My mom never spoke to me when I was sad as a kid. I would just find a 1 pound bag of peanut m&m’s on my pillow.That was the best she could do. Unfortunately I ate my feelings for the next 40 years. She didn’t deal with her own sadness either. We had a tough life back then. 6 kids in 10 years and an evil alcoholic dad/husband. Therapy is priceless!
I felt pain in my own belly, reading the part about her leaving you a 1 pound bag of peanut m&m's. If you are comfortable sharing, I am curious to know what helped you. I eat my feelings, too.
@@powers6253 simply realizing that I did that helped. I didn’t notice I did that. Second is faith in Christ and forgiving my parents. They did the best they could. I have had a lot of therapy in my life and have great therapists but the best thing I did was to follow Jesus. He heals and changes our focus to eternal things. The things of the world don’t have power over us anymore.
Good point about weaponizing - the free spirit vs. nerd outlook @ 33:40. The free spirit can guilt trip the saver (you're too up tight, YOLO) as much as the saver can guilt trip the free spirit (you spend too much).
They do if it pertains to something they would like to talk to the public about. Christy Wright has many different guests on her show and they all have had Matthew McConaughey on their shows recently.
@E Dave has also mentioned spending huge amounts of money on her wedding and paying for her college (a mostly useless degree for her, no less). She might handle her money well, but she never had to spend a dime on some of people's most expensive endeavors.
I can relate to the avoiding sadness. I feel like I’m paralyzed when I’m sad.
Rachel is the perfect guest great presenter, natural beauty (not orange) and brains.
I LOVE these two together. the past few videos with them answering caller questions and now this. Very into it! thank you!
They should hook up
@E hee hee hee
My mom never spoke to me when I was sad as a kid. I would just find a 1 pound bag of peanut m&m’s on my pillow.That was the best she could do. Unfortunately I ate my feelings for the next 40 years. She didn’t deal with her own sadness either. We had a tough life back then. 6 kids in 10 years and an evil alcoholic dad/husband. Therapy is priceless!
Hugs
I felt pain in my own belly, reading the part about her leaving you a 1 pound bag of peanut m&m's.
If you are comfortable sharing, I am curious to know what helped you. I eat my feelings, too.
@@powers6253 simply realizing that I did that helped. I didn’t notice I did that. Second is faith in Christ and forgiving my parents. They did the best they could. I have had a lot of therapy in my life and have great therapists but the best thing I did was to follow Jesus. He heals and changes our focus to eternal things. The things of the world don’t have power over us anymore.
Lots of hugs 🤗 ❤
@@colleengarcia7752 Wow that's a wonderful testimony, glad things are seemingly better now.
Rachel Cruze as brilliant as anyone reading the lyrics:. Priceless.
Thank you Dr. John and Rachel!!!
I was excited to hear an in-depth interview about this topic, and it was more about how Rachel handles her mental health. Not what I was expecting!
Good point about weaponizing - the free spirit vs. nerd outlook @ 33:40. The free spirit can guilt trip the saver (you're too up tight, YOLO) as much as the saver can guilt trip the free spirit (you spend too much).
Rachel is probably the only one that can match John's honesty. They have great chemistry and I relate better since they speak millennial.
They are a great Duo!
Great interview!
Can’t Believe she has three kids!!! Why isn’t anyone talking about that! She’s a super mom!
Amazing performance by R Cruze
❤️ I loved this interview!
Ask yourself
What You want NOW n What You want MOST ?
Thats the question to ask oneself:)
GREAT 👍!!! SHOW !!! Thank you 😊!
Rachel you will be fine. You have a secure job with your dad and your worth millions.
Loved this! It helps me translate my own body language and fight or flight reactions.
“When the grid goes down' I’m gonna sparkle”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Loved loved loved this interview! So REAL!!! TY! TY!
Love you both! Dr. Delony, can you send me you 2020 and now 2021 book list?!?
Dr. D: I know they will edit this out...
Me: 😂😂😂
Rachel 😍
I'm in to it. Great episode
“Awesome episode!!!”
(Dr. D’s moms burner account)
What's wrong with a Honda Civic?
Do they not invite real guests on their show?
They do if it pertains to something they would like to talk to the public about. Christy Wright has many different guests on her show and they all have had Matthew McConaughey on their shows recently.
Rachel’s 1 rule to get rid of debt: have a rich father
I grew up extremely poor and I have no debt because I never wanted debt.
@@joycewright5386 that or you couldn’t find someone that loaned you money
@@WisdommCore 😝😝😝Lol.
@E Dave has also mentioned spending huge amounts of money on her wedding and paying for her college (a mostly useless degree for her, no less). She might handle her money well, but she never had to spend a dime on some of people's most expensive endeavors.
I see a smart, independent, and hard working woman with good values.