Sista Feels It's Wrong For Men Who Try To Date Her Not Disclose They Chase Bussy
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ส.ค. 2024
- Women should know upfront if a man likes bussy. It's not controversial to want people with the same interests as you. It's wrong to not disclose your truth to a potential mate. There is a community that will accept those choices, but straight people want to date straight people. We shouldn't be deceived, but that is wrong and dangerous.
there’s nothing “controversial” about what she said! It’s sad that her message has to be said at all!
Facts
I agree with her….👍
100%
But most BW call BM qay all the time anyway,
so what! Everyone gets talked about so just return the favor!
No they always need to disclose their sexuality that's not right to put Women's Health and women In Harm's Way
The same goes for women who are bisexual to men who only want to deal with straight women.
OR, women should insist that men wear a condom. 🙄
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@@tyronejones2553Bro, a bunch of these females be knowing these dudes are like that. They have friends that's like that even the males they see, and they still be going for it. I think that sista capping heavy.
Yep, and vice versa..these women putting men's health at risk too..
I absolutely 💯 agree with this sister. And it works both ways. Women need to do the same 🙏😉
Correct
Facts
Beat me to it
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Facts! Women need to be upfront also.
She’s right. I feel the same way about women. I have no interest in a bi-woman
Atlanta. That’s all you needed to say lol.
@@thesuperdingos REAL TALK
@@thesuperdingos I’m laughing for real 🤣
This about Atlanta is new to me.
If you are trans and B, be upfront
Women do the same thing! I want someone straight too. I don't women that like women. I know some dudes think it's cool, but I don't!
I don't knowingly lay with freaks and I certainly think a woman that goes both ways is a freak and a risk
Same, you basically dating a part time lesbian with them
Those "my girl got a girlfriend" type dudes are ruining it for everybody.
One of the few times a BW made a video that actually made sense. If you're gay or trans, say that and let a person decide what they want to do.
Everyone needs to be honest about who they are. If you're not a straight heterosexual man, don't date women who want a straight heterosexual man and vice versa.
What if you're a ho?
@@demetriusevans4139 She made a video that you finally agreed with.
Yup Atlanta is dangerous gay men are the most promiscuous group out there lesbian women the least bisexual men even worse
@@ebonyeyes7023🎯
She damn right, just like I wanna know if a female I’m interested in is really a female and not a male, I get it.
She’s 100 percent correct!
She’s right.
I a thousand percent agree with her because you playing with my health.👍
Hello @daishawilliams8301. FACTS (Sorry for putting the word in capital, but I had to. )
This applies 2 part-time lesbians/bi-girls also
"Bi" girls are part time lesbians technically lol
I AGREE, WOMEN SHOULD DO THE SAME, I DONT WANNA HAVE TO HEAR HOW YOU CHEATED WITH YOUR BESTFRIEND ON YALL GIRLS VACATION YALL BE DOING
I thought you all like girl on girl?! Oh, it's only when you get to participate. You don't want to be associated with anything other than heterosexuality, but as men you want your woman to participate in non-hetersexual activity. Asking her to be LGBTQ, to please you. Then become paranoid when she goes on girls trips. Smh.....
Here, here.
I couldn't agree more with her. Mind you, this should go both ways. It's important to know exactly who and what you're dealing with. Then, you can choose how you move forward.
This situation is a symptom of the degenerative American culture. Sisters, hire a PR to check out a man before you become serious with him.
Did you mean a PI?
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Damn 😂
😂😂😂 got dayum thanks for the heads up…. Shietttttt fk that lmao
🫠😂 hell naw
Being on the downlow has consequences! Ice-T was right
Hey man, i am not gay. I have relationships with women. And sex with men.
Damn, I'm keeping my distance from Atlanta!😮😦
I just got back from Atlanta two weeks ago and I seen them having a freak party 😂.
It's everywhere
It’s everywhere ma’am. I live in ATL and travel for work I see it all across the US. No escaping it. Just live your life righteously.
@@daishawilliams8301uh..disgusting..🤢🤢
ATL is the San Francisco of the south, and is in the top five of STD'S/ STI'S. So she better consider moving out of ATL cause it's bad there.
I live in ATL. It’s not top 5. It’s Philly, Memphis, Jackson, New Orleans, St. Louis, Baton Rouge, Montgomery, San Fran. ATL is not even top 10
ATL does have a high STD rate, they’ve been on lists for high cases of diseases for 3 years and counting now.
These punks and DL punks messed the A up 😢
@@PhdMusic03 Whoa, whoa, - Jackson as in Jackson, Mississippi?!?
@@PhdMusic03 Hell, I'm hearing Houston is coming up
Some of them don't consider themselves bi..even if they sleep with men..
Just one more day until June is over!!!
It's sad and extremely dangerous to not tell someone you go both ways. There is something for everybody they say. You hook with someone to only to reveal later you into risky behavior. Hiv is deadly and so is a pistol.
Shes right
If they're chasing Bussy, chances are, they wouldn't be chasing you
This is why I posted what I posted which is probably going to be deleted.
This is what they fought for.
Nah, i agree 100% percent with her!
Ain't these the same women that said Transwomen don't have to disclose that they are men?
Thank you!
Yep...
Yeah that’s true, they support that weirdo cause
I agree with her, if we as women don't want guys who've been with guys, then that's our choice and preference. Just like guys having a right not to be with a single mother.
Or guys having a right not to be with a woman who has been with women
Well....would women be honest with their body-counts?
If women aren't then men shouldn't have to say anything.
It is what it is. ;)
I agree. Everyone needs to be honest about their status, sexual preference and sexual health. Lies have consequences. Trans Men and Trans Women included !
She's correct, but that works both ways. That should be considered SA, failing to disclose your real SO.
I have no problem with it. She should also be honest about that body count!!
😂😂😂😂😂 it goes both ways.
Alot of women just love calling men gay when Men don't allow that women to disrespect them
But being honest and upfront is important
I notice when women shoot their shots at men and get curved they say “he’s most likely gay” like every chick is beautiful to all men. I have a certain look I go for in women, if she don’t fit that criteria I don’t bother wasting those women time because I know I won’t be invested lol. I seen it on a TV show earlier lol, dude was working and chick was tryna holla and he was busy so therefore he was gay because he didn’t bite the hook. 😅
People need to stop saying there is nothing wrong, with things that are obviously wrong!
I agree. They invalidate their whole message or response when they make that disclaimer.
She has the right to be involved in decisions that affect her, Periodt.
Sad that she even has to have this conversation smh
If you’re fabulous, you should tell about it! Period
There’s more downlow women than downlow men. When will the communitah acknowledge this….😂
girls being gay or bi isn't a problem for us lets be honest. Most bi girls really want the D
Getting passes as usual. They’re always talking about men transitioning into women. Nowadays, all I see is women transitioning into men. Let’s talk about that.
@MichaelImo No, because a lot of them be spread diseases as well. But no one wants to talk about that too
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@Blackrage843 my neighbor works in the health department. She says it 3 times more women carrying std's in jackson,ms
Lord is coming soon
Men like to say that they don’t come out because we will judge and not date them. You have to make them feel like it’s a safe space to be honest. Even then, some men fantasize about men and do other things. It’s not just an Atlanta thing. Then heterosexual men get offended you’ve asked. It’s hard out here 😅
Agree with what she is saying women gotta do the same it's wrong not to tell someone that
I use to love Georgia and wanted to live there if I became rich. But now, it's shameful what it's become.😢
Especially the people.
It's happening all over America and I live in another state and city and it goes on here. I don't know what's going on with some of the brothas but it's becoming more prevalent in our community.
In my opinion, they're pushing an agenda.
Especially on younger generations to indulge in that lifestyle
Where is that you live so I can avoid going there too lmao
At the start you saying Atlanta is all I needed to know
Hiding BS LIKE THIS from WHOMEVER you're dealing with causes MORE problems than ANYTHING.
My daughter had a baby 2 months ago and the nurse asked my daughter which assigned sex would she like for the baby! WTH!
I live in ATL. You’ll find just as many rainbows in Memphis or Cleveland. Also tell sistas to stop marchin in the frontlines of their movement and they won’t feel so comfortable runnin up under y’all.
I agree about the part about straight females marching in their frontlines and defending them
And us yay men shouldn’t support the sistas either. Always running to their defense against str8t BM. As a matter of fact blaq 🌈 should just disassociate themselves from the blaq community as a whole. Our true support and resources comes from yte folk if we were to be honest. Meanwhile blaq 🌈 started a whole movement (BLM) to support issues that mainly impact our str8t “brothas” and “sistas”.
As long as women disclose their sexual past and the health histroy of all their ex partners🤷♂️
You know that ain’t happening bro lmao
"Controversial?" Who's offended? Not me!😂🤷🏽♂️
I agree with her. Atl is teeming with DL brothers.
Theres more women on that time here then men.. they the ones spreading diseases bruh..
When my daughter was living in Atlanta she didn't date anyone there she had a friend was dating a guy who was also sleeping with men her friend found out when she got HIV from him.
Thank you unc Phil. Unfortunately America has become, just as its spoken of in the Bible. A place for every unclean spirit!
I completely agree.
Sisters also need to disclose if they date onteraccialy aswell. I deserve to know!
I have lived in Atlanta since 2004. It’s wild because I am really scared to date and or get into a relationship with a man here I have been thinking of dating outside of Georgia lately . Because I love my Status and it (Status) shall remain the same period!
You should just move all together but I get it, there’s a lot of convenience in Atlanta that’s hard to replicate outside. Yet if you looking for a partner you have a better chance outside of ATL…
Nowdays you gotta ask questions upfront.
Watch NYC too!
I agree with her. I want to know your body count so it seems fair to want to know whether or not a man is gay.
AMEN SISTER YOUR ABSOLUTELY CORRECT 💯
Nah welcome to sis 😂
Women need to do the same, alot of men dont want a "bi" (part time lesbian) for a girlfriend
Signs of the time and the LORD day of judgement toward earth should be no surprise. A wicked and twisted generation is going on our there.
As a Man in Atlanta she’s 100% right. There are so many DL men out here and the STD/HIV rate is too high for you to not ask these questions.
Yes, it’s always a good idea to be up front with a perspective partner. The timeline depends on the two people, though, if you’re going upstairs immediately, she deserves to know immediately. If you’re going for old school slow courtship, deeper relationship foundations may need to be set before talking about sex. But yes, always.
Same as a trans woman!!! They say the same thing...
Judgment coming to America!!
BW fought for and defended this. Accountability has many facets.
1:37 “ just like if you wanna date both men and women, there is nothing wrong with that“ Proverbs 17:15 “ He that justifieth the wicked, and he that condemneth the just, even they both are abomination to the Lord.” Kjv
There are so many people who are playing for both teams that it's hard to find someone whose just straight.
Most people are straight though...
@@robertcortez3526 On the dating sites and in my area it's strange I live in a rainbow friendly area.
@@robertcortez3526exactly 😂
Sad that she had to preface and defend her basic position. Damn shame.
Phil is absolutely correct 💯!
How are we going to let a small minority covert us into bowing down to their wicked abominations?
Go ahead and let that rule over you if you want. Judgment is about to fall on all who play, dabble, or consent by silence.
If you are not helping Christ, you ARE against him.
There is no need to disclose anything personal to anyone until they have mutually decided to become personal with each other. To seek that information before then is just being paranoid and nosy.
No u can not take away a women choice to choose a regular men✨️
The Skittles crew tales are real. Man and woman have a right to live with each other in real-time. Unapologetically
The biggest lgbtq supporters are complaining about what now? 😂
To even chase that is sick and disturbing
She is so right. Who a person decides to lay with is their business but when they decide to deal with a person who is into the same sex, and not the opposite sex and then wants to be with the opposite sex, I tgink they should know. People seem to think they can make those decisions for others, without telling , you are making decitions for the other person and it is not fair if they are not wanting that type of relationship . You are taking away their free will, because of your selfish reasons. They claim to be proud of who they are and standing in their truth, but scared to tell the truth.
We need transformers to identify themselves too. It’s the same thing!
It's a two way street if you not disclosing any and everyone you screwing how dare you think to believe the other party owes you that 😂😢
I agree but I also think women should tell about their std/hiv status.
This broad is right!
Plant a seed and it will grow.
Our women need to delete the seed that they intimidate men, when they are often have no feelings towards thoae who are more reserved.
They have confused being reserved for intimidated, while ignoring their own role in who they attract.
I’m learning Arabic and hoping to get out of this godforsaken country.
The problem is...mfers are too weird nowadays! People will do any/everything they tell us is ok, then wonder why we can't get right! 🤦🏾♂️😒
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She told no lies.
Nothing wrong with what she’s saying, but women think it’s doesn’t go both ways. I know women tend to be a bit more “curious” than men, but I didn’t think it would be EVERY woman I’d ever been with. Because holy crap. You can’t trust them around female friends any more than you could around male friends if they roll both ways.
You have selected rather poorly it seems
@@retrojay86 Is it poorly chosen when out of women that were polled as 100% attracted to men, 63% of them admitted to being SEXUALLY attracted to women? Another OKcupid data point said over 50% of women either admitted to having had gay experiences or wanted to. My guess is you’re older than I am (30) and don’t realize how far things have gotten with the current swath of young women. It’s not the same as a generation ago.
@@maia3420 still on the person choosing. Can't preach a message of accountability only to women.
@@retrojay86 I partly agree but when it’s literally the majority of women, it’s not possible for most men of my generation to get the kind of women you’re talking about. Literally not possible. Only 30-40% of them don’t engage in that behavior and even they tend to be highly promiscuous.
@@maia3420 you should only be looking for one though. One out of 30 percent of a large number is many potential options IF you're a quality man.
She's right.
Same thing with body count. A man has every right to inquire about how a woman conducted/conducts herself.
Frfr if she had a high count you know she had a lot of stds
You must be bi. Smh This comment seems very defensive. 🤦🏽♂️
Why cant women have this same energy when men ask about their body count? Just be honest so we can make an informed decision. Thats the main point.
Facts. I just type that but I included sex work. Let me know up front.
It's also wrong to rub carpet while chasing men. Humans (some) have been doing this for a few, uhh, thousand years.
Also, why do people ALWAYS bring up Atlanta and DL, when this happens everywhere? And before you say the obvious, most gay blacks live in Chicago and DC.
THE SAD PART IS OUR SISTERS HAVE THE HIGHEST HIV/AIDS RATES BECAUSE OF THESE UNDERCOVER BROTHERS.
THIS IS WHY I TELL B1 BROTHERS AND SISTERS ALL THE TIME. OUR NUMBER ONE ENEMY ATTACKS US FROM EVERY DIRECTION FAMILY, ECONOMICS, EDUCATION, POLITICS AND MORE.
I STUDY ALL MY ENEMIES FOREIGN AND DOMESTIC DAILY!!
I would never feel comfortable or safe dating in ATL. It’s sad that highly Black communities have to always be tarnished in some form or fashion.
You can't have it both ways. You can never have your cake and eat it to without a harsh cost.
A woman has both if you like that. Why, just why.
Yea! Transformers and decepticons are everywhere!!
She is 100% right, that is a minimal requirement. If they aren't up front that speaks volumes about their character.
She keeping it 1000
😬 ATL is out there 4 sure when it comes 2 the dating market. The lady is right tho. As grown adults, ppl gotta be up front w/ which gender(s) they messin wit 💯
Why is this even a conversation? People in that aspect need to say what it is up front or risk getting more than they feelings hurt.
That is so true. I can understand that the lady don't want no "issues" from down low men. It's called protecting herself.
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