WOWWW. I never realized that what I do in my single life can be carried over to marriage. THANK YOU SO MUCH KYTIA. I've recently come across ur channel and I hear ur videos at least once a week (I'm trying to catch up on all the older videos lol). I don't know if you will see this but yoooo u are a blessing. I feel like ur videos are sooo practical and truly makes me reflect on my own walk and to be honest with myself. And I love how you pray at the end of all ur video. Hehe. I truly feel like a coverage over my life when I hear it (and I pray along). I feel like your very relatable. SO yeah, thank you for sharing and I AM SO grateful to be viewing ur channel. God bless you and ur fam bam and ur ministry 💗💗💗 ur awesome !
MAN! I was so sad when you said that you wanted to pray for us, because I knew that we were reaching the end of the video. haha Thank you for EVERY point that you made!
Hello, I recently found you channel because I decided to start being intentional about what I listen to and watch. Honestly God has really been doing a work in and it has been challenging and sometimes lonely but I am so grateful for the change because I am a thousand times happier but I am thankful for you channel its really uplifting and you gove great Godly advice and it's something I need right now. Im learning to trust God completely and I know that I was called to be set apart and different. I wasnt expecting to have to lose or not be as close to people that are in my life. Because of you I feel better knowing its someone out there that had to walk this walk and truly understands how I feel so thats for being my friend in my head lol. Please keep allowing God to use you because it makes a difference. Your videos help me to stay focused and challenge myself to better and stay on purpose with my purpose so thanks!
I like your hair ....i luv your vedios, I am honoring god first and my husband before I meet him ..god told me he was preparing me to meet him soon and I am willing ,....thank you
When you said, "I shouldn't have been talking late on the phone with this guy that I knew that liked me" GIRL!!! 😭 I was like dang, how did she know?! 😩 I would love to have just a guy friend and that's it.. But it seems like they always end up liking you 🙄 I don't have any close girls as my friends either so that's why I pursue friendships with guys. It's a lose lose situation for me 😭 I LOVE this video tho ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Charity Dyer I know if you ask God, He will provide the right community. When I was around 22 years old, I gave my all to God and within months I had a home church, small group, started mending relationships with my family, and got married shortly after. 💗
Kytia L'amour Kytia L'amour It really helps because I'm 22 now, and to hear all the good things that God has done for you at that age, makes me get excited for my future, to see what he has in store for me. Thank you for your advice ❤️❤️
Naiym1 not sure... I wish I knew, I always try to check myself to see if it's me.. And sometimes it has been, but most of the time it was the other girl. I've always wanted a sister like, GODLY friend.
Yes sis! Thank you for sharing this wisdom and insight! Thank you also for the prayer. I'm very excited about posts like this, as I want to be the type of wife that honors her spouse! So spot on! And love the color in your hair, very cute!
Hey Katia, great seeing you are your husband doing great things for God after all these years. I remember you from CCC; didn’t know you all that well, but could see that you were on a good path. Well done! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Kytia you are the WISEST woman I have ever heard giving advises about this topic, I envy you're husband (in a good way), God bless you richly and keep using you for His Glory and Kingdom 🙏💪👌🔥
Arturo Mena To God be the glory. I’m glad to share what worked and what to avoid (because of mistakes I’ve made) so that I can help spread the news that God-centered relationships are possible. 😊
Amen thank you so much! I need this I've been struggling with having crushes on my guy friends and flirting. I never thought about how this can follow you in marriage. After watching this i felt convicted to unfollow some of the guys I use to or still do have crushes on from social media. I noticed that when I'm still following them on social media i tend to watch what they are doing from time to time or we happen to reconnect again. Yeah I know which ones to unfollow but it's hard not to make excuses like oh it wouldn't hurt to still be friends/following since we don't talk. But I guess by doing this it gives me a slim hope that we might get together even though they are not right for me.
I'm pretty sure God meant me to see this... I just reconnected with an old guy-friend who I had a massive crush on a while ago. I thought those feelings were gone, but no. I highly doubt this guy and I will ever get married. It's gonna be hard, but maybe I really do need to push him out of my life.
Kytia L'amour We had a VERY close relationship, but when he told me he didn't have feelings for me, my heart really broke hard. I stepped away from our friendship for a LONG while, and I realized I was kinda pushing him away, too... by ALWAYS bringing up my feelings for him. Anytime we talk now, I try not to. I know they're kiiinda maybe still there, but I don't intend getting as close and personal as we were before... even though I might desire it.
Lily Calico I totally understand. I think it is wise to distance yourself. It’s important to remove ourselves from temptations and distractions and give our hearts completely to Jesus so that He can lead us to what’s best.
Update: I've ended the friendship. I gave all the reasons that you did, and he seemed really hurt. He's always been a gentleman to me, but he replied with: "You're basically saying that if you can't have me your way, you can't have me at all." And I suppose it's true. But I didn't expect it. When he said that, it showed me a side of him that I had never seen before. It showed me that he would risk my purity for our friendship, and I wasn't willing to do that. I won't ever say you ruined a friendship, Kytia. You helped keep me from a dangerous one. Thank you for your videos and comments. Much love, Lily
Lily Calico Wow, that’s really eye opening. I’m so glad you shared that and I hope it helps someone scrolling through the comments someday facing similar situation. I pray God comforts your heart. 💗
I found this video a few years ago and it was honestly a Huge factor in me realizing the flaws of my ways and getting out of so much sexual immorality, flirting and inappropriate friendships. THANK YOU KYTIA🤍
Beauty By Syddd The first step is believing. Our faith pleases God and we have to be so sure that God’s promises are available to us. It’s the only way we will be truly led on the right path to marriage. Sometimes we can forfeit this blessing because we can’t fathom that marriage is possible for us the way God intended it.
I never thought about the issues that could arise with having close guy friends but what you said made sense...I need to pray more about this. Thank you for all of he wonderful advice! The Holy Spirit really poured out wisdom through you ❤️
God had been showing me to stop giving guys "that look" and saying "Oooh he's too fine!". I never thought it hurt anyone cause I'm single anyways. But wow, your videos always give me confirmation & another perspective to look at things! God bless you
I'm so glad God used me to help you! There's nothing wrong with you. People are attractive, but we do have to train our thoughts and speech to be pleasing to God.
I have a very good male friend and he is married too. We know each other’s spouses and we go out together as couples but sometimes if my husband is not free I go out with them. Before he was married, I would see him and my husband was fine with that. I think you can be friends with people of the opposite sex but everyone has to be good with it.
Very well said with excellence. Never compare your sex life to others. Privately keep this information. Keep your relationship sacred and personal. Never flirt once your new relationship. Actually you should never flirt. Sometimes people take flirting as just someone being nice and that can get misconstrued. Be polite but not nice. Always set your boundaries and let people know you won't pass them. Guard your heart before and after marriage at all times and always protect your relationship.
Thank you for this video that is full of insight, knowledge, and wisdom about being prepared for marriage. I know God has led me to this video and your TH-cam channel to grow spiritually. Thank you for outstanding video content throughout your channel.
So good! I wish i could just pick the phone and call u girl!! Id love to hear more about marriage, struggles of different kinds inside marriage, ways to solve them that we all come across in marriage and need godly wisdom for. Thank you again! Loving ur videos
A BIG THANK YOU, and Much Love, sister in Christ, for sharing and being such a shining light of Gods love! Praise Him from whom all blessings flow! Plentiful is His Agape' Love and His Peace always with you! In Jesus name, Amen!
way2girly Great question!! I have a video titled “HOW GOD PREPARED ME FOR MARRIAGE” as well as one titled “HOW I KNEW MY HUSBAND WAS THE ONE” that can give some insight.
Hey sis, My understanding is that marriage is a ministry. You must be called to ministry and when you accept there is a provision. From being called to knowing the provision, it is all about staying connected to the one who called you. Practical ways; from now you have to learn to hear His voice. Praying, reading and studying the Word, surrounding yourself with your Godly people and perspectives etc. Hope this helps love! M.
I love that you're doing this. People need to get their shit together BEFORE they meet "the one". But, just so you know, it is entirely possible (and even beneficial) to have close friends of the opposite sex. I have always been a tomboy and had more male friends than female friends, some going back to when we were 10, all equally innocent and pure in our friendships. I am one of the guys. As long as it's the real (friendship) deal and you're not kidding yourselves, there is no reason to stop being friends when you get engaged. In fact, if it's the real deal, your fiance(e) will see that, and feel it. My ex and my best (male) friend became good friends and eventually colleagues. And yes, of course I was also ok with him having female friends, as long as I felt that it was a real friendship (no bullshit, no drama) from both sides of the friendship. If you and your spouse have an intimate relationship of trust, you will feel free to tell him/her that you don't feel good about a particular "friend" of his/hers. In such a case of course the marriage should always come first. But only if the suspicions are real, and not if you're just being an insecure or possessive witch over no problem whatsoever. I live in Europe. I was with my ex for 7 years, and friendships with people of the opposite sex were never an issue between us. Most of the people I know over here (both married and single) also have friends of both genders, which is never even a (controversial) topic. Americans need to grow a little in that field. You are not teenagers, and you don't live in Saudi Arabia. If you have a meaningful connection with your spouse, and a relationship of trust, this should never be a problem. If you don't have a meaningful and trusting connection with your fiance, don't marry him/her in the first place.
I’m sorry I loved this video but when you said a marriage needs a team I don’t think it does. I feel like a marriage is between two ppl. Unless you’re a marriage counselor or MY PREACHER you won’t know any of my martial problems. It’s just ppl now dats don’t wanna see someone else married or happy. SOO yeah that’s just how I feel
Keesha Charvez Thank you for sharing! When you surround yourself with uplifting and loving people, you find that the burden of the inevitable rough patches in marriage is more easily endured. I say that from experience. My marriage is the healthiest it’s ever been since I allowed God to bring me to the right community of supportive family, friends, and mentors.
God will send me a godly husband for me and my life and dreams and faith hands his wisdom and grace of his glory by God's gifted. Lord bless me a good man for my dreams in 2021.
Can I ask, what if you are close friends and you know that you both like each other? But know that it's not the right time to be in a relationship yet because you both know you're not ready to be in the courting phase leading to marriage? Do you think the close friendship is unnecessary?
I wouldn't recommend being close friends with someone of the opposite sex because of this very reason. Hanging out in a group is fine, but knowing you're not ready for marriage, don't put yourself in a tempting position to invest emotionally in them like that. If this is your future husband, God will make it clear and it will be in His timing.
But isn't it good to be close friends with the friend first before you get into a relationship? Or do you reckon you must seek God's approval first that he is your future husband before you become any type of close friend with him? Thank you sooo much for your videos and replies, its really vital for me
No, sex is hype and comes naturally when the two people are in love and committed to one another. After marriage you become more and more familiar with each other it may be awkward at first and that's okay. Sex just about pleasuring one another your two bodies become one. Kind of like the grand finale cuz you have to build up to it, even in your daily walk how you treat someone during the day is how they will relate to you in the bedroom. Believe It or Not God's in the bedroom. Submit your bodies to your spouse. Don't make sex a priority, make it be the flow of your daily walk with each other. It is a gift given to us by God.
Paul Anthony Yes you are correct. Men are the pursuers, but still need to be led by God in becoming the husband God needs them to be and having wisdom and confirmation when they do indeed meet their future wife. My husband made it VERY clear that he was interested in pursuing me pretty much the day we first met even though God hadn’t revealed to me that we would be anything more than friends. It actually took a full year from when we met to when we began our courtship.
You look like Lisa Bonet😊 Thank you for your transparency about your marriage. Christians are not as open about the difficulties that come in their marriage, so on the outside looking in I use to believe Christian marriages are alway Blissful
Lol i dont be friends with guys cuz its cool.... alot of women are just too problematic ..... I'm a tomboy and girly girl .... men n women think differently... men mindset is more chilled n relaxed... ig theres something from both sides tht I seek tht I cant get from 1 gender.
I'm very blessed Kytia that God made me to discover your channel . You are a glorious sister I'm looking up to. I love your videos. keep on doing the work of God . We need more sisters like you. May the Lord bless you in Jesus Name
This is the kind of advice my generation and I needs, God bless your ministry 😊😊
Jonelle Bolton I’m so glad it’s helping you! Thank you. 💗
I wasn’t sure what to expect with this video, but this is so wise and I’ve found much of this to be true, as a single woman.
Minimal Assembly Aww thank you. I’m glad to hear that.
Powerful message, I agree we NEED intentional friendships! Sidebar gorgeous lipstick!
Angela Johnson We really do!! Also, the link to this lipstick is in the description box. 😉
Kytia L'amour indeed sis, thanks! Super gorgeous shade!
I just prayed to God about this and then stumbled upon your video minutes later! Thank you ❤️
Alisa Cohen Wow! God is not playing around. So glad to hear that!
She's outrageously wise
Samuel Sowunmi You’re so kind. Glory to God. 💗💗💗
WOWWW. I never realized that what I do in my single life can be carried over to marriage. THANK YOU SO MUCH KYTIA. I've recently come across ur channel and I hear ur videos at least once a week (I'm trying to catch up on all the older videos lol). I don't know if you will see this but yoooo u are a blessing. I feel like ur videos are sooo practical and truly makes me reflect on my own walk and to be honest with myself. And I love how you pray at the end of all ur video. Hehe. I truly feel like a coverage over my life when I hear it (and I pray along). I feel like your very relatable. SO yeah, thank you for sharing and I AM SO grateful to be viewing ur channel. God bless you and ur fam bam and ur ministry 💗💗💗 ur awesome !
I will be married in the future, This is AWSOME ADVICE. Thank you so much. God Bless You.🍎🍎🍎🍎
Shannon Cunningham Yay!! God bless you too!!! 💗
MAN! I was so sad when you said that you wanted to pray for us, because I knew that we were reaching the end of the video. haha Thank you for EVERY point that you made!
T. Crawford Thats actually so sweet! I’m glad that you enjoy my videos that much.
Thanks sister in Christ this is exactly what I needed vs what I wanted!
Excellence Baby Awww you’re welcome!
Hello,
I recently found you channel because I decided to start being intentional about what I listen to and watch. Honestly God has really been doing a work in and it has been challenging and sometimes lonely but I am so grateful for the change because I am a thousand times happier but I am thankful for you channel its really uplifting and you gove great Godly advice and it's something I need right now. Im learning to trust God completely and I know that I was called to be set apart and different. I wasnt expecting to have to lose or not be as close to people that are in my life. Because of you I feel better knowing its someone out there that had to walk this walk and truly understands how I feel so thats for being my friend in my head lol. Please keep allowing God to use you because it makes a difference. Your videos help me to stay focused and challenge myself to better and stay on purpose with my purpose so thanks!
Tonya Johnson That means so much to me!! 😭 Thank you, I’m sooo glad to hear that you’re drawing close to God.
I like your hair ....i luv your vedios, I am honoring god first and my husband before I meet him ..god told me he was preparing me to meet him soon and I am willing ,....thank you
tee Hill I’m really glad to hear that you’re committed to allowing God to work in your life.
When you said, "I shouldn't have been talking late on the phone with this guy that I knew that liked me" GIRL!!! 😭 I was like dang, how did she know?! 😩 I would love to have just a guy friend and that's it.. But it seems like they always end up liking you 🙄 I don't have any close girls as my friends either so that's why I pursue friendships with guys. It's a lose lose situation for me 😭 I LOVE this video tho ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Charity Dyer I know if you ask God, He will provide the right community. When I was around 22 years old, I gave my all to God and within months I had a home church, small group, started mending relationships with my family, and got married shortly after. 💗
Kytia L'amour Kytia L'amour It really helps because I'm 22 now, and to hear all the good things that God has done for you at that age, makes me get excited for my future, to see what he has in store for me. Thank you for your advice ❤️❤️
Charity Dyer I’m excited for you too!!!
Kytia L'amour ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Naiym1 not sure... I wish I knew, I always try to check myself to see if it's me.. And sometimes it has been, but most of the time it was the other girl. I've always wanted a sister like, GODLY friend.
Yes sis! Thank you for sharing this wisdom and insight! Thank you also for the prayer. I'm very excited about posts like this, as I want to be the type of wife that honors her spouse! So spot on! And love the color in your hair, very cute!
Khyra Dillard You’re well on your way, baby sis!!! I see you putting in work. 🙏🏼
Kytia L'amour Thanks sis! I'm glad about that!
Hey Katia, great seeing you are your husband doing great things for God after all these years. I remember you from CCC; didn’t know you all that well, but could see that you were on a good path. Well done! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Kytia you are the WISEST woman I have ever heard giving advises about this topic, I envy you're husband (in a good way), God bless you richly and keep using you for His Glory and Kingdom 🙏💪👌🔥
Arturo Mena To God be the glory. I’m glad to share what worked and what to avoid (because of mistakes I’ve made) so that I can help spread the news that God-centered relationships are possible. 😊
Kytia L'amour You bet Kytia, God is using you in amazing ways, keep those amazing videos coming!!! 🙏👌🙌👏👏👏👏👏🔥
Arturo Mena Thank you for your support! 🙌🏼
Amen thank you so much! I need this I've been struggling with having crushes on my guy friends and flirting. I never thought about how this can follow you in marriage. After watching this i felt convicted to unfollow some of the guys I use to or still do have crushes on from social media. I noticed that when I'm still following them on social media i tend to watch what they are doing from time to time or we happen to reconnect again. Yeah I know which ones to unfollow but it's hard not to make excuses like oh it wouldn't hurt to still be friends/following since we don't talk. But I guess by doing this it gives me a slim hope that we might get together even though they are not right for me.
Lovematters That’s a very mature decision to make!! What you feed your eyes will make itself into your spirit.
The editing 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾
Alicia Mc Thank you for appreciating it!!!
Tell the truth sista.🦁👑
Thank you God bless you!
Karl Robinson Haha! Thank you!!
Awesome AMEN my sister this was good keep planting seeds my sister! I know my wife is coming soon!!!
Power Miracle LIGHT Amen! God is faithful. Keep allowing Him to order your steps and prepare you.
I love how practical and in-depth your advice is, Kytia. Belieivng that God will continue to use both you and your husband for his glory!
Some Love for you sister gal from Kenya, thanks for always sharing word and real life encouragement.
I'm pretty sure God meant me to see this... I just reconnected with an old guy-friend who I had a massive crush on a while ago. I thought those feelings were gone, but no. I highly doubt this guy and I will ever get married. It's gonna be hard, but maybe I really do need to push him out of my life.
Lily Calico I’m so glad you found this video! How was your friendship with this person when you were friends in the past?
Kytia L'amour We had a VERY close relationship, but when he told me he didn't have feelings for me, my heart really broke hard. I stepped away from our friendship for a LONG while, and I realized I was kinda pushing him away, too... by ALWAYS bringing up my feelings for him. Anytime we talk now, I try not to. I know they're kiiinda maybe still there, but I don't intend getting as close and personal as we were before... even though I might desire it.
Lily Calico I totally understand. I think it is wise to distance yourself. It’s important to remove ourselves from temptations and distractions and give our hearts completely to Jesus so that He can lead us to what’s best.
Update: I've ended the friendship. I gave all the reasons that you did, and he seemed really hurt.
He's always been a gentleman to me, but he replied with: "You're basically saying that if you can't have me your way, you can't have me at all."
And I suppose it's true. But I didn't expect it. When he said that, it showed me a side of him that I had never seen before. It showed me that he would risk my purity for our friendship, and I wasn't willing to do that.
I won't ever say you ruined a friendship, Kytia. You helped keep me from a dangerous one. Thank you for your videos and comments.
Much love,
Lily
Lily Calico Wow, that’s really eye opening. I’m so glad you shared that and I hope it helps someone scrolling through the comments someday facing similar situation. I pray God comforts your heart. 💗
I found this video a few years ago and it was honestly a Huge factor in me realizing the flaws of my ways and getting out of so much sexual immorality, flirting and inappropriate friendships. THANK YOU KYTIA🤍
thanku so much lol i can admit that i watch too many ungodly utube videos and these videos really help me to stay focused on my path. thanku queen
Loved this video very good. But that lipstick and your curly hair love it.
Karina Aguiar You’re so kind! Thank you. I have a link to the lipstick in the description box. 😊
This is great advice. It’s just so hard to follow when you aren’t sure you’ll ever find someone or if marriage is in your future.
Beauty By Syddd The first step is believing. Our faith pleases God and we have to be so sure that God’s promises are available to us. It’s the only way we will be truly led on the right path to marriage. Sometimes we can forfeit this blessing because we can’t fathom that marriage is possible for us the way God intended it.
I never thought about the issues that could arise with having close guy friends but what you said made sense...I need to pray more about this. Thank you for all of he wonderful advice! The Holy Spirit really poured out wisdom through you ❤️
jazzibeautybee I’m really glad this video spoke to you! God is on time.
Kytia L'amour That He is ❤️
God had been showing me to stop giving guys "that look" and saying "Oooh he's too fine!". I never thought it hurt anyone cause I'm single anyways. But wow, your videos always give me confirmation & another perspective to look at things! God bless you
I'm so glad God used me to help you! There's nothing wrong with you. People are attractive, but we do have to train our thoughts and speech to be pleasing to God.
Amen....raising from a Haitian family household, my mother and father always told me girl and boy cannot be friend. Thank you for sharing.
This is a really good topic. I’ve watched a loooot of single videos but I’ve never heard it like this. This is great advice !
Thanks sis for the information. The hand movements at 2:17 hilarious. Surrounded by support, so valid and true. Be mindful of the company you keep!!!!
I love that you a honest and thorough in all your videos...
- all the way from texas 🤠
Learning from your channel👍good job👏lets fight for our lives,marriage,family,kids
Wow even a year later this truly is relatable and exactly what I needed today thank you !
I have a very good male friend and he is married too. We know each other’s spouses and we go out together as couples but sometimes if my husband is not free I go out with them. Before he was married, I would see him and my husband was fine with that.
I think you can be friends with people of the opposite sex but everyone has to be good with it.
Amen. This is a very good Word. Hunni you are gorgeous
Love this video! It's such great advice to us young women!
I'm so glad it's helping you! xoxo
Very well said with excellence. Never compare your sex life to others. Privately keep this information. Keep your relationship sacred and personal. Never flirt once your new relationship. Actually you should never flirt. Sometimes people take flirting as just someone being nice and that can get misconstrued. Be polite but not nice. Always set your boundaries and let people know you won't pass them. Guard your heart before and after marriage at all times and always protect your relationship.
Thank you for this video that is full of insight, knowledge, and wisdom about being prepared for marriage. I know God has led me to this video and your TH-cam channel to grow spiritually. Thank you for outstanding video content throughout your channel.
Thanks and amen.Loved this video.God bless you!
Krishna Kumar Thank you so much for watching!!
Thank you so much! This was very helpful!! God bless!
Danielle Barber I’m so glad it helped you!!
So good! I wish i could just pick the phone and call u girl!! Id love to hear more about marriage, struggles of different kinds inside marriage, ways to solve them that we all come across in marriage and need godly wisdom for.
Thank you again! Loving ur videos
This was much needed.. God bless you sis
Felicia Mayeyane God bless you too!
So glad you're back and in full effect Sis! Love you n thank you for your time and consistency!
Antonia DeShannon Thank you! The Lord told me to post seven videos for the first seven days of the year. We’ll see what happens next! ☺️
Love you too!
This is so good! Thank you sis 👏🏽
RoseAPose You are very welcome!
You both look great togather
tee Hill Awww thank you!!
Thank you so much for your valuable wisdom! I desperately needed to hear this message!
God bless you!
Ana Guy You’re so welcome!! Thank you for the encouragement. God bless you too!
Your videos have been so valuable lately thank you so much x
Olivia Douglas-Robertson I’m so glad they’re helping you, sis. 😊
This is exactly what I needed! Thank you!
Love your videos... btw what is your lipstick color love it 😍
SingPray Luv Thank you so much for watching. Here is a link to the lipstick, it’s one of my favorite shades: amzn.to/2CTMH0q
That's right sis thanks for sharing
Sarah Harrell You’re welcome!!!
Faith topics are my favourite! New subbie btw :-)
I’m new on this channel and I really thank God for let me watch this message is very helpful 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
A BIG THANK YOU, and Much Love, sister in Christ, for sharing and being such a shining light of Gods love! Praise Him from whom all blessings flow! Plentiful is His Agape' Love and His Peace always with you! In Jesus name, Amen!
I love your style.
This helped me alot .Thank You So Much. GOD Bless !❤
Azw1993 I’m so glad to hear that!!!
Kytia L'amour Yes, had to let you know! Thanks for following God's Voice and for replying back :) Blessings!
Very well said!! Agree 100% with you sister.
Thanks I needed this may God Bless you though it is really hard to wait when you have no idea who God has for you
I am so happy I found your TH-cam channel thank you god bless
Amen to the whole video!!
Great video, true blessing. Thanks. God bless you
How do you find your husband and know what you like if you don’t date around?
way2girly Great question!! I have a video titled “HOW GOD PREPARED ME FOR MARRIAGE” as well as one titled “HOW I KNEW MY HUSBAND WAS THE ONE” that can give some insight.
Hey sis,
My understanding is that marriage is a ministry.
You must be called to ministry and when you accept there is a provision.
From being called to knowing the provision, it is all about staying connected to the one who called you.
Practical ways; from now you have to learn to hear His voice. Praying, reading and studying the Word, surrounding yourself with your Godly people and perspectives etc.
Hope this helps love!
M.
Such beautiful advice. Great channel
Amen. TY God for my celibate season💜
#preparing me
Great video! Thank you so much for this advice. 😃 . . .
What is your beauty/wash day routine like?
Great Video, This blessed me
Amen, amen and amen!
Adele 💗
Wow on time thanks
Mello yello You’re welcome!!!
I love your videos! So encouraging! can we have more look book?
I love that you're doing this. People need to get their shit together BEFORE they meet "the one". But, just so you know, it is entirely possible (and even beneficial) to have close friends of the opposite sex. I have always been a tomboy and had more male friends than female friends, some going back to when we were 10, all equally innocent and pure in our friendships. I am one of the guys. As long as it's the real (friendship) deal and you're not kidding yourselves, there is no reason to stop being friends when you get engaged. In fact, if it's the real deal, your fiance(e) will see that, and feel it. My ex and my best (male) friend became good friends and eventually colleagues. And yes, of course I was also ok with him having female friends, as long as I felt that it was a real friendship (no bullshit, no drama) from both sides of the friendship. If you and your spouse have an intimate relationship of trust, you will feel free to tell him/her that you don't feel good about a particular "friend" of his/hers. In such a case of course the marriage should always come first. But only if the suspicions are real, and not if you're just being an insecure or possessive witch over no problem whatsoever. I live in Europe. I was with my ex for 7 years, and friendships with people of the opposite sex were never an issue between us. Most of the people I know over here (both married and single) also have friends of both genders, which is never even a (controversial) topic. Americans need to grow a little in that field. You are not teenagers, and you don't live in Saudi Arabia. If you have a meaningful connection with your spouse, and a relationship of trust, this should never be a problem. If you don't have a meaningful and trusting connection with your fiance, don't marry him/her in the first place.
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I love you sis. I love your videos xxxx
Saffron King I love you too! Thank you for being here. 💗
Kytia L'amour You are so sweet. God bless you ! thankyou for making these videos xxx
Good job wow I caught this
You were with him when things were good now they are roff and you want to leave
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Thank you sis ❤️
So true.
Andrew Paull Thank you for watching! 💗
I’m sorry I loved this video but when you said a marriage needs a team I don’t think it does. I feel like a marriage is between two ppl. Unless you’re a marriage counselor or MY PREACHER you won’t know any of my martial problems. It’s just ppl now dats don’t wanna see someone else married or happy. SOO yeah that’s just how I feel
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Keesha Charvez Thank you for sharing! When you surround yourself with uplifting and loving people, you find that the burden of the inevitable rough patches in marriage is more easily endured. I say that from experience. My marriage is the healthiest it’s ever been since I allowed God to bring me to the right community of supportive family, friends, and mentors.
Kytia L'amour ok
Keesha Charvez some don't have counselors or preachers so they need people
What kind of lipstick is this??
Beautiful_N Flawless I’m wearing Wet N Wild Liquid Catsuit Matte Lipstick in “Goth Topic”. It’s one of my fave shades!
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Rosa You’re welcome!!!
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Alina William Thank you!! God bless you too.
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God will send me a godly husband for me and my life and dreams and faith hands his wisdom and grace of his glory by God's gifted. Lord bless me a good man for my dreams in 2021.
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I want intentional friendships so bad but I still haven’t really found any. :/
Can I ask, what if you are close friends and you know that you both like each other? But know that it's not the right time to be in a relationship yet because you both know you're not ready to be in the courting phase leading to marriage? Do you think the close friendship is unnecessary?
I wouldn't recommend being close friends with someone of the opposite sex because of this very reason. Hanging out in a group is fine, but knowing you're not ready for marriage, don't put yourself in a tempting position to invest emotionally in them like that. If this is your future husband, God will make it clear and it will be in His timing.
But isn't it good to be close friends with the friend first before you get into a relationship? Or do you reckon you must seek God's approval first that he is your future husband before you become any type of close friend with him? Thank you sooo much for your videos and replies, its really vital for me
Does anyone else think that she looks somewhat like Rihanna? She's absolutely gorgeous in her own way but the two look kinda similar to me.
Aww thanks!
No, sex is hype and comes naturally when the two people are in love and committed to one another. After marriage you become more and more familiar with each other it may be awkward at first and that's okay. Sex just about pleasuring one another your two bodies become one. Kind of like the grand finale cuz you have to build up to it, even in your daily walk how you treat someone during the day is how they will relate to you in the bedroom. Believe It or Not God's in the bedroom. Submit your bodies to your spouse. Don't make sex a priority, make it be the flow of your daily walk with each other. It is a gift given to us by God.
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Anarnia Hunt LoL. Thank ya!
That whole waiting concept doesn't necessarily apply to men though does it?
Paul Anthony As far as waiting for your spouse? Just asking for clarification so I can answer you correctly.
Yes, I ask because the bible talks about finding a wife, which sounds like it takes more action!
Paul Anthony Yes you are correct. Men are the pursuers, but still need to be led by God in becoming the husband God needs them to be and having wisdom and confirmation when they do indeed meet their future wife. My husband made it VERY clear that he was interested in pursuing me pretty much the day we first met even though God hadn’t revealed to me that we would be anything more than friends. It actually took a full year from when we met to when we began our courtship.
You look like Lisa Bonet😊
Thank you for your transparency about your marriage. Christians are not as open about the difficulties that come in their marriage, so on the outside looking in I use to believe Christian marriages are alway Blissful
International relationships!
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Lol i dont be friends with guys cuz its cool.... alot of women are just too problematic ..... I'm a tomboy and girly girl .... men n women think differently... men mindset is more chilled n relaxed... ig theres something from both sides tht I seek tht I cant get from 1 gender.
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I'm very blessed Kytia that God made me to discover your channel . You are a glorious sister I'm looking up to. I love your videos. keep on doing the work of God . We need more sisters like you. May the Lord bless you in Jesus Name