Wedding Moments That Screamed DIVORCE - REACTION
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- Wedding Moments That Screamed DIVORCE - REACTION
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For those on a budget... A couple of my friends got married, and could not afford much, so they got creative. They had enough for the hall and a buffet, and invited about 80 people. She altered her mother's wedding dress to fit her and the times, bridesmaids and the groom's side showed up in their own Sunday best. Friends who were musicians played at their wedding as their gift. On each table was one of those disposable cameras for the guests to use. The wedding photos were awesome and some were hysterically funny. The only thing requested that guests bring was a bouquet of flowers, the guests choice, they didn't care where you got them as long as they were pretty. Our boss hired a coach with a horse for them as his gift, and some of us gals made favors for the tables. A two-tier cake was donated by a local bakery for the opportunity to put their business cards on the reception table at the door. They were not asking for gifts, and had no registry, but many of us got them gifts and gave them money anyway. The wedding was amazing, and everyone had so much fun. Flowers of all kinds and colors everywhere, and they were absolutely gorgeous, It truly was THE best wedding I have ever been to.
This is absolutely beautiful, it makes me so happy🥰. I love a good story with a happy ending.
This is the best type of wedding! I haven't personally gotten to that stage of my life yet but I'll be taking notes - I love the idea of letting people do these things instead of giving gifts
Because it was from their hearts. It wasn't about the wedding day for them. It was about a lifetime of marriage.
Such a difference from the entitled who want guests to pay for their dinner. It'd be a pleasure to attend this wedding and not only the bouquet but I'd be inclined to go a bit above on a gift because I just love that they just asked for a bouquet! 🌹🌹🌹
@@angr3819 The bride worked in one of the towers that went down on 9/11. Her husband was my co worker and had taken time off in the summer of 2001, before 9/11, to go to NY and convince her to come to Florida and marry him. She accepted and he helped her move down here. They got married in the spring of 2002, and are still married with a family 20 years later. Sometimes you meet people whose stories are so incredibly sweet and lucky, you just never forget them.
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1000% bahahah
Yes agreed lol
Haha yes I agree.
Yes, step one: Don’t get married.
Agreed
One of my most satisfying "end of relationship" moments was just after I told my fiancé of three years to pack up and leave (long, depressing story of many many red flags I chose to ignore and then being cheated on as a final cherry). For some minor back story his mother had bought me a mini George Foreman sandwhich grill for my birthday two years before and a large fancy George Foreman for Christmas that year. He called his mum while he was packing and I was treated to listening to him argue with her for twenty minutes before giving up and accepting he was leaving BOTH grills behind. That sandwhich grill served me faithfully for another four years and I still have that big grill ten years later. Plus I still exchange birthday and Christmas cards with his mum and sister even though he has moved country and I am now married to another man and have two children 😂😂 what a lovely woman.
You are a legend and a boss! ❤
Dayum 😂😂😂 how much heat do you think he took from them for being a jerk? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Sounds like my dad's twat brother. Cheated on his angel of a wife, married the mistress about a month after the divorce went through, told my CATHOLIC granny (his mother) that she was going to hell, and had a go at my dad for "getting married first" (the wedding to my stepmum that had been planned for about a year at that point).
We told Mark to shove it and kept Elaine. She is my auntie, he is "my dad's brother".
Lmao Former MIL new her son had fully fucked up. And was just like " your gonna live with those consequences, NO GRILLS FOR YOU!!!"
Sounds like my 3 buddies wives. Found out their "book club" girls nights were them going up to one of my buddy's family lakehouse to host orgies that they also cammed. None of us knew a thing until a sleazy coworker of another one of my buddies texted him pix & a link to the camshow. Drove up there & walked in on the show to confront them. Tried to take EVERYTHING in the divorce but failed miserably (ironclad prenups). Kids, all teens or grown now, want nothing to do with any of their mothers.
My mom wore a black dress and veil to my sister's wedding. But she did it with my sister's permission. It was an inside joke that it was 'good luck' because Grandma had worn a black dress and veil to my parent's wedding (as an insult) and mom and dad have now been together over 40 years.
I love that!
That's a great story
That's such a cute story! 😊
When my parents got married they were very young. My dad had just joined the military and my mom was three months pregnant. The family was openly placing bets on how long they thought this marriage would last. The joke was on all of them though, they lasted until my mom passed away more than 35 years later and none of them (grandparents and cousins) stayed married for more than a few years.
I think that they deserved it. Sounds like they were mocking the Universe and Universe was like "Ha, NO."
@@user-guigui01 along with, “Biotch, you thought!”
I’m so very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing their beautiful love story with all of us. 🥹
I've got a good one! My brother was engaged to a friend of mine. He cheated on her with her mom (who was still married to her dad). They were caught when the mom asked for a divorce and my brother broke off the engagement. Here's the first twist...my brother married the mom! Second twist...my brother's ex-fiancee and her 3 sisters all wore black to the wedding. Third twist...they ended up divorced and she left him for a woman. 🤣🤣🤣
My goodness! Throw in an evil twin and a bout of amnesia, and that could be a soap opera! 😂
Actually ex-fiancee and sisters should have worn elaborate white dresses, THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN EPIC
@@LazyIRanch You are so right! 🤣🤣 Just to add an extra weirdness...my boyfriend's first wife left him for a woman and my son's first wife did the same. 🤣🤣
@@melrobertson2743 That's pure genius!! I wish they had thought of it 🤣
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Me too. My grandson (17 months old) sits in my lap and watches her with me at nap time. Tries to touch her face lol.
She is my morning rutine. Her daily video is the 1st thing I watch while I drink my coffee. 😅
Yes!
I don't even smoke but I'm agreeing with you
Relatable. Charlotte has grown on me! I’ve gotten my bff to subscribe too. Love that she has daily content at noon!
I had a teacher in high school who would give us random relationship advice. One day she said something to the effect of, “if the week before your wedding your ex calls and asks you to go out for drinks with him/her, and you do (or just spend any time at all considering it,) call off the wedding. That marriage is not going to last and divorce is far more expensive than a few lost deposits and return postage on gifts. Believe me.”
I would add that if you even think about your ex doing something like, that before the wedding and you would consider meeting them, alone, I would question the wisdom of getting married. Weddings can be expensive to cancel, but divorces generally cost more.
I dunno, depends on the status of the ex - I am quite close with two of my exes and it would not be very strange to go out for a drink with either of them, regardless of any wedding
@@meisjeViv yeah, I am also friends with some of my exes…but it was clear when she was telling us that (apropos of nothing I could think of, in the middle of a high school English class) that she was meaning someone who would invite you out in a romantic way, and you still have feelings for that person…
I have always thought that if a romantic relationship didn’t work out, we still got along as friends before we started dating, so why not just be friends? Of course, this has not worked with all of my exes, just a few. I have dated some good people and I have dated some off putting people. That’s life. The good people, though? It just didn’t work out. There were deal breaker situations which came up and we both knew it, so we broke up. Maybe some disappointment, but no hard feelings.😃
I'd not be meeting my ex, out of respect to my fiance, unless we had kids and it's about them. Basically because I wouldn't want my fiance doing that
@@Surftouka to each their own…
I invited my husband’s first long term girlfriend to our wedding because she is a dear friend of mine…and before anyone gets all judgey, I had a huge thing for him since I was 14 (as in, always had a thing for him even when they were dating and beyond,) they started dating when she and I were 17, and they broke up when she and I were 20. He is 2 years older than us…fast forward to when I was 37 and he was 39 and we started dating. She was married and had a teenage son by then, having told me several years prior, “I had always hoped that Jason would find someone like you to settle down with.”
The entire time they were dating I almost completely ignored him (we worked together, so I could not entirely ignore him,) so much so that memories of me which he has during that time when he was dating her are his memories alone. I don’t remember any of it.
So I invited her and her husband to the wedding. Sadly, they did not come, which is really a shame. She knew his whole family and they would all have loved to see her and catch up.
@@katherinemcintosh7247 I understand. It has to really depend on the relationship. Personally, I didn't remain friends with my ex, didn't have a good marriage or good end, not just his cheating. However, I care about him as a person. I'm remarried living overseas now, but if we were living there, I would have taken the time to see him when I heard (from his sister) that he was in the hospital. My ex had MS, yes 3 months after I decided to divorce he was diagnosed and I felt trapped, couldn't abandon him. However, 4 years later I did because his illness didn't stop him from cheating thus released me from the trap. Fast forward years later I live overseas and married, heard via email, that he went from one sibling to another the first few years, in one case, the sister had good reason to tell him to leave . Then I heard he moved in with his daughter, he never really had a good relationship with his 2 kids so I was a little surprised but still happy hoping he'd have a permanent home and maybe better relationship with his daughter. Turned out for 18 months of I think 3 years with her, he was out through hell, the daughter, her baby daddy and her live-in female lover physically and sexually abused him, slept in closet, then in basement on beach chair. Until the day he was pushed/thrown down the stairs and he went into a coma. They dropped him off at a hospital pretending they didn't know who he was. 3 weeks in coma, he woke up. I left him at 165 pounds, he was down to 80. Miracle he survived. He would've died as a John Doe without his family knowledge. The 2 were arrested, he protected his daughter didn't incriminate her. When he was better he was transferred to a nursing home...he was 46 when I left him, about 50-52 when this all happened, looked 30 years older after that ordeal. Some of my friends went to visit, I told them about him, they asked if ok I said of course. We may not have had a good marriage but he's human didn't deserve the hell he went through and I don't love him but still cared about his well-being. Sorry, my point my husband trusts me and would have no problem saying ok for me meeting my ex for drinks, but not all men are like that. My ex wouldn't have...go figure he was cheating yet the jealous type. However, whether the husband understands or not, if I was there, I'd visit ex in hospital. Don't worry about judging, I'm very slow to judge I had enough people judging me for leaving a man with MS, but it wasn't their business and never even told them he was a cheater, because that was between us and I wasn't out to ruin his image
I have a weird one. A couple i knew invited me to their wedding. I went there and we all had a good time. They are still together and happy
Woh, sounds unlikely 😏
I know someone that reeeeaaally wanted a wedding. Got engaged, the wedding came and she was the happiest I've seen her. Always putting pictures on social media with captions like "best day of my life", etc.
Wedding was nice but had a weird vibe.
They got together while he was still married to another woman who was her friend. On the ceremony the MoH made a speech about how their relationship "bloomed" and how the bride had told her and her friends that relationship was "almost there" and one day told them "it happened! We're together", in front of his entire family and kids from the previous relationship (Kids she ignored all night).
Fast forward maybe 10months he lost his job, 3 months later they started the divorce process. She was so obsessed with "The Wedding™" that to this day she still has pictures of herself in her wedding dress in her house. She never put up pictures of herself with the groom. Just her and her family and friends...
it seems majority of these type stories/bridezillas want just wedding aka "day as a princess" and not marriage.
i know two rather short marriages. husband's friend married his gf of 10 years, divorced a year later ( i always though they though it will fix gone out of course or families pressured. kinda of moment where you should split, you decided push forward and forward is marriage)
another one was husband's cousin. 6mo after dating got engaged, 6mo after that married and 3mo after wedding separated. i never asked reason, not my business. no bridezillas and felt like good match, both very down to earth people. i guess not.
@@duckeh1952 I've heard about that, people at their breaking point going forward with a marriage to try and salvage the relationship. I don't agree with that at all. If it's time to break up, it's time to break up. a wedding a that point is just a waste of money.
I mean, shame on him for cheating but if she only wanted the attention she should've thrown a party not a wedding at the expense of a friendship, a ruined career and dismissal of children🤦🏼♀️
@@katiep3027 100% agree. She could've bought a pretty dress, hired a photographer and thrown a party. It would've been way cheaper and would cause way less drama
I think this happens a lot, the brides want their fairytale moment and forget they actually have to live with their husbands afterwards!!!
"When I first met you I really hated you"...sounds like my mother, though she didn't say it for vows. Backstory: Mom is Japanese and was working at a US Air Force base. Dad was a GI and in charge of the section inwhich mom worked. He always gave her extra work and she had to stay after everyone else was finished so she could complete the tasks dad assigned her...so she hated him. Turns out dad was only doing that because he was smitten and was looking to spend more time with her. It must've worked, cuz 56 years later they are still married ❤️ LOL
I'd watch that movie
Wow for love he abused your mother into working over hours unpaid…. I’m sorry but you have one creepy, rude dad. He should have learned romance from Japanese/Korean/Chinese drama LOL instead of pornsites or Hollywood movies
that's actually pretty cute
Out-freakin'-STANDING.
That's so funny!
Oh, I have a fun marriage-ending story!
When my cousin first got married we definitely all got vibes of her only being in it for the wedding. Every time she talked about being excited about marriage it was always about the wedding and never the groom or the life they'd be starting together. But we figured she was just excited and shrugged it off. About a year later we hear they're getting divorced because she'd been having an affair with a guy in their church. They're all in one of those sects that excommunicates you if you commit adultery or get divorced, so all four of them - her, her husband, the guy she cheated with (Guy B), and his wife - got excommunicated. Fast forward another year and she and Guy B got married and her ex-husband ended up marrying Guy-B's ex-wife as they had bonded through the whole ordeal. It's been nearly 10 years now and both couples are still happily married and the church decided to let them back in because everything ended up working out and church members married church members 😂
Well, if at first you don't succeed....
So in other words, they (her hubby and guy B's wife, should be thankful their spouses cheated or they may have never met their true soulmate. 😂
@@Surftouka ya safe to say there were a lot of mixed feelings through the whole ordeal 😂
This is a plot twist story and incredible! 👏
Sooo.....the Church thought cheating/adultery was a big enough sin to excommunicate the whole bunch, but when the adulterers married the people they were cheating with then that whole living in sin thing is cool now? Ugh..this is why I don't subscribe to organized religions.
My husband and I got married at a VERY VERY cheesy wedding chapel in Reno. In my defense, I only saw it in pictures online, when I booked it from California.
A. The chapel included a "limo" to and from the chapel. The quotation marks are because this thing was straight trash from the 70's. Dented and scraped white paint and a dark blue crushed velvet interior that looked like grandma's rumpus room. My husband tried to turn on the AC, and the driver yelled, "Don't do that, man! It messes with the power steering!!!" (????)
B. The officiant didn't meet us beforehand and had SERIOUS trouble pronouncing our last name (which is NOT a difficult or unusual name. It's like the 'Jones ' of the Hispanic community)
And, C. when he was asked THE question, he got nervous and blurted out, "I GUESS so?" and burst out laughing.
My mom said she felt every muscle in my dad's body tense up, and my best friend was about to take him down, but, I'd started laughing too. In truth, he and I had BOTH been fighting inappropriate laughter the whole time, and he broke. The officiant (who looked like that creepy old pastor in Poltergeist 2) started lecturing us about how this was a big commitment and we had to take it seriously.
I get it, and we TOTALLY did. -but between the tacky ass chapel, the busted up limo, and Poltergeist guy mispronouncing our name, all either of us could think about was "how does the AC affect the power steering?"
Today is the eighteenth anniversary of that day, and my husband and I still laugh about our weird ass wedding.
Omg hahaha!🤣🤣 I think its red flag when people are more worried about having a perfect wedding than having a good marriage!! My hubby and I had a low budget wedding but everyone had fun! And we just celebrated 19th anniversary two days ago!!! Congrats on your 18 years!!!
Did you get married on Friday the 13th,?
someone you can laugh with about crazy inconveniences, sounds like a perfect relationship! congrats!
You just reminded me of our "wedding", which was at a Justice of the Peace. Her office was in the basement of her house and a pipe had burst earlier in the day. I vividly remember us all, the two of us and our two witnesses, standing on old crinkly newspaper while we exchanged vows. So classy! :) Your wedding sounds hilarious in hindsight, and thankfully hilarious to you and your husband during the event! Did you ever find out _why_ the AC effected the power steering? That would haunt me a little. :) Great story!
That is adorable!
All right, I've gotta throw in my own experience. Now, let me start by saying I did NOT have an extravagant wedding. Not at all. My dress was actually a white dress with black flowers from my best childhood friend that was tailored to my size (Thank you so much, Shirley, I still keep it in a garment bag because I love it so much). My husband and I were living about 2,000 miles away from his family and they were working class people, so they couldn't put down the sort of money most weddings can accumulate. That's totally understandable, and neither of us were upset. Now, at the time, I'd lived in a small town (no bigger than 5000 people), but we were all the types to help one another out when we could. My best friend that gave me the dress was also my MoH, her husband was my husband's Best Man (which worked because they were actually really good friends), the woman who tailored my dress was also doing my catering, and one of my best friends from high school did our photography, as did the MoH's mom.) Neither photographer wanted money, just an invite to the wedding. Not a problem! A friend I grew up with was actually the DJ, and all he wanted was a good meal. So, frankly, my wedding cost less than $1,000, as the location we had it was the place I used to work and the hotel managers loved me, went out of their way to decorate the reception above and beyond anything I've ever seen. No joke, my wedding cost just under $800. My husband and I are almost on year 12 of being married. Yes, we've had our issues, but the fact remains that besides the two of us, everyone else involved help us get the best experience we could on short funds. Also, since my dad had passed away over a year prior to the wedding, it was my grandfather who not only walked me down the aisle, but shared the father-daughter dance with me. Yes, it may be cheap, and it may be small town, country, whatever, but we had people come together for us and while the wedding and reception were small, it was worth every moment
Inexpensive doesn't equal cheap. Just sayin', you know 🙂
Cause the most important thing was to get married, not waiting and saving, etc etc
@veladryssalily -It doesn't sound cheap at all! It sounds lovely and friendly and warm! Stay happy! :)
As a wedding photographer of 25 years, I can attest to two things:
1. There is someone for EVERYONE
2. Many should not marry ANYONE
So…many….stories.
Sounds like you should post some story times!
If you're thinking about writing a book about "All the wedding drama I've been into", I'm already saying I'm here to buy the first impression of your work!
The first one gave me hope 😊
Also, pls tell us all your stories!
There should be a rule at weddings if they end up getting a divorce you get your wedding gift back
If the goods are good, the goods are odd
My grandfather married my first husband and I, and when he was doing our vows he blatantly stated to me and the crowd. " Now Angella, whenever he cheats on you, under the eyes of the Lord, you can leave him." Not "if he cheats", "when!" Well apparently he was a psychic because 9 years later that's exactly what happened.
Probably would've been sooner if he hadn't been called out.
Sounds more like your grandfather cheated on your grandma.
I am a bridal seamstress and I had 2 brides who were best friends and each other’s MOH. Their grooms were also best friends and each other’s best men. One of the guys cheated on his fiancé with a stripper at the others bachelor party and his best friend told his own fiancé (the cheated on brides BFF). She then told me everything at her next fitting, didn’t tell her friend because her guy had made her promise not to. So then a week later, I had to do a fitting on bride 1 while she gushed about her incredible husband-to-be, all while knowing he had cheated on her with some stripper in Vegas 2 weeks prior 😩 DRAMA!
Ooohhh, that sounds messy!
Damn they really be spillin the tea like you're their hairdresser lol
Tbh I don't even understand why ppl let their SOs have parties with strippers...like sure you can say you trust them but will they value that trust is the real question. It's also just gross to want to check out other ppl when you already have someone.
The dedication to my ex Playlist at their wedding is a huge 🚩 and that's coming from someone who is still friends with my ex-husband. We have been divorced for 20 years and he still gets invited and attends all of my family functions/reunions. It's only because we have a child together and we put our sons needs before our own. He was only 1 when we divorced. I remarried when he was 3 years old. My new/current husband and my ex-husband have also always got along. The 3 of us used to go to every parent teacher conference together. We're probably weird. Lol 🤷♀️
I'd say you're not weird at all...you're actually quite blessed to get along so well with your ex (which is usually not the case for so many couples). Your child will grow up much more well balanced / adjusted, hope that makes sense.
Hey, more power to you! That honestly makes me picture your family like Scott Lang's from Ant Man and the Wasp! Which is just super wholesome!🤗
"When we first met you I hated you". Literally the plotline for every romantic comedy....
I'm scared about it. Sounds no healthy.
I have a few really good friendships that started out that way 😂
This one is great!!! When my husband and I first meet each other, we were part of an opening staff to a new restaurant. We really didn’t like each other either. 17 years later I still love him as much as I did the day I said I love you for the first time!!
Your videos remind me of all the ways I love him, and find new way to love him!! Thank you for your awesome videos!!
Fun related fact: my mom 'hated' my Dad when she first met him at work. (Hate is a strong word, tbh, but she def wasn't interested) He finally got her to lose a bet to go on a date with him. That's all she wrote. They're still married 46+ years later
Amy and Peralta??
Not married but I met my bf at a job and didn't like him at first cuz the lady that trained me told me stay away from that guy he's an awful person Yada Yada and I was at the time still easily influenced by outside opinion. But ironically I met him and felt drawn to him and found out that he's actually my perfect match who encouraged me to be a more independent person and helped me to be able to have my own place and pay bills like a proper responsible adult and of course also be myself rather than someone molded by the opinions of everyone around me and society as a whole. Been together 3 years now and I'm still happy and thriving
@@twinaquapisces Glad you didn’t listen! Someone told me not to say yes to dating my now husband because he was “desperate”. Come to find out that she had asked him out a few months earlier and he had turned her down.
@@laurabroza2694 was just about to say the same!
my parents disliked each other for 6 years in uni. then got stuck talking about whose grandmother was more of a bitch and that made them start dating. they've been married 37 years now, 4 kids and 11 grandkids.
My wife and I both very cautiously drank during our wedding, and we told our brides people that they just needed to make it through the speeches and then they can do whatever they want. I’m so glad we did that because we have so many good memories and beautiful photos.
My grandfather was an Episcopal priest. He officiated a HUGE wedding (abt 200 guests) and when it came time for the bride to say, "I do", she said, "I do not." He stopped the wedding and took the couple aside. The bride said that when the groom took her hand from her father, he told her, "I'll get you for this." She refused to marry him. My grandfather had to go back out and tell a cathedral full of people that the wedding was off.
I don`t understad the story. WHo is the "he" that said something, the father or the groom? and what did he mean by that?
@terrynorton4561 answer anthills question
idk starting off your vows with 'when i first met you i hated you', is kind of hilariously sweet. paints a vague timeline of an interesting story. I bet they have a fun relationship.
I think some things are better left unsaid. I wouldn't want to hear that.
@@angr3819 maybe he already knew though. Maybe it's a joke between them, we have no idea. I imagine most vows are not intended to be hurtful, but I can understand how you may think it's too far.
@@mintberry3164 I'm sure. I have known a few people with that sort of sense of humour and they would be dismayed if someone took offence at a joke they made. Some of us would think it inappropriate, but others would find it hilarious. Just differences, I guess.
My grandmother told me that when her middle daughter was getting married her fiancée's mother wanted to basically invite EVERYONE she ever met to the wedding. My grandmother was recently widowed and had a very limited budget (this was in the 1950s). So on on the wedding day, his mother wore all black and had a funeral mass said for him at their neighborhood's church because her son was dead to her now for siding with his fiancée's family. Needless to say he lost touch with his mother but their marriage lasted over 50 years.
hearing these stories I'm wondering, "and why did you walk down the aisle and say I do in the first place" lol especially the one where the bride was sobbing and stalling and constantly complaining about her husband
I am a wedding officiant and I will say that maybe 30% of brides, not grooms, just the bride, start their personal vows, for those rare couples who write them, with "I hated/couldn't stand groom when I first met him".
I have a huge success rate for my marriages thankfully. This is one of the things I see so often that doesn't seem to bother anyone and I think for most people it's because they are lucky enough to really be in love and are comfortable joking around with each other. What she says may even have some truth to it but her next point is usually how she grew to see him for the incredible man he really is...
I have talked to couples before the wedding that you can tell really don't want to do this. I try to find out why and stop it before it's too late. I have a few options for them and remind them that if they are just doing it because it's come so far, better to stop it now before it becomes more emotionally damaging AND legally costly.
When my ex boyfriend and I broke up he end up dating one of my friends, we still had mutual friends though that would tell me things, like when my husband and I got engaged and he found out he proposed to her, but then he would send me emails saying he was still in love with me and was sad I was marrying someone else. SHE sent me an email saying that every problem in their relationship was my fault, lol. I wasn't even talking to him and wanted no part of any of this. Again when I got pregnant he sent another email saying he heard from our friend I was pregnant and it made him sad because he always thought we would have a family. I was like big yikes and told him he needed to go to therapy and focus on his wife. They got divorced after 3 years, the only shocker to me is that they made it that long
Thank you for bringing some lighthearted vibes to our days, Charlotte. Life can be too much a lot of the time and it's great to dive into some silliness with you whenever you upload 😊
I appreciate you!
"I've known you for half an hour and hate you already" were my words to my now-husband on the day we met. It was 13 years ago ;)
As a former wedding videographer, I've learned that 1. Some people want a wedding and not a marriage 2. The people you think are going to make it don't and the ones that you are sure are going to break up are still together. I've been surprised either way.
Yup, I added a “meeting” on my work calendar today just so I could get back into bed and cozy up to my favorite daily video by my Potato Queen!!! Just makes my day so much better when I don’t wait until after work to watch it. ❤️❤️😍😍🥔🥔🥔🥔🥔🥔🥔🥔🥔
I started my vows with “I didn’t like him”😂
Lol it is honestly the happiest relationship I’ve ever been in.
Been together for 8 years next week married for 1.5 lol
Love your content happy to be subscribed to your channel 😊 thank you for the videos you upload!
These wedding and bride stories always shock me. I've never been married, nor have I ever been proposed to. But I imagine when/if that ever happens, it would go much smoother than these stories.
Geeze... SO MANY juicy stories here, but I LOVED the one where the wedding had been cancelled and the photographer and and DJ showed up, as they hadn't been told. Lol
And that’s how I met your father 😂😂😂
My husband didn't like me when we first met and the feeling was mutual. He thought I was arrogant , only for him to realize I was actually a strongminded independent woman. I figured out how much of a good man he really was . Some people gave us 6 months , but here we are celebrating 28 years of marriage in 4 days.
This is literally Pride and Prejudice 😂
Went to one of my family members' wedding. We met the wife before the wedding and she was really nice and it seemed as if this one would finally be the wife he deserved (all his previous partners just weren't good to him. I know you think it might be him, but it's not, he's a really down to earth person and a good man. He just has terrible luck with love) At the wedding, she payed attention to everyone but him. She didn't really seemed all that interested in him. Don't remember how long it was but it didn't last and I knew it wouldn't. When the family started talking, I mentioned her disinterest and everyone else said they noticed it too.
Omg these videos give me anxiety for my upcoming wedding thank God I am not overly invested in having a perfect "my day" kind of wedding
Congrats! Don't worry, I'm sure it'll be perfect. Weddings are rarely like these ones!! 🤣🤣
My big day is the day after tomorrow, I was hoping for another wedding video from you before that 😄 it helps me chill! Love from germany!
huge love to you have an amazing journey
Congratulations for your big day, good luck, hopefully after watching Charlotte all this while you won't be a bridezilla ( chill okay just kidding 🤣🤣) Anyway god bless both 💖
Congratulations and best wishes for a long happy marriage. May it be the best day yet!
Alles Gute zur Hochzeit! 💒
Danke sehr, thanks y'all! 💖
As a bisexual woman the amount of brides who do the sideway tango with other woman to “get it outta there system” is concerning… SEEMS LIKE YOU MAY HAVE SOMETHING TO FIGURE OUT THERE HUH
As a bisexual woman and getting married myself in November what you’ve written is rubbish 😂
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The black dresses and black veils would be awesome, actually.
For a Halloween wedding. 😂
Don't forget the brooms!
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YES!!! And, also, black cats to serve as ring-bearers (I mean, since we’re on that theme, we might as well………)!
Great Job my little Canuk pumpkin!! You are the GOAT! Today's vid made me appreciate my hubs even more! 30 years of happy acrimony! Ha ha ha ha! Just Kidding! He is the best guy ever! Our wedding was crazy, but lots of fun and the only drama came from my SIL who cried the whole time because she said she was losing he brother. Ridiculous.
As mother of the bride at my youngest’s wedding, My dress was black and had skulls with cabbage roses. My daughter loved it as her wedding dress was black and I fit right in with her theme of anything goes.
Speaking from experience, never get married to someone you aren't 110% sure about in every aspect of their being (besides things you can accept) it is not worth it. Had a terrible divorce from a woman who cheated and completely fabricated who she was, literally a personality disorder that fooled everyone including me. Fast forward to now happily married to the love of my life and we have been together for years, best decision ever so happy ending for me at least.
I was a bridesmaid to a dear friend (the bride). The priest, who worked at the same university as the groom, was talking about how the couple were such active members of their community. He cited how the bride did extensive charitable work. ( she did) And then for the groom the priest talked about what a good friend he was. He said “ even last night the groom was helping the maid of honor with a term paper late into the night.” The priest said he saw the light on in grooms office into the wee hours of the night. He went on to say how impressed he was that the groom was willing to help a friend out on the eve of his important event.
I was grimacing. The maid of honor graduated college two years ago. No more term papers. Also, the relationship between the bridesmaid and the groom was clingy and inappropriate. They were way too suspect. I was exchanging looks with the bridesmaid next to me. This is not what we wanted to hear. And at the end of the wedding festivities when I hugged the mother of the bride goodbye. The very drunk mother of the bride said “thank you for your help the wedding. It was a lot of fun. Too bad it’s not going to last.”, I played dumb and said “oh you don’t know that.“. And then the mother said “nope I think the priest confirmed that groom is a cheater during the ceremony.“. Yup.. that’s how I read it too.
And the marriage lasted five months. And the groom did leave my friend for the maid of honor. And they had indeed been fooling around and the night before the wedding.
I ran down the aisle at the tender age of 3-4 screaming DON'T MARRY HIM! up and down the aisle. I was eventually removed and my sister was mortified. I was right! They split within the next couple of years after she found out he was cheating on her. The nail in the coffin was he got the black lab in the divorce. I still remember when he berated me for coloring outside the lines in a coloring book. That memory is still there and wrenching.
P.S. Second husband had an affair with her best friend. My sister is a terrible person anyway so her KARMA is well-deserved. :D
They do say kids have a sense of people... Seems you had him pegged wrong one for her no matter the reason.
I feel sorry for the dog
nahhh these people are WILD i dont understand them anymore...but i will happily watch every single video charlotte posts about them
A lot of these remind me of my old roommate who kept saying she needs breaks from her boyfriend and didn't like being around him all the time. They're now married with 2 kids and I went to dinner with her recently and she complained about him the whole time. I promise you, she's sticking with it because he has money.
If she’s a stay at home, there’s a thing called alimony 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️JS ... we have some neighbors that are bananas- they get drunk a lot (usually with “friends” over) and the husband screams and degrades the wife who cries all the time after he yells at her (they do this while hanging out in their garage which they have made into like a drinking/party area)... I get they have a nice (average) house but no house is worth that kind of abuse... oh and of course they have a kid who they degrade as well... one day the wife screamed at the kid (during the middle of the day- I think the kid was like 8), “get the f*** out of here! Go to the basement! This is MY GIRL TIME!” 😧 like I can’t imagine speaking to anyone like that, let alone my own child (if I had one)... none of her girlfriends said anything! Yikes!
Or she likes complaining
Charlotte is my escape from the chaos of life.. and I'm here for it! Thanks for the giggles Charotte! 💗😘 keep being awesome.
My mom told me the story of her wedding day… the tent rental company ripped the tent when putting it up and then of course it rained and ruined all the table places. Wedding ended up being inside my grandparents house instead of in the yard. Okay no problem my mom said rain on your wedding day is actually good luck. What she was most pissed about and almost called off the wedding…. My dad shaved off his beard and mustache the night before. Someone said something about it and my mom overheard them. She went storming over to my dad and yelled at him through a closed door about how she’s ready to not marry him.
He says that after the ceremony and reception when they were finally alone the first thing she did was tell him he better let it all grow back in and if he ever shaved it off again she’d divorce him!!!
Lol needless to say he’s never shaved it off again. 40yrs later
How long is it?
Best morning giggle I’ve had in a LONNGGG time hahhah ❤️🤣🤣🤣. The it has layers… aye 💀😂
Went to a wedding where the groom was crying as the bride walked down the isle and she just continually rolled her eyes and sighed in exasperation. They were divorced before they got their wedding photos back and she wasn’t smiling in ANY of them😳
BTW: Isn’t “I hated you when we first met” every hallmark movie ever???
I found your channel few hours ago….havent left since! Good videos, hilarious comments (yours and commenters), great quality and a quick laugh. Sending love from Estonia!
Welcome! You are going to love everything about her channel. She is so sweet and funny, and her followers are some of the nicest people I've ever seen in comment sections. This is the place to come and escape the negativity that is rampant in so much of our modern world. Enjoy! 😍
@@LazyIRanch thank you so much for the sweet welcome! I subscribed after the first video I saw.
The morning of my aunt's (first) wedding, she told my mom she'd had a vivid dream the night before that she was going off to jail and "wondered if it meant anything." She went through with the wedding, but the marriage didn't even last a year.
She or her husband must have got their sentence reduced
@@franl155 haha indeed! This was before I was born, but from what I've heard the husband was not a very great guy. Aunt was young and naive and thought the problems they'd had in their relationship would just magically disappear through marriage. No one in the family was particularly surprised when the marriage ended, or particularly said to see the husband go.
@@MossyBallerina glad to hear she got out of it. My best friend was told by her mom's friend to have kids when her relationship was bad because it fixes everything and that's what she did 🤦🏼♀️ this lady had multiple kids, clearly the first one didn't magically fix it. Poor kids.
@@katiep3027 oh no! Poor kids indeed, and your poor friend as well. My aunt had a second, only slightly longer lived marriage, but luckily third time was the charm and she and my uncle were married for a little over 20 years until she was recently widowed.
@@MossyBallerina luckily my friend just rolled her eyes and never got married or had kids with that guy. I'm sorry to hear about your uncle, but I'm happy your aunt found her person!
Holy crap… What is one thing no one ever wants to be? A consolation prize. If there’s any question (from the bride and groom) about whether or not to get married the answer is always NO.
In “Gentleman Prefer Blondes”, Marilyn Monroe is confronted by her super rich boyfriend’s father. He says, “Do you expect me to believe you aren’t marrying my son for his money.” She says in that sweet as sugar, sexy voice, “No, I’m marrying him for your money.” One of my favorite lines. Hey kids, watch this movie.
Also ONE MILL is sooo close! Will be happy to celebrate soon. Fan since inform overload, your content is top notch. Your hard work shows.
My "Maybe I'm making a mistake" moment occurred about a month before the wedding. My mother offered her hand-carved crystal punch bowl for us to use during our wedding. without consulting my future wife I agreed. When future wife found out she lost it went into a rant was extremely Furious and send me a five-paragraph email at my work and she began the email with "I hate your mother!" She accused my mother of being domineering, controlling and trying to take over her wedding. That should have been my wake-up moment right then in there that I had made a huge mistake and I was marrying the wrong person
We divorced less than 4 years later, her mother made her divorce me. And what's ironic is it she accused my mother of being domineering and trying to control everything when in reality it was her mother.
Over a punch bowl? Wow.
Sounds like she was projecting her own situation onto her husband's mother.
Who tf gets mad about a free crystal punch bowl???
@@It-is-me...Melsie
It's doubtful. She is one of those women who's always looking for a trade-up, a BBD (bigger, better deal). So I think eventually she would have thrown me over for somebody with a bigger truck or a higher-paying job somebody that had an extra zero at the end of their yearly salary
i’ve literally just been binge watching so many of these while cleaning and going through my room lol
I had an Ex that was a nightmare!! She convinced me she was dying and I took care of her for two years and she got pregnant(she had told me her "disability" ruined her cervix).
She got herself an engagement ring and I was gonna marry her as she was "dying soon". She set up all my friends to look like they stole from or did me wrong so shed have me alone. She was 4'9" so she was very lil and cute sounding so ppl believed her.
She came to a family event with eye shadow to look like a bruise and told my family I beat her and my son with shoes and passed out pictures of me smoking pot with a ventriloquist dummy.
We broke up and she called the police(2x) one time saying I was making crystal meth with underage girls(neither was true at all) and she did it just in case i went on a date. She researched and tried making friends with all of my exes and even went against my sisters because she was scared Id hook up with them.
It broke me so bad and put me in crippling depression because I thought I was helping to give a dying women a happy life and just wanted to love and be loved but she destroyed a lot of my hope in getting married. Id like that hope again but watching how much ppl cheat, and the selfishness and entitlement can be off-putting. Im happy for ppl that find it.
Charles, that’s some very difficult things that you had to live through and I am sorry for you. You probably will have to heal the wounds a bit first but I am sure that you will meet someone that deserves your love and will make you feel loved as well. You deserve it!
You need to get custody of your son!
Like now, you need him away from that crazy woman.
Is that you Johnny Depp?
man, get off the internet, live your life in the real world and you will find someone. do not pity marry anyone, don't even pity date. God bless
@@Sassound123 Thanks I appreciate your kind words!
Not the bride that hop danced down the aisle while hammered! Then giggling and saying that’s not a good sign! No lie if I was at that wedding I would have lost it!!! I would have been rofl!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lolz I swear! There are people around me that are getting worried about me binge watching all of Charlotte's videos. I watch them over and over, and even when I sleep, I have my earphones on, with her videos playing😂 The Audacity is part of my everyday reactions to entitled people I come in contact with, her video reactions are my yardstick for what should be good🥰😎😂
I once went to a wedding where in the vows the bride and groom promised to stay together as "long as the love shall last". It lasted a year.
I had some friends that said that same thing attheir wedding but one of them was on marriage #3 and the other on marriage #5 so saying until death seemed like a big lie to start with!
... Aaaaand, this many MORE reasons why I'm grateful for my bride!
The best distraction to being sick. Thankyou Charlotte! 💕
I think I shocked some of my husband's extended family when I started roasting him during my speech. My family, his immediate family and our friends were laughing their ass off.
Tbf, his proposal sucked and he had a previous opportunity that was just perfect and when he went on one knee, my heart started racing.... But he was tying his shoe.
He proposed to me while i was in my bunny pj with a greasy messy bun, lounging on the couch. 😅
We've been married for 8 years and have two kids. So I guess it was good enough after all. 😊
That last one kind of reminded me of my sister and her husband because when they first met they did not like each other at all but somehow they grew on each other and they've been married for like 25 years or more now I think and they're happy and they're really good together but it was just funny.
The last one reminded me of one of my aunt's friends haha, when she and her now husband were in uni they completely despised each other if, like everyone knew they did and she kept telling her friends how insufferable he was. A couple of years later they met again and fell in love they are still together years later but when my aunt told me this was how they met I couldn't stop laughing 😆
Charlotte just nailed what it means to be „authentic“ on social media, didn’t she?! I always feel like we are old friends and as if she is is talking right to me 😃😃😆
Worst almost wedding moment - it was the day before the wedding, checking into their hotel with the dress, luggage and everything that was nearby the place of the reception. The bride to be gets extremely cold feet and calls off the wedding. Everything is already paid for and it's literally the day before the wedding so there's no way they can get a refund or money back and of course the cake and food were already being prepared and everything. So come the day of the wedding, it turns into more of a family reunion (I mean we invited bride to be's family but of course none of them showed). So our family is enjoying the place, the food, the cake. And of course the girl later on tries to get back with him, messages him, makes up an excuse about needing to come over for a box of her stuff (he boxed it and shipped it to her, despite them living in the same city). He's now happily married, wife, three kids. I'll never understand people who wait until the day before or day of (or really THAT close to a wedding) that they're not ready to be married. Surely you know beforehand that you don't wanna be married. Save the trouble and just be honest, not wait until everything is booked, money is paid, guests are invited to say "actually...no"
These wedding and gossip videos you make are the absolute best. I watch them with my girlfriend every night. Cheers from Brazil
I once was a hairstylist at a wedding in February 2020. And I remember how someone called the bride and on the other side of the phone there was a guy almost screaming at her, telling her she should listen to him and shut up, that she is dumb and that she can't think in general. I thought: "oh my god who the hell is talking to a bride like this on her wedding day" about 15 minutes later the guy from the phone walked in and it turned out it was her groom
You should do a feel good video on the surprising circumstances when couples first meet👏👏❤️
My mom got married in her back yard, put together a dress for like $40, rented chairs for 1$ each, ordered pizza and made some salads and a friend made the cake. They probably spent less than $300 all together and had about 50 guests.
Yep, it's not about the flashy wedding. I too have a long marriage that started with a very modest do!
"Hey everybody , what was a wedding womment that...."😂❤ love her even her slip ups are cute
My sister, as part of her wedding vows, told her husband that he would live in her shed out back. Lasted 7 months until she threw him out. He was not interested in earning a living or doing any chores. He went hunting with the bros every day and night that he could, drank a lot of beer and sat on the couch. I told her before marriage that he was looking for a mommy, not a wife. She finally agreed with me.
Charlotte, just so glad you touched this subject because not only were all those interesting stories but wow, wish I had the time to read all the interesting stories in the comments here! I read more than a dozen as they were addictive! Though that one with the brother... don't know what to say to that one!
My nephew and his wife met on a blind date. Hated each other. He called her bored "wanna go to dinner " what the hell, why not. Two kids through college? Long happy life. Still going. If you ask him? How long have you been married? A LOOONG TIME. 🤣🤪🤠🙀
Ahhhh i love the sound of someone typing on the keyboard its soooo soothing to me
These women want a wedding…not a marriage…but to be fair, I had a groomzilla who insisted on a wedding, hand made chocolate cigars, full meal, open bar, a suit that cost more than my dress, a special ring that cost more than my ring, a custom made cake and special choreographed wedding dance. I wanted to go to Justice of the peace. I love my Groomzilla and we are still blissfully happy 3 years later.
I seriously don't know how I ever entertained myself before finding this channel. My petty tank has been running on empty and I had no idea!
at my brother's wedding, the MOH gave her speech and said how when wife met my bro, everyone told her to drop digging because she'd found her pot of gold.
I guess that can be taken two ways....she was really a "gold digger" or.... they were agreeing that she finally found the right one.
@@mariondesousa7718 given all the rest of everything, which I won't go into here, the answer is gold digger.
It's odd because I didn't realise until too late who my ex was, he's in prison so the true him finally surfaced but honestly looking back the moment that it was doomed - that I didn't recognise at the time, was when on my wedding day my father asked with real concern "do you really want to do this?" I thought he was being over dramatic but now I look back and think did he see that darkness in him that I didn't want to see? Worst mistake of my life 😔 how I wish I'd told my dad no and walked away, a lot of pain would have been saved.
Thank you as ever, for your delightful videos Charlotte 😘💕
I will never understand why do people decide to get married to someone they don't even know well
@@Kamila.k we knew each 7 years prior to marriage, so I thought I did, but some people are good at hiding their true face. When the police initially arrested him even his own mother said "they have to be wrong or my son is a true jekyll and hyde" even SHE, the woman who gave birth to him, had no idea of the demons in his head. If his own mum was blindsided, how was I to know? You can know someone and still not know who they truly are, that's just life.
@@namethestarsSo true!! Some people are just very good at deceit!!! I'm sorry that happened to you😢❤
These videos always make me realise how lucky I am being with my wife. The friend who was my best man is gay, he certainly didn’t do the groom in the cloakroom, or any room, before the wedding.
Thank you Charlotte for making us laugh so much everyday. These vídeos are the best and your Channel means a lot to me.
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I was legit just now looking at your pretty in petty merch 😍😍😍 wish I could get it! Love you!
Hey Charlotte just wanted to give you an early congratulations 🍾🎈🎉🎊 on 1 MILLION subscribers 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽.
Our pastor explicitly said he would never marry anyone if they were intoxicated as the ceremony would not be legal 🤷♀️
I've got a good one too. My uncle is a retired pastor and he told me that the last wedding he officiated (or tried to) the police showed up to arrest the groom...for shooting the best man to death the night before the wedding! My uncle said that after that he decided he was never going to perform a wedding again. And he didn't.
Charlotte love your reaction. My husband and I cannot stop laughing over these stories. Some just should never marry if it has so little meaning to them.
One of the best wedding stories that I ever heard was on a Steve Harvey show, where people ask him questions. A man was complaining that his wife got passed out from during the reception and he had to take her and put her to bed. And every year on their anniversary for the last 31 years she wanted to know what happened and if she did anything embarrassing that night. He wanted to figure out how to stop her from asking every year. I commented that I hope she's there with him to ask for the next 31 years!
My mother-in-law showed up to my wedding in all black as well, but my husband and I are very in love with each other so we just rolled her eyes at her and ignored her behavior and went on with our lovely wedding. We’ve been married for 11 years, we have 3 kids and are still happy
So u will wear white to her funeral and dance on her grave? 😂😂😂😂
I cannot wait to see you get to 1 Million subscribers! I’ve been watching you entertain the masses since Info Overload!
Love love love the petty merch! Thank you for all of the petty inspired looks to choose from 😍
We need more of these...Char's reactions are just the funny that is needed!
Ok, but on that last one, I would do something similar; the first thing I ever said to my bf was "hi, if you mess up my department, I'll take your head off". We started dating about a month after that and it's now a running joke.
Was sick yesterday and found your channel...binged for HOURS. Thanks for making the sick day better 😊 new subscriber and glad to be here!
Much love from Arizona 💜💜
Welcome to the club.
My own first marriage. Was a full church ceremony and even on the way to church I had doubts but felt like i was in too deep now. We ended up in couples therapy but i kicked her out 5 months after. Dont get married too young especially if you feel pressured, and just to be honest pressure was from both families.
This just became one of my fave videos ever!!!