December Avenue - Bulong (OFFICIAL MUSIC VIDEO)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 เม.ย. 2018
- The official music video for "Bulong" by December Avenue.
PRODUCED BY: DECEMBER AVENUE, 8TH STREET CINEMA, & TOWER OF DOOM
Starring: Gee Canlas and Eo Marcos
Director: Andrei Antonio
DOP: Mark Antonio
Producer: Angela Suarez
First Cam Operator: Jesus Reyes
Second Cam Operator: Karl Montenegro
Production Assistants: Ruiji Abarca, Collin Tuaño
Editor/Colorist: Andrei Antonio
Bulong Lyrics:
Hindi Masabi Ang Nararamdaman
Hindi Makalapit Sadyang Nanginginig Na Lang
Mga Kamay Na Sabik Sa Piling Mo
Ang Iyong Matang Walang Mintis Sa Pagtigil Ng Aking Mundo
Ako'y Alipin Ng Pagibig Mo
Handang Ibigin Ang Isang Tulad Mo
Hanggat Ang Puso Mo'y Sa Akin Lang Hindi Ka Na Malilinlang
Ikaw Ang Ilaw Sa Dilim At Ang Liwanag Ng Mga Bituin
Hindi Mapakali
Hanggang Tingin Nalang
Bumubulong Sa'yong Tabi
Sadyang Walang Makapantay
Sa Kagandahang Inuukit Mo Sa Isip Ko - เพลง
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"Only the one who loves you most, can understand you most"
last button true
Maybe
The one who loves you most,
The one you love the most,
And the one with whom love is right
You meet these three and you're damn lucky if the universe gives them to you as one person. 😌 Kbye.
Ang sakit. Kung pwede lang sana natin piliin yung taong mamamahalin tayo at iintindihin ng lubos.
Tapos ako yung most na mahal ka di mo mahal tangina talaga :
"kaya mo yan!"
"malalagpasan mo rin yan."
"magiging okay din ang lahat."
the thing is... kapag nasanay kana sa kalungkutan. di mo na gugustuhing umalis sa phase na yon. tahimik. payapa. kahit mahirap, okay lang. di mo na rin kakailanganin i-open up sa iba. isasarili mo nalang lahat imbis na mang abala kapa.
How u say that u experience the same sit?
Hindi naman sa di mo gugustihing umalis but its like even if you try it’s gonna pull you back. Ewan ko sa iba pero ganun yung akin 😢
Hindi ko alam pero parang mismong sarili ko na gumagawa ng paraan para mag stay kesa sa dati kong sarili na naloloko at sinasamantala kabaitan ko at mas gugustuhin ko nalang mag sarili kesa mag open up sa iba kase yung iba yung mindset pang tanga e sasabihin gawa gawa lang ang kalungkutan
ang mahirap ee ung nalulungkot ka kahit wala naman dpat ikalungkot..
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P@@euniceencinares3682
i play this song on repeat. as someone who suffers from trauma, anxiety, and depression I made myself believe na I don't deserve to be loved. still, it makes me wonder how does it feel to have someone who stays by your side even if you are at your worse.
I feel you
This song reminds me so much of my girlfriend. She's been through a lot and I really wish I was there when she was struggling. I wish I had met her sooner para noong mga panahong pakiramdam niya nag-iisa siya, andito ako para sa kanya, andito ako para kapitan niya . I'm proud of her for surviving this phase in her life. Everyday, pinaghihirapan kong maging better for her. Palagi niyang tinatanong if I can handle her and palagi ko rin siyang sinasagot na I won't leave her kahit na magkanda-letse letse na ang lahat, na I'll always choose to understand her, I'll always choose her. To my love, I love you so much and loving you is the greatest and easiest thing I've ever done. Loving you is so easy. I'll love you during the fun and will love you harder during the messy times. Andito ako palagi. Mahal na mahal kita, B.
Based from what I have read, your gf is really blessed to have you. It's not easy to handle a person who has been through a lot. We can't change the past, her traumas will hunt her until the coming days, but she's trying her best and she appreciates all your efforts and courage to stick with her even if she has a lot of issues with herself. She's thankful that you came. ❤️ She loves you so much. She promises that she'll work things out with you; it might not be perfect but the thought that you will overcome it together matters most.
@@ma.barbaralorenzo959 yiieee you found my comment. You won't have to go through things on your own anymore, promise. I love you! Forever and ever ❤️
Stay strong ❤️
Grabe naman kayo kakakilig
Aww🥺❤️
I suffer from Borderline Personality Disorder at sobrang sakit ang magkaroon ng sakit na tulad neto. Depression, suicidal thoughts, anxiety, psychotic behaviors, lahat nasa akin na. Salamat December Avenue para sa kantang ito.
stay strong!! you are loved!
woah, grabe BPD. :( praying for you, ate! someone will love you in the future the way you deserve to be loved, i'm sure of it. :)
Hi miss thank you for sharing . I was wandering my self for the past few days or i think its been a year na that i am like this. Maybe we suffer the same disorder. i was empty everyday and i was searching for answers. I experience massive change of mood. and i always feel that i am alone and no one loves me. Thank you also December avenue for this wonderful music. I am always an avid fan of the december avenue :)
Ivette Caburnay You're not the only one. Wag kang mag alala ok? Kaya natin to. Smile always
Keep going in life. You are loved. ❤️
"look for someone who can hold you firmly during your storms. They're not capable of driving the storm away but they will hold you and give you warmth until the chaos is done and can no longer hurt you."
Poetic Panda ang ganda pre pahiram ha
Poetic Panda 😔
Pahiram din po lufet eh
Pahiram din po huh😊 thank u in advance😊
Poetic Panda 😔😭
"if you cant be with me at my lowest, then you dont deserve me at my best"
this video just did that
:')
this is not always true, there’s a saying na
“At your best, you still won't be good enough for the wrong person. At your worst, you'll still be worth it to the right person.”
Luh! Gold!?
Sakit non par😢@@AlexisFloresFilms
This song reminds of the days where I was suffering from Depression. My fiancee at that time has always been there for me although he cannot understand me anymore, he has been there and tried to stay no matter how difficult it was. Every episode I have would be a total wreck, he didnt leave, he stayed and just choose to embrace me until the end. I even end up admitting to him that I dont like what is happening to me and I am sorry I had to put him through so much troubles due to my mental sickness, I even said that I think I am getting crazy and I wanted a professional help or even get admitted to a psycological ward. Thankful that I survived it and thankful that my fiancee back then now my husband has been with me through the way. I used to question his love for me all the time, till I saw this official video of bulong and I realize how much sacrifice he did for me and even until this day when I am having relapse, he’s just there loving me and trying to understand me 🥺🥺. He won’t know this but I am soo thankful for him
Aaawwww! 🥰🥰
etooo ung "if u can’t handle me at my worst then u don’t deserve me at my best"
dara kim Hindi yan kasalanan nung guy. Gender Equality tayo. Hindi lahat ng oras puro tayong babae ang may tama.
best comment so far
Camilla Joyce what she mean lang kase na kung di mo kayang tanggapin kung sino siya at ang mga flaws niya edi hindi ka para sa kanya
Saludo ako sa lalaking kahit na nahihirapan siya eh kumakapit siya at talagang pinananaig ang pagmamahal niya sa babae.
Camilla Joyce di naman ata yun pinopoint out nya.
May mga kanta talagang mag papa iyak satin kahit wala naman tayong lovelife kahit wala namang taong nanakit satin yung feel mo lang yung kanta at mag drama ganon HAHAHA
😢
😂😂
Ok lang umiyak kahit walang lablyf
mag lovlyf kana :')
Upin
may babaeng mahal ako unstable sya sa lahat halo halong problema.
Andito ko dahil pinakikinggan ko to para sakanya. Babalikan ko to pag naayos na nya mental health nya
kaya para sa mga nagbabasa nito at nakakaranas ng depression, anxiety, trauma about mental health lumaban kayo sa mga problema at mag pagaling kayo mabuti.
Dahil kaming handang umintindi ng ganitong sitwasyon di kami mag sasawang intindihin at suportahan kayo sa kung anong makakapag paayos sainyo kahit masakit din samin 😢
Labyu bebe! Nandito lang kami para sayo ❤
Thank you for understanding her. I hope she still has you ❤
Bulong ito yung madalas natin gawin nagtatanong muna tayo sa ating sarili kung ano ba ang dapat gawin upang itama ang ating gagawin pero dahil sa dami ng problema na gumugulo sa isipan na maraming alinlangan at aalahanin na bumubulong sa ating isip dahil sa mga nangyayari sa buhay natin hindi natin magawang pagkatiwalaan ang ating sarili na mag isa lamang kaya humihingi tayo ng suporta....paano kung ang suporta ay nawala na?!!!
Sino parin ang nakikinig nito ngayong 2021? Anyways, Happy New Year everyone🎉🥳Spend time with your family and loved ones💖
Ansakit parennnnnnnnn
Me
Me
Ansaketttttt😭😭😭😭
Sana next year wla ng comment na ganto ah kaka Sawa na taon taon nlng
“nagbreak down ako kagabi eh”
“weh ikaw magbebreak down? HAHHAAH”
not because we appear strong, doesn’t mean we don’t suffer sometimes :)
Yakap!!
Exatly.
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akala nila nagbibiro lang ako BWHAHAHA lol, nagdeac aq ilang weeks none of them even checked me out.
Yakap break it down!!
Nung unang beses ko itong mapanood, hindi ko naintindihan kung bakit biglang nagkaganon yung babae, wala namang nangyaring masama na ikagagalit or ikalulungkot niya. And now years later, naintindihan ko na, lalo na dahil dinaranas ko rin siya ngayon. Masaya ka tapos biglang parang gusto mo nang umiyak, magwala, at nasasaktan ka. I've been experiencing this for months now, and I hate that I can't express what I'm feeling to anyone.
This song is for my boyfriend. Ngayon yakap yakap ko sya while sleeping, sinusulit ang mga oras na magkasama kaming dalawa. Dahil alam kong sawa na sya sakin. I will miss this boy. Super. May autism sya pero minahal nya ko ng sobra at totoo. Pinagsisihan ko ng sobra ang pagkakamali kong nagawa, sobra. Hinihiling ko sa Panginoon sana sya na makasama ko habang buhay. Pero mukhang malabo na. Babalikan ko lagi tong kanta na to na lagi nyan kinakanta sakin. I love you always Corneld Robert Jehar F. Gacutan. I wish you the best and I love you forever. 7-25-22 Terrence❤️
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10/10 music
10/10 acting
10/10 cinematography
CaptPudge baka 11/10 overall bro. Hands down.
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Better than viktor magtanggol
I love how it started with a clock, parang sinasabi na there are times where eveything is good or everything is bad. Then the scenes kung saan parang may nag blink na eye that say na in a blink of an eye things can change but then you have to realize that even after all the pain you have to be strong for both of you
A wonderful opinion
I think it's a Fact
Ate
Kamotakaba
Salute to my man who never ever thought of giving up on me even if it keeps getting harder to be with me because of my disorder.
😘
Sa taong minamahal ko nang halos anim na taon na, na walang ideya sa existence ko, ni kahit pangalan ko hindi mo alam, pero alam ko na minsan mo nang napakiggan ang kantang ito at sa kantang ito gusto kong iparating sa iyo ang nais kong sabihin. Umaasa pa rin ako na magtatagpo ang mga landas natin at isusulat natin ang ating kuwento. 💙
Kaway kaway sa mga nasaktan pero wala namang jowa haha relate much😂😂😂
hey..i'm here..
Camille Pascual Oo ngaaaa
I dont see anything related sa mv na to about "nasaktan" lol its about mental illness and understanding gago
May kadate kana po ba sa february
Pota hasshhah
October 1, 2020 - 2:05 PM
Babalik ako dito after 10 years :
Sana umabot pa yung planeta natin
Baka ikaw din makalimot :/
haha ge
See you:)
Tunog linyahan ni ex,
Been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and the hardest part is walang nakakaintindi sayo, been with relationship na they use it against me.. And when I found my now husband to be, I listened to this song again with him.. And makes me cry.. Knowing the lyrics of this song finally came to life.. Sa kanya.. Who always understand, for being the support I need, sa patience nya, and naiyak ako lalo nung accidentally ko nakita na nagreresearch sya about sa sakit ko and she always makes me feel I am normal. Now, almost 2 years since nawidraw ko ung gamot. From time to time andun pa rin.. But he always make sure that we are together in this. Truly that love, support and understanding can heal. Praying that everyone will find their support and love they need.
My girlfriend is suffering from Bipolar, Borderline and Paranoia personality Disorder.
Thank you for this Mind Opening Music Video December Avenue to make them understand na these kind of Sickness are real and hindi dapat nilalang or minamaliit lang. And they are the kind of people who badly badly needs to be understand and taken care of.I love you babe 💚💚🌈
Swerte ng girlfriend mo sayo. Sa word palang na "Wag nilalang or minamaliit" she's in good hands.
1:59 best line!! 🥺🤎
𝘚𝘢𝘥𝘺𝘢𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘢𝘭𝘢𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘢𝘱𝘢𝘯𝘵𝘢𝘺 𝘴𝘢 𝘬𝘢𝘨𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘢𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘯𝘶𝘶𝘬𝘪𝘵 𝘮𝘰 𝘴𝘢 𝘪𝘴𝘪𝘱 𝘬𝘰 ~ ♡
this mv made me remember a bunch of memories. i remember having to take anti-depressants daily. i remember telling my man "masaya naman tayo kanina a?" as i lay in bed engulfed with a sadness so painful not even knowing where it's coming from. i remember breaking down in front of him, then after i'd calmed down i'd see that i injured myself. i check him too just to make sure i didn't hurt him. i know this comment wouldn't matter to a lot. i just want to thank December Avenue for making me realize how lucky i am to have a person who loved me back when i was struggling with a disorder. to those in a relationship like this, don't give up because it could actually work out. things get better.
elaine agnas this is so sad
and congrats to you two btw
thank you 🌻
👍☺
I can relate. 😊 its a blessing to have someone who will fight with you in your own battles. 💖
balang araw tatanungin mo'ko kung ano ang mas mahalaga, ang buhay ko o ang buhay mo? at sinabi kong "sakin" at umalis ka na walang kaalam alam na ikaw ang buhay ko
This song was one of my favorite. Remind me of my ex he was the one who share this song to me. We’ve been 5 years together. He’s the only person understand me when my darkness side comes, I am truly happy with him. Lahat nung pinangarap namin is natupad na nya. Now he’s happy with her wife and daughter. Every time December Avenues Playlist comes, it reminds me of our good memories, kayo po yung fav band and playlist namin. Thank you for creating this atleast when my dark side comes again and again all I need to do is to listen again to the playlist ❤ Sana gumawa pa kayo madaming songs.
Ayusin mo muna yung English mo bago ka mag comment
LIKE NYOTO KUNG NAKIKINIG KAYO NGAYONG 2022 NETO
Imagine may magsasabi sayo na "handang ibigin ang isang tulad mo" napakasarap pakingan tapos mangagaling pa sa taong mahal mo pero hanggang imagine na lang IH😭😭😭
marami naman nagsasabi pero halos salita lang walang gawa 🤣
Marj Hernandez hmmf.
Hndi aq nag iimagine dahil sinabi ko yan sa taong mahal ko todong todo d lng salita kasali ang gawa at SHARE KO LNG haha
mga topakin kasi kayo hahaha
Weridv
I used to listen this song when i was in grade 8th and I thought this song is all about on someone that who can't express his/her feelings for that person. Because that time, may crush ako sa classmate kong girl and everytime na tinutukso ako ng mga classmates ko, I always keep denying na wala akong crush sa kanya but deep inside my heart I know na meron talaga at pilit ko lang na tinatangi.
Kaya akala ko dati yung unang part ng lyrics if we sing, "Hindi masabi ang nararamdaman, di makalapit sadyang nanginginig nalang" is about everytime na makikita mo crush mo and gusto mong umamin but hindi mo magawa at nanginginig kanalang sa isang tabi kasi you feel disappointed to yourself. Kahit na gusto mo siya makilala, makausap pero hindi magawa because we are afraid of rejection.
sheeeeeeesh it's 2022 na pero bakit hindi kita makalimutan ramien.
There is comfort in sadness.
yes..this song is..
😥
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Race most I to most run to
"hold onto someone who can handle all your flaws, disabilities and mood swings." Adding the Manic depression to the concept was a great idea, elaborating the fact that this really happens. Bulong is such a strong word for people who has this illness. Kudos to this team who made this!
Kuha pati yung manic episode followed by the lull, the self injury.. then the swing to acting out to the depressive state.. galing my filmography
@@mikopanglao4457 ang kaso lang pre wala akong ganon haha lahat ng tao pinagpapalit ako:>
@@user-qp4pw9ip6u Laban lang may tamang oras sa tamang tao. Kahit umabot ng isang daan yang nanakit sayo wag ka mananawa magmahal. Maniwala ka sasaya ka ulit sa taong nakatadhana sayo 💗
opo
Feeling Down ba Kapatid?
Keep Smiling, Keep Breathing & definitely KEEP LIVING!
Be Strong, Kaya Mo Yan, Ikaw pa. Raise your head kapatid.
Tuloy lang ang buhay, malalampasan mo din yan.
Mahal ka ni LORD! :)
Amen
2024? Let's Go!!!!
What's the most painful in having depression? Wala kang makausap ng matino. Hindi alam at naiintidihan yung depression mo. Mahirap ibahagi kasi baka pagtawanan at i-down kalang. Sobra na kong depress pero pinipigilan ko lang sabihin sa iba na gusto ko ng magpakamatay... kasi baka ma reject ako at pagtawanan lang nila. Parang feeling mo lahat kaaway mo.
You okay? Need mo ng kausap?
@@geraldbondoc3128 hi yes thank you for offering yourself to listen 🙂
@Kayla Sofia pinagdaanan ko din kase ung ganyan. Kaya alam ko feeling ganu kahirap. Hope you're okay na. 🙂🙂
@@geraldbondoc3128 thank you. I will be. 🙂
@@kaylasofia6193Good.🙂🙂 Mukang mejo okay kana. If ever need mo ng mapagsasabihan lang or makikinig pwede ako.
Eto yung definition ng “andito lang ako hindi kita iiwan”
You, a stranger that must be a nobody to me but captivated me greatly, but one things for sure
I will now just remain here admiring you from afar standing still as I look through your elegance and presence near me waiting for what the future would have brought to us
Here as I just distance myself to not disturb your humble and adventurous life, as I saw you as the one who could've been the person to be a better way to go but maybe you'll just remain as a part of this life long movie of mine so I'll just keep it on that level.
My ex girlfriend had Borderline Personality Disorder. Those months I had with her was a whirlwind of different emotions. Magiging masaya siya, malungkot, takot, hopeless. I did everything I could to keep her but still she left. Kaya everytime na naririnig ko kantang ito, it's a reminder na kahit sa saglit na panahon naging kami, naging sa kanya ako. At lubos parin akong nagpapasalamat sa pagkakataong iyon.
Kakabreak lang namin ngayon ng long-time gf ko. She is suffering depression. Lagi kong pinaparinig sakanya ito to give her assurance pero ganito talaga siguro ang buhay... hindi kami para sa isa’t isa dahil siya na mismo ang sumuko. Nandito naman ako lagi para sayo kahit anong meron ka, kahit ano ka pa. 6 years tayo. Ngayong 27 y/o na ako hindi ko alam kung saan mag uumpisa at kung papaano dahil nasanay akong ikaw ang panimula ng araw ko at kataposan ng gabi ko. Sa tagal ng panahon ngayon na lang ako ulit naging balisa sa mga bagay-bagay dahil hindi ko alam kung saan ako nagkamali at nagkulang.
God will heal you sir 😊
Lapit ka lang kay Lord ☺️
Kya mo yan ironman
Kaya mo yan kusang mawawala at lilipas ang sakit😊
😭
Daming tao na "i suffer from". My girlfriend was diagonsed with BPD. Really puts our relationship to its limits, but i never once thought of leaving her behind. Stay strong.
Salute sayo sirr
Thank you
Kayo pa po ba
i hope she's okay 😊
That's good Sir na Hindi mopo sya iniwan kahit May Manic sya at Depression Mahirap po yang sakit po na yan Nag karoon rin po ako ng sakit na ganyan ksi binubully po ako ng mga classmates ko But now I'm recover because of my medicine Wala pong kasiguraduhan ang Bipolar disorder na sakit wala pang Natuklasan na Luna's po para Jan Ang Gamot lng po Jan Ay Tulog at Wag ma stress Laging iinom ng gamot ang side effects po ksi ng gamot ay nakakaantok
ang sakit din pala maging alipin ng pag-ibig 'no? the more we love, the more we hate, the more we hope for something to happen. it leaves us in a situation wherein we're clueless and helpless, na parang walang maganda kung hindi umaasa. it's tiring, and draining.
Intro to first chorus always gives me goosebumps
It's a struggle to love someone who suffers from their mental health.
But it's also a struggle for us to let people love us, knowing we're hard to love and understand. You want to let someone in pero at the same time you don't want to be a burden. And we always ask ourselves, "hanggang saan kaya kaya neto?", "hanggang kailan kaya nya ko matitiis?" 😢
I have this tendency to cry and panic in the middle of the night. I can't do anything about it. It's like I'm being haunted by my fears, bad memories and pressure. I experience it every now and then. It's like trying not to cough when your throat is so itchy. One time, my fiance saw me having an attack, he asked me, hugged me 'til I fell asleep. He's the only one who knows. Lucky to have him.
there is always that someone you can hold on to... sweet to hear you overcome your fear through your fiance :')
borderline personality disorder
Take 5 htp supplement :)
Me too.... Ung pgkalmot nya s srli nya nggwa ko yan pg ntrtrigger ako kse pgtpos ko mgwlabang hapdi ng balat ko 😞
M0yra dela tore
Love, kirsten don't give up in life.
Mahal, i'll be always right here. Iwanan mo ako, andito lang ako. Awayin mo ako, andito lang ako. In your storms i will always stay clear and strong. Mapapagod ako, pero hinding hindi kita susukuan at hinding hindi ako mauubos. Para sa'yo, lahat tatanggapin ko. Kung mabasa mo man 'to mahal, andito lang ako. Mahal na mahal kita..
To someone who's watching this supremacy! YOU'RE WORTH IT!
When you miss her and you have nothing to do about it.
Kung nababasa mo ito
I will keep my promise
Di nako magmamahal iba
Tatanda akong mag isa
Kasama ang mga masasayang nating
alaala.
Aww
Pain
Ganito nalang din ata ko 😥
Dis me:)
January 11, 2022 still listening to this song, it brings me back those memories that I had never be forgotten those happy things that I had in the past and until now I'm so super happy living with my long time boyfriend and now he is my husband and we have baby🤗. This song is my comfort zone. Thank you december avenue composing this song.
January 14, 2022 ❤️
@@frekchocoorange8759 feb 14, exactly 1 month lol
April 20,2022 🤍✨
SEPTEMBER 27 2022
Until now ,hindi parin ako limot sa taong bumubuo palagi ng araw ko, yung taong kahit ngiti lang nya buo na araw ko, makita ko lang sya masaya na ko ,parang kelan lang 😪😞
Akoy alipin ng pag ibig moo 💖
This video sums up my 2017...
Siguro dhil maaga din kami nagsama at nagkaanak at kinasal..
Although hindi naman sya nag wawala or whatsoever..
Parang nagsawa sya..
Gusto nya mapag-isa..and makasama ang friends nya..
Pero bago yun we're ok..
Biglang isang gabi nalang..
Malamig na sya..
In short nagsawa tlga..
May mga umaaligid ligid pa...
Ang hirap..
Paeang gusto ko sumuko..
Pero dhil may mga bata..
Hindi pwede..
Halos araw araw..
Away..araw araw..kapag nag uusap laging pagalit.
Halos isang taon..
But never akong nagdecide na..
Iwan sya or humanap ng iba..
I waited...
Till biglang isang araw nalang..
Nagising akonng nakayakap na sya sakin...
Til now...
Hindi ko alam kung anong nangyari sa kanya..
At hindi ndin ako nagtnong..
Ang mahalaga ngayon kahit pandemic...
Hindi kami hirap at Ok ang family namin...
The intro sounds so magical its like bringing you again in the past ❤️
Talaga
@@tyrionlannister1269 3 years ago talaga
Omsim parang binabalik ka sa 2018
Brings me back 2012 .
Aww 😩😩✊✊
sinu padin Ang mga nakikinig nito Ngayong 2023?
This was us, except we both have depression .. I live alone and she lives with her family who ignores her .. We were doing great, like normal couples - we found comfort in each other since we both suffer the same thing with just a bit different situation .. I visit her every 2 or 3 months and we would stay with each other for 3 days at best - this went on for 5 long years since I work on a different city and she cannot leave her family ..
Everything was great until the pandemic happened .. I cannot visit her and it did not occur to me that not having her presence beside me for a long period of time, would eventually drive me crazy .. I started changing for the worse, I drown myself with work and video games because the voices in my head would stop if I'm preoccupied with something .. Her situation wasn't also the best, she was stuck at home with people who ignores her presence .. Between me and her, I always knew that it I had it easy .. It was easy to be stuck home alone than be stuck with snakes at home .. Still, knowing she had it worse did not stop my mind from going out of the gutter .. The more days that passes that I cannot feel her warmth beside me, the more I feel myself getting over the edge of insanity .. Then one day it occured to me tht I no longer need to share my pain and thoughts with her because her situation is much worse than me and I did not want to add to her burden - this was the biggest mistake of my life ... The more i suppress the pain and voices in my head the faster my behavior changed .. I turned cold towards her to the point where I would just shrug my shoulder whenever she shares her pain to me .. She noticed the changes till one day she asked me - "who are you? you are not the same guy i met whom i loved" ... Her question brought me to sanity and started to see what had happened, but it was too late .. I was already broken and never the same person anymore .. The more I stay in contact with her, the more I start to hate her .. Yes, deep down I started hating her without me noticing .. I was blaming her for not noticing that I was going down the drain - even though she was my only string to sanity ..... and so I asked for us to breakup .
I am going crazy ... but I dont know what to do .. I don't have any lingering attachment to life .. At least i had one, before - it was her .. But now, I feel like I'm walking in a dark place with nobody else and with no sound to hear .. I think about dying every single day .. I attempted to end things ar least twice but I'm afraid of the physical pain that I could not push myself yo finish it .. So here I am, still waking up every day - but a bit more broken than yesterday .. just waiting for the day I stop existing .
I hope you get through this
I hope you get through this. Will add you to my prayer this time. Everything happens for a reason, may you cope up with what you are struggling right now. Both of you may be healed.
sakit sobra
2021 who's with me?
sinisimbolo nung infinity na kwintas na hindi pang-habang buhay yung sakit na nararamdaman nung girl. darating din yung time na magiging okay din ang lahat sa tamang panahon.
the clock has multiple meanings here.
manic depression: how quick her mood changes from overjoyed to depressed in a matter of hours.
patience: loving someone with a mental illness is different. kailangan nila ng mas mahabang pasyensya at pag-unawa ng taong mahal sila. you have to be strong and face their storms together.
love: take time to show them your honest feelings. hindi naibabalik ang oras kaya mas mabuti ng gawin mo kung ano yung sinisigaw ng puso mo para hindi ka magsisi sa huli.
kudos to december avenue for a wonderful song.
may pref pa ng iw HAHAHAHAHA nice bro
Joe Cillo kuha mo buds dapat extra strong ka in loving somebody with depression
Tama. 👏
👏👏👏👏
Hi kuya ako ang sisimbolo ng pagjbig mo
"Tulad ng isang libro , naging isa lang akong pahina sa kwento ng buhay mo"
"Tulad ng isang kandila, ikaw ang magsisilbing liwanag pero hindi pang habambuhay"
Mag 2024 nalang bet kuparin tong music nato😢
Opm bands like this don't get enough credit. It's so ironic that music of mainstream artists gets the most attention though they don't put enough art to their craft since. They just do it for money.
sdrawkcab seog ohw dik eht Hindi man. Patay lang ang mainstream OPM
nasikat na mga indie bands ngayon, just wait :) Sikat na IV of spades e
Wilson Adrian De Torres hahaha
Okay lang yun para hindi sila nakakasawa. Hehehe
Irl Dean Cobias true mas nabibigyan pansin mga pabebe ngayon di tulad nung 90's at early 00's
In Ilonggo, bulong means Medicine. I just love this song and everything in the music video.
ohh saamin din we call medicine - "bulong" in bicol.
Sa bicol same din it means "medicine"
same.. in maranao bulong is medicine,,,
Ahh, that make sense now why the title is that. Funny but the Philippines uses the same words with different meanings
Tagalog: Bulong = whisper
Ilocano: Bulong = Leaf of a plant.
oooh samin din sa ilokano
bulong = leaf
Ito na siguro ang pagtatapos ng ating kwento. Magsimula ka ulit ng bagong kwento ng Buhay mo ng wala ako.
Hello po galing po ako sa future
It hits close to home. I have a habit of peeling skin off of my hands as well as scratching my neck and face whenever I get episodic bouts of depression and anxiety or even panic attacks. And I'm so grateful to have a boyfriend that understands and helps me try to get better. He never forces me to do things I don't feel okay with, yet he tries to take me out of my comfort zone so I learn to be a better me. He's helping me stop my bad habits. It's always a wonderful thing to have someone who is so accepting and loving when you're like this. Ang dami na naming napagdaanan and I'm so glad our relationship only got stronger after it
You're such a strong person and I'm glad that you have an amazing partner in your life😊💕
you're blessed
Angel Flaviano yungnsakin eh kapag umaatake depression ko. Nangaaway ako ng tao. Like away talaga. But I say sorry naman kahit ganon
stay strong! you're doing good :)
Hope you get better man
Minsan talaga mapapaisip ka nalang bakit walang nag tatagal sayo.
true
feels
Totoo.
True
Trueee
Taming the Waves vibes talaga to. :((
Di ka magsasawang isoundtrip to lalo na pag mag isa kalang sobrang solid!! 👌❤️
Likewise 😌
I know everybody is having a hard time nowadays and I know na we all have difficulties in life, pero pls naman don't use it as an excuse para lang malaman kung hanggang saan ang kayang icompromise ng tao for u. Wag kang magpabigat just to know if he really can stays or what. Hayaan mo ang kalawakan na magdala sa inyoo sa tamang bagyo at alon. Hindi ka tala, kailanma'y hindi ka naging bituin dahil Ang buhay ay hindi tula.
I'm indonesia i really love this song even i still don't understand, because of her so i decided to learn tagalog mahal kita❤🇵🇭
mahal din kita from ph hahahaha
So wholesome! Thx
THE SONG IS ABOUT UNCONDITIONAL LOVE BECAUSE THE GIRL HAVE (OCD)
It's the 7th?10th? (I don't know) times that I saw your comments in every filipino songs that I'm listening hehehe🤭 love Indonesia also💓
So basically the song is about 2 lovers. The girl is suffering from a mental illness and despite of her illness and breakdowns, the guy still loved her unconditionally and is patient to her.
My comfort zone.. its been 5 years since(2018) I start listening to your music up until now! I'm here again, and I will always be here.
• January 1, 2024 : )
Sino paba nakikinig nito sa kasalukuyan?
I love this song, May lesson ang kantang ito na nakatago sa hiwaga.
May i-share lang ako kaunti lang Naka relate kasi ako dito sa song na'to.
Ganyan na ganyan kami nung Misis ko sa umpisa sa MV na'to, masaya kaming naglalakad tapos May nakita kaming restaurant, tinuro ng misis ko yung restaurant habang nakangiti, sabay sabing "balang araw gusto ko kumain tayo dyan"... sabi ko naman "Sa birthday mo kaya kain tayo dyan" hangang nung nag birthday siya hindi kami nakakain sa restaurant na yun, lagi akong abala sa trabaho kaya hindi ko naibigay sa kanya yung mga gusto niya, Nag kakalabuan na kami lagi kami nag aaway hindi ko namamalayan, napapalayo na pala ako sa asawa ko at sa dalawa naming anak, nung na sa work ako inisip ko kung bakit kami nagkaka ganito, hanggang sa narealize ko na Ang tanga ko pala. Hindi ko namalayang napapalayo na pala ako pamilya ko, hindi na ako yung dating asawa na nakilala niya.
Makalipas ang 2 taon bumalik na ako sa kanila matagal din akong nag stay sa trabaho para para matustusan ang pangangailangan ng pamilya ko. Nagsisisi akong nagtrabaho ako sa malayo pwede naman pala dito sa mas malapit samin. At sa Wakas natupad na din ang pangarap niyang makakain kaming dalawa sa mamahaling Restaurant, masaya kaming kumakain habang nag kukuwentuhan, sa sobrang saya ng Misis ko tinitigan ko sya habang nakangiti siyang kumain biglang nag pa-flash back sakin yung nakaraan Naalala ko matagal tagal narin pala nung huli ko siyang makitang ngumiti nang ganyan at Nakalimutan kong lalo siyang kumikinang pag tinatrato siyang parang Diamond. Gusto kong buong buhay niyang maramdaman na minamahal at pinapahalagahan siya, pero ang lagi kong Excuse... Busy ako... Kaya naman nabuhay lang siya bilang Asawa at ina. At hindi ko napansin na nakatingin na pala siya sakin, sabi sakin, "Huy! ... Okay ka lang", Ang sinabi ko sa kanya "Ang Ganda mo". Simula non lagi na kaming masaya, yung mga hindi ko naipadama sa kanya... Naiibigay ko na, kaya nag desisyon na akong humanap nang mas malapit na mapag ta-trabahuan, para lang hindi niya maramdaman na wala ako sa tabi niya, At sabi ko sa sarili ko, Sila nga pala ang buhay ko hindi ang ibang tao.
Anong moral lesson don sa sinabi ko?
Wag mong bibigyan ng rason ang taong mahal mo para iwanan ka
Pahalagahan ang bawa't oras na kasama ang pamilya bago ang ibang tao, sa oras na mawala ang mahal mo sa buhay (Wag naman sana) baka pagsisihan mo!
Kaya ikaw kung buo pa ang Relasyon niyo wag niyong sayangin or Bf/Gf . Kung May mga magulang kapang nagaantay sayo, i-prioritize mo sila, Best move yan
di ka nagiisa
Sa mga panahong pagod na kayong dalawa, iniisip kung ipaglalaban pa ba. Alalahanin mo 'yung rason, kung bakit mo minahal 'tong tao na 'to. 'Yung rason kung bakit ginusto niyong maging bahagi ng buhay ng isa't isa. Huwag basta-bastang bumitaw, subukan niyo pang kumapit. Lumaban kayong dalawa, hanggang sa makita niyong nakalampas na kayo at mas tumatag ang relasyon niyo. Ang sakit at pagkasawa ay parte ng isang relasyon, hindi puro saya. May mga panahong hindi kayo magkakaintindihan, puro away, pero hindi dapat 'to maging dahilan para masira kayo. Love is war, so get ready to be a soldier.
ganito dapat 😞
Nagkasala na siya sa akin ng tatlong beses at pinatawad ko pa rin siya sabi niya di na niya uulitin pero naulit na namn,pagod na ako.Ayaw niyang bumitaw pero ang sakit na eh....mahal ko siya sobra pero Tama na..
Bumitaw siya. at bumalik sa ex niya.
at ako tong inaatake gabi gabi
ang sakit sakit sobra.
I suffer from anxiety and panic attacks due to hyperthyroidism and my girlfriend of 7 years can't understand what I was going through so she left me and now I have to face my demons alone.
:(((
How are you now?
@@christinejoy6888 Getting better.
HunterKiller everything is going to be alright 😊
@@christinejoy6888 Thank you.
I am suffering from separation anxiety. This started when the pandemic came and attack me every night. I still don't know what to do.
when you're happy you enjoy the music, when you're sad, you understand the lyrics
Ang pagsakit ng tao ay sobrang Dali tulad ng pagbabato ng bato sa dagat pero hindi mo alam kung gaano kalalim mapupunta yung bato
this video deserves an award. ganda
Agree po ako! Please check my reaction to the song and the music video in my channel. Please don't forget to subscribe to see more OPM reactions. Keep supporting OPM!:) Maraming salamat po!
The one who’ll truly understand you is only the who loves you the most :(
Been struggling with Trich lately and i'm thankful with the man I have rn. Thank you for believing that I can overcome this battle. ily!
Nasa ganto sitwasyon ako ngayon.. 6 months pa lng kame pero now ko lang nalaman yung condition ng partner ko dahil now lang sinabi ng family nya.. nabigla ako nung 1st time ko nakita atakihin sya ng sakit nya wala ako nagawa kundi mapaiyak na lang tapos unti2 ko naisip lahat ng signs mula ng naging kame.. isa lang masasabi ko sobrang hirap at sobrang sakit pero di ko sya iiwanan..lahat ng pwede ko gawin gagawin ko para makalimutan nya lahat ng nangyare sa kanya.. para ma overcome nya lahat ng yun..
saan makakahanap nung hindi ka susukuan
find me, Parang wala naman ganon, Parang kahit saan ka mag punta lahat susukuan ka.
🙋🏼♂️
Ibibigay namn ni Lord eh💕🌻
Qc
hindi po hinahanap un... kusang dumadating... baka pag hinanap mo madisappoint ka lang :)
"Cheers for the love we cannot have!" -Azrael Ian Montefalco III
jsl❤
Haha
cheers 😓
it's already 2023 but still listening
Unang kantang nagpa-iyak sakin! Di ko parin makalimutan yun, unang beses ko syang napakinggan(lyrics video) nasa biyahe pa ko nun pauwi galing ojt (2018) habang nakasakay sa bus. Isang binatilyong umiiyak sa bus ng walang dahilan haha
Ang sarap marinig yung: handang ibigin ang 'sang tulad mo
every time talaga pag ako'y na kikinig nang mga sad love song, i always head towards the comment section and read thousands of stories of people who fell in love and got broken....... press F for respect to all the Bois and Gurls out there who are alone and broken! always remember happiness is a choice, dont shackle yourselves in sadness and depression! love lots from the community ! ! ! God bless you all!!! keep safe, and healty!
This song never gets old
well the song is not that old either
Frfr
still young
no cause after hearing this again , I remember my bestfriends. We always play this song during our breaktime way back 2018. And now hearing this broke my heart , not because im broken hearted but I miss my bestfriends and how we were before. Sadly , we are already living our individual lives:))
I've been listening to this song pero ngayon ko lng napanood tong mv. And I'm loving you guys more! ❤
I wish someone will be brave enough to be with a mess like me and not to hurt or break me more than ever. Someone who will go through the storm and riptides inside me. Pero I realize, andiyan si God. If wala pa yung right person na gusto Niya for me, no one will save me so I'll save myself. And it's more than just enough because His love is everything. 💙💙
Pau Tapac how i wish i could be that one that you are looking for
Darating din yung right person sayo madam. Antay lang!
❤❤
At first I didn't get this song when someone send it to me why he's saying that this song is accurate in my story. I am diagnosed with Bipolar disorder 8years ago. Now by playing this song many times I already understand the lyrics and the video. Also hoping that someone will still be by my side not also in all ups but also at my lowest. ❤
I'd like to open this up.
I am really in love with this song. This is also our theme song with my ex whom I love for 30 months. I admit, it's still nostalgic. I miss the person, the memories, and all that. I lost him because I was stupid. However, time is kind enough to let me heal a little, and now, both of us are already taken as we speak. Jeff, thank you for coming into my life. Losing you taught me a lot of things, and loving you made me believe that love exists and it doesn't matter what is something that you have and you dont. Lets be happy with our current partners okay? God bless 😊
To the person who tell me to Watch this Mv ,
Gets ko na yung gusto mo parating naman sa akin..
Alam ko takot na ka magyari ulit yung kinatatakotan mo, No matter what happen I accept what you are. I just stay with even deepest side of your life.
I know nagsisimula palang ako (manligaw) but still my loyalty as friend now is in you. 💛💙❤
🤍
Di ko akalain babalik ako sa comment ko na toh.
Akalain mo yun maging tayo but still don't know na may ganito ako hidden message for you, I'm still love you salamat sa pagtangap at pagpasok sa buhay mo ILYSM 💝
This is an eye opener. Not only about the reality of mental health, but also about the true face of love. Eto ang magandang example ng 'simple pero rock'😊
Of which language the song is?
Related ako s knta nito. I have Bipolar Disorder and Depression for so many years. Galit, lungkot, na hindi q mapigilan ang sarili ko. Humihingi ako ng paumanhin s lhat ng mga taong nasaktan ko physically at sobra ko pinagsisihan lhat kng hndi lng ako ngkasakit ktulad ng nsa MV. I hope na konting pang unawa lng s mga taong hindi nkkaintindi s nging skit ko dti. Pero Thankful ako s medication ko at okay na ang buhay ko khit na I gained weight because of medications.
so much for fighting when i'm treated that way
so much for praying
Leaving my comment here. I want to inform my future self that I'm suffering right now, but somehow, i'll get through this.
Salamat. Salamat sa kantang to. Nagkaron ako ng hope. And sa lahat ng tao who are having depression like me, someday maaayos rin tayo. Someday. At mayroong tao na hinding-hindi magsasawang yakapin tayo sa oras ng saya at ng kalungkutan.
omg glenn hope you get better
Ronnie Francisco thank you ✨
Take 5 htp supplement :)
Sna mawala to stin
Sana mging normal n tyo
omg glenn .. pray harder .. and let god be the center of your life .. godbless 😇😇
😢hayss my naala sobrng depress ko sa taong mhl ko dti gnyn mbliwq sa pg mmhl gnwaq nmn lht skny ng hnp psya
Narealize ko dito sa song na to na hindi sapat na mahal niyo lang ang isa't isa. Hindi kayo mag bibrreak dahit may iba na siya kundi kailangan niyong taposin dahil mali ang panahon at oras ng pinagtagpo kayo ng tadhana. Ito yung pinaka masakit kasi tataposin niyo kahit gusto niyo pa pero may mga pangyayare na hindi tugma para sainyong dalawa.
I have been in love with this song for the longest time, not knowing how deep it means than I already think.
A masterpiece in many ways.
i have been in love with you too, for the longest time not knowing ur my puto bungbong