@@MotherNaturesWarrior-lw3kv you dont understand the quote. IT dont say that everybody change evry 5 minutt. IT says your under no obligation to be the same person.
Love your channel and messages. I'm 62 and published my first novel just yesterday. When your development, passions, and desires stop changing, that's when you're in trouble. Stay present and enjoy the ride!
@@felipeazevedo6704 = "Boys Like Kevin", thanks for asking. I wish the young protagonist was as wise as Nathaniel in terms of not trying to rush through life and the importance of listening to your inner voice. :)
As soon as I saw the title I thought: "This is it! He's moving to the country" I moved to the country at 24. I now have a dog, a cow and a husband. I've learned how to can food and make cheese, yogurt and bread, sew and I'm starting a garden this year I've never been happier. The country is amazing, it will bestow it's gifts. You're going to love it.
Just moved to NYC at 26 after dreaming of living in a big city since my study abroad at 20. I left behind my whole family, all my friends, my job, to try something new and answer that question for myself, “what if”. Now that I’m here, I, to put it lightly, hate it. I left a life full of nature, community, and love, to come here and struggle and chase the NYC “dream life” and all I crave is the open sky, sitting and drinking coffee with my parents, playing with my niece and nephew. I’m beating myself up over wanting to go home once my lease is up, but this video came at the perfect time for me to realize, everyone’s path is different and I am constantly changing, evolving and though I wanted this before, it’s not for me now. Thanks for helping me accept my changes.
Unless things were pretty bad where you left, wherever you go will take time to get as good. The grass is greener where you water it, and you have to look at it as you just planted the seeds. Of course the garden isn't as good as where you left, even if the climate, soil, environment is better. Moving is taking 4 steps back so that hopefully, in say, 2 years time you're a step ahead of where you would have been. Hopefully in a decade or two, the difference is huge and worth it. Big cities let you climb the ladder of life forever, where as in our hometown we get to the top pretty quickly. Take your pick.
I’ve been in that exact same situation! I dreamt my whole life of living in Manhattan and I did move there. Lived there for 7 years. Experienced a full life; friends, social life, sports, arts, work.. but the intensity of city energy was starting to grind me down. I moved to Scandinavia (where I’m from). Now I’ve been back for 7 years, and I find myself needing some changes. I’ve accepted this is part of my personality 😊 Good luck with your life’s adventure.
@@Cocoisagordonsetter Wherever you go, there you are. NYC is spectacular though. When you compare it to small cities under 600k that have much worse weather and nothing to do. Has nothing to do with the top of the food chain. Even making 250k a year in these small towns, what is there to do? Where is there to go? Especially when its dead and winter for half the year. In NYC theres always something to strive towards. Yea if you want to sit on your computer 24/7, watch tv and movies for 50 years and you feel good and accomplished by that, then by all means.
My father used to say something like "if you are following a path then it is someone else path, make your own path in life and you will be much happier for it".... Journey forward Nathaniel.
Have been following you for years when you were in Mexico. As someone whose goal was to live in NYC ever since I was a child, moved there right after graduating and and then moved away after living there for 6 years this resonated with me. I was craving peace and simplicity. The opposite of a fast paced, expensive lifestyle I had built for myself in New York. Part of me was somewhat devastated and went: "Now what...? I went through all that work and all that struggle to 'make it' in New York, achieve my dream - only to move away a few years later?" But a deeper, more intuitive part of me responded: "Moving somewhere where you can slow down is exactly what you need at this time in your life." Looking forward to your next chapter.
Hansonel.....your goal spooked me, especially the part about since you were a child. I looked around my town and my family at age 4 and declared to myself, "THIS ain't it." The loneliest day of my Year was Thanksgiving, when our scattered relatives all flew in to celebrate mashed orange-potatoes with baby marshmallows with my grandparents. Everybody is there, lots of grown-ups and I am so lonely I want to die. My big consolation came the year I discovered the live broadcast of the Macy*s Parade in New York City. Not one car in my little city, but thousands of smiling faces and dancing girls up and about and seemingly alive in New York City, having a happy time. Every year this exact scenario replayed itself. My large nit-wit "close knit" family would drive me deeper into despair, and the Rockettes became more and more alluring. It was such an easy decision to leave that hometown three days after High School graduation, Forever. After college, which I paid for Zoomers, with scholarships and work/study, I was free and clear to realize my dream. My first year in New York City, I went to see the Macy*s Parade. It was cold as Alaska and I needed to pee. When they cut away for an Orange Juice commercial on TV, the Rockettes came running out of Macy's store, assumed the position, and began kicking like crazy, just as the camera returned live in Herald Square. Neat, kinda, not exactly what I was expecting. The giant balloons were sorta delapidated in person, full of repairs and band aids. Not exactly how they look two blocks away on television. The bulk of the Parade was high school bands from across the country playing Sleigh Ride like crazy, Santa waving like crazy,, and tons of cops and cowboys riding horses, with a slew of clowns with shovels scooping like crazy, copious, steaming, cow pies. That part you don't get on TV. Well, after Santa, the crowd evaporates within 20 minutes. They all had to pee too, I guess. I love New York City, and would die if I had to leave. However, that was the last time I attended the Macy*s Thanksgiving Day Parade. Even though many friends have died along the way ( I am the last one standing), I never feel lonely. This year I celebrate my 50th year. I'm living alone, thinking better thoughts than ever, and enjoying the company immensely. Living alone is my greatest luxury. (If by misfortune I had to move to the country, my center would not hold. I would commit suicide unless there was a big Mall over the ridge. Different strokes for different folks)
Dude same here...I moved to NYC years ago. Loved and hated it. Moved out. Moved back again this past summer, and within two months knew it just wasn't for me anymore. So I packed my things, called Dumbo moving and moved out. I wish you luck on your next chapter my friends!
I admire the courage to pursue your desires in life. However, from my experience, relocating may address external issues like security, proximity to family, climate, or job prospects, but it doesn't resolve internal struggles. Whether in Australia, the French countryside, or the USA, internal battles persist regardless of location.
I have never commented before but felt compelled to this time. Nathaniel: thank you for sharing your work and art with us, and creating such relaxing, informative, and motivating spaces through your videos. As a psychiatrist at the start of my career, I can tell you that your videos have been actively discussed in my patients’ sessions, to stimulate conversation and promote well-being. You’re making a real difference in people’s lives and I think it’s important that you know this. Si jamais tu viens au Canada, en Ontario, tu as une amie/guide ici! Cheers
Almost cried during that poem as a 33 yr old man. I'm having a crisis is life right now where I'm between jobs and have had so much time to stand and stare. It's been really nice.
I loved the poem so much too. I recently left my job as well and am taking a break for mental health and this is just the absolute happiest I’ve been these past 5 years 🥹 wishing you the very best on your next journey x
After many years of watching your incredible videos, here comes the one with this beautiful poem. The poem that one of my beloved teachers at the uni recites in front of the freshmen on their first day of studies. We also learn this one by heart as part of the interpreter training. Brings back wonderful memories and makes you think about time... Simply thank you for sharing your life and your path!
I’m 23, and I’ve spent the past year living alone in the Cotswolds, the countryside I grew up in, and although many my age rushed off to cities, I’ve actually been really grateful for the time I’ve had here in a slower paced environment. It’s allowed for focus, for me to narrow on my commitments to what really matter, and carve out more time to spend with myself and my own thoughts. It also gave me time to spend time with some grief for an unexpected loss I had as well. It’s been wonderful, and I’m happy for you that you’re going to be welcoming in some similar peace and countryside as well - it’s truly special.
Thanks for sharing, Tristan. I’m really glad to hear you had/made space to grieve, and I am sorry for your loss. Very curious to experience life with more space myself.
I've done the nature slow life and thought I had arrived. "Stop and stare" was essentially my mantra, and I rejected the fast life. Funny, we are on opposite paths, now I'm being pushed back into activity, engagement with the world, the concept of productivity I rejected so much I am trying to embrace it, and I can see how I took that lifestyle too far. I meditated so much that it actually caused adverse effects to my brain and I'm recovering from that now. Enjoy the countryside, but take care! Be careful of extremes.
Wow very interesting response! Can I ask how meditation caused adverse effects to your brain? This is the first time I'm hearing about this and I'm very curious. Also, I'm wishing you lots of luck in this new transition in your life!
It's funny, but while watching the video a thought crossed my mind that some time in the future we'll be watching his video where he's at a stage in life where he's diving into active lifestyle again. Because that's what life is like, like a pendulum swing :)
I think we run into trouble when we try to force certain ideals on ourselves and reject other parts of us that are asking to be seen. Authenticity looks different for everyone, and is something that evolves over time.
Very well said. We left the Paris region/Antony... 2 years ago, and couldn't be happier... We are living in the Loiret Dept 45/ Beautiful and surrounded by farms, and we are not totally isolated.. LOVE this way of life!
I had to stop this video short because I almost started crying. I think I'm realizing I'm in a similar boat but have been pushing those thoughts away and hearing you is bringing them to the surface. I'll hold to watch until I'm ready
Nathaniel, I've been following you since 2020, and man, I'm always so shocked by how similar some aspects of our lives are. I moved to Canada from Brazil in 2020 and felt the same way, leaving so many things behind. I even lost my dog while I was far from home. Another similarity that amazes me is that my parents are leaving the house I grew up in, back in Brazil. I still can't believe all of this is happening. Wishing you all the best on your new journey.
I am a huge advocate for slowing down and living more simply. It allows you to be much more present and time feels like it slows down along with you. As much as I love cities, nature is where I truly feel like I can be myself. I'm now 30 and have gone through some very big changes over the last few years. I've almost become a completely different person (and in a good way). Taking the time to slow down and really look deeply at my life, the choices I've made, the things I've been working towards, and the choices I'm making right now - everything matters. Every decision shapes our lives. I look forward to the things you will create in the future! It's been such a joy watching your journey over the years, Nathaniel. Time for a new chapter! ❤️
Same here ☺️ I also turned 30 this year and finally feel happy with where I am, I don’t have everything I thought I needed by 30/what society expects you to have but I feel happy and more settled in life, it’s hard to put it into words. Slow down and enjoy the mundane day to day activities, don’t take for granted those little moments that one day you’ll look back on and wish your life was as simple as. Xx
as someone who grew up in the countryside, moved to the city for 6 years and then left for the same reasons you are talking about, i found the sweetspot to be: living in a rural area which gives you the pros of the countryside but is also well connected and lets you dip into your city of choice within an hour. that way you will still be able to enjoy the pros of a city without actually being in it all the time. also since living in a more natural environment resets your brain from constant sensory overload, whenever you actually choose to go to the city it is such an amazing experience for the senses. kinda like having a nice piece of cake once in a while. makes you appreciate it much more you know. but gotta be honest after some time in the city it's always such a relief when the car/train crosses the outskirts and i enter open space again... huh.. :)
Beautiful, Nathaniel. For the watchful soul, life only gets better with age... even if it also grows more challenging in other areas. Pleasure to be "with" you on the journey.
Thank you for your words and art. Hell, I’m 63 and still wondering, wandering, and curious. I can’t imagine my life without the solitude I’ve learned to relish. I suffered so much in my life for so many reasons but the worst insight I had was that I was scared most of the time and reacting. When I was about 32 I started to come into my own and head in the kind of direction you are currently pivoting to. But I met someone and this was a huge problem in my life. I hated being alone. I had psychological issues that I didn’t get back then. About 18 years ago, I decided to be single and take greater personal responsibility for my life. It was then I realized I had to UNLEARN all the crap I had been believing or taught. I also realized the absolute necessity to trust my instincts and my own sense of truth. I spent way way too much time people pleasing or trying to gain acceptance and love. I misspent way too many years living a “Groundhog Day” life. Another thing critical to my personal growth was learning healthy boundaries and learning how to say NO. It’s very much like I began to wake up from the Matrix. I had a beautiful experience wherein my ego collapsed…aka enlightenment…aka witnessing the white light. It’s kind of a mystery, but Jung would say it was an ego collapse. After that experience I dramatically changed. But mainly in the sense I have never felt alone since. During that experience I felt connected to the universe and all of life. And, no, I was not on drugs nor hallucinating. It’s called hitting a bottom and realizing you’ve run out of options and that you’d better realize that all of the things we do to try to control ourselves, others, and life is a bunch of bullshit. Nathaniel, I get the sense from you that you are listening deeply to your soul and living at a deeper level than most people are willing to. This is not only brave but I think very mature. When I was 32 and embarking on that path of individuation and got distracted, let me tell you I was so close to becoming the person that I am now. Instead I gave me away and betrayed that young woman because I was so insecure and frightened. Stay true to that deeper sense of connection you desire. Our lives are like the ocean and the waves. You are a drop in the ocean but the ocean is whole. Go with the tides but chart your own course as you are. I respect your decisions to be flexible and allow space for deeper listening. Currently I’m living full time in an rv I bought ten years ago. Been traveling but slow. Staying places for long stretches. I prefer tiny slow nomadic living now. You inspire me. Love your channel. Looking forward to more content.
This is my new favorite video of yours! Positive and poignant in a calm but deeply alive way. Cheers to following the internal nudge and letting the countryside soak into the soul. 🥂
I’m 31 and have been following you since you first began. I completely feel this. I’m so excited for you and your new chapter. You’re my favorite creator for so many reasons but your videography and storytelling are just incredible. I can’t wait to see your upcoming content ❤
I've been a huge fan of yours for more than a year now. Your videos are totally unique..warm, humble, full of love and a giving-out heart! I look forward to your new videos as you share a new transition in your personal journey with us :) Blessings!
I spent my college years and twenties living all over the US including Hawaii for much of that. In my early 30s I wanted to move closer to home and I finally did, but shortly after my mom died unexpectedly and my dad sold the house I grew up in. All those years I was becoming who I am today but also didn’t realize the trade off was I wouldn’t really get to spend much time with my mom ever again. I still don’t know what the right balance is but I appreciate much more viscerally now that nothing is guaranteed.
Moving to the countryside is gonna be such a joy for you. I used to go on holiday to the countryside of France as a kid, such a lovely part of france. I hope you go forth and find your joy 😊 ❤
How beautiful!!!!! Thank you for your art and your honesty. I think a lot of us are going through things like this. Thanks so much for helping it feel more clear. I really resonate with your words and the poem. Again, thank you! And please take us with us on wherever you go!
Same. Just turned 50 and feel like I’m running out of time to do anything meaningful. So I decided to do the things I always thought were pointless, like learning Italian and writing a novel, just because it makes me happy. 😊
I can relate wholeheartedly to this, and my regrets are not spending enough time being present and then appreciating my 'last times'. God bless you, an old soul indeed.
I watched this video a couple of weeks ago, and I keep coming back to this poem you shared at the end. Thank you for sharing 🤍 Good luck with your next adventure!
Cant wait to see where your journey takes you! We are doing the same in reverse, selling our country house in canada and moving to valencia! So many times i felt like i make a life for myself but get disinterested in it and want to start fresh! It isnt for evenyone, but getting outside your comfort zone is just how you discover parts of yourself you never knew you had. We are lucky to be able to make these moves and have support
This was so so so beautiful. As someone who has also moved continents in my life, I have the same feelings. You leave a place and a part of you somehow believes that it is going to stay exactly how you left it. But just as you change, it changes. Or even sadder...it stays the same, but because you have changed, it no longer feels the same.
Relating to this so much 🥺 I just turned 28 and am starting over in so many ways. I no longer enjoy being rushed, distracted, or putting on appearances. I’ve noticed that doing things fast often leads to confusion and regret while going slowly and truly considering consequences in life makes for peace. That poem was beautiful 👏 Also I hope you enjoy the countryside more. Looking forward to seeing how it inspires you.
This is probably one of my favorite videos of yours. Thank you for the kind and important reminder of impermanence. My heart is full for you, I'm so happy you chose the calm and wisdom of nature instead of the fever of Paris.
Absolutely beautiful piece Nathaniel! A year ago I felt similar about living in a big city (Toronto) and decided to movie out to western Canada on the coast where nature is abundant. I'm not sure if this a symptom of growing older but that peace and calm of mind is all I crave now.
Change. Such a strong word, often ignored and overlooked but when it comes knocking, you have no choice but to greet it with patience and acceptance, one breath at a time.
Oh Nathaniel, we are on similar journeys. I've spent 4 years as well in a foreign country (I'm from France, moved to Sweden right before the pandemy). I'm now leaving (literally next week) and going back home ( a smaller city than Stockholm for sure). I knew it would happen since a bit more than a year but I ignored the feeling because I had uneasy feelings about my departure. Also want to live more remotely and with a slow-paced routine, which will allow more magic and creativity. Many hugs
@@thefernwehtype I think so too - I also have a lot of my friends leaving Sweden. Either something is up or because I'm focused on it, I notice it a bit more. In any case, change is good! Hope you'll embrace it!
@@audeboulord8083I live in Norway & I have a calling to leave. My closest friend, also born and raised here is relocating to Spain. To be honest, the long winters have worn me out. It might be my fault as I didn’t ski much this year (skiing helps me through the winter). I totally understand your need to relocate & Bonne chances avec tes adventures ✨
A few months ago I moved to Spain and recently been feeling homesick, missing what I lost or didn't appreciate, and in general having existential dread as I enter true adulthood. Overwhelmed by this anxiety of both past and future, I tend to under appreciate what I have here in this new chapter,. So this was a good reminder to be present, thanks man
Something brought you to where you are now. Have kindness and appreciation to yourself that you made that change with inspiration and beautiful hope in your heart! You can change your whole experience of your life right now in this very moment by tuning in and being fully present with a kind and open heart to yourself and each moment of life around you. You’re where you’re meant to be ❤
Just took a similar decision. I left Rome after 5 years, to go back to my parents in the French countryside. I have some healing to do! And good quality time to spend here. It's good to live a life of passion and to feel like you are the busiest person you know, until it starts to consume you.
I feel you! I moved to Paris 4 years ago as well and have been feeling the nudge to move for a long time now, and in the same quiet direction! Good luck in your new chapter.
I'm 34. I live in a small flat, have an immense amount of debts (growing, started 14 years ago) and never felt free. In my 20s i didn't care so much about it. Had some good times, got to know some awesome people... Now i've reached a point where i'm seriously asking myself if my life is even worth it. I know, i have it in my own hands. I always had. But now it reached a point where I am in such a bubble, lost motivation, lost creativity, think abut my worries all the time. Everything seems against me. i don't want to see a solution, even though i have people around me that want to help... I feel older than i am. I got weak, i became a coward. Enjoy your journey! Just do whatever is possible, and if you have reached the possible, there will be a door opened with even more possibilities. I adore you by just doing what you think is the best for you. Bless you, you wise person.
I resonate with this soooo much. I'm nearly 39 and have spent most of my 30s feeling like this. Feeling behind everyone else, feeling like no matter what I do I can't get even close to where I thought I would be in my head in my 30s. You know, own a house, have a decent income, have a nice car, blah blah blah.... I recently decided I needed to change what my expectations of success were. I have my health, and I still have decades ahead of me....that's something soooo many rich people would give everything for!!! And don't forget they do say that "life begins at 40" .... although my mum says her best years started at 60!!!!🤣 I have felt behind and honestly like a failure for so long that it makes me feel older than I am. I forgot that being in your 30s is still young!!! The journey is still beginning for us, so don't quit yet. Did you know that Samuel L Jackson starred in his first movie at 46, and Roald Dahl was retired when he started publishing books. Your story has still got lots more plot twists to come 🥰♥️sending you best wishes x
Just find small little moments in life and and small moments of joy. Even if it's just savouring a great cup of coffee. Life is made of these little moments
Is it possible you are spending too much time comparing yourself to others? This is the bane of social media. Instead, listen to your own muse. It is the quiet, but persistent bird that taps its beak on the window of your consciousness. It often presents a risk or a challenge to one's fears or apathy. The disturbing part of your comment is :I'm asking myself if my life is even worth it" as it suggests you are beating yourself and indulging in a sort of self-loathing.. Be conscious of this rather than avoiding or numbing it. Instead, focus on the positive and the lessons learned. Debt? Most of us have debt. Relax. Circumstances change; you are young. You are not a victim of your circumstances once you take self-responsibility for your choices. Perhaps you are just in a transitional phase. Let it be. Be conscious of the negative self-chat in your mind and consciously turn it off. I sometimes say to myself aloud "Stop brain chat." It's a wild ride, but it's life. Ask for guidance from whatever higher power you believe in and keep on movin'. The antidote to depression is action. I take a walk when I start beating up on myself, it's surprisingly effective.
I hear you very well !! I had a similar thing happen to me, one day I heard from my parent that they are renovating the house of my childhood. I didn't even had a chance to say goodbye to such an important place, filled with the memories of my past and now it doesn't feel like home anymore. But I'm wishing you best on this new chapter of life. It's good to slow down.
Your videos have been incredibly helpful in encouraging me to slow down and turn inwards. Nathaniel, your guidance has inspired me to embrace mindfulness, and I've found a sense of mental clarity through your content. Thank you for your insights.
I saw that for you. LOL Just a random person. What do I know. Literally could see you happy in my mind in the countryside. Congratulations on this new chapter in your life. I look forward to seeing what you create. I love watching you grow. Great content!
Hey Nathaniel, I just wanted to say that you have totally inspired me since I was in high school with your videos. I recently turned 20 and you have given me such a direction to shoot for when it comes to travel and language learning, and doing things outside of my comfort zone.keep doing what you’re doing. You rock man!
Fantastic, congratulations for saying yes to what’s in your heart and calling you. Also, thank you for uploading this today; you gave words and visuals to exactly what’s been resonating for me.🙏🌺🌸✨
Found your channel through another (DevonBumpkin) and I’m so glad! I’ve been planning and working towards moving to France but I’ve recently been wondering if it’s still what I want 🤔 “Question the assumptions of society around us” 💯👏 Embracing inconsistency is what’s brought me a lot of peace. It’s great that you are encouraging others to do the same. Life is constantly changing and moving yet we’ve come to believe that change is a negative, and that we should be this one dimensional thing (and that thing changes depending on culture etc). Those expectations rob us of truly living. The trial and error of finding what works for each and every one of us. That uncertainly can be inspiring. Sitting in comfort for too long can stunt growth as well. Your parents are so sweet!! It’s wonderful seeing parents express that they are happy to see their kids. A lot of us only experience negativity from our parents. It was refreshing to see that. “You do not get more out of life by going faster”. So many nuggets of wisdom in one video.
The rural moves are really interesting. In the past few weeks, I've kind of finalized moving back to a smaller city, and maybe after that a more rural/farming/etc kind of area. I thought I wanted the city life, but-I didn't need it for as long as I thought, I guess. Really appreciate your sharing here, and the poetry visuals at the end were beautiful.
Thanks for sharing your story, as always. I'm 25 and feel just the same pull towards a quieter and more present lifestyle. Very excited to keep following you.
I literally feel like this and I’m 17. I’m guessing it will keep happening as I grow older, which is a scary thing to think about but I will try to face it all with confidence. Thank you for this Nathaniel 💛💛
It’s curious that I lost my dog on October last year, and it’s also made me rethink a lot of things in my life, which are actually reshaping it and also putting everything in question.
I'm 55 years old and left the US 2 years ago to go to Thailand , but because of covid and with Thailand changing things from one day to the next, I decided to stay in Mexico for what was supposed to be a few months. I'm on to Thailand next and people keep asking me "how long are you going to be there". I tell them until I'm not there anymore. That could be if I die there or if I live there for one year and decide to leave. I don't know and I don't have to know. I can change with each season of my life and that's ok. As a young man, you will forever have different seasons of your life and that is perfectly fine.
I am at a point in my life where I truly wish I had listened to my heart and less of what others told me I should do……follow your heart ❤keep listening to what you really desire.
Bravo à vous! I am almost 70 and am finally catching on to the importance of stopping to smell the roses. It took the closure of our business in the States (pandemic related) and our move to the countryside in France to begin to free my mind of a lifetime of clutter (much of which was essential at the time but I held on too long). It is good to see you so far ahead of the game in your evolution. Bon courage!
I understand I'm in the same position, and moving to the outskirts of Lisbon soon to implement those changes :) thank you for sharing your experiences...sending you love on this beautiful journey as you live every moment in it's presence. ❤️
Beautiful story-telling, Nathan! I can sense your newfound calmness and present-ness in this video. I am excited to see you living a slower-pace life where you can be fully present in every moment. I myself found that living a life that way gives you space where creativity can flow in. Best of luck and looking forward to Nathaniel 4.0!
4,5 years ago, just before pandemic I moved to Milan, Italy. A about a year ago I felt the need to change something in my life. Since last December I moved to Tuscany in a remote village, just to experience what you perfectly explained in your video to get more out of life by going slower.
Vamos todavia ! No te veía clavado en París ni a palos, pero bue, vivi mas de diez años ahí y me parece que fue otra vida, vivo en Saint Hilaire du Touvet, en plena montaña cerca de Grenoble y el despegue de parapente mas conocido en el mundo, si pasás por acá con gusto te llevo a volar en tandem por éstas montanas preciosas, sólo para que puedas apreciar lo maravilloso de poder pararse a apreciar las cosas simples de la vida sin correr detrás de nada... tener tiempo para escuchar, explorar, aprender a hacer pan o lo que tu creatividad necesite. Felicitaciones por ésta nueva etapa !
First Sorelle Amore moves back to Australia from Iceland and now Nathaniel is leaving Paris for a peaceful countryside. Some universal changing of location is happening for many, and most are moving towards more calmer pace of life.
WOW. You are far ahead of the maturity curve for your age. Last week I was spending time thinking about how my entire life I have wanted to know as much of the world as I could manage to see. I was wondering about all of the people who spend their entire life in one place--sometimes by choice, sometimes not. I am far too old to second guess the choices I have made. So I turn to Rumi. In one of his poems ( I am going to paraphrase) he says that if you were to change any single event in your life you would unravel the thread that holds the entire tapestry together.
Beautiful! Bravo! I think you'll have a very rich Saturn return - somewhere between 27 and 30 years of age. It can often go on for a year or so. Best to you!
I've been following your channel for quite a while and I really enjoy the the way you tell and question your life. Now I'm 26 too and this short masterpiece you've made resonated a lot with me. I'm at a very similar point of life going through very similar question to my life. Thank you for sharing your thoughts it's inspiring! To live a slow and present life rather then a fast and short.
Holy Smokes! You have amazing insight at this stage of your life. Trust me when I say, however, when you are in your 60s, you will finally…finally…begin, truly, to realize who you are. It takes a life lived to know you. But, your insight now is amazing. Grateful for your sharing these vlogs in real time as your learn and walk your life out.
I'm 16. I'm from Russia. After war started, two years ago, I couldn't found my place in future... So, accidentally I watch shot with Japanese commuter trains. And I wanted to move to Japan. I'm on this way now - I study Japanese hard. I want to change my life completely.
I am beyond involved at this point lol. I LOVE your vlogs, your experiments, and your perspective. It's exactly what I've wanted to explore for myself. Thank you. I DM'd you btw. Keep going.
I don´t think the viewers here can replace the real people you want in your life (physically) to share your journey with, Nathaniel. Feels always a bit absurd when ppl on youtube tell that they want to spend time alone but then share it as if they need to tell it to someone. We are social animals...
Whenever I watch your videos, I'm surprised each time at how much you are so very centered on yourself and how you feel and what you feel like you should do. Like, I get it. It's your life. Your purpose is you. Makes sense. I think that's why you have so many point 0s.... you're at the whim of your feelings. Nothing wrong with it. You're insightful, inspiring... Like, I don't know if you watch your videos because you mention yourself frequently.
Same thought I had. It made we wonder how he would do as a father or caretaking his parents… things that make you have to stop being so self focused. Then he said he was 26… 26 is so young! He’s doing just what he should be doing in his 20’s. And hopefully he gets it all out of his system before he has to turn his focus outward to taking care of others.
@@soul2soul399 this is such a strange thing to say….should he be focused on everyone else? He should live his life based on what HE wants, enjoys, needs. He doesn’t have a partner, no children, his parents are well and take care of each other. He wants to evolve, have adventures see the world and sample whatever he can to figure his life out. If he found a special person whom he loved and felt ready to settle down in some way, he would be perfectly suited to it. If his parents were ill, I’m sure he would drop everything to care for them. Assuming that he’s uncaring because he’s living the life he wants is not reasonable and says more about you than him imo
@@ronjakh how is what I said unreasonable? We both are saying the same thing. I said that he’s doing exactly what he should be doing at this time in his life. 🤷🏻♀️
I appreciate this about his videos. Because it disturbs me far more when individuals make videos trying to focus on what OTHERS should/could do. Learning from one person’s courageous and creative expressions about their own current experiences… without the arrogance of one who tries to make it NOT “about themselves.” Him talking about his personal experience of life is why I watch… a feature, not a bug, and I don’t necessarily think there’s a time / age limit.
I’m looking forward to following along this new chapter in your life. I moved out of the city to a tiny island (with road connections) and it’s the best decision. We actually talked about this today, me and my husband, how we enjoy spring and summer so much more now that we live here. Before we couldn’t really enjoy it, because we felt like we had to be so busy all the time. Now we can just sit outside in our garden and watch the sunrise together and it’s the most precious time we get to cherish together.
I have had similar circumstances happen as well the past few years…first my dad passing, then my dog, and then my mom selling the childhood home I grew up in. Looking back, I wish I had savored each of those immensely important people, pets, and places. But those lessons gave me a new lens to look through now and in the future. Such a great reminder.
I stopped watching this video when he mentioned he's 26 years old. For the first two minutes dude was acting as if he lived his entire life in Paris and has grandchildren there.
I moved to Germany almost one year ago. My parents and my grandma had been really supportive and I've been doing my best to live fully and enjoy what I have. This January I was visiting home and my grandma passed away. I really felt it when you said that sometimes we take things for granted. Even tho I was in my country, her lasts days I didn't visit her. I didn't know those were her lasts ones, as she just suddendly passed away during her sleep. I learned in that moment that life really doesn't wait for anyone, and it's important to live present and enjoy every second with the people you love. So your video really resonates with me. Great work as always.
It amazing how the topics you choose so accurately reflect our collective unconscious and relate to so many of our experiences, perhaps it's because you're so human, honest, and genuine. I'm thinking about moving from Rome, after almost 5 years abroad, quite a bit. Pondering daily, whether this is actually the right time and decision or if I am prematurely closing a chapter. I still don't have an answer, but after watching and connecting with this video so much, I'm going to spend each of my passegiate through the city more mindfully and appreciate the remaining time here while I have it. I've been a subscriber since the Mexico City era and its been truly inspiring to watch you grow. Your art has inspired me and so many others. Looking forward to seeing Nathaniel Drew 4.0 post-Paris soon!
Too many words to say: I got bored with living in Paris, I'm more of a tourist than someone with deep roots to the city, I have a flexible-to-locality cashflow stream and I can easily afford to move to wherever I like, so I'm leaving...
You are wise beyond your years Nathaniel, you’ve already discovered that the secret sits in the middle and knows. Kudos to you just keep listening to your soul and you will always turn towards towards pure joy.😊
You are under no obligation to be the same person you were 5 minutes ago.” - Alan Watts
loove it 🥲
This is very inspiring. Thank you!
Amen!
Love this!
@@MotherNaturesWarrior-lw3kv you dont understand the quote. IT dont say that everybody change evry 5 minutt. IT says your under no obligation to be the same person.
I’m 38 this year dude. Trust me…every year that passes i look back and wonder who I was the year before. Always an opportunity for growth and change
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Great comment. We keep growing.
Same
exactly this 👍🏻
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Love your channel and messages. I'm 62 and published my first novel just yesterday. When your development, passions, and desires stop changing, that's when you're in trouble. Stay present and enjoy the ride!
Name of the novel?
Yes please share with us the name of the novel
@@felipeazevedo6704 = "Boys Like Kevin", thanks for asking. I wish the young protagonist was as wise as Nathaniel in terms of not trying to rush through life and the importance of listening to your inner voice. :)
Congrats 🎉
wow congratulations 🥹🤍
As soon as I saw the title I thought: "This is it! He's moving to the country" I moved to the country at 24. I now have a dog, a cow and a husband. I've learned how to can food and make cheese, yogurt and bread, sew and I'm starting a garden this year I've never been happier. The country is amazing, it will bestow it's gifts. You're going to love it.
That sounds amazing.
Poor cow, what happens to its babies?
@@watchdominion00People need beef mate! and some delicious stakes😋
Moving to Normandy at 27 - you aren't the only one :) ❤
Gardening is so Fun!! I started last year and I can’t wait for April so I can start planting!
Just moved to NYC at 26 after dreaming of living in a big city since my study abroad at 20. I left behind my whole family, all my friends, my job, to try something new and answer that question for myself, “what if”. Now that I’m here, I, to put it lightly, hate it. I left a life full of nature, community, and love, to come here and struggle and chase the NYC “dream life” and all I crave is the open sky, sitting and drinking coffee with my parents, playing with my niece and nephew. I’m beating myself up over wanting to go home once my lease is up, but this video came at the perfect time for me to realize, everyone’s path is different and I am constantly changing, evolving and though I wanted this before, it’s not for me now.
Thanks for helping me accept my changes.
it's called 'the grass is always greener' mindset. We all have it!
Unless things were pretty bad where you left, wherever you go will take time to get as good. The grass is greener where you water it, and you have to look at it as you just planted the seeds. Of course the garden isn't as good as where you left, even if the climate, soil, environment is better. Moving is taking 4 steps back so that hopefully, in say, 2 years time you're a step ahead of where you would have been. Hopefully in a decade or two, the difference is huge and worth it. Big cities let you climb the ladder of life forever, where as in our hometown we get to the top pretty quickly. Take your pick.
I’ve been in that exact same situation! I dreamt my whole life of living in Manhattan and I did move there. Lived there for 7 years. Experienced a full life; friends, social life, sports, arts, work.. but the intensity of city energy was starting to grind me down. I moved to Scandinavia (where I’m from). Now I’ve been back for 7 years, and I find myself needing some changes. I’ve accepted this is part of my personality 😊 Good luck with your life’s adventure.
You chose the wrong time to move to NYC. Locals from NYC are leaving the city. The cost of living is crazy high, and crime keeps going up.
@@Cocoisagordonsetter Wherever you go, there you are.
NYC is spectacular though. When you compare it to small cities under 600k that have much worse weather and nothing to do. Has nothing to do with the top of the food chain. Even making 250k a year in these small towns, what is there to do? Where is there to go? Especially when its dead and winter for half the year. In NYC theres always something to strive towards. Yea if you want to sit on your computer 24/7, watch tv and movies for 50 years and you feel good and accomplished by that, then by all means.
Pay no attention to what one is “supposed” to do. Life is best lived one day at a time…surprises, disappointments, and everything in between.
My father used to say something like "if you are following a path then it is someone else path, make your own path in life and you will be much happier for it".... Journey forward Nathaniel.
"If the path before you is clear, you're probably on someone else's." - Joseph Campbell
@@droppingdown That is the saying - thank you....
Have been following you for years when you were in Mexico. As someone whose goal was to live in NYC ever since I was a child, moved there right after graduating and and then moved away after living there for 6 years this resonated with me. I was craving peace and simplicity. The opposite of a fast paced, expensive lifestyle I had built for myself in New York. Part of me was somewhat devastated and went: "Now what...? I went through all that work and all that struggle to 'make it' in New York, achieve my dream - only to move away a few years later?" But a deeper, more intuitive part of me responded: "Moving somewhere where you can slow down is exactly what you need at this time in your life."
Looking forward to your next chapter.
Hansonel.....your goal spooked me, especially the part about since you were a child. I looked around my town and my family at age 4 and declared to myself, "THIS ain't it." The loneliest day of my Year was Thanksgiving, when our scattered relatives all flew in to celebrate mashed orange-potatoes with baby marshmallows with my grandparents. Everybody is there, lots of grown-ups and I am so lonely I want to die. My big consolation came the year I discovered the live broadcast of the Macy*s Parade in New York City. Not one car in my little city, but thousands of smiling faces and dancing girls up and about and seemingly alive in New York City, having a happy time. Every year this exact scenario replayed itself. My large nit-wit "close knit" family would drive me deeper into despair, and the Rockettes became more and more alluring. It was such an easy decision to leave that hometown three days after High School graduation, Forever. After college, which I paid for Zoomers, with scholarships and work/study, I was free and clear to realize my dream. My first year in New York City, I went to see the Macy*s Parade. It was cold as Alaska and I needed to pee. When they cut away for an Orange Juice commercial on TV, the Rockettes came running out of Macy's store, assumed the position, and began kicking like crazy, just as the camera returned live in Herald Square. Neat, kinda, not exactly what I was expecting. The giant balloons were sorta delapidated in person, full of repairs and band aids. Not exactly how they look two blocks away on television. The bulk of the Parade was high school bands from across the country playing Sleigh Ride like crazy, Santa waving like crazy,, and tons of cops and cowboys riding horses, with a slew of clowns with shovels scooping like crazy, copious, steaming, cow pies. That part you don't get on TV. Well, after Santa, the crowd evaporates within 20 minutes. They all had to pee too, I guess. I love New York City, and would die if I had to leave. However, that was the last time I attended the Macy*s Thanksgiving Day Parade. Even though many friends have died along the way ( I am the last one standing), I never feel lonely. This year I celebrate my 50th year. I'm living alone, thinking better thoughts than ever, and enjoying the company immensely. Living alone is my greatest luxury. (If by misfortune I had to move to the country, my center would not hold. I would commit suicide unless there was a big Mall over the ridge. Different strokes for different folks)
Dude same here...I moved to NYC years ago. Loved and hated it. Moved out. Moved back again this past summer, and within two months knew it just wasn't for me anymore. So I packed my things, called Dumbo moving and moved out. I wish you luck on your next chapter my friends!
I admire the courage to pursue your desires in life. However, from my experience, relocating may address external issues like security, proximity to family, climate, or job prospects, but it doesn't resolve internal struggles. Whether in Australia, the French countryside, or the USA, internal battles persist regardless of location.
I have never commented before but felt compelled to this time. Nathaniel: thank you for sharing your work and art with us, and creating such relaxing, informative, and motivating spaces through your videos. As a psychiatrist at the start of my career, I can tell you that your videos have been actively discussed in my patients’ sessions, to stimulate conversation and promote well-being. You’re making a real difference in people’s lives and I think it’s important that you know this. Si jamais tu viens au Canada, en Ontario, tu as une amie/guide ici! Cheers
All you do is put people on dangerous drugs 😂 psychiatry is not a science it’s a scam
Almost cried during that poem as a 33 yr old man. I'm having a crisis is life right now where I'm between jobs and have had so much time to stand and stare. It's been really nice.
I loved the poem so much too. I recently left my job as well and am taking a break for mental health and this is just the absolute happiest I’ve been these past 5 years 🥹 wishing you the very best on your next journey x
I teared up as well because it really hits you hard when actually understand the value of every word.
After many years of watching your incredible videos, here comes the one with this beautiful poem. The poem that one of my beloved teachers at the uni recites in front of the freshmen on their first day of studies. We also learn this one by heart as part of the interpreter training. Brings back wonderful memories and makes you think about time...
Simply thank you for sharing your life and your path!
I’m 23, and I’ve spent the past year living alone in the Cotswolds, the countryside I grew up in, and although many my age rushed off to cities, I’ve actually been really grateful for the time I’ve had here in a slower paced environment. It’s allowed for focus, for me to narrow on my commitments to what really matter, and carve out more time to spend with myself and my own thoughts. It also gave me time to spend time with some grief for an unexpected loss I had as well. It’s been wonderful, and I’m happy for you that you’re going to be welcoming in some similar peace and countryside as well - it’s truly special.
Thanks for sharing, Tristan. I’m really glad to hear you had/made space to grieve, and I am sorry for your loss.
Very curious to experience life with more space myself.
@@nathanieldrew Thank you, I really appreciate that. Always happy to share.
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I've done the nature slow life and thought I had arrived. "Stop and stare" was essentially my mantra, and I rejected the fast life. Funny, we are on opposite paths, now I'm being pushed back into activity, engagement with the world, the concept of productivity I rejected so much I am trying to embrace it, and I can see how I took that lifestyle too far. I meditated so much that it actually caused adverse effects to my brain and I'm recovering from that now. Enjoy the countryside, but take care! Be careful of extremes.
Wow very interesting response! Can I ask how meditation caused adverse effects to your brain? This is the first time I'm hearing about this and I'm very curious. Also, I'm wishing you lots of luck in this new transition in your life!
It's funny, but while watching the video a thought crossed my mind that some time in the future we'll be watching his video where he's at a stage in life where he's diving into active lifestyle again. Because that's what life is like, like a pendulum swing :)
I love this and I so relate. To every thing there is a season!
I think we run into trouble when we try to force certain ideals on ourselves and reject other parts of us that are asking to be seen. Authenticity looks different for everyone, and is something that evolves over time.
@@LunaVioletta7probably a lack of stimulation and connection and accidental self induced disassociation
Very well said. We left the Paris region/Antony... 2 years ago, and couldn't be happier... We are living in the Loiret Dept 45/ Beautiful and surrounded by farms, and we are not totally isolated.. LOVE this way of life!
I had to stop this video short because I almost started crying. I think I'm realizing I'm in a similar boat but have been pushing those thoughts away and hearing you is bringing them to the surface. I'll hold to watch until I'm ready
Just remember, on the other side of fear is a life beyond imagination. Wishing you the courage to find your truth and live it 💛
Nathaniel, I've been following you since 2020, and man, I'm always so shocked by how similar some aspects of our lives are. I moved to Canada from Brazil in 2020 and felt the same way, leaving so many things behind. I even lost my dog while I was far from home. Another similarity that amazes me is that my parents are leaving the house I grew up in, back in Brazil. I still can't believe all of this is happening.
Wishing you all the best on your new journey.
You are so blessed to learn these truths at a relatively young age…hope you move closer to your parents.
I am a huge advocate for slowing down and living more simply. It allows you to be much more present and time feels like it slows down along with you. As much as I love cities, nature is where I truly feel like I can be myself. I'm now 30 and have gone through some very big changes over the last few years. I've almost become a completely different person (and in a good way). Taking the time to slow down and really look deeply at my life, the choices I've made, the things I've been working towards, and the choices I'm making right now - everything matters. Every decision shapes our lives.
I look forward to the things you will create in the future! It's been such a joy watching your journey over the years, Nathaniel. Time for a new chapter! ❤️
Same here ☺️ I also turned 30 this year and finally feel happy with where I am, I don’t have everything I thought I needed by 30/what society expects you to have but I feel happy and more settled in life, it’s hard to put it into words. Slow down and enjoy the mundane day to day activities, don’t take for granted those little moments that one day you’ll look back on and wish your life was as simple as. Xx
as someone who grew up in the countryside, moved to the city for 6 years and then left for the same reasons you are talking about, i found the sweetspot to be:
living in a rural area which gives you the pros of the countryside but is also well connected and lets you dip into your city of choice within an hour. that way you will still be able to enjoy the pros of a city without actually being in it all the time.
also since living in a more natural environment resets your brain from constant sensory overload, whenever you actually choose to go to the city it is such an amazing experience for the senses. kinda like having a nice piece of cake once in a while. makes you appreciate it much more you know. but gotta be honest after some time in the city it's always such a relief when the car/train crosses the outskirts and i enter open space again... huh.. :)
Beautiful, Nathaniel. For the watchful soul, life only gets better with age... even if it also grows more challenging in other areas. Pleasure to be "with" you on the journey.
Thank you for your words and art. Hell, I’m 63 and still wondering, wandering, and curious. I can’t imagine my life without the solitude I’ve learned to relish. I suffered so much in my life for so many reasons but the worst insight I had was that I was scared most of the time and reacting. When I was about 32 I started to come into my own and head in the kind of direction you are currently pivoting to. But I met someone and this was a huge problem in my life. I hated being alone. I had psychological issues that I didn’t get back then. About 18 years ago, I decided to be single and take greater personal responsibility for my life. It was then I realized I had to UNLEARN all the crap I had been believing or taught. I also realized the absolute necessity to trust my instincts and my own sense of truth. I spent way way too much time people pleasing or trying to gain acceptance and love. I misspent way too many years living a “Groundhog Day” life. Another thing critical to my personal growth was learning healthy boundaries and learning how to say NO. It’s very much like I began to wake up from the Matrix. I had a beautiful experience wherein my ego collapsed…aka enlightenment…aka witnessing the white light. It’s kind of a mystery, but Jung would say it was an ego collapse. After that experience I dramatically changed. But mainly in the sense I have never felt alone since. During that experience I felt connected to the universe and all of life. And, no, I was not on drugs nor hallucinating. It’s called hitting a bottom and realizing you’ve run out of options and that you’d better realize that all of the things we do to try to control ourselves, others, and life is a bunch of bullshit. Nathaniel, I get the sense from you that you are listening deeply to your soul and living at a deeper level than most people are willing to. This is not only brave but I think very mature. When I was 32 and embarking on that path of individuation and got distracted, let me tell you I was so close to becoming the person that I am now. Instead I gave me away and betrayed that young woman because I was so insecure and frightened. Stay true to that deeper sense of connection you desire. Our lives are like the ocean and the waves. You are a drop in the ocean but the ocean is whole. Go with the tides but chart your own course as you are. I respect your decisions to be flexible and allow space for deeper listening. Currently I’m living full time in an rv I bought ten years ago. Been traveling but slow. Staying places for long stretches. I prefer tiny slow nomadic living now. You inspire me. Love your channel. Looking forward to more content.
Your story is very inspiring, thank you for sharing!!!
It is such a blessing to be able to enjoy your own company, to spend time with you, within you, connecting with what really matters, enjoy!
This is my new favorite video of yours! Positive and poignant in a calm but deeply alive way.
Cheers to following the internal nudge and letting the countryside soak into the soul. 🥂
That video when you went back home to surprise your parents is probably one of my favourites of yours, its so wholesome.
I’m 31 and have been following you since you first began. I completely feel this. I’m so excited for you and your new chapter. You’re my favorite creator for so many reasons but your videography and storytelling are just incredible. I can’t wait to see your upcoming content ❤
beautifully video!!
60 here and still I grow, change keeps happening although at a slower pace
ah ❤ this is such an inspiration to me. i’m about to be 27 and everyone around me acts like it’s too late for everything
Nathan..you impress the hell out of me! Can't wait to see where you land next as you continue your life's journey. Terry
I've been a huge fan of yours for more than a year now. Your videos are totally unique..warm, humble, full of love and a giving-out heart! I look forward to your new videos as you share a new transition in your personal journey with us :) Blessings!
Thank you for the kind words, it means a lot :)
Thanks for sharing.
I’m 52 and I love your channel. You and your Dad are both amazing story tellers.
I spent my college years and twenties living all over the US including Hawaii for much of that. In my early 30s I wanted to move closer to home and I finally did, but shortly after my mom died unexpectedly and my dad sold the house I grew up in. All those years I was becoming who I am today but also didn’t realize the trade off was I wouldn’t really get to spend much time with my mom ever again. I still don’t know what the right balance is but I appreciate much more viscerally now that nothing is guaranteed.
Thank you for taking your time and create this!! ❤
Moving to the countryside is gonna be such a joy for you. I used to go on holiday to the countryside of France as a kid, such a lovely part of france. I hope you go forth and find your joy 😊 ❤
How beautiful!!!!! Thank you for your art and your honesty. I think a lot of us are going through things like this. Thanks so much for helping it feel more clear. I really resonate with your words and the poem. Again, thank you! And please take us with us on wherever you go!
Just about to turn 50 and still don't know what I want to do with my life.
Try reading the Quran, it’s gonna be a life changing for you.
Same. Just turned 50 and feel like I’m running out of time to do anything meaningful. So I decided to do the things I always thought were pointless, like learning Italian and writing a novel, just because it makes me happy. 😊
You’re life over 😂
Nah I’m jp bro
I can relate wholeheartedly to this, and my regrets are not spending enough time being present and then appreciating my 'last times'. God bless you, an old soul indeed.
Nathaniel, every time I watch your video, it feels like the time slows down. Thanks for these
I watched this video a couple of weeks ago, and I keep coming back to this poem you shared at the end. Thank you for sharing 🤍
Good luck with your next adventure!
Cant wait to see where your journey takes you!
We are doing the same in reverse, selling our country house in canada and moving to valencia! So many times i felt like i make a life for myself but get disinterested in it and want to start fresh! It isnt for evenyone, but getting outside your comfort zone is just how you discover parts of yourself you never knew you had. We are lucky to be able to make these moves and have support
This was so so so beautiful. As someone who has also moved continents in my life, I have the same feelings. You leave a place and a part of you somehow believes that it is going to stay exactly how you left it. But just as you change, it changes. Or even sadder...it stays the same, but because you have changed, it no longer feels the same.
Relating to this so much 🥺 I just turned 28 and am starting over in so many ways. I no longer enjoy being rushed, distracted, or putting on appearances. I’ve noticed that doing things fast often leads to confusion and regret while going slowly and truly considering consequences in life makes for peace.
That poem was beautiful 👏 Also I hope you enjoy the countryside more. Looking forward to seeing how it inspires you.
This is probably one of my favorite videos of yours. Thank you for the kind and important reminder of impermanence. My heart is full for you, I'm so happy you chose the calm and wisdom of nature instead of the fever of Paris.
Absolutely beautiful piece Nathaniel! A year ago I felt similar about living in a big city (Toronto) and decided to movie out to western Canada on the coast where nature is abundant. I'm not sure if this a symptom of growing older but that peace and calm of mind is all I crave now.
Change. Such a strong word, often ignored and overlooked but when it comes knocking, you have no choice but to greet it with patience and acceptance, one breath at a time.
Oh Nathaniel, we are on similar journeys. I've spent 4 years as well in a foreign country (I'm from France, moved to Sweden right before the pandemy). I'm now leaving (literally next week) and going back home ( a smaller city than Stockholm for sure). I knew it would happen since a bit more than a year but I ignored the feeling because I had uneasy feelings about my departure. Also want to live more remotely and with a slow-paced routine, which will allow more magic and creativity. Many hugs
@@thefernwehtype I think so too - I also have a lot of my friends leaving Sweden. Either something is up or because I'm focused on it, I notice it a bit more. In any case, change is good! Hope you'll embrace it!
@@audeboulord8083I live in Norway & I have a calling to leave. My closest friend, also born and raised here is relocating to Spain. To be honest, the long winters have worn me out. It might be my fault as I didn’t ski much this year (skiing helps me through the winter). I totally understand your need to relocate & Bonne chances avec tes adventures ✨
Beautiful!! You are continuing on, with your inner compass leading the way. Bravo 👏🏻✨
A few months ago I moved to Spain and recently been feeling homesick, missing what I lost or didn't appreciate, and in general having existential dread as I enter true adulthood. Overwhelmed by this anxiety of both past and future, I tend to under appreciate what I have here in this new chapter,. So this was a good reminder to be present, thanks man
Something brought you to where you are now. Have kindness and appreciation to yourself that you made that change with inspiration and beautiful hope in your heart! You can change your whole experience of your life right now in this very moment by tuning in and being fully present with a kind and open heart to yourself and each moment of life around you. You’re where you’re meant to be ❤
Hope all is going well and that that we hear from you soon wherever you are. Best to you.
Just took a similar decision. I left Rome after 5 years, to go back to my parents in the French countryside. I have some healing to do! And good quality time to spend here. It's good to live a life of passion and to feel like you are the busiest person you know, until it starts to consume you.
I feel you! I moved to Paris 4 years ago as well and have been feeling the nudge to move for a long time now, and in the same quiet direction! Good luck in your new chapter.
I'm 34. I live in a small flat, have an immense amount of debts (growing, started 14 years ago) and never felt free. In my 20s i didn't care so much about it. Had some good times, got to know some awesome people... Now i've reached a point where i'm seriously asking myself if my life is even worth it. I know, i have it in my own hands. I always had. But now it reached a point where I am in such a bubble, lost motivation, lost creativity, think abut my worries all the time. Everything seems against me. i don't want to see a solution, even though i have people around me that want to help... I feel older than i am. I got weak, i became a coward.
Enjoy your journey! Just do whatever is possible, and if you have reached the possible, there will be a door opened with even more possibilities. I adore you by just doing what you think is the best for you. Bless you, you wise person.
I resonate with this soooo much. I'm nearly 39 and have spent most of my 30s feeling like this. Feeling behind everyone else, feeling like no matter what I do I can't get even close to where I thought I would be in my head in my 30s. You know, own a house, have a decent income, have a nice car, blah blah blah.... I recently decided I needed to change what my expectations of success were. I have my health, and I still have decades ahead of me....that's something soooo many rich people would give everything for!!! And don't forget they do say that "life begins at 40" .... although my mum says her best years started at 60!!!!🤣 I have felt behind and honestly like a failure for so long that it makes me feel older than I am. I forgot that being in your 30s is still young!!! The journey is still beginning for us, so don't quit yet. Did you know that Samuel L Jackson starred in his first movie at 46, and Roald Dahl was retired when he started publishing books. Your story has still got lots more plot twists to come 🥰♥️sending you best wishes x
Just find small little moments in life and and small moments of joy. Even if it's just savouring a great cup of coffee. Life is made of these little moments
Is it possible you are spending too much time comparing yourself to others? This is the bane of social media. Instead, listen to your own muse. It is the quiet, but persistent bird that taps its beak on the window of your consciousness. It often presents a risk or a challenge to one's fears or apathy. The disturbing part of your comment is :I'm asking myself if my life is even worth it" as it suggests you are beating yourself and indulging in a sort of self-loathing.. Be conscious of this rather than avoiding or numbing it. Instead, focus on the positive and the lessons learned. Debt? Most of us have debt. Relax. Circumstances change; you are young. You are not a victim of your circumstances once you take self-responsibility for your choices. Perhaps you are just in a transitional phase. Let it be. Be conscious of the negative self-chat in your mind and consciously turn it off. I sometimes say to myself aloud "Stop brain chat." It's a wild ride, but it's life. Ask for guidance from whatever higher power you believe in and keep on movin'. The antidote to depression is action. I take a walk when I start beating up on myself, it's surprisingly effective.
I hear you very well !! I had a similar thing happen to me, one day I heard from my parent that they are renovating the house of my childhood. I didn't even had a chance to say goodbye to such an important place, filled with the memories of my past and now it doesn't feel like home anymore.
But I'm wishing you best on this new chapter of life. It's good to slow down.
Your videos have been incredibly helpful in encouraging me to slow down and turn inwards. Nathaniel, your guidance has inspired me to embrace mindfulness, and I've found a sense of mental clarity through your content. Thank you for your insights.
I saw that for you. LOL Just a random person. What do I know. Literally could see you happy in my mind in the countryside. Congratulations on this new chapter in your life. I look forward to seeing what you create. I love watching you grow. Great content!
Congratulations on your new venture. Can't wait to be invited in.
SOOOO beautiful. I love your honesty and wisdom, and this video is particularly aesthetically pleasing.. Kudos, dear Nathaniel.
Hey Nathaniel, I just wanted to say that you have totally inspired me since I was in high school with your videos. I recently turned 20 and you have given me such a direction to shoot for when it comes to travel and language learning, and doing things outside of my comfort zone.keep doing what you’re doing. You rock man!
Fantastic, congratulations for saying yes to what’s in your heart and calling you. Also, thank you for uploading this today; you gave words and visuals to exactly what’s been resonating for me.🙏🌺🌸✨
Found your channel through another (DevonBumpkin) and I’m so glad!
I’ve been planning and working towards moving to France but I’ve recently been wondering if it’s still what I want 🤔
“Question the assumptions of society around us” 💯👏
Embracing inconsistency is what’s brought me a lot of peace. It’s great that you are encouraging others to do the same. Life is constantly changing and moving yet we’ve come to believe that change is a negative, and that we should be this one dimensional thing (and that thing changes depending on culture etc). Those expectations rob us of truly living. The trial and error of finding what works for each and every one of us. That uncertainly can be inspiring. Sitting in comfort for too long can stunt growth as well.
Your parents are so sweet!! It’s wonderful seeing parents express that they are happy to see their kids. A lot of us only experience negativity from our parents. It was refreshing to see that.
“You do not get more out of life by going faster”.
So many nuggets of wisdom in one video.
The rural moves are really interesting. In the past few weeks, I've kind of finalized moving back to a smaller city, and maybe after that a more rural/farming/etc kind of area. I thought I wanted the city life, but-I didn't need it for as long as I thought, I guess. Really appreciate your sharing here, and the poetry visuals at the end were beautiful.
Thanks for sharing your story, as always. I'm 25 and feel just the same pull towards a quieter and more present lifestyle. Very excited to keep following you.
I literally feel like this and I’m 17. I’m guessing it will keep happening as I grow older, which is a scary thing to think about but I will try to face it all with confidence. Thank you for this Nathaniel 💛💛
It’s curious that I lost my dog on October last year, and it’s also made me rethink a lot of things in my life, which are actually reshaping it and also putting everything in question.
I'm 55 years old and left the US 2 years ago to go to Thailand , but because of covid and with Thailand changing things from one day to the next, I decided to stay in Mexico for what was supposed to be a few months. I'm on to Thailand next and people keep asking me "how long are you going to be there". I tell them until I'm not there anymore. That could be if I die there or if I live there for one year and decide to leave. I don't know and I don't have to know. I can change with each season of my life and that's ok. As a young man, you will forever have different seasons of your life and that is perfectly fine.
What a cliché travel choice.
Beautiful message. Thank you.
I am at a point in my life where I truly wish I had listened to my heart and less of what others told me I should do……follow your heart ❤keep listening to what you really desire.
Bravo à vous! I am almost 70 and am finally catching on to the importance of stopping to smell the roses. It took the closure of our business in the States (pandemic related) and our move to the countryside in France to begin to free my mind of a lifetime of clutter (much of which was essential at the time but I held on too long). It is good to see you so far ahead of the game in your evolution. Bon courage!
I understand I'm in the same position, and moving to the outskirts of Lisbon soon to implement those changes :) thank you for sharing your experiences...sending you love on this beautiful journey as you live every moment in it's presence. ❤️
Beautiful story-telling, Nathan! I can sense your newfound calmness and present-ness in this video. I am excited to see you living a slower-pace life where you can be fully present in every moment. I myself found that living a life that way gives you space where creativity can flow in. Best of luck and looking forward to Nathaniel 4.0!
Beautiful and poignant! I love that you recognize this at your age. It usually takes people much longer, but then again, you are an old soul.
4,5 years ago, just before pandemic I moved to Milan, Italy. A about a year ago I felt the need to change something in my life. Since last December I moved to Tuscany in a remote village, just to experience what you perfectly explained in your video to get more out of life by going slower.
He doesn’t talk like a ‘26’.
More as a ‘36’. He grew and lived very fast already.
I thought he was thirty something too...😅
Vamos todavia ! No te veía clavado en París ni a palos, pero bue, vivi mas de diez años ahí y me parece que fue otra vida, vivo en Saint Hilaire du Touvet, en plena montaña cerca de Grenoble y el despegue de parapente mas conocido en el mundo, si pasás por acá con gusto te llevo a volar en tandem por éstas montanas preciosas, sólo para que puedas apreciar lo maravilloso de poder pararse a apreciar las cosas simples de la vida sin correr detrás de nada... tener tiempo para escuchar, explorar, aprender a hacer pan o lo que tu creatividad necesite. Felicitaciones por ésta nueva etapa !
Thank you for the powerful reminder to not rush things and stay present!
This is perhaps your most powerful video. I’m moved to tears. The poem at the end was so beautiful. Thank you for uploading this message.
First Sorelle Amore moves back to Australia from Iceland and now Nathaniel is leaving Paris for a peaceful countryside. Some universal changing of location is happening for many, and most are moving towards more calmer pace of life.
Whaaat?! She left!? 😦 Ok.. I need to hop over to her channel
@@madeleine5313 Yup! She's back in Australia.
WOW. You are far ahead of the maturity curve for your age. Last week I was spending time thinking about how my entire life I have wanted to know as much of the world as I could manage to see. I was wondering about all of the people who spend their entire life in one place--sometimes by choice, sometimes not. I am far too old to second guess the choices I have made. So I turn to Rumi. In one of his poems ( I am going to paraphrase) he says that if you were to change any single event in your life you would unravel the thread that holds the entire tapestry together.
god damn this was good. you're a special creator, nathaniel. feel like i needed this
Beautiful! Bravo! I think you'll have a very rich Saturn return - somewhere between 27 and 30 years of age. It can often go on for a year or so. Best to you!
Are you keeping your apartment in Paris though???? It's so beautiful!!!!
Probably AirBnB it 😅
I've been following your channel for quite a while and I really enjoy the the way you tell and question your life. Now I'm 26 too and this short masterpiece you've made resonated a lot with me. I'm at a very similar point of life going through very similar question to my life. Thank you for sharing your thoughts it's inspiring! To live a slow and present life rather then a fast and short.
This mf JUST bought a place in Paris Jfc, these influencers i swear. There’s a thin line between wanting to explore and not knowing what you want.
Holy Smokes! You have amazing insight at this stage of your life. Trust me when I say, however, when you are in your 60s, you will finally…finally…begin, truly, to realize who you are. It takes a life lived to know you. But, your insight now is amazing. Grateful for your sharing these vlogs in real time as your learn and walk your life out.
I'm 16. I'm from Russia. After war started, two years ago, I couldn't found my place in future... So, accidentally I watch shot with Japanese commuter trains. And I wanted to move to Japan. I'm on this way now - I study Japanese hard. I want to change my life completely.
I am beyond involved at this point lol. I LOVE your vlogs, your experiments, and your perspective. It's exactly what I've wanted to explore for myself. Thank you. I DM'd you btw. Keep going.
I don´t think the viewers here can replace the real people you want in your life (physically) to share your journey with, Nathaniel.
Feels always a bit absurd when ppl on youtube tell that they want to spend time alone but then share it as if they need to tell it to someone. We are social animals...
Love the message of this video. Thanks for sharing.
Whenever I watch your videos, I'm surprised each time at how much you are so very centered on yourself and how you feel and what you feel like you should do. Like, I get it. It's your life. Your purpose is you. Makes sense. I think that's why you have so many point 0s.... you're at the whim of your feelings. Nothing wrong with it. You're insightful, inspiring... Like, I don't know if you watch your videos because you mention yourself frequently.
Same thought I had. It made we wonder how he would do as a father or caretaking his parents… things that make you have to stop being so self focused. Then he said he was 26… 26 is so young! He’s doing just what he should be doing in his 20’s. And hopefully he gets it all out of his system before he has to turn his focus outward to taking care of others.
@@soul2soul399 this is such a strange thing to say….should he be focused on everyone else? He should live his life based on what HE wants, enjoys, needs. He doesn’t have a partner, no children, his parents are well and take care of each other. He wants to evolve, have adventures see the world and sample whatever he can to figure his life out. If he found a special person whom he loved and felt ready to settle down in some way, he would be perfectly suited to it. If his parents were ill, I’m sure he would drop everything to care for them. Assuming that he’s uncaring because he’s living the life he wants is not reasonable and says more about you than him imo
@@ronjakh how is what I said unreasonable? We both are saying the same thing. I said that he’s doing exactly what he should be doing at this time in his life. 🤷🏻♀️
I appreciate this about his videos. Because it disturbs me far more when individuals make videos trying to focus on what OTHERS should/could do. Learning from one person’s courageous and creative expressions about their own current experiences… without the arrogance of one who tries to make it NOT “about themselves.” Him talking about his personal experience of life is why I watch… a feature, not a bug, and I don’t necessarily think there’s a time / age limit.
Precious. Privileged. Narcissistic. Struggling with boredom. Is that what you're saying ? Just symptoms of being young, American and affluent perhaps.
I’m looking forward to following along this new chapter in your life. I moved out of the city to a tiny island (with road connections) and it’s the best decision. We actually talked about this today, me and my husband, how we enjoy spring and summer so much more now that we live here. Before we couldn’t really enjoy it, because we felt like we had to be so busy all the time. Now we can just sit outside in our garden and watch the sunrise together and it’s the most precious time we get to cherish together.
fantastic videos mate!
Yours are fantastic as well kieran
Family friends have said that the area around Cahors is the most beautiful of France
I have had similar circumstances happen as well the past few years…first my dad passing, then my dog, and then my mom selling the childhood home I grew up in. Looking back, I wish I had savored each of those immensely important people, pets, and places. But those lessons gave me a new lens to look through now and in the future. Such a great reminder.
why can't you stop and stare in paris
SO BEAUTIFUL. And so excited to see the art that comes from this next chapter!
I stopped watching this video when he mentioned he's 26 years old. For the first two minutes dude was acting as if he lived his entire life in Paris and has grandchildren there.
😂
It’s about the quality of life vs. quantity
I moved to Germany almost one year ago. My parents and my grandma had been really supportive and I've been doing my best to live fully and enjoy what I have. This January I was visiting home and my grandma passed away. I really felt it when you said that sometimes we take things for granted. Even tho I was in my country, her lasts days I didn't visit her. I didn't know those were her lasts ones, as she just suddendly passed away during her sleep. I learned in that moment that life really doesn't wait for anyone, and it's important to live present and enjoy every second with the people you love. So your video really resonates with me. Great work as always.
Don’t sell your apartment. You may want to come back. Take your time with big decisions.
It amazing how the topics you choose so accurately reflect our collective unconscious and relate to so many of our experiences, perhaps it's because you're so human, honest, and genuine. I'm thinking about moving from Rome, after almost 5 years abroad, quite a bit. Pondering daily, whether this is actually the right time and decision or if I am prematurely closing a chapter. I still don't have an answer, but after watching and connecting with this video so much, I'm going to spend each of my passegiate through the city more mindfully and appreciate the remaining time here while I have it. I've been a subscriber since the Mexico City era and its been truly inspiring to watch you grow. Your art has inspired me and so many others. Looking forward to seeing Nathaniel Drew 4.0 post-Paris soon!
Too many words to say: I got bored with living in Paris, I'm more of a tourist than someone with deep roots to the city, I have a flexible-to-locality cashflow stream and I can easily afford to move to wherever I like, so I'm leaving...
In short, I'm quite privileged.
You are wise beyond your years Nathaniel, you’ve already discovered that the secret sits in the middle and knows. Kudos to you just keep listening to your soul and you will always turn towards towards pure joy.😊
You said so much, without saying anything.