Chico Bean Interview| Its Up There Podcast- Part 4 EXPOSES Married Couple & GOES OFF on Men Vs Women
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- Chico Bean Of @WildNOut Comes back after going to #thebreakfastclub and speaks to #bigloon in an revealing episode of Its Up There Podcast, Chico Bean returns to share candid insights on relationships, love, and vulnerability. Join Chico as he delves into the intricacies of understanding women's minds, the importance of setting clear expectations, and the challenges of honesty and open communication in relationships. From exploring the dynamics of love and pain to discussing the impact of past trauma on dating, Chico offers invaluable wisdom on building safe and authentic connections. With discussions on accountability, collaboration, and the influence of comedy legends like Dave Chappelle, this episode is a must-watch for anyone navigating the complexities of modern relationships."
Key Discussion Highlights:
Importance of understanding women's minds and setting clear expectations in relationships.
Challenges of honesty and open communication, and the outcomes of embracing vulnerability.
Insights on building safe relationships and embracing authenticity.
Impact of past trauma on dating interactions and relationship expectations.
Accountability and consequences in relationships, and supporting fellow artists in the comedy industry.
Share your thoughts on Chico Bean's relationship insights! How do you navigate the complexities of modern dating and relationships? Join the discussion in the comments below!
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00:12: 💡 Importance of understanding a woman's mind in relationships and setting clear expectations in a course-like manner.
04:48: 💔 Struggling with honesty in relationships, feeling unfamiliar with open communication and its outcomes.
09:33: 💡 Understanding the dynamics of love and pain in relationships and the importance of individual perspectives.
14:31: 🎓 Chico Bean explains his approach to teaching a life lesson as a professor in a metaphorical class.
19:12: 💡 Insight on building safe relationships with women and being true to oneself as a man.
23:30: 💔 Insights on relationships and femininity, revealing the impact of not fully embracing one's true self.
28:47: 💡 Understanding fear of vulnerability and the decision to stop lying in relationships.
33:25: ⚠️ Complex relationships and past trauma affecting interactions and expectations in dating.
38:02: ⚠️ Importance of holding each other accountable and being aware of potential consequences in relationships.
42:53: 🤔 Discussion about a man whose ex-wife allowed multiple people to drive his car, resulting in it being stolen three times.
49:02: 🎤 Discussion on the impact of Dave Chappelle's comedy on a generation and the influence of his writing style.
54:32: 🤝 Importance of supporting fellow artists and creating opportunities for collaboration.
59:31: ⚡ Embrace opportunities, stay prepared, and support each other in the comedy industry.
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We are on the road to 100k so make sure to subscribe! i truly am humbled by this experience! BIGGEST IN THE GAME! Thanks so much for watching this episode, do you agree with Chico bean that P**** is not valuable to men?
😂😂😂😂😂CHICO. OG
I got chu
The reason people are getting divorced so much in America is because God isn't the center of the relationship it's all about self service now people only want to be happy and if they aren't happy then your getting kicked to the curb
Chico really spitting facts. Men like Chico needs to be seen by so many kids across America because seeing a black man contextualize his perspective in a way different from hyper masculinity
I have a channel with a perspective of being married and navigating through this life while trying to be a gentleman
It take a very strong man mentally to express yourself to a woman like that whether it’s your girlfriend or wife. Men love hard and that’s difficult to do if you love that person. Much respect!!
He ain’t lying about Lavelle Crawford. He have me in tears every time I watch his standup.
I agree with him I got married at the courthouse in private and if things go wrong that’ll be done in private I learned as a kid not to put ppl in my business but when I got married my coworker told me not to get ppl involved if abuse isn’t involved.
The way he breaks down everything to it's simplest and then gives his point 💯.
Holding space in multi people’s lives is unclean and confusing. Best of luck to you men.
If the people are confused and unclean...
A double minded person is unstable in their ways.
Ain't nothing wrong with having your own
It’s not the most righteous men ever created took care of their wives they have to be wives not someone u smashing women just have devolved so men will naturally gravitate toward women who understand this and mostly it’s women of other cultures
@@jaquaycollins4287 in ALL ways🥂
This was one of the realest conversations that I’ve heard in a while. Great interview.
I’ve only met 2 men in my life that have this level of integrity about themselves. They are rare but they exist. ❤❤❤
Respect to Chico always dropping Corey Holcomb name
You can't do nothing but respect. Chico being real with you. I'd rather have a men keep it real. Then play games and lead me on. We are all grown it's time out for all the bs. Just keep it real with whoever you are dealing with. They either with it or they're not, It's just that simple.
Yes I agree with you, I once dated an older man by 8 yrs and he moved like this my friends couldn’t understand why I stayed dating him but it was something I needed in my life at the time coming from out of an mental abusive relationship with an very insecure man child then I realized that I operate pretty much the same as to why I’ve never found marriage was for me even after two engagements lol
🥂 exactly. Honest communication is key.
🥂 exactly. Honest communication is key.
@@christieann1259MA 8 years older Dude yeah you was caught up you didn't have to explain to the when something is understood it doesn't have to be explained that the case and point. You was getting slow turned out the older Dude knew what he was doing and 8 years later if you're still there with him well you know the rest and you agree with Chico is Saying you are no exception to the rule Game recognize Game 😉 that's all lm Saying 😅 play on.
Chico always give you a glimpse of his perspective on the breakfast club but never this in depth
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PREACH CHICO BEAN... PREACH I ALWAYS LOVED YOUR MIND SET FROM WILD N OUT.. PREACH.... GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS THIS MAN...
Man this is the one of the realest conversations I have ever heard
That’s what a lot of men fail to realize. If you take away everything in life you think holds value. Who will you be really. What type of man are you really when you’re stripped of everything.
Thank you 100. I need this one
This is a great conservation, I enjoyed hearing this perspective.
I been waiting on conversations like this right here to real!
This was so helpful.
I absolutely love Chico’s mindset about relationships. It makes so much sense!!!!!! This is the honesty people ask for even though they rather be lied to
Loon I appreciate you and your platform. Lotta people didn’t or haven’t had a chance to get some real game. There are so many gems in these interviews. Don’t stop bruh
Too real. This conversation has valuable meaning.💪🏿
Thanks Bro!
This is so raw! Thanks Chico
Thanks bro for dropping this the stuff that you discussed in this channel gave me the confidence to talk about my story and my upbringing and my desire for marriage but this perspective definitely needs to be said to young black men because a lot of us were taught wrong and come from relationships with one parents
man Chico, you don’t know how bad i needed this today. called me out on the spot JUST got everything you touched on happening to me and i never had no one to teach me and i learned from my mistake and understood then but now more than ever. I needed this.
Let gooooooo love this respect
I respect it. However, as a woman knowing what I want in life, any man not committing IS NOT ON THE TABLE AT THIS AGE. I UNDERSTAND I CANT OWN A PERSON HOWEVER FOR LOGICAL PURPOSES A MARRIAGE IS IN ORDER… true growth is in order. This is just another conversation about how men don’t want to commit
Respect it then and get out ya feelings
Let that man live in his truth, and you live in yours!!
The Value of a woman today has PLUMMETED greatly.....When your value decreases as a woman there's no incentive for a man to commit
It's like TK Kirkland Aaaalways Say,,, "Who Raised You??" "You Need To Manage Your "P" -&- "D" BETTER than what you doing,,, "Period."
Plus,,, You never was schooled trained or taught by anyone in a successful relationship marriage etc...
Looking for Love in All the wrong places.
With the wisdom knowledge and understanding of God Almighty the Real one,,, then you can truly find happiness or your soulmate.....BUT,,, the most important bit of knowledge wisdom and understanding you need to know and have above everything,,, you have to and must first establish and solidify a solid📜💯 relationship with God ALMIGHTY,,, and once you do THAT,,, errything is not fall in place,,, IT IS going come TOGETHER,,, to death do you part.
You gotta Repent come to the real to really represent the real in a real way the realist,,, realistically...
And respectfully,,, God never gave you that information bro.
There's an instruction manual divinely inspired by God Almighty himself...
It's called the Authorized 1611 King James Version Of The Holy Bible With The Apocrypha,,, all 80books.....
So where in the Bible,,, do you read THAT?!?!?! Dialogue is necessary though bro... So I appreciate that...
You just need some real women on the panel Too mane 📜💯
Ever learning but never able to come to the knowledge of the truth...
#chico I love that you live in your true authenticity 💯♥️🔥
Real spill🔥🔥🔥
I like the way you broke it down in sections/parts. Some ppl learn in increments.
This interview should have a billion views smh salute 🫡 to Chico for really tapping into his spirituality very young and being able to articulate it very great 👍🏿 I’m the same way I question everything and dig deep into the root
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I love this kind of talk because i been know since i was younger that most relationships are a joke
Real Talk💯💯💯💯
Man this hit deep...
Chico with the food for thought
Real player interview 🫡🥃🥃
🗣I like this one. Game flowing like water going down stream. 💯
Let’s be honest most men is scared to be alone and deal with themselves in the mirror! A lot men don’t sit with themselves a lot! We to caught up with chasing the bag and not really dealing with our mental and emotions, and making sense of decision! Being a mover and shaker in our own life!
I'm not him. I love being to myself. Always have self reflected because I knew a woman couldn't make me happy. She could be with me enjoying my happiness
I'm going thru it now. I admit I didn't let it be known from the jump what I'm not dealing with and now it all came out and she's hurt that I'm moving on. I'm hurt that she's so hurt but my mental and peace of mind matter. I wanna succeed in life but she wouldn't let me out the house without trippin. This video is a sign that I'm doin the right thing. We have a child but I'll be better for her without being with her mother.
This is real game
It's still valuable though. It's literally the portal that gives us more ppl 🤣🤣🤣
Chico a real 1
Chico peeped the flaws in Jess hilarious and she still ain’t recovered … even with another dude baby on the way… Drizzle Drizzle G😂😂
Realist shit spoken
Chico up there on CHUUUCH
Deon Cole is a beast also as one of the top comedians.
This is awesome and it's true 10 years of marriage we had no ceremony we eloped
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Straight up. My wife & I are the same.
It's not abt everybody else It's abt yall bc when the times get tough and the relationship gets in a funk. Those ppl outside yall circle are not gonna help. They're going to try advise you like they been in the bed with you.
DAMN! He said if I can't get you to sell it then we won't have nothing! Whewwwwwww! Yikes!
I love IT da syllabus
What's funny is I went to high school with mister Higgins we use to call em "can't get right "
Iron sharpens iron a man sharpens Another
Give it to em raw uncut
Wassup my boi
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i was born with this mind set
Bro , him Talk and Finish his Thoughts
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Seems like Chico’s outlook on relationships is the same as my godbrother. It stems from unaddressed trauma.
With his mom.
That’s your take
Shaming language.
@@sueme8170 say something that makes sense. My take is not just opinion, it’s also professional.
Somethings going on for sure. Because most of this interview is just him justifying him being a womanizer.(a caring loving womanizer, but a womanizer nonetheless)
Good Shit Loon 🫡
Arnez J is in my top. Especially from back in the day!
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Chico in that clean philly hat 😤🫡
Hell yeah nw this is real game
Chico got that mouth piece uzi style!
Well..... Breezy told us a decade ago. "Thes heaux ain't loyal." 😁
25:26 gave my ex husband the same options lol
THISSSSSSSSS ‼️ 💯💯💯💯💯💯💎💎💎♟️♟️✅️🙏🏾
Chico was cooking
I knew a Lion he became Faith 💪🏾BLESSINGS THIS IS MY FIRST VIDEO
38:42 that's the thing, men don't tell men nothing
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I thought that was EZ THE BLOCK CAPTAIN
All of these clichés and rhymes.
There's a lot of men who really want a real monogamous relationship. Both men and women need to be honest, look in the mirror. Treat people how you want to be treated.
Daphnique Springs
Chico 101
He tried like hell not to mention Katt cause quake is his mans. Cause ain't no way you can mention those greats and not put katt on the list. 😂
women will never question the ideologies of marriage etc because it benefits them…marriage benefits the woman way more than the man.
#NorthPhillyPeacePark loves
Karlous miller young funny comidian
It’s a sad day when right is wrong and wrong is now seen as right. I’ll pass.
Not even on no yes man type ish... but bruh came up here shootin game like a drake.
Thanks for checking it out more great conversations to come
Chico being himself
The host talk too much…. Then he just ad libbin 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@itsuptherepodcast Peace king. I have to ask. The green hand sign you have on the screen what does it mean? Cause if you know hand 🤘.. This is the sign of being a Satan Worshipper.
So he doesn’t want any accountability because we can’t run from perception so I get it but what’s the end game here?
I like him he says a lot of intelligent things however my only input would is that he has no clue what marriage is about, and most of us haven't seen a successful marriage and don't understand it. His remarks of marriage seem like it's coming from a place of fear. It's already been documented that marriages nowadays are lasting longer than ever, and divorce rates are down lower than ever. The problem with him stating improper facts is his statements are gonna influence us, especially the ones who don't have a good idea of marriage, to not get married. We have to change the narrative in our community.
No they aren't lasting longer than ever. Whoever documented that was clearly lying. Relationships are in trouble
Men will become lovers of themselves
That’s what you got from this 🤣😆😭
Loving yourself is the best thing you can do
It’s already that way we haven’t gotten what we need from women in the last 50 years so loving ourselves is whet we been doing women of today are only good for sex betrayal and taking your money
That’s bible 💎💯💯💯
"On this day, 7 woman will share 1 man"....According to the book of Isiah in the Bible.......Top tier men will have all of the women as they should...... So if you DID NOT BUILD with a man in your early 20's (college sweetheart for example) then yes you will be sharing one man if you are still single today.....Deal with it.....Men are waking up!!!
This interview is nothing but rhetoric, literally no new ideas were shared and no solutions given. I hope y’all got paid though bc that’s the only goal here obviously.
They basically search out women who will allow them to have sex multiple women outside of their (relationship) .....and that type of female can be easily manipulated through aggressive conversation...very crafty thought process
@jarvisragins9212
Women want the top tier men.... Top 10% man correct?......Well guess what he has the option to deal with multiple women.....Go and date an average man then...Problem solved!!.........Monogamy was NEVER a standard practice for men....It's a new concept.........In fact men are wired to have multiple women/spread their seed biologically.....The greatest kings in the Bible had multiple women
He definitely could of left out Corey .
IF ITS ISNT, STOP SCREWIN. STOP MAKING WOMEN UNWEDDED MOTHERS. JUST BE CELIBATE ORRRR HOW ABOUT ONLY BE INTIMATE WITH SAME SEX.🤷🏽♀️ IF MORE ME. DID THIS FOOLISH CONVERSATION COULD STOP.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
He sound like he had no love or care and real bitter
He's being honest. You don't like honesty? Most men won't say this they'll just play the game. Women can't handle the truth even if it frees them.
Exactly, damaged goods. He carry that energy in his DNA from his mom.
He's honest and you're not listening
To each it’s own
Sounds smart to me ain’t no loyalty these day Jess hilarious tried to holla at Chino and she was still in a relationship!!!! Then got mad when he turned her down !!!!smh
Chico wasn’t given an opportunity to finish his thoughts on multiple occasions without the interviewer interjecting about how he specifically operates in situations. It’s like the interviewer took the interview personally and felt he had to defend himself with every poignant point the guest tried to make. Unfortunate, but this is how many conversations go, so naturally it happens in interviews too. Prime example of listening to retort and not to understand. Nod and agree, but please let the guest impart the jewels that they were invited to give. 🙏🏽
you have no idea what you are speaking about and this is why most times i dont like people who comment. chico bean has been on so many platforms saying this conversation with loon was the best conversation he ever had so who are you again?
“This is why most times I don’t like people who comment” tells me everything I need to know, brother. My comment wasn’t an attack against you, but your sensitivity is definitely showing. If I tell you who I am, or if I become someone you know, does the message I give change? And, are you someone I should know? Because I don’t. This was just a video on my feed, with a guest I’m familiar with, who was making valid points that were overshadowed sometimes by the interjections of the interviewer. But you don’t like me now nor do you know who I am so I guess I’ll just go cry into oblivion and let you be sensitive and lack ability to take constructive feedback in peace. ✌🏽
@@rstm1010 I’m not reading that and I don’t care if u watch! Do me a favor and beat it
“Not” and “can’t” are different. Can you drop the link of where Chico said this was the best conversation he ever had? I’d be inclined to see that. No need to continue to get emotional. (And your response is a clear giveaway that you read it, but highly possible you didn’t discern it.😌)
Women be on bs in their own minds in some/MOST situations.
😁 I like what Chico is talking about but the vast majority of women is not ready for millions of men to come at them with this level of honesty.. and you are absolutely right many times women hear what they want to hear instead of what was actually said....lol
😤🙅🏽♀️What do you mean you want to be with me but still be able to see other women when you feel like it ???
If that's true then women are super unloyal. If a female will dip cause another man's commercial was interesting or new. Then she is not worth dealing with. What y'all think
This is sick.. Repent give your life to YAHSHUA (JESUS)
question to the host 10:30
how can you tell someone what love is to you?
why does your love have limits, levels, or stipulations?
what if those arent met then your saying they dont love you?
how do you speak for the other person if they have the same mentality?
is love something you do?
women ask me are you married or in a relationship. I ask is that what you want to know or some else like if im having sex with someone. they say the latter. my response is always i got someone i fuck around with from time to time. im in a conscious non relationship. most leave but some stay and they say o i can change you. the some say they cool with it until they hit me with the so what we doing?
chico saying just be human. I was asked what would I do to get my ex wife back. I stated nothing i dont jump through hoops for women or pussy. I have done hella self work if she can not see my internal change than she is good where she is. my father told me son you are a human being not a human doing. just be true to you and stay off the sucka shit meaing if it dont sit well in your energy then its sucka shit
If she gone leave it gone. U knew what u had when u married her. U a man right??? Caught in feelings over what you knew for sure. Happens to the best of