ASKING MY DAD AWKWARD GAY QUESTIONS
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You are so lucky to have such a great Dad. I'm 77. As the youngest son of seven, my Dad would tease my brothers telling them he loved me the most. As a kid and teenager he was always there for me, never missed my events, at every baseball/basketball game cheering me on. When I was 20 I told my Dad I was gay. I didn't want to go through life hiding it from him. He walked away and never spoke to me again. I ran into a childhood neighbor in 1969 who told me he passed away in 1965.. He never answered my birthday or Christmas cards sent year after year. Same with my 6 brothers, all of whom have passed away now, but I never once received a birthday, Christmas card, or phone call from any of them. They never acknowledged or met their nephews (my husband and I had (fraternal) twin sons via surrogacy in 1990.) My boys never met their grandfather. Today my boys are 37 and have given me 4 wonderful grandsons. Hug your Dad. Tell him every day how much you love him.
I can't imagine the sense of sadness and betrayal you must have felt when those you love most, didn't accept you for who you are. But you really could have done nothing. It certainly wouldn't have been worth concealing yourself & lying your entire life. And if they could only accept you if you adhered to their conceptualization of a 'perfect' son or brother, based on the ignorant beliefs they inherited, they failed themselves. Because they allowed that to get in the way of a strong relationship. One fueled by unconditional love. You can only control how you react to others, and you simply chose to keep your integrity. If anything, I find that couragious.
It’s a bittersweet story because ,in the end, you did find your happiness, but it sucks that your family never seemed to realize and/or want that happiness for you. I’m proud of you for staying true to yourself. Also, as a 19 y/o gay guy, your story gives me so much inspiration and hope that one day I’ll grow old and have kids and maybe grandchildren as well ❤
Wow! Im so sorry your family did that but also so happy you had a family of your own. Thanks for sharing this.
I am so sorry you went through that. They lost out big time. May you and your family know healing, peace, and joy.
At first I thought this was a really heartbreaking story, but then I realized that given the kind of people they must have been you were probably better off without them.
You're dad is the kind of man every gay kid deserves.
He's the kind of dad *EVERY* kid deserves.
Yeah...see him 20 years ago, before it was ok to be gay. Trust me, I lived back then. He would have been one of the homophobes, I had to put up with in school and society, I guarantee you. Hes just accepting- because his son is now gay. Believe me, the LGBTQ+ community wasnt a thing back then, anyone "different" was shunned and treated like a nasty disease. Dont be fooled, once a phobic always a phobic.
Unfortunately his brother (my uncle) passed away when I was young. I wish I got to meet him when I was older ❤
That’s honestly very sad. I wish I would have had a gay relative that I can get to know and learn from. I’ve made up my mind that incase any of my nieces or nephews come out I will be there to support them ❤
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@@jameseb89 That’s very kind.
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I've been waiting for some of my nieces and nephews, but I guess not.
My sister's ex husband had a gay twin brother. We all loved and accepted Mike too. I never had the courage to come out although I know most suspected I was gay. I love your content/videos. You are an inspiration dude!!
Your dad handled those questions like a true loving, understanding parent. Love how your family supports you 100%. Let's see more family videos, maybe your older brother?
Your dad: “You knew he was gay?!”
Your mom: “I suspected it”
Love these Q&As with your family! 😂❤
Your dad is a good sport to participate in this with you! I great seeing the support he has for you.
I'm in my sixties now. Your father is how I wanted my father to be. Unfortunately that wasn't so. My father disowned me when i came out. He also told my straight brother's to forget about me. I was deeply hurt. But he made a choice, one that my mother stood by him on. I have navigated my life up the present, on my own. I have been independent, which I'm proud of. I accepted myself, and have been true to myself. I haven't lived a lie like some gay men do, by pretending to be straight. My life today is very different than it used to be. I don't live the gay lifestyle anymore, and have no interest in it. I'm at peace. I have been brutally violated in the past in a gay hate crime. I keep to myself, and i am wary of who i associate with.
I'm so sorry. Your story brings tears and breaks my heart. I'd love to be your friend if you lived in my city. Peace brother. ✌
@@travisgrant5608 Thank you. It was hard. But I understand why my father did what he did. He thought that homosexuality was a perversion. One my straight brothers contacted me years ago , and told me what my father had said about me. And it wasn't good. He was ashamed to have a gay son. But I have lived my life as I am. I'm not ashamed to be gay.
@@carltwidle9046 sending you big hugs and love❤️
@@justmeok3609 Thanks, and all the best to you.
How lucky and wonderful it is to live as a gay person today. Being gay isn't a lifestyle, i.e. a 'choice'. No one would choose to be something that is ridiculed, has less rights, costs more, and is not accepted by one's peers. If being gay were a choice, most gay people would simply choose to be heterosexual. As Chris' Dad said, he worries more about his gay son than he does his straight sons, and the violence you've suffered is evidence of that. My husband and I had a wonderful life together. He has since passed away, but I cherish every day that I am still alive. I don't live a flamboyant screaming queen way of life. In reality, that conduct is a small percentage of the gay community and growing smaller with every generation. I'm rarely recognized as being gay by the general public. OTOH, I am very proud to be a gay man.
One thing that stood out to me is how much love your dad has for his brother.. and I love that..❤
You can see that love the way he looks at Chris.
This man is a gem. Please take good care of him. He’s such an amazing father.
You're VERY fortunate to have two very cool parents, I hope you let them know how much you appreciate them and treasure their support/ positivity. Good interview. :)
Your dad is a cool guy. Other videos show that your whole family is cool too. You are lucky to have them! Be careful - they might start making their own videos to compete with you! 🤣
I’m 54. My dad died 9 years ago. Never take it for granted that you can talk to your dad about this. My dad knew I was gay and both my parents were fine with it as long as I didn’t talk with them about it. There was no shame. I was able to have my boyfriend in front of them - just don’t ask don’t tell, I suppose was the unwritten rule. While my father and I were close we never were as close as you and your dad. Always appreciate how open and honest about yourself you can be with him. Many of us were not as fortunate.
I'm 67 and my family said they didn't want anyone knowing we had
a queer in the family. I made my own way, and just forgot about them.
@@geofffikar3417 How bloody, bloody awful. I'm sorry. Raymond
As for this video, I can’t wait to hear this, I think it’s cool your family is open to talking openly!
Hi Chris. My Dad is Gay and I am as well. This discussion between you and your father is awesome! It’s the acceptance that both my father and mother had with me. ❤️🌈 Thank you for them, and my parents! My father is also Gay. And made a life with my Mother mutually agreeing to bring me up before telling their epic story in the 80’s/90’s. They are great friends. Hope we can connect. I’ll share my story. It’s long, but epic because of my parents. ❤
Kinda wanna know more about your dad brother, maybe someday you make a video with him?
Anyway, you have such a cool parents that everyone wants 🥲
Yours is a true loving family, nice to see in these crazy times. Love your content. So from the heart, with humour andvoh my goodness your smile is amazing. ❤️
As a father, I am so happy to see the love and support your dad has for you. No one should even consider becoming a parent unless they are committed to supporting and loving their children unconditionally! Cherish the relationship you have with your parents because so many LGBTQ+ children are not so fortunate. ❤❤🏳️🌈❤❤
Dad is such a sweetheart!!! Definitely he worries about all his boys. Looks like you got your beautiful eyes from him. I'm 69 y/o together 40 years. Never did come out to my parents, but they loved my husband more than me. There just was never a need to discuss it. my mother told him that he never played with me when I was little. Mom took me out to buy boy toys LOL. So then i played trucks, trains, built stuff, sewed doll clothes, put on heels and nylons, knit. They were confused! Loved them so much and miss them. BTW I'm a physician and came out in medical school in the 70's.
You are blessed with a wonderful dad...make sure you show him some love for how understanding, and wise the fella is...your mom is cool too....
Your Dad is such a real guy and it's obvious he adores you. Thanks for doing this one.
Wonderful Dad there Chris, and I echo many others here that you are so lucky to have such a great dad. Sadly I fell out with my Dad but then you can't sometimes change people. Keep up the great content 😘
Chris, I continue to appreciate you and all of the good in you. Give your dad a big hug for all of us.
I would like your father and mother for being so honest to the audience, and loving and supporting and loving to all your sons. As someone who had to tell my mom and dad less than one year before dad's death, we had so little time to reconcile all the shocks of having a gay son.
I love this Q&A with your Dad and your Mom watching. I am 70 and came out to my family when I was 21. My brother didn't care and said he suspected, neither of my parents had suspected. My Dad was uncomfortable to say the least and said I was young and just experimenting, he and I never spoke about it again. I loved and respected him because he always treated me and my boyfriends/partners well. I knew he was aware of my truth so I never felt the need to talk with him again about being gay. My Mom did not handle the news well at first but eventually came around. I finally found my life partner when I was middle aged. My parents welcomed him into their home for holidays and many family meals. My Dad is gone now as is my wonderful life partner. Enjoy your boyfriend and loving family, the years pass by so quickly. I love your videos!😍👍
ugh this is so sad
I came out at 28 in 2020 now I'm 31 my brother knew and cousins and aunt and uncles knew but not my dad :( it's hard because my dad Is homophobic
Great Q&A. Your Dad is chill and cool. Some parents (my father for example) do take coming out badly. Took my Dad a long, long time (years) to come around to accept me as his gay son. (Fear of the unknown, fear of what his friend's would think, there's a lot to that dynamic .... ). When he finally met my partner he talked with him non-stop and now always looks for him when we visit.
I think he is very close to his brother. Every other question he is talking about his brother. ☺️
Sounds like he passed
I love your parents and your brothers being in your videos. Chris was so cute when he broke his leg ❤👍Nice to see you got sponsored.
Chris I can5 believe how cool your Dad is ..his open mindedness is award winning 🏅 love him ❤️
Agreed 👍
You are so fortunate Chris to have such a cool, caring and loving father. In fact your entire family is awesome! 👍🤗💞
So funny. You dad is just so cool. We all need a dad as laidback & understanding as him🫶
At 6.37 when your dad says "very much a bummer", made me chuckle. A slang word for being gay when I was growing up was that bummer meant a gay kid, so it is quite sweet to hear that from your dad.
You have great supportive family and wish that every person had that x
Your dad is cool! You are very fortunate to have your family.
what a gift to be able to talk like this with your family. i wish i had been born later sometimes
please do more with your dad. that was wonderful. he seems so happy and such a good sport.
Chris, your dad is awesome. You are the luckiest. 😊
The kid is just adorable, smart, sensitive, thoughtful ad loving , a credit to his loving family
You have such cool parents, your dad rocks
Your dad is very cool. You won the dad Lotto. Cheers.
You have the best Dad! What a funny, articulate guy!
awehh chris u have ur dad’s smile!
0:50, the supervisor
You have an incredible Dad❣️ You are very lucky‼️
Smart Dad! And kind, love is great!
your dad is amazing!
Blessings to your family 👏
Next video: Q&A - "Who knows me better? My dad or my daddy (bf)?
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Your dad is so awesome 💗 love to all your family 👪 ❤️ I could never sit down with my Daddy and ask any questions especially these questions 😲 he's in his 70s and we've always avoided awkward things. He knows about me but we don't talk about it. Stay well 💗
Love it!!!! it's so heartwarming :) I even almost cried...
Thank..what a great father you have.. happy new yearxx
My husband and I meet when I was 28 and he was 17. We have been together since 2008 and have 1 adored son. We are a rarity in the gay world.
Love your Dad! My daughter is gay, she's 28 now and came out to us in middle school, she was so worried that we would not be happy about it, and I was like, I kind of knew your were, but didn't want to tell you before you told me. lol. Parents, support your kids no matter who they are, gay, straight, trans, etc.
You are so lucky to have such supporting parents 🥹 happy for you
Must be nice to have a dad that doesn't think "the devil has gotten into you."
I hope that these days it's much easier to come out to your family. Not all families are accepting - I still hear stories of parents who disown their children - but hopefully more than in the past. As far as I'm concerned, if you disown your child because they are gay, then you have utterly failed as a parent. My parents died when I was 17, so I never had a chance to come out. I'm glad that your parents are so loving and accepting of you.
That was super casual and warm...enjoyed and liked...rock on...Peace-Love...☮💗
Chris your dad rocks!
Always !! Lovely One !! With Lovely Family !! Always !!
I'm hearing the "Leave It To Beaver" theme song in my head as this video winds down. Go figure. And I'm glad your leg mended and no one got landed on by a skateboard. Your whole family seems so comfortable around life and the camera.
Thanks for taking my question 🤙
omg your smile is identical
you have / are such an inspiration to young people. great voice, great presence and unlike the others...you are really REALLY FUN !!
It's cute to see how your family supports you Chris ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
What a nice dad, all the best, Joseph
Great content! Totally enjoyable spending my time with you both. Thanks for the experience.
just as an aside ... I think that you are a well rounded young man ... a lot of credit to your parents ... and btw, you are a very handsome young man
You have such cool parents. I didn’t have a great relationship with my dad.
Bravo to your dad! He is so amazing and supportive. You are a lucky guy to have him. My respect. And, you are so cute ❤
This was awesome your dad was great please do more of this
Chris’ mom is so funny😂
You look so happy & glowing 🥰
Very down to earth and cool dad. Lucky boy 😁
Why do I feel awkward 😂
The whole gay-son/daughter-interviews-uncomfortable-parent thing IS cringy.
Don’t make it awkward. It was fun
What a great father you have!!
Your a genuine person your q favorite person ❤️..again, from Connecticut!
Love the video ❤️
im tearing up listenin' to your dad - he is so supportive and caring, and he is still worried about you. please call him and tell him you love him now
That was a great video, Chris. It's fun to see you interact with your family. BTW, I like the new shorter hairstyle a lot--getting rid of the bangs illuminates your handsome face.
Loved this video!!!
I hope you appreciate how lucky you are. I still have rocky relationships w/ my parents & it’s so nice to see how caring they are. Any chance they’re looking to adopt a grown man? 😂
Your dad is so cool...Really an ideal dad he is...love your dad❤️❤️❤️
It wasn't that awkward (to watch)
you have a cool dad
He has a wonderful dad. That he loves his son is obvious.His son is very lucky and am sure he knows it.
Your Dad is awesome
Hey StanChris, as a rule I don't like or follow "TH-camrs." You are the only exception. You seem humble, kind and down to earth. It's refreshing especially for someone so gorgeous. And your dad is super cool. I wish my immediate fam was as cool as yours seems to have been when you came out. Cheers, blessings and love to you and yours, man! Keep up the amazing videos on here!
Your dad is such a cool guy! He’s like an older skater guy! 😆
Bravo!! You are blessed with a loving family and your dad is an inspiration.👍👍
Your skiing experience is exactly why I have never gone skiing. I know the same thing with it happened to me if I ever had tried.
You’ve got a lovely dad.
Your Dad is the coolest
I extremely rarely watch such themed and in general gay videos, but this was an exceptional experience for me; and I cannot decide which I would wish better: to be the gay son in that or in a such family or to be that father who has such an open-minded and intelligent son and, because of ignorant people, to be a bit worried of son's future life though, but to be very proud of him at the same time.
Thank you very much indeed, Chris, for making and sharing this one. Although I don't think I am gay (that, I guess, is not as simple question as many think, especially in a divided and manipulated society), you made my day with this - and not only this day, I am sure. :) Although I not too often use the TH-cam, now, this is a subscribe from me. :)
I believe, as a member of the intelligent milieu of your family, your little brother is lucky, too. Just like your mother... Everybody is lucky there! :D Okay, I know, to be intelligent is not just a question of luck. ;)
Hugs from a distant country of the EU that now, for like thirteen years, has been building a not too intelligent and tolerant milieu for its citizens, including the LGBTQ-rights as well, and because of that, is in a permanent conflict and is constantly fighting with the leadership of the Union which is trying to protect its basic values and so, to protect the people of this stupid member country that is in deep existential anxiety and, for the benefit of its leaders and the pro-government, actually is acting against itself. Be careful, save your democratic achievements and values because there are stupid extremists, hypocrites and bigots everywhere across the world, even there in te US. Take care, Chris and all of you there. :)
(Sorry for my bad English, it is not my mother tongue.)
You did very well with your English and no apology needed.
That was nicely done ✔ 👏
I do agree with about coming out. I haven't come close to coming out. I am too scared despite having people that are Gay at my school. People have made random assumptions about my political beliefs but they arnt true. I dont like drama the entire theatre dept hates me for a lie. Thats why I need to find the right moment to come out IRL since idk I just feel more comfort talking about me being Bi online than the people irl.
I’m proud to be a member of your channel
I want your dad to have a youtube channel
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Man I wish I had parents like this, and a boyfriend like Chris.
You have a great dad. He's definitely a good man. Because close to him for as long as you can!
Chris your skin is looking great!!
You and Brett are so adorable together ❤️
Such a chill das very open minded! Wish i had that kinda relation with my dad.