Fan Q&A With The Toms | Everybody Loves Tom | Ep. 06
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 ก.ย. 2024
- Schwartz & Sandoval answer questions from Patreon fans. Lots of hot goss, juicy deets, & VPR-BTS. Plus, they talk about the upcoming BravoCon, the new season of Winter House and neck tattoos?! Some say this is our most jammed packed episode!… Join the Patreon to ask The Toms anything you want!
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Tom Sandoval is an actor, model, singer and restaurateur. He has starred in the Emmy nominated reality series, Vanderpump Rules for 10 season. He has since graduated from bartender at SUR to part-owner of TomTom and Schwartz & Sandy's with his best friend Tom Schwartz. Tom also fronts his own party cover band appropriately named, Tom Sandoval & The Most Extras. Don't forget to check them out when they come to a city near you!
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As someone who went through the whole tizzy of “anti-Sandoval” for a while, honestly this podcast has been so fun to watch. I started watching out of curiosity and stayed because I’m totally wowed by Sandoval’s growth. Tom, you look SO healthy, happy, and the honest conversations are refreshing and so fun.
Blessings from The Lou!!
Exactly I never picked a side I am far from an Ariana Stan lol but watching the podcast I’m like I like it 😂
I got shit on in the subreddit but idgaf it’s the truth I like the podcast hahaha
I did the same! I also feel the same way. Changed my view of Tom tremendously. I don’t think what he did was right, never will, but I do not hate him and actually enjoy watching these a lot!
Tom's a good dude. He made a mistake. The same mistake everyone on the show has made. The hate is incredibly disturbing. Who are these people, and are they so perfect? I really doubt that they are.
I feel like people have more hatred towards Tom than they do Lenny Hochstein ( RHWOM) who literally cheated on his wife of 15 years. .. and they have kids!! People are just so strange
Right?! I said the exact same thing!! I feel like we are now seeing the real Tom.
Honest critique - Tom's producer needs to stop being a Tom apologist. I get he feels protective, but it comes off as super annoying to the audience who wants to hear Tom answer the hard questions as thoughtfully as he has been. He needs to answer the "loaded" questions and just keep sharing honestly and vulnerably. You're not going to save Tom from the internet by constantly justifying and excusing the whole situation. It's the vulnerability that is keeping us watching and giving Tom a "second chance". Mr. Producer, you need to stop trying to control the audience's perception and just let him get real even if you feel like it's unfair.
Best episode by far was when he wasn’t there.
Totally agree! I find him annoying and it’s unnecessary for him to be there.
Preach! That guy is so annoying 🙄
He's not just the producer, he's in the band AND a friend do he's going to be protective. If you haven't watched episode 2, go watch it. You may understand a little more
He's not just the producer, he's in the band AND a friend do he's going to be protective. If you haven't watched episode 2, go watch it. You may understand a little more
Tom and Tom have a more solid relationship with each other than they each did with their past romantic partners. This is a forever friendship.
That’s not a flex at their age.
True unconditional love and support in that friendship is not suppose to be a “ flex” it’s admirable that they support each other even when your at you’re worst and for schwartzy to want to learn about Sandoval , his friend
@@AmandaJohn-k5mi feel like two things can be true at once. In this case, the Toms friendship is admirable, yet their incapability to provide that same level of love, support and loyalty to their romantic partners is reprobable.
@@RealiTEAwithKristaMarieagree! If I cheated why would my best friend of 30 years cut me off and never talk to me again? Like I don’t get peoples thinking. Shit happens guide your friend to grow and at the end of the day don’t meddle in your friends relationships!
@@RealiTEAwithKristaMarie Too bad he couldn’t put that same energy into his marriage and don’t even try to blame Katie for trying to love that drunken bum.
Schwartz is a child! It is not attractive in any way.
The Schwartz is with you
Freaking love the podcast! The stories are great and love Tom joining. Sandoval is physically looking really good nice job dude 🙌🏻 really appreciate the details on the non alcoholic drinks
Don't do it!!! Neck tattoos hurt like hell and are nightmare to get removed... According to my husband! Stick with the fake ones sir!! 🙌🏼
Tom was the only guy that stood up for people like James when they were attacked by others unfairly, even if it isn’t popular he will protect his friends! Nobody remembers the bravery he had in those situations!
Still saying it is Ariana’s fault…
Hes not mature enough to take responsibility
Yep. She pretty much emasculated him and drove him away.
To be honest I never in my life heard such horrible language at the reunion. Andy should’ve stopped it or Lisa should’ve told those horrible subhuman people on the other side
Absolutely disgusting
James & Lala behaved absolutely abhorrently. Ariana had a reason to be mad, But the display from those other two was disgusting. It was good to see that at least Katie kept it classy..
If i were Ariana i would have said worse and done absolutely evil 😊
@@LevaFatisi-qe5qy you are what’s wrong with people now. You are a shallow shell
Do not get a neck tat.
Now that you are not drinking, will you create a new book with non-alcoholic drinks for people who want the flavor but not the alcohol?
I like Ariana for her, it has nothing to do with you. It comes across like you cannot fathom that people could like/support/be fans of Ariana for her but just to be against you.
That's because he's a giant narcissist. How funny that after his last episode where Dr. Drew told him it's alot about HIM... He does a Q&A episode. 😂
I liked Tom before Ariana was even on the show... still do... His podcasts are excellent, he's just him ... And he's not a narcissist ...he has a lot of empathy 🩷✌🏼.... We all have narcissistic traits some have a little, some have a lot
Definitely a narcissist, ALWAYS HAS BEEN!!!! LIKE SINCE DAY ONE, NOT ANYTHING NEW.. literally Ariana had fans before you cheated and STILL has fans lmao has nothing to do with "Scandoval"
People with narcissism personality dont have low self esteem as Tom describes so thats wrong. Just because you make mistakes do not mean that you are psykopat or narcissist or sociopat, has nooooothing to do with it. And people that think that need to be more educated on the topic.. its kind of sad that people are just throwing this terms out, that is so stupid to put a label on someone you dont know on a personal level, you just should not to that.
@@samoyedjoy1I hear you and agree. Just sorry he got trapped with a psycho. Both Toms did - now finally FREE!
i tried giving this podcast a chance but oof. my scandoval opinions aside, this content just straight up doesn't feel genuine. it kind of makes me uncomfortable and im not sure why
Loved this Q & A with Schwartz !
No neck tattoo!
Agree. Neck and face tattoos are horrible. Not attractive in the least
totally agree, no! stick with the temporaries, plus you can change them out whenever instead of being stuck with what you got
I like Tom Sandoval. Even though what he did to Ariana my ex did the same to me. But I think Tom
Is very regretful but I think he did fall in love with Raquel and I wish now they would have worked out. No neck Tattoo Tom..
It wasn't love it was lust love is what Ariana gave him unconditional and look at how that worked out for her.
Love this one! Felt like I was hanging out with you guys with regular conversation while you're answering questions from fans. And you're not holding back on your answers which I think is great too.
Tattoos are so common now there not actually cool anymore. Rock the fake ones. jmo
Tom, if people hadn’t had you on such a pedestal then they wouldn’t have become so upset. You were always the moral compass of the group and not that I ever thought you were innocent but I felt you were sensitive to others feelings.
PLEASE DO NOT GET A GKN NECK TATTOO TOM. The girl was disgusted she’s the only one that made the shit decision lmao (I have tattoos)
The Tom's are both looking wonderful.
Jason seems like a good guy.
Killer drummer.
Why not do supermassive black hole instead of hysteria if they must do a Muse song?
It's nastier & more raw.
In fact, why not do a Stooges song? (NOT I wanna be your dog; it's been done to death).
Suggestions would be maybe 1969, Dirt or Little Doll.
Neck tattoo is hokey at this point.
The guy has a beautiful face and is trendy enough with all the little kid bracelets.
It would really appear to be trying too hard.
Maybe something small & personal at back of hairline/nape, but otherwise it's
just going to look corny.
Nice to see both Toms smiling and doing well! I am thoroughly enjoying this podcast!
Bravocon abuse - to the haters give them the finger on stage or take a bow, you didn't kill anyone so stop being a patsy to strangers and statistically most of them have cheated or have been sketchy in their relationship. It is so ridiculous how this played out around the world as people are dying in wars. Also, I just listened to Muse, Wont Stand Down and the lyrics and they are amazing!
People are forgetting that Tom wept when he took Kristin outside at one of the restaurants- he was apologizing for hurting her and he wished her well and she received it. And I agree that Arianna did put Tom down numerous times she talked down to him a lot- watch the past seasons- she put him down ALOT!!!!! Had no respect for him !
Producers made him pull Kristen for that last “ chat” Kristen said it was fake
You need to interview Cory Feldman!
That would be a great interview!!!!
Unfortunately you’re a sacrificial lamb for every girl that had a heartbreak
Exactly. Ariana pushed him away, little by little. She is no saint.
Don’t do the neck tattoo!!!!
Tom seems to almost hate Ariana. It’s odd how he refuses to say he ever loved her and he still thinks hes a victim. Also these questions are ridiculous and fake
Hi Tom... Regards from Chile... Great Podcast as always... 😄😄
I'm surprised that they didn't ask you to be on House of Villains. Would you do that show if they ask you to (if there is a season 2)?
I hope not - haven't seen the show but that doesn't sound appealing
@hayfergroup1916 It's actually not a bad show. They have Jax Taylor, Johnny Bananas, Omarosa, New York, and some other people all living in a house while competing in challenges.
Some guy from Survivor sabotaged Jax in a blindfolded driving challenge. Then they have eliminations until only 1 is left. Show has only been on a few weeks.
New York made Jax tear up. She called him a demon with a black heart.
@@kristelcorrea769 I'll watch anything Tom is on, but to me just the title of the villains, just makes it seem like glorifying the bad instead of the good in my opinion - and waiting for fights to happen, I'm personally so over the fights
He is not a villain, He done a couple of bad things & a lot of good things.
Jax belongs there.
@rekawrecked7268 no he doesn't lol he was super nice to everyone and left crying. He's definitely a changed man
Love Tom, and he’s looking great! Please don’t get a neck tattoo!!!!!!
I cant stop looking at Sandoval's Nomi Malone nails!😂💅
My question & I hope you'll answer it....Why don't you have someone like Dr. Drew or Howie Mandell on your podcast that has ACTUALLY watched #VanderpumpRules? When you told Dr. Drew that "you're an honest & caring person" I nearly spit out my coffee. 🤔🤔#ffs You lied all over the place on the reunion about how many times with Rachel & called Ariana a MF. Mind you the fans all knew that Lala was really screaming at Randell, just using you as a screaming board & hopefully James is off whatever drug he kept running to the toilet to use which made him scream 90 miles a minute. Anyway, please have a professional on who will tell you the truth about yourself (so you can truly be honest) & not hear what your needy baby narcissistic self wants to hear. BTW the reason #Scanadoval became so huge is b/c you made us believe that you & your LOVING gf Ariana were the perfect couple & you would NEVER hurt her for 7 seasons... more lies just like "Miami girl." Poor Schwartzy is a nervous wreck from covering for you & Jax all these past years & b/c he NEVER stood up for his wife (for fear of losing you) he lost his marriage. I still love #PumpRules, in my "professional opinion, know that if you come clean & stop making this "all about you" the fans will forgive you someday & I can't wait for #S11🥰
dr drew was the last podcast episode, what you going on about? 😂😂😂
@@danielmrattner Dr. Drew has never seen #Vanderpump rules, he was on #S1 of "Special Forces" that show Sandavol just did & they became friends. Sandavol doesn't want anyone who actually watched #PumpRules or they will know that "he's a cheating narcissistic liar. Sandavol lied about how he is portrayed on #PumpRules therefore Dr. Drew couldn't call him on it & as usual Schwartz just sat their agreeing with Sandavol.
@@carolurquhart972 idk i think if they met him in person they would find him to be a kind huma
Tattoos on youthful skin looks cool. But we aren’t getting any younger, and those tats, that were once cool, look saggy, faded, and sad.
I love this podcast and I love to see both Tom’s
Tom, don’t get tattoo’s on your neck or face. They’re SO ugly! Travis Barker is a great drummer but that shaved head and all of those tattoo’s make him look like a bug. Old guys aren’t happy about their tattoos either. They just can’t afford to get them removed. Lots of guys that I worked with that had been in the Navy and Marines, HATE the tattoos they got when they were younger.
do you acknowledge how it is illegal to screen record someone doing sexual acts without consent?
Guess there’s things you don’t know, it’s the business of the person recorded to do this. Ever wonder why that person isn’t ? Would it also be ok if Ariana was prosecuted for sending it ? Careful what you don’t have full knowledge of or what you wish for !
@@laurazytczak9840Who did she send it to? People knew about it because it’s was spoken about, but where was it said she specifically sent it to anyone? Honestly asking
@@laurazytczak9840ariana already addressed it in a podcast with scheana; she never showed it to anyone and also mentioned how what tom did is illegal and unethical
Your too handsome for face or neck tattoos.. Tom
The 2 Toms are my favorite part of Vanderpump Rules 💞
Tom do you ever see bumper stickers on Rolls-Royce? Don't do a neck tattoo lol
NOOOOO NECK TATS🤮
I think its lame how much hate tom has gotten for cheating on his chick and 90% of the people hating on him has done the same thing i just think its been taken way way to far people mess up and people need to mind their own buisness get a life
“Check yourself before you wreck yourself”
Kudos to Tom and anyone else who has the presence of mind to check themselves. It’s the healthiest way to progress, evolve and move forward
Relisten to your answer about your anger towards her. It would have been honest to say yea I had anger towards her and all the money that everyone was making in merch and other stuff like you said on Special Forces when you brought up $200,000 in merch. I don't think Ariana was a walk i there was fault on both sides
So what you are basically saying is she should take the blame for being cheated on
I do love Ariana & I felt so bad for her bcuz being cheated on (let alone by one of her best friends) is just excruciating pain. I am upset at Tom cuz he should’ve just been honest but he didn’t. So now he’s facing consequences, she’s definitely winning. But I must agree the more I watch VPR the more I see things. I see Ariana treating him just as he’s described & I also see how very firm, stern non bending in her opinions she is which is fine but she’s very into her sensitivities but not others. As caring as she is she is very much abt her feelings. Like when Katie didn’t want Schwartz & Raquel to make out Ariana thought she was being to sensitive. I could go on but I see Toms point more so now then when the scandal first started. Ultimately he should’ve just ended it but we all mess up.
Exactly!!! I've watched from the beginning and always thought it was unfair how her opinions always dominated the relationship, and she took out issues with her ex on him. It really was messed up how she seemed to deflect her and Tom's relationship connection to Kristen's cheating so people wouldn't focus on her and the way she talked so poorly about Miami girl, knowing it was true and they weren't even together. Those were choices she made. She can't convince me she didn't benefit from it because she didn't want to look bad. The no marriage, no kids (that last minute effort was after they started counseling and didn't seem genuine) and always talking to him like crap publicly. I can't imagine anyone feeling good or content with that. You can be with someone for a long time and things go badly, but it's seen as far back as 7 years ago! Even if he was acting strange, girl that's your man! You pull him to the side and not emasculate him in front of your friends. Relationships take work and it's hard to feel bad for the former side chick when she said "totally inappropriate" over them having deep conversations when she was doing the same thing and he said this season 2 reunion.
Love you guys together. Do another show soon!
@TomSandoval how did u quit smoking??! Did u use anything to help u quit or did u taper or did u just quit cold turkey??! I really wanna quit but it’s hard!
Don't start vaping! I quit smoking after 17 years and used chantex or whatever the pill is called. Hear there are crazy side effects but I had zero. Been off since 2016. Telling ya you won't want cigs anymore after 2 weeks on that pill
Tom you should have dumped Arianna and none of this would would of happened love the podcast btw
You don't dump people they are not trash.
Tom , thank you so much for being so honest and answering my questions, they were very personal and it really did make me understand where your head was and now looking back ( it sucks that it went down that way ) BUT it forced a very needed change for both of you and I hope one day Ariana can be healed and able to feel the same Because i also beleive that -Ariana knew this was NOT you their just was a perfect storm of surrounding circumstances that just made “SCANDOVAL” happen’ and trust me I was sweating and speechless at 4 am when another podcaster woke me up to tell me what happened! I was very upset and confused by it and now I get it
Where’s this narcissist test, I wanna take it lol
It’s not accurate. Don’t waste your time.
Schwartz always goes after the women in these altercations: Doute,Stassi, Katie…Shorts is my least favorite on VPR
Edit to say that I absolutely loved Tom at his wedding and the time he bought Katie the mariachi band that was so sweet other than that absolutely not
I like to call him Shartz lmao
SCHWARTZY..You are QUITE the artist..that is really amazing..great job
Another great episode. I loved hearing the Toms reminisce about old episodes, fights, etc. 😊
Hi Tom I'm on your side, most of the time but when you start blaming Ariana for what you did I start to question this. If she belittled you and made you feel insignificant you should have spoken to her about it and/or broken up with her. Bad mouthing her for what you did isn't doing anything but making you look worse. Please show your good character always which I know you have because I've watched the show. Some people say they never liked you but some people really did see the good in you. Really do think your sorry for what you did and have been though alot. Just alittle advice take it or leave it.
He still believes he is the victim.🤦🏻♀️
It’s honestly repulsive and I believe he really means it.
Miss you on winter house
I'm glad you're doing this podcast, Tom! Please do more Q&A 😊
Schwartz🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
He’s looking hella cute lately 😅
I am a hairstylist and have a few tattoos (so they are ok in my profession).. when I was in my early 20s, I got my daughters name tattooed on the side of my neck in beautiful cursive writing. It is currently my only tattoo that I'm considering having laser removed bc neck tats don't hold up well. Do not get a neck tat you will regret it and be lazering it off like you did that horrible ass tat you did (btw, that scene scared me away from doing it myself so thanks for that 😜)
ok hear me out: Tom, Tom, Jason at TomTom for an intimate, private podcast sesh. Sell tickets that inc food + 2 drinks. Ppl will pay HUNDREDS! Hear me, Lisa? I’ll be the hostess w the mostest that day 😊
Why do you thrive so much to be cool for other people? Love yourself and be original. Everyone has tattoos it's not original. Who cares what the beautiful girl says or if she made fun of you. Once you get the tattoo you can't take it back without screwing up your skin. I know this because I had them and I removed them and it discolored my skin. My skin looks terrible. I wanted to be cool too. Thank goodness no one has that kind of influence on me anymore. You're so handsome and you will change your looks forever so think long and hard before you do it. Good luck.
I for one still love the Tom’s. If anything else, this is a great podcast from Tom just to discuss why he felt the way he did and what caused him to do what he did. He has taken his accountability for it, and he is very remorseful, so respect that at least all you haters. Everyone makes mistakes, and he deserves forgiveness. He does not need to be hated. God knows that nobody is perfect, so if you think you can judge him then you need to check yourself and find out what’s wrong with you. I find much more vial people on Reality TV and in the world than the Tom’s!!!! He is not even in the top 1,000! It’s just ridiculous!
Great show and it is really nice to see this side of Tom. I am glad you didn't give up. Time does heal old wounds and things seem to be better, honestly it really shouldn't be about who's side are you are on because sometimes we make decisions based on how we are feeling regardless write or wrong... and need to work out inside of ourselves what is missing the hard way, I wish the best for all of you in the VPR world for putting yourselves out there but it is my favourite reality show. I love seeing the group grow and hopefully come together again.
Oh boy, they’re going to come for you!! I know and can see how Ariana is, her insecurity makes her treat you that way and your insecurity made u you do what you did… I really don’t think people can get that this isn’t just a superficial situation! It’s deep, and to fully understand you would need weeks and months of a professional evaluation..keyboard warriors are unfortunately out of line to consider themselves judge, jury, and executioner.. talk about thinking a lot of yourself !
Her “insecurity” is called being with someone like that and not ever knowing why you feel so insecure because he constantly lies and manipulates until undeniable proof exposes the truth. Her “insecurity” is called intuition. Listen to your intuition and never get involved with a person when you feel “insecure” with them. You feel insecure because your intuition is telling you the guy is a creep. It was the exact same pattern and even the same excuses and exact verbiage he used years ago with his last gf. Total con artist.
Plus let’s not forget how he so easily called her a “Muther Fucker” on national television. He’s far from being a saint, he did the cheating, not Ariana. He sat there and took it all in to portray the victim. Her anger was valid.
I dont know why people target the bar and band members. No matter what you've done, you have a right to make a living... to earn an income. You need it to survive.
Your not less passive you are just generally positive and don't like conflict!
BTW- it should’ve NEVER been one of her friends & finally I absolutely love the theme song I listen to this song at least 2x a day! Such a vibe!!!
it probably wasn't a ballroom brawl but a ballroom blitz!!!!!!!!!!! ;) lol
Ariana treated Tom like crap for a long time. I think what he did was wrong but Rachel was nice to him and he got caught up.
I also think he tried to end the relationship with Ariana but she did not want that. She is controlling. Let's not forget, he was paying all the bills after they broke up. She didn't leave the house bc she wasn't paying bills. She could've left but hey, her ex man was paying the bills, why leave?
Soooo bummed, Toms! Flying into MI on the 19th so I will miss y'all by 2 days! You are going to love Wyandotte. Nice lil town with great cafes & food. Reminds me of mystic falls, and by the water.
Tom, I don't hate you. I have never liked your brand of narcissistic, boastful pride.
If you would make 1 heartfelt, sincere, humbled apology, then you could lay the situation down and never speak of it again.
The reason you're still catching so much shit is because you come off like I apologized... Accept it, I have. People work forgiveness in their own time, you are trying (maybe that might help?
Tattoo’s on the neck, face and actually most places are tacky. Go find a pair of jeans that you LOVED from 10 years ago and let me know if you still like them. That will give you your answer.
Honestly, I didn't like that Scheana and Brock said at bravocon they told you to not mention the relationship on your podcast. First, Scheana always defended herself as the other woman and gave details about Eddie, 2 Brock and Scheana spoke on his domestic violence charges against his ex when she wasn't even there. Third, all of them talked about your relationship on their podcasts and highlighted it to get more clicks. You are entitled to speak your truth, and she may not like hearing it, but anyone who has been in a healthy relationship could see prior to the scandal there were things that would not be acceptable for a partner to do in a relationship. If you had talked to her the way she did on camera, the feminist regime would have labeled you all sorts of things. I don't think it's fair for women to openly belittle, emasculate, and overall scold their partner on a regular basis publicly, let alone on TV! She was very dismissive of your feelings and you are allowed to express how that effected you long term. It was tone deaf of her to say her situation isn't unique, because 99% of people don't profit off of cheating to this level. None of these brands were interested in her until the scandal and just because you were the unfaithful doesn't make it okay. I've watched women come in and sell their jewelry because their cheating husbands cut them off from their bank accounts after 20 years of marriage. The embarrassment of just trying to get money to support themselves. So no, it's not the same. It's also rich to be so angry on the panel but in a whole new relationship for months. She should be thanking you since let's face it, somehow she's being labeled the queen of the show but was at the bottom of favorites for most of the years she has been on. I'm just over the need to silence you when you finally get to be free. Every one of them is a hypocrite. Every one of them has explained themselves, including lala when labeled homewrecker. You be you Tom and keep up the honesty
Ha! Okay Tom! and if it’s not Tom himself saying this then it’s definitely Jason.😭
@@AmandaJohn-k5m no, I'm an actual person who has watched the show from the beginning and not about the BS. Everything I said was true. Ariana was only on the show because of Tom and because she was often crabby people asked why she was even on. Especially because everyone loved Stassi and Ariana was a bitch to her for no reason. I'm also grown enough to understand it's completely unrealistic to find no fault in yourself for someone cheating if you treat them like shit in front of everyone and you also have practically no sex life. Jax called them out for this years ago. It's not an excuse to cheat but my point is that it's not hard to believe when your partner literally shuts down everything you want or need in the relationship. Tom should have seen the red flags when she said the more people asked her if they were going to get married the more she didn't want to. Who TF says that? So you'll deny your partner marriage and knowing that he wants both marriage and kids. All of those things are completely destructive. Tom wasn't perfect by any means, but no man would've stayed for that shit. If she doesn't get that through her head, expect the next man to do it. The fact is everyone is calling her a queen and she's not. There was nothing about how she acted in that relationship that is inspirational, unless you are looking to try and get rid of your partner. At the end of the day she thought she didn't have to do her part and when someone came along that would, well .... So yeah. I stand by what I said. She should be thankful Jax and Kristen banged so they could deflect her side chick status
You don't need tats. You don't seem like a tat guy. Not that there is a type. Stay with fake to see how you feel. It might be a phase.
Of course, do what you want. Just a suggestion, you may get it out of your system. Wishing you all the best.
Tom on Winter House Katie really liked you. I do understand, I've been single by choice for years. Healing is so important, being alone is essential.
Loving yourself and knowing your worth is key.
I must say," I watched a couple of your shows" they were very interesting as well real. Loved your show with Dr. Drew. My question would be if you really cared about Raquel, why didn't you stick by her side?no shade intended. Ive been a fan since the beginning.
Sometimes I wonder if people have actually watched the same show as I have! It wasn’t a healthy relationship on either side. I am surprised it lasted as long as it did. People get stuck in a rut, the routine of everyday life, then something exciting comes along. It happens and we all know it was handled wrong. The public put Ariana on a pedestal but she did play a factor in the scandal. I am not saying what you did was right, Tom, but I can understand why the affair happened.
While I appreciate whole heartedly that I do not know any of these people, I will admit my guilty pleasure is reality TV. I’ve been watching VPR since it started and to be honest the first episode I watched I laughed and thought, “WTF is this nonsense?” However, I got super into the show and watched every single episode. I, admittedly, felt as if I knew these people. 😊 Sorry for the long pre-fence!
My question for Sandoval is this; Do you or did you feel guilty while sleeping/sneaking around with Rachael? I think the majority of people who have an opinion, an interest, a “hatred” for your actions is the fact of the betrayal and sneakiness of it all. It seems to the average viewer that you don’t understand the outrage. And to be honest, most of us can’t fathom that you don’t get it.
My question is how much do yall really make per episode? Online it says 25,000 but why do sorm of you still live in apartments if your getting that much lol
Great show! Love seeing you guys just hanging out. Keep swimming ❤
Tom GET ON THE MIC. Everyone has to be up on the mic so we can hear you.
and now… the most important question… are you sponsored by alo?
you know how people say, do you even lift, bruv?
do you even do hot yoga, mate?
What’s the living situation Swarts and Sandy live together now? Where is Ariana?
Tom you handled bravo-con like a champ and you looked amazing!
As ozzy once told kelly…if you want to be cool nowadays don’t get any tattoos. It’s what everyone is doing and the point of it at one time was it was needlessly taboo
These sound like made up questions by the producers they all sound like well, the producer!
Getting a neck tattoo would be the nail in the coffin for you Tom hahahahah😅😅😅
No question just a comment. Sandoval I think you and Swartz need to have your own reality show. Kind of like LuAnn and Sonja from RHONY do. ❤
Schwartz my opinion, you are the hottest Vanderpump rules hottie and I feel horrible for saying this cause I’m old enough to be your mother my fiancé said that he liked Stasi the best, which is crazy to me but OK lmao we had had a huge debate dude I’m 46 maybe not old enough to be your mom but too old but I think you’re gorgeous i love your personality don’t change dude 😂🩵
You’re only 4 years older than Scando.
He lies about his age all the time and you are nowhere near old enough to be his Mother.😆😘
Stop saying like all the time, it's frustrating to listen to and makes him sound dumb
I love love Special Forces and I so wish Sandoval will win the whole thing..
He’s killing it I think he’s gotten the most passes out of anybody no? 😅
Alcohol is toxic and contributes to good people doing bad things. I believe You are a good guy that was raised better than Your past behavior reflected... proud of You for saving Your life by being alcohol-free now. You are looking so much healthier and happier these days. I like Your podcast much more than I thought I would ... sober Tom is very enjoyable!
Do you and Jax plan to do each other's podcasts?
kristen got her cheap shots in there too- she hit tom and tom A LOT
Live🌟Laugh🌟 Love🌟Temp neck tattoos
whats with the flaming mannerisms from tom sando in this? am i missing something?
I love the Tom’s 💕
Why is Sandoval lisping? It’s distracting.
My new fave podcast! :)
Please remember to keep mic closer to your mouth!
Bravo con TOM Sandoval get a neck tattoo!! I
Love that if it’s real !! You look amazing at Bravo con
U guys are SO FUNNY! 😂
Its Sqirts🤢and Scandoval 🤢🤮🤮🤮