How To Never Get Played (Pep Talk)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ธ.ค. 2023
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Love this video. You're right 100%. Chasing guys IS embarrassing and if you're chasing a guy, you're disrespecting yourself.
Hey Lumma, I honestly cannot thank you enough for making these videos. They’ve helped me alot from moving on, healing and building the confidence. Please don’t stop making these videos because there are some messages on your videos that somehow relates abd help people. Your break up video honestly saved me from giving up on love, and I am so glad I came across your channel. Keep doing you!!❤
I know you have more of a female audience, but I love that I can still watch these videos and they really change my life, thank you so much for the time you take to help us learn and grow.
A dilemma that I seem to have been facing these last couple of years whilst dating is that when I seem to find good men and go on calm peaceful dates with calm calls and just overall a calm person, I seem to get really bored no matter how attractive they are and feel uninterested. However, the ugly rude fukboy who’s good with the chat but barely giving me any time effort or energy seems to grab my attention more. I then get so focused on these men rather than the calm ones and end up in a toxic cycle of me unintentionally chasing for validation and end up hurt as always. I feel like this stems from my broken relationship with my father which gave me a fuked mindset of always feelin the need to seek validation as I never recievd any. But point being I need advice on how to change this mindset and be more in my calm feminine energy and attract rather than chase cause I literally feel like the bums u describe in ur videos😭🤣. Love u girl ur videos r always top tier!! Also please don’t mention my name or anything xxxxx
Girl this is another instant classic! Thank you for all the effort you put into these videos ❤
Lumma honestly I love these types of videos. I have been following your channel for almost 2.5 years now and you seriously have such a bright aura about yourself. you are so uplifting and always know what to say, literally the reassurance we all need you give. So proud of you for staying positive and being the most honest with us and giving the top tier advice. MUCH MUCH love and respect for you, you inspire me to keep going despite being in a dark moment right now in my life, but nonetheless we move forward. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for being that strength.
Thank you sm lumma. You and the wizardliz give me so much confidence and made me have self love n respect
“Always watch what somebody is doing rather than what they say
*”Always trust ur gut”*
This is so so true.
The 2nd time Ive spoken to this guy, I immediately saw inconsistencies in his words. But i let it slide. Ghosted me for 4 days. Apologized and I was so done with him but he called and I was caught off guard so I gave him a chance. Said he would call. He didnt. Next day he said “ u deserve better” like what? Im not even into you but why r u saying? I got sick to my stomach. Hahaha girls trust trust trust ur guts. Its there telling u something for a very valid reason.
Lumma you are the most authentic youtube.
Love the set up and the hair is given girl . Classic and just being yourself.
Love all your pep talks .
Giirl, you look so happy and getting prettier too. ❤❤❤ You have come so far from the first vid I watched from you. So proud of you queen! 👑🔥
Love your pep talks. They always come at the right time :)
OKAY HAIR!!! i love these uplifting videos. i love seeing how much youre growing in your content filming from your room to the studio and talking about breakups to confidence! i love it and living for it
i also have a question!! when do you think is a right time to date after a break up?
I love your kindness. I aspire to be that kind of person.
Girl I literally had watched your pep talks from starting .IT IS SO GOOD, like I literally waits for your pep talks..
It's like Lumma is saying if you stay in the same mindset and you're not letting go of what's holding you back you stay stuck, that's why a lot of people continue to get played they don't change that mentality. Once you focus on you and your goals like fitness or a new job your life shifts and you start to feel better about yourself :).
Your videos are a lot more helpful than you think girl 😭😭😭 pls don’t stop making them
Lumma, the sound of your voice deeply relaxed me! Thank you!
Think about publish an Audiobook!
You are beatiful and inspiring Lumma ! I love you you have been so helpfull with your videos my whole 2023 thank you!
Love how confident you are. Amazing pep talk and set up, very lovely.
I like Luma so much, the way she speaks, she looks very smart. Everything shares on youtube has a big help to everybody.
I read this video as ‘How to never get paid’ and thought “oh girl, don't you worry, I've already got this!”
LMAOOOOOOO
i've been played a lot this week and this was the pep talk I was waiting on ily lumma
Thank you queen, your pep talks make my day ❤️
Can we all agree please that Luma is the sweetest person on this platform ❤
Omg girl I moved to Melbourne from the states a year ago ♥️ have made a beautiful circle of high value sisters. I assumed you were in the states! Thank you for this message 🙏🏼🔥 pumped me up on my walk today.
Omg i love this I needed this at this time why is it that some of us know it very well but we choose to not love ourselves enough to listen to ourselves because me!!! I’m changing that one day at a time
Hi, Lumma! Please talk about healing your inner child and how to be secured with yourself. (Btw, I really love listening to your videos! Your voice is so calming 🫣).
Girl your shoutout and appreciation for your man really is chef's kiss.... Something that we girls don't do more often❤
Can I just say that you're the best person I've ever meet. Im soo glad I found when I'm 17(I turned 18 2 months ago❤)
I wish all the luck and plsss keep doing these ❤
literally the big sister advice I always needed 💖
bro you and her actually look like sisters lol
Lumma! Girl I love your videos, and you've helped me out so much so first of all I just wanted to thank you for that. Here's my question: You're always talking about providing for ourselves and taking care of ourselves first, but how do you validate yourself? I struggle a lot with seeking validation from men, and I don't want to do that anymore. But it's hard! Just any advice on that, and on finding that from within ME would be so great. Thanks! 💛
Also I had to edit this and say that I LOVE the dark hair look on you, it totally brings out your eyes
Thank you so much for your advice! The timing of this video is perfect, especially today I needed to hear your pep talk. I recently dated a guy and I felt a strong connection. It was like I found the right man after my last relationship 5 month ago. We shared same interests and I was fascinated by him and his character. But my gut feeling said something different. I constantly felt insecure and it was more that I admired him than that I thought that I was the catch for him. Its true what you say. I think he recognised that I was insecure and ghosted me after the third date although it went perfectly fine and we had a good conversation. Now I am sitting here, reflecting about myself and am really happy to know that it didn't worked out. Thats my lesson I have to learn, to find stability and happiness within myself and not from the circumstances around me or a guy. Its really unattractive for a guy to see that you as a woman need a man for your own happiness. And if a guy finds you attractive believe me you will know and there will be no irritation whatsoever. If you are uncertain about how he feels about you he is not into you. Its as simple as it is.
thank u lumna, i need this video. Ur like a big sis to me i so love uuuu!!!
I love your videos. Keep up the good work.❤
Girl I can listen to you all day!
lumma literally love u so much
u are such a girl boss HAHA and it inspires me to be one as well
could u speak on what we should do if u see one of ur friends settling, chasing and doing the most for a guy who has clearly lost feelings.
love from nz
You're a gem ❤Love you Lumma
I love youuu! You make me so proud of myself. I learned a lot from you. I can't thank you enough. I loved all your videos, it helped me a lot. Coz right now, its been a month since my boyfriend and I broke up. He was my first bf. It really hurts bc i thought he is the one but he fvckin left me. I gave everything I can to support him, he still owes me money like 100k but that's okay. I just can't believe that he easily give up on our relationship. I even question my self if I am not good enough.
You have a healing and such a radiant aura 😘😘love to see your videos , beautiful and smart 💖 i wish you happiness and love
Love the Christmas setup ❤
Your pep talks are my favourite
I’m happy you’re posting more in studios
You just confirm my logic again and aging bro, I love it❤
You should start a podcast girl you’re amazing ❤️❤️
YOU NEED A PODCAST!! I would listen to it every week!! 🥰🫶🏼
Lumma, do you believe in right person, wrong time? I let a great guy go because of my parents and because he’s slightly younger than me… I felt it was the best decision for us. It’s been over a year, and he continues to check in on me every now and then.
Hey Lumma, love your videos❤ty
Missed you and amazing video ❤️❤️
I lavv your pep talks!! x
You are literally so gorgeous 💚
Hey Lumma, i love ur new setup! it looks so professional
you are soooo pretty girl😭😭🔥🔥 like my icon fr
the mic quality is stunning
Omg I thought you were someone else 😮you darkened your hair !! ❤ always pretty Luma
You're 100% right l love you !!!!!💕
love this!
Hi lumma I just want to tell you that I created a dossier in my own phone witch I called lumma aziz your videos has changed my life completely thank you very very very much and I love you so much ❤ ♥ ❤
Love this video 💖
Please make a video about self-confidence
question for your next video : are you a nostalgic person ? if yes how do you deal with it, specially with a breakup ? help a girl out lol (also I love your videos girl)
Hey Lumma, I would REALLY like your insight in my situation with this guy. He got out of a 7 year marriage where his ex left him, I definitely think he was still affected when we were together, had even said he had walls built up, but everything else was so perfect, caring, considerate, funny and sensual. We broke up and he hasn’t talked to me or reached out, but I’ve also been getting BIG signs that he is the right person but wrong timing, like obvious signs from higher power, i definitely feel like the care is still there even from a distance and I’m evolving into someone he won’t even recognize by his birthday in March, which is when I plan to reach out and check on him, should I?
No. You should not.
Hey Lumma... Love the background setting❤️😊I love your videos they help me alot..
I wanted advice on this so look i like this guy he lives far but same city his' caring checks up one me and doesn't make fake promises... But am scare cause most of my long distance relationships never really work out so any advice...
hey lumma i love you so much
Hey Lumma , First of All thank you for making these videos. I've been following you since my last breakup 4 months ago. I've got so much insight from you Big Sis ❤ So I started to going out alone, and i felt so awkward and intimidating , i don't know why 😣 can you give me some advice to be more confident when going out alone because i'm in my self love journey now. tysm ❤ sorry for my english
How are you after your breakup?
My question is: how do I let go of hope after a divorce ? It’s been 7 months and I miss him so much.
Hey Lumma could you give us some advice on doing long distance relationships?
“This isn’t make a wish” PERIOD!!🤣
Feel like when I'm on uni break, I always grow so much and level up in so many aspects of my life. But when I return for the next trimester, I feel stagnant and sometimes feel like I'm backpedaling a little. What would be your advice to keep momentum? I guess you could call it. Like uni hinders my growth and takes so much of my time away from my goals. Like, I know I'm investing in my future, however, it can feel unfulfilling at times because of the time that takes away from things I want to do and places I want to go.
my question is how do you practice detachment?
I like it more when you film in your house. It’s more comforting.
What advice would you give someone when they’re entering adulthood and trying to find their footing to become a stably grounded person? Aka a young woman trying to build her dreams
Hey. What if your gut tells you to leave your guy even when he is doing everything right... I have these pangs that tell me to leave the boy, but then I think back that he has does nothing wrong to deserve such a feeling... how to explain this feeling and make it go
Shout out to my mannnnnnnnn : Gabriel. I listened to you and found the best partner ever.
lumma be giving sprinkle sprinkle
Hey Lumma, just wanna say I admire you so much❤ I recently started my own podcast also on self awareness and growth🎉 I was wondering, what are some tips for feeling confident in your words and that you bring something special to the table? Thanks xx
omg what's your podcast? now I wanna listen to it! I've always wanted to be one of someone's original supporters!!! 💛
@@itsbettyjohnson it’s Sincerely,Self, you’re amazing 🤍🤍🤍
This video is made for me
Question!
My fiancé is soo sweet and he pays for everything when we go out and stuff and plans things but I sometimes wish he was a bit more chivalrous like hold the door for me. I don’t wanna be dramatic and not grateful but I’m wondering how u would go about it! Thank you!
That’s bare minimum I’m so sorry… but that sounds like settling. You shouldn’t have to ask him to hold your door or buy you flowers. Men know women want these things. It sounds like he just doesn’t care.
How do I stop wishing for a text from him ?
Can you please teach me how to be okay with my bf having female besties.
Hi Lumma, the volume on this video is very low.
Lumma thank you so much for being here （＾ν＾）
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 i love u
15:50 let him be someone else’s disappointment
These bums 🤣🤣 love it
This is my first time watching your video but i don't wanna be the negative person but the caption in your video and the actual video is not related, I feel that way. So , what i wanted I didn't got it. But I got a message about manifesting and cutting of people
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Asmr for some seconds when they ate cakes 😂
Nobody does a pep talk like Liz ❤
yikes
I literally came to find you again on TH-cam and I’m so glad I did, I just got broken up with and you just popped in my mind and remembered you made a break up video years ago and I needed it, thank you 🩷
You should start a podcast for real. Your advice is so good and your voice is kinda soothing 😂🩷 i already feel better about myself, love you so much and have been following you since your breakup. Helped me a lot too