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  • This will come as a shock to you all. It's all part of Allah's plan. There is always hope no matter what your situation is.
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  • @AishaRosalie
    @AishaRosalie  ปีที่แล้ว +359

    Join my urgent mission to heal the wounds of Turkey and Syria, ravaged by an unforgiving earthquake. Your generous contribution can bring a world of difference to those clinging onto hope amidst the rubble.
    www.justgiving.com/page/aishaturkeysyria2023

    • @zeynepb9108
      @zeynepb9108 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      İ really appreciate for this. You are having bad days,but you don't leave us alone. I'm Turkish and i just watch your video. You're such a strong woman. Allah give you that. You just never give up or never come back alhamdulillah. Allah will present you in the other world. This is a test and you will pass the test with correctly inshallah. And then i just want to say thank you so much for you're not leaving us. İn turkey people's are in really bad situations even that day. Thank you so much for who help us. But leave us because people's really needs help. Really. So i just want to thank you to you don't leave us alone. That days will come and go inshallah. Allah bless you. (So sorry for the mistakes on the text, i don't use the transition.)

    • @zeynepb9108
      @zeynepb9108 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But don't leave us"
      Sorry for mistake 😢

    • @ISLAM.is.in.my.heart.
      @ISLAM.is.in.my.heart. ปีที่แล้ว

      If i was your husband I would never do that. I woud never devorce you

    • @hasanali-cx7tv
      @hasanali-cx7tv ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Don't date anyone online plzzz.. May Allah protect you from satan. Be strong. I wish I could talk to you in person. I'm soo shocked your marriage broke. Sultan seemed like a nice guy

    • @sadyadey782
      @sadyadey782 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh sister there is nothing wrong with being divorced and being single mother remember Allah took him out of your life for a reason and pray for better so long as you live and be happy and move on😊

  • @deathdoesntcareifyourcloth7324
    @deathdoesntcareifyourcloth7324 ปีที่แล้ว +2357

    I am divorced alhamdulilah I married a new wonderful man who loves me and my two children. Thank Allah for everything 🙏

    • @taasmr4203
      @taasmr4203 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Please start uploading your vlogs on your channel.

    • @user-qe7lu5zf2y
      @user-qe7lu5zf2y ปีที่แล้ว +8

      YES AWESOME keep marching forward you have a clear cancións and theres only brighter future ahead!

    • @azadmajors2098
      @azadmajors2098 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Assallamullaikum, all the best in your future sister...

    • @user-mj1vx6ye6q
      @user-mj1vx6ye6q ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😭😍الحمدلله

    • @deathdoesntcareifyourcloth7324
      @deathdoesntcareifyourcloth7324 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @@taasmr4203 I am too shy for this 😅 I just wanted to share positive experience for this sister to not give uo hope nor feel alone ❤️

  • @hamadalkhalifa2323
    @hamadalkhalifa2323 ปีที่แล้ว +2583

    I was betrayed by my brothers after my father's passing. But Alhamaduliallah my faith in Allah is unshakeable. Losing people is ok, but losing Islam is the worst thing to happen.

    • @geekygirl648
      @geekygirl648 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      What type of betrayal sis? if u r comfortable sharing

    • @xxCrimsonSpiritxx
      @xxCrimsonSpiritxx ปีที่แล้ว +125

      @@geekygirl648 No need to ask them for details, prophet Muhammad (PBUH) ordered us to keep our family feuds away from public eyes, whatever it is, may Allah (SwT) heal their wounds, forgive and bring peace to them, and keep satan the cursed away from their lives

    • @believer-fcaeth
      @believer-fcaeth ปีที่แล้ว +23

      ​@@geekygirl648 if it's between bros n sis then might be regarding Property Claims

    • @chintuz1002
      @chintuz1002 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      thank god, you are not end up like those ex muslims who blame Islam for the family problems

    • @josephjasem7926
      @josephjasem7926 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@geekygirl648 he’s actually a man not a woman. His brothers denied him inheritance probably because he’s their half-brother.

  • @melvin3697
    @melvin3697 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    As a agnostic. I really love the wisdom you and the Quran brings. Stay strong all!

    • @forlet0
      @forlet0 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      According to Bible
      We(Men) are SPIRITS, with a SOUL(reasoning/mind and emotions/feelings), living in a BODY.
      So humans are SPIRIT, SOUL AND BODY or
      Man = Body, Soul and Spirit.
      Can a man say: I am only a body(flesh)?
      Can a man say: I am only a soul (thoughts and feelings)?
      Can a man say: I am only a spirit (inner man - the real you that longs to be in touch with your Creator once you acknowledge Your Creator)?
      BODY - from this physical world and we shed it in the Physical world when we leave earth.
      SOUL - the Substance or the Essence of Man (character, skill, behaviour, talents) - can be POSITIVE or NEGATIVE and in Man's control to be tamed and tuned, which decides where we will be after our life on this earth. The CD or Compact disc which you can erase and undo your behaviour to improve your character or Vice Versa.
      Spirit - The Inner Man - the Most Holy place - the part that is connected to the Divine, its Maker and Creator (the BORN AGAIN man) where Deep calls to Deep. Some call this Conscience, gut feel, instincts.

  • @DaraKFulton
    @DaraKFulton 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +127

    I feel you and sorry this happened. My ex-husband left me and ended our marriage. He is from Palestine. I'm Christian by faith but love Islam. Despite my heartbreak, I'm still interested in Islam and considering converting into the religion. I still love ❤️ despite my hurt. So I admire you for your courage for sharing this with us. I just came across your video and relate to it. May Allah continue to bless you and your beautiful baby. 😍 Alhamdulillah. I pray your ex husband will help you and provide for you and your baby. Inshallah.

    • @DaraKFulton
      @DaraKFulton 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @optimusprime2498 Inshallah 🙏🏾Thank you so much ❤️

    • @youxtuberz5229
      @youxtuberz5229 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're Christian and love Islam? You do know by loving Islam you contradict the Bible and Jesus Christ' words. You better change your heart towards Islam because it's of the devil. Do not be lukewarm.

    • @garciapedro7668
      @garciapedro7668 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      hope life gives you all your heart and God desires for you. Please remain a christian, I hope you find in your heart the love the lord has for you, who sacrifice himself for you

    • @lonewulfmo9128
      @lonewulfmo9128 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      your ex husband left you because he is a fool. many of us men grow physically but not emotionallyI have eyes. i can see you are a good looking woman. Although you are not perfect you definetely have a big heart and my guess is you're not a difficult woman. Im a black African atheist man though my wife and family muslim. I'd rather not say much except finding it annoying that many really good people dont find their matches. All the best.

    • @chosenmoi777
      @chosenmoi777 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      No my dear. Pls don’t. Islam is false. Jesus Christ died for you. He loves you

  • @amanifatima1402
    @amanifatima1402 ปีที่แล้ว +1068

    *I love to read this whenever I'm upset:*
    *"Indeed what is to come will be better for you than what has gone by." [Quran, 93:4]*

    • @Tasneem1413
      @Tasneem1413 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I remember my teacher speaking about this ayah, and how much hope it gives. Alhamdulillah!

    • @lionheart4552
      @lionheart4552 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      50 REASONS why Mr MUHAMMAD WAS NOT A PROPHET & why the entire world should reject him & fight the spread of the quranavirus :
      1). When Muhammad began receiving "revelations", his first impression of these "revelations" was that they were demonic. 👹
      2). Mr Muhammad was so traumatized by his encounter with "Gabriel" that he repeatedly tried to commit suicide by hurling himself off a cliff.
      3 ). According to Muslim sources, Muhammad once delivered a revelation from the devil (the "Satanic Verses").
      4). Mr Muhammad claimed that he was a victim of a magic spell that gave him delusional thoughts and false beliefs. 🤪
      5). Islam promotes idolatry (e.g., bowing down to the Kaaba and kissing the black stone).
      6). Islam promotes pagan rituals (e.g., the pilgrimage to Mecca).
      7). Islam deifies Muhammad by requiring unconditional obedience to him and by requiring Muslims to talk to him during their daily prayers.
      8). After leaving Mecca, Mr Muhammad supported his religion by robbing people.
      9). Muhammad ordered his followers to torture a man named Kinana to find out where some money was hidden. Muhammad then had Kinana killed, and took his wife for himself.
      10). Mr Muhammad commanded his followers to murder critics of Islam.
      11). Muhammad ordered his followers to murder apostates, even if they had good reasons for leaving Islam.
      12). The Qur'an commands Muslims to violently subjugate Jews and Christians.
      13). The Qur'an claims that stars are missiles that Allah uses to shoot demons. ☄☄🤣🤣
      14). The Qur'an claims that the sun sets in a pool of murky water. 🤪
      15). Mr Muhammad's teachings about personal hygiene would lead to death if Muslims took them seriously.
      16). Muhammad claimed that Gabriel explained to him why children look like one parent or the other. Gabriel's answer is completely false.
      17). When Muhammad was too shy to tell his dinner guests to leave, Allah stepped in with a special revelation that should make everyone wonder whether Muhammad's revelations really have anything to do with God.
      18). The Qur'an declares that Christians find Muhammad mentioned in their scriptures. Yet their scripture calls Muhammad an antichrist.
      19). In the Qur'an, Allah promises to kill Muhammad by severing his aorta if Muhammad invents a false revelation. When Muhammad died, he said he could feel his aorta being severed.
      20). The Qur'an contains a prophecy that wasn't fulfilled.
      21). The Qur'an presents a test for divine inspiration, but fails the test.
      22). The central argument for the inspiration of the Qur'an is the "Argument from Literary Excellence," which is absurd on multiple levels.
      23). The author of the Qur'an doesn't know that Miriam, the sister of Aaron and Moses, is a different person from Mary, the mother of Jesus (because their names are the same in Arabic).
      24). The Qur'an claims that Alexander the Great and Aesop were devout Muslims.
      25). Allah promises to protect the Qur'an from corruption, but the Qur'an has been corrupted (by Muslim standards).
      26). Muslims believe that the Qur'an is Allah's eternal Word. Yet Allah repeatedly changes his eternal mind about his eternal Word via abrogation.
      27). The Qur'an is missing at least two verses in which Allah commands grown women to breastfeed grown men in order to prevent sexual misconduct.
      28). The Qur'an contains numerous false stories that were plagiarized from other sources.
      29). Mr Muhammad allowed his followers to hire prostitutes.
      30). The Qur'an allows Muslim men to have up to four wives at a time. But Muhammad received a very very special revelation giving him (and him alone) the right to break the four-wife limit.
      31). Mr Muhammad had sex with a prepubescent nine-year-old child named Aisha. 😯
      32). The Qur'an allows Muslim men to beat their wives into submission.
      33). Islam allows Muslim men to rape their female captives and slave-girls.
      34). Muhammad married the divorced wife of his own adopted son (after Muhammad caused the divorce), and the Qur'an offers an absurd defence of Muhammad's actions.
      35). When Muhammad's wife Sauda became fat and unattractive, Muhammad intended to divorce her. Sauda had to relinquish some of her marital rights to avoid being abandoned.
      36). After Muhammad got caught having sex with his slave girl in the bed of one of his wives, he swore that he would stop having sex with his slave-girl. Allah ordered him to break that oath.
      37). Mr Muhammad claimed that women are less intelligent and less moral than men. 🤔
      38). When Muhammad's wives asked why he was giving special privileges to Aisha, he justified his actions by saying that he received revelations while wearing Aisha's dress!
      39). According to the Qur'an, Allah has no love for unbelievers.
      40). According to the Qur'an, Allah is the "best of deceivers." 👺
      41). According to Mr Muhammad, Allah wants people to sin, and he threatens us with annihilation if we refuse to sin.
      42). Since Allah would destroy us for not sinning, the true saviour of humanity, according to Islam, is Satan, who tempts human beings to sin and therefore protects us from being destroyed.
      43). Muhammad didn't know whether he would go to heaven or hell when he died.
      44). Islam teaches that Allah will punish Jews and Christians in hell for the sins of Muslims.
      45). Mr Muhammad promises his followers a paradise in which Allah will bless them with eternal erections so that they can continually deflower their virgins.
      46). Islam affirms the inspiration, preservation, and authority of the Jewish and Christian scriptures, yet Islam contradicts these scriptures on a fundamental level.
      47). Islam claims to respect and honour Jesus, yet it portrays him as a complete failure.
      48). Muslims believe that the Gospel has been corrupted. But according to Islam, part of the Gospel was corrupted by Allah himself.
      49). Islam reverses the Gospel by having the guilty Judas die on behalf of the innocent Jesus, rather than the innocent Jesus dying on behalf of sinners.
      50). Christianity is confirmed by Jesus' resurrection from the dead. Since Islam contradicts Christianity, and has no comparable confirmation from God, we must reject Islam.

    • @rayeesdar8496
      @rayeesdar8496 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where from you

    • @mohammedfarhanshabir1993
      @mohammedfarhanshabir1993 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      SubhanAllah… that’s a really positive way of seeing it… but I think the more accurate translation would be
      And the Hereafter is better for you than the first [life].
      It’s talking about the Akhira rather than the future of this duniya… and Allah knows best.

    • @KofeeKayke06
      @KofeeKayke06 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      "And the Hereafter is better for you than the first [life]." you misquoted the Qur'an it says this

  • @muslimrevert9462
    @muslimrevert9462 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Salaam sis, I am a man who has been alone for a long time after a divorce. Some people are destined to be alone. Allahu Alum. I think this is an opportunity to strengthen your relationship with Allah Subhana Wa Ta'ala.

  • @maritsatrompa3800
    @maritsatrompa3800 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I went through a divorce as a Christian in Greece. After that, I moved to Cyprus and 8 years later on 08.08.08 married a Pakistani Muslim, and now we are 15 years happily married in Ireland. So, Alhamdulillah, my first marriage worked as a precursor for my second one, the one I was supposed to be in. The first one was a fairytale and the second was in the mayor's office just like I wanted them.

  • @lindacosta5688
    @lindacosta5688 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    Your marriage may be over but a new chapter in your life is just beginning.
    You are beautiful, you are strong.
    I walked away from my marriage after 27 years. At 52 years old, I started my life over with two grown children. 8 years later, I have grown so much. It will not be easy but you will build a new life and, yes, you will be able to love again. Many blessings to you!

    • @vcfhggg8453
      @vcfhggg8453 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      السلام عليكم

  • @ahmadalfadli6652
    @ahmadalfadli6652 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you. And Allah Knows, while you know not.

    • @user-yq2yp3sx9d
      @user-yq2yp3sx9d 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      السلام عليكم

    • @ahmadalfadli6652
      @ahmadalfadli6652 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-yq2yp3sx9d وعليكم السلام

  • @yusasmayusoff8046
    @yusasmayusoff8046 ปีที่แล้ว +589

    Stay strong my dear sister. Divorce is not the end of the world. As long as you have Allah, you have everything. Everything else does not matter anymore. Keep your faith even stronger in this difficult time. Love from Malaysia 🇲🇾

    • @-hc_5sl
      @-hc_5sl 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      JAZZAKALLAH

    • @dharialurie2195
      @dharialurie2195 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How Humankind Came To Be
      "... Since it’s the new year, I should have said a few festive words that everyone likes to hear, but I see danger is getting closer and closer to mankind. Because of this, Gods and Buddhas asked me to tell all beings in the world a few words that the Gods wish to say. Every word reveals heavenly secrets, and the purpose is for people to know the truth and be given another opportunity to be saved."
      ***
      Why the Creator Seeks to Save All Life
      "...The Creator is the Lord of all divine beings in the Cosmos. He is the maker of the Lord of lords, of the King of kings, and He is the Sovereign of all lives-including the Three Realms’ human lives, spiritual beings, and material things, all of which He made. His love is the highest and most sacred blessing for all lives! There is no greater honor for any person in this world than to be loved by Him!"
      New articles by Master Li Hongzhi on Minghui website

    • @lullaby218
      @lullaby218 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      A||ah is geh...

    • @anonymousshahana9134
      @anonymousshahana9134 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Innalillahi wa inna ilaihi rajiun

    • @Bambotb
      @Bambotb 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stop saying it's written..we have free will..

  • @sahrichion
    @sahrichion 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "How wonderful is the case of a believer; there is good for him in everything and this applies only to a believer. If prosperity attends him, he expresses gratitude to Allah and that is good for him; and if adversity befalls him, he endures it patiently and that is better for him".
    Alhamdulilah for everything sister. Thank you for sharing. You do give us hope and a very valuable meaning that we forget during our daily life.

  • @adammizwar9094
    @adammizwar9094 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    As a man, I dare to say that you are a beautiful human being inside and out. Don't ever lose hope, sister. It's his loss for letting go of you...
    I send you du'a and wish you the best. Take care of yourself, please. Your health comes first and your child needs you. About moving on to another relationship, just take your time. Move on when you have accepted everything, from a place of acceptance not from a place of fear of loneliness...
    You're a great lady, you should know that. Allah has a great plan for you, you're the chosen one. Stay strong, sister! Please know that there are people out there who love you!
    Greetings from Indonesia! 🙏🙏

    • @user-yq2yp3sx9d
      @user-yq2yp3sx9d 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      سلام عليكم ه‍ه‍م'iikhwani wa'akhawati biallah yahal yaebad allah alsaalihin nihna banat 'aytam 'awlad sighar talibi aleawn walmusaeadat minkum wajjh allah taealaa wallah muhajarin min baladina malana mueayan min baed allah 'umiy mariduh muhtajuh dawa' hataa tamin sihiyin qateu eanha anashadukum biallah muhamad rasul 'iilaa man ladayh alrahmat yushfiq ealayna al'ayaam alsaebat walqasiat alati tamuru bina wallah maeishuh saeb wazurufuna eadam sahib albayt taradna min albayt sabab turkum al'iijar ealayna wallah halaa qaeidin ghurfatan eibaratan ean tuthih wallah kahraba' mafyha maqtue eanha may nakhidhuha min aljiran ainshidakum biallah talibat aleawn walmusaeadat minkum wajah allah taealaa saeiduni eindi 'iithbat kalami bihasanat 'awladik dhakatihim 'ajruk eind alla

    • @whoisthispleasefathmah8963
      @whoisthispleasefathmah8963 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-yq2yp3sx9d 😂 3 Talaq it is over

  • @SS-tw7ur
    @SS-tw7ur ปีที่แล้ว +346

    I watched this video last night and left without leaving a comment, today I woke up with you in my mind and a dua and I have come back to write this comment…….. May Allah protect and guide you alway, bless you and your daughter with aafiah and hasanah in this world and hereafter and give you the best substitute for what you have lost, ameen!!!!!! Lots of love and prayers for you, my beautiful sister❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @zaarazari2190
      @zaarazari2190 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Ameen suma ameen.May Allah azzawajal bless you the best of both the worlds and heal your wounds and strength your faith and keep you strong on your journey, may Allah azzawajal open the the doors of His utmost rahmat on you and your daughter ameen.

    • @anisahahmad2576
      @anisahahmad2576 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Be strong dear. May Allah bless u always

  • @learnarabicwithmaria
    @learnarabicwithmaria ปีที่แล้ว +399

    Be strong, Aisha. You are a wonderful Muslim. And a beautiful and strong mother.

    • @dinalee2955
      @dinalee2955 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I' m really sorry for your situation, buf first thing came to mh mind while watching you is that our prophet( s.a.s) was married a lady with kids from the previous marriage.I hope Allah has the best plan for. Sometimes, there is good in bad and bad in good, we just cant realize it. Its easy to write down things like these for others situations, inşallah Allah , we'll give you much more better than you' ve lost.

    • @princesskadi7
      @princesskadi7 ปีที่แล้ว

      why did they get divorced?????

    • @flowers379_
      @flowers379_ ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@user-by36589 don't be nosy! They are both human and Shaytan is there too! You can fill the blanks! You are making me guess and I hate it! Ok...I think it's more likely culture differences and family values..you know outside influences and with Shaytan being the mastermind! Very few marriages can survive today!

    • @PeaceToAll-sl1db
      @PeaceToAll-sl1db ปีที่แล้ว

      @@princesskadi7 a muslim woman is just property - man can divorce her any time he wants

    • @ar-rumaysaahajar123
      @ar-rumaysaahajar123 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @k. I was wondering the same thing. Why did they divorce? Inshallah, they will come together again soon, and hopefully, it will be better this time Inshallah

  • @rbester4779
    @rbester4779 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    In this day and age of ours, it's not smooth sailing for any new married couples who are still learning each other. It becomes even more challenging when you are on TH-cam and you've let the whole world into your life which only places more pressure on yourselves as the world out there on the internet can be a nasty place. My hats off to you for, despite your ordeals you faced, you have come out much stronger than before and you have grown in your conviction to your Creator which is of utmost importance. Alot of the wives of the Sahaba were previous widows or divorcees so don't worry about perception of people as only Allah (SWA) knows what he has set out for you.

  • @Retributivist
    @Retributivist 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My mother remarried in her late 40s in 2020. She and my stepfather have been together ever since. I have nothing but good things to say about my stepfather and my mother is more happy than she's ever been. Both are devout Muslims. Don't let the divorce cause doubt in your faith. I'm currently struggling with doubts as well, (for very different reasons) but what I can say is that Muslims believe that Allah will test you in this life, especially if your iman is very strong. Your character will speak for you, and the right person will find you, just as that person found my mother.

  • @luqmanosman4508
    @luqmanosman4508 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    I think it's important to have good muslim connections when things like this happen. Especially for Reverts as they don't have a Muslim family for support.

    • @user-ww2lc1yo9c
      @user-ww2lc1yo9c ปีที่แล้ว +6

      yes, reverts rarely have a family that is going to back them, so if/when their marriage breaks down, it causes a peculiar kind of destructive effect on them and their children and the community at large
      It would still be great to know what could cause this to happen since they already had a child and she says that they were happy, maybe not a detailed exposition but something will be helpful to prevent this from happening to marriage of other reverts and muslimas

    • @MeryemHMa
      @MeryemHMa ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Indeed having a family backing up is something wonderful! But… here I would like to say not all Muslim family are having strong faiths and are well practiced Muslims. So they can’t be a backup force when things happened! In contrary they could be THE ONE who drops more salt on our skins @@ that was mine experience 😢 hoping more people get support when they are needed Insha’Allah

    • @behuman3801
      @behuman3801 ปีที่แล้ว

      They have family too and their families support too perhaps better than many Muslim families

    • @blackpanthar906
      @blackpanthar906 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We are their family, the community should come forward and support, specially our sisters.

    • @kingGhobra
      @kingGhobra ปีที่แล้ว

      @@behuman3801 Maybe better then your family. I rather follow the advice of Muslims.

  • @hamadalkhalifa2323
    @hamadalkhalifa2323 ปีที่แล้ว +548

    It doesn't matter if you get married again or not. The most important thing is that you stay strong. Allah will help inshallah.

    • @josephjasem7926
      @josephjasem7926 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It does matter that she marries again and again and again if need be. If it’s permissible and halal why not? Look at the Islamic history. The prophet married widows and divorcees and made sure that many of the women Sahabah got re-married. Go read about Sayiduna Zayd and his first wife Safiya(our mother). Their story is mentioned in the Quran. Zayd is the only Sahabi mentioned by name in the Quran and it’s about his divorce from Safiya to forbid adoption in Islam.

    • @mohammedkamran7649
      @mohammedkamran7649 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      ​@@josephjasem7926 he is not saying anything wrong

    • @josephjasem7926
      @josephjasem7926 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@mohammedkamran7649 yes he is saying something wrong. The Sunnah of all prophets of Allah is for the man and the woman to not decide to stay single. Whenever a woman gets divorced or widowed our prophet made sure that she got remarried again. Why do you encourage him and sister Aisha to go against the Sunnah?!😡

    • @mohammedkamran7649
      @mohammedkamran7649 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@josephjasem7926 he said get married or not does not matter

    • @black-x98
      @black-x98 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@mohammedkamran7649, it matters.

  • @ilyasafridi10
    @ilyasafridi10 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Dear Sister in Islam! painful and can't find words to express but patience in the time of test is your biggest jewel. Not many people can bear such pain easily. May Allah bless you and protect you!

  • @AllieAll
    @AllieAll 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Aisha, I just saw some of your videos recently, and I was impressed with your insight. I’m sorry that you’re going through challenges and I pray that Allah protects you and your family, and provides you with the best of this world and the next.

  • @ifrah5198
    @ifrah5198 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    You know Aisha, I once saw your birth vlog. And trust me it had a MASSIVE effect on me.
    I was pregnant at that time and was scared to give birth. Your attitude gave me a new perspective and I had a wonderful birth. But unfortunately lost my daughter a day after. It was so sudden and unexpected but alhamdullilah it was a test and I know I will be reunited with her Inshallah.
    I will pray for you ❤

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I am so sorry! I was going through a lot... I beat cancer at age 4, only to lose my dad to cancer in Oct. 11. It really impacted me. I continue to stay in college to keep my dad's honor and memory. That's what he wanted. Anyway, I was going through some financial struggles and was very frustrated. Just down. I will continue to pray for you.

    • @ifrah5198
      @ifrah5198 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@shimmer4771 oh I'm so sorry. May Allah make it easy for you and give your father the highest place in jannah. Ameen.
      And jazakallah for your words

    • @sharminsunny4019
      @sharminsunny4019 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😢

    • @sireenabdelhadi1297
      @sireenabdelhadi1297 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😢😢😢😢 May Allah bless you both and reward you and give you the highest Jannah Ameen and all the muslims Ameen

    • @wakelogger8357
      @wakelogger8357 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh man,i am sorry for you. May Allah grant you and your family a place in heaven.

  • @mufaba
    @mufaba ปีที่แล้ว +378

    My advice to every brother and sister: keep your personal life away from the social media. May Allah help you sister Aisha.

    • @lionheart4552
      @lionheart4552 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your Allah helps no one. It's all In your head.

    • @iba6947
      @iba6947 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      True nowadays it's becoming very common and normal to share every single detail of ur life but that opens doors for a lot of buad stuff as well. That's why Im a strong advocate for being anonymous and not really being an open book so to speak. People tend to become very evil these days, better protect urself

    • @mindyl5990
      @mindyl5990 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Evil eye exists but I feel it gets used too often. When anything bad happens it is suddenly from the evil eye.
      I am not on social media nor do I posts pics of my family but my marriage is still defined as rocky.
      This is called Life. I would be concerned if you don’t get tested.

    • @mindyl5990
      @mindyl5990 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alhamdulillah you have been blessed with a daughter and good health.
      My cousin went from having lice to suddenly in a hospital bed with stage 4 cancer. One day you think you are fine then the next you are told you will die soon. That changed my perspective on a lot of things. Are we ready to die?

    • @an8m744
      @an8m744 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mindyl5990 may Allah grant your cousin full shifa and speedy recovery ameen

  • @ShabirHussain-qx6wt
    @ShabirHussain-qx6wt 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Beautiful presentation and effective lecture. Allah almighty always stands by those who believe in him.

  • @Preciouss16
    @Preciouss16 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you sister for this video. Seeing you talk about it and being so graceful towards it calmed me down a bit and reassured me that it will be okay. Allah has written it for us and He will surely replace it with something better. May He make it easy for us

  • @convertkendo5224
    @convertkendo5224 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Shocked. I dip into your content from time to time as I find it very helpful and honourable. You went to Islam for yourself and Islam and not for a man. You remain and stand firm sister inshallah. There are soo many new Muslim / convert channels but a lot ,not all , seem faddy and insincere and boutique like. Your work is vital and been helpful to me and I thank you for it and please continue. As a revert things ain’t great for me at the moment and if I get the courage I’ll drop you a line . Wish you and the little one all the best. Inshallah.

    • @user-ww2lc1yo9c
      @user-ww2lc1yo9c ปีที่แล้ว

      Is there a way to know what can cause marriage of reverts to break down, if it is not infidelity from husband, not domestic abuse (psychological or physical), then what is it?

    • @nishat47
      @nishat47 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@user-ww2lc1yo9c Difference in thinking, incompatibility. I’ve seen some reverts & also other people to get divorced because they couldn't agree on important life decisions, and it only leads to more conflicts with time. Most of them take care of their children even if they are divorced which shows mutual trust & respect. I know a family where the wife had no guardian & after the divorce her mother in law helped her finding a new husband to marry again.

    • @sparklingdreams6344
      @sparklingdreams6344 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@user-ww2lc1yo9cit's the man they should stay bu their words but instead they want to try out a new life and think they can find someone better!!!

    • @convertkendo5224
      @convertkendo5224 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-ww2lc1yo9c generally can be incompatibility also I would say already existing partners may not be accommodating of a reverts new religion and way of life.

    • @user-ww2lc1yo9c
      @user-ww2lc1yo9c ปีที่แล้ว

      @@convertkendo5224 has someone done an indepth study into this topic?

  • @msyyt
    @msyyt ปีที่แล้ว +234

    It's not "all over" yet. Just a part of life & everything has already been written. Be strong & be positive. Trust Allah & His plans. “So, surely with hardship comes ease” (Quran 94:5)

  • @abdelhalimchouli7531
    @abdelhalimchouli7531 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Your video came right on time! May Allah عزّ وجل keep you steadfast and enlighten your path.

  • @syedmiragefaredie2932
    @syedmiragefaredie2932 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Indeed it's a tough time. It happens to many people. Unfortunate though. When I was going through a hard time someone told me, "whatever Allah does, does it for good". That changes everything in my life. I found a new energy within. You will find someone who will change your life for the better. I'm a middle aged person. I've two children who are adults but not married. I pray to Allah to bless you with happiness and a great future.

  • @hussainakhtar4551
    @hussainakhtar4551 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    May Allah give you patience and courage. I am a divorcee and I met someone else and alhamdullah have had my nikah with someone who converted to Islam. Life is not always easy but like you I accept that this is my test from Allah. Keep strong

  • @fzsoccerstuff1815
    @fzsoccerstuff1815 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    I don't know what to say but one thing I m gonna say is stay strong and stay on Deen InshaAllah everything is gonna be fine 🤍

  • @kibooofficial6386
    @kibooofficial6386 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Saya muslim dari indonesia sy mengikuti chanel anda dan saya sangat kagum dengan iman dan kecintaanmu terhadap islam, allah maha creator jadi yakinlah allah punya rencana besar untuk anda dan keluarga kecilmu. Tetap istiqomah

  • @omema81
    @omema81 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    May Allah grant you ease and preserve your imaan. Ameen
    Jazak’Allah khayr for sharing such a private personal account with us . Loads of love and duaas for you . ❤❤

  • @user-yl5ng7in7r
    @user-yl5ng7in7r ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Dear Aisha, may Allah helps & supports you Inshaa Allah. I'm also divorced. It was a shock at first- of course, but now I'm much much better & strong Alhamdullah & everything is nice now. I spend my time with Quran & good people. I always felt that Allah supports me till this moment. I attended alot of courses and learned alot of skills Alhamdullah

  • @misspra4468
    @misspra4468 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    hi sister Aisha... I'm divorce and single fighter of 2 kids. at first yes its hard but after the right time... I feel more peace and I never regret. I thank him because it makes me who I am today. even better I am closer to Allah than I was before. alhamdulillah

    • @blackpanthar906
      @blackpanthar906 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you a sister?

    • @Therebelliousprince001
      @Therebelliousprince001 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why are you glorifying divorce? Divorce is a tragedy.

    • @Therebelliousprince001
      @Therebelliousprince001 ปีที่แล้ว

      You need to hold yourself accountable as well.

    • @greenamazon1751
      @greenamazon1751 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      She is brave to come forward and share with the public. Shame on you for your negative cowardly comments.

    • @ksxt
      @ksxt ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@Therebelliousprince001 where does she glorifiying divorce? She didn‘t. You don‘t know their reason(s) for their divorce.

  • @nayelaahmed7887
    @nayelaahmed7887 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alhumdulillah! Aisha Rosalie! Love your strength in Islam! May Allah bless you a billion times in this Duniya and the hereafter! Ameen!

  • @rizkn23
    @rizkn23 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May you be eased of any difficulties and to have good health/strength mentally & physically.

  • @mistert8775
    @mistert8775 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Hang in there sister. You know, everyone will be tested. Allah will test us with loss, death, divorce, illness etc. Whenever I think how hard my life can be, I think about the children in Yemen, or those in Gaza, and others that are going through a much harder time than I am. Always count your blessings from Allah! Allah tests everyone, especially his strongest believers.

    • @curiousmind_
      @curiousmind_ ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True

    • @kingGhobra
      @kingGhobra ปีที่แล้ว

      Could you give the source of where it says that Allah test us with divorce? Allah hates divorce and tells us in the Holy Quran to reconcile and change our minds so that He can forgive and be merciful.

  • @TheIMRANULKRIM
    @TheIMRANULKRIM ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I can't tell you to be strong because you already are

  • @anikasuraiyasura9158
    @anikasuraiyasura9158 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It's amazing how strong you are!!! as a by born muslim, who studied and did serious research on Islam and had a huge boost of sincerity and faith in Allah and the religion... I get shook by many hardships too but... that's what life is about, if it was going to be butter smooth, this place would've been the Heaven,, so hang in there Love

    • @donjuan506
      @donjuan506 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You did serious studies on Islam? Did you end up leaving or where you reading blind? Because when you really study Islam it is a joke.

  • @sherazahmedch
    @sherazahmedch หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your journey and strength are truly inspiring, Aisha Rosalie. You are a remarkable soul, and I deeply respect you. If you ever visit Pakistan, my home is open to you. It would be an honor for you to meet my mother and sister and share a meal with us. Your story fills me with pride, and it ignites a desire in me to deepen my faith and embrace Islam more fully (though I was born Muslim, witnessing your devotion makes me reflect on the depth of my own faith).
    May you always be blessed and continue to shine brightly.

  • @breakofdawn44
    @breakofdawn44 ปีที่แล้ว +250

    I also got divorced from a very abusive narcissist. As an American living in Saudi Arabia and my kids father being Saudi…it was super hard. He fought me every step of the way. Took me 6 years to finally get my khulaa(where the woman files for divorce) and still keep my children with me. Now I’m married again to an amazing man who loves me and my 8 kids.
    It wasn’t easy to be a single mom but it can be done. Don’t ever feel shy to ask for help when you need it!

    • @AmicableAgnostic
      @AmicableAgnostic 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Why did it took 6 years?

    • @MSirajRiaz
      @MSirajRiaz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      She just said he wasn't abusive so why say also
      Speak for yourself luv

    • @farjanazannat787Uk.
      @farjanazannat787Uk. 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah 🤍

    • @themanifester1807
      @themanifester1807 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I can’t believe this, honestly. I am an attractive, professional woman, great housekeeper, anything you want - and every man I know said that they do isn’t want to marry me cuz I have 1(!) child. Even throw the “child” is now 16, and has a good father who supports him financially and in every other way, I have recently heard this comment again, lol. Who are these nasty f men who I am surrounded with??

    • @ezechiele.6001
      @ezechiele.6001 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      To remarry after a divorce is adultery !

  • @user-pt9ht5tz2z
    @user-pt9ht5tz2z 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +104

    ❤Am a mother of three going through divorce alhamdulliah . Am using this time to learn an memorized the Quran . I see it as test .

    • @markscheepers9908
      @markscheepers9908 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Apparently, based on surah 2:228-230 reconciliation is only possibly based on certain conditions:
      ⦁ [Surah 2:229-230]; A divorce is only permissible twice: after that, the parties should either hold Together on equitable terms, or separate with kindness. It is not lawful for you, (Men), to take back any of your gifts (from your wives), except when both parties fear that they would be unable to keep the limits ordained by Allah. If ye (judges) do indeed fear that they would be unable to keep the limits ordained by Allah, there is no blame on either of them if she give something for her freedom. These are the limits ordained by Allah. so do not transgress them if any do transgress the limits ordained by Allah, such persons wrong (Themselves as well as others).
      🚩⦁ 230. So IF A HUSBAND DIVORCES HIS WIFE (IRREVOCABLY), HE CANNOT, AFTER THAT, RE-MARRY HER UNTIL AFTER SHE HAS MARRIED ANOTHER HUSBAND AND HE HAS DIVORCED HER. In that case there is no blame on either of them if they re-unite, provided they feel that they can keep the limits ordained by Allah. Such are the limits ordained by Allah, which He makes plain to those who understand.
      From the hadith's it is also clear that THE DIVORCED WOMAN HAS TO FIRST "CONSUMMATE" HER SECOND MARRIGES BEFORE THAT SECOND HUSBAND CAN DIVORCE HER, only then can she return to the first husband (if she wanted to). What evilness taught by Allah for ever expecting the woman do this if she realises she wants to go back with her first husband, she has and is forced to sleep with another man first (what a disgusting requirement).
      What are the Biblical reasons for divorce?
      🚩⦁ [Deuteronomy 24:1-4]; "When a man takes a wife and marries her, if then she finds no favor in his eyes BECAUSE he has found some INDECENCY in her,...and if she goes and BECOMES ANOTHER MAN’S WIFE, and the latter man hates her and writes her a certificate of divorce and puts it in her hand and sends her out of his house, or if the latter man dies, who took her to be his wife, THEN HER FORMER HUSBAND, WHO SENT HER AWAY, MAY NOT TAKE HER AGAIN TO BE HIS WIFE, AFTER SHE HAS BEEN "DEFILED". For that IS AN ABOMINATION before the LORD."
      1. So divorce is allowed from Scripture where in "Numbers 5:6-31 & Deuteronomy 22:13-21" it provides examples of what makes a woman indecent.
      2. But unlike Allah's demands, the Abrahamic God forbids a man "remarrying" his EX after she remarries...Clearly Allah contradicts the Abrahamic God who says this is an ABOMINATION.
      What the Biblical God days about divorce:
      🚩⦁ [Malachi 2:13-16]; "...So take heed to yourselves, and let none be FAITHLESS to the wife of his youth. FOR I HATE DIVORCE, says the LORD the God of Israel,...".
      The Biblical God does not approve of a divorced person getting remarried. As long as there remains the possibility of reconciliation and re-unification in marriage, A NEW MARRIAGE TO A DIFFERENT PERSON IS NOT PERMISSIBLE. IT IS SIN.
      🚩We consistently find Allah contradicting the God that appeared to Abraham & Moses (yet the Islamic prophet "claimed" they were the same God...based on the contradictions I just showed, this is not possible...So, clearly Allah is not the Biblical God as your prophet claimed...if not then who is he and where did your prophets revelation come from...it's clearly not from the Abrahamic God as he claimed because we see clear differences between them?.
      🔷Those following Allah's corrupted laws will have to face and answer to the true God on judgement day (the God of Abraham & Moses). These are "warnings", you can't say you have not heard it before, which if you continue to ignore out of pride you will be faced with at judgement.

    • @coolguy1283
      @coolguy1283 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@markscheepers9908
      Without wasting your effort in quoting the Glorious Quran!!
      Do you think divorce is a joke!! Marrying three times and divorcing twice. How do you see that!! To my personal view, there must be something wrong and our creator understands us more that's why He puts that condition so that if you are really serious in your marriage and you don't want anyone to touch your spouse then you will never take that foolish decision unless you don't care! Don't try to bring your opinion or quotes from the Bible otherwise everyone knows what is.

    • @markscheepers9908
      @markscheepers9908 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@coolguy1283 Clearly you are no Muslim, maybe you are a wannabe, since you don't even understand what the verse means, "A divorce is only permissible twice"...LOL, this is not 2 divorces as you seem to claiming but rather the act by either spouse "pronouncing" intentions to divorce the other 2-times. After either spouse "pronounces" this intent 3 times the marriage is over.
      So pronouncing of triple divorce in one session i.e. the word "Talaq" ends the marriage.
      I don't know what you are on-about marrying 3 times and divorcing twice...don't be so eager to answer, first get your facts straight before commenting.

    • @user-yq2yp3sx9d
      @user-yq2yp3sx9d 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@coolguy1283السلام عليكم

    • @user-yq2yp3sx9d
      @user-yq2yp3sx9d 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@markscheepers9908سلام عليكم

  • @fauzibaba6410
    @fauzibaba6410 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Stay strong and you’ll get thru…Insha Allah

  • @zrperro
    @zrperro 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Salam, This is awesome. You are so right. I hope Allah continues to guide and protect you, Ameen. I'm not going through anything close to what you're going through. We all have our struggles. I love your faith thus far. I hope Allah continues to increase you in faith and patience, Ameen.
    Even if Allah does not provide you with a new husband, it's ok. Please continue to do good in your life and post positive encouragement for people. When you feel overwhelmed, remember the scripture. Remember Ayyub (alayhi salam) and Maryam (alayhi salam) and their struggles and situations.

  • @nishatkabir5902
    @nishatkabir5902 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    Stay strong sister! Allah tests only those he loves! Currently battling cancer! So I believe we only get tested to be elevated as our deed alone aren’t enough! Loads of love and dua for u sister! ❤❤

    • @mariahaji2226
      @mariahaji2226 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      May Allah give you good health Nishat and give you reward and strength with every pain and struggle.

    • @Unknownperson-ob7fu
      @Unknownperson-ob7fu ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Stay strong brother/sister indeed Allah test those whom he love the most, may Allah gives you a good health

    • @salwamoustafa9284
      @salwamoustafa9284 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      May Allah heal u aamiiin

    • @theonelikesaf3679
      @theonelikesaf3679 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      May Allah grant you complete shifa and sabr and make it an expiation for all your sins. Ameen

    • @esthellakomerl8084
      @esthellakomerl8084 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      May Allah SWT give you shifaa

  • @YunitaCooking
    @YunitaCooking ปีที่แล้ว +152

    Be strong, Aisha. May Allah always protect you and Khadija. ❤

    • @zouminlandau6753
      @zouminlandau6753 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amin

    • @Sydd787
      @Sydd787 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ameen, these are very difficult times I pray she gets the needed help and support, it's always painful to see a family get broken, may Allah strengthen our family ties Ameen.

  • @ahmadsudin5907
    @ahmadsudin5907 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i'm 67 yo. going, gone tru many facets in life. also divoiced.. but sad to hear this for you, stray strong and i pray you have a better future

  • @smonline631
    @smonline631 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you are so beautiful thanks G., i was raised in a single family, it will be all good for the better. i after discovered that dad got alcoholic and died because of that and that he was very cynical. sometimes there are benefits of events you see only after 20-30 years... you are so special, keep vitality going and acomplish your plans at fullest while you have 100% freedom of decision

  • @WizeAdvice1
    @WizeAdvice1 ปีที่แล้ว +287

    It is Something that we Just can't control, I got divorced after 32 years of marriage, 5 well educated (1 Doctor 2 Nurses so far ) beautiful Children and 5 Awesome Grandchildren, and been living alone for 6 years now, I stay busy working in many fields, spend my spare time spreading the Deen, could have remarried but decided against that, know that Allah is always in Control. ALHAMDULILLAH, Stay Strong my dear Sister. ( edited I'm the X- Husband and Grandfather 😊 )

    • @ASH-mq3lh
      @ASH-mq3lh ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Dear sis Aysha,
      Allah says in the Qur’an
      “Perhaps you dislike something,and that thing is good for you,and perhaps you love something,and it is bad for you”
      Only Allah knows ,and you don’t,”2/216
      Keep reminding that to yourself.
      You are neither the first nor the last to go through that!
      Even pious women during the time of prophet got divorced.
      Stay strong

    • @user-ww2lc1yo9c
      @user-ww2lc1yo9c ปีที่แล้ว +11

      what can cause marriage to fail after 32 years?

    • @thebeesnuts777
      @thebeesnuts777 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How can you be alone with your children and grandchildren ? Do they not live with you?

    • @JESUS_SUJUD
      @JESUS_SUJUD ปีที่แล้ว

      Alhamdulillah 🤲👍🥰💪🇮🇩

    • @abumansaray7
      @abumansaray7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@thebeesnuts777, don't ask personal questions online. Disrespectful.

  • @blossom6473
    @blossom6473 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    God bless you 🙏 I'm not a Muslim but I find that you're such a kind and wondered person. Stay brave and move on with your life ❤

    • @muhammadkadhaab
      @muhammadkadhaab 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      --------....------Allah allows sxx with children chapter 65 verse 4 - Tafsir Ibn Al Kathir
      The Iddah of Those in Menopause and Those Who do not have Menses
      Allah the Exalted clarifies the waiting period of the woman in menopause. And that is the one whose menstruation has stopped due to her older age. Her Iddah is three months instead of the three monthly cycles for those who menstruate.The same for the young, who have not reached the years of menstruation. Their Iddah is three months like those in menopause.....The same for the young, who have not reached the years of menstruation. Pedophilia

    • @user-yq2yp3sx9d
      @user-yq2yp3sx9d 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      السلام عليكم

  • @UmmeSalma-sm9ed
    @UmmeSalma-sm9ed 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Much prayers for your strength and steadfast. Go brave.

  • @amywatson9292
    @amywatson9292 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May Allah keeps you frm on the right path and gives you strength during this time. Everyone is going through a test of a different or similar nature and we all are here for each other give each other words of supoort. May Allah makes it easy for us all Amen🤲🏼

  • @zeynemraan7494
    @zeynemraan7494 ปีที่แล้ว +347

    Stay strong Inshallah. I was divorced after 22yrs of marriage. I never thought it could happen to me. I remarrie a few years later and I have been married for 5 years now. Im so happy. So happy. Its like all the pain I went through did not happen. Alhumdulillah

    • @PeaceToAll-sl1db
      @PeaceToAll-sl1db ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol 22 years and then divorce - -what a waste of a life

    • @uncledan2u
      @uncledan2u ปีที่แล้ว +91

      ​@@PeaceToAll-sl1db
      To you it's a waste. To her it's a rebirth. I wish her well. Allah is Great.

    • @kaz4845
      @kaz4845 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@PeaceToAll-sl1dbwow your name must be very ironic.. Not very peaceful at all😂.. Go ask your mum to give you a new name

    • @believeingood
      @believeingood ปีที่แล้ว +44

      ​@@PeaceToAll-sl1dblol, what an ignorant comment. No life is wasted just as nothing that happens to us is a loss if it brings us closer to Allah SWT and opens new doors.

    • @zeynemraan7494
      @zeynemraan7494 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@PeaceToAll-sl1db Not quite my friend. I have 3 beautiful kids and it changed my perspective on life. Anyway , if you are Muslim, you know this is not the true life. Real life is in the hereafter. You cannot go against Allah's plan for you, and I am happy with whatever Allah has decided for me.

  • @versitorang5532
    @versitorang5532 ปีที่แล้ว +283

    You are on the next level Sister.. The whole world can stay away from you but Allah will never leave you.. Be strong❤❤

    • @kafukibuyu971
      @kafukibuyu971 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't worry Allah has something for her. Quran 2:230 "So if a husband divorces his wife ˹three times˺, then it is not lawful for him to remarry her until after she has married another man and then is divorced. Then it is permissible for them to reunite, as long as they feel they are able to maintain the limits of Allah. These are the limits set by Allah, which He makes clear for people of knowledge". Welcome to Islam😅

    • @TS-zd2ud
      @TS-zd2ud ปีที่แล้ว

      Son of God does not mean that God has a child in Christianity!
      *what a mistake in the Qur'an!*
      Son of God are 2 titles one referring to the Word of God and one referring to creation (humans, angels, demons)

    • @TS-zd2ud
      @TS-zd2ud ปีที่แล้ว

      Hebr 1,2 Hath in these last days spoken unto us by his Son, whom he hath appointed heir of all things, *by whom also he made the worlds;*
      as everyone can see the term Son of God refers to the Word of God = god himself! For through that God created the worlds! *what a mistake in the Qur'an!*

    • @onyx9943
      @onyx9943 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@kafukibuyu971 what's your problem with that?

    • @kafukibuyu971
      @kafukibuyu971 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@onyx9943 It is disgusting and wicked.

  • @changing_dunya
    @changing_dunya 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I feel your struggle. I hope you keep your positivity up sister. 🤲

  • @nilabmansur2331
    @nilabmansur2331 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg I’m so happy I came across your video. I subscribed immediately after I finished watching your video. This was so beautiful and genuine. Alhamdulillah. I feel like Allah wanted me to see this. I needed this msg more than anything. May Allah bless you in the most beautiful ways inshAllah. Thank you sister I appreciate you so much.

  • @BestPKSA
    @BestPKSA ปีที่แล้ว +36

    "The pious companion to the prophet pbuh, they were very nervous when they weren't getting tested"
    This made me rethink about my situation my whole life wow

  • @kamelkefi6229
    @kamelkefi6229 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Dear Aisha,
    It was really a huge shock! May Allah give you the will to overcome it.Among the new reverts that my wife and I have read about , you are the one to whom we owe the deepest respect. You are so kind , so sincere in your faith , so helpful to others! Allah will help you _ go on praying as you have always done ! Maybe new horizons will be open to you .
    As it is said in the COW sura “But it is possible that ye dislike a thing which is good for you , and that ye like a thing which is bad for you _But Allah knoweth , and ye know not .” verse 216
    Kamel kefi , Tunisia _North Africa

  • @amadoubah4809
    @amadoubah4809 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're wonderful ma Shaa Allah, I always watch your videos from day 1, I wish every convert Muslimah to be as strong as you

  • @Atif_Ph.D._Kate_Bush_Fan_Club
    @Atif_Ph.D._Kate_Bush_Fan_Club 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You do not need to apologise. I'm so sorry to hear this sister. May the Almighty guide you through this. Hang in there and stay strong. You are still young and will inshallah find someone. I admire your honesty and kindness and many great qualities. Glad you have something positive and beautiful that you can take away from this experience.

  • @antoni1zemar2
    @antoni1zemar2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Salam Alaykom
    This is my first visit to your channel, and I'm truly touched by what I've seen. You're courageously navigating a difficult time and still distinguishing between what happened and your faith.
    It's heartbreaking, and even though divorce isn't typically frequent in our Islamic culture, life can be unpredictable.
    During these times, it's crucial to :
    - stay close to your loved ones,
    - take careful steps forward
    - and remember to rebuild your life at your own pace.
    It's important to remember that not all people who share our faith are necessarily good, and finding the right match can be a journey in itself. Stay strong!

  • @Moon-zg1ph
    @Moon-zg1ph ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Never lose your hope in Allah sis, in sha Allah you will get through this too, you are really strong masha Allah.
    “If it’s hard and you can’t cope with the pain, turn to Allah - after all, only He sees all our mental suffering ...” 💔

  • @mjsolom
    @mjsolom 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alhamdulillah! Ukhtaa, Allah knows best. BarakAllahu Feeki.

  • @Imru_gamer
    @Imru_gamer 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love and respect, sister Aisha. May Allah protect you, and May Allah make it easy for you. Stay strong, sister Aisha, we are all with you. I am honestly sad to hear this.💐💐🙏🙏

  • @duresabih
    @duresabih ปีที่แล้ว +49

    4:28 you are special that's why you got tested. Young single mum here of 8 years. Separated through abuse. I wish I had enough faith back then as much as you have now. You're special and strong. Keep going. ❤There's only good stuff coming

  • @nazifabdulazeez8441
    @nazifabdulazeez8441 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    What is most important thing to know is your relationships with Allah is not dependent on anyone. Keep your faith strong and move on

  • @ngangedrammeh6264
    @ngangedrammeh6264 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I’m a divorcee and a single dad with two beautiful children mashaallah, I understand some of the pain you are going through. I always try to be positive because I count the blessings of Allah which are uncountable and I accept and welcome his test. Allah won’t burden a soul beyond what it can’t bear. If you’re healthy, there’re people who aren’t, you have food to eat, some people are hungry, some people are married their whole life without kids ,Allah bless you with a kid or kids, even to be able to see, to talk, to walk basic things we take for granted there’re people who can’t . So say alhamdoullillah in any situation . My heart and prayers are with you in this difficult moment. May Allah guide you

    • @aliyahadaanni
      @aliyahadaanni 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do the children live with you?

    • @ngangedrammeh6264
      @ngangedrammeh6264 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@aliyahadaanni yes

    • @aliyahadaanni
      @aliyahadaanni 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ngangedrammeh6264 I hope you find love again. It's good to hear your story. It gives hope to others on thier own with children that there can be someone out there for us

    • @ngangedrammeh6264
      @ngangedrammeh6264 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@aliyahadaanni amiin Yaa Rabbi, thanks for these inspiring words, i would like to know you.

  • @mustafa-mo8kr
    @mustafa-mo8kr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mashaa Allah,
    ماشاء الله قوة إيمانك و صبرك، انت امراة قوية و شجاعة و واعية، تعرفين كيف تتصرفين و تاخذين القرار الصحيح، أتمنى لك حياة موفّقة و سعيدة و ادعو الله لك بالثبات على الاسلام و الصبر في البلاء.

  • @videoeditor7514
    @videoeditor7514 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    Sister please remember that you are not alone in this journey. you have a community of muslim umma to provide you with some financial assistance, i believe it would be beneficial for you to share your online payment method with us or consider starting live streams. this way, your audience, including myself, can contribute through super chats to help alleviate some of the financial burden you may be experiencing❤

  • @StoriesAndHistory101
    @StoriesAndHistory101 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    I don’t usually comment on YT. But just wanted to say that you are a wonderful person and an amazing muslim. I believe that this is all your test. And even though it seems hopeless to you at this time, I believe that Allah is going to reward you in the best way possible. Stay strong in your faith sister. Inna ma’al usri yusra. Fa inna ma’al usri yusra. My prayers are with you. May Allah give you the best in this world and akhira. Have faith in Allah. He is all powerful

    • @kingGhobra
      @kingGhobra ปีที่แล้ว

      Why would Allah reward someone for breaking a family?

    • @rawanruru8002
      @rawanruru8002 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kingGhobraits to test your patience and faith in allah. Allah will reward her for that inshalah.

    • @kingGhobra
      @kingGhobra ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rawanruru8002 So if I do something that Allah dislikes I will get a reward for that?

    • @rawanruru8002
      @rawanruru8002 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kingGhobra no. If she went out of her way to ruin ber marriage and seek a divorce in an unfair or evil way then thats wrong. But if problems arise in a marriage and the couple cant maintain a good relationship no matter how they try and they decide to peacefully divorce then thats not wrong. Thats qadar.

    • @kingGhobra
      @kingGhobra ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rawanruru8002 She said in the video that there was no serious reason to divorce. Knowing this fact, why are you telling her that Allah will reward her while Allah clearly mentions in the holy Quran about divorces: Change your mind and reconcile so Allah can forgive and be mercifil. She did not listen to Allah and continued with the divorce so why are you saying that Allah will reward her?

  • @deenaarief5133
    @deenaarief5133 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May Allah make it easier for everyone whatever your challenges might be❤

  • @khalidbarkatullah6298
    @khalidbarkatullah6298 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    It’s not over,it is a beginning for something better which our merciful creator has planned for you. Remember him more often and know for certain that with every hardship there is ease.

  • @idk25438
    @idk25438 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    aisha ur a really strong person .... watching ur video made me realise how important it is to trust Allah... when I go through some difficult situation I often become ungrateful towards our creator but after watching u thanking Allah even in such times...I learned how to be a good Muslim and always thank Allah... may Allah SWT make it easy for u...we are with u... stay strong...

  • @edysentoso7449
    @edysentoso7449 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Semoga Aisha , mendapatkan pasangan yg sholeh , Aisha dan puteri mendapat keberkahan. Aamiin.
    Tetap sabar dan istiqomah.

  • @cokdillihayat-multilinguallife
    @cokdillihayat-multilinguallife 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mashaallah Suphanallah to you. May Allah help you and ease your life tests❤

  • @davidsabr-colon5806
    @davidsabr-colon5806 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    Just the way you rationalize your situation reveals that you are a truly an enlightened individual. Your path will be blessed.

  • @Yan_100
    @Yan_100 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    I am single person not married yet. So, actually i dont feel your pain. but one thing I can tell you " Allah gives you a better, loving and caring husband in future. stay strong. Make dua for future life. "

    • @hewadsaad3014
      @hewadsaad3014 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Or maybe he will test her with yet another husband, we just don’t know but we pray.
      Cs Allah says in the Quran,
      And the hereafter is better and more enduring than this life
      And Allah also says,
      Do people think once they say, “We believe,” that they will be left without being put to the test?
      We certainly tested those before them. And ˹in this way˺ Allah will clearly distinguish between those who are truthful and those who are liars.
      Quran 29:2-3

    • @sanamuhammad97
      @sanamuhammad97 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ameen

    • @yashminaabrahamse2804
      @yashminaabrahamse2804 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In Shaa Allah Aameen Ya Rabbal Aalameen Aameen

    • @lionheart4552
      @lionheart4552 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      As long as he Is NOT PAKISTANI

    • @mikhan243
      @mikhan243 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you are a single man why you writing this idiot, if you want to marry her say it straight

  • @user-hi4op4po3p
    @user-hi4op4po3p 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Allah is always with you and you will pass this test of faith too Inshallah. 💗

  • @foodbanger
    @foodbanger 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ماشاء الله الله يثبتك و يقوي قلبك و يصبرك علي الشدائد و و يرزقك الذريه الصالحه و الابنه الباره التي تتمنيها ❤️

    • @mmmmm2274
      @mmmmm2274 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      بارك الله بك على دعائك لاختك بس نصيحه انتبهي من صورة بروفايلك ممكن تاخذي فيها اثم 🤍

  • @ismshsms
    @ismshsms ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Thats exactly how i felt when i was divorced a year ago with 3 kids at the age of 25 all of a sudden, im glad its not just me that feels like this, may Allah make it easy for you and open doors you never could have imagined x

    • @habibaladi9660
      @habibaladi9660 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Allahumma Aamiin

    • @repentancenow
      @repentancenow ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you follow Sura 2 v230. Because the God of Israel forbids it. It's abomination Deuteronomy 24 v1-4

  • @skyedouglas7109
    @skyedouglas7109 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Don’t worry sis I was a single mum as well and found a beautiful Muslim man who loved me and my children and now we have a child together as well alhamdulillah. You are beautiful inside and out and you will be an amazing role model for your daughter

    • @nimfall
      @nimfall ปีที่แล้ว +1

      fantastic

    • @Muslimvegan2010
      @Muslimvegan2010 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you for sharing you give me hope for me and my three Children’s.

    • @nimfall
      @nimfall 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Muslimvegan2010 are you muslim

  • @snaseem7368
    @snaseem7368 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My prayers are with you I pray that Allah make it easy for you to get through this difficult time. Beautiful thing about Islam is we feel the pain for our sisters and brothers no matter where we live.
    Sarwat from USA 🇺🇸

    • @vcfhggg8453
      @vcfhggg8453 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      سلام عليكم'iikhwani wa'akhawati biallah yahal yaebad allah alsaalihin nihna banat 'aytam 'awlad sighar talibi aleawn walmusaeadat minkum wajjh allah taealaa wallah muhajarin min baladina malana mueayan min baed allah 'umiy mariduh muhtajuh dawa' hataa tamin sihiyin qateu eanha anashadukum biallah muhamad rasul 'iilaa man ladayh alrahmat yushfiq ealayna al'ayaam alsaebat walqasiat alati tamuru bina wallah maeishuh saeb wazurufuna eadam sahib albayt taradna min albayt sabab turkum al'iijar ealayna wallah halaa qaeidin ghurfatan eibaratan ean tuthih wallah kahraba' mafyha maqtue eanha may nakhidhuha min aljiran ainshidakum biallah talibat aleawn walmusaeadat minkum wajah allah taealaa saeiduni eindi 'iithbat kalami bihasanat 'awladik dhakatihim 'ajruk eind allah

  • @laurak4961
    @laurak4961 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am divorced with 2 children , I was devastated at first but now it’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me . Alhamdulilah. I am happily remarried to An amazing man who treats me so well and finally know true love . Alhamdulilah for everything I’m making dua for u!

  • @rosleeabbas1182
    @rosleeabbas1182 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Assalamualaikum sister Aishah,
    I am deeply sorry to hear about your divorce from your husband. It can undoubtedly be a challenging and difficult experience. Remember that these tests and trials are part of the journey designed by Allah SWT. It is important to stay strong and have faith, sister.
    Divorce can be a painful process, filled with emotions and uncertainties. However, it is crucial to remember that Allah SWT is always with us, guiding and supporting us through every hardship. This trial may be an opportunity for growth and self-discovery, allowing you to reflect on your life and make positive changes.
    During this time, surround yourself with loved ones who can provide support and encouragement. Seek solace in the teachings of Islam and engage in acts of worship to find peace and comfort. Pray to Allah SWT for strength, patience, and guidance, as He is the ultimate source of comfort and healing.
    Remember, sister, that this phase of life is temporary, and it does not define your worth or future. Allah SWT has a plan for each one of us, and through this trial, you can emerge stronger and more resilient. Have trust in His wisdom and His ability to bring blessings even from the most difficult situations.
    Lastly, take care of yourself both emotionally and physically. Prioritize self-care and engage in activities that bring you joy and peace. Surround yourself with positivity, and have faith that Allah SWT will lead you to a brighter future.
    May Allah SWT grant you strength, ease your pain, and bring happiness and tranquility to your heart. You are not alone in this journey, sister. Stay strong and trust in His divine plan.

  • @kanzakidarkheavencuerquez4643
    @kanzakidarkheavencuerquez4643 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +177

    Alhamdullilah. Literrally cried watching this. I am having the same experience as you are sister. Only difference was, my wife was the one who wanted the divorce. It has been a week, I am trying to cope. I am also a revert for almost three years now. Thank you for your wisdom, watching your video kinda eased the burden I am feeling. I know Allah has plans for me, thank you for being an instrument. Alhamdullilah

    • @farjanazannat787Uk.
      @farjanazannat787Uk. 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Alhamdulillah

    • @amirsohailawan541
      @amirsohailawan541 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@farjanazannat787Uk. Alhamdulillah for everything

    • @bensweiss
      @bensweiss 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I'm so sorry for your loss. Your feelings a valid.

    • @PureExistence1
      @PureExistence1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Salaam brother, sorry you are going through this. I'm a sister by the way, but I've been married for 7 years and I'm a convert of 14 years.. I've had a lot of health issues come up in the last seven years despite being extremely healthy eating well and getting a lot of exercise. But because these Health trials kept coming steadily over the years, this last recent diagnosis was just too much for my husband... I haven't seen him in a week. He asked me to leave and go stay with my parents, and then a few days later sent me an email saying that he has felt the best that he has felt in seven years, he forgot what it's like to be free and not be around somebody whose negative and sick all the time. My negativity was not from having a bad attitude, it was simply because I wasn't feeling well. 😔 But anyway, I guess he's just had it with being with someone who always seems to have something wrong with them even though everything in my past cleared up after a while. It's not like I'm sitting here with 50 things wrong with me. The only thing wrong with me right now is some Fibromyalgia symptoms which stems from my second exposure to covid 8 months ago...I'm going to be on my own now because if he's feeling so great not being around me I can't imagine why he would want me back in his life. It's even harder because I have two parents in their eighties and they are both extremely sick and it's a very very stressful situation dealing with them and my dad is not a pleasant person to deal with. He's old, angry, sick, and impatient and loud! And I feel really horrible😓 I'm seriously too old for this at 47 years old. When I married him, I thought, Al hamdu lillah, I don't have to go through any more of that stupid breakup stuff and getting over another person and all that stuff that you go through when you're not a Muslim and engaged in dating and having relationships. I thought that breakup stuff was well behind me, but apparently not.
      I wish you hope, peace and recovery in your journey. As salaamun aleikum.

    • @sonnyblc7287
      @sonnyblc7287 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      your a man, you can just marry 4 more wifes lol

  • @james007bond
    @james007bond 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Insha Allah Sister
    Allah Talah always writes for the best.
    So sorry to hear once again.

  • @rosheen7643
    @rosheen7643 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wish you a lot of strength! May Allah always keep you under his mercy & in his protection, Ameen Ya Rab Alalameen

  • @youssefelharchaoui1082
    @youssefelharchaoui1082 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +136

    I'm proud of you Aisha Rosalie to be a member of this Muslim nation.❤

    • @muhammadkadhaab
      @muhammadkadhaab 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Allah allows sxx with children chapter 65 verse 4 - Tafsir Ibn Al Kathir
      The Iddah of Those in Menopause and Those Who do not have Menses
      Allah the Exalted clarifies the waiting period of the woman in menopause. And that is the one whose menstruation has stopped due to her older age. Her Iddah is three months instead of the three monthly cycles for those who menstruate.The same for the young, who have not reached the years of menstruation. Their Iddah is three months like those in menopause.....The same for the young, who have not reached the years of menstruation. Pedophilia what Nation Sunni hate and kill Shia and both kill Ahmadiyya

    • @lullaby218
      @lullaby218 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      A||ah is geh.....

    • @overvault
      @overvault 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@lullaby218the fact that you just repeat this same low IQ comment to get attention on this ideas just shows how childish you are...I feel bad for you

  • @achilgulum3822
    @achilgulum3822 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    Asalaam Walaikum sister Aisha, my husband and I stayed divorced for 1.5 years after seven years of rocky marriage, then miraculously we made up and became each other’s best friend and soul mate. During the period when we stayed divorced and parented our two kids together, we learned to let go of our ego, to communicate effectively, and grew deep friendship with each other. But before the last moment, both of us sincerely thought there was no way back for us. But both of us prayed for ourselves and each other that Allah may show us a way out of this weird situation. When we made this prayer again and again, we had no idea what this way would be. It turned out the way Allah showed us was to get back together. We did and we have been ever more compatible with each other since then. It’s been almost four years since we remarried to each other. Our third child is now one and half years old. With Allah’s permission, we are playing our roles as husband and wife better and better. So my advice would be never lose trust in Allah’s Mercy. Keep praying. He has the best plan for you. May Allah bless you and your baby and show you the way. I also advise you to not show your personal life online, whether it be your happy marriage, children or anything that can cause jealousy in others, because you can get evil eyes from people. Evil eyes are real and they can cause tremendous harm.

    • @Bianca2802
      @Bianca2802 ปีที่แล้ว

      Evil eye is nothing in compare what i believe they did to her. I can even see it in her eyes she was affected from magic.
      There are a lot of good things to say about Pakistan but one thing i hate,and this is that almost all of them are involved with magic.
      I know those people and also have been there so i know..

    • @mehloncholy
      @mehloncholy ปีที่แล้ว +12

      There are rules to remarry did u skip the whole page

    • @rehanas.4092
      @rehanas.4092 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Only if they divorced 3 times so don’t just make random comments lol

    • @funkidguestappearance1633
      @funkidguestappearance1633 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Chup kr just shut up😂🎉

    • @kafukibuyu971
      @kafukibuyu971 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes, we need believers like you. Quran 2:230 "So if a husband divorces his wife ˹three times˺, then it is not lawful for him to remarry her until after she has married another man and then is divorced. Then it is permissible for them to reunite, as long as they feel they are able to maintain the limits of Allah. These are the limits set by Allah, which He makes clear for people of knowledge". Welcome to Islam😅

  • @MaAndong2336
    @MaAndong2336 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Through life your social circle, family, friends, will grow and shrink in size. One holiday will be spent surrounded by many, and another might be spent with just one close friend. Parents lose children, lovers lose partners, children lose parents, and loss is just a part of life. But so too is gain. When you heal and move forward you have to look for and build upon good healthy relations with others to expand your circle. If you stop trying to grow your social circle, then you stunt any possibly to gain friendship, love, etc.

  • @moe4995
    @moe4995 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m new to your channel and I’ve been listening on my way to work instead senseless songs that won’t do me any good. I too am a divorcee and it was some of the hardest times I went through in my life

  • @SNSherafieIzuan
    @SNSherafieIzuan ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I am 37 yrs age , my parent divorced when I was 7. This situation trained me to be strong endure life with a single mother. It's like I became a 2nd father to my family who have to work after school and help my family earlier, instead of wasting time in my childhood. Maybe Allah swt has a greater plan ready for your family too in the future. A child who were raise without proper parenthood intend to be a survival in the worst scenario ever happen in life.

  • @abdullahtariq2032
    @abdullahtariq2032 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Sister, we might not be able to do much for you but remember that all of us Muslims are with you. I sincerely pray that you conquer this baptism of fire thrown at you by life. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger, and you will inshallah walk out of this being even a better and stronger person.

  • @lifeandzindagi
    @lifeandzindagi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A sister's love to a sister. JazzakAllahu Khair for for not giving up you brave brave woman, now a brave mother. Alhamdulilah. I love you sister ❤

  • @musmanminhas9702
    @musmanminhas9702 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May Allah be with you and wish you all the best, InshaAllah it will be much better.

  • @haryhary399
    @haryhary399 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    We planned, but Allah is the best planner. He didn't give what we want, He give what we need. Its not over, its a new beginning, new chapter Aisha, stay strong.

  • @Angell33757
    @Angell33757 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Aisha we love you be strong May ALLAH give you strength I will pray for you InshaAllah you will be fine ❤❤❤❤

  • @MsHanaTop10
    @MsHanaTop10 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your energy and optimism way that you think .. i learn a lot from you .. i am muslem since i have born i so proud of you .. do not be sad you deserve better and i wish the best luck for you .. sometimes we fail but after that we gonna see what allah hide behind the bad things he protect us all the time and protect our heart .. be strong and beautiful like always ❤

  • @ruqayyahbintmustafa4886
    @ruqayyahbintmustafa4886 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May Allah make you patient and
    bless you with better ❤🤲🏾