Wow the way it was initially reported and represented by certain interest groups the kid was attacked and beaten to a pulp in the bathroom because of identity. Trying to use the kid's death to spin a narrative is shameful. RIP Nex.
As much as the "news" lies and pushes narratives, I might trust random people from social media more. Of course, I'd take it with a grain of salt and question it all.
Don't get your news from social media. Problem solved. I know that removes your excuses to be outraged at nothing every 5 minutes, but for most people, that is a good thing.
Why? Because this kid was Non-binary? I just had to tell someone that Nex's "real name" doesn't matter; that folks can disagree & be still be respectful. But now, you want more, too? You think Nex deserves special treatment-like a celebrity? What's good for the goose is good for the gander, and that's EQUALITY. There's no equality if one side is getting special privileges.
@@JohnnieWalkerDread The corner in any jurisdiction has a close working relationship with both the police and the city. Not exactly independent...just sayin'...
Idk you can only handle being bullied for so long! Emotional abuse is worse than physical! This community is twisted just look up the superintendents sermons!
@@jdgoesham5381Their laughing with their friends and the other group starts making fun of their laughter which prompted them throwing water at the group. And they were the bully? I may be wrong but bullies are usually the ones making fun of other people.
Rest in peace sweet Nex. What I dont understand is how people managed to twist a story so much to fit a narrative. -Nex did not die of trauma, confirmed -Nex’s grandmother refers to Nex as she/her, not nonbinary (not to say that she didn’t present that way to others but it’s odd) -Nex instigated a fight with girls in the bathroom, making it not even remotely a targeted attack against her -Nex was perfectly capable of communicating and walking immediately after the fight It was not “a targeted attack against a nonbinary people”, it was some girls who got into a normal high school fight. Instead of lying about and manipulating this tragedy to fit your victim agenda, have some respect. People are making this all about themselves, when in reality, it is just an extremely unfortunate tragedy that does not line up with ANYTHING being said on social media. People are trying so hard to be the victim right now.
100% agree I haven’t believed the media for YEARS bc they r constantly caught skewing narratives to insight further racism or violence - it gets so old.
-we are never sure if trama caused the death of a child. - people attacking someone verbally is still an attack. - "normal high school fights" should never end in a childs death. - trying to spin things to fit your own narrative are never good.
So many trying to turn this in to a hate crime, even after Nex told the officer the story. Kids picking at one another until one takes it another step, and then the other has to as well, and this time it escalated out of control. The only hate crime here, is in how much everyone hates the truth as it was told in the video.
Right I'm not gonna lie but let's be real though, a kid getting killed or bullied at least over having pronouns is tragic, crazy even, and just unfortunate. Nobody should have to die just because they're built different mentally or physically. So much for a civilized world or country if they're doing that crap lol schools no longer have the Bible at hand so it's not even holy their anymore it's just a playground of demons & devils playing with each other and so forth killing each other 😔👌 can't get along, won't get along, as school nowadays publically has always been a problem.
Court documents say Owasso police officers suspected foul play in Benedict's death. That isn't limited to the events that happened only at the school. Evidence has been collected from both the school and the home of Nex. I suspect many people will be very surprised at the outcome of this investigation.
Precisely. That "hate our differences" is systemic in civilization. The powers that be don't want us to be critical logical thinkers. They want that red mentality; the color of the root chakra which is primal and survival based. No thinking. Just reacting.
What's STRANGE is that people in the comments are still talking about the FIGHT at the school...but yet at the end of the video there's a STATEMENT saying TRAUMA from the fight was NOT the cause of death, and they're doing a toxicity test on her. But everyone keeps talking about the FIGHT at school as if it caused her death...
Coroners are notoriously bad at their jobs. Check out the old women being killed by male nurse robbing them, all “natural causes.” They also claimed George Floyd died of “excited delirium and methamphetamine over dose.” Even through we all watched his murder take place on camera. 15 minutes of positional asphyxiation, witnesses watching and recording (one a nurse). Last Week Tonight did an excellent show about just how compromised by conflicts of interest, transparency, and lack of accountability coroners are.
@@DebraGill and you would likely delay help making it to you. This woman is VERY concerned you can hear it and she's trying to get a cop to the house but KNOWS she has to go through the entire line of questions first. Don't cast shade on a parent doing what's right because you would not do what's right.
It's too bad her mother didn't teach her to ignore laughter and comments from others. Life is a whole lot sweeter and simpler if we ignore other folks' nonsense. What is it Dr Laura used to say? It's none of my business what you think of me. Something like that. Really. It's exhausting to try to police or control other people's opinions or little outbursts like laughter or comments. Just mind your own thoughts and actions. Yes, it can hurt to be laughed at. But it gets easier over time to ignore it. Some folks are looking for a reaction. Don't give it to them. Think happy thoughts and walk away.
Wait a minute... She said she was with her friends who were all sophomores(she was sophomore too). And the other group were all freshmen(the laughing group). Come on man... they're freshmen, you're a sophomore. You have to set the example. They just got out of middle school, let them laugh... they're still in that middle school mindset.
just walk away in all situations. If it’s self D then do what you need to protect yourself.. yeah but water splashing should be avoided! It’s useless and just instigates..
How embarrassing this is literally not a hate crime. This is mutual combat and she got a butt whooped.!!! she admitted she didn’t even know the girls prior to this, so how is this ongoing bowling on going anything?!!!
Wow, msm really reported this all wrong when this first came out. It wasn’t three on one and she actually threw one of the girls and her friends jumped in to help her. And those girls had not been bullying her before this incident.
Thank you for telling the TRUTH. If you watch the video until the end you will see that the “fight” has been ruled out as her cause of death- trauma was NOT THE CAUSE and the toxicology report is pending. THE REGURGITATED NARRATIVE is disgusting and unfair. The need for instant gratification is repulsive in this country. I pray for her family and loved ones through this tragic time and I pray they get answers soon. 🙏🏻
This. watched this news on NBC first and they turned it into some kinda political statement by talking about anti-LGBTQ laws out of nowhere for the simple reason this teen was part of the LGBTQ which has absolutely no place in this. Its actually sad how you cant even trust news station to tell the truth.
That's not quite accurate. The fight hasn't been "ruled out". A preliminary autopsy didn't indicate that as the cause of death, but a full autopsy hasn't been completed - which includes toxicology, but having that tested doesn't indicate suspicion of drugs, it's just standard procedure. I.E: We know nothing. You're doing the same thing as the people you're mad at, just in the opposite direction. To be fair: to nowhere near the extreme and your point remains valid. Just wanted to point out how easy it is to get caught up in something once you feel your narrative has been justified. Nobody's narrative has been fully exonerated or justified because we know nothing - except that it wasn't a hate crime, thank God. I hope for the peace of mind of those girls that it wasn't something caused by or exacerbated by the fight. They shouldn't have to feel responsible either way, but I'm sure none of them will be talking shit about strangers in the near future.
@@RealCaptainJawsactually a preliminary autopsy takes about 1-2 hours and would rule out trauma that would cause death. As you are literally opening up the body and removing the organs, looking them over for any trauma or disease, and then putting them back. Yes, this does include the brain. So trauma from a fight would show in the preliminary autopsy. However, when doing the preliminary autopsy if no cause of death found, labs will be sent off including tissue samples that might be suspicious for disease, and also blood for toxicology. These take a while to get back. A month or so. Possibly more depending on the lab it’s sent to.
Her gait was unsteady when the door was being opened for her. She may have had a concussion from when they swept her feet, she fell back, and her head hit the floor. It may not have been a brutal beating as some are alleging, and it sounds like she initiated the physical altercation by throwing the water, but people do die from head injuries.
@@kendallhughes7507 oh? And where exactly did you graduate medical school? One of us knows what a severely beaten person looks like, and you're just talking out your ass.
Even if the mother didn't think it was a life and death situation for her daughter, the way she describes what's going on so calmly is what bothers me.
It's a shame this was politicized instead of reported on accurately or with due diligence. It's evident now that the girls attacked were not even previously bullies, the cause of the death was not caused by physical trauma and to top it all off the kid was recorded ADMITTING to having started the fight over something as petty as having a laugh criticized.
It shouldn't have been reported on anyhow outside of their local news channel. People die all over the country every single day for all sorts of reasons.
The injuries were the cause of death, do your research and stop believing the internets lies lol. I get kinda sick seeing you people treat anyone different than you like flies that start fights. They didn't start it, the people bullying them did.
@@DauoxYou are lying through your teeth or Nex lied. Make up your mind. Because all that information came from the video taken an hour later of Nex saying all of that 🙄
“…her hands are posturing in already…” Already? Strange way to talk. Unless someone with medical, or first aid experience knew what decorticate posturing is. Or had read about it online. Really odd, though. And Mom (or is that her Grandmother?) is so calm - not “frantic” as the news reporter says. And why didn’t the 911 operator ask what medication that youngster was taking at night after the “Mom” endorsed her child’s taking medication when the operator asked? That should have been the very next question before asking about illegal drugs, no?
the mom was way too calm. Also, she asks for a police officer because her daughter was attacked the previous day. She even mentions the officer who came to the hospital. The operator has to really emphasize that this is a medical emergency, and she is sending medics, and that's what's important right now. Like seriously-her granddaughter is having some sort of severe episode and she's thinking about getting people arrested? That's her priority? (eta: this is the edited version, if you listen to the unedited you will see what i mean)
I thought the Mom’s response about posturing was a bit odd as well. But she could have learned the term from a medical show or documentary. I was hoping she’d report her pupil size and reaction to light. But, I know, it’s a bit much to ask. As for her disposition, Mom probably didn’t grasp the severity of Nex’s condition. And yeah, the 911 operator should know better. Knowing what medication Nex was on is important. But, the Medics would’ve asked that on scene. It’s more important that the 911 Operator coded the call correctly.
As a parent, I simply cannot imagine the ache in any parents heart that has lost their child. The anguish must be unbearable. I send compassion, empathy and sympathy out to Nex’s parents, siblings, if there are any and all extended family. I hope you can lean on and gain strength with one another through this tragic and dark time......🙏💕
@ponderosa1229 I’m so thankful that I have never been placed in a situation where I needed to keep calm, when faced with what this Mom was faced with - panicking with 911 dispatchers, simply doesn’t allow the much needed information that they are trying to ascertain and gather, to be gained as quickly as if the caller is able to remain calm. I think I would probably panic, but I hope I could stay calm. Regardless, I am certainly not qualified to judge or speculate if this Mom acted accordingly. If there really is an ‘accordingly’ way to act in this situation. I can say, I believe I was witnessing a present and invested Mother, from what I gathered with her sitting with her child at the hospital and her interacting and listening to the responding officer, whom the Mother called to make certain a report was filed. I personally don’t see any reason to toss shade or make any unnecessary remarks about this Mom, who tragically lost her child....
@Chevy01 I tend to agree. I don’t think this death was related to what occurred at the school, unless the hospital was negligent with their examination - but she exhibited no outwardly symptoms of any trauma. I sadly believe, this more than likely was an accidental overdose. A person just taking too much of whatever to help them relax and sleep. I heard the caller respond that the child took no illegal drugs, but far too often the parents just aren’t aware of that sort of activity with their kids - I’m sure if the medical examiners autopsy report is made public, most questions will be answered....
@@ponderosa1229- I think it’s strange when people are calling 911 and hysterically screaming and not being helpful because they cannot calm themselves down in order the handle situation effectively.
This reminds me of a law professor I had who was late for class because he had been in a car accident that morning. He seemed fine, he conducted a limited class with a shorter lecture, but died the next day from a hidden head injury from the accident.
That's sad, but it wasn't from a foolish decision that he had made. Maybe he was rushing to work, maybe not. But he didn't start a fight and assault someone. That's plain foolishness, and very dangerous.
@@MamaKalashSplashing a bit of water on someone making fun of you is not assault. Nex had been bullied for months, and when they finally retaliated in a very mild way they get beaten.
Having heard multiple 911 calls where people just scream incoherently over and over and over with NO information given, delaying any response, its nice to hear one where its relevant information can be immediately given so appropriate help can respond.
That's exactly what it was . If she didn't know them , why did she say they were freshmen ? They were all stacking chairs together, also . She sounded proud when she said she threw a girl ( I bet a tiny girl) into a paper towel holder ( metal). 🤔
Why, because 'his' d*** was hanging out? The deceased student was a biological female. She had a perfect right to be there. Stop smoking or taking those drugs you're on. One of them is screwing up your point of view.
So she started throwing the water , and the beating wasn’t the cause of death , nothing to do with the hate crime claims , the media is so disgusting, and the people more interested in her pronouns too …
Don't argue and don't throw water on anyone - it can quickly escalate. Anger is your enemy and you have to know that not everyone is tolerant of aggressive (even mildly aggressive) behavior.
She also so calmly and unironically stated that she deliberately threw a girl into the towel dispenser. This person's nonchalant violence is disturbing, to say the least... damn.
That's the thing about these fights. They're "just" fighting... but if someone gets a head injury, the possibility of mortal damage is always a factor. "I punched said person." But said person falls in such a way that when the head hits the ground, that is the end. Yes. It would be assuring to know the outcome of all this... Nex was in the wrong for starting it but literally met the end. Sad on all acounts.
Agreed, every staged 911 call I've ever heard that turned out to be made by someone involved is like this - calm, telling a full story, using words like "already" as though they have called after quite a delay, as though they know the outcome
If you look at the screenshot of Nex's text messages after the fight, she was already talking about suing the school right after she was released from the hospital. Imo this family is trashy. I'm getting a real "we're getting a settlement!" vibe.
Bingo. We know it wasn’t trauma and the mom said she takes a prescription to sleep so I guarantee the tox results will show what caused it, whether it be an accidental vs intentional OD
My first thought too. I found my child like this several times. It is so scary to see your child falling back and their eyes rolling up in their head. Another time it was past that stage.....they were turning blue, super cold and very bad agonal breathing. I was terrified, screamed and called 911. This case really sounds like a drug overdose, probably fentanyl. Time will tell when they get the toxicology report back.
4:31 Her self control is unbelievable. Kids eyes are rolling up into her head. She’s agonizing breathing. She’s posturing. Mom’s capacity to control her tone, her breathing, her emotions…..and calmly and matter of faculty get through this call is extraordinary.
No, I'd call is suspicious. Any normal parent in this situation would be going absolutely CRAZY watching their kid eyes rolled back and not breathing...
Not to mention her physically throwing a younger girl into the towel dispenser.. That said, your "fafo" comment is about as recklessly and cravenly ignorant as it gets. Grow up, princess, you're worse than these juvenile delinquents.
Oh brother, she's being a responsible adult at that point. Falling apart into self-indulgent hysterics only makes everything worse, and most certainly will not help her daughter when it's the most important. Quit projecting.
@@Teri_B. never mind that person they just want drama. So we ignore. Anyway I lost my son. You cry and are scared and your heart is racing you totally panic. He or she must not be a parent and feel the love you have for your child. My son was murdered there’s no way in hell I was calm about it!! When your child is hurt and or going through something that might kill them you are not calm!!! Anyway thank you Teri. Let’s ignore 😊👍🏼
The 911 call is strange. I don't think she thought it was that serious and possibly believed Nex would just be in hospital a few days. She kept mentioning possible head trauma but M.E. ruled that out. So sad she couldn't see her daughter was actively dying. Such a heartbreaking case.
I think it may have been an accidental overdose. Sometimes people want to numb their physical or mental pain for just a little bit of time. She may have taken something and felt like it wasn't working and took more and it all took effect at the same time.
@8 My guess is right after her kid had a head injurie she researched it. Not hard to find information online that posturing is a reflex pose that’s a symptom of damage to or disruptions in brain activity. So "why was she expecting it?" She probably just read about it in the last 24 hours. You should assume people do research after some major situation like this.
I had a friend released from hospital after a car accident. Died couple of days later and he was bleeing from his ear or ear. It is hard to know what kind of damge happens. I hope they getbto the bottom of this sad situation.
Just happened to my neighbors son that lives RIGHT ABOVE ME….he was in a bad car accident, fell asleep on the freeway and went under a semi… he had to get his jaw wired and stitches in his face but was ultimately walking and talking still. And fine for weeks after… one night we came home and saw her sitting in her car BAWLING. The guy started having breathing problems because his lungs were filling with fluid and they didn’t know, he unfortunately passed WEEKS AFTER the accident 🤦🏾♂️scary AF to think about
I noticed how in her texts and in this video she said "poured" water, not threw. So that leads me to believes the group of freshman were minding their own business and unsuspecting of any water coming toward them. Probably had their backs turned even. Does anyone think that someone would just allow a person to POUR water on them if they can see it’s coming? No. And we don’t actually know that they said anything toward Nex, or if Nex just took it upon herself to decide they did.
Because if it were pinned to the fight it could have proved the school or the police department were negligent. The lawsuits will soon start against the school district, the police department, the parents of the other 3 students, and the contractor who built the school bathroom. Basically, any person or entity that has money to nab in a lawsuit. The more her daughter appears as a victim, the higher the payout will be.
It could be linked to her, hitting her head or being hit while she was down from the students just because she’s walking out of the school mean anything and the only other thing it could be is an allergic reaction to medication that she was given a reaction to that so anyway, you look at it it’s link to the beating at the school, because if she wasn’t beat, then she would not have died! And just because she poured water on them doesn’t mean they have a right to beat her after all, they were insulting her, which means they drew first blood Because if I went to their school and called them the end word Even though it’s free speech, somehow, I would think I would be arrested!
@@raymonddriggers Being able to walk on her own power to the nurses office, then from there to the school's office, then from there outside to her car means quite a bit from a medical standpoint. She wasn't beaten so severely that she couldn't walk, talk, etc. She didn't have to be removed from the restroom or the school building on a stretcher and be taken to the ER by ambulance or even be treated by EMS at the school. You may be right about the allergic reaction to the shot the hospital gave her. It's also possible that the shot reacted with any prescription medications she took at home after that initial hospital visit. She claimed she received a beating and blacked out, but the fight lasted less than two minutes before it was broken up and she was dishing out for at least part of it. It also sounds like in addition to the water and the usual hair pulling, she "drew first blood" when she tossed one of the three into a paper towel dispenser. No one is claiming they "have a right to beat her" but it does mean they should only be punished for fighting, not for her unfortunate death. Insults are words, not a physical attack. Throwing water on someone is a physical assault. Shoving or tossing someone into anything is a physical assault. You can't pick a fight and then claim you are acting in self-defense, even if you picked that fight with three people and they all responded to your physical assault with physical assaults of their own. Calling someone the "end word" also carries the implications of racism. You might wish you had only been arrested by the time the person(s) you called the "end word" finished with you. It would have little to do with your "free speech" and most likley would become the "end" of you talking at all until the police arrived to save you from yourself. Then the person who had assaulted you would likely get arrested as well.
@@raymonddriggersfreedom of speech means you can say anything out of your mouth and that’s okay. It’s your opinion and your right to speak. But what isn’t okay is to attack someone physically because of words. Words may hurt feelings, that’s life. Feelings get hurt. We don’t use words to justify physical violence. That’s called assault/felony assault and is illegal.
I am so sorry for EVERYONE involved. Violence is never the answer. This kid shouldn't have escalated the fight, the other girls should not have attacked. There is never an excuse. The hospital probably did think the kid could go home. I wonder if it was a blood clot? My heart goes out to mom. There is NOTHING worse except losing more than one or in the middle of a war zone. ❤ Bless you mom. May you get all the love and support you need. A fellow bereaved mom.
@@lychee-dj9qo I have social anxiety and a very difficult time talking to people. If I encountered her in public, why should I be expected to overcome my mental illness and accommodate her, when she refuses to overcome her mental illness and accommodate me?
@@BillDownhill Male/female gender roles are social constructs and not identifying with either one is not a mental illness you are clearly not approaching this conversation in good faith and to that i just hope you fix the hate in your heart
@@lychee-dj9qo That is a personal belief of yours not a fact. We clearly know who a male and female is, it's your personal belief that gender is a social construct, just like there are cultures that say that fire is holy.
@@TT-ee1vv The fact that these people can't see it's a belief system blows my mind. If the scientific community pretended the bible were real, they'd still say it's fake. But when those same people say you can change genders, it's somehow real?
No one's gonna state the bullying they've received from those dumbass bullies? It's the victim's fault? No one talks about social infrastructure reforms to help such cases?
@jasontreyes8078 The only bully here was this girl. The whole "these girls were bullying an alphabet community member" has been proven a lie. She stated herself they didn't know each other and had never interacted before. And admitted herself that she poured water on them just bc one asked the other in the group why her and her friends were laughing. She started this mess.
@@jasontreyes8078 There is no past context, just a bunch of speculation and untrue statements by people who were trying to create a narrative that didn't exist. Just like people claiming she could hardly walk after the fight and needed assistance doing so, while the security footage showed her walking just fine on her own. Her and her friends didn't know these girls and had never interacted with them, she said so herself. She also admitted to throwing water on them bc one of them asked about her and her friends laughing. Asked someone in her own group, not the one who threw the water. She started a fight over people talking amongst themselves and they were younger students, she was being the bully here.
As a person who had a head injury in my youth, it doesn't happen immidiately. A delay responce can happen. Look it up. I was messed up and admitted to the hospital. they kept me in front of the nurse station over night, They asked me questions that my mom said I could not answer, it's not cut and dry
I’m surprised the doctors didn’t get an X-ray or cat scan; brain bleeds can often be sudden after a head injury; depending on the severity of the bleed the person may not have severe symptoms for hours after. I had my entire forehead split open and the small medical center didn’t have the necessary equipment to scan for internal damage; all they did was stitched me up and did the flashlight test to determine if I had a concussion. my grandma still felt as if something wasn’t right and so after she took me to a bigger hospital an hour away; thet did a ct scan and found a small brain bleed that was slowly leaking into my skull. if it wasn’t for my grandma I could have died; easily could have went to sleep that night and not have woken up.
Im not implying anything with this but I cant believe how calm her mom is on the 911 call. probably a good thing she wasnt losing it as that could’ve complicated things.
Umm… why are so many people talking about her calm voice? Who cares? Some people are hysterical and are not good for anything because you can’t depend on them in a crisis. Others, just like my grandmother is, shut off her emotions and is someone who you can depend on. So why are so many people in the comment section mentioning this?b
Oh dear God, tell me you are not thinking of some conspiracy where they force this girl to go into a medical trauma but the trauma goes too far and she dies when she’s not supposed to? Please tell me I’m imagining that, because reading between the lines and what I know from the TH-cam comment sewer, I cannot help but be highly suspicious…
Everyone is different. I called for my child and I was in shock, and it felt like a dream, and I likely sounded similar to her. Everything was moving so slow, all I could do was just go through the motions and wait, hysterics weren’t in my mind and it would have been a barrier. People have diverse reactions to shock, and panic can look like a meltdown or shut down, everyone is different. I’m sorry that you lost your baby boy❤
Where are her injuries on her face/ head while in the hospital? Was a CT done on her head? It also seems like she might have taken something orally, maybe for pain at home?
But at the end of the video there's a statement that said that TRAUMA from the fight didn't contribute to her death, and that there's a toxicity screen that is currently happening to see if there's any drugs in her body.
@@godfirst6880 clearly nowhere in my comment, and did it say that I said, don’t instigate a fight because there was a statement that the girl that passed away through water on the three girls, therefore don’t instigate a fight
The way I am seeing this is Nex is a transgender so this would explain a lot of things. The kids picking, the bouts of strength during the fight ect. Would also explain the mothers reaction to the prescription medication question.
A group of girls making a statement “why do they laugh that way.” about another group of girls has nothing to do with picking and everything to do with high school.
@@carrington2949 Again it depends on the situation. How many other times did this group of girls pick on the kid and her friends? The way it sounds this wasn't the first, second or even the third time. The officer seemed well aware of what was going on. So I am willing to bet he's been called before for the same reason.
The mom's call to 911 is calm. That is not what I would be expecting a parent, in this case, a mother, to sound like when your kid is on the verge of dying.
I think it’s strange when people are calling 911 and hysterically screaming and not being helpful because they cannot calm themselves down in order the handle situation effectively.b
I've said this in another video and I will say it here: As a parent, Nex's situation resonates with me, reminding me of my own children. I want to emphasize that the loss of a child is an experience no parent should endure. Since this news emerged, there has been widespread misinformation surrounding the circumstances. It's crucial for everyone to await the complete investigation findings. While it's important to express support for Nex and their family during this tragedy, it's equally vital not to jump to conclusions and exacerbate the situation. There have been disturbing posts on the OPS X site targeting young students, with some labeling them as "future murderers." This is deeply inappropriate. We cannot make assumptions about these students' backgrounds or identities, just as we cannot assume this incident is automatically a hate crime due to its occurrence in conservative Oklahoma. Regarding Nex's involvement, they have stated that they didn't even know the other students involved, as they are a sophomore and the others students are freshmen. The altercation reportedly began when someone made a comment that Nex found offensive, leading to Nex pouring water on them. While pouring water shouldn't escalate to physical violence, the situation unfolded unpredictably. Looking at the facts, Nex initiated physical aggression, which escalated matters. At this point, it doesn't seem to be a hate crime against a transgender person as Nex started it - and what we don't know is the identity of the other students (race, gender, sexuality) as it could easily be turned around as being a racial hate crime on Nex's part for the assault (as benign as it was). WE DON'T WANT TO GO DOWN THAT RABBIT HOLE! The Medical Examiner's office concluded that the death wasn't related to trauma. I speculate that Nex may have had an allergic reaction to a pain shot, leading to anaphylactic shock. Let's honor the life of the child lost and refrain from making baseless assumptions or spreading divisive narratives. We must wait for all the facts to surface before forming opinions or sharing content that could perpetuate unfounded claims
To hell with those liars. Playing the victim when the facts are she started it. You can't go around throwing crap on people and shoving them into things then cry foul when you get your ass kicked. To hell with this person.
I speculate the situation escalated online after Nex returned home. Based on Mom’s statement, Nex is on prescribed meds and likely she had access to those meds. Sadly, I believe she OD herself due to the online fallout following the incident. It’s a hard world for children these days.
I work in the healthcare field so I’m pretty calm in bad situations. But if it were my Child in that condition, I’d be a lot more upset on the phone than this mom seems to be.
Was there an MRI or CAT scan She hit her head so that should’ve been done right everybody’s gonna be pointing the finger at somebody else so I think the hospital should’ve caught it
I went to school with a Mohawk thinking I was expressing my individuality as a teen . We use to call it punk rock. Remember this was my choice, I got bullied, beaten and harassed. My Dad took me and got me normal clothes and a buzz cut and sent me back to school, told me school was for learning not expressing myself. Great lesson learned. Keep it simple.
I go to this school and it’s sad that people are trying to twist this all up to make the school and everyone look terrible and now they are mad at police for “covering it up”
Because "they" are trying to force the hate crime against the LGBTQ community narrative. The very first thing that was mentioned about the death on the local news. It's sad... instead of feeling bad about a teen dying, everyone's angry about the narrative.
What a tragedy Truly sad how kids think they can beat kids up to an extreme extent & no one cares. These kids need to stop thinking they are cool & can hurt others. It’s not cool Pooor child. RIP
This mother's reaction in the 911 call is unreal!!! i as a mother would be franticly yelling out of my mind to get an ambulance to my child. i dont know but there is something sus here.
I'm not judging the parent by saying this, I'm merely remarking on the language used..The mother does not sound "frantic" during her "frantic 911 call". Prayers for all involved.
Her mom is so oddly calm on that police call. I find that very strange. She’s describing all of this and she’s just so matter-of-fact and her tone that it’s weird. I do agree with what the officer said about her, throwing the water, because if Nex hadn’t have thrown the water, this whole thing might’ve been avoided. It will be interesting to see if there’s a toxicology report that shows that she took something. The hospital ran their test, and if they thought she had a concussion or anything like that, they would not have let her go home. They would’ve kept her for 23 hour observation. But again society the way people, especially young people are treating each other it’s awful. Social media does not help things. Another unnecessary loss.
Unless you have a medical background. I did not scream or freak out calling 911 when my husband died. I gave them the info they needed so they could get to my house sooner rather than my screaming like a banshee and help was detained because I was acting a fool. I was also attempting not to scare my 9, 7, and 5 year olds. If you freak out, you delay much needed help. Be an adult and think.
Does anyone else find the mom’s demeanor on the 911 call odd? She sounds like she’s describing a pinging engine to a car mechanic and not a mom reporting that her daughter is having difficulty breathing. Did she say that daughter was unresponsive?
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Wow the way it was initially reported and represented by certain interest groups the kid was attacked and beaten to a pulp in the bathroom because of identity.
Trying to use the kid's death to spin a narrative is shameful.
RIP Nex.
Yep; it's all the alphabet crap.
That’s what the alphabet mafia does. Uses deaths for their political agenda because they must use the substance
They’re SO desperate to be victims and maintain their false narratives.
Ridiculous how it was initially reported. Smdh
That's what the left is best at
Lies on social media? I'm shocked.
Lies on msm when initially reported.
As much as the "news" lies and pushes narratives, I might trust random people from social media more. Of course, I'd take it with a grain of salt and question it all.
Don't get your news from social media. Problem solved. I know that removes your excuses to be outraged at nothing every 5 minutes, but for most people, that is a good thing.
Good luck with that. I think.@@Chris-fn4df
@@Chris-fn4dfDo you understand that TH-cam is also social media?
An independent coroner should be looking over the autopsy results.
The coroner is from the county and the school and police are run by the city/school district. That's independent.
Why? Because this kid was Non-binary? I just had to tell someone that Nex's "real name" doesn't matter; that folks can disagree & be still be respectful. But now, you want more, too? You think Nex deserves special treatment-like a celebrity? What's good for the goose is good for the gander, and that's EQUALITY. There's no equality if one side is getting special privileges.
with the evidence , it looks like an over dose
@@George_Soros. Thats what it sounds like.
@@JohnnieWalkerDread The corner in any jurisdiction has a close working relationship with both the police and the city. Not exactly independent...just sayin'...
Wow shes very honest about starting the fight... sad she lost her life
Idk you can only handle being bullied for so long! Emotional abuse is worse than physical! This community is twisted just look up the superintendents sermons!
She's an identity freak.
@@jessicadavis3989how do you know that's true here? Because she said so? She sounds like the bully.
Doesn't pass the smell test@@jdgoesham5381
@@jdgoesham5381Their laughing with their friends and the other group starts making fun of their laughter which prompted them throwing water at the group. And they were the bully? I may be wrong but bullies are usually the ones making fun of other people.
Rest in peace sweet Nex.
What I dont understand is how people managed to twist a story so much to fit a narrative.
-Nex did not die of trauma, confirmed
-Nex’s grandmother refers to Nex as she/her, not nonbinary (not to say that she didn’t present that way to others but it’s odd)
-Nex instigated a fight with girls in the bathroom, making it not even remotely a targeted attack against her
-Nex was perfectly capable of communicating and walking immediately after the fight
It was not “a targeted attack against a nonbinary people”, it was some girls who got into a normal high school fight. Instead of lying about and manipulating this tragedy to fit your victim agenda, have some respect. People are making this all about themselves, when in reality, it is just an extremely unfortunate tragedy that does not line up with ANYTHING being said on social media. People are trying so hard to be the victim right now.
Well said
Maybe the grandma is just ignorant, do you personally know them?
100% agree
I haven’t believed the media for YEARS bc they r constantly caught skewing narratives to insight further racism or violence - it gets so old.
-we are never sure if trama caused the death of a child.
- people attacking someone verbally is still an attack.
- "normal high school fights" should never end in a childs death.
- trying to spin things to fit your own narrative are never good.
Hate how wrong you are lol, but you people will do anything to twist your narrative
So many trying to turn this in to a hate crime, even after Nex told the officer the story.
Kids picking at one another until one takes it another step, and then the other has to as well, and this time it escalated out of control.
The only hate crime here, is in how much everyone hates the truth as it was told in the video.
Yup, sorry she died but we will not hear about it again once the tox report comes out.
Right I'm not gonna lie but let's be real though, a kid getting killed or bullied at least over having pronouns is tragic, crazy even, and just unfortunate.
Nobody should have to die just because they're built different mentally or physically.
So much for a civilized world or country if they're doing that crap lol schools no longer have the Bible at hand so it's not even holy their anymore it's just a playground of demons & devils playing with each other and so forth killing each other 😔👌 can't get along, won't get along, as school nowadays publically has always been a problem.
Court documents say Owasso police officers suspected foul play in Benedict's death.
That isn't limited to the events that happened only at the school. Evidence has been collected from both the school and the home of Nex. I suspect many people will be very surprised at the outcome of this investigation.
Precisely. That "hate our differences" is systemic in civilization. The powers that be don't want us to be critical logical thinkers. They want that red mentality; the color of the root chakra which is primal and survival based. No thinking. Just reacting.
What's STRANGE is that people in the comments are still talking about the FIGHT at the school...but yet at the end of the video there's a STATEMENT saying TRAUMA from the fight was NOT the cause of death, and they're doing a toxicity test on her.
But everyone keeps talking about the FIGHT at school as if it caused her death...
Yes, Od 100%
Media brainwash
@@KC1981... "FIGHT at school ... caused her death"
Got it
@@wedemboyz YOU'RE WRONG ! GOT IT ????
@@KC1981...You are wrong, got it.
Her death was NOT caused by trauma according to the coronor. Which mean it had nothing to do with the fight.
Hidden heart issues unfortunately happen..in my lifetime I've seen so many lost through the news
I'm guessing they checked for that 😢
Coroners are notoriously bad at their jobs. Check out the old women being killed by male nurse robbing them, all “natural causes.” They also claimed George Floyd died of “excited delirium and methamphetamine over dose.” Even through we all watched his murder take place on camera. 15 minutes of positional asphyxiation, witnesses watching and recording (one a nurse). Last Week Tonight did an excellent show about just how compromised by conflicts of interest, transparency, and lack of accountability coroners are.
@stephaniespc I just was sick and found out I got one 😢 so you never know girl but prayers for her and her family this is sad
A head injury is a form of trauma. They may have missed that.
Don't be so quick on this. She may have sustained a slow brain bleed...ME reports are challenged constantly in court.
Even the "reporters' gave up on this one.
Mom sounds eerily calm and collected on that 911 call.........
Yes that was very strange, no concern at all in her voice speaking like it was a social call
I was thinking the same thing, I would have been hysterical if that was my child.
Agreed, I would have been very frantic and thought she was having a seizure. I would have screamed for help Now!!!;;;
@@DebraGill and you would likely delay help making it to you.
This woman is VERY concerned you can hear it and she's trying to get a cop to the house but KNOWS she has to go through the entire line of questions first.
Don't cast shade on a parent doing what's right because you would not do what's right.
Look elsewhere for your true crime fix. This is how NORMAL people sound when they know that they MUST REMAIN CALM to get help.
So this girl started it by throwing water on girls for laughing?
Yup. Because "words are violence." But "silence is also being complicit with violence." Or some woke stuff like that.
It's too bad her mother didn't teach her to ignore laughter and comments from others.
Life is a whole lot sweeter and simpler if we ignore other folks' nonsense.
What is it Dr Laura used to say? It's none of my business what you think of me. Something like that.
Really. It's exhausting to try to police or control other people's opinions or little outbursts like laughter or comments. Just mind your own thoughts and actions.
Yes, it can hurt to be laughed at. But it gets easier over time to ignore it. Some folks are looking for a reaction. Don't give it to them. Think happy thoughts and walk away.
I mean, I would have walked away, but it's WATER. Jeez. It will dry off.
@@sandigrace2271 lol, surefire way to get bullied
Wait a minute...
She said she was with her friends who were all sophomores(she was sophomore too).
And the other group were all freshmen(the laughing group).
Come on man... they're freshmen, you're a sophomore. You have to set the example. They just got out of middle school, let them laugh... they're still in that middle school mindset.
Never pour water on anyone in retaliation. That is assault.
Not always. Like many other laws assault is a different standard for different groups.
just walk away in all situations. If it’s self D then do what you need to protect yourself.. yeah but water splashing should be avoided! It’s useless and just instigates..
@@robertbrodeur4326Explain one?
@@godcuck7793 burn a US flag and then a rainbow flag and see which is free speech and which is hate crime.
I suppose splashing someone in a pool is a felony in your mind.
Shocker that the people in the comments who said this was a hate crime are wrong.
They literally cannot believe it though.
How embarrassing this is literally not a hate crime. This is mutual combat and she got a butt whooped.!!! she admitted she didn’t even know the girls prior to this, so how is this ongoing bowling on going anything?!!!
It was a hate crime she was in the gay kid click witch used to be the gothic kid click or emo kid click
@@brookiegremlin6660because they don’t want to. They desperately want to be victims in order to justify their h8
No
Wow, msm really reported this all wrong when this first came out.
It wasn’t three on one and she actually threw one of the girls and her friends jumped in to help her.
And those girls had not been bullying her before this incident.
Are you surprised after what they did to Johnny Depp or say Kyle Rittenhouse? The corporate media are our enemies.
MSM gets a lot of things wrong. Sometimes it seems like they want to stir up emotions.
What really happened doesn’t fit their narrative so they made things up.
Oklahoma has bigots on the school board and bigoted rules in their schools. It's quite obvious how hate spreads. Those bullies need to do time.
Crazy
Thank you for telling the TRUTH. If you watch the video until the end you will see that the “fight” has been ruled out as her cause of death- trauma was NOT THE CAUSE and the toxicology report is pending. THE REGURGITATED NARRATIVE is disgusting and unfair. The need for instant gratification is repulsive in this country. I pray for her family and loved ones through this tragic time and I pray they get answers soon. 🙏🏻
This. watched this news on NBC first and they turned it into some kinda political statement by talking about anti-LGBTQ laws out of nowhere for the simple reason this teen was part of the LGBTQ which has absolutely no place in this. Its actually sad how you cant even trust news station to tell the truth.
That's not quite accurate.
The fight hasn't been "ruled out". A preliminary autopsy didn't indicate that as the cause of death, but a full autopsy hasn't been completed - which includes toxicology, but having that tested doesn't indicate suspicion of drugs, it's just standard procedure.
I.E: We know nothing. You're doing the same thing as the people you're mad at, just in the opposite direction. To be fair: to nowhere near the extreme and your point remains valid. Just wanted to point out how easy it is to get caught up in something once you feel your narrative has been justified. Nobody's narrative has been fully exonerated or justified because we know nothing - except that it wasn't a hate crime, thank God.
I hope for the peace of mind of those girls that it wasn't something caused by or exacerbated by the fight. They shouldn't have to feel responsible either way, but I'm sure none of them will be talking shit about strangers in the near future.
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@@RealCaptainJawsactually a preliminary autopsy takes about 1-2 hours and would rule out trauma that would cause death. As you are literally opening up the body and removing the organs, looking them over for any trauma or disease, and then putting them back. Yes, this does include the brain. So trauma from a fight would show in the preliminary autopsy. However, when doing the preliminary autopsy if no cause of death found, labs will be sent off including tissue samples that might be suspicious for disease, and also blood for toxicology. These take a while to get back. A month or so. Possibly more depending on the lab it’s sent to.
Wasnt she supposedly beaten to death? Ive seen guys beat near death a few times in lock-up, and they dont tend to walk around and talk coherently.
I used to work at a club. I don't see a victim of a beating here.
@@brookiegremlin6660what are you saying? Makes no sense.
Her gait was unsteady when the door was being opened for her.
She may have had a concussion from when they swept her feet, she fell back, and her head hit the floor.
It may not have been a brutal beating as some are alleging, and it sounds like she initiated the physical altercation by throwing the water, but people do die from head injuries.
yes, so that makes you a medical expert, sheeet you should just apply for a job at your local hospital to be a brain surgeon..... *SMH*
@@kendallhughes7507 oh? And where exactly did you graduate medical school? One of us knows what a severely beaten person looks like, and you're just talking out your ass.
Even if the mother didn't think it was a life and death situation for her daughter, the way she describes what's going on so calmly is what bothers me.
Maybe there’s more to this story that has nothing to do with the bathroom scuffle!
You nailed it. I was expecting the mother to be hysterical. Something is very suspicious
No, that's fine, I can do that too in emergencies. It's a matter of training.
Lmfao shit take by weakness
That seemed weird to me too. And it was especially weird how she kept trying to insinuate its from the head injury/fight DURING the 911 call.
It's a shame this was politicized instead of reported on accurately or with due diligence. It's evident now that the girls attacked were not even previously bullies, the cause of the death was not caused by physical trauma and to top it all off the kid was recorded ADMITTING to having started the fight over something as petty as having a laugh criticized.
News reporting with accuracy and integrity died with Walter Cronkite.
It shouldn't have been reported on anyhow outside of their local news channel. People die all over the country every single day for all sorts of reasons.
The injuries were the cause of death, do your research and stop believing the internets lies lol. I get kinda sick seeing you people treat anyone different than you like flies that start fights. They didn't start it, the people bullying them did.
@@DauoxRight and I agree but like I wonder what was the main reason they started the fight in the first place is what I'm saying.
@@DauoxYou are lying through your teeth or Nex lied. Make up your mind. Because all that information came from the video taken an hour later of Nex saying all of that 🙄
“…her hands are posturing in already…” Already? Strange way to talk. Unless someone with medical, or first aid experience knew what decorticate posturing is. Or had read about it online. Really odd, though. And Mom (or is that her Grandmother?) is so calm - not “frantic” as the news reporter says. And why didn’t the 911 operator ask what medication that youngster was taking at night after the “Mom” endorsed her child’s taking medication when the operator asked? That should have been the very next question before asking about illegal drugs, no?
thats what i was saying also she seem pretty calm and the autopsy said there was no trama
the mom was way too calm. Also, she asks for a police officer because her daughter was attacked the previous day. She even mentions the officer who came to the hospital. The operator has to really emphasize that this is a medical emergency, and she is sending medics, and that's what's important right now. Like seriously-her granddaughter is having some sort of severe episode and she's thinking about getting people arrested? That's her priority?
(eta: this is the edited version, if you listen to the unedited you will see what i mean)
So what are you suggesting happened??
Doesn't pass the smell test
I thought the Mom’s response about posturing was a bit odd as well. But she could have learned the term from a medical show or documentary.
I was hoping she’d report her pupil size and reaction to light. But, I know, it’s a bit much to ask.
As for her disposition, Mom probably didn’t grasp the severity of Nex’s condition.
And yeah, the 911 operator should know better. Knowing what medication Nex was on is important. But, the Medics would’ve asked that on scene.
It’s more important that the 911 Operator coded the call correctly.
As a parent, I simply cannot imagine the ache in any parents heart that has lost their child. The anguish must be unbearable. I send compassion, empathy and sympathy out to Nex’s parents, siblings, if there are any and all extended family. I hope you can lean on and gain strength with one another through this tragic and dark time......🙏💕
It is strange the mother is talking so calmly when her daughters eyes are rolled up in her head? Strange.
@ponderosa1229
I’m so thankful that I have never been placed in a situation where I needed to keep calm, when faced with what this Mom was faced with - panicking with 911 dispatchers, simply doesn’t allow the much needed information that they are trying to ascertain and gather, to be gained as quickly as if the caller is able to remain calm. I think I would probably panic, but I hope I could stay calm. Regardless, I am certainly not qualified to judge or speculate if this Mom acted accordingly. If there really is an ‘accordingly’ way to act in this situation. I can say, I believe I was witnessing a present and invested Mother, from what I gathered with her sitting with her child at the hospital and her interacting and listening to the responding officer, whom the Mother called to make certain a report was filed. I personally don’t see any reason to toss shade or make any unnecessary remarks about this Mom, who tragically lost her child....
Either the parents or she overdose end of story.
@Chevy01
I tend to agree. I don’t think this death was related to what occurred at the school, unless the hospital was negligent with their examination - but she exhibited no outwardly symptoms of any trauma. I sadly believe, this more than likely was an accidental overdose. A person just taking too much of whatever to help them relax and sleep. I heard the caller respond that the child took no illegal drugs, but far too often the parents just aren’t aware of that sort of activity with their kids - I’m sure if the medical examiners autopsy report is made public, most questions will be answered....
@@ponderosa1229- I think it’s strange when people are calling 911 and hysterically screaming and not being helpful because they cannot calm themselves down in order the handle situation effectively.
99% this girl didn’t die from the fight at school
Her mom is very suspicious
Shove your unfounded conspiracy theories back up your ass where you pulled them out of
This reminds me of a law professor I had who was late for class because he had been in a car accident that morning. He seemed fine, he conducted a limited class with a shorter lecture, but died the next day from a hidden head injury from the accident.
The autopsy on this one though did not find any internal damages
That's sad, but it wasn't from a foolish decision that he had made. Maybe he was rushing to work, maybe not. But he didn't start a fight and assault someone. That's plain foolishness, and very dangerous.
Can go either way, you either get inspired to design the Flux capacitor, or wind up like Bob Saget.
@@D-Fens_1632hear hear
@@MamaKalashSplashing a bit of water on someone making fun of you is not assault. Nex had been bullied for months, and when they finally retaliated in a very mild way they get beaten.
the mom is awfully calm in that 911 call.
Their left wingers they don't care about each other.
I didn't have to call 911 in my daughter's death, but because of a medical condition I was born with, I know how to stay calm.
I was thinking the same thing. If my child was possibly dying, I'm sure I'd be more concerned about how soon help was coming.
Having heard multiple 911 calls where people just scream incoherently over and over and over with NO information given, delaying any response, its nice to hear one where its relevant information can be immediately given so appropriate help can respond.
Medical condition that keeps you calm? Never heard of anything alike.
Just honest reporting like this is so needed. A very sad situation which needs to be reported truthfully.
Bullying freshmen. Not cool.
That's exactly what it was . If she didn't know them , why did she say they were freshmen ? They were all stacking chairs together, also . She sounded proud when she said she threw a girl ( I bet a tiny girl) into a paper towel holder ( metal). 🤔
@@cocoace7587He*
@@cocoace7587 He should not have been in the girls restroom.
Why, because 'his' d*** was hanging out?
The deceased student was a biological female. She had a perfect right to be there. Stop smoking or taking those drugs you're on. One of them is screwing up your point of view.
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So she started throwing the water , and the beating wasn’t the cause of death , nothing to do with the hate crime claims , the media is so disgusting, and the people more interested in her pronouns too …
Wow thats crazy
Don't argue and don't throw water on anyone - it can quickly escalate. Anger is your enemy and you have to know that not everyone is tolerant of aggressive (even mildly aggressive) behavior.
Throwing water is actually considered assault. That dude is lucky she didn’t catch a charge.
She also so calmly and unironically stated that she deliberately threw a girl into the towel dispenser. This person's nonchalant violence is disturbing, to say the least... damn.
That's the thing about these fights.
They're "just" fighting... but if someone gets a head injury, the possibility of mortal damage is always a factor.
"I punched said person." But said person falls in such a way that when the head hits the ground, that is the end.
Yes. It would be assuring to know the outcome of all this... Nex was in the wrong for starting it but literally met the end. Sad on all acounts.
Mom is way too calm in 911 call. Seems to be settling up for lawsuit or alibi
Agreed, every staged 911 call I've ever heard that turned out to be made by someone involved is like this - calm, telling a full story, using words like "already" as though they have called after quite a delay, as though they know the outcome
If you look at the screenshot of Nex's text messages after the fight, she was already talking about suing the school right after she was released from the hospital. Imo this family is trashy. I'm getting a real "we're getting a settlement!" vibe.
or she was almost as high on fentanyl as her daughter.
Teach your kids not to start a fight🙄🙄🙄
That 911 call mom was just too calm for me. 😢 Rest easy Nex
Mom sounds suspicious
I agree. She just seemed to be concerned about the wrong things, and her demeanor was way off.
The way her mom explained her breathing that's 100% drug 0d breathing really sad
Bingo. We know it wasn’t trauma and the mom said she takes a prescription to sleep so I guarantee the tox results will show what caused it, whether it be an accidental vs intentional OD
Now you're proclaiming it as fact. That's just as bad as the first accounts...
I was looking for this comment. That was my first thought.
My first thought too. I found my child like this several times. It is so scary to see your child falling back and their eyes rolling up in their head. Another time it was past that stage.....they were turning blue, super cold and very bad agonal breathing. I was terrified, screamed and called 911. This case really sounds like a drug overdose, probably fentanyl. Time will tell when they get the toxicology report back.
Agonal breathing maybe?
The girl in the hospital bed instigated that fight. She never should have thrown water on them.
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Her self control is unbelievable.
Kids eyes are rolling up into her head. She’s agonizing breathing. She’s posturing.
Mom’s capacity to control her tone, her breathing, her emotions…..and calmly and matter of faculty get through this call is extraordinary.
No, I'd call is suspicious. Any normal parent in this situation would be going absolutely CRAZY watching their kid eyes rolled back and not breathing...
So she just admitted that she started the physical altercation by throwing water on the other girls first. FAFO
Not to mention her physically throwing a younger girl into the towel dispenser..
That said, your "fafo" comment is about as recklessly and cravenly ignorant as it gets. Grow up, princess, you're worse than these juvenile delinquents.
Why is the mom so calm in the 911 call? That is her child having some sort of seizure and she’s watching this as calm as can be!!! 😮
not everyone loses their mind in stressful situations Ms.Drama
You're EXACTLY right. She didn't even sound very concerned or like it was an emergency.
@@thrashtronaut999
Conveying a sense of urgency & losing your mind are 2 completely different things. Seems you're the one being a bit dramatic. 🙄
Oh brother, she's being a responsible adult at that point. Falling apart into self-indulgent hysterics only makes everything worse, and most certainly will not help her daughter when it's the most important.
Quit projecting.
@@Teri_B. never mind that person they just want drama. So we ignore. Anyway I lost my son. You cry and are scared and your heart is racing you totally panic. He or she must not be a parent and feel the love you have for your child. My son was murdered there’s no way in hell I was calm about it!! When your child is hurt and or going through something that might kill them you are not calm!!! Anyway thank you Teri. Let’s ignore 😊👍🏼
The 911 call is strange. I don't think she thought it was that serious and possibly believed Nex would just be in hospital a few days. She kept mentioning possible head trauma but M.E. ruled that out. So sad she couldn't see her daughter was actively dying. Such a heartbreaking case.
Toxicology report may prove suicide.
That’s exactly what I’m thinking.
@Cerus98I'm lost. What do you mean by that?
I think it may have been an accidental overdose. Sometimes people want to numb their physical or mental pain for just a little bit of time. She may have taken something and felt like it wasn't working and took more and it all took effect at the same time.
I did. Also noticed why wasn’t mom frantic on phone?
@8 My guess is right after her kid had a head injurie she researched it. Not hard to find information online that posturing is a reflex pose that’s a symptom of damage to or disruptions in brain activity. So "why was she expecting it?" She probably just read about it in the last 24 hours.
You should assume people do research after some major situation like this.
Hear her admit. She Should Have Never Thrown The Water.
yes she did but Did not DESERVE TO DIE.
I had a friend released from hospital after a car accident. Died couple of days later and he was bleeing from his ear or ear. It is hard to know what kind of damge happens. I hope they getbto the bottom of this sad situation.
Just happened to my neighbors son that lives RIGHT ABOVE ME….he was in a bad car accident, fell asleep on the freeway and went under a semi… he had to get his jaw wired and stitches in his face but was ultimately walking and talking still. And fine for weeks after… one night we came home and saw her sitting in her car BAWLING. The guy started having breathing problems because his lungs were filling with fluid and they didn’t know, he unfortunately passed WEEKS AFTER the accident 🤦🏾♂️scary AF to think about
I noticed how in her texts and in this video she said "poured" water, not threw. So that leads me to believes the group of freshman were minding their own business and unsuspecting of any water coming toward them. Probably had their backs turned even.
Does anyone think that someone would just allow a person to POUR water on them if they can see it’s coming? No.
And we don’t actually know that they said anything toward Nex, or if Nex just took it upon herself to decide they did.
Like Natasha Richardon's ski accident, hit her head, refused medical help went home died the next day.
Natasha complained about a severe headache 2 hours after refusing medical care and was taken to the hospital then, not days later.
That is one calm mom talking to 911 while her daughter is dying 😳
RIP Nex
One person is not a "they."
I thought he miss spoke
@@DylanP-hp6ynWhat's with OP, what are they talking about?
The mom was more concerned about pinning it to the fight than her daughter's medical emergency
Because if it were pinned to the fight it could have proved the school or the police department were negligent.
The lawsuits will soon start against the school district, the police department, the parents of the other 3 students, and the contractor who built the school bathroom. Basically, any person or entity that has money to nab in a lawsuit. The more her daughter appears as a victim, the higher the payout will be.
It could be linked to her, hitting her head or being hit while she was down from the students just because she’s walking out of the school mean anything and the only other thing it could be is an allergic reaction to medication that she was given a reaction to that so anyway, you look at it it’s link to the beating at the school, because if she wasn’t beat, then she would not have died! And just because she poured water on them doesn’t mean they have a right to beat her after all, they were insulting her, which means they drew first blood Because if I went to their school and called them the end word Even though it’s free speech, somehow, I would think I would be arrested!
@@raymonddriggers Being able to walk on her own power to the nurses office, then from there to the school's office, then from there outside to her car means quite a bit from a medical standpoint.
She wasn't beaten so severely that she couldn't walk, talk, etc. She didn't have to be removed from the restroom or the school building on a stretcher and be taken to the ER by ambulance or even be treated by EMS at the school.
You may be right about the allergic reaction to the shot the hospital gave her. It's also possible that the shot reacted with any prescription medications she took at home after that initial hospital visit.
She claimed she received a beating and blacked out, but the fight lasted less than two minutes before it was broken up and she was dishing out for at least part of it. It also sounds like in addition to the water and the usual hair pulling, she "drew first blood" when she tossed one of the three into a paper towel dispenser. No one is claiming they "have a right to beat her" but it does mean they should only be punished for fighting, not for her unfortunate death.
Insults are words, not a physical attack. Throwing water on someone is a physical assault. Shoving or tossing someone into anything is a physical assault. You can't pick a fight and then claim you are acting in self-defense, even if you picked that fight with three people and they all responded to your physical assault with physical assaults of their own.
Calling someone the "end word" also carries the implications of racism. You might wish you had only been arrested by the time the person(s) you called the "end word" finished with you. It would have little to do with your "free speech" and most likley would become the "end" of you talking at all until the police arrived to save you from yourself. Then the person who had assaulted you would likely get arrested as well.
@@raymonddriggersfreedom of speech means you can say anything out of your mouth and that’s okay. It’s your opinion and your right to speak. But what isn’t okay is to attack someone physically because of words. Words may hurt feelings, that’s life. Feelings get hurt. We don’t use words to justify physical violence. That’s called assault/felony assault and is illegal.
@@KG_said my brain suddenly got hard looking at your picture and reading your comment!
I am so sorry for EVERYONE involved. Violence is never the answer. This kid shouldn't have escalated the fight, the other girls should not have attacked. There is never an excuse. The hospital probably did think the kid could go home. I wonder if it was a blood clot? My heart goes out to mom. There is NOTHING worse except losing more than one or in the middle of a war zone. ❤ Bless you mom. May you get all the love and support you need.
A fellow bereaved mom.
They keep saying "they" so much, I have no idea who they're talking about.
use active listening skills
@@lychee-dj9qo I have social anxiety and a very difficult time talking to people. If I encountered her in public, why should I be expected to overcome my mental illness and accommodate her, when she refuses to overcome her mental illness and accommodate me?
@@BillDownhill Male/female gender roles are social constructs and not identifying with either one is not a mental illness
you are clearly not approaching this conversation in good faith and to that i just hope you fix the hate in your heart
@@lychee-dj9qo That is a personal belief of yours not a fact. We clearly know who a male and female is, it's your personal belief that gender is a social construct, just like there are cultures that say that fire is holy.
@@TT-ee1vv The fact that these people can't see it's a belief system blows my mind. If the scientific community pretended the bible were real, they'd still say it's fake. But when those same people say you can change genders, it's somehow real?
She started it. She is the antagonist. Of course not all kids are going to be cool with that and let their temper get the best of them...
Yup, typical
No one's gonna state the bullying they've received from those dumbass bullies? It's the victim's fault? No one talks about social infrastructure reforms to help such cases?
@jasontreyes8078 The only bully here was this girl. The whole "these girls were bullying an alphabet community member" has been proven a lie. She stated herself they didn't know each other and had never interacted before. And admitted herself that she poured water on them just bc one asked the other in the group why her and her friends were laughing. She started this mess.
@@procrastinator6902Read more of the past context before you make a comment.
@@jasontreyes8078 There is no past context, just a bunch of speculation and untrue statements by people who were trying to create a narrative that didn't exist. Just like people claiming she could hardly walk after the fight and needed assistance doing so, while the security footage showed her walking just fine on her own.
Her and her friends didn't know these girls and had never interacted with them, she said so herself. She also admitted to throwing water on them bc one of them asked about her and her friends laughing. Asked someone in her own group, not the one who threw the water. She started a fight over people talking amongst themselves and they were younger students, she was being the bully here.
1:26 "....and so I went up there and I POURED WATER ON THEM"...........Who is the bully here?
As a person who had a head injury in my youth, it doesn't happen immidiately. A delay responce can happen. Look it up. I was messed up and admitted to the hospital. they kept me in front of the nurse station over night, They asked me questions that my mom said I could not answer, it's not cut and dry
I’m surprised the doctors didn’t get an X-ray or cat scan; brain bleeds can often be sudden after a head injury; depending on the severity of the bleed the person may not have severe symptoms for hours after.
I had my entire forehead split open and the small medical center didn’t have the necessary equipment to scan for internal damage; all they did was stitched me up and did the flashlight test to determine if I had a concussion.
my grandma still felt as if something wasn’t right and so after she took me to a bigger hospital an hour away; thet did a ct scan and found a small brain bleed that was slowly leaking into my skull.
if it wasn’t for my grandma I could have died; easily could have went to sleep that night and not have woken up.
@@leechgrrl not really a like but an acknowledgement. Hope things turned out well.
Im not implying anything with this but I cant believe how calm her mom is on the 911 call. probably a good thing she wasnt losing it as that could’ve complicated things.
Sounds like she was the bully. Why would she throw water on the other girls?
It’s crazy how calm the mother is.
The mom sure is calm. Hmmmmm
you watch too much Netflix, get a life
Her daughter is the bully in the situation. She was probably embarrassed.
Sounds like she's over this crap
Umm… why are so many people talking about her calm voice? Who cares? Some people are hysterical and are not good for anything because you can’t depend on them in a crisis. Others, just like my grandmother is, shut off her emotions and is someone who you can depend on.
So why are so many people in the comment section mentioning this?b
Oh dear God, tell me you are not thinking of some conspiracy where they force this girl to go into a medical trauma but the trauma goes too far and she dies when she’s not supposed to? Please tell me I’m imagining that, because reading between the lines and what I know from the TH-cam comment sewer, I cannot help but be highly suspicious…
Her mom was so calm. Definitely the best way to be but I’d be freaking out! RIP Nex. I’m so sorry for your loss, family.
I am the parent of a child who died at home....no way I would be that calm on the phone to 911! You can’t panic enough to get the ambulance there!!!!
Everyone is different. I called for my child and I was in shock, and it felt like a dream, and I likely sounded similar to her. Everything was moving so slow, all I could do was just go through the motions and wait, hysterics weren’t in my mind and it would have been a barrier. People have diverse reactions to shock, and panic can look like a meltdown or shut down, everyone is different.
I’m sorry that you lost your baby boy❤
Where are her injuries on her face/ head while in the hospital? Was a CT done on her head? It also seems like she might have taken something orally, maybe for pain at home?
Thank you for sharing this
What did the toxicology report say?
I remote viewed the report. Its says fentanyl toxicity.
That was a very very very calm 911 call while her kids eyes were rolling up in the back of their head
not everyone loses their mind in stressful situations Ms.Drama
The mother seems incredibly calm consider the trauma she just found her daughter in.
Trauma? What trauma?
I have head trauma, u can't tell by looking at me.... doctors use Imaging, but go on how u feel, I look normal but I'm not
@@its-c0e-u-seeok but there are people who look like they don’t have trauma and actually don’t. What’s your point
not everyone loses their mind in stressful situations Ms.Drama
@@HeyitsBri_ your point seems to be, that you like to eat $#¡+ in front of everybody, 🐝 och!
Don’t instigate a fight, and maybe shit like this won’t happen, shits not always sweet when the truth comes out💯
But at the end of the video there's a statement that said that TRAUMA from the fight didn't contribute to her death, and that there's a toxicity screen that is currently happening to see if there's any drugs in her body.
@@godfirst6880 clearly nowhere in my comment, and did it say that I said, don’t instigate a fight because there was a statement that the girl that passed away through water on the three girls, therefore don’t instigate a fight
@@godfirst6880 did she say that?? NO, read the damn comment again
3:35 FACTS...If you cannot win a fight that YOU instigate then you should not think about fighting and walk away!
@phantagirlableThat's what I think too.
You can tell when they was walking that they was dizzy. From what their mom said in the 911 call, it sounds like Nex had a massive stroke.
He funked around and found out, unfortunately it cost him his life!
I think she’s a girl
The way I am seeing this is Nex is a transgender so this would explain a lot of things. The kids picking, the bouts of strength during the fight ect. Would also explain the mothers reaction to the prescription medication question.
A group of girls making a statement “why do they laugh that way.” about another group of girls has nothing to do with picking and everything to do with high school.
@@samezidrovibes
That depends on the situation, and which side of the question you were on. If your asking it or being asked it.
She started that sh1t in her own words. I thought this was a hate crime. That testosterone made her think she could overtake those girls.
@@fredted1611Either way you don’t fight over something that damn minor.
@@carrington2949
Again it depends on the situation. How many other times did this group of girls pick on the kid and her friends? The way it sounds this wasn't the first, second or even the third time. The officer seemed well aware of what was going on. So I am willing to bet he's been called before for the same reason.
The mom's call to 911 is calm. That is not what I would be expecting a parent, in this case, a mother, to sound like when your kid is on the verge of dying.
EXACTLY
It doesn't do any good to be upset and incoherent so maybe she's forcing herself to be calm so she can get help for her daughter!
@@JCcreates927 COULD BE
I think it’s strange when people are calling 911 and hysterically screaming and not being helpful because they cannot calm themselves down in order the handle situation effectively.b
I don't think there is anything to this. I suggest dropping this angle.
I've said this in another video and I will say it here:
As a parent, Nex's situation resonates with me, reminding me of my own children. I want to emphasize that the loss of a child is an experience no parent should endure. Since this news emerged, there has been widespread misinformation surrounding the circumstances. It's crucial for everyone to await the complete investigation findings. While it's important to express support for Nex and their family during this tragedy, it's equally vital not to jump to conclusions and exacerbate the situation.
There have been disturbing posts on the OPS X site targeting young students, with some labeling them as "future murderers." This is deeply inappropriate. We cannot make assumptions about these students' backgrounds or identities, just as we cannot assume this incident is automatically a hate crime due to its occurrence in conservative Oklahoma.
Regarding Nex's involvement, they have stated that they didn't even know the other students involved, as they are a sophomore and the others students are freshmen. The altercation reportedly began when someone made a comment that Nex found offensive, leading to Nex pouring water on them. While pouring water shouldn't escalate to physical violence, the situation unfolded unpredictably.
Looking at the facts, Nex initiated physical aggression, which escalated matters. At this point, it doesn't seem to be a hate crime against a transgender person as Nex started it - and what we don't know is the identity of the other students (race, gender, sexuality) as it could easily be turned around as being a racial hate crime on Nex's part for the assault (as benign as it was). WE DON'T WANT TO GO DOWN THAT RABBIT HOLE!
The Medical Examiner's office concluded that the death wasn't related to trauma. I speculate that Nex may have had an allergic reaction to a pain shot, leading to anaphylactic shock.
Let's honor the life of the child lost and refrain from making baseless assumptions or spreading divisive narratives. We must wait for all the facts to surface before forming opinions or sharing content that could perpetuate unfounded claims
To hell with those liars. Playing the victim when the facts are she started it. You can't go around throwing crap on people and shoving them into things then cry foul when you get your ass kicked. To hell with this person.
I speculate the situation escalated online after Nex returned home. Based on Mom’s statement, Nex is on prescribed meds and likely she had access to those meds. Sadly, I believe she OD herself due to the online fallout following the incident.
It’s a hard world for children these days.
This is why we need to wait for factual information. A
Mom is so calm. I would have been hysterical.
After a head injury, there is always a risk of a blood clot or brain bleed.
She had a brain injury and the hospital didn’t catch it. They should have kept her overnight for observation since she lost consciousness
drug overdose. Listen how hard mom denies any drugs use. Typical druggie behavior. She probably got into moms fentanyl stash.
I work in the healthcare field so I’m pretty calm in bad situations. But if it were my Child in that condition, I’d be a lot more upset on the phone than this mom seems to be.
Also this mom isn’t freaking out?
Was there an MRI or CAT scan She hit her head so that should’ve been done right everybody’s gonna be pointing the finger at somebody else so I think the hospital should’ve caught it
Manslaughter... Criminal behavior is criminal behavior. Everyone involved in that fight needs to be in jail.
I went to school with a Mohawk thinking I was expressing my individuality as a teen . We use to call it punk rock. Remember this was my choice, I got bullied, beaten and harassed. My Dad took me and got me normal clothes and a buzz cut and sent me back to school, told me school was for learning not expressing myself. Great lesson learned. Keep it simple.
Mom is wayyyy too calm. She knew she was gonna kill herself
I go to this school and it’s sad that people are trying to twist this all up to make the school and everyone look terrible and now they are mad at police for “covering it up”
Because "they" are trying to force the hate crime against the LGBTQ community narrative. The very first thing that was mentioned about the death on the local news. It's sad... instead of feeling bad about a teen dying, everyone's angry about the narrative.
That is so sad 😞 head injuries are bad praying for the family
As a mother would be hysterical , get an ambulance here now.
People say the sweetest cutest things in anonymous Internet comment sections.
If someone says something to you or about you that you don't like, just turn the other cheek and shrug it off, it will be forgotten about in no time.
Rip little babe. Life’s so fragile
What a tragedy
Truly sad how kids think they can beat kids up to an extreme extent & no one cares. These kids need to stop thinking they are cool & can hurt others. It’s not cool
Pooor child. RIP
This is why it's wrong to jump to conclusions, especially when it's to promote a narrative.
How did the school drop the ball when “Nex” started the fight. Actually piss off
because of the rainbow flag influence.
The school is supposed to contact law enforcement when a fight occurs.
This mother's reaction in the 911 call is unreal!!! i as a mother would be franticly yelling out of my mind to get an ambulance to my child. i dont know but there is something sus here.
Even her own mom calls her "she" in the 911 call.
She fucked around and found out.
2:35
Her calmness during this call is extraordinary.
I'm not judging the parent by saying this, I'm merely remarking on the language used..The mother does not sound "frantic" during her "frantic 911 call". Prayers for all involved.
Her mom is so oddly calm on that police call. I find that very strange. She’s describing all of this and she’s just so matter-of-fact and her tone that it’s weird. I do agree with what the officer said about her, throwing the water, because if Nex hadn’t have thrown the water, this whole thing might’ve been avoided. It will be interesting to see if there’s a toxicology report that shows that she took something. The hospital ran their test, and if they thought she had a concussion or anything like that, they would not have let her go home. They would’ve kept her for 23 hour observation. But again society the way people, especially young people are treating each other it’s awful. Social media does not help things. Another unnecessary loss.
I go to owasso, and I remember hearing about the fight and the death the next day after and it’s sad.
The mother needs to be investigated. No way in did he die from getting beat.
The mother is oddly calm on the phone....I would be a screaming nutcase begging for an ambulance.
They should have called an ambulance instead of sending her home. How could you not call an ambulance? She had serious head trauma!
Boy that mother is so calm. Something isn’t right.
As a mother and grandmother I would be freakin out and screaming for help if I saw my daughter breathing like that!
Unless you viewed your child as a means of attention, then you'd be pretty stoked.
Unless you have a medical background. I did not scream or freak out calling 911 when my husband died. I gave them the info they needed so they could get to my house sooner rather than my screaming like a banshee and help was detained because I was acting a fool. I was also attempting not to scare my 9, 7, and 5 year olds. If you freak out, you delay much needed help. Be an adult and think.
Who assaulted whom first?? Don't start something you can't finish.
Alright tough guy
Facts!
Does anyone else find the mom’s demeanor on the 911 call odd? She sounds like she’s describing a pinging engine to a car mechanic and not a mom reporting that her daughter is having difficulty breathing. Did she say that daughter was unresponsive?
almost like she had seen drug overdoses before and knew what was happening.