If you are not ready to spend on a girl why do u have to take her out?. When she was ordering the food where was he? I think it’s a deliberate thing to disgrace the girl. It may even be a pay back or something…he is a bush boy
We for grow!! How can you embarrass a lady like this…. And I agree with Scanty no matter how loaded a man may be try and have something on you as a lady also just in case….
@18:48 That’s the kind of person my lady is. There are times when she’ll pass me her card to pay before the waiter returns for payment. Those surprises made me love her more.
Am sorry to say it’s quite disappointing to see some of our brothers behaving as such. I get that she’s probably eaten more than the dude expected but come on. I’m not saying life in the west is better in any way but I’ll say this. Mostly, the person that does the invite is the one that pays but the other can still decide nope I’ll pay for it. That conversion thing needs to stop cause he who is by the fire knows how much it burns. Keep up the good work Sheldon n scanty
I agree with scanty. If you're invited to an event, please accept only when you have a backup plan-anything can happen. Don't let an uncultured guy/lady embarrass you for nothing. Honouring an invitation is a choice. Anyway, the guy do yawa. The recording no dey hia
Big sis once told me someone can invite you on a date and still split the bills with you. So if you don’t have money and you are invited on a date, don’t go thinking the person will foot the entire bill.
On a first date, the man should ALWAYS fit the bill, imho. After that, different rules can apply.They are asking you on the date and choosing the place. they should choose wisely, according to the health (or not) of their pocket. You should always have your money as a lady though, that's standard. That way, no one can embarrass or shame you.
We love you two ❤😂 yall make our days complete and sheldon u have grown and matured as a person and as a blogger or content creator. And the fact that u have decided to empower a younger fellow at ur age shows how good ur heart and mind is. No matter what this channel go hit millions in subs so DONT AND NEVER GIVE UP sake of we go Dey here with u 4eva
The question is didn't the guy eat or drink anything from the total cost? Anyway the lady have also come and explain and the thing is the guy actually used the lady's power bank to charge his phone till the power finished. And the lady said when she goes out she herself pays tht much. And she asked around and all the workers said they didn't hv a charger and it was the security guy who got her a charger and whn her phone came back on she paid for it and evn showed a screen shot of the transaction. The guy just wanted to disgrace her.
Scanty is right even if he isn’t right. Let’s establish that.😂 Also, a date is basically hosting someone in a location that may or may not be your own premises. Courtesy will dictate that whoever hosts this date, caters for everything. Manners will dictate that the person being hosted will offer to cater, even though it’ll be declined.
Paying for bills on a date depends on where you are. In America if someone says, let’s go eat or let’s go to the bar, it doesn’t mean bills are on him unless stated otherwise “let’s go eat, everything is on me”.
What if, in the course of dining and drinking your friend gets angry over a comment that is not supposed to cause this, and he decides not to pay for your meal what will you do then.
@williams that is why he said make sure you have enough money on you... If I'm going out (whether someone is paying for lunch or not) whatever you decide to eat ask yourself if something goes wrong can I pay for it?? If no, then it's best you don't take it...
Sheldon is right. I went out with a lady to one of the renowned restaurants and then when the bill came out, my budget couldn't foot the bill completely and the lady actually took 50% of the bill
Always be fully prepared to have your own back. Whether you're a man or woman. As a freelancer, you never know. Things could not work out the way you think it will. Also, when you're taking someone out please let them know their boundaries. You too when they take you out set your limits. Don't act like you've found a jewel well.
Na Ghana here sef you go eat for them big restaurant aaa like kempiski then things aaa one plate sef fi bi like 250+ cedis sef so moretimes them go big restaurant for naija. So spending 12k naira is normal
Scanty is a PROPER villager.herh, I can’t believe my ears. If you invite any lady out, you must pay for the bill unless you inform whoever you going out with that you are on a budget.
This issue is serious oo I remember one time a lady asked me out on a date we schedule everything and on the due date I intentionally asked her if she has money then she told me no
I think people should just be fair. A friend invited me to his restaurant one afternoon and I was with my 6 year old daughter. Obviously the food was going to be free..I ordered some drinks for myself and my daughter and paid for that just because I didn't want to be greedy..it was nice to get the food for free. The least I could do was to pay for my drinks and tip the waiter. Let's just be fair when people invite us out
@@chinaecheremheeberth2928 12k in a restaurant is not that much, she may have had a glass of wine also. it also depends on where they are. In Lagos, Abuja or PH 12k for a restaurant meal is very much normal. When I go out with my friend group (guys and girls) in Abuja, it can easily be 15k each.
There’s no way i would take a girls on a date and make her pay a dime, I will feel guilty chale. I do get invited on dates which the girl request to pay the bills but I do end up paying cuz I don’t feel good about a girl paying..
Nah but I’ve been on like 5 different dates I had to beg the ladies so I pay for everything because they suggested all the time that they’ll pay but I was the one who initiated the idea to go out so I’m confused …Lily paid twice of two different dates chale. But I’m sure it was out of good will because I have done indirect stuff for her too.
Well i believe whoever invites should foot the bill. Meanwhile as a rational being be prepared in case of emergencies. Scanty if this is how you start a relationship she'll never regard you as a man but a mate
I beg oo😂😂.......A lady asked me out on a date, but when we got to the destination, madam was expecting me to pay after she was the one who said "I am taking you out on a date" So the one sends the invitation must be the one to pay for it
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This is why I tell my female friends to always go on a date with cash. They shouldn’t subject themselves to any form of embarrassment.
Based on the video, you may be right but I think there is more to it.
If he knew he can't pay any amount the girl will eat,then why he took her out and disgrace her like that 🤔
12k can't do anything in Nigeria ohhhh .. The guy was out with an agenda
Exactly, very wicked somebody
It can't even fill a car tank with petrol.
If you are not ready to spend on a girl why do u have to take her out?. When she was ordering the food where was he? I think it’s a deliberate thing to disgrace the girl. It may even be a pay back or something…he is a bush boy
Who even ask him to invite her 😂😂
How sure are you he invited her n it wasn't her suggestion to go 😂😂
Scanty needs a therapy session about relationships
A lot
We for grow!! How can you embarrass a lady like this…. And I agree with Scanty no matter how loaded a man may be try and have something on you as a lady also just in case….
Whoever requests to go on a date is supposed to pay for it.
Ah lol 12k naira is just 300 cedis😂 Oh naaa the guy no try 😂
You ask a lady out and expect her to pay what huh.
I’m always for Scanty but in this case Sheldon be right 😂😂
Im not sure the lady over ate,....for all you know, the guy took her to an expensive place for a date
@18:48 That’s the kind of person my lady is. There are times when she’ll pass me her card to pay before the waiter returns for payment. Those surprises made me love her more.
The guy didn’t force at all .. he has embarrassed 😞 the lady
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The person that invites pays, unless you mutually agree to split it 50/50 beforehand
Masa for the where, 😂 you eat you pay unless the person interrupt to say let me. It's called courtesy for Boyz and girls, she should have learnt
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Am sorry to say it’s quite disappointing to see some of our brothers behaving as such. I get that she’s probably eaten more than the dude expected but come on. I’m not saying life in the west is better in any way but I’ll say this. Mostly, the person that does the invite is the one that pays but the other can still decide nope I’ll pay for it. That conversion thing needs to stop cause he who is by the fire knows how much it burns. Keep up the good work Sheldon n scanty
Well said
I agree with scanty.
If you're invited to an event, please accept only when you have a backup plan-anything can happen. Don't let an uncultured guy/lady embarrass you for nothing. Honouring an invitation is a choice.
Anyway, the guy do yawa. The recording no dey hia
I can relate to what Scanty is saying. A lady took me out as a birthday gift to me but I paid for it.
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He paid for her presence 😂😂
Loool
@@maudakua940 indeed😂😂
Big sis once told me someone can invite you on a date and still split the bills with you. So if you don’t have money and you are invited on a date, don’t go thinking the person will foot the entire bill.
On a first date, the man should ALWAYS fit the bill, imho. After that, different rules can apply.They are asking you on the date and choosing the place. they should choose wisely, according to the health (or not) of their pocket. You should always have your money as a lady though, that's standard. That way, no one can embarrass or shame you.
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She even said she can eat more and pay herself,but this guy 🤦
We love you two ❤😂 yall make our days complete and sheldon u have grown and matured as a person and as a blogger or content creator. And the fact that u have decided to empower a younger fellow at ur age shows how good ur heart and mind is. No matter what this channel go hit millions in subs so DONT AND NEVER GIVE UP sake of we go Dey here with u 4eva
Anybody whose idea is to go on a date has to pay all the bills bro 👌
😂😂😂 you are growing in grace ooo....God is answering our prayers paaa
The question is didn't the guy eat or drink anything from the total cost? Anyway the lady have also come and explain and the thing is the guy actually used the lady's power bank to charge his phone till the power finished. And the lady said when she goes out she herself pays tht much. And she asked around and all the workers said they didn't hv a charger and it was the security guy who got her a charger and whn her phone came back on she paid for it and evn showed a screen shot of the transaction. The guy just wanted to disgrace her.
Hnmmm
The lady should sue him for posting her
You guys are so real for this
Scanty is right even if he isn’t right. Let’s establish that.😂
Also, a date is basically hosting someone in a location that may or may not be your own premises. Courtesy will dictate that whoever hosts this date, caters for everything. Manners will dictate that the person being hosted will offer to cater, even though it’ll be declined.
Scanty no no for this one
Anyone who calls for the date, should make preparation for what is coming. 😂. This can’t happen in America.
Paying for bills on a date depends on where you are. In America if someone says, let’s go eat or let’s go to the bar, it doesn’t mean bills are on him unless stated otherwise “let’s go eat, everything is on me”.
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Yep that’s true.
First of all, anytime you go out, whether someone invited you or not make sure whatever you are eating you have money in your pocket to pay it. Word
Exactly!
You have to have your own back.
Sometimes, you can get stranded and would need transportation home.
@@darkest_magnum That's another issue that can happen
What if, in the course of dining and drinking your friend gets angry over a comment that is not supposed to cause this, and he decides not to pay for your meal what will you do then.
@williams that is why he said make sure you have enough money on you... If I'm going out (whether someone is paying for lunch or not) whatever you decide to eat ask yourself if something goes wrong can I pay for it?? If no, then it's best you don't take it...
Scanty is so funny every time 😂😂😂
I love this! When both of them dey disagree on an issue
Vawuleeeeeeeence😂😂😂😂
And it's usually the ones pestering you with "when am I seeing you when am I seeing you" or "have you eaten?" smfh
I love how you guys share ideas
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Sheldon is right.
I went out with a lady to one of the renowned restaurants and then when the bill came out, my budget couldn't foot the bill completely and the lady actually took 50% of the bill
As a lady when u go out on a date always make sure u have some money on u incase anything u pay and go .
The guy is very disrespectful because 12.9k is something but it's really nothing. Doesn't he have sisters or something? This is shameful.
Scanty it's part of courtesy to pay for a lady's food since you,the guy,is the one who invited her to a date.And this is vice versa
12k in a standard Nigerian restaurant is cheap af. Me that has paid 50k for a 3 course meal nko.
Very cheap
Always be fully prepared to have your own back. Whether you're a man or woman.
As a freelancer, you never know. Things could not work out the way you think it will.
Also, when you're taking someone out please let them know their boundaries.
You too when they take you out set your limits. Don't act like you've found a jewel well.
Well said
scanty always making solid points😂🥰
With you and scanty, l can't be bored 😂😂😂😂😂😂the guy didn't try
Sheldon is really looking good 👍 ❤❤❤😊
If you listen to the girl very well..she was actually going to call her father
This is why I never go out if I don't have money... Sigh
Thank you sis.
I never go out when I am low on cash
My sister God go bless you. I no dey do pass myself.
Same. I won't risk it. Even with friends if I'm low on cash I won't bother. Anything can happen lol
I'm the same.
Aiiish!!😂it’s Sheldon’s outfit for me😂🤭💕
Oh😂
As a lady you have to also prepare yourself tho buh they way Scanty they make it force de3 eeeeeeeeeeiiii Scanty woy3 p3333p3😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Na Ghana here sef you go eat for them big restaurant aaa like kempiski then things aaa one plate sef fi bi like 250+ cedis sef so moretimes them go big restaurant for naija. So spending 12k naira is normal
Scanty is a PROPER villager.herh, I can’t believe my ears. If you invite any lady out, you must pay for the bill unless you inform whoever you going out with that you are on a budget.
Scanty, the school feeding coordinator 😂😂😂
This issue is serious oo I remember one time a lady asked me out on a date we schedule everything and on the due date I intentionally asked her if she has money then she told me no
It’s so hard to reason with sheldon sometimes 😂 what’s wrong with scanty saying bring cash in case of emergency
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I was having this conversation sometime ago and the ladies didn't understand me a bit.
Now scanty is the one advising us instead of Sheldon after he found love 😅
Ladies have to go on dates prepared for situations like this. Kwesi Darius pranked a girl like this on TH-cam and he started calling her friends.
Ei scanty you be really scanty 😂😂😂
Your outfit is giving the garden of Adams 😂😂
I think people should just be fair. A friend invited me to his restaurant one afternoon and I was with my 6 year old daughter. Obviously the food was going to be free..I ordered some drinks for myself and my daughter and paid for that just because I didn't want to be greedy..it was nice to get the food for free. The least I could do was to pay for my drinks and tip the waiter. Let's just be fair when people invite us out
Thank you babe cause some girls are angry and hungry at the same time how can only her ate 12k… common nah them they cause insult for there selfs
@@chinaecheremheeberth2928 but what if the restaurant is an expensive restaurant
@@asherhardissyl9473 The one he chose.
@@chinaecheremheeberth2928 12k in a restaurant is not that much, she may have had a glass of wine also. it also depends on where they are. In Lagos, Abuja or PH 12k for a restaurant meal is very much normal.
When I go out with my friend group (guys and girls) in Abuja, it can easily be 15k each.
Scanty tear me 😂😂😂😂
No I feel like scanty for turn comedian 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Sheldon’s enlightenment these days ✌️….Scanty 🤗
Scanty paaaa what are you saying?😂😂😂
“Akata ne gyemieeee”🤣🤣🤣eiii Dingo🤣
I don't understand why she even agreed to go with this guy,in Namibian dollars it's not much at all!!!basic fee at a restaurant.Bro isn't serious
Scanty paaaa oooo.... Ibi like Scanty need full course on women 😂😂😂
I am in total agreement with Sheldon, If you are the one inviting me on a date, you are supposed to take full responsibility for payment
Scanty this one diiiier😂😂😂. Wonni point
Dating doesn't mean you should have sex with the person in question. Black mentality
Purchasing power bro.....exactly
But the guy messop😂
The guy set her up.. Trap nu akye bayla😂😂😂
Boafo yɛ na...helpers are scarce, buh the guy no try irrespective...tho the lady too should have been considerate ahbah! Love from 🇬🇭
Maybe she no chop plenty but it was a high class restaurant
I sometimes give the money we are to use on the date to the lady before we go out so she handles all the bills, transport etc
What Scanty Dey Talk Is True... Chale Even If We Dey Go Out, I Dey Make Sure Say I Get Money
I Don't Go Out When I Know I Don't Have Money 😊
Scanty need to wise up oh ....
There is electricity problem in Nigeria I have been there before so I understand the lady on the power bank aspect 😂
Ei Scanty. This one dier please 😂😂😂
There’s no way i would take a girls on a date and make her pay a dime, I will feel guilty chale. I do get invited on dates which the girl request to pay the bills but I do end up paying cuz I don’t feel good about a girl paying..
Nah but I’ve been on like 5 different dates I had to beg the ladies so I pay for everything because they suggested all the time that they’ll pay but I was the one who initiated the idea to go out so I’m confused …Lily paid twice of two different dates chale. But I’m sure it was out of good will because I have done indirect stuff for her too.
Mmhh scanty, what happened today?. Is like you and Sheldon have exchanged brains 🧠 😅
Well i believe whoever invites should foot the bill. Meanwhile as a rational being be prepared in case of emergencies. Scanty if this is how you start a relationship she'll never regard you as a man but a mate
Ahahahaaaaa “osi s3 w’ano dini” but the guy didn’t try at all
Ei Scanty!!!😂😂😂😂 Naniibia paa!!!😂😂😂😂😂
You are inviting me....I did not prepare for it....
This is one die33 I support Sheldon 😂😂
Scanty woyare😂 eiii you invite me out fine I will carry money on me but never will I pay unless is necessary
I beg oo😂😂.......A lady asked me out on a date, but when we got to the destination, madam was expecting me to pay after she was the one who said "I am taking you out on a date"
So the one sends the invitation must be the one to pay for it
Asure say chairman ein turkey come wey she won do long🤪💔
I agree with scanty chale😂 fr!!!!
Scanty paaa💔💔🤣
It's the way Sheldon dey always correct Scanty. It's not NANIBIA😂😂😂😂.
Justice for Scanty😭
Dingo the Pantang king Kong
Dingo the Panting Usain Bolt
the pantang Leo messi😂😂😂😂😂 always giving us the back to back content
Scanty is making sense
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 una dey give me joy I beg. Date in Africa and date abroad na different parole o. Lolz. Chai!
Who ever calls for a date should pay