DATING Q&A [showing you my dating profile // dating as a curve model // being alone]
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 มิ.ย. 2024
- Welcome to my DATING Q&A video where I discuss all things apps, dating in a city, being alone and how I feel being newly single. I hope you enjoy, let me know what you think in the comments below and please do like this video and subscribe to my channel if you want more…
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You are such a breath of fresh air. I feel like people are constantly telling me what I should and shouldn’t look like. Just yesterday my coworker “lovingly” approached me and told me I really needed to lose some weight. Growing up with my mom telling me I look pregnant...none of that matters I need to value myself, at the end of the day it’s my health and my body. Fell in love with your message and voice since the moment I found you. Thank you so much for your body positivity.
Specifically women at work say things like this to my coworkers and I all the time. It’s really sad because basically it’s only due to the fact that it was done to them and around them (is what I remind myself of). I’m so so sorry because I know how hurtful these comments can be. ❤️
Oh my god, women can be so horrible to each other! I hate that. I always give compliments to other women if I really feel like it’s sincere and the woman will appreciate it. So sorry you had to hear that. I’m lately often bloated (I need to change my diet now that I’m approaching 30 - I’ll be 28 next year) and I can only imagine how I look like sometimes being “pregnant” with food. 😅
Loved this. Resonated with so much of it. Comparison and envy is my downfall as the only single one out of my friend group and most of my colleagues are in relationships/married/kids etc. But I’m working on that with daily positive affirmations, knowing that I am building a better version of myself day by day. I’m quite driven and independent but have a lot of self-doubt too after failed relationships and not being where I want to be career wise either. But I’m doing everything I can to change things but also focus on being happy now! I loved your take on things and fully agree with everything you said.
Couldn’t help myself from commenting re sleeping with someone on the first date. I’ve been with my ‘one night stand’ (we met on a night out) for just over 5 years.. and 2 months ago I married him 🥰
I was on dating apps at the time and I would never have met up with him if he‘d have messaged me on an app because I had in mind what I wanted and he didn’t ‘tick all those boxes’ ..mainly because he’s younger than me, really, and I thought I needed someone older because they would be more mature.
Love the video and definitely support the do things in your own time - everyone does things at their own pace and one person’s happiness might look different to someone else’s.
Thank you for the positivity ! 🥰
Same! Almost a year in :)
I just adore you Mollie. Bloody loved this video. You speak so eloquently about everything, and I love how open and honest you've been with us viewers recently. Keep all the content coming - I'm loving all of it xx
LOVE THIS! The relationship with ourselves is the most important ❤️
Ghosting is such an immature thing I hate it it gets done to me a lot as well
Awesome, Mollie!!!! Just every day I agree with you more and more and like you more and more! You’re lovely and beautiful, seem like you’d be such good fun to go out with, get smashed on wine, talk random crap about guys and dates. Best influencer in my book 😊
Thank you for sharing your truth and experience Mollie. It's been such a lonely time with the pandemic and I needed to hear these words. You sharing your journey/growth is so so valuable for those of us in a similar situation. It's hard to be single now more than ever but it will be much harder if you settle for what's not right for you ♥️ thank you for reminding me that the waiting is worth it.
You are such an inspiration, and I absolutely love your dating philosophy! To be honest, I've noticed the right person usually comes along when you least expect it and when you are not actively looking for it, which sometimes makes it so difficult to decide whether you are really ready for the relationship. It might just catch you off guard haha, so very excited for you and cant wait for new amazing videos
I absolutely love your approach to dating Mollie. Very inspiring stuff and absolutely spot on that it’s about being happy in yourself first. I definitely had the same approach last year and I can honestly vouch that it attracts a whole new level of people into your life when you have done the work and know your worth. Currently in a very happy relationship now but the best best bit is knowing that if for any reason it ended I am just as happy and fabulous on my own. 😘x
I loved every second of this video Mollie! Just as you said, dating usually goes hand in hand with confidence and self worth and yet, we hear very little about it. Definitely think there needs to be more dialogue about this, particularly with respect to rejection and how to coach yourself through it. It happens to all of us so why don’t we talk about it? I’m in a very similar boat- pretty happy in myself but suddenly become very unsure and quite insecure when it comes to dating, so I fob it off altogether. It was really comforting to hear your experiences / thoughts. Thank you for opening up with us and please, bring us more!!
This video couldn't have come to me at a better time! You speak so eloquently about everything xx
Looved this Mollie! It’s so easy to feel the pressure that you should be doing this and that, comparing ourselves to friends, and I sometimes feel like so much time being wasted with not being able to date properly this year (begining of the year was when I decided I was ready to date after being single for a good while) But christ, there is a PANDEMIC and much more important things going on in the world!
Can’t wait for more videos on topics like this! xx
I feel like you and me are on the same wave length, I'm 26 and been on dating apps a while but I really am starting to love myself and cope with rejection/ghosting but I am happy on my own. Both my friends are married with babies and I'm the only one left behind but I have been working on ignoring their timelines and embracing my own. I see each new date as an opportunity and being present and if it doesn't work out, then it was a good experience. Love what you are doing Mollie, you are so genuine and have really helped me become body positive:)
I love your honesty. You are the real deal.
Loved what you said mollie! Just wanted to add that when I’m rejected or ghosted by a guy I always think it’s his loss and that helps when you feel a little down
Loved listening to your answers Mollie! Always look forward to your insta updates. Have had super mixed experience of sleeping together on first dates - sometimes it’s fizzled out quickly / been ghosted straight away, but others it’s become more serious. So who knows! x
Thank you so much for this video! I appreciate you tackling this subject - it was really enlightening!
I resonate with this video a lot, and like many.. agree with your thoughts and approach to things. The key to finding happiness is from within. When 2 self-fulfilled individuals come together into a relationship, it will only elevate their happiness factor.
I know this was posted 11 months ago but I didn’t know I needed this video so badly. You talked about so many things that I didn’t think other women had to deal with, I feel much less alone now. Also, I’m the oldest child in my family so I’ve kind of had to figure everything out on my own, and watching this made me feel like I had a big sis giving me advice ❤️
I waited all day at work to rush home and watch this video!! 🙌🏻🙏 loved this Q&A it’s like a chit chatting with a girlfriend. Always a beauty always a treat to “hang” with. Thank youuuuuu
Loved this! Thank you so much for sharing and being so honest. Completely agree with it all! X
This is such a great video, thank you! Happiness is totally the goal, I'm in a relationship but I am the person who makes me happy and I think that it soooooo important! xo
Love this! As a newly single gal myself I can really relate to trying and find hapiness and validation within yourself instead of with someone else. And my opinion on the one night stand thing, that definitely doesn't work!
Loved this, feel like it’s just what I needed to hear. Thank you
I’ve just moved to a new city and defo been suffering with online dating fatigue recently so it was really helpful to hear some tips for it. Thank you hun 🙏🏻💛
This was such a great video! The confidence boost I needed to hear as the token single girl in my friend group! 💖
Love this video! Your so genuine and real! Need a friend like you!
I loooove the way you speak and I agree with it all 👌🏼
Loved this! I’m in a relationship now but could still relate to this from my dating days and you reminded me of myself! I’m very open to one night stands and think they can be great, but I also think you need to go into it with the right attitude and not think it will go anywhere, even though it might. In regards to the guy paying, I’m happy with either but I would always offer 😊
Another great video from you, Mollie! I agree with everything you said. I always try to treat people how I want to be treated. I say try because maybe that’s not always the case - everyone has their bad days and I’m not perfect either! But most of the time I do treat people well, I think so anyway. I’m even nice to those who probably don’t deserve it because they were horrible people to me. It doesn’t matter though I am nice because I like to sleep well at night knowing I did no harm to anybody. You are such a sweet girl and so down to earth. I love your channel! ❤️
I can't believe I didn't know about your channel until today! I love your clothing videos, I love your chatty videos, I loved your vlog today! You're crushing it!
Love these videos you really make me smile your so relatable and similar body shape. I wanted to ask where this tops from love it has longer sleeves x
Really love how “fresh” you look. I hope you know what i mean lol. You’re just so beautiful and you look amazing Mollie. Really enjoyed this video too, interesting answers you gave.
I looove Matthew Hussey too! He gives the best advices, I've learned to respect myself so much because I watched his videos, I mean there was a loot of work besides videos, but he amazes me every time! 😀 Love this video and your energy! 🥰
Loved this!
I married my first boyfriend so have never really done the dating thing but it seems quite stressful. I've always been a curvy girl (currently uk 16/18) and when I was a teen I literally thought no one would be interested in me. It's sad people feel that way isn't it because I have since realised it's really not true. I also don't think one night stands work, have not done it myself but have friends who have. It might sound old fashioned but I honestly think spending time getting to know a person is the way forward if a relationship is what you're looking for. I was friends with my husband long before it turned into something more x
I don’t really sleep with people on first dates. I did it once and I still regret it. The problem I have with it is that because I don’t know the true character of that person I can’t say that he deserves my body yet, you know what I mean? I value myself nowadays much more than I did when I was a teen and in my early 20s. I’ll be 28 next year and I need someone solid to build a foundation with 😊
One thing my brother said to me years ago about women expecting men to pay for them on a first day is that it’s like saying you should pay for my time, and that’s always stuck with me and now I hate letting men pay on a first date!
Love this video! I had a one night stand once, we are married with two kids now so I guess in my opinion if they are the right one it doesn’t really make a difference? X
Best first comment we could’ve asked for 😂
I think when you give off the vibe that you don’t care it works out 😛
MOLLIE! I’ve just watched you ig story about who your mum is and I’m SHOOK! Your mums song ‘promise me’ was our wedding song!?
Oh and although I agree how you should make yourself happy before being with anyone I also think relationships make you happy too. Or they CAN make you happy if they are non-abusive and a man treats you well. The same as you are happy going to lunch with someone you enjoy being with. Many things make you happy in life not just one. They are all important 😉
I always pay for the first date to establish that I’m a woman willing to pay. Sets me up in a position of power IMO
I definitely agree you shouldn’t not sleep with someone in the hopes it will be something more. I like to think if they like you they like you anyway, having said that it hasn’t worked so far 😂
I think it's who u choose
Imagine if you got rejected because of your size 😂😂 dear god. What?? And to disclose your size before the date? You!?? I truly don’t understand the people who asked. You’re stunning and more than “regular” shape. You’re a model for gods sake 💃
I wish girls were like you, i have been ghosted so many times by girls. It’s awful. Also, why would any guy reject you? You’re freaking perfect darling
I get more young guys asking me out then guys of my age and young guys are more gentlemanly
Did you get married?
Also a guy should pay on the first date! Haha it’s romantic 😃 My man paid on the first date so I paid on the second one and I was gonna pay half on the first date but he secretly paid when I went to the bathroom 😃
Nipple hair?! Didn't know women have that! :-o
Your profile screams extrovert maybe that is resulting in extroverts going for you and also dudes who sext? Iono could be btw I love your raw responses very real and agreed dating is very hard because I feel like a lot of worth while men aren’t on dating apps iono
How ARE you ♥️🌹
You are lucky you are not int the US. I know you would have no problems finding a good guy over here.
Guy should pay
The sleeping with someone on the first date is the most mind-boggling one for me. I truly do not understand how the awesome act of sex would make you not want to continue a relationship with someone you like!!!
I think with mature, intelligent guys it doesn’t make a difference at all (I’ve had sex with a guy on the first date and it resulted in a relationship-and it was dirty car sex no less 🤣) but I’ve also talked to guys who said they would lose interest in a girl if she slept with them on the first date, because then there’s nothing to “work for”... which to me is literally the most small-minded opinion you could ever have.
What difference does it make if you’re really vibing with the person?? In my opinion it only ever sweetens the deal 🤷🏻♀️
I usually try to be an understanding person but IMO people (ahem men) who think sex cheapens a connection are simple-minded idiots. #sorrynotsorry
Then you don’t understand men.