I took pics of special dog food bags I had bought for my three dear much loved oldies of 16, 24 and 25 years of age pups Chloe, Michaelah and Amber that my dear friends Dana and Candy and her family had put into my care after Dana passed suddenly and his family put her into my care and Candy and her husband had developed some medical issues. Chloe passed that year in 2020 several months after her Dad she is now with and Candy passed a few years ago and then her two sweeties last year and the year before are now with their Mom. As their Auntie-Momma, I look.firward to Jesus Returning and Bringing Resurrection so I can be with them all again along with my other much loved ones!!! I actually had held onto those empty bags for a while!
I feel angry and SAD when I am told to get rid of all the shit that I have. You heard that right, it is all called shit. I was told they would take what they want and set the rest out by the curb. I like to look at my grandmother's items while I drink my coffee each morning. So, sad spoiled kids might have to spend time going through all that trash to get what they want. It makes the old person think they are taking too long to die. Does anyone else think this way?
No I don't feel this way because I had to go through all my Mother's things and it was hard, I do not want to make my kids go through that so I am decluttering now. You can still keep some special things, they will stay special because you had them out, you loved them and displayed them and told stories about them. I have kept about 5-6 special vases and decor that's it. I felt sad but once I donated all the stuff and drove off it wasn't mine anymore. It felt SO good.
@@katethegardener Although I agree with you in principle, I think Mary's children are extraordinarily rude and unfeeling to call her stuff 'shit' and be so dismissive of her feelings. There are kind and loving ways to make the same point. No wonder she's unhappy.
Thank you for these wise and caring methods to declutter.
its just stuff...nothing stays the same....always remember...change is the only constant !!! ITS JUST STUFF...live in the moment
I took pics of special dog food bags I had bought for my three dear much loved oldies of 16, 24 and 25 years of age pups Chloe, Michaelah and Amber that my dear friends Dana and Candy and her family had put into my care after Dana passed suddenly and his family put her into my care and Candy and her husband had developed some medical issues. Chloe passed that year in 2020 several months after her Dad she is now with and Candy passed a few years ago and then her two sweeties last year and the year before are now with their Mom. As their Auntie-Momma, I look.firward to Jesus Returning and Bringing Resurrection so I can be with them all again along with my other much loved ones!!! I actually had held onto those empty bags for a while!
That is very touching. You were a wonderful friend to them all.
I feel angry and SAD when I am told to get rid of all the shit that I have. You heard that right, it is all called shit. I was told they would take what they want and set the rest out by the curb. I like to look at my grandmother's items while I drink my coffee each morning. So, sad spoiled kids might have to spend time going through all that trash to get what they want. It makes the old person think they are taking too long to die. Does anyone else think this way?
No I don't feel this way because I had to go through all my Mother's things and it was hard, I do not want to make my kids go through that so I am decluttering now. You can still keep some special things, they will stay special because you had them out, you loved them and displayed them and told stories about them. I have kept about 5-6 special vases and decor that's it. I felt sad but once I donated all the stuff and drove off it wasn't mine anymore. It felt SO good.
@@katethegardener Although I agree with you in principle, I think Mary's children are extraordinarily rude and unfeeling to call her stuff 'shit' and be so dismissive of her feelings. There are kind and loving ways to make the same point. No wonder she's unhappy.