I am sooo tired of carl playing victim...grow up man... kyle needs to get help for his anger issues..he does this every season...he can dish it out but can never take it..he explodes and then pulls the water works... I hope the women team up at the reunion and go against the boys.. we all need friends like gabbi,paige and ciara..those are girls girls..
Lindsay has no space to be soft when Carl is a pile of mush. Someone has to be the realistic one in the relationship. Bars turn profits mainly on alcohol so a sober bar is a stupid idea.
@@prima-madalina Word salad, for sure. The sign of a healthy mind is the ability to communicate. In decades of editing, I can see who is or is not stable and clear-headed based solely on the clarity and cogency of their writing.
facts spit it out .. say it with your chest . don’t try to be in control of my feelings or reaction to everyday life … let it out and we get through this .. not when you sugar coat or lie about it then change ya mind & apologize 2 weeks later ..🙄🤦🏽♀️ creating “theoretical or hypothetical situations for real life .. smh i can’t think like that lol Lindsey too straight forward & want a resolution
He doesn’t talk in circles. He just doesn’t know how to articulate in a way that makes things utterly clear for Lindsay. She’s a realist and requires communication in great detail. The type that reads all the instructions thoroughly and following to a tea before putting anything together or ever putting those instructions away. Problem is she’s not a good listener when not understanding someone nor does she realize she’s not understanding someone because she’s the type that needs more than great detail to understand what she hasn’t learned or experienced herself. This adds a lot of problems to all she requires in a relationship with someone so different than her. When someone regularly says the negative things on their mind, that’s exactly the energy they emit and life they ultimately live, even if they have fun and happy moments, it’s always big highs and big lows…chaotic, especially around people who don’t like this. Carl does require a gentle partner who gives a lot of understanding, and affirmations with love, affection and support that’s more loving instead of a realist type. Realists can be very negative because they naturally worry about the negative all the time (even without thought/just instinct) trying to prevent the bad from happening yet that same frame of negative mind/worry, often brings on the bad. They don’t see a lot of the good in the little things. They want and expect big highs, great things, the best, etc. which is actually a loss of reality; the opposite of reality for a realist happens a lot. Then they blow things out of proportion and emit a lot of negative energy. Carl’s been through a lot and is naturally deep down very sensitive so seeing the good in the little things is vital for someone like him. I have respect for both people here. However, Carl and Lindsay are not a good match, that’s pretty clear. But I also think Carl is living in a city with many realists that like to always say what’s on their mind. That’s a lot of constant blows to someone like Carl. Sadly, I don’t think NYC is a good fit for him either. It’s an awesome city but not for Carl to live.
@@julezett how can Kyle hate on Amanda’s work ethic but want to work with Carl?? He protects and believes in Carl more than his own wife. We shouldn’t take any of Kyle’s complaints about Amanda seriously if he thinks an addict who used to show up to client events high and drunk is an asset. It’s always been obvious to me Kyle just wants cast members connected to lover boy for branding purposes- i fully believe he doesn’t value them at all as employees and just uses them as free mascots/influencers.
Exactly. If you binge watch all the seasons through back to back it’s very apparent. The audience just has the gift of a year between seasons to forget. But the evidence is there. Carl is no angel either
Ohhh West….I had so much hope but it seems like your stuck in neverland. It’s ok to live that way in a sense but your coming to an age where you need to make decisions. If you’re not ready for a relationship, your best bet is transparency and honesty.
I totally agree with Paige. Look at Ciara!! What random chick are you going to find who is more beautiful than this queen??? Makes no logical sense besides he's scared of the "g" word.
I agree with Paige too! Also from what West has said he could basically find "the one" and he'd still want to be hooking up with random people regardless. West will be 30 this year but he sounds like a college kid who thinks that by avoiding calling someone his girlfriend he'll never have to take any responsibility. At a certain point it's time to be an adult.
She has zero personality, is immature and rude, and her room is a mess, she’s mean and boring and her boobs are fake. Looks fade-her personality lives forever.
Kyle being a DJ is because he needs to be the center of attention. It also gives him an excuse to spend even more time in bars. Amanda deserves so much better. I do not understand why anyone would find West attractive. Ciara is drop-dead GORGEOUS; West was lucky she was even interested in him.
1) Carl is actually completely wrong - Lindsay has a terrible tone / always has. But he is wrong and he’s extremely aware of how to manipulate the public. Many of us see through it. 2) Lindsay is calling out valid points - and Kyle is interesting because he would be / has been so upset dealing with Carl as an employee Carl is so hardcore manipulative - and that’s a lot to say when Lindsay isn’t my type of chick
I'm no longer on either side of Carl and Lindsay. It's obvious that they just never belonged together. Both of them have behaved atrociously and there is no real love there. It's the best thing for both of them that Carl finally called the wedding off.
Exactly! I’m on no one’s side. They were delusional thinking they could make the best friends turned lovers into a marriage. They don’t even like each other!
Exactly, this is why Danielle voiced her concern of moving too fast towards Marriage...of course you want to move to marriage during the "honeymoon phase" ....how you communicate thru real conflict...that is where you can tell if it is is true love
@@sogiki I agree with you! Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this. I'm glad Carl's mother and stepfather gave him advice. The advice came at the right time, just in time.
@@natalysentifconson-zj2gx Just when I was beginning to give up hope,a few people see through Lindsay!😆 She’s everything you said especially manipulative and talk about having to walk on eggshells around her…whew! She ruined several relationships with men and her “ timeline chart” wasn’t working as planned so she grabbed Carl up so she could stay on track for marriage and children. Boy,did Carl dodge a bullet with this one!
@@daniellemcintyre5445 yes… he’s smug and smirking anytime she asks valid questions. He expects her to marry him and merge finances without knowing where/how he makes money?? Whose going to fund this imaginary bar? How could he possibly enter one of the most high-stress industries that exists when he’s this indecisive and stunted?! Imagine a bad communicator like Carl managing a bar and having staff 🥴
@@daniellemcintyre5445 I agree with you! Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this. I'm glad Carl's mother and stepfather gave him advice. The advice came at the right time, just in time.
Why are people even taking sides. I don’t think I’ve ever seen two people more NOT suited for each other. They both knew at some level it was wrong and they both were making shitty choices. At least Carl had the guts to pull the plug because once married it’s much harder to split.
When I heard about them splitting, I didn’t think there would be any way I could dislike Carl. He has been looking worse and worse every after show. I’m actually team Lindsay now
Carl wants a Mom, he wants someone who will hold his hand as he flies by the seat of his pants. Amanda agreeing, well how’s that working for you Amanda?!
LMAO, these are the kind of women that end up single forever and then look up in their 40s and say why can’t I find anybody but they forgotten that they picked apart every little thing in their 30s and 20s and didn’t focus on the big things to have something established by now. No man or woman is going to be perfect and check all of your boxes , You simply decide what things you can work within what things you can’t. Yes, kyle is a dreamer however, Kyle is the one on record for having a dream and making it come true… I think it’s worth listening to his opinion about what he wants to do next. We’re gonna have a repeat oh, and Craig said he wanted to quit law and just see…. Everybody who laughed then can’t get an invite now.
I don’t think either of them honor each other. Carl recently lost his brother to suicide and is in early recovery and she says she won’t be nice or soft until he gets a job? Both need to accept this relationship is not it.
Lindsay is difficult for sure but Carl is so coached and rehearsed it’s difficult to know what’s real with him. He needs everyone to be on his side but still be seen as the ‘Nice guy’ and he gets frustrated when he’s not getting what he wants. Boring.
To me, this is the moment where Lindsay should've woken up. I think Carl already knew this wasn't working and they weren't compatible. But Lindsay has all this energy with her girlfriends about how Carl wants someone that's not her, but still is confused by him wanting to breakup. YALL WANT DIFFERENT THINGS OUT OF PARTNERSHIP. YALL ARE NOT COMPATIBLE. To me, after this, there's no way she was blindsided by this break up. No F'n Way. I think she was just mad she wasn't the one to pull the trigger.
I agree with you 100%! Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this. I'm glad Carl's mother and stepfather gave him advice. The advice came at the right time, just in time.
Wes is telling Ciara he’s not ready for a relationship. She needs to move on from him. Lindsay and Carl are both insufferable together. They don’t listen to hear each other. Communication is key.
I love how the narrative before season started that everyone was on Carl side and he even said "you'll understand why i broke up with her" and it's like bruh this is proof you have terrible communication skills
Carl and Kyle are both being so fucking selfish. Carl is just being more passive aggressive about it, while Kyle is legit just aggressive. Neither of these men are ready for kids.
4:42 Gabby is 100% right (not even just with Lindsay & Carl) but women do tend to soften up and submit when we have a man that we can trust to lead us and lead the relationship…
Carl has an answer for everything but he is never the problem. If all the things he is saying are his passion, why has he not done it? He has no drive to do anything. He could have said: you know what Lindsay , I will show you that my plans will work.
@@Thedaisyeffecty’all gotta stop with that narrative. He’s making money in the exact same way as Lindsey.😂 $70,000 on brand deals alone + the significant show salary & the other side deals he has is FAR from not making any money. She just wants what even she doesn’t have, which is a legitimate, stable, consistent job, not just income from deals that isn’t ever certain or guaranteed, because she didn’t want to have to work after they got married, she wanted to immediately get pregnant & stay at home (& only mentioned this a few months before the wedding). They are BOTH responsible for the end of the relationship (which they never should have been in in the first place), and there’s a lot to criticize about how both are behaving…but this ridiculous, hypocritical narrative she’s trying to push about Carl not making money, when he absolutely does, and makes it the exact same way she does Deals + Show, is just foolish to keep entertaining.
Cocktails, non alcoholic beer, & sober centered things are getting a lot more popular. The idea could be expanded on.. but she just immediately shut it out. I work at a place that's been open and popular for 20 years, this season, they added a mocktails section to the menu, because it's lucrative..
@@kayleethompson5244 not in nyc!! you need liquor to compete and make profits in the bar/restaurant scene in NYC. Lindsey's PR firm specialized in NY restaurants/bars and had to close down because so many of her clients went out of business during covid. he should take her advice.
Kyle is a great guy and so funny and hardworking. Kyle is the reason I started watching the show! Kyle needs to sort out the things that connect him with Amanda. Kyle needs to divorce her! I'm so tired of her. She's so selfish and doesn't appreciate Kyle. She talks to him disparagingly all the time, even in front of other people in the room. She doesn't love him!
Lindsay is the worst out of all of them. They were all right about her at last year's reunion. She is a huge gaslighter and when Carl does not take the bait, he gets called a narcissist. Everyone, has narcissistic traits. Some high some low. That is where I place Carl just like them all. But Lindsay is a full blown narcissist. It's. Ore on display now that she got on that ozempic diet and started wearing tighter and less clothing. Men want soft women. She acts like a man and that is a turn off. Carl needs to be with someone who doesn't drink. PERIOD
I honestly think they are both missing each other with communication. I don’t think it’s anyone’s fault. These two are not compatible and it shows in their communication over and over. They both are not taking the time to listening to each other and understand one another. Marriage is honestly all about that. If you can’t do that in general than you shouldn’t get married.
@@keirybreedy8791can you provide example of a successful one? I’m genuinely curious. And whose money would Carl be using? He could literally bankrupt his wife if it went south
Gabby and Lindsay have no idea how to be in a successful relationship and they feed each other in such a toxic way. And I like them both, but your partner’s needs need to matter too.
Carl is a lot of work (and honestly not worth the effort that he requires). West seems likeable, floral pants and all. However Jesse (of all people) questioning how many women would have called West their boyfriend - questioning West's approach to and ideas about relationships - is why this show is a giant no.
Anybody that's been watching Lindsay and Carl knew this marriage was never going to happen. Lindsay would marry anyone just to say she got married. And Carl?
Carl and Lindsay's "engagement" always felt painfully performative. Now that it's over, time for a cast shake-up. They can leave along with long ignored Gabby. On the upside, West and Jesse are great additions and their friendship has been heart-warming.
How are Kyle and Carl more immature and emotional now at 40 than they were Season 1? Kyle chooses a chill, creative girl and then suddenly wants her to be passionate and grinding everyday like him. Carl chooses a strong, assertive girl and then wants her to be a soft flower who doesn’t ask questions. I swear these Bravo cameras are like time machines for men incapable of growing up!
@@Tquin55 becuase he's an idiot. he renewed a lease with both of their names on it and then broke up with her like a month later.. he could have just communicated better and saved them both the money.
@@prima-madalina. Or he was still hopeful when they signed the lease. So easy to sit behind your keyboard and make judgements when you see 2% of these peoples lives.
Karl needs to save his bravo checks bc he does NOT have a JOB! No expensive soccer vip tickets. I haven’t always been a fan of Lindsey or Karl but Lindsey has made nothing but sense in babysitting Karl in his recovery and pursuit of adulthood. She is telling him hard truths and asking him the direct questions he doesn’t ask himself. A sober bar? Do you mean Chili’s without margaritas or Dave and Buster with no beer? Who is going? Tweens…I’m exhausted for her.
Exactly! Amanda constantly speaks disparagingly to Kyle in front of other people and behind his back. She should be ashamed. And she wonders why he is in no hurry to buy a house in the suburbs? Show more respect for your husband. Amanda doesn't help Kyle with the business, even though she knows they have debts. And at the most difficult time, when Kyle asks Amanda for help and to be more involved in «Loverboy», she tells him that she wants to do something for herself (swimwear). Amanda is so SELFISH. Does Amanda realize that she lives on the money that Kyle earns by running "Loverboy" that needs help getting rid of debts? Amanda DIDN'T WANT TO SIGN A PRE-NUP before the wedding. She said: «I WON'T SIGN A PRE-NUP because if Kyle divorces me, I'LL GET HALF OF HIS COMPANY ALONG WITH THE MONEY». Those who haven't seen it can go and watch it in the sixth season of Summer house. Amanda MARRIED KYLE NOT FOR LOVE, BUT FOR MONEY! If "Loverboy" goes bankrupt, Amanda will go bankrupt too. With what money does Amanda want to start her own business selling fashionable swimwear? They both live on the profits from "Loverboy". If "Loverboy" goes broke, her dream of creating swimwear collections will not come true! Interestingly, Amanda doesn't want to work for "Loverboy", but wants to get half of the company along with the money if she and Kyle get divorced. It turns out that Amanda IS WAITING FOR KYLE TO GET RICH BY HIS OWN EFFORTS and "Loverboy" to begin to prosper, in order to divorce Kyle at that very moment. Amanda wants to get half of "Loverboy" along with the money WITHOUT INVESTING HER OWN EFFORTS in the prosperity of "Loverboy". SIGN A PRE-NUP AMANDA and then do whatever you want. I can see how treacherous you are Amanda. Amanda behaves as if Kyle is obliged to provide her with everything she wants. In my opinion, she doesn't love him and married him only for money.
Carl, how, after 8 years, are you just noticing your shorts are too short and pants too tight?!?!?! Who agrees that he must have made fun of Kyle's orange shorts and them being so short? lol I bet he didn't even know they were Ciaras.
Regardless of who's "side you're on" I think it's obvious that Carl did the right thing!! She should stop bi**hing about him and be thankful he had the guts to break it off! They both want each other to completely change and it's obvious Carl is terrified of Lindsay so whatever, thank goodness he didn't go through with it just to divorce a month later. I kinda feel like she was delulu to even think they should have gone through with it
he's not scared of her, it's his fake nice guy act. watch the older seasons, he used to scream in her face. they're both unhinged and his mask is coming off.
Lisa Spence I agree with you! Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this. I'm glad Carl's mother and stepfather gave him advice. The advice came at the right time, just in time.
Exactly! Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this.
Y’all, I know it’s not funny, but Carl just leaving and being like “f**k it” when Lindsay told him she needed to put her stuff in the car is hilariously petty 😂😂😂 Cause why would he do that?!
At some point, you have to think... "I'm like 40. I've had SEVERAL relationship that were ALL toxic l, filled with screaming matches and ridiculous fights....maybe it's not everyone else." She's constantly demanding these men be perfect or she flips out and is mean AF but they should give her all the grace and compassion in the world...and make her sandwiches.
Exactly! Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this.
@@natalysentifconson-zj2gx YASS! She does scare them. I don't think in the decade we've been watching she's ever said "I was wrong", "I fugged up", "I probably shouldve done ______ different." and ALL "I'm a victim. He's the worst person ever who hurt me. My feelings, my feelings, my feelings, my wants, my needs." All it ever is. No growth there.
I completly agree with everything Gabby said regarding Lindsay/Carl. Ive never been on either side rock solid. I have fluctuated my opinion alot over the years regarding both of them (L + C). But after hearing Gabbys perspective. Ive gotta say I really feel like I may actually be a lindsay supporter here.
Carl is not sober, he says last season that he's California Sober but I think he doing more than smoking weed all day because look at him with his speech and his eyes tell it all !! Carl is far from being a man because he is 40+ years old and still looking for a job that makes him happy and that he enjoys ??? Every man I know at 40+ has their retirement plan completely planned out and isn't taking a year off work to find himself, he says he wants a job that makes him happy and that he enjoys ?? OMG Carl used TF out of Lindsay for an entire year, never planned on marrying her, and lived his best life because of Lindsay. I see people saying well he gets paid $250,000 from the show but that isn't nothing living in NYC !!! Lindsay has her quirks but come TF on Carl is lazy, used the excuse of his brother which is sad, and even cry's to his mommy and step daddy that he is still working on himself but he ISN'T because he's not SOBER !!!
Why does west constantly look like he’s about to burp? Honestly… everyone goes on about how amazing he is but I just don’t see it, also he’s not attractive THERE I SAID IT. I’m sorry, he should be so fuckin lucky to bag a girl as hot as Ciara (she’s a frickin model)
I agree with you! Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this. I'm glad Carl's mother and stepfather gave him advice. The advice came at the right time, just in time.
I agree with you! Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this. I'm glad Carl's mother and stepfather gave him advice. The advice came at the right time, just in time.
Lindsey's *SINGLE* mouthy friend is probably a decent chunk of why she's NOT getting married now. 🙄 Get better friends instead of just surrounding yourself with people who only tell you what you want to hear 🤨
Not to be rude or anything but is Carl on something? Or is he back drinking & is just drunk on the after shows? Every after show something seems off with him but I can’t quite put my finger on it.
@TamGotDaJuice07 Carl is only California Sober and remember at the reunion that he swore that he couldn't go California Sober because it would just lead to down to where he was before which was ROCK BOTTOM !! That's why if you watch back last season you'll see Lindsay ask Carl how much weed did you smoke today when he was being aggressive and argumentative at the bar and Carl said not that much but Lindsay said Carl gets super aggressive and argumentative when he's super high and Carl even apologized to Lindsay the next morning saying he knew he was in the wrong !! So Carl can get high everyday all day long but Lindsay can't drink, hell no Lindsay stopped drinking completely for 6 months to completely support Carl until Carl started smoking weed again saying he needed to take the edge off !!! I see what you're seeing and believe Carl is doing more than smoking weed all day and Carl IS NOT SOBER !!!
Lindsey is insufferable and there’s a reason she’s not married with children like she wanted to be by now. Carl needs to work on himself before getting into another serious relationship.
I agree with you! Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this. I'm glad Carl's mother and stepfather gave him advice. The advice came at the right time, just in time.
I agree with you! I'm glad Carl's mother and stepfather gave him advice. The advice came at the right time, just in time. Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this.
I will keep asking over and over, in what world was Lindsay blindsided? After these episodes, it almost seems like SHE is about to call the wedding off! Andy better grill her on this at reunion because it is so confusing how these 2 could possibly think they are even 5% compatible
ola3rd I agree with you! Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this. I'm glad Carl's mother and stepfather gave him advice. The advice came at the right time, just in time.
Carl and Lindsay shouldnt be together and im team no one but i dont understand how everyone is team lindsay she has a hard time listening but expects things her way why ask him what does he need from u if when he tells u what he needs u tell him ur not capable of doing that
It felt like after Carl told Lindsey his stepfather wouldn't marry them, he shifted. He started speaking more harshly with Lindsey and acting more offended by her. He was distancing himself mentally because he had already decided on some level that he was out. And maybe if it hadn't been 9 months of him being undecided, Lindsey might have been more supportive.
Karl is complaining and Kyle is agreeing yet this is EXACTLY what Kyle is doing to Amanda .. not being supportive or “soft” towards what she wants to do with her life
Carl is coming across vindictive and passive aggressive imo. He acts out in passive aggressive ways. The suitcase situation and every aftershow he is feeding the narrative of Lindsay being a villain, hmmm.
I'm sorry, but I'm still so far Team Carl on this. Dealing with someone as manipulative and toxic as Lindsay is draining. When you start to stand up for yourself, they twist your words and the narrative, painting you as the villain. When in reality, you're just giving them a taste of their own medicine!!
I agree with you! I'm glad Carl's mother and stepfather gave him advice. The advice came at the right time, just in time. Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this.
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I am sooo tired of carl playing victim...grow up man... kyle needs to get help for his anger issues..he does this every season...he can dish it out but can never take it..he explodes and then pulls the water works... I hope the women team up at the reunion and go against the boys.. we all need friends like gabbi,paige and ciara..those are girls girls..
❤ totally agree
jesse portrayed whole season as a player when its actually west
They’re the same. Birds of a feather.
I do not find either of them attractive.
It is like the sitcoms... beautiful women and unattractive men.
@@okand5138idk even Jesse was giving him some “wtf” looks here.
Both of them are. I saw through West. Jesse has more respect because he is out in the open.
@@maggiesamson337 but hes the trash bag”
Lindsay has no space to be soft when Carl is a pile of mush. Someone has to be the realistic one in the relationship. Bars turn profits mainly on alcohol so a sober bar is a stupid idea.
A sober bar is literally the dumbest idea ever
@@shidditylike a fashion show without any fashion. How dreadful
@rlast4698 😂😂😂😂. IYKYK!
Paige is such a girls girl. She is a loyal ride or die in all the best ways.
Wish Lala and Scheana could be this type of friend
Paige and Katie know how to be a loyal friend
Yes, for her girlfriends. Not her boyfriend.
Carl is a very poor communicator. Even worse than Lindsay. He talks in circles. It’s infuriating
It’s called narcissistic world salad. They thrive on the spirit of confusion.
@@prima-madalina Word salad, for sure. The sign of a healthy mind is the ability to communicate. In decades of editing, I can see who is or is not stable and clear-headed based solely on the clarity and cogency of their writing.
facts spit it out .. say it with your chest . don’t try to be in control of my feelings or reaction to everyday life … let it out and we get through this .. not when you sugar coat or lie about it then change ya mind & apologize 2 weeks later ..🙄🤦🏽♀️ creating “theoretical or hypothetical situations for real life .. smh i can’t think like that lol Lindsey too straight forward & want a resolution
@@Perfect10wChocolateskin YES!
He doesn’t talk in circles. He just doesn’t know how to articulate in a way that makes things utterly clear for Lindsay. She’s a realist and requires communication in great detail. The type that reads all the instructions thoroughly and following to a tea before putting anything together or ever putting those instructions away. Problem is she’s not a good listener when not understanding someone nor does she realize she’s not understanding someone because she’s the type that needs more than great detail to understand what she hasn’t learned or experienced herself. This adds a lot of problems to all she requires in a relationship with someone so different than her. When someone regularly says the negative things on their mind, that’s exactly the energy they emit and life they ultimately live, even if they have fun and happy moments, it’s always big highs and big lows…chaotic, especially around people who don’t like this.
Carl does require a gentle partner who gives a lot of understanding, and affirmations with love, affection and support that’s more loving instead of a realist type. Realists can be very negative because they naturally worry about the negative all the time (even without thought/just instinct) trying to prevent the bad from happening yet that same frame of negative mind/worry, often brings on the bad. They don’t see a lot of the good in the little things. They want and expect big highs, great things, the best, etc. which is actually a loss of reality; the opposite of reality for a realist happens a lot. Then they blow things out of proportion and emit a lot of negative energy. Carl’s been through a lot and is naturally deep down very sensitive so seeing the good in the little things is vital for someone like him.
I have respect for both people here. However, Carl and Lindsay are not a good match, that’s pretty clear. But I also think Carl is living in a city with many realists that like to always say what’s on their mind. That’s a lot of constant blows to someone like Carl. Sadly, I don’t think NYC is a good fit for him either. It’s an awesome city but not for Carl to live.
Carl and kyle should just date each other they are a perfect fit
Not possible: Carl doesn't have the right work ethic and drive for Kyle 🫠
Carl & Kyle are Tom Sandoval & Tom Swartz
@@alicemanno248 exactly!!!
@@julezett how can Kyle hate on Amanda’s work ethic but want to work with Carl?? He protects and believes in Carl more than his own wife. We shouldn’t take any of Kyle’s complaints about Amanda seriously if he thinks an addict who used to show up to client events high and drunk is an asset. It’s always been obvious to me Kyle just wants cast members connected to lover boy for branding purposes- i fully believe he doesn’t value them at all as employees and just uses them as free mascots/influencers.
@@julezett Truth!
Carl knows that ppl have polarizing views of Lindsay so he pushes the narrative that she's always the villain but he has a dark side too.
Totally agree !!!!!!
I cldnt agree more..carl is such a gas lighter and manipulator..I am def team hubbs..carl has a lot of growing up to do and stop playing victim
That part
Yess 1000%
Exactly. If you binge watch all the seasons through back to back it’s very apparent. The audience just has the gift of a year between seasons to forget. But the evidence is there. Carl is no angel either
Ohhh West….I had so much hope but it seems like your stuck in neverland. It’s ok to live that way in a sense but your coming to an age where you need to make decisions. If you’re not ready for a relationship, your best bet is transparency and honesty.
West literally looks like Robin Williams playing adult Peter Pan in the movie Hook
Omg the men in this show make me feel so happy I’m single… They legit are all toddlers
At least toddlers eventually grow up...these douche bags are the worst!
I totally agree with Paige. Look at Ciara!! What random chick are you going to find who is more beautiful than this queen??? Makes no logical sense besides he's scared of the "g" word.
I agree with Paige too! Also from what West has said he could basically find "the one" and he'd still want to be hooking up with random people regardless. West will be 30 this year but he sounds like a college kid who thinks that by avoiding calling someone his girlfriend he'll never have to take any responsibility. At a certain point it's time to be an adult.
Agreed! Ciara is everything & could have anyone! 👸🏿
She has zero personality, is immature and rude, and her room is a mess, she’s mean and boring and her boobs are fake. Looks fade-her personality lives forever.
So happy she stuck to her grounds in not jumping into bed with him! He clearly didn’t deserve it!
I'm a straight female and I'd date Ciera 😍
Carl needs a woman who will read a script of approved speaking points.
Good one!
Lol totally agree
Kyle being a DJ is because he needs to be the center of attention. It also gives him an excuse to spend even more time in bars. Amanda deserves so much better.
I do not understand why anyone would find West attractive. Ciara is drop-dead GORGEOUS; West was lucky she was even interested in him.
1) Carl is actually completely wrong - Lindsay has a terrible tone / always has. But he is wrong and he’s extremely aware of how to manipulate the public. Many of us see through it.
2) Lindsay is calling out valid points - and Kyle is interesting because he would be / has been so upset dealing with Carl as an employee
Carl is so hardcore manipulative - and that’s a lot to say when Lindsay isn’t my type of chick
Carl stopped using illicit substances but he still has the manipulative gaslighting behaviors of an addict.
Yes, SO manipulative. It actually makes me feel sick.
@@iloveeverything5 the way he smirks when she gets upset makes my skin crawl
I'm no longer on either side of Carl and Lindsay. It's obvious that they just never belonged together. Both of them have behaved atrociously and there is no real love there. It's the best thing for both of them that Carl finally called the wedding off.
Exactly! I’m on no one’s side. They were delusional thinking they could make the best friends turned lovers into a marriage. They don’t even like each other!
Eh. Lindsay is actually delusional and I can’t believe how bad she looks barking on the the after show and still insisting she’s right.
Exactly, this is why Danielle voiced her concern of moving too fast towards Marriage...of course you want to move to marriage during the "honeymoon phase" ....how you communicate thru real conflict...that is where you can tell if it is is true love
@@sogiki I agree with you! Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this. I'm glad Carl's mother and stepfather gave him advice. The advice came at the right time, just in time.
@@natalysentifconson-zj2gx Just when I was beginning to give up hope,a few people see through Lindsay!😆 She’s everything you said especially manipulative and talk about having to walk on eggshells around her…whew! She ruined several relationships with men and her “ timeline chart” wasn’t working as planned so she grabbed Carl up so she could stay on track for marriage and children. Boy,did Carl dodge a bullet with this one!
He was gaslighting her non stop. No matter what she says it would been received as an attack
Are you even watching the same show?
@@daniellemcintyre5445 yes… he’s smug and smirking anytime she asks valid questions. He expects her to marry him and merge finances without knowing where/how he makes money?? Whose going to fund this imaginary bar? How could he possibly enter one of the most high-stress industries that exists when he’s this indecisive and stunted?! Imagine a bad communicator like Carl managing a bar and having staff 🥴
@@daniellemcintyre5445 I agree with you! Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this. I'm glad Carl's mother and stepfather gave him advice. The advice came at the right time, just in time.
The smarter the woman the harder it is to find the right partner
Why are people even taking sides. I don’t think I’ve ever seen two people more NOT suited for each other. They both knew at some level it was wrong and they both were making shitty choices. At least Carl had the guts to pull the plug because once married it’s much harder to split.
Yep,Lindsay wasn’t in love with Carl,she was in love with fulfilling her timeline for marriage and children.
Yeah as soon as he went with her not even a year into sobriety I knew it was a lost cause
When I heard about them splitting, I didn’t think there would be any way I could dislike Carl.
He has been looking worse and worse every after show.
I’m actually team Lindsay now
That's unfortunate for you lol
I totally agree her ways distroy her message, but it´s obvious he is a crying baby.
10000%
1000% agree. I never thought there would come a day where I would be team Lindsay... but Carl is really showing his true colours.
@@spring_bean8183 same
I f**ing love this season of summer house. Talk about adulting 101!!👏🏾
Carl wants a Mom, he wants someone who will hold his hand as he flies by the seat of his pants. Amanda agreeing, well how’s that working for you Amanda?!
She literally knows from experience. Except she is married and values the concept of marriage. Amanda will eventually get tired and choose herself.
All of the guys are so immature. Jesse might be the most mature guy. Sad.
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Jesse has faced real life challenges, which makes him mature and able to see the big picture
It's only the guy that are immature? lmao. Every single PERSON on this show is immature.
Also, Ciara is is absolutely stunning. She can do SO much better than Wes lol
then she's smart, hilarious, skilled. West was punchinggg
LMAO, these are the kind of women that end up single forever and then look up in their 40s and say why can’t I find anybody but they forgotten that they picked apart every little thing in their 30s and 20s and didn’t focus on the big things to have something established by now. No man or woman is going to be perfect and check all of your boxes , You simply decide what things you can work within what things you can’t. Yes, kyle is a dreamer however, Kyle is the one on record for having a dream and making it come true… I think it’s worth listening to his opinion about what he wants to do next. We’re gonna have a repeat oh, and Craig said he wanted to quit law and just see…. Everybody who laughed then can’t get an invite now.
@@mikahkadence-wilson9401 wow 🤣
@@mikahkadence-wilson9401 nicely said!
@@Thisisntkikihe makes several valid points regarding waiting around for the “perfect one”
Carl doesn’t honor her trauma around abandonment.
I don’t think either of them honor each other. Carl recently lost his brother to suicide and is in early recovery and she says she won’t be nice or soft until he gets a job? Both need to accept this relationship is not it.
😂🤣
Bruh someone teach these men ANYTHING because this is embarrassing.
Lindsay is difficult for sure but Carl is so coached and rehearsed it’s difficult to know what’s real with him. He needs everyone to be on his side but still be seen as the ‘Nice guy’ and he gets frustrated when he’s not getting what he wants. Boring.
Hit 🎯
He’s an addict and they tend to be liars.
To me, this is the moment where Lindsay should've woken up. I think Carl already knew this wasn't working and they weren't compatible. But Lindsay has all this energy with her girlfriends about how Carl wants someone that's not her, but still is confused by him wanting to breakup. YALL WANT DIFFERENT THINGS OUT OF PARTNERSHIP. YALL ARE NOT COMPATIBLE. To me, after this, there's no way she was blindsided by this break up. No F'n Way. I think she was just mad she wasn't the one to pull the trigger.
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boom there it is!
I agree with you 100%! Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this. I'm glad Carl's mother and stepfather gave him advice. The advice came at the right time, just in time.
@@natalysentifconson-zj2gx🎯
Carl's revolting so glad they didn't get married
Did Carlito get new veneers? He’s speaking with a lisp 👅
Wes is telling Ciara he’s not ready for a relationship. She needs to move on from him.
Lindsay and Carl are both insufferable together. They don’t listen to hear each other. Communication is key.
I love how the narrative before season started that everyone was on Carl side and he even said "you'll understand why i broke up with her" and it's like bruh this is proof you have terrible communication skills
Oh,I get why he broke up with her. Who wants to walk on eggshells 24/7…Carl dodged a bullet!
Why is Gabby going so hard in the paint on Carl, the hell is she doing?
And wasn’t she unemployed living off of her parents as of last season?
Carl & Kyle should get married to each other. These 2 are the biggest selfish man babies EVER!!!!
Carl needs to grow the fuck uppppp. You are an ADULT, my friend.
On Lindsey's side on this.😮
Me too. Been team Carl but honestly for her to be softer she needs a soft place to land. Boom!
No sides necessary they wrong for each other it needed to end.
Carl is the BIGGEST WIMP
Carl is so fragile….and Kyle 🤦🏻♀️
Carl and Kyle are both being so fucking selfish.
Carl is just being more passive aggressive about it, while Kyle is legit just aggressive.
Neither of these men are ready for kids.
4:42 Gabby is 100% right (not even just with Lindsay & Carl) but women do tend to soften up and submit when we have a man that we can trust to lead us and lead the relationship…
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The dudes on this show are embarrassing.
Kyle is EVERYTHING he accuses Lindsey of being.
Ciara deserves better
Does she tho? She has nothing to offer, besides being attractive.
Carl has an answer for everything but he is never the problem. If all the things he is saying are his passion, why has he not done it? He has no drive to do anything. He could have said: you know what Lindsay , I will show you that my plans will work.
And no money. Lindsey is valid in asking these questions. Finances is one of the biggest causes of divorces these days. There has to be something
@@Thedaisyeffecty’all gotta stop with that narrative. He’s making money in the exact same way as Lindsey.😂 $70,000 on brand deals alone + the significant show salary & the other side deals he has is FAR from not making any money.
She just wants what even she doesn’t have, which is a legitimate, stable, consistent job, not just income from deals that isn’t ever certain or guaranteed, because she didn’t want to have to work after they got married, she wanted to immediately get pregnant & stay at home (& only mentioned this a few months before the wedding).
They are BOTH responsible for the end of the relationship (which they never should have been in in the first place), and there’s a lot to criticize about how both are behaving…but this ridiculous, hypocritical narrative she’s trying to push about Carl not making money, when he absolutely does, and makes it the exact same way she does Deals + Show, is just foolish to keep entertaining.
@@Free420Love🎯👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
My goodness Carl what is wrong with him!? Petulant dude takes off without her bag
Carl is the BIGGEST WIMP
Carl get over it! A “sober bar” is like the crappiest idea i’ve ever heard!
😂😂
Right… that’s just a restaurant without a liquor license. He’s an idiot
Cocktails, non alcoholic beer, & sober centered things are getting a lot more popular. The idea could be expanded on.. but she just immediately shut it out. I work at a place that's been open and popular for 20 years, this season, they added a mocktails section to the menu, because it's lucrative..
@@kayleethompson5244 not in nyc!! you need liquor to compete and make profits in the bar/restaurant scene in NYC. Lindsey's PR firm specialized in NY restaurants/bars and had to close down because so many of her clients went out of business during covid. he should take her advice.
@@kayleethompson5244Bethany Frankel became a millionaire from non alcaholic drinks!
Amanda is defending Carl because Kyle is just like him,,,
Manipulative and emotionally abusive
OMG YES!
Plus he works for them.
Kyle is a great guy and so funny and hardworking. Kyle is the reason I started watching the show! Kyle needs to sort out the things that connect him with Amanda. Kyle needs to divorce her! I'm so tired of her. She's so selfish and doesn't appreciate Kyle. She talks to him disparagingly all the time, even in front of other people in the room. She doesn't love him!
Lindsay is the worst out of all of them. They were all right about her at last year's reunion. She is a huge gaslighter and when Carl does not take the bait, he gets called a narcissist. Everyone, has narcissistic traits. Some high some low. That is where I place Carl just like them all. But Lindsay is a full blown narcissist. It's. Ore on display now that she got on that ozempic diet and started wearing tighter and less clothing. Men want soft women. She acts like a man and that is a turn off. Carl needs to be with someone who doesn't drink. PERIOD
I think Carl has been a better friend to Amanda, way more than Lindsay. It stands to reason she would feel more for Carl.
I honestly think they are both missing each other with communication. I don’t think it’s anyone’s fault. These two are not compatible and it shows in their communication over and over. They both are not taking the time to listening to each other and understand one another. Marriage is honestly all about that. If you can’t do that in general than you shouldn’t get married.
Lindsay needs a man that won’t put up with her controlling,manipulative ways.Her eggs are about to be hard boiled and the clock’s ticking!🤣
So a non alcoholic sports bar is a terrible idea. Carl wanted Lindsey to like to him? 😂🥴
It isn't there popping up all over the place
@@keirybreedy8791 bars make 75% off of booze if they are opening they will close soon lol. Horrible idea that’s insane
@@keirybreedy8791can you provide example of a successful one? I’m genuinely curious. And whose money would Carl be using? He could literally bankrupt his wife if it went south
Her tone sucks but she’s not asking crazy questions
@@keirybreedy8791maybe in Salt Lake City, not in NYC
Gabby’s storyline is validating Lindsay 🤦🏾♀️
Wonder if she’s getting paid at this point! 😂
Yessss...so true!😆Also..im really hating Gabby's jeans that are folded up and way tooo big...is that a look? Is that really a thing?
I love Gabby!
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I wonder why gabby is around. Nothing compelling/funny/interesting. Maybe replace her with someone else ?
Carl throwing in that jab about Lindsay setting up Kyle all those summer ago’s is so manipulative.
Dig deep Carl!
Ciara is freaking beautiful, smart & good person & wes thinks he can do better 😂😂😂
News flash wes you will NEVER find someone on her level EVER again
Yes! This! A thousand times!
All these people need therapy or need to get their money back cause none of them know how to communicate and are all just loud and wrong
I was on team Lindsay. I’m now on team nobody. Both refused to listen
Gabby and Lindsay have no idea how to be in a successful relationship and they feed each other in such a toxic way. And I like them both, but your partner’s needs need to matter too.
Gabby 🫣
It’s all about money…..
OMG.. these guys.. oh God.. please grow up
Gabby is beautiful
She’s also very interesting. She better have a bigger storyline next season.
I agree with both statements. She’s being placed as Lindsey’s support person like Danielle was. She’s not a supporting personality!
I find her WAY more interesting than Ciara. Ciara and Paige and giving Valley Girl vibes and Gabby is giving NYC fashion girl - I need more of this!
@@traumaqueeen 100% more interesting than Ciara/Paige, they’ve just been a part of the cast longer but Gabby is everythingggggg
@@traumaqueeenCiara literally is a NYC fashion girl 😂😂
Carl is a lot of work (and honestly not worth the effort that he requires).
West seems likeable, floral pants and all. However Jesse (of all people) questioning how many women would have called West their boyfriend - questioning West's approach to and ideas about relationships - is why this show is a giant no.
Thank god Ciara didn’t sleep with him. West was just another goofy Austin.
Carl is so gross.
Anybody that's been watching Lindsay and Carl knew this marriage was never going to happen. Lindsay would marry anyone just to say she got married. And Carl?
Carl and Lindsay's "engagement" always felt painfully performative. Now that it's over, time for a cast shake-up. They can leave along with long ignored Gabby. On the upside, West and Jesse are great additions and their friendship has been heart-warming.
How are Kyle and Carl more immature and emotional now at 40 than they were Season 1? Kyle chooses a chill, creative girl and then suddenly wants her to be passionate and grinding everyday like him. Carl chooses a strong, assertive girl and then wants her to be a soft flower who doesn’t ask questions. I swear these Bravo cameras are like time machines for men incapable of growing up!
Paige is the epitome of a girl's best friend!! Everyone deserves to have a friend like her on his/her side!!! LOVE her
He pays half her rent. End of story
Even when not living there.
@@Tquin55 becuase he's an idiot. he renewed a lease with both of their names on it and then broke up with her like a month later.. he could have just communicated better and saved them both the money.
@@prima-madalina. Or he was still hopeful when they signed the lease. So easy to sit behind your keyboard and make judgements when you see 2% of these peoples lives.
I agree on the non booze bar but come on she’s so hatful
Karl needs to save his bravo checks bc he does NOT have a JOB! No expensive soccer vip tickets.
I haven’t always been a fan of Lindsey or Karl but Lindsey has made nothing but sense in babysitting Karl in his recovery and pursuit of adulthood. She is telling him hard truths and asking him the direct questions he doesn’t ask himself. A sober bar? Do you mean Chili’s without margaritas or Dave and Buster with no beer? Who is going? Tweens…I’m exhausted for her.
For Amanda to say Lindsay needs to be softer and kinder is laughable. This girl shits on her husband any chance she gets. 😭😂
Exactly! Amanda constantly speaks disparagingly to Kyle in front of other people and behind his back. She should be ashamed. And she wonders why he is in no hurry to buy a house in the suburbs? Show more respect for your husband. Amanda doesn't help Kyle with the business, even though she knows they have debts. And at the most difficult time, when Kyle asks Amanda for help and to be more involved in «Loverboy», she tells him that she wants to do something for herself (swimwear). Amanda is so SELFISH. Does Amanda realize that she lives on the money that Kyle earns by running "Loverboy" that needs help getting rid of debts? Amanda DIDN'T WANT TO SIGN A PRE-NUP before the wedding. She said: «I WON'T SIGN A PRE-NUP because if Kyle divorces me, I'LL GET HALF OF HIS COMPANY ALONG WITH THE MONEY». Those who haven't seen it can go and watch it in the sixth season of Summer house. Amanda MARRIED KYLE NOT FOR LOVE, BUT FOR MONEY! If "Loverboy" goes bankrupt, Amanda will go bankrupt too. With what money does Amanda want to start her own business selling fashionable swimwear? They both live on the profits from "Loverboy". If "Loverboy" goes broke, her dream of creating swimwear collections will not come true! Interestingly, Amanda doesn't want to work for "Loverboy", but wants to get half of the company along with the money if she and Kyle get divorced. It turns out that Amanda IS WAITING FOR KYLE TO GET RICH BY HIS OWN EFFORTS and "Loverboy" to begin to prosper, in order to divorce Kyle at that very moment. Amanda wants to get half of "Loverboy" along with the money WITHOUT INVESTING HER OWN EFFORTS in the prosperity of "Loverboy". SIGN A PRE-NUP AMANDA and then do whatever you want. I can see how treacherous you are Amanda. Amanda behaves as if Kyle is obliged to provide her with everything she wants. In my opinion, she doesn't love him and married him only for money.
You need to treat and speak to a man the way you expect him to treat and speak to you. Period
the tea is wests wife is going to be a white blonde woman lmao lets all move on now. just seeing how he spoke about the bachelor women following him.
Carl, how, after 8 years, are you just noticing your shorts are too short and pants too tight?!?!?! Who agrees that he must have made fun of Kyle's orange shorts and them being so short? lol I bet he didn't even know they were Ciaras.
Ciara saying she dates intentionally after she wasted time getting played by Austen is laughable.
she clearly has been saying the whole season she's learnt from that situation
Regardless of who's "side you're on" I think it's obvious that Carl did the right thing!! She should stop bi**hing about him and be thankful he had the guts to break it off! They both want each other to completely change and it's obvious Carl is terrified of Lindsay so whatever, thank goodness he didn't go through with it just to divorce a month later. I kinda feel like she was delulu to even think they should have gone through with it
he's not scared of her, it's his fake nice guy act. watch the older seasons, he used to scream in her face. they're both unhinged and his mask is coming off.
Lisa Spence I agree with you! Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this. I'm glad Carl's mother and stepfather gave him advice. The advice came at the right time, just in time.
@@natalysentifconson-zj2gx Carl has been a manipulative rage-aholic and addict since season 1. He’s no prize either 🤷🏽♀️
NOBODY said anything about PAIGE doing the same thing to CRAIG!!! She called his ideas stupid and said she didn't wanna be with a broke man.
Facts!
West is very immature
Team lindsay and paige and ciara
This happens to EVERY relationship Lindsey has EVER HAD 😂
Exactly! Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this.
Y’all, I know it’s not funny, but Carl just leaving and being like “f**k it” when Lindsay told him she needed to put her stuff in the car is hilariously petty 😂😂😂 Cause why would he do that?!
😂😂😂..poor Carl
Carl lost brother to drugs. Lindsay is afraid that his involvement in nightlife/bars, nonalcoholic drinks, 420, etc could cause him to relapse.
Lindsay and Carl both gaslighted each other and it was obvious they hate each other
Eh Lindsay stayed the same. Carl is BS
I agree with rounding! 30 and wants to be in situationships only?
Carl is the biggest manchild ever. All he ever says are the words soft and kind. Dude you’re freaking pushing 40!?!? Stop with the crybaby shit
At some point, you have to think... "I'm like 40. I've had SEVERAL relationship that were ALL toxic l, filled with screaming matches and ridiculous fights....maybe it's not everyone else." She's constantly demanding these men be perfect or she flips out and is mean AF but they should give her all the grace and compassion in the world...and make her sandwiches.
Exactly! Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this.
@@natalysentifconson-zj2gx YASS! She does scare them. I don't think in the decade we've been watching she's ever said "I was wrong", "I fugged up", "I probably shouldve done ______ different." and ALL "I'm a victim. He's the worst person ever who hurt me. My feelings, my feelings, my feelings, my wants, my needs." All it ever is. No growth there.
@@keristockton9655 I agree with you 100%. Well said!
I completly agree with everything Gabby said regarding Lindsay/Carl. Ive never been on either side rock solid. I have fluctuated my opinion alot over the years regarding both of them (L + C). But after hearing Gabbys perspective. Ive gotta say I really feel like I may actually be a lindsay supporter here.
Carl is not sober, he says last season that he's California Sober but I think he doing more than smoking weed all day because look at him with his speech and his eyes tell it all !! Carl is far from being a man because he is 40+ years old and still looking for a job that makes him happy and that he enjoys ??? Every man I know at 40+ has their retirement plan completely planned out and isn't taking a year off work to find himself, he says he wants a job that makes him happy and that he enjoys ?? OMG Carl used TF out of Lindsay for an entire year, never planned on marrying her, and lived his best life because of Lindsay. I see people saying well he gets paid $250,000 from the show but that isn't nothing living in NYC !!! Lindsay has her quirks but come TF on Carl is lazy, used the excuse of his brother which is sad, and even cry's to his mommy and step daddy that he is still working on himself but he ISN'T because he's not SOBER !!!
I think hes on pills
@@niominati Carl is doing more than smoking weed, and I think we can all see that !!
Why does west constantly look like he’s about to burp? Honestly… everyone goes on about how amazing he is but I just don’t see it, also he’s not attractive THERE I SAID IT. I’m sorry, he should be so fuckin lucky to bag a girl as hot as Ciara (she’s a frickin model)
Ohhh Lyndsey has a big mouth on her side 🙄bc she’s loud she thinks everyone has to listen to her
I agree with you! Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this. I'm glad Carl's mother and stepfather gave him advice. The advice came at the right time, just in time.
THIS WAS A TERRIBLE RELATIONSHIP FROM DAY ONE AND EVERYONE TRIED TOO TELL THEM, ESPECIALLY DANIELLE!
I agree with you! Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this. I'm glad Carl's mother and stepfather gave him advice. The advice came at the right time, just in time.
Lindsey's *SINGLE* mouthy friend is probably a decent chunk of why she's NOT getting married now. 🙄 Get better friends instead of just surrounding yourself with people who only tell you what you want to hear 🤨
Lindsey’s personality is strong enough to handle herself… a new friend didn’t change her entire relationship
Lindsay is the mouthiest one there 😭😭 please
@@prima-madalina It SURE AS HELL didn't help lol
@@nahhhbruhhh Which is exactly why the LAST thing she needs is someone co-signing her madness...or her mouth 🙄
@@LittleMissStamper so you think they should’ve stayed together?!
Not to be rude or anything but is Carl on something? Or is he back drinking & is just drunk on the after shows? Every after show something seems off with him but I can’t quite put my finger on it.
@TamGotDaJuice07 Carl is only California Sober and remember at the reunion that he swore that he couldn't go California Sober because it would just lead to down to where he was before which was ROCK BOTTOM !! That's why if you watch back last season you'll see Lindsay ask Carl how much weed did you smoke today when he was being aggressive and argumentative at the bar and Carl said not that much but Lindsay said Carl gets super aggressive and argumentative when he's super high and Carl even apologized to Lindsay the next morning saying he knew he was in the wrong !! So Carl can get high everyday all day long but Lindsay can't drink, hell no Lindsay stopped drinking completely for 6 months to completely support Carl until Carl started smoking weed again saying he needed to take the edge off !!! I see what you're seeing and believe Carl is doing more than smoking weed all day and Carl IS NOT SOBER !!!
Good God, she won’t let the other girl speak!
Who are you talking about?
Theoretical jobs 🤣 Team Lindsay but idk how I got here
I knew Wes was going to be Austin 2.0
At least Wes is funny
A little cringey watching Lindsey talk over Gaby constantly, even to just repeat herself. Without even acknowledging that gaby had something to add.
Lindsey is insufferable and there’s a reason she’s not married with children like she wanted to be by now. Carl needs to work on himself before getting into another serious relationship.
I agree with you! Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this. I'm glad Carl's mother and stepfather gave him advice. The advice came at the right time, just in time.
It's laughable reading the comments defending Lindsay AND HER DISGUSTING BEHAVIOR!!!!! SHE'S A TERRIBLE PERSON AND HASN'T CHANGED SINCE SEASON 1!!!!!!
I agree with you! I'm glad Carl's mother and stepfather gave him advice. The advice came at the right time, just in time. Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this.
I will keep asking over and over, in what world was Lindsay blindsided? After these episodes, it almost seems like SHE is about to call the wedding off! Andy better grill her on this at reunion because it is so confusing how these 2 could possibly think they are even 5% compatible
ola3rd I agree with you! Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this. I'm glad Carl's mother and stepfather gave him advice. The advice came at the right time, just in time.
Carl and Lindsay shouldnt be together and im team no one but i dont understand how everyone is team lindsay she has a hard time listening but expects things her way why ask him what does he need from u if when he tells u what he needs u tell him ur not capable of doing that
It felt like after Carl told Lindsey his stepfather wouldn't marry them, he shifted. He started speaking more harshly with Lindsey and acting more offended by her. He was distancing himself mentally because he had already decided on some level that he was out. And maybe if it hadn't been 9 months of him being undecided, Lindsey might have been more supportive.
It was like a carefully constructed performance that he knew the ending to
Karl is complaining and Kyle is agreeing yet this is EXACTLY what Kyle is doing to Amanda .. not being supportive or “soft” towards what she wants to do with her life
Lindsey saying she’s activated. 😂. What’s new? It just a constant roller coaster.
Carl is coming across vindictive and passive aggressive imo. He acts out in passive aggressive ways. The suitcase situation and every aftershow he is feeding the narrative of Lindsay being a villain, hmmm.
I'm sorry, but I'm still so far Team Carl on this. Dealing with someone as manipulative and toxic as Lindsay is draining. When you start to stand up for yourself, they twist your words and the narrative, painting you as the villain. When in reality, you're just giving them a taste of their own medicine!!
I agree with you! I'm glad Carl's mother and stepfather gave him advice. The advice came at the right time, just in time. Lindsay is such a manipulator! I hate to see how she manipulates each of her subsequent boyfriend so that he does everything the way it suits her. It gets to the point where all her boyfriends start to be afraid of her. They are afraid to say an extra word to her, so that she will not be offended. She loves to make herself look like a victim and constantly find fault with her boyfriends. Lindsay perceives and treats her boyfriends, in this case, the fiance, not as the most wonderful person in the world, whom she wants to put on a pedestal, but as a thing that she bought and this thing should work 100% for her. Lindsay squeezes all the juices out of her boyfriends until they start running away from her. This is not love. Love is when you love your fiance the way he is, and you don't constantly try to find fault with him. Apparently Lindsay won't understand this.