Love Hour EP 10: How NOT To Have Sex Before Marriage

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  • @judithep.8604
    @judithep.8604 9 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    "Your hormones are not saved"- good point Kev!

  • @melb3136
    @melb3136 9 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    I love this! The church doesn't teach how NOT to, they just teach DONT

  • @Shoopalexia
    @Shoopalexia 9 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Absolutely loved this. So enjoy listening to you two. I grew up in church, went away to college and that's when the temptation hit. Lost my virginity and was in a horrible relationship for over 3 years. I have been celibate for years and no it's not easy but I tried it my way, now I am doing it Gods way. I've had non Christian AND Christian men tell me naw I can't deal if your celibate. I just turned 36 this month and I get the same question, why are you still single. I tell them I choose to be single. I could have someone easily if I gave up my beliefs but for me I'd rather wait on God's best. The man who is willing to wait will find out it was well worth it. Stay blessed guys!

    • @thinkingoutloud3358
      @thinkingoutloud3358 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Adivineebony praying for God’s best for you and me too❤️

  • @godsgrace87
    @godsgrace87 7 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    A girl who is PLAYING hard to get wants to get caught. A girl who IS hard to get could careless if the boy who is chasing catches up or not.

    • @OlviMasta77
      @OlviMasta77 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      godsgrace87 How you know if a girl is playing hard to get? Lol

  • @tamisalundyminuteswithmisa8583
    @tamisalundyminuteswithmisa8583 9 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Your wife is really pretty!

    • @KevOnStage
      @KevOnStage  9 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      agreed.

    • @Zeldarw104
      @Zeldarw104 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      KevOnStage Your enthusiasm is kind of underwhelming.☺
      I'm really shocked you never engage with your subscribers.😨 interesting....😦

  • @yumyumpowakatyra9725
    @yumyumpowakatyra9725 7 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I love this! I want My boyfriend to truly understand the spiritual stand point of not having sex! But side note: people always told me when you got to college you're going to have sex it's inevitable... wrong... clearly you do nothing you do not want to do because I am still a virgin at 21.
    Also, people tell me that I need to have sex before I get married because it will hurt more when I get married and they said if i get married I might not like the sex with the person that I married... that really made no sense to me right there. If you truly love someone who you're married to I think sex will be great because it's more than physical it's love and emotions all combined! People really be believing these false facts that the world creates.

    • @chaosswa-ee-ty5911
      @chaosswa-ee-ty5911 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tyra Foulks girl keep it up! I wish someone was there to tell me!

    • @madaboutcicixoxo1819
      @madaboutcicixoxo1819 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes just wait till you get married to your soulmate if you obey YHWH he will send you that spiritual man he created for you I waited till I was 25yrs met my soulmate married him two years after dating him he waited till after we where married... and we been married for 9yrs now only have one child together.. it’s been challenging but that’s my best friend/ my heart I’m so grateful YHWH created him for me!

    • @donotrevolt6562
      @donotrevolt6562 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope all is well with you. Wait for the right one!

    • @missbee201
      @missbee201 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      WE NEED TO PROMOTE VIRGINITY.PERIOD! That's such a beautiful thing and I wish I was still a virgin. I'm so so glad you are strong-minded. Keep pushing and waiting until marriage

  • @mxc29cb
    @mxc29cb 9 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    you guys are amazing man, a young 21 year old christian man like myself needs this kind of content in my life, i love this family, keep up with the videos, y'all are making a difference, God bless you all !

    • @humbled92_Mister
      @humbled92_Mister 9 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thats great youre 21 and interesting in the things of God. For me I struggle with finding likeminded friends and partners. Being saved so young is really rare in this day and time

  • @msfefeenicole8158
    @msfefeenicole8158 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I am watching old episodes and this is such valuable information - I also see how Melissa has grown with her confidence and body language - good job growing together guys!

    • @joyade8495
      @joyade8495 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello (Melissa voice)!
      The growth is EVERYTHING!

  • @aprilchoyce7588
    @aprilchoyce7588 9 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This is the kind of relationship I keep praying for🙏

    • @niyaavery9898
      @niyaavery9898 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me to girl!! 👏👏👏👏 Speak it into the atmosphere! Us single women need to touch and agree! 😄😄😄

  • @Arvndenise
    @Arvndenise 9 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    My pastors always say "Know your own freaky self". Great points! Lovely couple!

  • @KevOnStage
    @KevOnStage  9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I know its crooked my bad. lol. Send questions to Dear Kev & Lis at kevonstage@gmail.com

    • @Drrck11
      @Drrck11 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      KevOnStage How NOT To Have Sex Before Marriage? Use your right hand. LoL

    • @alexianicole7268
      @alexianicole7268 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      This was really good Kev! Thanks for sharing it

  • @cindywinter9070
    @cindywinter9070 9 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You have such a beautiful Marriage and friendship you are truly an inspiration for many others including myself. Love your videos keep them coming!

  • @k2kfitchannel944
    @k2kfitchannel944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Awwww..baby Kev and Lissa....that GLOW UP was strong. Naturally THIS was gonna work

  • @TheKay500
    @TheKay500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That buzzer on Melissa's phone is cracking me up

  • @Myeka324
    @Myeka324 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    These videos are such a blessing! I wish I had such practical advice when I was growing up in church! Keep them coming!

  • @KellBailey
    @KellBailey 9 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I want this relationship when i get older lol

  • @sumwhere08
    @sumwhere08 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I look forward to these videos every week!! Thanks so much for Posting this, great advice!!

  • @bowiehs
    @bowiehs 9 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    love you two together. keep it going, love the podcasts.

  • @dominiquedelaine
    @dominiquedelaine 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I listened to this video twice already!! I appreciate this straight forward real talk!

  • @adri1alicia
    @adri1alicia 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is one of my favourite podcasts so far! Y'all keep it so real, I just love you guys. I agree that trying to not have sex before marriage is harder these days because of technology, but because we have access to more information we also have more help to navigate through these sorts of situations.

  • @joyndem6574
    @joyndem6574 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for your honesty and transparency.

  • @joesuff17
    @joesuff17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow Kev, you need to dedicate a podcast to celebrate Melissa's growth and how far she's come lol

    • @ShasellaBella
      @ShasellaBella 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I concur!!! So much growth 👏🏽🙌🏽

  • @gcw15
    @gcw15 9 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It IS possible NOT to have sex before marriage! Contrary to popular belief it can be done! I'm a living witness!! Adding on to how to NOT have sex before marriage--you have to both be on the same page or it won't work!! All of us know what "sends" us--you have GOT to stay away from those areas that take you to "the edge of the bowl" or you will fall in!! Another great Love Hour!! Keep up the great work!! Love you guys!

  • @Dvinecreations7
    @Dvinecreations7 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I totally wish y'all could've been my youth counselors or youth pastors or something coming up, that probably would've helped me through a lot of things to have y'alls realness ... I just love y'all two bond and openness thanks for sharing

  • @tzmom
    @tzmom 9 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Love y'all interaction!! Thee cutest!

  • @susanhaines9493
    @susanhaines9493 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great podcast. Love watching the two of you together. Keep being you. 💕

  • @trblessed1020
    @trblessed1020 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was very helpful thank you guys for being transparent

  • @PrettyGirlDtheNP
    @PrettyGirlDtheNP 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your story/ advice was very interesting. Thanks for sharing

  • @valerie80yearsago90
    @valerie80yearsago90 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please more podcasts!!! Love how you guys interact with each other. What a beautiful relationship. I pray God helps me to obtain a relationship with such an amazing bond. God bless!

  • @smarti1144
    @smarti1144 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    so......honey that cat eyeliner job is life, Lis.
    Love it & love the love hour.

  • @AwakenTheDawn2004
    @AwakenTheDawn2004 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He thinks it was the first day of school because it was the first day he started really living. 😂😂😂😂😂💗

  • @ashxis11
    @ashxis11 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you. You both are an encouragement.

  • @donnadeedee9089
    @donnadeedee9089 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Is she calling him Ninja 😂

  • @RobynLouise86
    @RobynLouise86 9 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    One point, stay in the word, stay connected to God. You have to pray and both of you have to be on one accord. You both have to be on the same page, or one will try to influence the other.

  • @mademoisellecm1
    @mademoisellecm1 9 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Excellent podcast!!! I was raised the same way...no sex before marriage and yes it can be difficult to stick with. Now that I am older, I can truly see the wisdom in that principle. I appreciate the honesty that you guys share. Keep up the great work.

    • @summerose14
      @summerose14 9 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I agree. I'm almost 25 and never had sex. By sticking to that it has helped me see my worth and weeded out the guys that didn't truly care for me

  • @dionnepreston9005
    @dionnepreston9005 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Alright Kev, I gotta do it....you called your grandma the Patriarch of your family? Bro, she's the Matriarch! I had to fight laughter for that. Lol

  • @Mrsdevsgirl
    @Mrsdevsgirl 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I enjoy the love hour videos. Relationship goals I know you guys are not perfect but God first in relationships is rare. Thanks for sharing.

  • @internationaleden
    @internationaleden 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I applaud this video, there’s still virtuous people out there

  • @Truu5StarLifeDriver
    @Truu5StarLifeDriver 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💕💕💕this. The story✔ The delivery✔ and The love✔ mostly tho 😂 Liss is RAIg. Kev is blissful (the way the two mildy correct one another throughout is heart warming lol watch tha izms...tha pen, tha chair, etc.) Love Love Love these 2💕

  • @MilliesVlog
    @MilliesVlog 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    UR HAIR IS ON POINT

  • @RiddyOnline
    @RiddyOnline 9 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Kev done dropped so many awesome lines in this video.....you got me here dying but you're talkin so much sense.
    "Your penis ain' saved"
    and my personal favorite..
    "If the shirt's off you gonna take the bra off. If the bra's off you gonna take the pants off, if the pants are off you gonna take the panties off. If the panties are off you gonna put the penis in." LOOOOL..
    So funny but such wise words though..lol

  • @sgrayson77
    @sgrayson77 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I thoroughly enjoyed this video! Confirming that I'm doing something right!

  • @jammyw4147
    @jammyw4147 9 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You weren't brainwashed Liss. You were taught well! :)

  • @elijahthomas7855
    @elijahthomas7855 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    man boy are blessed. am waiting for one like lissss

  • @tylynn256
    @tylynn256 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Speak that word Melissa!!!! She was not playing hard to get She WAS hard to get. Let is is pray

  • @aprilchoyce7588
    @aprilchoyce7588 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol@"I never had that goal" lol love the honesty Kev

  • @BigGlide
    @BigGlide 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You two are awesome!

  • @tamikadavison
    @tamikadavison 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    very nice review. I pray that it helps some folks. I will def share the vid as well.

  • @22221mm
    @22221mm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The love hour has been around this long?? Wow.

    • @mancube7645
      @mancube7645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Are you also watching this masterpiece😂😂😂 #rewatchgang

  • @Denise-ob8dk
    @Denise-ob8dk 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the story of your meeting it almost mirrors my brother and his wife. They were highschool sweethearts and got married in 1999.

  • @aaylias.292
    @aaylias.292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kev's "Oh, come on!" 7:37 sends me!!!!!

  • @queena3517
    @queena3517 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    liss is right! me liking you has nothing to do with your datability.... I made that word up per swipe dictionary!😎

  • @gratefulgent
    @gratefulgent 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You gotta know your triggers & follow your convictions... Learned this the hard way

  • @chay3003
    @chay3003 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What an awesome couple!!

  • @hopewilliams7081
    @hopewilliams7081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Playing hard to get= you're really interested but pretending not to be to make him chase you.
    Being hard to get= you're just not interested but the person keeps pursuing you

  • @thelightpsyde
    @thelightpsyde 9 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Hahahaha! This episode is a classic! You know you had too many girls, when you end up using them as a timeline...

  • @sisblk786
    @sisblk786 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Liss HAD STANDARDS!!!

  • @usadoll9850
    @usadoll9850 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    lol i really enjoyed this video :) :)

  • @vivanhinton8377
    @vivanhinton8377 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you two are awesome
    😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛

  • @rochelle1199
    @rochelle1199 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You met the year I was born. Bruh I feel so young 😂😂I'm a baby

  • @lifeofgrandmadesiswearinge9377
    @lifeofgrandmadesiswearinge9377 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love Liss!!!!!!

  • @ZinhleBhembe-yh9gr
    @ZinhleBhembe-yh9gr 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When the Bible says do not despise the day of small beginnings ❤

  • @curlykiki8
    @curlykiki8 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    10:44 say that, liss!!! this ain't a game!

  • @shaniquasmall7059
    @shaniquasmall7059 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    The cookie to his luscious? Lol

  • @3xSharkiex3
    @3xSharkiex3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sincere is a pretty name

  • @sisblk786
    @sisblk786 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Playing hard to get & BEING HARD TO GET; Male Perception & Female Social REALITY. LMBO

  • @JadaSim
    @JadaSim 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video. How long did you date your wife?

  • @kimberlygray7059
    @kimberlygray7059 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wait a minute didn't know empire was out that long

  • @FineNaturalHairandFaith
    @FineNaturalHairandFaith 9 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    but why couldn't y'all do this video 10 years ago when i met my husband lol. thank God for forgiveness though :-)
    hormones, penis, nor vajay jay is saved. Nope. We have to renew our minds to the Word and that takes time. and even then, you can be tempted. Heck, Jesus was tempted...without sin but still.
    that's so cool that you all knew each other in High School.

  • @lalastaywoke
    @lalastaywoke 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That's to cute...he followed her around....lol

  • @Roland_Kendrick
    @Roland_Kendrick 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dope

  • @ieshia1diva
    @ieshia1diva 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We IS on our face Lord!!!! lol Me and my BF are TRYING to do right...... We are both in church and actually serve as musicians. We're both parents so needless to say we have tasted & ALREADY seen before! Lol the problem is mentally it's like I wouldn't purchase a car without test driving it first! Don't want to be letdown and stuck with a lemon on our honeymoon & beyond! But spiritually we have that desire to follow God's plan...... #HELP

    • @Yolliemacc
      @Yolliemacc 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ieshia Redd If God has truly sent your boyfriend, he (God) knows what you like sexually... he created it.

  • @godsgrace87
    @godsgrace87 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    HUSBAND DOES MY MAKEUP CHALLENGE!!!!!!!

  • @reginalowery6397
    @reginalowery6397 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Y'all are so cute. LOL

  • @Zeldarw104
    @Zeldarw104 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are adorable!☺

  • @cul2cat
    @cul2cat 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this vid was cute

  • @aprilchoyce7588
    @aprilchoyce7588 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol@going to Walgreens

  • @TamiaPeach
    @TamiaPeach 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ........
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    ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨
    THE GLOW UP IS REAL! ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨

  • @maryholyfield6059
    @maryholyfield6059 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My brother had sex outside of marriage and had a baby and every body in the church was judging

  • @latoyae0923
    @latoyae0923 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Y’all look so young

  • @juliannaokike31
    @juliannaokike31 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have to comment on this because I have made a guy wait and I feel like he waited me out for that reason and then married someone else. Then I gave my self early and the guy married someone else so I believe that sex should be subjected meaning if the timing is mutually agreed upon. My opinion not fact or law. Half of the time I think that many people are doing what they want any how.

  • @DGTHO
    @DGTHO 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Impossible in 2021

  • @juliannaokike31
    @juliannaokike31 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If you're preparing for marriage maybe seek council from your pastor or whomever you received spiritual advice.

  • @ashxis11
    @ashxis11 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    your hormones are not saved lol

  • @strauqq1
    @strauqq1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lol I'm sorry brotha. No straight man should watch Empire. Power, but not Empire.

  • @juliannaokike31
    @juliannaokike31 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's really Bobby Joe baby....lol. I'm just messing.

  • @juliannaokike31
    @juliannaokike31 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why y'all think some kids in people family are what as know as blended.

  • @juliannaokike31
    @juliannaokike31 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Subjective...sorry.

  • @juliannaokike31
    @juliannaokike31 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Then half of y'all grand parents was sneaking and freaking and bobing men on the low. Look in the mirror for your answers.