Why Do People Cheat in Marriage? Insights and Wisdom from Dr. Karl Benzio
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ก.ย. 2024
- In today's TH-cam episode, we had an insightful conversation with Dr. Karl Benzio about the complexities of decision-making in regards to betrayal in relationships.
Dr. Karl shared some profound insights into why people cheat and make poor decisions inside their relationships. He broke it down into three areas:
Intrapersonal issues,
Relational challenges, and
Circumstantial factors.
These three buckets help us understand the root causes of our decisions.
As we discussed, many of us might think we have strong foundations in our relationships, but Dr. Karl pointed out that we often have psychological baggage or cracks in our foundation that we're not even aware of.
This ignorance, rather than pride, can lead to a destructive path.
Dr. Karl also emphasized the importance of self-reflection and introspection.
Just as you would review game tapes to improve in sports, you can do a "decision-making autopsy" to understand why you made certain choices.
This process allows you to dig deep into your past experiences, emotions, and the perspectives that influence your decisions.
Remember, self-awareness is key to understanding your vulnerabilities and making healthier choices in your relationships.
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What Dr. Benzio said is sooo true. Unfortunately,
I’m hearing this now and my husband who had a lot of intrapersonal turmoil , we had interpersonal conflicts and faith got so foggy couldn’t get out of the pit he got himself into and ended his life . I wish now that I jumped into your coaching offer and maybe we have avoided these pitfalls and maybe he is still alive and not as ignorant and making better decisions .
Oh my heart breaks reading this comment. I am so sorry for your loss and the pain you must be feeling. Navigating inner turmoil is extremely challenging. I’m praying that God comforts and guides you during this time of grief and sadness and brings you a new perspective of life and His purpose for you! Thank you for watching.
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