indeed they did. but then again, there's a slight difference between "I'm one of the guys!" and "I work at a cooperative office to provide for my family, and dress well while I do so."
I genuinely feel so sad for girls like that, cause it’s all just internalised misogyny. It’s like they feel the need to present themselves as someone men will approve of instead of being able to be themselves. (Ofc there are women who don’t really like overly feminine aesthetics, but still support their friends who do!!) Ps. Being smart is ALWAYS cool and sexy hahaha
I mean Barbie walked so other girl bosses could run, she literally had hundreds of jobs while still taking care of her 3 sisters as she was the oldest, she owned her own fashion store, and she *still* somehow found time for herself and to hang out with her friends. Not to mention she lived in a giants dream house and had a horse, dog, and cat.
I'm so glad barbiecore is coming back. Women shouldn't battle one another just because of aesthetic and tastes; all women are queens, and no two are the same
Okay but I remembered queen of England Katherine Howard who was literally dressed up in pink and glitter in six the musical. She wasn’t smart at all (even had struggles to read because her family was very poor, and they needed to chose between new dress for ballroom or education and you know….16th century. Like the only music teacher for her what they afforded was pedephile.) but still, a queen. Even if most irrelevant among other wives of her husband……I know what she and Anne Boleyn were cousins and Anne grow up very rich, but cmon don’t you have poor and rich parr’s of family?
I think you totally nailed the idea behind why we are liking this style now. It almost feels rebellious to be super feminine even though there was once a time when dressing this way was the status quo and like the complete opposite of a rebellion. Its rebellious now though for the reasons you said, and it also functions as kind of a man repellent since so many of them now are like “ew thats too much makeup you’re clearly high maintenance and shallow i only like natural girls” and personally i like it because i LIKE that people underestimate me and my intelligence because of how i look, it makes it all the more satisfying when i prove them wrong and show them that being ultra feminine does not equal being vapid
I do makeup as a form of art. I mainly do it for myself and to show off. Because I like myself in makeup but I don't need to cover up too much because I couldn't care less personally. But if people expecially men start to think I'm high maintenance I'm going to laugh at them. I hardly ever style my hair, I can survive off of nothing for days because of my adhd and autism. As in I wear the same outfit, eat the same dish etc for days in a row and I wouldn't care. So I'm the entire opposite despite pulling up sometimes wearing bright pink and lilac makeup with white eyeliner on.
@@nikitatavernitilitvynova I feel this so deeply. It's such a rarity I wear makeup I practically have to buy the stuff every time bc it'll expire, but the glamor is something I strive for daily. If I go to the store& get asked what I'm dressed up fir, it's simply living babe 😎
The “not like other girls” thing is so true. In elementary school I was such a girly girl and loved all things pink and feminine and then our culture became weirdly anti-feminine again and I stopped liking girly things. What 10 year old would want to be hyper feminine when movies like mean girls and high school musical frame the hot pink blonde valley girl as a megabitch? I really hate that society became that way because it stole a part of my identity and childhood because for years I associated girlyness with materialism and narcissism
@@Givebackthescarf you made someone feel guilty when they confess that their childhood is ruined. Wow. Do you feel great now? Do you feel great dismissing someone else’s problems? It’s the equivalent of saying “Oh you are being abused? Don’t complain, people have experienced worse!” Dismissing someone problems just because there are facts but not facts to prove that their problem is invalid.
I used to absolutely DESPISED pink and it was all because I felt like I had to in order to hang out with my guy friends. But now that I’m older, I’ve actually grown to LOVE pink and it’s one of my favorite colors 😊 I’m so glad we’re starting to move past this idea that we can’t be “like other girls” hopefully no young girl has to feel how I felt
Same I had a room painted pink & I LOVED the color- but in order to fit in and separate myself I started saying that I hated pink and avoided wearing it because I didn’t wanna be feminine, well thank god that’s not me anymore- I LOVE PINK & I like being feminine- my mom gave me a bod and I’m gonna compliment it gosh darnit!!!!!
This is exactly how I am!! When I was a little kid, I was a huge tomboy and the color just made me mad for no reason. I was a hugeee "not like the other girls" type girl (this was like kindergarten-second grade tho-) Now my whole room and wardrobe are pink
I love this. Thank you. I’m not as into the Barbie aesthetic myself, but I’m finally wearing the “childish” things I was teased for again. Dianosaur socks, astronaut earrings etc. I’m happy to see this feminine rebellion against the idea that pink and girly are bad things and are juxtaposed to being smart and talented. Let’s go Barbie!
Barbie's whole thing is who she can be anything she wants while being hyper feminine. She can have everything without giving herself up and so can you besties💖💖
Tbh I hate ppl who say "I hate Barbie" like stfu she is pretty, has all the careers in the world and inspires little girls to be who and what they want!! Edit: y'all it ok if u don't like Barbie as much as I do!! I have a lot of friends who don't like dolls so yh
I KNOW RIGHT!!!!! Like liking girly things don't mean you are old fashion or immature not every girl should act like a depressed suicidal emo blah blah as they hit their teens
@@PopPrincesss brats is more problematic than barbie if you ask me barbie is more like a fashion icon and can be a nice role model to boost up girls confidence
I was always traditionally feminine but I also had a lot of tomboyish interests that I shared with my brother so I was kind of stuck between worlds. I constantly received the message that half of my personality was automatically weak, shallow, dumb, and mean even though I knew that wasn’t true. I managed to avoid buying into it enough to give up and join the not-like-other-girls crowd but it still affects you. The older I get, the more I realize that bashing femininity is blatant misogyny regardless of whether you’re hearing it from a dudebro telling you that women who wear visible makeup are sluts who try too hard or a certain subset of feminist telling you that you’re betraying your entire sex by not completely rejecting anything associated with a traditional gender role. Being yourself is the most rebellious act you can do when everyone wants to control you, whether that true self is Barbie pink, hard butch, or anything in between
this is the most relatable comment i have ever seen. im not even kidding. how you described yourself, it explains me perfectly. well, *kinda.* i dont like to be so overly feminine that its like weird, and im extremely tomboyish.
FINALLY! For so long I’ve tried to dress less feminine because I felt like I would be seen as more stupid in girly clothes and girls always didn’t want to look really feminine so it’s nice to hear someone say you can be feminine and smart.
My fashion goal, in addition to being essentally the result of putting all the goth styles into a blender and hitting puree with the force of a thousand suns AND looking like a forest witch, is to look like goth Barbie. Its what she would want for me. I know it.
I like your point with rebelling :) it’s kind of like when a girl grows up ‘hating’ pink cause it’s girly and then wear all pink and pastels in their 20’s ! Great video
@@jankk okay :) that’s for a different reason though, correct? It sucks that most young girls are forced to wear pink, which for some will create a reaction of believing they hate the color. But for others like you, they might just genuinely dislike the color which is also okay, which again makes it awful that the color is so forced upon a specific gender !
I grew up loving pink. But as I matured I realized how gross of a color it is to where. Don’t get me wrong it’s not a bad color a just don’t understand how someone would want to where it. I much prefer green or even better a neon purple. Or neon in general. Pink it just not a flattering color. Leave pink for nature ladies.
I'm enby but I think I went through half of both sides. Femininity was super expected in the area I grew up and I didn't like being girly, it made me genuinely uncomfortable and that caused me to push as far away from it as possible including pink. But nowadays, even if I'm still comfortably masculine, I like pink and some feminine things. They're not even my favourites (I adore green, sharks, and dinos most) I've accepted they speak nothing on my masculinity and I can like whatever I like without it being stripped away from me.
Yusssss… I was a punky heavy metal loving teen and now, being open about enjoying being pretty and pastel colours etc is probably more rebellious than that ever was as a ‘gifted child’… 😂❤😂
I was also a "gifted child" who was a punk heavy metal loving teen and is now open about loving pastel colors and being pretty were we separated at birth wtf-
@@rigormortis230 !!! It is the way. ;) I’m still alternative and love alt music and wear accessories that bridge the two like pastel spikes ahahah but yeh/ I mean, there’s gotta be a bit of spice in amongst the froufrou.. I never had dolls or girls toys etc, even as a small child. It’s a release to be able to be girly in a way. Lol although, I will admit I listen to a lot more Synthwave now…
@@Dimona_UK ahhhhh I still love alt music too! Honestly I don't even really know what aesthetic I lean toward anymore. I went from being really girly as a kid to being in my emo era during my early-mid teens and back to being girly in my mid-late teens. I'm kinda in aesthetic limbo now lol. P.S. must spread the Set It Off love. They're a pop punk band. Firmly believe they can't make a bad song.
I went from boring listening only to songs on the radio to feeling tomboy in middle school. To now where I dress howerver I want. And truly I don't even have a style. I sometimes wear very girly things. Sometimes I lean more mature and sometimes I can't stop wearing my boots with chains on them on the side. Or do a chain on chain with my black pants that also have them. One thing for sure I'm not boring at all. I also went from whatever was on the radio to Edm and a whole bunch of other things. I now listen to whatever I like or feel like.
I’ve been saying this forever!! Being girly and feminine doesn’t automatically make you not smart or talented. My inspo was always Barbie and Elle woods bc of their ambition (and aesthetics as well). I love pink and glitter and I work in STEM. I literally bring cute pens covered in glitter to my lab and still manage to be one of the top performing employees 😂 how you look has nothing to do with the kind of person you are. Ppl actually compliment my style at work while respecting me and my work ethic. You have to push through the societal expectations!
"I wanna love glitter, and also stand up for the double standards that exist in our society. I wanna wear pink, and tell you how I feel about politics. I don't think those things have to cancel each other out.“ - Taylor Swift
I grew up around media that always said that femininity is bad and forced on us and that all women want to do is be a tomboy and ‘not like other girls’. It always made me feel horrible that I liked pink and that my room was pink and then red, and that I enjoyed wearing dresses. But now that I’m an adult I just don’t care, I like being feminine and I found out a lot of people I know feel like this.
As a natural blonde, I used to be really insecure about my hair because I didn't want to be seen as stupid or called Barbie, so I'm glad the Barbie look is seen as more positive now :)
natural blonde here too!! i used to get bullied a lot growing up for being a dumb blonde so a part of me gravitated towards boyish things to prove everyone wrong. Now i'm experimenting more and it feels wonderful to finally feel comfortable in my femininity!
But she is really makes me confident and comfortable and don’t give a damn what bitches say and be a badass so thank you for making me feel loved for who I am and giving women rights ❤❤
Women who take pride in their appearance are actual goddesses. Not only are you smart and capable, but you ALSO put time into your style? Next level right there.
I have prom soon, so I was thinking of combining my femininity and my slight tomboyish aesthetic. I was thinking of a pink glittery three piece suit but I haven’t been able to find them anywhere 😅
Monster high core?! Wednesday addams meats barbie? These are good ideas if you ask me Also reminds me of my cousins wedding when I also wanted a suit but they wouldn't look good on me im short and I have short hair and dresses wouldn't look good on me either so I bought a jumpsuit it had glittery gold top and white bottom and it made me look taller try this if you wanna
Barbie is actually based on a German “fashion doll” that was mainly purchased by men. It was a doll of a sexy comic strip. Look up Bild Lilli doll, it’s quite a rabbit hole.
@@angemariano97 I’m sorry I’m gonna sound like a really under age kids rn- but i don’t have tiktok 😅 I guess it’s “against my parents rules“ (sorry it took me so long to reply. I’m working on an Etsy account!)
The only reason why I ever hated barbie, honestly, was that everyone just immediately assumed that since I'm AFAB I must absolutely love her, love everything pink, love everything sparkly and girly. It wasn't even about smarts vs looks, it was "you're a girl and girls must like pink so you must like barbie". It left a very sour taste in my mouth and basically became THE icon, within my personal life, of only being perceived as what my genitals say rather than what I am as a person. Also, for context, I'm trans
@@middleeasternforhire8985 AFAB stands for Assigned Female At Birth, AMAB is Assigned Male At Birth, it's basically what you were born as and is mostly used by transgender people if their gender doesn't fit how they were born. Hope this explains it, sorry if your comment was a joke.
Same here, I've slowly seperated certain things from the forced femininity but, even if I've stopped hating her I'll never like Barbie, she's the route and staple of what so many people wished I could be. Most of these issues come from my own experience as a trans/enby person but also some other things that Barbie (e.g being darker skinned, being a 'former gifted child', being a bit overweight) always showed I was less for.
@@hihilt2589 yea, I've seen a lot more variety in Barbie recently but the dolls all follow basically the same body type and could definitely still be expanded, like I've only really seen 2-4 different skin colours/patterns (Barbie white, a slightly different pale completion, black, and a doll with vitiligo) despite frequenting local toy stores. I have representation for a decent bit of who I am but I hope they continue getting a more diverse cast of dolls and becoming a realistic brand that represents more people and promotes being yourself.
Ngl, us ladies HIGH KEY did it to ourselves first, wanting to be "the strong ones" it's like we demonized ❤femininity❤ slandering it as "weak" for a long time, then _some_ guys played along not liking girly girls anymore bc they were then considered "lame" and then multiple generations just followed suit. It's sad really, our 💜femininity🏌🏾♀️ is a 🎉God 🎉given 🎉Essence 🎉, a glorious thing of you will, and the fact that we associated it with weakness to be more like "one of the guys" was just _tragic_ 😔
I love how Barbie is known for loving pink and being femiene but is the literal definition of feminism, since Barbie was created in 1959, aka after the war had ended and women were expected to go back to being housewives after working the jobs the men would normally work before they went off to war, but then in came Barbie, wearing a black and white "skimpy" swimsuit, telling young girls you dont need a man and that women in the workplace are now a permanent thing, which shows that you can be anyone and still be a feminist and fight for women's rights, love you Barbie!
Actually barbiecore is my fav its so unique i love it ppl told to be a masc boy but i love this pink feminine boy and she is right u can be smart and pretty at the same time 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
I love your aesthetic videos so much! I remember getting some reels of you before the Barbie movie came out and thinking like wow she is Barbie. You look great in pretty much everything and you never wear clothes, you style them to the max and I love your style so much. Keep up the great work ❤❤
I never got why they said Barbie was dumb or taught girls to be “bimbos” she was a literal doctor, veterinarian, astronaut! And so much more like??? So smart and loves fashion!? Best of both worlds just like my beautiful fiancé she’s my beauty Barbie girl and one hell of a genius
I love that you pointed out the pressures of being “not like the other girls” bc society really made me feel like I couldn’t be pretty AND smart.
same!!
indeed they did. but then again, there's a slight difference between "I'm one of the guys!" and "I work at a cooperative office to provide for my family, and dress well while I do so."
Yup
I genuinely feel so sad for girls like that, cause it’s all just internalised misogyny. It’s like they feel the need to present themselves as someone men will approve of instead of being able to be themselves. (Ofc there are women who don’t really like overly feminine aesthetics, but still support their friends who do!!)
Ps. Being smart is ALWAYS cool and sexy hahaha
Lucky me, I only got brains... (Sarcasm, by the way.)
" a smart, talented and badass b**ch who also likes glitter" is literally all I aspire to be ✨
Fr!🥰
@@im_a_barbie_girl_sophiayess😂😂
I mean Barbie walked so other girl bosses could run, she literally had hundreds of jobs while still taking care of her 3 sisters as she was the oldest, she owned her own fashion store, and she *still* somehow found time for herself and to hang out with her friends. Not to mention she lived in a giants dream house and had a horse, dog, and cat.
The owl house pfp 😮
@@-Raiden_shotgun- And a Demon Slayer pfp :D
Edit: Now it's Sonic 🫢
Edit 2: Ok, it’s back to Demon Slayer
she was the mfn president!
Btw can you do knight core
Among all her achievements, landed in the moon before the astronauts, and was the first woman president. All of that, while wearing high heels.
I'm so glad barbiecore is coming back. Women shouldn't battle one another just because of aesthetic and tastes; all women are queens, and no two are the same
Okay but I remembered queen of England Katherine Howard who was literally dressed up in pink and glitter in six the musical. She wasn’t smart at all (even had struggles to read because her family was very poor, and they needed to chose between new dress for ballroom or education and you know….16th century. Like the only music teacher for her what they afforded was pedephile.) but still, a queen. Even if most irrelevant among other wives of her husband……I know what she and Anne Boleyn were cousins and Anne grow up very rich, but cmon don’t you have poor and rich parr’s of family?
If the Greta Gerwig movie isn't at least 10% of this powerful and raw energy, it's over
Fr
She did a great job with Lady Bird and Little Women. I have faith
Yesss the way they destroyed the baby dolls in the trailer tho😂
yo Mr. House! What's going on on the Strip?
Just came back from the cinema
It. Was. AMAZING👏
Remember guys, Barbie survived the glitter shortage
I understood that reference😂
“AHHHHH”😂
HOW?!
I think you totally nailed the idea behind why we are liking this style now. It almost feels rebellious to be super feminine even though there was once a time when dressing this way was the status quo and like the complete opposite of a rebellion. Its rebellious now though for the reasons you said, and it also functions as kind of a man repellent since so many of them now are like “ew thats too much makeup you’re clearly high maintenance and shallow i only like natural girls” and personally i like it because i LIKE that people underestimate me and my intelligence because of how i look, it makes it all the more satisfying when i prove them wrong and show them that being ultra feminine does not equal being vapid
yes i love being smart, funny, creative, AND hot and feminine ! and idc what men (or other people with unresolved insecurities) have to say about it
I do makeup as a form of art. I mainly do it for myself and to show off. Because I like myself in makeup but I don't need to cover up too much because I couldn't care less personally. But if people expecially men start to think I'm high maintenance I'm going to laugh at them. I hardly ever style my hair, I can survive off of nothing for days because of my adhd and autism. As in I wear the same outfit, eat the same dish etc for days in a row and I wouldn't care. So I'm the entire opposite despite pulling up sometimes wearing bright pink and lilac makeup with white eyeliner on.
I've been trying to explain this for so long now and you just summarized it perfectly and hit it right on the head omg thank you
I feel there's this, and it's also to the point where it's life 'fuck whatever. I like the pretty *femme* energy'
@@nikitatavernitilitvynova I feel this so deeply. It's such a rarity I wear makeup I practically have to buy the stuff every time bc it'll expire, but the glamor is something I strive for daily. If I go to the store& get asked what I'm dressed up fir, it's simply living babe 😎
The “not like other girls” thing is so true. In elementary school I was such a girly girl and loved all things pink and feminine and then our culture became weirdly anti-feminine again and I stopped liking girly things. What 10 year old would want to be hyper feminine when movies like mean girls and high school musical frame the hot pink blonde valley girl as a megabitch? I really hate that society became that way because it stole a part of my identity and childhood because for years I associated girlyness with materialism and narcissism
The misogyny ruined my teenage days too. I literally started hating everything that’s girly and feminine.
@@Givebackthescarf you made someone feel guilty when they confess that their childhood is ruined. Wow. Do you feel great now? Do you feel great dismissing someone else’s problems? It’s the equivalent of saying “Oh you are being abused? Don’t complain, people have experienced worse!” Dismissing someone problems just because there are facts but not facts to prove that their problem is invalid.
I used to absolutely DESPISED pink and it was all because I felt like I had to in order to hang out with my guy friends. But now that I’m older, I’ve actually grown to LOVE pink and it’s one of my favorite colors 😊 I’m so glad we’re starting to move past this idea that we can’t be “like other girls” hopefully no young girl has to feel how I felt
same
I remember how everyone in school called pink a lame color😢 I used to like it but stopped wearing it because I wanted to be a cool girl
@@AM-vn4cc don’t worry, pink already is cool 😉
Same I had a room painted pink & I LOVED the color- but in order to fit in and separate myself I started saying that I hated pink and avoided wearing it because I didn’t wanna be feminine, well thank god that’s not me anymore- I LOVE PINK & I like being feminine- my mom gave me a bod and I’m gonna compliment it gosh darnit!!!!!
This is exactly how I am!! When I was a little kid, I was a huge tomboy and the color just made me mad for no reason. I was a hugeee "not like the other girls" type girl (this was like kindergarten-second grade tho-)
Now my whole room and wardrobe are pink
I love this. Thank you. I’m not as into the Barbie aesthetic myself, but I’m finally wearing the “childish” things I was teased for again. Dianosaur socks, astronaut earrings etc. I’m happy to see this feminine rebellion against the idea that pink and girly are bad things and are juxtaposed to being smart and talented. Let’s go Barbie!
Barbie's whole thing is who she can be anything she wants while being hyper feminine. She can have everything without giving herself up and so can you besties💖💖
That bathing suit is *EVERYTHING.*
Tbh I hate ppl who say "I hate Barbie" like stfu she is pretty, has all the careers in the world and inspires little girls to be who and what they want!!
Edit: y'all it ok if u don't like Barbie as much as I do!! I have a lot of friends who don't like dolls so yh
I KNOW RIGHT!!!!!
Like liking girly things don't mean you are old fashion or immature not every girl should act like a depressed suicidal emo blah blah as they hit their teens
@@middleeasternforhire8985 Right!!! I've seen ppl on Pinterest say "Barbie
@@PopPrincesss brats is more problematic than barbie if you ask me barbie is more like a fashion icon and can be a nice role model to boost up girls confidence
@@middleeasternforhire8985 Tbh I love them both but Barbie is way more Iconic and I agree with ur comment.
@@middleeasternforhire8985 Also little kids love Barbie dolls way more than Bratz.
I love that Barbiecore has such an impact on fashion nowadays!
I was always traditionally feminine but I also had a lot of tomboyish interests that I shared with my brother so I was kind of stuck between worlds. I constantly received the message that half of my personality was automatically weak, shallow, dumb, and mean even though I knew that wasn’t true. I managed to avoid buying into it enough to give up and join the not-like-other-girls crowd but it still affects you.
The older I get, the more I realize that bashing femininity is blatant misogyny regardless of whether you’re hearing it from a dudebro telling you that women who wear visible makeup are sluts who try too hard or a certain subset of feminist telling you that you’re betraying your entire sex by not completely rejecting anything associated with a traditional gender role. Being yourself is the most rebellious act you can do when everyone wants to control you, whether that true self is Barbie pink, hard butch, or anything in between
this is the most relatable comment i have ever seen.
im not even kidding. how you described yourself, it explains me perfectly. well, *kinda.* i dont like to be so overly feminine that its like weird, and im extremely tomboyish.
Barbie earrings are everything ❤
I love your tattoo some much. At the end you literally describe my whole aesthetic
FINALLY! For so long I’ve tried to dress less feminine because I felt like I would be seen as more stupid in girly clothes and girls always didn’t want to look really feminine so it’s nice to hear someone say you can be feminine and smart.
My fashion goal, in addition to being essentally the result of putting all the goth styles into a blender and hitting puree with the force of a thousand suns AND looking like a forest witch, is to look like goth Barbie.
Its what she would want for me. I know it.
100%, she would!
As a very old bat, may the elder goths bless you on your quest. Goth is super accessible now days and I know you can rock it!
Love this
@@truckerdave8465i only just saw this now and... Thank you 🥲. I will do my best to make my elder goths proud 🫡
Try Weirdcore next :D
I like your point with rebelling :) it’s kind of like when a girl grows up ‘hating’ pink cause it’s girly and then wear all pink and pastels in their 20’s ! Great video
I hate pink because it’s ugly. Blue is the most beautiful color that exists. I always hated having pink forced on me because of my gender.
@@jankk okay :) that’s for a different reason though, correct?
It sucks that most young girls are forced to wear pink, which for some will create a reaction of believing they hate the color. But for others like you, they might just genuinely dislike the color which is also okay, which again makes it awful that the color is so forced upon a specific gender !
I grew up loving pink. But as I matured I realized how gross of a color it is to where. Don’t get me wrong it’s not a bad color a just don’t understand how someone would want to where it. I much prefer green or even better a neon purple. Or neon in general. Pink it just not a flattering color. Leave pink for nature ladies.
I'm enby but I think I went through half of both sides.
Femininity was super expected in the area I grew up and I didn't like being girly, it made me genuinely uncomfortable and that caused me to push as far away from it as possible including pink.
But nowadays, even if I'm still comfortably masculine, I like pink and some feminine things. They're not even my favourites (I adore green, sharks, and dinos most) I've accepted they speak nothing on my masculinity and I can like whatever I like without it being stripped away from me.
@@J4CKS0N_D34R3ST that sounds like a very mature and healthy mindset :)
I don’t do pink but I have major respect for people who can pull off the Barbie look because it’s so iconic
Yusssss… I was a punky heavy metal loving teen and now, being open about enjoying being pretty and pastel colours etc is probably more rebellious than that ever was as a ‘gifted child’… 😂❤😂
I was also a "gifted child" who was a punk heavy metal loving teen and is now open about loving pastel colors and being pretty
were we separated at birth wtf-
@@rigormortis230 !!! It is the way. ;) I’m still alternative and love alt music and wear accessories that bridge the two like pastel spikes ahahah but yeh/ I mean, there’s gotta be a bit of spice in amongst the froufrou.. I never had dolls or girls toys etc, even as a small child. It’s a release to be able to be girly in a way. Lol although, I will admit I listen to a lot more Synthwave now…
@@Dimona_UK ahhhhh I still love alt music too! Honestly I don't even really know what aesthetic I lean toward anymore. I went from being really girly as a kid to being in my emo era during my early-mid teens and back to being girly in my mid-late teens. I'm kinda in aesthetic limbo now lol.
P.S. must spread the Set It Off love. They're a pop punk band. Firmly believe they can't make a bad song.
I went from boring listening only to songs on the radio to feeling tomboy in middle school. To now where I dress howerver I want. And truly I don't even have a style. I sometimes wear very girly things. Sometimes I lean more mature and sometimes I can't stop wearing my boots with chains on them on the side. Or do a chain on chain with my black pants that also have them. One thing for sure I'm not boring at all. I also went from whatever was on the radio to Edm and a whole bunch of other things. I now listen to whatever I like or feel like.
Omg your barbie moves are amazing
Barbie literally has maybe over 200 jobs. No dip she is smart and not to mention, still finds time to pamper herself.
Looking like a total barbie! 💖 I could never 😞
I’ve been saying this forever!! Being girly and feminine doesn’t automatically make you not smart or talented. My inspo was always Barbie and Elle woods bc of their ambition (and aesthetics as well). I love pink and glitter and I work in STEM. I literally bring cute pens covered in glitter to my lab and still manage to be one of the top performing employees 😂 how you look has nothing to do with the kind of person you are. Ppl actually compliment my style at work while respecting me and my work ethic. You have to push through the societal expectations!
girl I watched 3 of your videos and your already my favourite youtuber
"I wanna love glitter, and also stand up for the double standards that exist in our society. I wanna wear pink, and tell you how I feel about politics. I don't think those things have to cancel each other out.“ - Taylor Swift
as a swiftie, this is my favorite comment
I also love your work
I grew up around media that always said that femininity is bad and forced on us and that all women want to do is be a tomboy and ‘not like other girls’. It always made me feel horrible that I liked pink and that my room was pink and then red, and that I enjoyed wearing dresses.
But now that I’m an adult I just don’t care, I like being feminine and I found out a lot of people I know feel like this.
She’s literally the queen of fashion
As a natural blonde, I used to be really insecure about my hair because I didn't want to be seen as stupid or called Barbie, so I'm glad the Barbie look is seen as more positive now :)
natural blonde here too!! i used to get bullied a lot growing up for being a dumb blonde so a part of me gravitated towards boyish things to prove everyone wrong. Now i'm experimenting more and it feels wonderful to finally feel comfortable in my femininity!
SAME OML
THE SCRIBBLEBOB TATTOO IS AMAZINGGGGGG!!
I love all these outfits! 💕 You look great! Barbie was always PINK, PINK, PINK.
But she is really makes me confident and comfortable and don’t give a damn what bitches say and be a badass so thank you for making me feel loved for who I am and giving women rights ❤❤
Women who take pride in their appearance are actual goddesses. Not only are you smart and capable, but you ALSO put time into your style? Next level right there.
Those earrings 😍
I have prom soon, so I was thinking of combining my femininity and my slight tomboyish aesthetic. I was thinking of a pink glittery three piece suit but I haven’t been able to find them anywhere 😅
Monster high core?!
Wednesday addams meats barbie?
These are good ideas if you ask me
Also reminds me of my cousins wedding when I also wanted a suit but they wouldn't look good on me im short and I have short hair and dresses wouldn't look good on me either so I bought a jumpsuit it had glittery gold top and white bottom and it made me look taller try this if you wanna
do dreamcore next
FIRST LOVE YOUR CONTENT!!❤
Hi!!! Thank you luv! A lipstick for you💄
@@angemariano97 thanks!!
Okay you slay, but also loving the doodlebob tattoo 😂🩷
Barbie once defeated a haunted suit of armor by bludgeoning it with a mace. She was wearing a pink dress.
Bro u need to do cutecore!!!!! It is literally in my opinion one of the cutest and my favorite Style or aesthetic
the spongebob tattoo is the reason for my existence
Barbie is actually based on a German “fashion doll” that was mainly purchased by men. It was a doll of a sexy comic strip. Look up Bild Lilli doll, it’s quite a rabbit hole.
Second. OMG I'm early. Love your videos ❤ Could you maybe do Marilyn Monroe?
Two teddy bears for you!!!🧸 🧸and love this idea!! Adding her to my style icon to do list :)
Can you do kidcore next?
(Just ask if u don’t know what it is)😊
Yes!! I’ve done this one actually! It’s on my tiktok under the “aesthetic” playlist :)
@@angemariano97 I’m sorry I’m gonna sound like a really under age kids rn- but i don’t have tiktok 😅 I guess it’s “against my parents rules“ (sorry it took me so long to reply. I’m working on an Etsy account!)
Can you to cottagecore?
I love your vids!
When people call me barbie I say "ty because shes smarter and way more talented then you could ever be"
Cool doodle bob tattoo
In most the series and movies Barbie had like 40 proffesions. Like a doctor, lawyer, president, vet, astronaut, and I could just keep on counting
I love pink
The only reason why I ever hated barbie, honestly, was that everyone just immediately assumed that since I'm AFAB I must absolutely love her, love everything pink, love everything sparkly and girly. It wasn't even about smarts vs looks, it was "you're a girl and girls must like pink so you must like barbie". It left a very sour taste in my mouth and basically became THE icon, within my personal life, of only being perceived as what my genitals say rather than what I am as a person.
Also, for context, I'm trans
Afab? What does it mean? All fabulous?
@@middleeasternforhire8985 AFAB stands for Assigned Female At Birth, AMAB is Assigned Male At Birth, it's basically what you were born as and is mostly used by transgender people if their gender doesn't fit how they were born.
Hope this explains it, sorry if your comment was a joke.
Same here, I've slowly seperated certain things from the forced femininity but, even if I've stopped hating her I'll never like Barbie, she's the route and staple of what so many people wished I could be.
Most of these issues come from my own experience as a trans/enby person but also some other things that Barbie (e.g being darker skinned, being a 'former gifted child', being a bit overweight) always showed I was less for.
@@J4CKS0N_D34R3ST oh yeah, that's also definitely a part of it. It's only recently that Barbie has started to be more inclusive...
@@hihilt2589 yea, I've seen a lot more variety in Barbie recently but the dolls all follow basically the same body type and could definitely still be expanded, like I've only really seen 2-4 different skin colours/patterns (Barbie white, a slightly different pale completion, black, and a doll with vitiligo) despite frequenting local toy stores.
I have representation for a decent bit of who I am but I hope they continue getting a more diverse cast of dolls and becoming a realistic brand that represents more people and promotes being yourself.
Such a good message and you look gorgeous girl!
OMG that bit about rebelling against "nOt LiKe tHe OthEr gIRLs" it's exactly why I am a gyaru!
Your tattoo is awesome!!
If you ever feel like giving up remember…Barbie survived the glitter shortage - some random person on Pinterest
Yes girl you are amazing
Barbie has done EVERY career
That last line was beautiful 😌💅🏼✨
Hey! you probably won’t see this but can you do wierdcore or dark academia?
You can still be smart talented and accomplished, and not be reduced down to your looks ❤️❤️
Be a barbie one day and a tomboy the next... Best of both worlds.
Be true to yourself and never let yourself fall into just one box!
What an amazing video!!
Ngl, us ladies HIGH KEY did it to ourselves first, wanting to be "the strong ones" it's like we demonized ❤femininity❤ slandering it as "weak" for a long time, then _some_ guys played along not liking girly girls anymore bc they were then considered "lame" and then multiple generations just followed suit. It's sad really, our 💜femininity🏌🏾♀️ is a 🎉God 🎉given 🎉Essence 🎉, a glorious thing of you will, and the fact that we associated it with weakness to be more like "one of the guys" was just _tragic_ 😔
I love your SpongeBob tatto and your style♡
People forgot barbie was literally an ASTRONAUT like she's not a dumb blonde my guy 😭😭
Omg you should do weirdcore/dreamcore
I love the janky movements imitating a doll 😂
I love your doodle Bob tattoo!
How to master my little pony Equestria girls aesthetic? :3
Barbie's a girlboss❤
i hate the trope of "pink, girly, feminine, pretty= stupid"
like... its literally just style🤦
Do cottage grunge next please
Y2K or cottage core
I don’t like dressing like this but it looks amazing🤩
Maturing is realizing that it's not Barbie that's cringe, it's the people who make harmful stereotypes that being like Barbie is bad are.
I love ur videos so much. 😂❤❤❤❤
I LOVE YOUR SPONGEBOB TATTOO!!
Can you do hunger games aesthetic???? Pls it would make my day
cottagcore PLEASE!!!! also i love your videos
OMG NOT THE DOODLEBOB TATTOO THAT IS SO SLAY OF YOUUUU 💅😌
I love all your creative takes on different aesthetics 😍 could you please try cottagecore next? I think it'll look so good on you ❤️
Do weirdcore next !!!
Omg u look like barbie
I LOVE YOUR DOODLEBOB TATTOO ❤❤❤
Do grunge aestethic plsssssssssssss
You should cover the popular girl but modern
I adore that tattoo sm
I love how Barbie is known for loving pink and being femiene but is the literal definition of feminism, since Barbie was created in 1959, aka after the war had ended and women were expected to go back to being housewives after working the jobs the men would normally work before they went off to war, but then in came Barbie, wearing a black and white "skimpy" swimsuit, telling young girls you dont need a man and that women in the workplace are now a permanent thing, which shows that you can be anyone and still be a feminist and fight for women's rights, love you Barbie!
PLEEEASE do the mermaidcore aesthetic! :D
I love this❤❤
Your doodle-bob tattoo is STUNNING
Actually barbiecore is my fav its so unique i love it ppl told to be a masc boy but i love this pink feminine boy and she is right u can be smart and pretty at the same time 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
I love the doodle bob tattoo 😭😭❤️🔥
This has always been my aesthetic! I already own everything you listed! 😂💅🎀👛👙👠💄💋💗
I love your aesthetic videos so much! I remember getting some reels of you before the Barbie movie came out and thinking like wow she is Barbie. You look great in pretty much everything and you never wear clothes, you style them to the max and I love your style so much. Keep up the great work ❤❤
It’s so cool to see what she comes up with for these vids😂😊❤
I never got why they said Barbie was dumb or taught girls to be “bimbos” she was a literal doctor, veterinarian, astronaut! And so much more like??? So smart and loves fashion!? Best of both worlds just like my beautiful fiancé she’s my beauty Barbie girl and one hell of a genius