It was a legitimate question since being a victim and victim mentality are two different things. Notice she had no problem with Mark asking her that question (5:06), thinking carefully before replying, “I used to”. Mark is trying to help so don’t make stuff up that he’s “shaming” her.
@Go To Bed Mark is capable of saying wrong things, but this is not one of them. It is possible to not be a true victim & have a victim mentality, and also possible to be a true victim & not have a victim mentality. She was a victim & she said she used to have a victim mentality, but now she doesn’t. That is useful psychological information to know if one wants to help her. She knew what he meant & took no offense, so why are you?
@Go To Bed One definition of victim mentality is “a psychological term that refers to a type of dysfunctional mindset which seeks to feel persecuted in order to gain attention or avoid self-responsibility.” I knew an alcoholic with that mentality who constantly blamed his ex-wife or his ex-boss for problems in his life to gain my sympathy & deny any accountability for the role he played in those negative outcomes. It’s a conviction that the life is out of their control & the world is out to get you. This is separate from being a victim which is just where “a person has suffered from a destructive or injurious action/agency.” If you see yourself as a survivor it’s unlikely you hold a victim mentality-congrats on that.
"My sister don't even know who I am, but I know her because I used to change her diapers." That KILLED me. 💔 😭 Her siblings were probably all she had. 💔 I'm sorry life has been so unfair to you. You deserved so much better than that, beautiful soul.
Raising her siblings was probably the only real love this poor soul has ever felt in life. I want to give her a hug so bad. I pray she finds peace, she's suffered so much and all that has given her this current state of more suffering... It's so tragic.
@kevin p try to find it in ur heart to not care about the genders but to pray for her! Ur comment could b a prayer 🙏🏻 instead of wondering who cares either way what if it was both does it have any differences to what she said
I understand Imesha feelings when she stated she told her mom about being assaulted and she didn't believe her. I too experienced it. Parents are supposed to protect children by all cost.
@Mz Fancy can totally relate for I told my mom a couple of years ago and she just told me that I probably liked it 😭 I just want her to love me. She has always been like that with just me. Right now I just try to keep away from her the most I can to keep my sanity. So many things happened in my childhood. I’m so happy I never ended up in the streets ect.... hope you are doing better as something like this never goes away. We just try to cope with it the best we can. ❤️
@@iamjacquelinemichelle2673 Ur like my mirror. 😞 We will continue to grow and love our children or children in our family harder than what we received.
@@iamjacquelinemichelle2673 sorry to hear that is horrible! I have two daughters and I can't imagine saying that to them if they ever told me that my first thought would be beating whoever did it!!
I hate how some of us treat our girls. Little girls are not "miniature mothers" sent here to help you with your other kids. They're gentle little flowers that need to be handled with care. Stop mistreating them and watch the beauty of what they become in adulthood.
I literally can't have friends cause I don't trust nobody. Maybe you'll appreciate this song...maybe you'll hate it - th-cam.com/video/Zx46R3sQx-4/w-d-xo.html
My heart is praying for your family Lanija. Your mom is broken because of her past. I hope she see's your response and she knows that she is loved by you and your brother.
I am here to say everything that she said was a absolute lie I am her kids father the person that interview her was horrible too he did not ask the necessary questions to get to the necessary answers once again she lied on her whole entire interview this interview needs to be taken down I don’t know about all the other ones but this one is a lie I Imesha was a good woman alcohol took her away from her family I was with her since she was 15 years old she was not raped at 16 years old she lied about everything if anybody including the people that did her interview what the real story I am the person that can give it to you once again the guy that interviewed her was horrible and he should be fired
@@edwingarris9950 The interviewer can't be fired. It's his channel. How did you find out about her interview? Strange because it sounds like you didn't know about this channel before you saw her interview.🤔
@@marylougeorge9890 Because she is my kids mother my daughter opened up TH-cam and this is the first time she seen her mom since she was eight years old and she had to see her mom on TH-cam lying about everything that she’s been through that’s how I found out about this situation because my daughter sent me this in my text messages crying saying look at this
1. Let your kids be kids 2. Respect them 3. Hug them 4. Ask them question 5. Tell them daily affirmations 6. Believe them 7. Tell them how special they are. 8. Grant them peace at night while they sleep. I wish so bad I could hug this woman. 👊🏽
So many hurt people in this world it’s sad ! This is all a lot people need is somebody to vent and talk too because we never had it before nobody ever loved us it’s sad smh
She felt better after talking... sometimes letting it all out like that is good for the soul. Another diamond in the rough, sleeping in a tent by the side of the road. Precious comes in all flavors. She's in my prayers. *hugs*
Imesha's story is heart breaking. Having a mother that physically, emotionally & psychologically abuses her own daughter is such a traumatic way to start off life on this Earth. Especially difficult to hear was that she was raped at the tender age of 6 and when she attempted to tell her only protector in her family, her mother, she was verbally shamed & that just tripled the horrific trauma of the event. I empathize with her life story & know the feeling of never being able to trust people as they always seem to betray kindness. The endless cuts of life's hurts manifest in buried anger & resentment which is displayed outwardly in fighting & short temper. It's amazing how soft a strong woman like Imesha becomes just by spending a few minutes with a total stranger that shows kindness, empathy & support.
Meaningful l Words Mina especially " The endless cuts of life's hurts manifest in buried anger & resentment which is displayed outwardly in fighting & short temper.
My mother is a substance abuse therapist. She told me the #1 gateway “drug” is trauma. It’s so unfortunate to see so many people in her situation. We’ve got to do better as a society to help addicts. Providing programs that provide affordable healthcare and social services. My heart breaks seeing stories like this.
She needs more help than just the lord, you people who think the only answer is Jesus kills me. The lord might be a start but she needs real help like a supportive family, friends, resources, rides, etc!!!
This one really broke my heart :( I have a 6yo and I couldn’t imagine her having to raise her siblings. I so hope you find your way out Imesha, you are too good for the street life x
Imesha, im sorry life has been so rough for you. you are a strong woman, if anyone can get through it, its you. keep fighting the struggle. best wishes.
These stories are so sad...my heart hurts for this woman. When you see how some people grew up it makes you appreciate the smaller things in life. I will never complain..
Being unloved by your mom is so hard to get over because everywhere you look, people are loved by their mothers. I have a decent dad but being abandoned by my mother cut me in ways I don't know how to heal. I understand this woman's pain 100%.
Mom this your son EJ , you said you feel like everybody hate you and I DONT i always wanted to know what made you what you are today and its said cuz it like no matter how hard you try life just wasn’t set up right for you , the way you look now i can still Look in you face and see me , im doing music moms and IM NOT WEAK lol when i get rich ima come get you off dat bottle and dat skid row block , im growing into a man moms my sister is growing into a young lady and we both dont hate you because now we know how it all went down , My 💙 hurts for you mommy mann I Love You mommy
Strong man for wanting to forgive your mom💙 smart enough to see that hurt people hurt people and I’m happy to see you want to break that cycle ! God bless you
I always wondered why did god put people on this earth & all they endure is pain & suffering. I know it starts with your parents but jeez my heart hurts for them 💔
I know trauma and I feel her pain. I think you'll enjoy my channel. We sometimes have Livestreams where anyone can join the panel and discuss these issues.....
thank you Mark for all of your interviews, you make people feel seen, heard and important, your channel reminds me of the quote"character is how you treat those who can do nothing for you".
My heart goes out to you iMesha.. why are some people dealt such a shit start at life. All kids are innocent and none of them deserve it. Good luck in life Imesha, I wish you all the best, happiness and love ❤️ you are valued x
Free will can lead us in any direction. Not saying it was her will to live this type life, but the decisions her parents made had a significant effect on her life today.
Imesha you're a beautiful worthy woman worthy of love worthy of a good life regardless of what you've been through it can and will get better please keep your head up you are worth it
Kids who are victimized, neglected, abused, have no way of knowing everything they are learning is wrong and their pain is right-- so they internalize that image of the black sheep-- very sad, I wish this lady love, sobriety, peace.
How can such trauma be repaired? 😔 I wish her father could have been there in the beginning and lived a lot longer. And to every child molester, please stop ruining lives 🛑 🤬
@@ronniemead805 By your logic, Jesus raped her and caused her to become an alcoholic. Why is her creator allowing her to continue to suffer? He sure works in mysterious ways.
@@wolfbirdhomestead600 You’re right, he does works in mysterious ways he can use this woman’s past to preach to others that had been in her situation. God uses people all the time that been through the worst to preach to people. You don’t know what purpose God has for this woman.
Gosh, I have never wanted to hug somebody so bad in my whole life. This girl deserves love. I am so happy she knew her dad genuinely loved her. Your a good girl, you just weren't given a chance. Lord, I pray you help this sweetheart child of yours. She needs you.
Not all kids do well academically. You can just tell by her aura and the way she likes to speak and express herself with her hands that she probably would have thrived doing something artistic. I pray for her happiness. ❤️
I just want to hug and hold her until the neglected little 6 year old girl inside of her feels the warmth and love that she needed and deserved but never received. 💔
She did NOT get that right. Human beings aren't built to be alone. I LOVE my alone time but not loneliness. It's a dysfunction derived from fear and insecurity. It's especially obvious in her case. You can't see that?? But there is a small percentage of people who are antisocial to be sure.
So glad you said you are strong enough ... good for you! That’s the most Important thing I think. I believe Saying you don’t Trust a soul can mean a lot of things. One, You can be cautious with people, Two People may not trust others because they themselves are untrustworthy And assume people are like them, OR people may enjoy doing things on Their own. Nothing wrong with enjoying your own company. And if she’s not a people person. ..?..? There is no way, last time i Saw skid row, you are going to have privacy and alone time down There.
My mom is an alcoholic and even though I have to keep my distance from her since from time to time she tells me stuff like "I wish you were dead" , I have really gotten to a point in which I forgive her and always remind her I forgave her as she struggles now to forgive herself. I feel like she doesn't want to change her lifestyle but, now as I struggle with depression, I understand how she got to the point she did. Nobody gave her any tools and she just felt alone in her inner battles. It's so important to hear people, their story and struggles.
3 hours late but here. Can’t miss any of these videos. Mark can’t catch a break. Can’t imagine doing these type of videos everyday. I feel really overwhelmed at times and I have to stop. Mark you are doing amazing on not giving up on the interviewees. Letting them share their stories as I see many of your viewers can relate. Most stem from child abuse/ foster care/ family cycle it’s never ending. It breaks my heart to see this young lady go through so much.
if you listen closely that isint what she communicated. what she communicated was she keeps herself emotionally isolated because she is terrified of getting hurt or taken advantage of. seems like semantics but its really just the difference between a story we tell ourselves and the truth. the truth is she wants to connect with people so bad she just cant get over the terror of how she knows some people will treat her. i would be her friend if i lived there.
Arrion everybody to not feel sympathy for this woman she lied about everything that she said every single thing that came out of her mouth was a lie she’s never been raped alcohol took her away from her family I’m her baby daddy my daughter is 17 and my son is 16 she lied to you guys guys
This is quite possibly the most heartbreaking story I've heard so far!! I hope we as viewers don't become desensitized to the horrible wounds that were inflicted on these people. It's a wonder they're alive to tell their story. I'm so amazed and so heartbroken.
My heart breaks for Imesha. I just want to give her a hug! I think her ability to detect what pure love is was completely tainted as a child, the time in ones life where comfort is found and that is so very sad. I hope Imesha is able to get into counselling to fight all the demons that others have put on her. I can’t imagine how difficult it must be for her to pick up and go on a daily basis. Imesha, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, YOU ARE WORTHY, and even if you say you don’t want it, YOU ARE LOVED. I pray for the day when you can see and FEEL all of that..... You DESERVE it. ♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️
No words can express the misery she's enduring. Sobriety is the #1 thing she needs right now. If you read this comment please take the first step towards sobriety today it's hard but you can do it.
@@smiauu I said take the first step. The first step for everyone is different. Could be signing up for therapy, applying for housing, going to a meeting tonight. I didn't say go cold Turkey tonight and all your problems will be solved. One thing is for sure if you don't take the first step in the right direction you'll never get there. Maybe you should read a little slower and think about what your comment should be before you display pure ignorance.
Thankyou Mark....she will never forget that your platform helped her tell her story.... A wounded child....nothing more heartbreaking... We NEVER forget what others make us feel...
Damn this one broke my ❤. I hate that she's experienced so much pain. She deserves better. I pray she can find her siblings and maybe that will make her feel a connection to someone she loves.
Sending lots of love & healing her way. Her crying lets me know shes not happy with her life & wants a change. I hope for strength for her & God willing the change she always dreamt of.
This one hurt my soul.. she portrays real pain, sadness, despair. Some I question the validity of the stories they tell, but this one feels extremely genuine.. real. Lord protect her, help her, give her strength. Amen
Mark I've been watching your videos for several months now and I am blown away shocked to hear all the things that people has gone through! I guess you can say I've been sheltered my whole life and I've always sheltered my children their whole life. My heart goes out to all these people with these tragic life events, I pray for many of these people in these videos that you make. You're doing a good job mark I appreciate you in many ways.
Despite everything she went through, she is not unkind or angry, just hurting. I hope she gets the help she needs; I truly believe she has a chance. God bless this beautiful soul.
I would some time look down on people with these life situation because of how they lived, but watching these videos, man. Your heart just goes out to them and just plan old make you cry. When they on them streets they put on that tough mentality, but when given and opportunity to really express themselves the real person on the inside comes out. This is a great platform, it can even be the start of healing for them.
I really want to hug her..... the way she said she always dreamed of owning a daycare..... such a sweet and honest dream. Imesha, you are loved. From one soul to another, I genuinely love you. Big hugs from the other side of the country!!!!!
She was a legitimate victim, don’t shame them if they feel like a victim after everything someone like this has gone through, just get her help. 🙏🏻❤️
Yeah, I don't really like the way that question is asked in the first place.
It was a legitimate question since being a victim and victim mentality are two different things. Notice she had no problem with Mark asking her that question (5:06), thinking carefully before replying, “I used to”. Mark is trying to help so don’t make stuff up that he’s “shaming” her.
@Go To Bed Mark is capable of saying wrong things, but this is not one of them. It is possible to not be a true victim & have a victim mentality, and also possible to be a true victim & not have a victim mentality. She was a victim & she said she used to have a victim mentality, but now she doesn’t. That is useful psychological information to know if one wants to help her. She knew what he meant & took no offense, so why are you?
@Go To Bed One definition of victim mentality is “a psychological term that refers to a type of dysfunctional mindset which seeks to feel persecuted in order to gain attention or avoid self-responsibility.” I knew an alcoholic with that mentality who constantly blamed his ex-wife or his ex-boss for problems in his life to gain my sympathy & deny any accountability for the role he played in those negative outcomes. It’s a conviction that the life is out of their control & the world is out to get you. This is separate from being a victim which is just where “a person has suffered from a destructive or injurious action/agency.” If you see yourself as a survivor it’s unlikely you hold a victim mentality-congrats on that.
You can help too by donating 😊@Em
"My sister don't even know who I am, but I know her because I used to change her diapers." That KILLED me. 💔 😭 Her siblings were probably all she had. 💔 I'm sorry life has been so unfair to you. You deserved so much better than that, beautiful soul.
❤️❤️❤️❤️😔😔😔
Hard hitter! This comment from her was the hardest to absorb. 💗🥊💗 I love her! And don't have a clue who she is.😭
That's the exact sentence that crushed me when she said that 😥
Raising her siblings was probably the only real love this poor soul has ever felt in life. I want to give her a hug so bad. I pray she finds peace, she's suffered so much and all that has given her this current state of more suffering... It's so tragic.
Yeah that TORE me up! I’m speechless. 😭😭😭😭😭
This is a beautiful woman carrying so much pain. This is heartbreaking. I’m so glad you gave her a hug she needed it!
@kevin p A man!!!😂😂😂 Get to the optometrists asap!!!
@kevin p 😭
@Jacqueline Sevilla Exactly!
And lemme give you a hug to give to her for me 😍! Witcha beautiful self! 😘
@kevin p try to find it in ur heart to not care about the genders but to pray for her! Ur comment could b a prayer 🙏🏻 instead of wondering who cares either way what if it was both does it have any differences to what she said
I understand Imesha feelings when she stated she told her mom about being assaulted and she didn't believe her. I too experienced it. Parents are supposed to protect children by all cost.
I’m sorry you experienced such a horrible assault as a child. There is a special place in hell for those that harm children.
@Mz Fancy can totally relate for I told my mom a couple of years ago and she just told me that I probably liked it 😭 I just want her to love me. She has always been like that with just me. Right now I just try to keep away from her the most I can to keep my sanity. So many things happened in my childhood. I’m so happy I never ended up in the streets ect.... hope you are doing better as something like this never goes away. We just try to cope with it the best we can. ❤️
@@iamjacquelinemichelle2673 Ur like my mirror. 😞 We will continue to grow and love our children or children in our family harder than what we received.
@@iamjacquelinemichelle2673 sorry to hear that is horrible! I have two daughters and I can't imagine saying that to them if they ever told me that my first thought would be beating whoever did it!!
💜
I hate how some of us treat our girls. Little girls are not "miniature mothers" sent here to help you with your other kids. They're gentle little flowers that need to be handled with care. Stop mistreating them and watch the beauty of what they become in adulthood.
@Damon christopher what a dumb comment🤦🏽♀️
Well said ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️!!!!!
True
My hearts goes out for this woman
🙏 I know
Absolutely!!
Generational curse for her mother to abandon her and being street she did the same to her kids....I hope it stops with them! Be blessed everyone
Stevie Woo I no her son he’s watching this
@@Kickinitwithcarlee Another supposid family member has commented.
It's ok for you to comment and tell what you know.
@@marylougeorge9890 Right no ones here to judge and most of us are loyal consistant viewers who genuinely care🙏🏾😔
hard to brake the chain. up to the fifth generation. the mother is the most important pillar of society.
She didn’t know any better.
When she said Im not a people person because I dont Trust Nobody,
I Felt that.
Imesha I understand!
Welp, your name does say "introvert" lol
Spot on
@ TheIntrovert83 same 🥺
I literally can't have friends cause I don't trust nobody. Maybe you'll appreciate this song...maybe you'll hate it - th-cam.com/video/Zx46R3sQx-4/w-d-xo.html
Judging by your profile pic, nice smart phone, hair all done up. Nails done up, probably living in a nice house. Hmm?
Me and EJ love you mom and just a refresher you talked to EJ & myself in March on my birthday (this year) ❤️
@Lanija Garris
Please continue to love your mom🙏🏾 Never stop🙏🏾 Come get her somehow, someway......
Praying for your family! Keep hope alive!
My heart is praying for your family Lanija. Your mom is broken because of her past. I hope she see's your response and she knows that she is loved by you and your brother.
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Sending you so much love!! My mom was this way for 22 years and found the strength to get it together. Keep hope always, your mom has a chance too ❤️
Imesha, WE LOVE YOU! Like every human being, you deserve to be loved. Take care of yourself! ❤
Please send up some prayers for her and all the other women and children who are being abused.
I am here to say everything that she said was a absolute lie I am her kids father the person that interview her was horrible too he did not ask the necessary questions to get to the necessary answers once again she lied on her whole entire interview this interview needs to be taken down I don’t know about all the other ones but this one is a lie I Imesha was a good woman alcohol took her away from her family I was with her since she was 15 years old she was not raped at 16 years old she lied about everything if anybody including the people that did her interview what the real story I am the person that can give it to you once again the guy that interviewed her was horrible and he should be fired
@@edwingarris9950 The interviewer can't be fired. It's his channel.
How did you find out about her interview? Strange because it sounds like you didn't know about this channel before you saw her interview.🤔
@@marylougeorge9890 Because she is my kids mother my daughter opened up TH-cam and this is the first time she seen her mom since she was eight years old and she had to see her mom on TH-cam lying about everything that she’s been through that’s how I found out about this situation because my daughter sent me this in my text messages crying saying look at this
@@edwingarris9950 Oh, I'm sorry.
@Soft White Underbelly...
please read his other comment.
This poor lady I really hope she finds a safe place and peace in her life, no person deserves this.
So sad. The alcohol makes the depression even worse. Praying for her healing.
Imesha I really do want to reach through this screen and hug you.
Cindy you can. Just keep her in your prayers, and all the other women and children being abused in the system. 🌹🌹🌹
@Cindy Fitzgerald that’s how I feel when I watch these stories of these women.
Exactly how i feel. So emotional watching this seeing her pain
I would like to hug you too Imesha!!!!
💜💜💜💜
Some of the most broken people are some of the most well spoken smart people & I see so many on this channel, this woman is one of them ❤
This video is really a reminder to take good care of your children!
Absolutely, and it's never too late to start.❤✌
1. Let your kids be kids 2. Respect them 3. Hug them 4. Ask them question 5. Tell them daily affirmations 6. Believe them 7. Tell them how special they are. 8. Grant them peace at night while they sleep. I wish so bad I could hug this woman. 👊🏽
Not to excuse what happened but I imagine her mother suffered childhood trauma as well
@@dreadrocka87 Yes, unfortunately dysfunction and trauma becomes generational.
Yes it is...and your self.
So many hurt people in this world it’s sad ! This is all a lot people need is somebody to vent and talk too because we never had it before nobody ever loved us it’s sad smh
I think you'll enjoy my channel. We sometimes have Livestreams where anyone can join the panel and discuss these issues..
She seems like she has a good head on her shoulders despite everything that has happened to her in her life. I truly hope she can find love & healing
and she is beautiful
Yes! If she wanted to she could be a real go getter.
I would agree about her looks
She felt better after talking... sometimes letting it all out like that is good for the soul. Another diamond in the rough, sleeping in a tent by the side of the road. Precious comes in all flavors. She's in my prayers. *hugs*
Imesha's story is heart breaking. Having a mother that physically, emotionally & psychologically abuses her own daughter is such a traumatic way to start off life on this Earth. Especially difficult to hear was that she was raped at the tender age of 6 and when she attempted to tell her only protector in her family, her mother, she was verbally shamed & that just tripled the horrific trauma of the event. I empathize with her life story & know the feeling of never being able to trust people as they always seem to betray kindness. The endless cuts of life's hurts manifest in buried anger & resentment which is displayed outwardly in fighting & short temper. It's amazing how soft a strong woman like Imesha becomes just by spending a few minutes with a total stranger that shows kindness, empathy & support.
Meaningful l Words Mina especially " The endless cuts of life's hurts manifest in buried anger & resentment which is displayed outwardly in fighting & short temper.
My mother is a substance abuse therapist. She told me the #1 gateway “drug” is trauma. It’s so unfortunate to see so many people in her situation. We’ve got to do better as a society to help addicts. Providing programs that provide affordable healthcare and social services. My heart breaks seeing stories like this.
She is super self reflective and accountable. I pray the Lord will heal her.
Indeed
Amen!
amen
She needs more help than just the lord, you people who think the only answer is Jesus kills me. The lord might be a start but she needs real help like a supportive family, friends, resources, rides, etc!!!
Amen🙏🏾
This one really broke my heart :( I have a 6yo and I couldn’t imagine her having to raise her siblings. I so hope you find your way out Imesha, you are too good for the street life x
Imesha, im sorry life has been so rough for you. you are a strong woman, if anyone can get through it, its you. keep fighting the struggle. best wishes.
These stories are so sad...my heart hurts for this woman. When you see how some people grew up it makes you appreciate the smaller things in life. I will never complain..
Always remember,, " There go I, but by the grace of God.."
Being unloved by your mom is so hard to get over because everywhere you look, people are loved by their mothers. I have a decent dad but being abandoned by my mother cut me in ways I don't know how to heal. I understand this woman's pain 100%.
she’s very aware of her emotions and is able to pick up on patterns.
Halfway through this i just started praying and praying for you, i truly hope this wounded soul finds love and peace all the rest of her days
Sarah you are truly an angel. Keep praying for all these ladies and children who cannot pray for themselves. The Lord will bless you greatly. 💖💖💖
Mom this your son EJ , you said you feel like everybody hate you and I DONT i always wanted to know what made you what you are today and its said cuz it like no matter how hard you try life just wasn’t set up right for you , the way you look now i can still
Look in you face and see me , im doing music moms and IM NOT WEAK lol when i get rich ima come get you off dat bottle and dat skid row block , im growing into a man moms my sister is growing into a young lady and we both dont hate you because now we know how it all went down , My 💙 hurts for you mommy mann I Love You mommy
Omg your soul is so beautiful ❤️❤️ continue to love on her ❤️❤️❤️
Strong man for wanting to forgive your mom💙 smart enough to see that hurt people hurt people and I’m happy to see you want to break that cycle ! God bless you
Thank you for loving your Mom.. God is watching ❤️
@Lanija Garris
Did u get it girl @LanijaGarris
She definitely wants someone to just care for her.. man I hope she gets it together
Wow she is literally me. Smh. I just cried listening to her speak.
💕🥺 my heart goes out to you
Praying for you too and you’re healing
@@coweenuhm9662 🙏 Same
@T. Tice I’m crying for the both of you. Be safe 🇨🇦😶
Awww boo😔
She looks like she can be Jada Pinkett’s sister or relative.
I thought I was the only one that see that. Yes!
RIGHHTT
I said the exact same thing!
She looks nothing like Jada Pinkett
Really? Where? HAHAHA
Imesha never had a childhood. 😥💔
Exactly. She needs and deserves a break...😥
NEVER ‼️😩😔 Hurt me.
Sadly she didnt - very unfair
Which means always a child
I always wondered why did god put people on this earth & all they endure is pain & suffering. I know it starts with your parents but jeez my heart hurts for them 💔
I know trauma and I feel her pain. I think you'll enjoy my channel. We sometimes have Livestreams where anyone can join the panel and discuss these issues.....
I hope this woman can get some help soon.
thank you Mark for all of your interviews, you make people feel seen, heard and important, your channel reminds me of the quote"character is how you treat those who can do nothing for you".
Poor girl 💔 after all shes been thru u can tell she has a heart of gold...
She reminds me of Jada Pinkett Smith. Look in her face.
??Where??
@@iammotley9212 Look at her facial structure.
I see it, specially younger Jada
Body type too
100%, in the movie Set It Off
the end🥺 she seriously just needed someone to talk to & i just wanted to hug her the whole time
Imesha is a survivor and an angel, I wish she didn’t feel so alone.
My heart goes out to you iMesha.. why are some people dealt such a shit start at life. All kids are innocent and none of them deserve it. Good luck in life Imesha, I wish you all the best, happiness and love ❤️ you are valued x
Free will can lead us in any direction. Not saying it was her will to live this type life, but the decisions her parents made had a significant effect on her life today.
@@9929kingfish very well said
Imesha you're a beautiful worthy woman worthy of love worthy of a good life regardless of what you've been through it can and will get better please keep your head up you are worth it
You are soooo worth it!!! I admire you for still being strong and being kindhearted towards your siblings 💖 I will PRAY FOR YOU 🙏
I feel sorry for her! 😥 Its sad that her Sister doesnt know who she is, she might actually be the one to help her if she knew! 😓
Kids who are victimized, neglected, abused, have no way of knowing everything they are learning is wrong and their pain is right-- so they internalize that image of the black sheep-- very sad, I wish this lady love, sobriety, peace.
How can such trauma be repaired? 😔 I wish her father could have been there in the beginning and lived a lot longer. And to every child molester, please stop ruining lives 🛑 🤬
Such trauma cannot be repaired; except by the Lord Jesus Christ, her Creator.
@@ronniemead805 By your logic, Jesus raped her and caused her to become an alcoholic.
Why is her creator allowing her to continue to suffer?
He sure works in mysterious ways.
@@wolfbirdhomestead600 Our creator allows a lot that doesn’t mean God did this too her. Satan did this to her tf.
@@wolfbirdhomestead600 You’re right, he does works in mysterious ways he can use this woman’s past to preach to others that had been in her situation. God uses people all the time that been through the worst to preach to people. You don’t know what purpose God has for this woman.
This was one heartbreaking interview.
Imesha you do matter and if no one told you today “you have a purpose and you are loved”.
Really beautiful words😊
💜⭐️ true that 💕
Gosh, I have never wanted to hug somebody so bad in my whole life. This girl deserves love. I am so happy she knew her dad genuinely loved her. Your a good girl, you just weren't given a chance. Lord, I pray you help this sweetheart child of yours. She needs you.
Not all kids do well academically. You can just tell by her aura and the way she likes to speak and express herself with her hands that she probably would have thrived doing something artistic. I pray for her happiness. ❤️
This is heartbreaking. She's super smart and articulate. I hope she gets a huge break.
thank you making these videos.
Tears are healing!!! I'm glad she's sharing her pain. Beloved, just know you are loved, Thank God you are still here that's enough to give God Thanks.
Omg 😢 i live in DETROIT & these men here dont care what they do to women. Some things happened to me here too.......
I live here to that shit sad to hear this but people here are ruthless and grimey
Same. I’m from Detroit and I went through some shit here
Me too moved to Georgia haven't looked back since
All I want to do is hug her for hours. No questions, not talking, just hold her.
That’s how I felt too!
Same 😪
Love an honest interview ❤️
Mark you provide a great way for people to vent and get rid of built up pressure. You are a real blessing to so many !
She's been through alot , may She be blessed in every way possible . miss Imesha Is gonna be alright . I can feel it.
Sounds like she really loved her dad.....sad..... I feel sorry for her😷
This channel is such a rabbit hole you can get lost in. Thanks for doing this, Mark.
Mark, this video is a great example of how we all search, live, yearn, repeat or avoid what we had in our childhood in our adulthood.
When u think ur going through something & someone is going through much more worst... God Bless you dear! U are here for a reason & it's not over❣
I’m done drinking it’s literally taking a toll on my life.
Wishing you strength and luck.
@@sharakeiasmith beer id hard to let go
I start tomorrow 😖😞🙌
Seriously contemplating this lifestyle change😞
I hope you all find sobriety! It’s a good life. 23 years for me. Grateful.
Best way to start the day,
soft white underbelly
Every morning
This is too sad
THIS ONE BREAKS MY HEART. This old world is not our home ppl. Jesus is coming soon. WE ALL NEED HIM.
I just want to hug and hold her until the neglected little 6 year old girl inside of her feels the warmth and love that she needed and deserved but never received. 💔
Every time I watch these stories I realize my own personal problems are so minimal
Oh Sweetheart you are NOT A MISTAKE!!! You DESERVE LOVE! We hope it comes to you!!!!!!
I hope this poor soul gets help and will be loved by someone who is a good, sincere person. I feel so sorry for this beautiful woman...🙏🙏
She Got One Thing Right “DON’T TRUST A SOUL”.. I’m Strong Enough Not To Be A Crackhead. BUT IM A LONER, I’M NOT A PEOPLE PERSON EITHER..
She did NOT get that right. Human beings aren't built to be alone. I LOVE my alone time but not loneliness. It's a dysfunction derived from fear and insecurity. It's especially obvious in her case. You can't see that?? But there is a small percentage of people who are antisocial to be sure.
@@rogerwilliams4742 and THAT IS YOUR OPINION
So glad you said you are strong enough ... good for you! That’s the most
Important thing I think. I believe Saying you don’t
Trust a soul can mean a lot of things. One, You can be cautious with people, Two
People may not trust others because they themselves are untrustworthy
And assume people are like them, OR people may enjoy doing things on
Their own. Nothing wrong with enjoying your own company.
And if she’s not a people person. ..?..? There is no way, last time i
Saw skid row, you are going to have privacy and alone time down
There.
@@sandiali4740 Trusting Gets You Killed Or At The Least ROBBED.. PEOPLE HURT THE PEOPLE CLOSEST TO THEM, I CANNOT TRUST YOU..
I love being a loner
My mom is an alcoholic and even though I have to keep my distance from her since from time to time she tells me stuff like "I wish you were dead" , I have really gotten to a point in which I forgive her and always remind her I forgave her as she struggles now to forgive herself. I feel like she doesn't want to change her lifestyle but, now as I struggle with depression, I understand how she got to the point she did. Nobody gave her any tools and she just felt alone in her inner battles. It's so important to hear people, their story and struggles.
3 hours late but here. Can’t miss any of these videos. Mark can’t catch a break. Can’t imagine doing these type of videos everyday. I feel really overwhelmed at times and I have to stop. Mark you are doing amazing on not giving up on the interviewees. Letting them share their stories as I see many of your viewers can relate. Most stem from child abuse/ foster care/ family cycle it’s never ending. It breaks my heart to see this young lady go through so much.
Everyone has a story. Thank you Mark for giving me a chance to listen.
No person should have to go thru this pain. I hope she finds help and a program that’s allows her to love herself 💓she deserves peace and love .
Thats Good She’s Getting Those Tears Out..
"I'm not a people person."
- I heard that.
if you listen closely that isint what she communicated. what she communicated was she keeps herself emotionally isolated because she is terrified of getting hurt or taken advantage of. seems like semantics but its really just the difference between a story we tell ourselves and the truth. the truth is she wants to connect with people so bad she just cant get over the terror of how she knows some people will treat her. i would be her friend if i lived there.
She is very much a people person. She is just struggling and afraid.
JBStyles23 She said that the same time I was reading your comment
I never give up on anyone.... That could be me or any of us...
Exactly
She looks like Jada Pickett-Smith when she was younger
Thought the same instantly 🎯
Arrion everybody to not feel sympathy for this woman she lied about everything that she said every single thing that came out of her mouth was a lie she’s never been raped alcohol took her away from her family I’m her baby daddy my daughter is 17 and my son is 16 she lied to you guys guys
@@edwingarris9950 It's ok for you to write a comment telling your side. Be prepared we are Very protective of those interviewed.
@@marylougeorge9890 well, that's a bit weird.
@@b1k2q34 More of this wierdness and the world would be a much kinder place.✌
This is quite possibly the most heartbreaking story I've heard so far!! I hope we as viewers don't become desensitized to the horrible wounds that were inflicted on these people. It's a wonder they're alive to tell their story. I'm so amazed and so heartbroken.
Bless you, sister. You are an amazing survivor
My heart breaks for Imesha. I just want to give her a hug! I think her ability to detect what pure love is was completely tainted as a child, the time in ones life where comfort is found and that is so very sad. I hope Imesha is able to get into counselling to fight all the demons that others have put on her. I can’t imagine how difficult it must be for her to pick up and go on a daily basis. Imesha, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, YOU ARE WORTHY, and even if you say you don’t want it, YOU ARE LOVED. I pray for the day when you can see and FEEL all of that..... You DESERVE it. ♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️
No words can express the misery she's enduring. Sobriety is the #1 thing she needs right now. If you read this comment please take the first step towards sobriety today it's hard but you can do it.
Thank you!
therapy is what she needs at first. how the fuck could you ask a person be sober after going thru shit like she has?
She's needs to be safe and housed first. No one gets sober in a tent.
#Whereislove? @#TFortheLoveofGod? @#WhereIsTheLove? @#BlAckPeopleDontStickTogether @#PickUpStyx
@@smiauu
I said take the first step. The first step for everyone is different. Could be signing up for therapy, applying for housing, going to a meeting tonight. I didn't say go cold Turkey tonight and all your problems will be solved. One thing is for sure if you don't take the first step in the right direction you'll never get there. Maybe you should read a little slower and think about what your comment should be before you display pure ignorance.
she’s been through so much shit, but she’s being so honest and open about it. hopefully she gets the help she deserves
What a horrible hand Life dealt her. So damaged.
😢
Thankyou Mark....she will never forget that your platform helped her tell her story....
A wounded child....nothing more heartbreaking...
We NEVER forget what others make us feel...
Damn this one broke my ❤. I hate that she's experienced so much pain. She deserves better. I pray she can find her siblings and maybe that will make her feel a connection to someone she loves.
Sending lots of love & healing her way. Her crying lets me know shes not happy with her life & wants a change. I hope for strength for her & God willing the change she always dreamt of.
Mark once again you display kindness and empathy. Listening to her made her soooo happy if even for just a few minutes❤️Much RESPECT
This one hurt my soul.. she portrays real pain, sadness, despair. Some I question the validity of the stories they tell, but this one feels extremely genuine.. real. Lord protect her, help her, give her strength. Amen
I hope she can find some happiness and peace in her life
Mark I've been watching your videos for several months now and I am blown away shocked to hear all the things that people has gone through! I guess you can say I've been sheltered my whole life and I've always sheltered my children their whole life. My heart goes out to all these people with these tragic life events, I pray for many of these people in these videos that you make. You're doing a good job mark I appreciate you in many ways.
Damn world can be so cruel
I'm getting youtube ad's for rehab after watching a few of these videos
Of course she’s lonely and feels abandoned, with so much pain bottled up.
Despite everything she went through, she is not unkind or angry, just hurting. I hope she gets the help she needs; I truly believe she has a chance. God bless this beautiful soul.
When she said "I hate this life but I don't know how to get out of it" 💔
I hope and pray she gets help and finds peace. She is very well spoken and coherent despite her addiction. Mark please do an update
This poor woman. I hope things turn around for her, it's hard for everyone right now but it's harder for some than others...
I would some time look down on people with these life situation because of how they lived, but watching these videos, man. Your heart just goes
out to them and just plan old make you cry. When they on them streets they put on that tough mentality, but when given and opportunity to really
express themselves the real person on the inside comes out. This is a great platform, it can even be the start of healing for them.
She kind of remind me of a tough Jada Pinkett Smith
I really want to hug her..... the way she said she always dreamed of owning a daycare..... such a sweet and honest dream. Imesha, you are loved. From one soul to another, I genuinely love you. Big hugs from the other side of the country!!!!!