Benjamin Orr - Do You Know What It Feels Like - live Boston 1995

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  • Benjamin Orr live at Southside Station in Boston on February 2, 1995, playing "Do You Know What It Feels Like". This may be my favorite song of his ever -- it's just amazingly beautiful. I have heard him refer to it as "dickwhiffle" before - a bit of Ben humor. He looks and sounds amazing at 47, don't you agree?

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  • @LousFool
    @LousFool ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I really don't know how Benjamin got through this song. You can just feel the sadness. Miss you beautiful man.

  • @juliedaisies
    @juliedaisies หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    One of a kind. Benjamin Orr, sadly we are without you.

  • @HopeInChrist1
    @HopeInChrist1 13 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    What a voice! There will never be another Benjamin Orr.

  • @UnkleJustin
    @UnkleJustin 15 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    thesongisover, you are so right!! Ben called me just before The Lace was shipped to all radio. I had reviewed an early copy of the album for Gavin and some of the other trades and had said nice things about it. Ben called just to say hi, thanks, and to talk about the area our radio station was in. He asked more about me then he talked about his record. The guy that every woman (and 40% of men) was in love with was a regular, shy guy that cared about being kind. Kind is cool )

    • @purplesunflower8242
      @purplesunflower8242 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      This is why we all loved him..RIP what a loss and still gorgeous

    • @desertrose1226
      @desertrose1226 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      The way he is described makes his passing all the sadder. Why do good ppl seem to go so young? George Michael is another one..a misunderstood yet gentle soul. I think these people are too good for this cruel world.

  • @catmip
    @catmip หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ben putting into words his relationship with Ric. I cry every time.

  • @Dave_Conger
    @Dave_Conger 15 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I'll never forget the day that Ben passed away. I had been listening to Skyline on my Elektra copy of The Lace...thinking about how much I liked Ben's singing. That night I did a search to find out what Ben was up to and of course it was all over the news. I still can't believe it. There are musicians, people who sing, people who write ect... But everytime I watch a Ben Orr video I see this guy that put his heart & soul into his music. He could've easily been a showman and probably more popular.

  • @Jamiestest
    @Jamiestest 12 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    WHAT AN AMAZING BEAUTIFUL SONG!!!!!!!!!!! I STILL TO THIS DAY CANNOT BELIEVE THIS BEAUTIFUL MAN WITH AN ANGEL'S VOICE IS GONE!!!! HE IS IN MY BONES AND IN MY BRAIN.. I HAVE TO LISTEN TO HIM EVERYDAY.... AND I STILL TEAR UP... THERE WILL ONLY BE ONE BENJAMIN ORR (BESIDES HIS SON) WITH THAT VOICE.. LOVE YOU BENJAMIN...

  • @tassyflap
    @tassyflap 15 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    He looks like he knew all along, about life not always giving you what you need.. He has this sad yet knowing expression in a lot of his live performances (just look at some of the old concerts, when he sings Drive).
    Really an interesting soul, and that's about the understatement of the century :-) Wish I'd been born ten years earlier, I'd have been drooling all over the place!!
    See you soon

  • @JOHNTAYLORARIA
    @JOHNTAYLORARIA 13 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This video is amazing. His talent has not been even close to being matched by any of these bands of today. He seems like such a beautiful man and very level headed. It's nice to see him playing a song that he and John Kalishes wrote together. I wished they could have carried on longer. Brilliant post salee320.

  • @eamon54
    @eamon54 15 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I just cannot fathom why this song was not released on CD.
    This is song is perfectly sung by Ben.
    Thanks for posting this. RIP Ben

    • @elisabethschurlknight813
      @elisabethschurlknight813 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I want to listen to this song everywhere. So beautiful. Perfect Benjamin Orr. Miss him so much.

    • @jacilenesantos4587
      @jacilenesantos4587 ปีที่แล้ว

      Benjamin foi e sempre será meu ídolo vc faz faz falta meu lindo ❤

  • @karlbecher1553
    @karlbecher1553 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He was one in one billion , awesome talent singer songwriter

  • @eamon54
    @eamon54 15 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    From what I have read his parents were private and religious people so there could be a connection here. Nevertheless, he was an awfully talented multiskilled muscian and a voice like his is made to be heard, appreciated and remembered by all who followed The Cars and new wave music. RIP Ben

  • @Dave_Conger
    @Dave_Conger 15 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    You can see that at 3:17 and 5:00. You can almost feel what he was feeling. By the way, this song was over 5 minutes and before I saw how long it was I was thinking that it was too short. I'm with Eamon, this stuff should be released. RIP Ben You are greatly missed.

  • @sandracrisfrnandes
    @sandracrisfrnandes 15 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I really love this man.How someone can be so pretty and charming?His talent and voice... it must be an angel. I really feel so sad about his death you know what it feels like.Love you forever, Ben...

  • @analiajimenalopez4666
    @analiajimenalopez4666 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Amazing Benjamin Orr...and that voice..perfect , unique ❤..You Never Forgotten ❤..Kisses to heaven from Argentina 🇦🇷 ❤
    Como tu ...ninguno Ben ❤❤

  • @elprado1963
    @elprado1963 14 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Ben Orr was a humble man who was so incredibly talented. What a voice, what a look and I am thankful that he was able to be such a part of my life growing up from Junior High School to adulthood and beyond. Thank you Ben for what you have given me and many thousands of others...

  • @princesskitu
    @princesskitu 13 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Ben's voice could melt a heart of stone. I never had the chance to see him in person, thanks you for much salee320 for sharing your experience with us. He was such an incredible man, the looks and voice of an angel, and yet I know he was a very kind and gentle soul. Forever missed, Ben.

  • @sherri2463
    @sherri2463 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love the smile at the end of this. That beautiful Benjamin smile, so heart warming❤️❤️🍾🍾🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️

  • @lisamack330
    @lisamack330 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm about to cry,this is the second time I've listened to this song and it's just as beautiful as it was the first time.

  • @desertrose1226
    @desertrose1226 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Benjamin wasn't old here but he still looked great for the age he was I think he always looked younger than his age...up until that cruel illness took away his physical health. However even when he was in his final days his beautiful smile remained. RIP Benjamin you passed too early.

  • @juliedaisies
    @juliedaisies หลายเดือนก่อน

    I listen to Benjamin Orr frequently. His voice really hits deep in my soul. Glad we have these videos.

  • @whalewoman813
    @whalewoman813 11 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Can't believe I feel the same! Have to hear Benjamin every day!

  • @kusong
    @kusong 13 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    love this man i wish i could see him in heaven some day

  • @bellestarre8589
    @bellestarre8589 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Benjamin Orr and John Kalishes.....match made in Heaven above

  • @Jo-lb2wx
    @Jo-lb2wx 10 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Yes I do agree, love this song my second favorite of Ben's...yes he has the looks and the body...and Ben still looks amazing for his age..I don't think anyone can compares to Ben's voice..or ever will..So talented taken to soon.....

    • @purplesunflower8242
      @purplesunflower8242 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Love Ben great voice ! xxx

    • @patriciah5582
      @patriciah5582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agree completely, he was a superb one of a kind, and is greatly missed.

  • @snarfinigus
    @snarfinigus 13 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    A rocker with a golden voice, humble, kind, and generous. So much talent and yet this man is not in love with himself. Not here, not in interviews I've seen, not in testimonials by those who knew him.
    Thanks Salee320 for sharing this priceless video of Benjamin Orr. Love the setting-a train station, complete with announcements. Versus someone else's 1000th concert stage video with lighting & effects. A view and insight into the man's work. Fantastic! Thank you.

  • @LaurieHeathStudio
    @LaurieHeathStudio 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This makes my heart simultaneously hurt and swell with pride for him. So moving and honest.

  • @salee320
    @salee320  15 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    totally agree with you, and, you're so very welcome...it is my honor to share with you

  • @ilfts
    @ilfts 12 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    amazing singer! these songs need to be released on maybe a tribute album

  • @susannahque
    @susannahque 13 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    thank you, salee320 for posting this beautiful performance
    It comes from the heart and yes, he looks wonderful at 47 or any age
    The band performed well, and this song is for all who have been through
    this experience (and those who have not) of heartache.

  • @julenepegher6999
    @julenepegher6999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sweet beautiful Benjamin, he’s singing with the choirs of angels, befitting for him.

  • @aludar
    @aludar 15 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This blonde angel will sing for us in heaven forever!!! Thanx for sharing all your B.O. vidoes!!!!

  • @moodylicious
    @moodylicious 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    dropped in to listen again to one of the loveliest songs I've ever heard.
    And that voice!
    it resonates....connects to my innermost soul and gets to me like a scant few vocalists ever have.
    and a special thanks to salee320 for uploading this treasure.
    god, what heartfelt lyrics, sung so beautifully.

  • @t1121cs
    @t1121cs 13 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great footage...wish you could post the whole concert. I'm sure he played more then 4 or 5 songs...just wish I could have been there to hear it all. If I had known he would be playing live, back in Boston in 1995, I would have drove out there from Michigan. Really wished this song was released somewhere, also, to preserve and listen to over and over. Thank you for posting what you could...of a very special day.

  • @supergolfdude
    @supergolfdude 13 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Cleveland is so proud of native son Ben Orr. Miss you Ben.

  • @frankzito1
    @frankzito1 15 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is such a great song. And seeing and hearing live is a plus. thank you so much.
    Jason

  • @kusong
    @kusong 13 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    i am falling in love with ben love him so much

  • @EdnaSilva-cx1nc
    @EdnaSilva-cx1nc 9 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Love and miss him so much.

  • @Rose-Rae
    @Rose-Rae 12 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    He always looked so beautiful in the all black leather and no shirt look. =)

  • @salee320
    @salee320  15 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks for your comment Eamon: You know, I think Ben just was one to "live" life, and as he said in an interview "I'm just slow"...busy horsin around. And he wanted to compile a great album and was taking his time in doing so, and you know the rest; but surely his family and estate must recognize the greatness of this work and would want the world to hear it.

  • @saraheart2804
    @saraheart2804 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    RIP Mr. Benjamin Orr.

  • @BenjaminOrrLegacy
    @BenjaminOrrLegacy 13 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Great Song we miss you Benjamin!

  • @denisem270
    @denisem270 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful man Beautiful song Beautiful voice

  • @sider420
    @sider420 14 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    To bad that I was not from Boston,he was my all time favorite.

  • @basithamid4712
    @basithamid4712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @Salee320 thank you from my heart for uploading this beautiful song
    I am 72 so happy to have found this performance -
    Ben Orr with a soaring melancholic rendering RIP BEN ...

  • @leclercqjerome2670
    @leclercqjerome2670 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Magnifique chanson souvenir d une legende Benjamin Orr thank you

  • @salee320
    @salee320  15 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    jourene: thanks for your comment. I am so happy to be able to play the tiniest part in keeping his voice alive for us all.

  • @WEOT62
    @WEOT62 12 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Spot on comment. I was always a little confused with MTV & other video shows (tho I had only broadcast tv) why they did not seem to focus on him too much. I always preferred his voice over RO's but you cannot deny Ric was a great writer. Ben had a very versatile voice... yrs of exp. Maybe just too modest to take the spotlight from his friend? You can see it the few interviews he did. After he went solo he did seem to loosen up a bit. At least we have many concert footage here .

  • @lisamack330
    @lisamack330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I still miss Benjamin Orr.

  • @drezwi
    @drezwi 15 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    what a lovely song....lovely voice....
    r.i.p ben x

  • @bellestarre8589
    @bellestarre8589 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Me encanta tanto esta cancion. RIP Benjamin y John. 🕊🕊

  • @scotsbimbo
    @scotsbimbo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Breath taking RIP Benjamin xx

  • @clips65
    @clips65 9 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    R.I. P. Ben

    • @jennylee7182
      @jennylee7182 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Greatly missed r.i.p. Benjamin

  • @caraphyllis
    @caraphyllis 15 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Beautiful song, well done. Why was he not more famous? He liked working behind the scenes, producing other peoples' records. My theory: his physical beauty intimidated people and they treated him like a god, which made him feel lonely. Was he conflicted about being in the spotlight? After all, his talent needed to be expressed. Then there was his tragic death...
    Nobody gets to have it all, but he was still very blessed. We were lucky to have him around for awihle.

    • @moodylicious
      @moodylicious 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "why was he not more famous"
      8 yrs after the question was asked and not expecting an answer.
      But there are a number of obvious, apparent reasons "he was not more famous".
      ~ think about possible, plausible reasons why and put 2 and 2 together.
      There's your answer.

    • @desertrose1226
      @desertrose1226 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The Cars were very famous, and Benjamin was part of that. For that I'm glad.

    • @LaurieHeathStudio
      @LaurieHeathStudio หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@moodylicious what exactly is obvious and apparent to you?

  • @kusong
    @kusong 13 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    love this man

  • @ixtaxiomara
    @ixtaxiomara 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Salee, sin tu ayuda yo nunca hubiera tenido la oportunidad de escuchar esta cancion, gracias por tu generosidad.
    Without your help I would have never had the opportunity to listen to this beautiful song, thank you for your generosity.

  • @GooglSucksDisk
    @GooglSucksDisk ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sounds so good, like the professional recording. Perfection. His voice is like oxygen.

  • @northernlitez1
    @northernlitez1 14 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    @UnkleJustin Beautiful Story-Beautiful Song-Beautiful Man

  • @ilfts
    @ilfts 14 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    awesome song! Oh my god why wouldn't they release this on a cd?? The ten year anniversary of his death is coming up...I think the remaining members of The Cars should reunite for a tour in Ben's memory!

  • @davidbuzzin426
    @davidbuzzin426 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    👍🇺🇸❤BEAUTIFUL

  • @kusong
    @kusong 13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i wish i was there

  • @williamhucker7797
    @williamhucker7797 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have watched this video many, many times, and probably will watch it many more - the magnificent Ben Orr, is irresistible. From Patricia H. not William H.

  • @stellabarrionuevo7778
    @stellabarrionuevo7778 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amo esta canción, pero no la puedo conseguir en ninguna plataforma.. 😢😢Nunca llego a grabar un segundo disco 💔💔💔😇😭😭😭

  • @dorisluk
    @dorisluk 11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    gracias por la cancion

  • @kusong
    @kusong 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    我愛這首歌 每天都聽一整天 我瘋了 喜歡看班 我才剛從youtube認識他一個月
    卻深深愛上他

  • @benforrever2438
    @benforrever2438 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is such a beautiful song. Ben may have teased calling it dickwhiffle, a new word for me lol, but he grabs your heart and holds it tight with the raw emotion and vulnerability he expresses with his extraordinary voice, making every word so achingly gorgeous. Just like him.

  • @hectorsalinasisback
    @hectorsalinasisback 13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    @t1121cs One option would be to get in touch with someone related to Ben and pose as a businessman interested in releasing a new compilation or box set called "The Ben Orr Experience." I know that he has a son named Benjamin Orr. His son might know who inherited the unreleased master recordings, or at least be able to steer us in the right direction. You have to be confident and creative, otherwise nobody will take you seriously and nothing will be done to release this fantastic music.

  • @foofoobear66
    @foofoobear66 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love Benny, but there are oh so many songs that are similar to this, sung by great singers/songwriters....From the 70's that bring me to tears......

    • @desertrose1226
      @desertrose1226 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think Benjamin sounds rather like Justin Hayward here...

  • @foofoobear66
    @foofoobear66 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yes I ADORE Benny, always have,.....But do we always have to mention his good looks etc...?? THis is a beautiful song...and I am Dying to find out who actually wrote it......But there are also some groups back in the 70's that blow me away equally.....!!!!!

    • @sherylF5610
      @sherylF5610 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Another video posted of this song stated that it was recorded as a follow up album to The Lace which to me indicates that Benjamin Orr wrote this.

    • @alwaysknewtowearitwellfanc3650
      @alwaysknewtowearitwellfanc3650 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Benjamin and John wrote this. (fellow on B's left)

  • @BenCulture
    @BenCulture 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That's a VERY nice song. I think they are doing something interesting with a minor-ninth chord in there. One thing I don't understand ... The vocal melody comes across very clear, yet somehow I'm not catching many of the *lyrics* ... does that make sense?
    Really nice song all around.

  • @bettywood651
    @bettywood651 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My sweet Benjamin, I knew what it felt like the instant we kissed goodbye. You will forever be in my heart. I love you then, now and always. I WILL always remember you like I promised.

  • @salee320
    @salee320  13 ปีที่แล้ว

    @t1121cs ditto to everything you said...I lost a program on my computer, but as soon as I "find" it I'll upload the entire concert...

  • @jasonmcmurrin5131
    @jasonmcmurrin5131 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ric had a few gd songs but ben had the great songs thats for certain

    • @sherri2463
      @sherri2463 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely & Benjamin put a lot of depth and feeling into his vocals while Ric did not. Ric always sounded like he had a sinus cold, full of nose congestion. RIP Beautiful Benjamin ♥️❤️♥️🍾🍾🍾🍾🌹🌹🌹🌹♥️❤️♥️

    • @catmip
      @catmip หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And Ben wrote this song. Imagine what great songs could have been if Ric had let him write “Cars” songs.

    • @sherri2463
      @sherri2463 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@catmip Yeah I go back and listen to his younger days with the Grasshoppers & Mixed Emotions and I just can’t believe how Ric robbed Benjamin of his writing capabilities. No disrespect to Ric and I’m glad wounds were mended before either man passed away, but it was wrong of him to hurt Benjamin the way he did. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️RIP Beautiful Benjamin❤️❤️❤️

  • @stevenlennon12
    @stevenlennon12 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this isn't on the lace..what album is this from

  • @marvindanielpaz9
    @marvindanielpaz9 14 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    that album is that song???

  • @kusong
    @kusong 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @BabsTen me too

  • @BenjaminOrrLegacy
    @BenjaminOrrLegacy 15 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Calling all Benjamin Orr Fans...Please see our video page on how to join our exclusive group for the founding father of New wave!

  • @Pupyline
    @Pupyline 15 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can someone send me this song on mail??? PLEASE!

  • @frankzito1
    @frankzito1 14 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    lol

  • @govinda102000
    @govinda102000 10 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    synth. a bit much?

  • @foofoobear66
    @foofoobear66 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's just sad that people are so enamored with his looks.....What about other singer songwriters.......Who have written some awesome music..????

    • @sherryjohnson2152
      @sherryjohnson2152 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      who cares about others?! your on this page cause its all about Ben. He had an amazing voice, everyone here with ears knows that, and he was gorgeous, everyone with eyes knows that. you ever see the video where the cars introduce themselves? Ben himself says, greetings, i'm Benjamin Orr, i play bass and lead sing for the Cars, and this is my face. He knew he was gorgeous, he looked in the mirror everyday. he just wasn't an ego maniac! All us women are here for listening and looking pleasure. you want others, go elsewhere.

    • @sabilaz3069
      @sabilaz3069 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      you are so beatiful

    • @desertrose1226
      @desertrose1226 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm enamoured with his looks because I am a huge fan of Rutger Hauer and Benjamin looks just like him yet Benjamin has the added bonus of having this stunning singing voice, and was so sweet too.

    • @CanadianVacations
      @CanadianVacations 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@desertrose1226 I checked out Rutger Hauer, he exudes nothing compared to Benjamin Orr. Hauer plays in voilent movies. Benjamin is nothing like that. Benjamin is love. I do not have a tv, I don't watch movies, I don't like radio music. I'm actually a Christian and I study the Bible. Benjamin Orr exudes love and kindness + amazing voice and looks.