AITAH for telling my wife that if she attends her affair partner's funeral I won't be here when...
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 14 ต.ค. 2024
- AITAH for telling my wife that if she attends her affair partner's funeral I won't be here when she gets back.
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The amount of scum telling him he is the AH for not tolerating disrespect is unbelievable. He truly never should have gotten back with her in the first place.
And I was waiting for an update but instead all I heard was bull crap
Sadly, I was also expecting any update but apparently all the cheaters rallied on the comments and the account was suspended
Op is not the AH. I would leave too.
TIL: Separation is the new Open Mariage.
I'd leave too. I'm sorry but the comments in that video are ridiculous
I don't care if they were "about to be divorced". If you're not divorced then you're still married. Period. If you have a relationship with someone while you're still married, you're cheating. Period. Since when does separation translate out to open marriage?
They're saying he's competing with a dead man in the video. WRONG, he's being disrespected. Yes, he was a long time friend of hers. But guess what, he was also the man the wife slept with WHILE STILL MARRIED.
Wait until AFTER YOU DIVORCE to mess around. To be honest, I wouldn't have got back with her after finding out about the affair in the first place. But outside of that, the MOMENT she told me she wants to go to her affair partner's funeral, I wouldn't have gave her an ultimatum. I would have said goodbye right there.
Exactly the divorce wasn't for an affair or fell out of love, it was more of a lack of communication because of depression. And the wife sees her husband of probably years and what did she do? Exactly fuck another men that was definitely on to her. But I had to point out something he definitely needs to divorce her, he had to divorce her the first after hearing she fuck another guy. The way I see it he is gonna dodge a bullet.
Unless the judge has signed the divorce decree, you are still legally married. There is no gray area.
Key points in a way that’s easily understood.
- girl you argued with your husband. Of course he should start dating
- that woman held him down while you were gone. You better respect his girlfriend.
See how crazy this crap sounds when you reverse the genders. It’s a real problem how many women gaslight on behalf of women they don’t know for reasons at all.
of course its cheating still married broke her vows and joined with another marriage has ended should of got out of it then instead of dragging it on for 7 years
Ask how many of these people defending her thought ross didnt cheat
Marriage is a lifelong commitment.. it absolutely was an affair. Also, she was still in contact with the ap 7 years later, so she wasn't fully committed to restoring the marriage
If you are separated and trying to work through your issues, you are together for all intents and purposes. If you are separated and not trying to reconcile, i would say it's acceptable. Once you date and screw someone during that separated time, that person has officially moved from a close friend to a boyfriend. Once you are back in a marital relationship, you can no longer hang out with that person and call them anymore. They are an ex boyfriend regardless of the fact that you knew your former friend, now ex boyfriend, for most of your life.
I'm not cool with my wife going to an ex's funeral. She wants to mourn a lost friend. Dead dude is an ex boyfriend no matter how long she knew him.
My wife would never dare see an ex, just like I woukd never go see an ex and hang out. Some of you people are stupid to say your spouse can go see an ex. Yoy are going to ve on this reddit channel complaining.
If she didnt want the guy to be relegated to an ex boyfriend status, she shouldnt have screwed him
She didn't cheat. They were separated. I dont necessarily think it's a great idea to date while separated, but it's not cheating.
Ps: have a ex husband that got with many women while we were separated. I didn't and dont say he cheated. It was more disrespectful of our former relationship to casually get with all those women so soon, but not it wasn't cheating.
The problem is that the separation, was for the depression, and what kind of person goes fuck around when their partner is on a lowest point
If you want to eff around during a separation, that needs to be discussed up front, otherwise it’s cheating.
If you think that having to discuss that upfront is a bad idea because it’ll
Be harmful to the relationship, you just admitted it’s cheating.
I know right
@brianbarber5401 It's not a bad idea to discuss it up front. That's what people should do. It doesn't sound like they discussed it.
I'm saying it's probably best not to date while separated, but it's not cheating if they didn't discuss it or if it was discussed and okayed. It honestly sounds like she didn't think they'd ever get back together.
As for my ex, we never discussed it. I was 100% done, though. He wanted to get back together. All his sleeping around just solidified my decision to end things for good.
@@scarlettg.5772 No, it's cheating if they are still together afterwards.