways. Idk what to do. I'm trying the no contact and hoping it works and he will want to try to work things out. I just need some advice on what to do and how to help get him back
My ex blocked me on all aspects. Because I called and texted many times begging her to take me back. It’s been 4 months. I don’t know what to do with my life.
Nailed it. Didn’t deserve it understnad the break up. But every time I tried to understand, ask questions, or save the relationship, I was needy and overbearing. So she blocked me. It’s been 6 months. We work together and she’s on medical. She’s back at work in the next few weeks. I’ve done a lot of personal transformation and have some work to still do. But others have noticed it already and I hope she will. If not there’s nothing more I can do and as hard as it is I know I’ll come out a better version of me.
aimesdaddy hey! Can you give me some tips for transforming myself..and becoming a better version of me. Its been a month he blocked me things are getting worst for me day by day. I cant even perform my routine work. I cant focus on anything, dont wanna continue my studies as well. Actually I caught him cheating on me, and I cant get over the thoughts of insecurities. I feel what the hell is wrong in me that he decided to betray me.
Nimrah Shakeel Only advice I can give is say your prayers and ask for guidance and patience. Focus on yourself and love yourself. As he see that you are doing better without him. He will eventually come back they always do. Then the ball is in your court. Hope this helps. I just got blocked too from everything. Literally sucks 🤦🏽♂️
As you said-not on all cases. I didn’t exhibit ANY stalking behavior, etc. After a one year relationship-in fact I had just seen him-everything seemed normal. Then came the block. He met someone else. End of story. My point-as you said-not ALL people nut up or call, over-text, etc. I’m just bummed he couldn’t have said good-bye properly. After a year, please. I know people step away from a relationship but there’s a way to do it, you know?
What if you did absolutely nothing at all to the person and they still blocked you on everything. I mean you did nothing but just be their friend and love them and yet they blocked you and ghosted you? I wish there was a video on that topic….
Hi Coaches, my name is Gary and I reside in NY. I have been married for over 5yrs and about 14 months ago, my wife told me she wanted to leave the apt and us, as she had a lot of sadness, depression & emptiness inside that she kept quiet for over 7-8 months. I was devastated and have done everything you can think of, to try to save my marriage. She has been living in FLORIDA with a cousin, and she started blocking me many months ago but then removed it. However, a few months ago, she blocked me permanently on my phone. She also blocked me many months on social media. I have felt so hopes, depressed and overwhelmed that I can't seem to shift anything in her mind. To make matters worse, she has lived with a cousin who has definitely put opinions & comments in her head, which has made my wife go from this kind & caring person to a cold and disconnected person. What can I do?
I see all the mixed success and horror stories about this subject and yes I am a victim of this to. I will say this… if there’s a will then there is a way. Of your partner/ ex is really going through it in their life’s. Who’s to say a extra day or hour of fighting for that right person isn’t going to open up the line of communication? Not saying wait forever but a dedicated effort in being happy is all you can do.
Make sure you are updating your social media pages regardless of whether you're blocked or not. He will eventually unblock you. And if his new gf is "making" him do things, I doubt the relationship is going to last - Coach Steven
my crush blocked me last week on phone n social medias. its okay first then i started thinking about him, like what ive done, i just want to be friends only. i started depress, crying at night.", cant even sleep, lose my appetite (i lost my weight now), dont want to talk to ppl.i tried to reach him through my other acc. he just really mad at me n say goodbye. i was so depressed now n still. maybe he needs time idk hes the only one that can cure me now
It's foolhardy to believe that the only way you can be happy is if your crush reaches back out to you. You're placing all your happiness in someone else's hands and that is not smart nor attractive - Coach Steven
My boyfriend who just came back after no contact, blocked his rebound on everything because I asked him to prove to me he has no interest anymore. So he blocked her on everything and she’s furious!
That is not going to cut it. He has to show you over time that he's no longer involved with her. he can easily unblock her and start talking to her again. Be careful... - Coach Steven
He blocked me when I found out that he cheated on me. He discredited me and I got so mad. He told the girl that he's been single for a year. That's why he already started dating immediately after breaking up with me.
After a month and a half my ex messaged me saying she misses me and wants to meet we met and it went well but the next day was Valentine’s Day and I thought sending a message or gift would look too keen and send her running. The night of valentines she blocks me on WhatsApp and Instagram was I wrong for not sending the message ? Back into no contact ?
Thank you coaches for making this video. I was blocked but not because I couldn't control my emotions but because he couldn't control his. After three days of our break up and being hurt by him he reached out, but with no acknowledgement of the hurt he did. I asked for space in a respectful way and he could not respect me. I started to ignore him, something he isn't use to and seeing that I was still hurt he blocked me. Also yes I do understand I had my faults in our mutual break up, but personally felt three days was too soon to act like nothing. I understand that I'll need to be patient to be unblocked and give us both time to refocus on our own personal selves. But let me be the first to say it isn't easy. I love this feeling of having more focus on me, but I do miss him terribly.
This is exactly what is going on with me. My ex blocked me from everywhere because I indeed reached out one too many times and did not respect boundaries I am paying attention this and hope for the best but I may have burned one bridge too many!
So my gf just broke up with me after 2 years. She was being distant and i was always unhappy because of it. She was giving me the vibe that she was letting go and every time i would confront her about it she would tell me to change the subject or just get really mad for asking if she happy with me. It lead to constant fighting over the same thing. sSo shoe blocked me on FB and stopped following my insta. She also deleted all my friends and family she had on her fb list. When i confrnted her about that she said she didnt want to be reminded of pics and posts to upset her more from the breakup. I know ppl do things and say mean things when they are super angry but what i dont understand is why delete my friends and fam. Is she trying to tell me that she wants a fresh start and doesnt want ties to me from them? Im so frustrated. im not blocked through the phone through text or calling. I wanna fight for her because i love her very much. I dont just wanna walk away. The thing thats really bothering me is her deleting my fam and friends giving me the vibe that shes done with me and wants a fresh start. Do i walk away or fight for her?
my ex agreed to not cut me off and continue having contact/trying to be friends and work things out. he has since dropped me a text saying we should meet this week or next. i replied i agreed we should take things slow. the next day i wished him to have a good day at work. he hasn’t replied my text or reached out again like he promised. should i be worried that he changed his mind?
No, you should not be worried, but no need to send him "have a good day at work texts" as if you two were still in a relationship. don't act like you're in a relationship if you're not officially in one. it scares men off - Coach Steven
Love Advice TV help, i panicked again and texted him that i missed him and not to forget what he told me. he’s pulling away again and saying he doesn’t want to talk to me cuz i’m making him feel pressured again. did i lose my chance again? please help. i can’t afford your coaching services :(
We broke up 15 days ago and then I went back to my home. Since we broke up I have been very hysterical and he was very indifferent to me,and I can't deny that we have done a lot of things to hurt each other. Last night after the fights online he told me that if the war break out one day I still have his number and he blocked me on his social media. I sent him messages to his phone number for telling him that I still love him and cherish everything in the past between us, he just politely told me "same,be safe, good night". Now I feel my heart is empty, i really dont know what to do to get him back.
I had trust issues with my ex over a number of reasons in the past, which we were working through. We have been separated for months but still acted as a couple in many ways. Recently we got into a dispute and hadn't talked for a month. She would post little things I knew were directed at me an I would respond sometimes just as negative or positive. Last week I posted something wishing her happiness and love... Basically wishing her the best for love and happiness wherever she may be and with whoever she may be with and she blocked me. What did I do wrong?
I made a mistake right, he insulted and I was furious at him. I said I want a breakup, I realize my mistake after awhile apologized, bit he blocked me everywhere.
My ex blocked me on everything, it's been like that over a month or two, and apparently she is in a new relationship and kind of got into it fast after she left me. It's been about 4 months since she lets me and it's turned my world upside down, I've never felt like this about anybody and I know I'm not perfect hell I'm probably a nobody. Maybe I'm just weak but there's not a minute that goes by that she still not in my head. I've had many chances so far to get with someone else but I just don't want it if it's not her😢
We broke up a month ago and got blocked on everything two weeks ago because I let my overthinking and assumptions get the best of me. I posted my assumptions saying “i hope you enjoy his company” on my Instagram story and showed immaturity. She blocked me because of it and even telling me she didn’t want to block me and it hurts her doing it but she did it. She said there’s no chance now. :(
I got blocked, even on fb and I didn’t even have him on fb lol. I lashed out though but it was coming because I felt like I was being ignored and brushed away and the pulling away thing was happening again after I gave him a second chance. I don’t regret saying what I did to him, but I miss talking to him. But whatever moving on forward. It’s for the better and my mental health. ✌🏻
Anna Sarniak it’s been 3 months since you commented this. Any progress? My ex and I split up. It was mutual, but it was my first relationship & she initiated no contact after she was the one who initiated most of the relationship in the first place. I feel used and sad
What if my exes new girlfriend is the reason why I’m blocked because it seems like he doesn’t wanna talk to me but she’s making up conversation talking to me that has nothing to do with our kids
If this is what happened between you two then you DEFINITELY need to give yourself a break from all this and take some time for yourself. Be selfish with your focus, time, and energy and horde it for your own benefit. Now is time for YOU - Coach Steven
Coach Steven is right. This ex cheated on you. Never suffer for someone who disrespected you like that, once a cheater, always a cheater. Time to focus on you!
Fruit hat with respect you just described someone thats put you through all that do you think that person is one that deserves your attention and love?, -
Thabk you for the advise. My ex blocked me in all social media and contacts, I stopped trying to contact him more than month already. And i guess he didnt care with me anymore because he blocked me since we broke up which is 6 months now. Im still suffering for the heartbreak. I need your advice to convince me nkt to hope or should i hope that we will get back together.
It sounds like you need to find something that matters more to you than getting back with your ex. that will hopefully ease you out of this heartache - Coach Steven
Well I was trying to protect her and want her of the dangers of something she doing then she said I was being controlling when I never told her to stop then she left and blocked me it just hurts how I was caring about her and she leaves me IDK what to do
*my ex had me blocked last week, I sent some cute / sexy photos just yesterday, and what do you know? I’m unblocked. Hahah sometimes men want a visual apology ❤️😭!*
He blocked me after I dumped him, I was mad. Lol I was very mad because he’s making me feel hurt now. I just blocked him right back on social media. If he ever wants to unblock me again, I just won’t be there because he’s blocked in the same places he blocked me in. I’m good. Goodbye 👋🏽
My fiance broke up with me because she needed more income and wanted to move to Kansas when I agreed to move to Oklahoma. But when I said I didn't want to move to Kansas she texted me saying she couldn't do this anymore because she started to resent me for not wanting to move to Kansas. She had no concern of my feelings and being that far away from from my kids when she walked out on hers. What should I do because she blocked me on day one of the brake up.
My ex blocked me on everything but phone directly after the break up. I let him have that space, I only texted him twice after that to ask for a discussion. A month after that last text, he called to tell me he was blocking me on phone. I definitely don’t think I overstepped any boundaries, so it’s incredibly confusing.
For many years i thought i knew how to love someone until last week i was totally wrong.i had a session with coach samira and she dropped major knowledge on me and recommended a book called "the five languages of love",im not much of a bookworm but i burried myself into it.after reading half the book so far love is starting to make sense and i know how to treat someone and speak their love language.i feel so confident after reading each chapter knowing that this book is changing my thought process and ways to handel a situation with a loved on.my 30 days no contact ends on Thursday and im writing my letter to my ex with the help of a coach *i suck at writing btw😂🤣,but im ready to showcase the new me.the coaching session was the best thing i ever did to get my mojo back.... ps coaches pkease do a video on the five languages of love,people have to hear this
That book saved my parents marriage back when the book first came out and they have been going on 40 years I love that book but I didnt even think about until the breakup and I was watching coach Adrian video and he referred the book I've been in love with it ever since I found the audio on here
30 days no contact is not a magic number. There isn't a set time period for no contact. Writing a letter is a mistake. You were given terrible advice. jus sayin
I tried the no contact for 4 weeks and she kept blocking me and unblocking me everyday it hurts and miss her im trying to keep busy everyday i also wrote her a letter after a month of no contact what do i do
My ex unfollowed me on Twitter after I posted a picture of having dinner with another guy. I thought he wouldn't care as he is in a new relationship for a month and we are just friends. He texted me, saying he hopes I'm having fun. I asked him if something's wrong - he didn't reply for three days now... What do I do now? Unfollow back? He knows I'm still having feelings for him... I really want him back, but his new girlfriend is in our way!
I hate selfish behavior like that. It's nothing but childish games on his end. He broke up with you, so you have every right to go out and date. He's acting like it's ok for him to date, but not you. Childish.
My ex broke up with me two weeks ago . And yesterday he deleted my contact so I no longer can see him on what’s app. I’m so sad 😞 I don’t even bother him or post anything . Idk why he did that
All I did was delete all but 4 pictures on Instagram & she blocked me on everything & my number. She left me though, so why should that upset her? We work together some shifts too.
What is the meaning of this? >She kept me blocked for 45 days or so and then unblocked me and we talked on the phone but then she again blocked me everywhere. In between these 45 days I was making different profiles just to explain everything and to apologize for my mistakes.
There was a guy who block me. Next thing i know months down, his gf/wife said she block me on his company's fb/ig page. That guy was just speaking to me like at start of liking me only, not like we were in a relationship. So this could be the reason.
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Still NC... it's been since Oct 1st 2018 when all I got was a text from her saying "What Do You Want?" I replied with "Its great to hear from you, and that I wanna see you.", Then nothing since, though I was dumped in June 2018, then blocked... She said in June she was moving far away after dumping me, and she tried friend zoning me, but I said "I'm not interested in being just friends", and said she was getting married, but from what I understand, she still lives local. - Is it possible she checks on me through other FB pages? A few people including a relative said they think it's all a lie. I get anonymous friend requests and messages from women I don't know. Probably fake accounts. Is she testing me? It's now 83 days... Now what?
I think we had thousands of breakup,he use to block me unblock me on whtsapp.Then when I said to one of our common friend to ask him to block me everywhere.How shockingly he blocked me everywhere.I cried entire night.Pls guide me pls somewhere I still hope
I need help... it’s been two months since she broke up with me, and recently, I had gone to two of my ex’s basketball games she told me I have to stop and it’s creepy. That I’m being stalker like and that she needs me out of her life... I never meant to be that way and all I wanted to do was support her... her parents don’t like me either and I just I want to try and show them both how much I care but it just made things worse... But Monday when we had talked she had found out that I went to her last game, not the most recent one. She had told me she wish she would’ve seen me, and that she doesn’t want me out of her life completely, that we could even call when she got her phone back from being grounded. She isn’t supposed to talk to me so when she unblocked me Monday it was because she had her phone during the day. But that night she had to block me again because her parents get her phone and she’s not supposed to talk to me... she never unblocked me until after her recent game that I went to to tell me all those things about how she wants me out of her life and that I’m going to be blocked for a while, and that I’m stalker like. 😞but even last week she had told me that she missed me and would have the biggest smile when she saw me...I love her so much... Im scared she will never unblock me for me to get the chance to re attract her... Will I be able to get her back? I really need help on what to do.
My ex blocked me every where after I told him I’m hurt because I found out that he lied to me for having Facebook and I was blocked I told him we should go our separate way, but I didn’t mean to breakup with him.it’s been three week no contact , five days after blocking me I found him on online dating.I don’t know how to reach to him!! Any suggestions?
🙂 I wanted him to block me. He must move on. I know how to act to get blocked. Yes, it was hurtful to me too,but he deserves someone who can love him like he needs. I can't do that. 🌸
We've blocked eachother both. After an arguement recently , I was called a selfish monster (not true spoiled this woman did everything for her) then blocked on everything. Few days went by no contact, in a last ditch effort , tried to reconcile after a few heart-felt messages to her on her Twitter. Still got radio silence. That was my ticket out the door. I will not try anymore. She will regret it. We were together a long time and best friends. I'm confident she will come back to me. I'm not holding my breath nor shedding any tears. I'm guessing down the road , all of this will result in a passionate night filled with heavy breathing with one another. Dont mean to be graphic but just being honest. I spoke my peace with her in those few messages and bowed out. My very last message to her was , "our relationship was Faith, love , understanding and empathy. Know I fought till the end on both of our behalfs." Let that rest on her mind knowing i cared about her and as a man walked away while I'm living my life bettering myself.
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My ex just deleted me off Facebook an hour ago. She was talking with my best friend last night (he was out drinking) and she kept asking him about his love life/flirting with him which made him uncomfortable (he is loyal). She told him she was annoyed that she thought im avoiding her (when ive been busy/self improvement post no contact phase when we broke up in october etc) and she deleted him off facebook, and then me. Do i lose hope in getting her back?
There is no "end" of no contact. When someone makes the decision to remove you from their life you do not contact them ever again for any reason. Your pursuit of them is over FOREVEVER. If they think about you they will reach out. At that time you simply say, "It's great to hear from you. I would love to get together. Let me know when you're free." When they tell you, make a date and go have fun. Don't bring up things and have serious discussions. Just have fun. At this point YOU STILL DO NOT CONTACT THEM!!! Remember, your pursuit of them is over forever! They must do 100% of the initiation at that point. They must reach out to you 100% of the time. Every time they do you simply make a date. If and when they bring up getting back into an actual relationship and you actually do you can then begin to initiate some contact with them but only then; after you are back together. Move on with your life. If they contact you great. If not you have your answer. Any other advice is pure hogwash. Good luck to you
I got blocked on social media a month after getting dumped, following posting a photo of myself with a female friend (whom she was jealous of for no reason despite me telling her nothing is happening between us) and a few friends on a night out. NC for over a month now and get no reply. I don’t get it as she’s the one who dumped me a month prior to blocking me. She’s had photos of her and her guy friends even before we split up. I think she’s childish to possibly even suggest that it was my fault. I’m frustrated because I felt discarded and feel that this is unfair. What are you thoughts, coaches?
If your gf is jealous of one of your female friends, then introduce that female friend to your gf and prove to her that you two are only friends and that she is no threat. It should be no problem if nothing is truly going on between you and that friend - Coach Steven
Thank you for your reply Coach Steven. She already knew her from before, and I’ve given my ex no reason to be jealous of her, although she noted that this other girl has been blatantly flirting with me. I have declined this girl’s advances because I knew my ex was jealous. But to still be jealous even after dumping me? I don’t get it. My ex has spoken to her and have cleared the air between themselves but I’ve still got no contact from her at all. I don’t know if she’s adamant to remain this way, or is just waiting for me to reach out again. I sent her a text and letter (may have been too soon) a few days post-blocking explaining that there was no reason to be jealous about it. I’m more confused than frustrated to be honest with you!
need your view coach there is a religion problem in our relationship and she lost feeling for me. after 3 weeks i texted to her that i changed my religion before a month and i dont want to scare you by saying on that time and asked her would you like to reconsider our relationship. but she doesnt responding to it she just says i will look into it later for straight 3 days. and she doesnt even seen my last text i sent and muted all my story and post but not blocked yet. yeah i asked many time to answer it. i never contacted her its been 4 days. she hasnt seen or replied. i just asked her will it going to work or not anything is fine but she not saying anything what should i do now coach
my relationship was so painful for me that I broke up and I change my FB no whattsap what so ever, change my mail, and I feel it was the most healthy thing I did, Beleive my Im fine!!! Blessing guys, tks always
I have blocked him: he broke up with me and he has found someone else. I don’t see any point in keeping in touch. He wanted the relationship over, I give him what he wants.
He blocked me I believe because his and my mutual friend invited me over to allow me to talk his ear off and watch a show because I was sad and wanted to talk about the situation of my ex leaving me and dating a coworker. So how do I let him know I’m Not interested in his friend. He didn’t unfollow me right away when he found out, I think his new girlfriend made him.
Hello coaches. My name is Oscar and I've commented on many of your videos in the past but haven't felt compelled to watch them as religiously as before because I had given up. I've said this before but my ex told me over the summer that she "officially wanted me out of her life". We never talked after that. But recently on Saturday, I had reached out and she actually responded. Fast forward to yesterday and we actually hungout together. I was very confused but tried not to think much about it. We studied at the library together and actually spent time in my room until I took her back home at 2 am. Nothing happened. We talked and joked around like old times and it was as if nothing had ever happened. I've been in such a good mood lately and thought this was weird when it all happened.
Well this is good news, no? Congrats! As i've told numerous people in the comments section before, sometimes the dust just needs to settle in order for a person to want to reach back out. the relationship drama stresses them out and they simply need a break - Coach Steven
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity Oh yes she blocked me a very long time ago and never bothered unblocking me. There was one time she unblocked me to send me a message but blocked me again quickly afterwards. Thank you so much Coach Steven. I just found yesterday to be strange. I was happy to see her of course but I felt like she heavily disliked me over the summer you know?
Being Blocked , Ignored Is Painful
Pain makes a person grow
Blocked doesn't mean that person doesn't love you anymore. Maybe she/he's angry or hurt. Being ignored is way worse.
People do deserve it. You probably took him/her for granted. As much as they gave you the world they won't hesitate to take it back
It’s the shock of not be desired anymore by the person you want or who use to desire you. It’s painful
Worse when she says that she never wanted you even though it’s clearly untrue
yes
When you désire your ownself without any one désire you thats it
To everyone out here.... Iam telling you ur way more worthy than u think💖💖💖💖 self love is the key... love urself and ur amazing 💖💖💖 ur unique be ego u r... trust me I don't know who u are or what u are... I just love u..... ur beautiful, amazing and awesome 😘 trust in urself💖 I love u all
It’s been 2 years not heard not one word from him, I forgaved him 🙏🏼
i wanna know the reason why he blocked me everywhere..its really painful..i want him back i still love him
I got block and I’m happy as hell, I was dealing with a Victim, I was talking to someone that didn’t have any dreams, goals or ambitions, they also did Drugs! I wanted to see my lover change for the better.....but I guess it was to much for them to handle.... so be happy, someone is coming that’s on your level that’s good enough for you and won’t block you but will talk to you.... be strong my ppl, try to smile and pray, forgive the person and ask God for your dream person 🙏🏽😇
How do you handle the block? Im in the same boat. We aren't exes just friends that could have been more. She was into drugs and started to see someone else. She lied about being with someone and I caught her in the lie, and confronted her and then I got blocked.
I keep thinking about her.
Got blocked by my ex for 3months now. Blocked as in everything. My crazy days of trying to stalk him are over.
But I keep seeing his friends posting videos of him. And I can't help it but miss him. Even got jealous at some point.
I miss him. I wish we could just sort everything out.
I have been blocked, and being in the military stationed overseas it is really hard. Her and I been together for 8 months I lost my cool and not even minutes later I was blocked on everything. It’s been 3 weeks since that day and the range of emotions I have went through in my spare time are really hard on me. Especially when I am far away not knowing what she’s doing. Just gonna go off grid and focus on me. If she comes back great, if not well I will do better for the next time. However, I do not wish this kind of pain and frustration on anyone it’s terrible and drives curiosity and frustration to its boiling point.
Hey Eddie K, thank you for sharing! It is important that someone in your position, stationed overseas, away from home, friends, and family, keep their head cool, calm, and collected. I highly suggest that you look into meditation in order to keep a clear mind and let go of the emotional pain and frustration currently clouding your mind. You need to focus on the things that you can control, not on wondering what she's doing. - Coach Adrian
Love Advice TV I’ve been meditating and I have erased my social media apps kinda went off grid. The only means of me reaching out to her if I choose to, is email which I have yet to get a reply from.....yes I’m guilty of reaching out I’ll be honest. I have goals that are keeping me busy and focused it’s just those times where my mind spools up the good times and it really digs in and really pushes on the sore wounds. I have accepted that it was my fault and I caused it.... I just don’t see how Someone could go to a great extent to cut me out over a outburst when I have dealt with her in the same situation, but I never blocked her though. Most of the time I’m fine the no contact and block is the killer because I like to talk about things out, I guess I just gotta wait it out.....
It sucks, looks like my ex is back with an ex that she cheated on. Hang in there, I'm a veteran who spent time overseas too.
My ex played hot and cold, so I tore into them and said exactly what was on my mind. The whole works: "Immature, coward, afraid of love, avoidant, you need help." That surprisingly didn't get me the block, but when I posted a meme about proper communication I expect in future relationships - that did the trick. I feel better now that I'm blocked to be honest, I finally have some freaking closure. I'm sure I'll hear from my ex months down the road (or even years). It's a shame, because it'll only take me a few more weeks to get over them. Sucks to suck.
did yall ever talk again?
I did the exact samething
He blocked me on everything for 5 weeks. I let it be but continued to make my social media pages public. At 5 weeks, he unblocked everything! I know he blocked me initially because I went crazy & text bombed him.
candy1apples How are things now? I’ve been blocked for 5 days.
@@إيمان-ل2ج only 5 days?
I got her pregnant and this happened to me..
I didnt, and he blocked me on eveything, I dk about email or phone, I have tried to make contact, it been almost 2weeks
Was together almost 3 years she blocked me on everything now just over a month ago I had to get in touch but still didn’t get any answer as to why. I don’t think I want her back anymore she’s hurt me deep and I thought we were together for ever I was about to propose to her 😢
How will my ex see that am better know if he blocked me everywhere 😔😂
I know lol
I blocked her on ALL social media. Best thing I ever did. She actually called me to attempt to get me back, like an adult. Social media is not the real world, get over it
Guyz remember if they blocked you they are a shallow person, and its good signal by the god!
I dumped my ex on new years because of communication , he was HORRIBLE at it. I had a moment and ended the relationship . I came to my senses and tried to repair only to find out im blocked full on. My mindset is ok fine whatever. People who block and ghost you aren't even worth your time . Focus on you and be the best version of yourself. Thats my mindset at least. Other than the communication issue we had a great connection and everything in common. After i found out im blocked and ghosted. I realized i do not want that from my partner. I need someone who is isn't quick to block and ghost when shit gets real.
did you ever hear from him again?
She blocked me months after NC. (She broke up with me). I never harassed her or desperately texted her or anything. Felt like a bad sting to my heart :/
seems either she was dying to reach out and did that to make a petty statement bro.
Any progress? Ideas on why they blocked you?
He blocked me on FB because I refused to allow and accept his disrespect because he continued posting on FB about his ex. He have mental issues. I’m glad he showed his true colors. I rather be with a full grown man who respects me and who’s over his ex and want to move forward and appreciates my value.
Boom... Same here
Similar situation except it was disrespect towards me for wanting sexual intimacy while not being in relationship anymore. I refused and now I'm blocked for the first time since we met. Throwing a massive tantrum because I didnt comply. He can sit in his own mess and stew.
He blocked me on instagram and facebook and I did nothing wrong. I posted things as usually nothing sad,dramatic or something like that...When he broke up with me he was like "I wanna keep talking with you", but I started the "no contact", never begged him to take me back, we didn't fight when he broke up with me, we had a nice conversation and I respected his decision.. I really don't understand why he did this..
And I swear it hurts, it is the most painful feeling in the world.
Yes, 😭😭😭😭😭
My ex blocked me on FB because he saw that my guy friend (who is gay) commented on a post and it appeared as we were flirting. My ex saw it and blocked me. I haven’t reached out because it’s not my fault that he misunderstood instead of asking me. But we weren’t on speaking terms for about a week after the breakup. He is extremely stubborn. I’m just giving him space. Any advice?
Grecia Medero i’m on the same boat!!!
Yes my advice is call me and give me a chance... lol I'm kidding
Leave his ass
Grecia Medero you should explain to him that the guy friend is gay
I blocked my ex on social media for cancelling our wedding without giving me a reason then disappearing for several months. Then he tried to re connect through a relative.No contact don’t work on me. I only lose the feelings more.
Can’t believe he did that
Oh My God
From my experience, someone willing to block you on everything (unless you are both very young) is not someone you want in your life. Accepting that they saved you by doing that might take you years to realize but I feel that one day you will see this as a good thing.
My ex blocked me 2 weeks ago and has shown no interest in my since. Help me
Ex just blocked me on insta and Facebook. We got into an argument when I was apologizing for basically lying and told me to have a nice life, she’s done :(
I am saving up for a session
Although I think its too late
Last time we spoke he told me to leave him alone and move on
I betrayed his trust in the worst way
Not only did I hurt him,I hurt myself
A year nearly its been and i still watch your videos with hope
I hope you're not still beating yourself up. You need to forgive yourself in order to let your light attract him - Coach Steven
Love Advice TV you have come to know me quite well 🙈haha
I love all of you guys
I cant show him my light as I never see him anymore but still your videos are a comfort and i thank you for that x
How are you now? How is your life?
@katy Xo89 I hope you’re well. I hope you’re thriving.
I got blocked on instagram but i didnt even do anything.. :(
Same
Same.... he blocked my on fb... i didn't do anything , we hung up the phone after je broke up witj biz phone, then instantly blocked me. Not sure if I am blocked on the phone or email, haven't tried to reach ,out i did message him on Twitter,.haha your the child I would pray for him jahha not good but , he was literally got off the phone with asking me when inwas going act like an adult
I was blocked on social media and I honestly don't know y... not sure if she's blocked my phone number, I text her my 1st drunk text last week and it was the 1 and only text, 7 weeks into no contact... wasn't rude or anything.. reason y being blocked didn't freak me out and I managed 7weeks without any form of contact was out of pure respect and love that i still have for her and always will...
Watching ur videos has also been a big help especially when I'm struggling and looking for answers... thanks team
Broke up with me Monday , blocked me , now Thursday and already with another girl after 3 years together
Claudia Draper same.. how’d it end up ? Has he contacted u?
Coach Steven i just love your energy 😊. My ex blocked me originally but unblocked me a month later ....
I gots to bring it, nicole! Just for you 😄 - Coach Steven
Love Advice TV you doing a great job , !! Keep bringing it !
Nicole Browne, your photo looks very attractive )
My ex block me on facebook and then she unblocked me after a month.. after i know that she unblocked me... well,, i Block her.. its Revenge Time baby !! 😆😂
Its been a week since she blocked me everywhere and it's all my fault.. weeks after she left me I wasn't blocked but my desperation and frustrating her made her block me everywhere... I feel so lost and empty... i really need her back in my life.
Go down on prayers also me its now three weeks my bf ended our relationship from just ablue,when i tried to ask and beg he blocked me everywhere....but i love him and im praying to God to restore my relationship
I told my ex I didn't want to be friends.... cause I love her and want to be with her so I said we shouldn't be friends. So she thought I was cutting ties, and she blocked me
Ty Jordan how are you now, ty?
Same thing happened to me I’m still blocked but then I started digging her though text haven’t heard from her at all
He blocked me because he thinks I’m spreading lies and rumors about him but I’m not. I told two people about the pain I was going through because of the end of the relationship, and one of them has been telling him lies.. that I’m telling a bunch of people that he cheated on me, which I never said to anyone, and just a bunch of stuff. So now he blocked me because of something I didn’t do, and didn’t give me a chance to defend myself.
My ex broke up with me last night and blocked me on everything I was begging and pleading for him not to go but he told me he was done and not ganna change his mind. We were arguing because hes in the army and he doesnt have alot off free time but when he does he wants to spend all of it with his friends which was absolutely fine I just didn't understand why he couldn't talk to me while he was with them since we barley have time together. My birthday is valentines day and it's coming up and the night before we broke up I mentioned that I felt like he was going to and he said I wouldnt do that to you it's no need to think that especially not before your birthday...and then he does it anyways. Idk what to do. I'm trying the no contact and hoping it works and he will want to try to work things out. I just need some advice on what to do and how to help get him back
My ex blocked me on all aspects. Because I called and texted many times begging her to take me back. It’s been 4 months. I don’t know what to do with my life.
Dont put your trust unto him,trust God who loves you and who can do everything,he can change your ex feelings,put God first
Nailed it. Didn’t deserve it understnad the break up. But every time I tried to understand, ask questions, or save the relationship, I was needy and overbearing. So she blocked me. It’s been 6 months. We work together and she’s on medical. She’s back at work in the next few weeks.
I’ve done a lot of personal transformation and have some work to still do. But others have noticed it already and I hope she will. If not there’s nothing more I can do and as hard as it is I know I’ll come out a better version of me.
aimesdaddy hey! Can you give me some tips for transforming myself..and becoming a better version of me. Its been a month he blocked me things are getting worst for me day by day. I cant even perform my routine work. I cant focus on anything, dont wanna continue my studies as well. Actually I caught him cheating on me, and I cant get over the thoughts of insecurities. I feel what the hell is wrong in me that he decided to betray me.
Nimrah Shakeel Only advice I can give is say your prayers and ask for guidance and patience. Focus on yourself and love yourself. As he see that you are doing better without him. He will eventually come back they always do. Then the ball is in your court. Hope this helps. I just got blocked too from everything. Literally sucks 🤦🏽♂️
I never did anything, didn't call, left him be, it's like he's deliberately tried to hurt me.
As you said-not on all cases. I didn’t exhibit ANY stalking behavior, etc. After a one year relationship-in fact I had just seen him-everything seemed normal. Then came the block. He met someone else. End of story. My point-as you said-not ALL people nut up or call, over-text, etc. I’m just bummed he couldn’t have said good-bye properly. After a year, please. I know people step away from a relationship but there’s a way to do it, you know?
What if you did absolutely nothing at all to the person and they still blocked you on everything. I mean you did nothing but just be their friend and love them and yet they blocked you and ghosted you? I wish there was a video on that topic….
I got blocked by 3 or 4 guys in the past. It is what it is. I don't let it get to me anymore.
Jeanie K did they unblocked you at some point?
Hi Coaches, my name is Gary and I reside in NY. I have been married for over 5yrs and about 14 months ago, my wife told me she wanted to leave the apt and us, as she had a lot of sadness, depression & emptiness inside that she kept quiet for over 7-8 months. I was devastated and have done everything you can think of, to try to save my marriage. She has been living in FLORIDA with a cousin, and she started blocking me many months ago but then removed it. However, a few months ago, she blocked me permanently on my phone. She also blocked me many months on social media. I have felt so hopes, depressed and overwhelmed that I can't seem to shift anything in her mind. To make matters worse, she has lived with a cousin who has definitely put opinions & comments in her head, which has made my wife go from this kind & caring person to a cold and disconnected person. What can I do?
I see all the mixed success and horror stories about this subject and yes I am a victim of this to. I will say this… if there’s a will then there is a way. Of your partner/ ex is really going through it in their life’s. Who’s to say a extra day or hour of fighting for that right person isn’t going to open up the line of communication? Not saying wait forever but a dedicated effort in being happy is all you can do.
His new girlfriend made him reblock me. When I added him back after he unblocked me.
Make sure you are updating your social media pages regardless of whether you're blocked or not. He will eventually unblock you. And if his new gf is "making" him do things, I doubt the relationship is going to last - Coach Steven
my crush blocked me last week on phone n social medias. its okay first then i started thinking about him, like what ive done, i just want to be friends only. i started depress, crying at night.", cant even sleep, lose my appetite (i lost my weight now), dont want to talk to ppl.i tried to reach him through my other acc. he just really mad at me n say goodbye. i was so depressed now n still. maybe he needs time idk hes the only one that can cure me now
It's foolhardy to believe that the only way you can be happy is if your crush reaches back out to you. You're placing all your happiness in someone else's hands and that is not smart nor attractive - Coach Steven
The one who broke you cannot heal you..
My boyfriend who just came back after no contact, blocked his rebound on everything because I asked him to prove to me he has no interest anymore. So he blocked her on everything and she’s furious!
That is not going to cut it. He has to show you over time that he's no longer involved with her. he can easily unblock her and start talking to her again. Be careful... - Coach Steven
Poor girl. She had been used too
This makes me angry lol
He blocked me when I found out that he cheated on me. He discredited me and I got so mad. He told the girl that he's been single for a year. That's why he already started dating immediately after breaking up with me.
After a month and a half my ex messaged me saying she misses me and wants to meet we met and it went well but the next day was Valentine’s Day and I thought sending a message or gift would look too keen and send her running. The night of valentines she blocks me on WhatsApp and Instagram was I wrong for not sending the message ? Back into no contact ?
Thank you coaches for making this video. I was blocked but not because I couldn't control my emotions but because he couldn't control his. After three days of our break up and being hurt by him he reached out, but with no acknowledgement of the hurt he did. I asked for space in a respectful way and he could not respect me. I started to ignore him, something he isn't use to and seeing that I was still hurt he blocked me. Also yes I do understand I had my faults in our mutual break up, but personally felt three days was too soon to act like nothing. I understand that I'll need to be patient to be unblocked and give us both time to refocus on our own personal selves. But let me be the first to say it isn't easy. I love this feeling of having more focus on me, but I do miss him terribly.
were you ever unblocked?
This is exactly what is going on with me. My ex blocked me from everywhere because I indeed reached out one too many times and did not respect boundaries I am paying attention this and hope for the best but I may have burned one bridge too many!
It hurtful
So my gf just broke up with me after 2 years. She was being distant and i was always unhappy because of it. She was giving me the vibe that she was letting go and every time i would confront her about it she would tell me to change the subject or just get really mad for asking if she happy with me. It lead to constant fighting over the same thing. sSo shoe blocked me on FB and stopped following my insta. She also deleted all my friends and family she had on her fb list. When i confrnted her about that she said she didnt want to be reminded of pics and posts to upset her more from the breakup. I know ppl do things and say mean things when they are super angry but what i dont understand is why delete my friends and fam. Is she trying to tell me that she wants a fresh start and doesnt want ties to me from them? Im so frustrated. im not blocked through the phone through text or calling. I wanna fight for her because i love her very much. I dont just wanna walk away. The thing thats really bothering me is her deleting my fam and friends giving me the vibe that shes done with me and wants a fresh start. Do i walk away or fight for her?
my ex agreed to not cut me off and continue having contact/trying to be friends and work things out. he has since dropped me a text saying we should meet this week or next. i replied i agreed we should take things slow. the next day i wished him to have a good day at work. he hasn’t replied my text or reached out again like he promised. should i be worried that he changed his mind?
No, you should not be worried, but no need to send him "have a good day at work texts" as if you two were still in a relationship. don't act like you're in a relationship if you're not officially in one. it scares men off - Coach Steven
Love Advice TV help, i panicked again and texted him that i missed him and not to forget what he told me. he’s pulling away again and saying he doesn’t want to talk to me cuz i’m making him feel pressured again. did i lose my chance again? please help. i can’t afford your coaching services :(
We broke up 15 days ago and then I went back to my home. Since we broke up I have been very hysterical and he was very indifferent to me,and I can't deny that we have done a lot of things to hurt each other.
Last night after the fights online he told me that if the war break out one day I still have his number and he blocked me on his social media. I sent him messages to his phone number for telling him that I still love him and cherish everything in the past between us, he just politely told me "same,be safe, good night". Now I feel my heart is empty, i really dont know what to do to get him back.
I had trust issues with my ex over a number of reasons in the past, which we were working through. We have been separated for months but still acted as a couple in many ways. Recently we got into a dispute and hadn't talked for a month. She would post little things I knew were directed at me an I would respond sometimes just as negative or positive. Last week I posted something wishing her happiness and love... Basically wishing her the best for love and happiness wherever she may be and with whoever she may be with and she blocked me. What did I do wrong?
I made a mistake right, he insulted and I was furious at him. I said I want a breakup, I realize my mistake after awhile apologized, bit he blocked me everywhere.
My ex blocked me on everything, it's been like that over a month or two, and apparently she is in a new relationship and kind of got into it fast after she left me. It's been about 4 months since she lets me and it's turned my world upside down, I've never felt like this about anybody and I know I'm not perfect hell I'm probably a nobody. Maybe I'm just weak but there's not a minute that goes by that she still not in my head. I've had many chances so far to get with someone else but I just don't want it if it's not her😢
I feel you bro
Love urself u will feel no pain
We broke up a month ago and got blocked on everything two weeks ago because I let my overthinking and assumptions get the best of me. I posted my assumptions saying “i hope you enjoy his company” on my Instagram story and showed immaturity. She blocked me because of it and even telling me she didn’t want to block me and it hurts her doing it but she did it. She said there’s no chance now. :(
did yall ever talk again?
I got blocked, even on fb and I didn’t even have him on fb lol. I lashed out though but it was coming because I felt like I was being ignored and brushed away and the pulling away thing was happening again after I gave him a second chance. I don’t regret saying what I did to him, but I miss talking to him. But whatever moving on forward. It’s for the better and my mental health. ✌🏻
Anna Sarniak it’s been 3 months since you commented this. Any progress? My ex and I split up. It was mutual, but it was my first relationship & she initiated no contact after she was the one who initiated most of the relationship in the first place. I feel used and sad
What if my exes new girlfriend is the reason why I’m blocked because it seems like he doesn’t wanna talk to me but she’s making up conversation talking to me that has nothing to do with our kids
Been 2 weeks NC she blocked me left me cheated on me and left me for another guy I begged and cried and feel like less now
If this is what happened between you two then you DEFINITELY need to give yourself a break from all this and take some time for yourself. Be selfish with your focus, time, and energy and horde it for your own benefit. Now is time for YOU - Coach Steven
Coach Steven is right. This ex cheated on you. Never suffer for someone who disrespected you like that, once a cheater, always a cheater. Time to focus on you!
Fruit hat with respect you just described someone thats put you through all that do you think that person is one that deserves your attention and love?, -
@@naye0369 I thought we were we've been a couple for 7 years when I think I am getting over her I go to bed and have vivid dreams about her
@@monp.4903 find a hobby, take a fun class, keep your mind busy with positive things and when you are happy you'll attract someone with your smile. 😘
Thabk you for the advise. My ex blocked me in all social media and contacts, I stopped trying to contact him more than month already. And i guess he didnt care with me anymore because he blocked me since we broke up which is 6 months now. Im still suffering for the heartbreak. I need your advice to convince me nkt to hope or should i hope that we will get back together.
It sounds like you need to find something that matters more to you than getting back with your ex. that will hopefully ease you out of this heartache - Coach Steven
You shouldn't hope to get back together. This alone makes you look like a stalker. Even if you don't try to reach out.
Well I was trying to protect her and want her of the dangers of something she doing then she said I was being controlling when I never told her to stop then she left and blocked me it just hurts how I was caring about her and she leaves me IDK what to do
*my ex had me blocked last week, I sent some cute / sexy photos just yesterday, and what do you know? I’m unblocked. Hahah sometimes men want a visual apology ❤️😭!*
How did you do that if your blocked
Your a youth
He blocked me after I dumped him, I was mad. Lol I was very mad because he’s making me feel hurt now. I just blocked him right back on social media. If he ever wants to unblock me again, I just won’t be there because he’s blocked in the same places he blocked me in. I’m good. Goodbye 👋🏽
My fiance broke up with me because she needed more income and wanted to move to Kansas when I agreed to move to Oklahoma. But when I said I didn't want to move to Kansas she texted me saying she couldn't do this anymore because she started to resent me for not wanting to move to Kansas. She had no concern of my feelings and being that far away from from my kids when she walked out on hers. What should I do because she blocked me on day one of the brake up.
My ex blocked me on everything but phone directly after the break up. I let him have that space, I only texted him twice after that to ask for a discussion.
A month after that last text, he called to tell me he was blocking me on phone.
I definitely don’t think I overstepped any boundaries, so it’s incredibly confusing.
For many years i thought i knew how to love someone until last week i was totally wrong.i had a session with coach samira and she dropped major knowledge on me and recommended a book called "the five languages of love",im not much of a bookworm but i burried myself into it.after reading half the book so far love is starting to make sense and i know how to treat someone and speak their love language.i feel so confident after reading each chapter knowing that this book is changing my thought process and ways to handel a situation with a loved on.my 30 days no contact ends on Thursday and im writing my letter to my ex with the help of a coach *i suck at writing btw😂🤣,but im ready to showcase the new me.the coaching session was the best thing i ever did to get my mojo back.... ps coaches pkease do a video on the five languages of love,people have to hear this
That book saved my parents marriage back when the book first came out and they have been going on 40 years I love that book but I didnt even think about until the breakup and I was watching coach Adrian video and he referred the book I've been in love with it ever since I found the audio on here
30 days no contact is not a magic number. There isn't a set time period for no contact. Writing a letter is a mistake. You were given terrible advice. jus sayin
Does being blocked everywhere by your ex have the same effect as the no contact?
Agon Berisha lol of course, im blocked by my ex. I dont know if its working for her. But it does work
I dint react, he blocked me because he was dating another girl
I didn’t do anything and I got blocked 😔 I was doing no contact two months and I tried to reach out and I’m blocked what the hell 🥺
I tried the no contact for 4 weeks and she kept blocking me and unblocking me everyday it hurts and miss her im trying to keep busy everyday i also wrote her a letter after a month of no contact what do i do
Is it still happening? She did that probably to get your attention. Like coach said, have a thick skin.
My ex unfollowed me on Twitter after I posted a picture of having dinner with another guy.
I thought he wouldn't care as he is in a new relationship for a month and we are just friends. He texted me, saying he hopes I'm having fun. I asked him if something's wrong - he didn't reply for three days now... What do I do now? Unfollow back? He knows I'm still having feelings for him... I really want him back, but his new girlfriend is in our way!
I hate selfish behavior like that. It's nothing but childish games on his end. He broke up with you, so you have every right to go out and date. He's acting like it's ok for him to date, but not you. Childish.
My ex broke up with me two weeks ago . And yesterday he deleted my contact so I no longer can see him on what’s app. I’m so sad
😞 I don’t even bother him or post anything . Idk why he did that
Things will get better!
All I did was delete all but 4 pictures on Instagram & she blocked me on everything & my number. She left me though, so why should that upset her? We work together some shifts too.
When she acts like a 5 year old child
I got blocked for no reason. I didn’t do anything - it’s funny he wants to be friends in real life but keep me blocked on social media.
What is the meaning of this? >She kept me blocked for 45 days or so and then unblocked me and we talked on the phone but then she again blocked me everywhere. In between these 45 days I was making different profiles just to explain everything and to apologize for my mistakes.
There was a guy who block me. Next thing i know months down, his gf/wife said she block me on his company's fb/ig page. That guy was just speaking to me like at start of liking me only, not like we were in a relationship. So this could be the reason.
Coach Adrian's microphone sounds a little off
We've been experiencing sound issues on some of our videos. We're working on improvements as we hone our craft and constantly improve the quality of our content :) - Coach Steven
Great observation, 🤦🏽♂️
My ex cheated on me and now he blocked me everywhere!! MY 3YRS RELATIONSHIP WON BY 3 MONTH DATING!! DID I DO SOMETHING WORNG
sabrina kim no sadly ppl are just asshole :(
Same case here. 😔
no she was chosen double standard person u deserve far better good luck
What if the ex is the one who did something wrong and then blocked me everywhere? Shes a psycho
Still NC... it's been since Oct 1st 2018 when all I got was a text from her saying "What Do You Want?" I replied with "Its great to hear from you, and that I wanna see you.", Then nothing since, though I was dumped in June 2018, then blocked...
She said in June she was moving far away after dumping me, and she tried friend zoning me, but I said "I'm not interested in being just friends", and said she was getting married, but from what I understand, she still lives local. - Is it possible she checks on me through other FB pages?
A few people including a relative said they think it's all a lie.
I get anonymous friend requests and messages from women I don't know. Probably fake accounts.
Is she testing me?
It's now 83 days...
Now what?
I think we had thousands of breakup,he use to block me unblock me on whtsapp.Then when I said to one of our common friend to ask him to block me everywhere.How shockingly he blocked me everywhere.I cried entire night.Pls guide me pls somewhere I still hope
I need help... it’s been two months since she broke up with me, and recently, I had gone to two of my ex’s basketball games she told me I have to stop and it’s creepy. That I’m being stalker like and that she needs me out of her life... I never meant to be that way and all I wanted to do was support her... her parents don’t like me either and I just I want to try and show them both how much I care but it just made things worse... But Monday when we had talked she had found out that I went to her last game, not the most recent one. She had told me she wish she would’ve seen me, and that she doesn’t want me out of her life completely, that we could even call when she got her phone back from being grounded. She isn’t supposed to talk to me so when she unblocked me Monday it was because she had her phone during the day. But that night she had to block me again because her parents get her phone and she’s not supposed to talk to me... she never unblocked me until after her recent game that I went to to tell me all those things about how she wants me out of her life and that I’m going to be blocked for a while, and that I’m stalker like. 😞but even last week she had told me that she missed me and would have the biggest smile when she saw me...I love her so much... Im scared she will never unblock me for me to get the chance to re attract her... Will I be able to get her back? I really need help on what to do.
My ex blocked me every where after I told him I’m hurt because I found out that he lied to me for having Facebook and I was blocked I told him we should go our separate way, but I didn’t mean to breakup with him.it’s been three week no contact , five days after blocking me I found him on online dating.I don’t know how to reach to him!! Any suggestions?
🙂 I wanted him to block me. He must move on. I know how to act to get blocked. Yes, it was hurtful to me too,but he deserves someone who can love him like he needs. I can't do that. 🌸
Thank you dear coach, I will maintain my grace and dignity!!! 😢
We've blocked eachother both. After an arguement recently , I was called a selfish monster (not true spoiled this woman did everything for her) then blocked on everything. Few days went by no contact, in a last ditch effort , tried to reconcile after a few heart-felt messages to her on her Twitter. Still got radio silence. That was my ticket out the door. I will not try anymore. She will regret it. We were together a long time and best friends. I'm confident she will come back to me. I'm not holding my breath nor shedding any tears. I'm guessing down the road , all of this will result in a passionate night filled with heavy breathing with one another. Dont mean to be graphic but just being honest. I spoke my peace with her in those few messages and bowed out. My very last message to her was , "our relationship was Faith, love , understanding and empathy. Know I fought till the end on both of our behalfs." Let that rest on her mind knowing i cared about her and as a man walked away while I'm living my life bettering myself.
Anything yet?
Love your guys kind heart to helping others 😘😘😘
What if she pulled a gun on me and said don't ever come around here again? What's my next step?
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My ex just deleted me off Facebook an hour ago. She was talking with my best friend last night (he was out drinking) and she kept asking him about his love life/flirting with him which made him uncomfortable (he is loyal). She told him she was annoyed that she thought im avoiding her (when ive been busy/self improvement post no contact phase when we broke up in october etc) and she deleted him off facebook, and then me. Do i lose hope in getting her back?
Nearly a month and the end of no contact and no sign of him unblocking me😭 I feel like there is no hope anymore
iqraa baig just ignore my ex block me from everywhere about 2 month just show hem you change and happy even with out hem
There is no "end" of no contact. When someone makes the decision to remove you from their life you do not contact them ever again for any reason. Your pursuit of them is over FOREVEVER. If they think about you they will reach out. At that time you simply say, "It's great to hear from you. I would love to get together. Let me know when you're free." When they tell you, make a date and go have fun. Don't bring up things and have serious discussions. Just have fun. At this point YOU STILL DO NOT CONTACT THEM!!! Remember, your pursuit of them is over forever! They must do 100% of the initiation at that point. They must reach out to you 100% of the time. Every time they do you simply make a date. If and when they bring up getting back into an actual relationship and you actually do you can then begin to initiate some contact with them but only then; after you are back together. Move on with your life. If they contact you great. If not you have your answer. Any other advice is pure hogwash. Good luck to you
I got blocked on social media a month after getting dumped, following posting a photo of myself with a female friend (whom she was jealous of for no reason despite me telling her nothing is happening between us) and a few friends on a night out. NC for over a month now and get no reply. I don’t get it as she’s the one who dumped me a month prior to blocking me. She’s had photos of her and her guy friends even before we split up. I think she’s childish to possibly even suggest that it was my fault. I’m frustrated because I felt discarded and feel that this is unfair. What are you thoughts, coaches?
If your gf is jealous of one of your female friends, then introduce that female friend to your gf and prove to her that you two are only friends and that she is no threat. It should be no problem if nothing is truly going on between you and that friend - Coach Steven
Thank you for your reply Coach Steven. She already knew her from before, and I’ve given my ex no reason to be jealous of her, although she noted that this other girl has been blatantly flirting with me. I have declined this girl’s advances because I knew my ex was jealous. But to still be jealous even after dumping me? I don’t get it.
My ex has spoken to her and have cleared the air between themselves but I’ve still got no contact from her at all. I don’t know if she’s adamant to remain this way, or is just waiting for me to reach out again. I sent her a text and letter (may have been too soon) a few days post-blocking explaining that there was no reason to be jealous about it. I’m more confused than frustrated to be honest with you!
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there is a religion problem in our relationship and she lost feeling for me. after 3 weeks i texted to her that i changed my religion before a month and i dont want to scare you by saying on that time and asked her would you like to reconsider our relationship. but she doesnt responding to it she just says i will look into it later for straight 3 days. and she doesnt even seen my last text i sent and muted all my story and post but not blocked yet. yeah i asked many time to answer it. i never contacted her its been 4 days. she hasnt seen or replied.
i just asked her will it going to work or not anything is fine but she not saying anything
what should i do now coach
my relationship was so painful for me that I broke up and I change my FB no whattsap what so ever, change my mail, and I feel it was the most healthy thing I did, Beleive my Im fine!!! Blessing guys, tks always
I have blocked him: he broke up with me and he has found someone else. I don’t see any point in keeping in touch. He wanted the relationship over, I give him what he wants.
Did you make this video for me?
He blocked me I believe because his and my mutual friend invited me over to allow me to talk his ear off and watch a show because I was sad and wanted to talk about the situation of my ex leaving me and dating a coworker. So how do I let him know I’m
Not interested in his friend. He didn’t unfollow me right away when he found out, I think his new girlfriend made him.
Will I ever in life hear from her again? It's been 2 months already
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Manolo19990 Pluas honestly no one will know only she does or her best friend :/
@@weebkawi1444 I doubt it. It appears as if I'm dead to her o well.
My husband of five years abandoned me without saying a word and blocked me everywhere
Hello coaches. My name is Oscar and I've commented on many of your videos in the past but haven't felt compelled to watch them as religiously as before because I had given up. I've said this before but my ex told me over the summer that she "officially wanted me out of her life". We never talked after that. But recently on Saturday, I had reached out and she actually responded. Fast forward to yesterday and we actually hungout together. I was very confused but tried not to think much about it. We studied at the library together and actually spent time in my room until I took her back home at 2 am. Nothing happened. We talked and joked around like old times and it was as if nothing had ever happened. I've been in such a good mood lately and thought this was weird when it all happened.
Also, yes she has blocked me on everything as well.
She still has you blocked on everything, even after your recent reconnection? - Coach Steven
Well this is good news, no? Congrats! As i've told numerous people in the comments section before, sometimes the dust just needs to settle in order for a person to want to reach back out. the relationship drama stresses them out and they simply need a break - Coach Steven
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity Oh yes she blocked me a very long time ago and never bothered unblocking me. There was one time she unblocked me to send me a message but blocked me again quickly afterwards. Thank you so much Coach Steven. I just found yesterday to be strange. I was happy to see her of course but I felt like she heavily disliked me over the summer you know?