എനിക്ക് കുഞ്ഞായിരുന്നപ്പോൾ ഉണ്ടായ ചെറിയ വിഷമങ്ങൾ പോലും ഇപ്പോഴും മനസ്സിൽ ആഴത്തിൽ മുറിവായി കിടപ്പുണ്ട്. കുട്ടിക്കാലത്തുണ്ടാകുന്ന കുഞ്ഞ് വിഷമങ്ങൾ പോലും ആ കുഞ്ഞുങ്ങളുടെ ഭാവിയെ ബാധിക്കാം... എന്റെ അമ്മ എന്നേക്കാൾ എന്റെ അനിയത്തിയെ സ്നേഹിക്കുന്നു, അവളെ ഓമനിക്കുന്നു, ഞാൻ പറയുന്നത് കേൾക്കാനോ എന്നെ സ്നേഹിക്കാനോ ആരുമില്ല എന്ന തോന്നൽ എനിക്കുണ്ടായിരുന്നു.. 😞😞😞... ഞാൻ ഗർഭിണി ആയപ്പോൾ തന്നെ വയറ്റിലുള്ള കുഞ്ഞിനോട് സംസാരിക്കുമായിരുന്നു. ഇപ്പോൾ മോൾക്ക് 5 വയസ്സായി, അവളുടെ കളിക്കൂട്ടുകാരിയെപോലെ അവളോട് സംസാരിക്കും, തെറ്റ് ചെയ്യുമ്പോൾ അവൾ ചെയ്ത തെറ്റ് എന്താണെന്നു പറഞ്ഞു മനസ്സിലാക്കാൻ ശ്രെമിക്കും. വഴക്ക് പറഞ്ഞാൽ അവൾക്ക് വിഷമം ആകുമ്പോൾ കെട്ടിപിടിച്ചു നീ കുസൃതി കാണിച്ചിട്ടല്ലേ എന്ന്നും പറഞ്ഞു ഉമ്മ കൊടുക്കും... മാഡം പറഞ്ഞതുപോലെ ഈ 6 കാര്യങ്ങൾ മാതാപിതാക്കൾ തിരുത്തിയാൽ ആ കുഞ്ഞിന്റെ കുട്ടിക്കാലം സന്തോഷമുള്ളതായിരിക്കും 👍👍👍.. എന്റെ കുഞ്ഞിനെ 4 വയസ്സ് വരെ ഞാൻ സമാധാനപ്പെടുത്തിയെങ്കിൽ ഇപ്പോൾ അമ്മ വിഷമിക്കണ്ട, സാരമില്ല എനിക്ക് വേണ്ട, പിന്നെ വാങ്ങി തന്നാൽ മതി, ഞാൻ വരുന്നില്ല, അമ്മ പോയിട്ട് പെട്ടെന്ന് വന്നാൽ മതി എന്നൊക്കെ അവൾ എന്നെ സമാധാനപ്പെടുത്താറായി.. 🙏🙏🙏 ആദ്യമായിട്ടാണ് ചാനൽ കണ്ടത് 🙏🙏🙏 thanks.
Same here, ente DOB Feb 95 my brother's Aug 96 , athaayath enikk 1.5 years ullappo ente aniyan undaaii , njaan korch kurmban aairnnu athoond nalla tallairnnu cherya kaaryangalkk poolum , pinne enthkondoo studiesilum parentsinte over pressure undaairnnu , iphazhum njaan ithinte okke baakkiyum anubhavikkunnu
Sharing കുഞ്ഞിലെ പഠിപ്പിക്കുന്നതല്ലെ നല്ലത്,വീട്ടിലെ മൂത്ത മോൻ 14 yrs ആയി ട്ടും ഒന്നും ആർക്കും കൊടുക്കില്ല. അത് കൊണ്ട് ഇളയ കുട്ടിയെ കുഞ്ഞിലെ sharing പഠിപ്പിച്ചു. So അവൻ ഇപ്പൊൾ ആരും പറയാതെ തന്നെ എല്ലാവര്ക്കും share ചെയ്യും....
Share cheyan force cheyaruthennanu njan convey cheyan uddeshichathu. Oru kutti share cheyunnundenkil athu avan santhoshathodeyano atho parents ine please cheyan aano ennullathu- that matters. Thank you so much for watching and commenting🙂
First time ആണ് video കാണുന്നത്. Very useful and informative. Oru parent ആയ എനിക്ക് doubt ulla കുറെ topics cover ചെയതു. ഇനിയും കൂടുതൽ parenting tips expect ചെയ്യുന്നു. എത്രയൊക്കെ educated ആണെന്ന് പറഞ്ഞാലും പലർക്കും ഇതൊന്നും അറിയില്ല എന്നതാണ് സത്യം. Alengil ഇങ്ങനെ ഒന്നും ചിന്തിച്ചു കാണില്ല
Education can do nothing with parenting... parenting is all about our experiences...so only we always try to improve in bringing up our second child than our first one
Niya is so lucky to have Supporting,Caring,Encouraging Mom and Gradma.Happy new year Teacher,Expecting lot of inspiring contents throughout 2022.All the best
Great mother and your daughter is an example. ❤ 😍 Blessings shower upon you all. I'm a grandmother of 2 and half year old and I have learned a lot. Thank you ❤ 😘
Every parent and every child is different, what work for one may not work for other. Better don't blame yourself and enjoy your motherhood based on your gut feeling not validating from social media
Simple and powerful vedio, pala avasarathilum nammal cheyyaruth ennu karuthiyalum veetile matullavar angane aakum perumaruka. So gradually namukku control cheyyan pattathe varumnu. Anyway, thanks for the episode HAPPY NEW YEAR 🎊🎊🎊
Very useful topic, and well narrated, its very useful for me especially as a parent and a professional as I am workings with young kids with developmental and emotional problems
GREAT VIDEO! THANKS FOR THE PROPER & VALUABLE GUIDELINES SHARED BY AASHA. CONGRATULATIONS! MARRY MADAM, MAY THIS YEAR BRING YOU PEACE, PROSPERITY & HAPPINESS. PLEASE CONVEY OUR LOVELY REGARDS TO NIYA MOLE❤️
Hai Aasha.... Iam an expecting mom who is eager about parenting and knowing things to be a good mom..Ur presentation is simply awesome... Can u suggest some good books related to parenting were u found or studied these things .. requesting u to continue videos of parenting, we are really waiting for it....
സൂപ്പർ ഐഡിയകൾ പുതുവത്സരത്തിന് അനുയോജ്യമായ തീരുമാനങ്ങൾ .. എല്ലാവരും പുതിയതലമുറയെ ബഹുമാനിക്കട്ടെ.... 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍 എല്ലാവർക്കും പുതുവത്സരാശംസകൾ... മാമിനും കുടുംബത്തിനും... 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Got a lots of information from your parenting vedios. We are thinking about a baby now and that's why iam trying to study about gentle parenting. Expecting more vedios from this topic...❤️
How to control over curiosity about friends. For example my daughter forcing me to doing her friends perents responsibility. I think it is unnessary. I am irritated .
എന്റെ മോനും കുളിക്കാൻ madiyayirunnu.. അവനോട് ഞൻ പറഞു കുളിക്കാൻ വന്നാൽ അമ്മ സോപ്പ് കൊണ്ട് bubbles undakkitharam എന്ന്... അതൊക്കെ ഇഷ്ട്ടായീ.. കുളിക്കുമ്പോ പാട്ടു പാടുന്നതും കഥ parayunnathum മോനു വളരെ ഇഷ്ടം ആണ് ... ഇപ്പൊ.കുളി ക്കാൻ ഒരുപാട് ഇഷ്ട്ടമാണ് അവന്
Hi Sareena! Thank you for watching and commenting. It is quite normal for kids of this age to be aggressive. There are a few things you could try: 1. Avare gently and kindly aa situationil ninnu maatua. Ennitu avarude feelings validate cheyua,i.e. say things like " Deshyam varunundalle. eniku ariyam ee karanam kondu deshyam undavumennu. Njan koode irunnu samadhanipikam. But kaiyil ullathu eriyan padilla. It's dangerous and I have to protect you." Give a hug if kid allows you to. Otherwise just be with him and ensure his safety as well as others'. Later avar calm down ayirikunna samayathu deshyam express cheyan vere options paranju kodukua. E.g. Deshyam varunundennu verbally parayan padipikua, Idikan thonnundenkil soft surfaces il idikan parayam, like on the bed, deshyam varumbo Sareenayodu paranjal mathi apo samadhanipikam ennu parayua. Do these things consistently. Areyenkilum upadravikumbozhum ithu thanne cheyam. Overreact cheyathirikan shramikuka. nammude response calm ayirikan nokam. Even if you feel he doesn't completely understand what you're saying, he will sense it from the tone of your voice. 2. Aggression kanikunna samayathu blaming or shaming cheyathirikua. Or advices kodukathirikua. Aa samayathu ithonnum beneficial alla. When he is calm and happy, tell him lovingly that throwing things is not allowed because it is dangerous. Same with hurting others. Also tell him safe ways to express anger. Keeping doing this on a regular basis. 3. Kunjine ithinte peril adikano vazhakku parayano onnum cheyathirikan shramikua. That contradicts our message. Try to be as calm as you can. I know it's hard. 4. Try to engage him in physical activities as much as you can. Let him run and play outdoors. angane energy release cheyan nokua. 5. Find out the root cause behind agression. Chilapo kunjinu kooduthal attention kitan ayirikam. Angane anenkil spend more alone time with him- without phone or anything. Positive ayitulla karyangal kunju cheyumbo athinu attention kodukua, e.g. when he requests something in a kind tone, appreciate him for that saying the specific reason why you appreciate it. 6. Adhikam no parayathirikua. You can also watch my video on positive discipline for some other tips. Most important, don't worry. These are normal phases of development. And it does not make you a bad parent! 🙂
Hi Mam .. nalla oru talk ayirunu... ente mol (2 yr)deshyam vanhal kaiyil enthano ullath ath valicheriyunu.. etra paranjitum kelkunilla.. samadhanathode paranju noki , snehathode paranju, vazhaku paranju thalli but veendum athe pole thanne valicheriyunu... Mam ethinh enthanh solution??? Pls reply me mam
Hi Ragi! Thank you for the comment. It is quite normal for kids of this age to be aggressive. There are a few things you could try: 1. Avare gently and kindly aa situationil ninnu maatua. Ennitu avarude feelings validate cheyua,i.e. say things like " Deshyam varunundalle. eniku ariyam ee karanam kondu deshyam undavumennu. Njan koode irunnu samadhanipikam. But kaiyil ullathu eriyan padilla. It's dangerous and I have to protect you." Give a hug if kid allows you to. Otherwise just be with her and ensure her safety as well as others'. Physical aggression padillennu parayunnathinte koode deshyam express cheyan vere options paranju kodukua. E.g. Deshyam varunundennu verbally parayan padipikua, Idikan thonnundenkil soft surfaces il idikan parayam, like on the bed, deshyam varumbo Ragiyodu paranjal mathi apo samadhanipikam ennu parayua. Do these things consistently. 2. Aggression kanikunna samayathu blaming or shaming cheyathirikua. Or advices kodukathirikua. Aa samayathu ithonnum beneficial alla. When she is calm and happy, tell her lovingly that throwing things is not allowed because it is dangerous. Also tell her safe ways to express anger. Keeping doing this on a regular basis. 3. Kunjine ithinte peril adikano vazhakku parayano onnum cheyathirikan shramikua. That contradicts our message. Try to be as calm as you can. I know it's hard. 4. Try to engage her in physical activities as much as you can. Let her run and play outdoors. angane energy release cheyan nokua. 5. Find out the root cause behind agression. Chilapo kunjinu kooduthal attention kitan ayirikam. Angane anenkil spend more alone time with her- without phone or anything. Positive ayitulla karyangal kunju cheyumbo athinu attention kodukua, e.g. when she requests something in a kind tone, appreciate her for that saying the specific reason why you appreciate it. 6. Adhikam no parayathirikua. You can also watch my video on positive discipline for some other tips. Most important, don't worry. These are normal phases of development. 🙂
@@ashamathew8981Thank you for your reply mam... I didn't expect these kind of brief explanation... Thanks aloottt....mam paranjathu pole Cheyan njan sramikkam.
Love love love your content. It’s extremely useful❤️especially since I have a 2 and a half year old all your examples are totally relatable. Watching one of your video is like getting information from 20 different videos. It’s very short , sweet and to the point with crucial information 🔥
എനിക്ക് കുഞ്ഞായിരുന്നപ്പോൾ ഉണ്ടായ ചെറിയ വിഷമങ്ങൾ പോലും ഇപ്പോഴും മനസ്സിൽ ആഴത്തിൽ മുറിവായി കിടപ്പുണ്ട്. കുട്ടിക്കാലത്തുണ്ടാകുന്ന കുഞ്ഞ് വിഷമങ്ങൾ പോലും ആ കുഞ്ഞുങ്ങളുടെ ഭാവിയെ ബാധിക്കാം... എന്റെ അമ്മ എന്നേക്കാൾ എന്റെ അനിയത്തിയെ സ്നേഹിക്കുന്നു, അവളെ ഓമനിക്കുന്നു, ഞാൻ പറയുന്നത് കേൾക്കാനോ എന്നെ സ്നേഹിക്കാനോ ആരുമില്ല എന്ന തോന്നൽ എനിക്കുണ്ടായിരുന്നു.. 😞😞😞... ഞാൻ ഗർഭിണി ആയപ്പോൾ തന്നെ വയറ്റിലുള്ള കുഞ്ഞിനോട് സംസാരിക്കുമായിരുന്നു. ഇപ്പോൾ മോൾക്ക് 5 വയസ്സായി, അവളുടെ കളിക്കൂട്ടുകാരിയെപോലെ അവളോട് സംസാരിക്കും, തെറ്റ് ചെയ്യുമ്പോൾ അവൾ ചെയ്ത തെറ്റ് എന്താണെന്നു പറഞ്ഞു മനസ്സിലാക്കാൻ ശ്രെമിക്കും. വഴക്ക് പറഞ്ഞാൽ അവൾക്ക് വിഷമം ആകുമ്പോൾ കെട്ടിപിടിച്ചു നീ കുസൃതി കാണിച്ചിട്ടല്ലേ എന്ന്നും പറഞ്ഞു ഉമ്മ കൊടുക്കും... മാഡം പറഞ്ഞതുപോലെ ഈ 6 കാര്യങ്ങൾ മാതാപിതാക്കൾ തിരുത്തിയാൽ ആ കുഞ്ഞിന്റെ കുട്ടിക്കാലം സന്തോഷമുള്ളതായിരിക്കും 👍👍👍.. എന്റെ കുഞ്ഞിനെ 4 വയസ്സ് വരെ ഞാൻ സമാധാനപ്പെടുത്തിയെങ്കിൽ ഇപ്പോൾ അമ്മ വിഷമിക്കണ്ട, സാരമില്ല എനിക്ക് വേണ്ട, പിന്നെ വാങ്ങി തന്നാൽ മതി, ഞാൻ വരുന്നില്ല, അമ്മ പോയിട്ട് പെട്ടെന്ന് വന്നാൽ മതി എന്നൊക്കെ അവൾ എന്നെ സമാധാനപ്പെടുത്താറായി.. 🙏🙏🙏 ആദ്യമായിട്ടാണ് ചാനൽ കണ്ടത് 🙏🙏🙏 thanks.
Thank you for the lovely comment. Lots of love❤
Great 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Same here, ente DOB Feb 95 my brother's Aug 96 , athaayath enikk 1.5 years ullappo ente aniyan undaaii , njaan korch kurmban aairnnu athoond nalla tallairnnu cherya kaaryangalkk poolum , pinne enthkondoo studiesilum parentsinte over pressure undaairnnu , iphazhum njaan ithinte okke baakkiyum anubhavikkunnu
കുഞ്ഞിനെ കുഞ്ഞായി കാണാതെ ഒരു വ്യക്തിയായി കാണുക. ഇതാണ് ഇന്ന് മനസ്സിലായത്. നല്ല അറിവ് ✍️
Thank you so much Swathy😊
I missed in the last two videos
വീഡിയോ മുടങ്ങാതെ കാണാറുണ്ട് .. എന്നാൽ ചില തിരക്കുകൾ കാരണം ഏറെ വൈകിയാണ് കണ്ടതെന്ന് മാത്രം. അതിനാലാണ് കമെന്റ് ബോക്സിൽ കാണാത്തത്.
Eiioi
Very useful
ഇന്നാണ് കണ്ടത്.ശരിക്കും പുതുവത്സര സമ്മാനം. God bless u all.
Thank you so much. Happy new year🙂
I wish I can go back 13 yrs so that I can correct most of the mistakes I did. But now what I can do is sincerely say sorry to my daughter which I did.
This is so touching; you're a great mom. Thank you for watching and commenting🙂
Everyone feels the same
Sharing കുഞ്ഞിലെ പഠിപ്പിക്കുന്നതല്ലെ നല്ലത്,വീട്ടിലെ മൂത്ത മോൻ 14 yrs ആയി ട്ടും ഒന്നും ആർക്കും കൊടുക്കില്ല. അത് കൊണ്ട് ഇളയ കുട്ടിയെ കുഞ്ഞിലെ sharing പഠിപ്പിച്ചു. So അവൻ ഇപ്പൊൾ ആരും പറയാതെ തന്നെ എല്ലാവര്ക്കും share ചെയ്യും....
Share cheyan force cheyaruthennanu njan convey cheyan uddeshichathu. Oru kutti share cheyunnundenkil athu avan santhoshathodeyano atho parents ine please cheyan aano ennullathu- that matters. Thank you so much for watching and commenting🙂
Thank u for this video... എനിക്ക് ഒരു മോൻ ഉണ്ട്.. എനിക്കും husband നും അമ്മ ഇല്ല. ഇതൊക്കെ കേട്ടപ്പോൾ ഒരുപാട് ആശ്വാസവും ഐഡിയ ഉം കിട്ടി...🌹
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@@ashamathew8981 ❤ ചേച്ചി ഇനിയും പുതിയ contents ആയി വരണം ✨️
@@ancyjbenadict456 Thank you so much for the motivation🙂
First time ആണ് video കാണുന്നത്. Very useful and informative. Oru parent ആയ എനിക്ക് doubt ulla കുറെ topics cover ചെയതു. ഇനിയും കൂടുതൽ parenting tips expect ചെയ്യുന്നു. എത്രയൊക്കെ educated ആണെന്ന് പറഞ്ഞാലും പലർക്കും ഇതൊന്നും അറിയില്ല എന്നതാണ് സത്യം. Alengil ഇങ്ങനെ ഒന്നും ചിന്തിച്ചു കാണില്ല
Thank you so much. Your words are so motivating.
Education can do nothing with parenting... parenting is all about our experiences...so only we always try to improve in bringing up our second child than our first one
Niya is so lucky to have Supporting,Caring,Encouraging Mom and Gradma.Happy new year Teacher,Expecting lot of inspiring contents throughout 2022.All the best
Same wishes to you Arun
Thank you so much. Happy new year!
Great mother and your daughter is an example. ❤ 😍 Blessings shower upon you all. I'm a grandmother of 2 and half year old and I have learned a lot. Thank you ❤ 😘
That's really sweet of you. Thank you aunty!
Aaaa
Every parent and every child is different, what work for one may not work for other. Better don't blame yourself and enjoy your motherhood based on your gut feeling not validating from social media
Thank you for watching and commenting🙂
Wooww... !!! eppolum cheyunna mistakes aannu... thankyou so much for the insight Asha 💓💖
Thank you so much Tina❤
Thank you very much for the extremely helpful and much needed information.
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Dear Asha,. how nicely you explained your experience with your child. Great video dear.
Thank you so much🙂🙂
Very informative content and video. It reminds me of the mistakes which I have been doing to my kids. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you Asha. ❤❤❤It was a very informative video. Will try to practice it. Thank you Matilda Teacher 🙏🙏❤❤
Hai Padmam thank you very much. Wish you all a very happy new year.
Thank you for being so supportive always🙂
Can’t thank you enough for this wonderful content! 👍👍
Thank you for such motivating words🙂
Asha s mother Dr mettilda, asked you, come with me I will teach a most blessed person,. thank you Asha you are great Go in peace Happy New year
Happy new year.
Excellent message! I learned a lot. Thank you for sharing.
So glad to hear this🙂
Excellent message! Thankyou mam for sharing such a valuable video .
@@jaseeladilshu8657 Thank you so much🙂
Simple and powerful vedio, pala avasarathilum nammal cheyyaruth ennu karuthiyalum veetile matullavar angane aakum perumaruka. So gradually namukku control cheyyan pattathe varumnu. Anyway, thanks for the episode
HAPPY NEW YEAR 🎊🎊🎊
Thank you. Happy new year🙂
Hello Mam
Extremely useful content❤
Superrrr molu.keep it up
Parents maathram cheyta poralo...koode jeevikkunna grandparents um koode kelkande...njangalum okke kuttikale valarthiyatha ennoru dialogue um
Ente problevum ithanu .. njn aruth enn parayunna karyam cheytholu enn parayum.. ith kond mentally vallathe week aayi povunnu
Wow. Superb thoughts. Will definetly try to impliment these in my parenting.
Thank you so much🙂
Very useful topic, and well narrated, its very useful for me especially as a parent and a professional as I am workings with young kids with developmental and emotional problems
So glad to hear that. Thank you so much🙂
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Different ways to express and teach,thank you so much
Happy new year to u & ur famly ma am. Thanku for the maeningful words Asha♥️♥️
Thank you so much! Happy new year🙂
Great video👍👏👏👏
Thank you🙂
appol kuttikal thettu chythal endaanu avarod parayendathu, enganeyaanu nammal pratikarikkendath?adum koode paranju tharaamo
GREAT VIDEO! THANKS FOR THE PROPER & VALUABLE GUIDELINES SHARED BY AASHA. CONGRATULATIONS! MARRY MADAM, MAY THIS YEAR BRING YOU PEACE, PROSPERITY & HAPPINESS. PLEASE CONVEY OUR LOVELY REGARDS TO NIYA MOLE❤️
Thank you so much. Happy new year!
@@ashamathew8981 SAME TO YOU DEARS♥️
The best parents vedio i ever watched…
Thank you so much🙂
Hai Aasha.... Iam an expecting mom who is eager about parenting and knowing things to be a good mom..Ur presentation is simply awesome... Can u suggest some good books related to parenting were u found or studied these things .. requesting u to continue videos of parenting, we are really waiting for it....
എനിക്കേറ്റവും ഇഷ്ടമുള്ള വിഷയം... ❤❤സബ്സ്ക്രൈബ് ചെയ്തു 🤪
Thank you😊
സൂപ്പർ ഐഡിയകൾ പുതുവത്സരത്തിന് അനുയോജ്യമായ തീരുമാനങ്ങൾ .. എല്ലാവരും പുതിയതലമുറയെ ബഹുമാനിക്കട്ടെ.... 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍 എല്ലാവർക്കും പുതുവത്സരാശംസകൾ... മാമിനും കുടുംബത്തിനും... 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Thank you so much. Happy new year🙂
@@ashamathew8981 mmm😊
നല്ല അറിവുകൾ.👌
Thank you🙂
Thanku for this wonderful message..
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Superb....😘
Thank you❤
Got a lots of information from your parenting vedios. We are thinking about a baby now and that's why iam trying to study about gentle parenting. Expecting more vedios from this topic...❤️
Thank you so much Athira.
Thank you soo much ma'am,it's really really informative ❤️
My pleasure🙂
Well done chechi... Thank you so much for your valuable suggestions
So glad to hear such lovely feedback🙂
Informative video ... thank you .
Thank you. It's my pleasure.
I like this video very much.... I think all parents should watch this video 👍👍👍
Thank you so much Akhila🙂
Thanks for your valuable information❤❤
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Very informative 👌🌹
@@yamunasuresh8832 Thank you🙂
Really helpull mam thankyou🙏🙏🙏🙏💐
Have a wonderful, peaceful, joyful, healthy and prosperous new year. May God help you to be active throughout your life 🥰
Thank you so much. Happy new year!
So much enlightened... 🙏
Thank you so much.
Super content mam... ✌🏻
Thank you🙂
Very informative👍👍😍
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Thank you mam for your video and your audio is very clear in this video.. Thank you for the change you hv made and wish you a very happy new year 🙏🥰
Thank you. Happy new year🙂
Well said👍
Thank you🙂
Happy New year teacher
Happy new year❤❤❤
Very good video🙏🙏
Good message👍👍
Thank you
Madam, dayavai udyogasthakalaya ammammarulla kunjungalude psychologyumayi bandhapettu oru vedio cheyyanam, prethyekichum ammamar sadha kudeyulla kuttikalum, day time adika samayavum Swandham ammayil ninnakannu nilkkenda kuttikalum thamil orupad karyangalil issues und, ee vasthutha avarude manasika samuhika valarchaye engine badikkum ennariyan valareyadikam thalpparyamund. Prathyakichum udhyagasthakalaya ammamar orupadulla nammude nattil theerchayayum ith upakarappedum. Enikkum oru cheriya molund, wife jolikkariyanu.
Thank you for the suggestion.
Thank you so much 💕🙏
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Valid points... Good and practicable....
Thank you so much🙂
Great video♥️
Thank you🙂
Makanu 11vayasayi nhan thallarilla. Oradikoduthappol avan enne edutheriyanum cheethaparayumvarum endha cheyya pls😭
Kure nalla arivukal kittt..thanku
Very usefull video, thank u for sharing😍
My pleasure😊
പുതിയ കാര്യങ്ങൾ പറഞ്ഞു തന്നതിന് thanks 🥰🙏
My pleasure🙂
Expecting more videos from parent caring
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Ammayum Molum super 💓💓
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Thanks for the information
Can you explain how to handle the emotions of elder one (3 yr old)towards younger one (4 months old).
Thank you for the suggestion🙂
Super..... really good
Thank you.
How to control over curiosity about friends. For example my daughter forcing me to doing her friends perents responsibility. I think it is unnessary. I am irritated .
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Very grateful,vedio thank you so much
Thank you for watching and commenting.
Very in formative, All these mistake are done by me. Thankuu 😍😍♥️
Thank you for the support🙂
Great message. ,
Thank you🙂
Thanku mam. Very useful
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Thanks a lot for this video
My pleasure🙂
Thank you 😍
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Children related vedio eniyum idanam....plzzz mam
Will share❤❤🙏
Please do a vedio on hyper activity🙏
എന്റെ മോനും കുളിക്കാൻ madiyayirunnu..
അവനോട് ഞൻ പറഞു കുളിക്കാൻ വന്നാൽ അമ്മ സോപ്പ് കൊണ്ട് bubbles undakkitharam എന്ന്... അതൊക്കെ ഇഷ്ട്ടായീ.. കുളിക്കുമ്പോ പാട്ടു പാടുന്നതും കഥ parayunnathum മോനു വളരെ ഇഷ്ടം ആണ് ... ഇപ്പൊ.കുളി ക്കാൻ ഒരുപാട് ഇഷ്ട്ടമാണ് അവന്
Great🙂
Valuable advice 🥰
Thank you🙂
Thankyou so much mam... Iam so happy and glad to hear this vedio..i wish i could get more useful instructions from you.very helpful for us.
Thank you so much for watching and commenting🙂
Happy New year Madam 🥰💕💗
Happy new year🙂
Happy New year ma'm...
Happy new year🙂
Very very good speech... thanks..
Thank you so much🙂
Ente Baby k 1.5 yrs kazhnju..Kunj ellam eduth eriyunnu..ardelum dehathekum pettenn eriyum...chilapo mattullavare upadravikunnu ...engane handle cheyyanamenn arylla..Avante grand parents avn ellarem upadravikum enn munkooty parayum...enik ath kelkumpol vishamam varunnu...njn deshyapettitm alland paranjtum avn manasilakunnlla...enganan handle cheyyendenn onn parayamo..pls do reply🙏
Hi Sareena! Thank you for watching and commenting. It is quite normal for kids of this age to be aggressive. There are a few things you could try:
1. Avare gently and kindly aa situationil ninnu maatua. Ennitu avarude feelings validate cheyua,i.e. say things like " Deshyam varunundalle. eniku ariyam ee karanam kondu deshyam undavumennu. Njan koode irunnu samadhanipikam. But kaiyil ullathu eriyan padilla. It's dangerous and I have to protect you." Give a hug if kid allows you to. Otherwise just be with him and ensure his safety as well as others'. Later avar calm down ayirikunna samayathu deshyam express cheyan vere options paranju kodukua. E.g. Deshyam varunundennu verbally parayan padipikua, Idikan thonnundenkil soft surfaces il idikan parayam, like on the bed, deshyam varumbo Sareenayodu paranjal mathi apo samadhanipikam ennu parayua. Do these things consistently. Areyenkilum upadravikumbozhum ithu thanne cheyam. Overreact cheyathirikan shramikuka. nammude response calm ayirikan nokam. Even if you feel he doesn't completely understand what you're saying, he will sense it from the tone of your voice.
2. Aggression kanikunna samayathu blaming or shaming cheyathirikua. Or advices kodukathirikua. Aa samayathu ithonnum beneficial alla. When he is calm and happy, tell him lovingly that throwing things is not allowed because it is dangerous. Same with hurting others. Also tell him safe ways to express anger. Keeping doing this on a regular basis.
3. Kunjine ithinte peril adikano vazhakku parayano onnum cheyathirikan shramikua. That contradicts our message. Try to be as calm as you can. I know it's hard.
4. Try to engage him in physical activities as much as you can. Let him run and play outdoors. angane energy release cheyan nokua.
5. Find out the root cause behind agression. Chilapo kunjinu kooduthal attention kitan ayirikam. Angane anenkil spend more alone time with him- without phone or anything. Positive ayitulla karyangal kunju cheyumbo athinu attention kodukua, e.g. when he requests something in a kind tone, appreciate him for that saying the specific reason why you appreciate it.
6. Adhikam no parayathirikua. You can also watch my video on positive discipline for some other tips.
Most important, don't worry. These are normal phases of development. And it does not make you a bad parent! 🙂
@@ashamathew8981 thank you so much mam for spending your valuable time for such a great reply ❤️.. Really helpful...🙏🙏
@@ashamathew8981 Mam paranja karyangal oke sredhikam njan..vallathoru vishamathil an message ayachath....your words are really worth🙏
@@sareenanishad6801 My pleasure!
Eye opener for parents..you are good mom ❤️
Thank you for the kind words🙂
@@ashamathew8981 ❤️👍
Thank you Asha kutty 💚👍👌💐💯🙏
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Good class ☺️
Thank you🙂
Tku 🥰👍🏻👍🏻🙏
നിയ മോൾക്ക് കൊടുക്കുന്ന ടോയ്‌സ് ആൻഡ് ബുക്ക്സിനെ കുറിച്ചു share ചെയ്യാമോ
Very useful topic.Thanks
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Thank yoi🙂
Useful information mam
Thank you🙂
Good information
Thank you
Thank you dear
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Very well thought-out and curated. Asha does a fantastic job as always! Looking forward to more of Asha’s tips and tricks! :)
Thank you for the constant support Gunjan❤
Thankyou so much.ente monu 1 1/2 vayasu ayitullu.bayankara vashiyanu.Mam paranja tips oke follow chethat result parayato
Thank you so much Lakshmi.
Thanku U so much for your wonderful class ,,,i definitely try to this all points, as a mother I will support my child ❤❤❤
Thanks for the lovely comment.
Very useful vedio thanks
Thank you
Thank youuu 😍
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Hi Mam .. nalla oru talk ayirunu... ente mol (2 yr)deshyam vanhal kaiyil enthano ullath ath valicheriyunu.. etra paranjitum kelkunilla.. samadhanathode paranju noki , snehathode paranju, vazhaku paranju thalli but veendum athe pole thanne valicheriyunu... Mam ethinh enthanh solution??? Pls reply me mam
Hi Ragi! Thank you for the comment. It is quite normal for kids of this age to be aggressive. There are a few things you could try:
1. Avare gently and kindly aa situationil ninnu maatua. Ennitu avarude feelings validate cheyua,i.e. say things like " Deshyam varunundalle. eniku ariyam ee karanam kondu deshyam undavumennu. Njan koode irunnu samadhanipikam. But kaiyil ullathu eriyan padilla. It's dangerous and I have to protect you." Give a hug if kid allows you to. Otherwise just be with her and ensure her safety as well as others'. Physical aggression padillennu parayunnathinte koode deshyam express cheyan vere options paranju kodukua. E.g. Deshyam varunundennu verbally parayan padipikua, Idikan thonnundenkil soft surfaces il idikan parayam, like on the bed, deshyam varumbo Ragiyodu paranjal mathi apo samadhanipikam ennu parayua. Do these things consistently.
2. Aggression kanikunna samayathu blaming or shaming cheyathirikua. Or advices kodukathirikua. Aa samayathu ithonnum beneficial alla. When she is calm and happy, tell her lovingly that throwing things is not allowed because it is dangerous. Also tell her safe ways to express anger. Keeping doing this on a regular basis.
3. Kunjine ithinte peril adikano vazhakku parayano onnum cheyathirikan shramikua. That contradicts our message. Try to be as calm as you can. I know it's hard.
4. Try to engage her in physical activities as much as you can. Let her run and play outdoors. angane energy release cheyan nokua.
5. Find out the root cause behind agression. Chilapo kunjinu kooduthal attention kitan ayirikam. Angane anenkil spend more alone time with her- without phone or anything. Positive ayitulla karyangal kunju cheyumbo athinu attention kodukua, e.g. when she requests something in a kind tone, appreciate her for that saying the specific reason why you appreciate it.
6. Adhikam no parayathirikua. You can also watch my video on positive discipline for some other tips.
Most important, don't worry. These are normal phases of development. 🙂
@@ashamathew8981Thank you for your reply mam... I didn't expect these kind of brief explanation... Thanks aloottt....mam paranjathu pole Cheyan njan sramikkam.
@@ragiraghavan7812 🙂🙂
Anek kittiya oru new year gift.tqqqq.
Thank you so much for watching and commenting. Happy new year🙂
Love love love your content. It’s extremely useful❤️especially since I have a 2 and a half year old all your examples are totally relatable. Watching one of your video is like getting information from 20 different videos. It’s very short , sweet and to the point with crucial information 🔥
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Thank you so much Nisha! That's one of the best comments I have received❤❤
Love u chechiiii😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
Very true👌👌👌👌
Thank you🙂
Very touching.
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It's gng to be avery useful advise in ma caring nd parenting of ma baby.. Thnk u soo much mam🙏
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Glad to hear this🙂