I am sure that these videos are probably greatly edited. There are no perfect parents or children. We get to see only what they want us to see. I enjoy the show but I hope parents who are watching do not become discouraged or too critical beating themselves up because of what they see on the show. Remember, this is entertainment!!!❤️
Is anyone else waiting for a meltdown? When I saw the title I was thinking, "I can't imagine Rue screaming and hollering and throwing an outright tantrum. He proved me correct!!! Because you all are teaching your children to reason at a very early age, they're able to still be children and yet know what is expected of them, no matter how hard it is. Bravo Rue and kudos Dad!!!
CRC Singleton I agree with you I thought the same as you did.... I am amazed at such a awesome and amazing parenting. Bravo Tim, I am so proud of you Rue You are really a big boy.
right I'm thinking he was about to act a straight fool lol. That was nothing and they handled it well. dad talked him thru it. he all ready know the deal
Rue acted more appropriately for his age than Heze did. If Rue is old enough to be taught that there is a time and place for play, then so is Heze. It's quite unnatural to need to take the ball EVERYWHERE.
Can I just say how sweet our Miss Harper was this entire film? She went to calm Reu and help him several times. I've seen her do the same with Houston in other videos. She does it quietly too. She is a good "leader" of the "littles." Heze was a great helper during this one as well. Way to go young man.
It would be great for them to do an interview with each child separately. What are their fave foods, movie, activites? What do they want to be when they grow up?
Yeah and it wasn't really fair coz they told Hazariah he can't run in the shop but Heze was running in the shop maybe sometimes he can leave the ball at home
I think you handled it perfectly but just bear in mind that Heze was running around with the ball so he just wants to be like his brother.. He is just wanting to be like his siblings x
I think that it’s not him playing. I think it’s more of a thing that he‘s young and doesn’t really know when to stop and watch his surroundings..they asked him if he was going to hold Heze‘s hand, he said no..
@@amelieml1996 I hope he doesn't feel pressed to do it. To have to be the best, get better, rehearse 24/7...I think that as a parent I would definitely tell him that one day a week is totally without touching the football, to let the body rest.
Agree with the comments. REU handled being disciplined in a perfect manner, that was defo not a melt down he is cheeky but he is a good boy. I also feel heze running around with the ball in the shop defo gives reu mixed messages
Rue was so cute. He was sleepy but he did wave goodbye to everyone even though he was pouting. Hahaha. He made sure he waved to his audience. Lovely family.
I agree with you disciplining Rue, but why is Heze running around kicking a ball an exception? Very unsafe. And just as you told Rue, the supermarket is not a park!
Don’t really like to see Heze with ball in the shop - he can practice all he wants at home. Not fair to his younger brother, for sure! Otherwise, great handling of the problem. Love your stuff.
@@faithkiyunzu5037 I see what you mean. I have seen them give all the other kids correction but I have never seen them correct Heze. I never could understand the whole favoritism among siblings. And that is why the other children are better behaved than Heze. Heze is going to be very difficult to discipline when he becomes a teenager. All they care about is Heze kicking a ball.
@Louise sarver What's not fair? There is a big different in Heze playing with the ball in the store and Ru not wanting to hold Heze's hands, and that's age and that I'm sure Heze would stop if told. From what I have seen Heze is quite mature and knows how to handle himself; can't say the same for a 2 yr old.
Older boy plays football in shop could knock some 1 over u told little boy not to be running in shop then put in stroller it works both ways nice family doh
Yes your right it is equal in this day in age. . But there are also many families out there who are affected by dad's deciding not to participate .. Not disregarding that they have a responsibility but actively not choosing to do what ofcourse they should be doing. Where as, Tim on the other hand each video without fail he plays his part and does it well so he is a role model for the many men that don't. No word of a doubt this is how the home should be but we see daily the reports of people suffering and dysfunction.
Ella is married to a working class man covered in tattoos, I would be ashamed. My father only had 2 kids as that was all he could afford to support on his own, it's so unfair how Tim gets free government money to support the endless kids he makes every year
@@sanamhusain691 And money from TH-cam pimping out his kids and wife. He keeps his wife pregnant all the time to make more money on TH-cam and then makes her his maid. He never does anything but edit videos and play with his video games. That is not a husband. Ella is basically a single mom.
What about Heze running and kicking a ball down the aisle and swerving in and around people? Tim told Rue that the market is not a playground but it isn't a soccer field either.
Aww Rue it's ok daddy loves you that's why he did what he did he doesn't want you to get hurt...Heze I love you but I thinks it's not right to play soccer in the store it's not polite especially after Rue just got a lecture from dad on why he shouldn't run around in the store
@@deborahriley8914 yeah I hope they sat him down and explained that, what he did is not acceptable especially for his age he should know right from wrong
I just commented the same think I actually said I believe because he looks up to Heze and Heze not doing anything wrong he just love his football but for Reu to see Heze in store with ball he may try to imitate Heze not to say he wrong but maybe better to not have soccer/football in the store
@@glo7974 we get that but Reu got in trouble for running around in the shop when Hez was doing the same thing but didn't get in trouble that's what we're saying
Hi Fam it was so nice to see Houston instantly stop crying when daddy started talking to her. Reu didn’t cry that much great explaining to him dad the what and why. Such a beautiful family.Blessings & Love Always 🙏🏽😍❤️.
I do believe that all the children should be treated equally no matter what. Rue was disciplined because he did not listen to his dad, but what we have to remember here is that he is still very young, and he sees his brother playing ball in the store, so quite naturally he will want to run around. Heze is older and he should not be playing ball in the store anyway. There is always a time and place for everything... just my opinion.
Exactly. He was running up and down isles kicking a ball swerving in and around customers which is ridiculous. And Tim should have checked him. Tim told Rue that we are not in a park but Heze treats a supermarket like it is a soccer field. And that is ok. Since his parents won't check him the store manager may have too next time. And what is it with no masks on the older kids? I guess in England kids don't have to wear masks.
I was a little surprised when i seen him with the ball he could have ran into a customer. I'm surprised they allowed that. Idk... Awesome parent tho there doin very well.
Love,love,Love all of you.Brilliant parenting and beautiful children!!! I'm a single mum of five since my youngest daughter was 18months old she is now 17years old,19 years,25 years,my only son would be 26 heartbreaking to all of his family he committed suicide when he was 21years old. His older sister is 27 years.liam was an exceptional artist and amazing talented martial art and kick boxing champion,he was in his 2nd year at John Moore's Liverpool university studying fine art. We miss him terribly could you please keep us in you're prayers thankyou ♡
@@paulinequinlan3106 So sorry for your loss. The loss of a child is unbearable but especially in such a violent way. I too had a suicide in my family but not a child. It would be devastating if I lost any of my three adult sons. Many people struggle with mental illness and see suicide as a way out. Depression is real. RIP liam.
Guys, I was expecting to see a REAL “meltdown” but Rue was actually really well behaved... Bless him xx 😘 and Tim... **ahem!! How can you tell Rue that the supermarket is not a playground, yet have Hezi running around playing football in between shoppers??? 🤔 it's a pet hate of mine to see children running around in supermarkets causing obstructions.. and parents saying nothing. especially the bigger children, and Especially with a FOOTBALL?? and this is coming from someone with a child who has ADHD!! And I STILL don’t let him do that! You can’t have double standards. Anyway, it’s all love from me.. love you guys same way ❤️😘
I agree. Why do Hezi gotta have a ball with him wherever he go?? I get that he a footballer but c’mon guys.. yall gotta be more considerate .he can’t always play ball inside!
@@hollywoodchic2 He drives me crazy when I see him taking that ball every where Then Reu will want to do the samething. You would think the parent would have told him, leave the ball in the car.
i really respect how you discipline your children and you mean what you say-it's so inspirational. Even the 'meltdown' Reu had wasn't bad at all for someone his age. He got over it so quickly and that is because you, Tim and Ella, are such amazing parents.
You really need to get heze to not have his ball in supermarkets. It's really not safe. In fact I'm fairly certain Sainsbury's wouldn't be happy having a kid rushing around with a football. I tend to walk quickly round supermarkets, so to turn the corner only to be faced with a kid flying into me with a football... like I'm young you know, I can get out the way but if it was my granny... it would be a different story.
Lotte Johnson true.. can’t have double standard. Consistency is key. If I bend the rule for one child there must be a really good reason that the child being “called out” understands.No shade. A village can still raise a child
@@hollywoodchic2 I think the difference is that, the Grimwale family does consider Heze's balling as "play". That is professional development. When you guys see him signed and making millions for playing football, it all will make sense.
@@ccccandycane I don't think it matters if it's 'professional'. It's still a football in a shop. You wouldn't expect a bmxer to be in a shop, 'but he's professional' doesn't really work does it?
Did heze get a lecture as well?? I think its rude that he plays soccer in the store where people are trying to shop. Rue is the baby hes just trying to copy heze. Love those boys we know he loves the sport but he needs boundries. There is a time and place for that
Angel Shakur I did think they should have had Hez keep the ball in the car. He's a very good young man, but there is training a child to know he can't be a grown up and play sports in a store. I cam appreciate Hez' dedication though.
They're hard on rue, it's cool,(but not really) he's just gonna end up being their chain breaker kid. I love him the most cause they are mean to him the most. They always talk on rue like he's different and difficult and that's the kid I was in my famm too and it totally effects us
Yes! Will someone please share this with other families like Gabebabe, her little girl Reagan has made her channel very hard to watch. Reagan is Rue's age and they don't discipline her at all. The little girl is rude demanding and has no manners. The same with the Rush Family especially Cali. Both of these families need a dose of Tim to get them in check. This is why I like this family. Parents that actually know what their doing.
Marlee D , to be honest I’m a grandma, and since watching this family, I took a page out of their book to discipline my grandkids, and let me tell you big difference, so they’re good examples,
@@marleed6532 That is very rude to come at other content creators. You can just look at the Grimwades and stop watching these family channels if little kids get you so upset. Unsubscribe real easy.
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you, for showing us how you discipline your children out in public and most importantly by keeping your word. You gave Ru-Ru many chances to follow directions, all while "TALKING" not "SCREAMING" like I see so many parents do. I am single with no children and I have to admit nothing makes me more upset when people's children are acting out and the parents just ignore it like it is not happening. You guys ROCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ♥♥♥ I just love your family. Ru-Ru is going to be the jokester in the family, I love watching him so much. He has so much personality and is so tender-hearted God Bless Grimwade Family !!
Exactly. Heze does not need to be kicking a ball around the store. That is very rude. He checked Rue but he should have checked Heze too. Leave the ball at home. We all know you love football but in public that is not cool.
So true!!! Why do they let him take the ball at the grocery store or at any store. Those places are not play grounds. Maybe they will stop him from doing that in public after they see these comments. They definitely would not tolerate this at a lot of stores in America. They would consider that to be horseplaying . Smh
Anyone going through a difficult time during this corona season just want you to have faith don't loose hope something is gonna come up .God loves you, stay strong💞
Oh no, I felt sad when he wanted to cry. And that was not really a meltdown, he actually controlled himself and didn't throw a tantrum. Such a sweetheart. Beautiful kids.
on behalf of Rue how come you let Hezi 10 years old running around in the store full of people with the football He should know better and Rue he's only 2 years He's experiencing a little of freedom in the store. He's Curious, I dont think was fair....
I agree. Heze needs to stop taking that ball everwhere like it is an extra appendage. It is getting to be a lot. He took that ball into a hospital waiting area and he was kicking it around the supermarket. He even has taken it out when they go out to dinner. He has become neurotic about this ball. He needs to contact one of the famous soccer players and get some advice as to whether his behavior is normal. To me, it is not normal. I know it is important to train and practice but it should be done at home or a football field or a park.
@@carolinerheaa1504 100% agree he took it to the hospital during Ella's scan and to the GP when he hurt his nose and I feel like if they just said to him Hez leave it at home he wouldn't have an issue but they leave him to take it everywhere all those professional footballers that he looks up to don't take balls everywhere they go and I can tell you that for free Heze would be one to take a football to a red carpet event the ways he's going on that needs to be nipped in the bud
Reu was tried. At the end of the day he was trying too be like Heze running around with the ball, he is trying to be like his big bro. Heze needs to set an example to Reu!
This the first time I'm seeing my little rue fall apart.i get that it's his nap time though. Thanks for bringing us along Grimwade family. Blessings to you all ❤🙏🏾🙋🏾♀️
I know he loves his ball and I admire that about him but I agree he shouldn't be running around in the store with it. Just thinking if I was in a store snd someone was doing that it would annoy me. Btw, I adore this family❤
Sorry to say Heze should not have his ball with him when you are going shopping, the store is not a playground. RUE looks up to Heze as the big brother, so Heze should be showing Rue what's right and what's wrong
I was the same with my kids when they were younger and now they are grown everyone compliments them on how well mannered they are and how well they carry themselves. Discipline may seem harsh to them but as parents we need to teach our kids right from wrong.
You guys are just great with the kids, but I'm curious why it was ok for the older boy to run around kicking a ball in the store but the little one get's scolded for not being mature?
I think because heze is older, less likely to get lost, or bump into other people. Reu is more likely to hurt himself. I may be wrong. Sorry for bothering you
Hi y'all, that's not a USA meltdown 🤣. Yeah although I love Hezes ⚽️ skills, he should only hold the ball if he can't part with it. Definitely no playing in stores bcuz it could be consequences 🤑. Still ♥️🤸♂️Rue 🤗. Btw Heze wouldn't be able to hold Reu's hand while playing ⚽️🤔.
@@mitzilawrence9935 Exactly the point a lot of people and Tim was missing as well. How is Rue going to hold Heze's hand when he is in the middle of a game kicking a ball around? Rue got blamed but Heze should have stopped his behavior as well. He is 9 and should know better. Reu is only two and was just asserting his independence.
Why was it ok for hesa to run around playing football in a shop thats a no no so he should of been told how to behave in a shop to sorry but you dont kick a ball around in a shop should of left the ball in the car
Agreed. Tim jumped all over Rue a two-year-old toddler but a 9-year-old is running around a store kicking a ball as though he was two years old. And neither Tim nor Ella said anything. I get it that Heze likes football to the point he is attached to the ball like a baby to a bottle. The point is that he should not be running around the supermarket kicking a ball like it is a football field. He is acting like he has no home training. The girls stay close to mom they are not doing gymnastic flips down the isles of the supermarket or dancing.
@Patrick Wotton I am not giving Heze "hate." He should not have been kicking a ball and running around a supermarket. Point, blank period. Now if that is the behavior you would let your kids get away with that is on you. Heze is 10 years old and should know better. And Tim said that the market was not a park. So where do you play ball? In a damn park. Not a supermarket. And if a child or older person on a cane or walker trips on that ball Heze getting "hate" will be the least of his problems. In the US security or a manager would have immediately asked him to stop running and playing in the store. That is common sense. And most people in the comment section beside you can clearly see that. And that is why most people are calling out Tim on it. So looks like you are of the minority opinion.
@@carolinerheaa1504 I watched the same video and he didn't JUMP all over a 2 yr old. You must not have kids because a 2 yr old walking by himself in a store will touch everything not to mention knock things off the shelf not to mention potentially get lost, not to mention, which is even worse, get snatched.
But the older one must be able to have more privileges as he is much older. And the older one will not run away and hide or something stupid, but the younger one might.
They are very well-behaved but running in stores is a NO whether 2, 10, or 12. I cringed at the thought of Heze or the ball running in to the customer on the aisle.
It is ok for dad to discipline Mr....it was fine and yes he was tired but he has to learn too. They are wonderful parents and their kids are examples of it. Love you guys!!
Heze should be taught when and when not to play with his ball. Yes, he's good at it and he loves it. BUT not in the store! Its rude. If my kids saw him they would go and try the same thing and probably hurt or break something. Its not fair to the others especially Rue when he wants to be just like him.
Am I the only one that had an issue with Hezze running around the store with the soccer ball? Poor Rue being disciplined ( rightfully so) for running around, not listening and older brother trying all his latest maneuvers with the soccer ball! Love the Grimwade family but the ball should stay at home or in car when indoors in public spaces. JMO 🙄
I love ya'll, this channel has become a daily place for me. I love how ya'll don't hide anything and are straight up honest. I pray more and more people subscribe to your channel because this world needs more families like ya'll showing how it's done.
In Reu's defense he's so young in a big store so he wants to explore it's only natural that he would behave this way and he was also following Heze plus seeing all types of things he was excited
People parent different is my point. They have 6 young kids honestly so if they shopping together they need to have a close eye on them. If you have kids do as you may but don't tell other people how to parent. The previous 5 kids are great so they are doing a really good job.
God bless you guys! Every time I see your notifications I click immediately. Houston is soooo beautiful. Well actually the entire family is gorgeous 💕💕💕
I love how both of you are so patient with all of the children. Then take the time to calmly explain the reason for things happening. Discipline with logic and compassion to help them learn, rather than discipline with fear and anger. It genuinely makes me happy to watch.
🤙🏽This family is way too cool for me🤩 even Mr. Tim with his perfect hairdo / shades on😎 and fresh gear👕👟🕶 Mrs E is soooo posh and chilled. 👸🏽She says she sweats but I didn't see not 1 drop of perspiration throughout this whole scene 😂 Rue bear🐼 baby boy is just feeling himself.. I don't blame him he comes from a very Dynamic unique blessed family! Love❤ how you guys show the real deal of parenting and life in general with your beautiful family! Much blessings to you all🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
this show much how you take control at home and outside in public space nothing to cover up make no scene it surely will comes out .God bless y'all 🙏💙💟
Simply amazing parenting Tim, Rue is so cute, and he knows his left and right, I’m just astonished to see such a bright and smart young man. The whole family is amazing, God bless you ❤️❤️
Rue obviously wants to continue “ self isolation”. LOL. Seriously, after being cooped up for months I believe we all react to going into public. Love ❤️ him.
Agree on this point he could easily fall or hit someone accidentally so I agree he should not have the ball when shopping, and when we go I to the store, all toys, etc stay in the car can't bring in..
I think bc heze is a lot older and actually very responsible on the ball it’s different. Discipline should be age and experience related. What’s not safe for a toddler may be perfectly safe for an older sibling
I agree, no ball in store. We all know that Heze has a special bond and connection to his soccer ball, it's like an extra appendage, but to be fair it sends a confusing message to other children, especially our little Reu. I think it will become more challenging for Reu as he grows to see the double standard. All in all I Love the Grimwade family and believe you do a phenomenal job, but suggest you rethink this one. Thanks!
@@audreychanetngaleu1966 It's not a double-standard. He's 2, Heze is 10. He will learn the rules are not modulated due to favor but maturity. He cannot be allowed the same latitude as his 10 year old brother. Now the ball in the store is something I think Heze should not do. But Reu's choices were "hold Heze's hand" or "in the buggy". He chose neither, so by default, in the buggy.
Ella u and your Angel's are always so beautifully dressed - u're parenting is outstanding. Can watch u Grimwades everyday. Thank u for sharing your beautiful Family with us.
Awwww bless Rue, the fact you were making a point about not walking of and being safe should also apply to not playing football in a retail store lead by example for all.
Well here we see the truth. Look at the number of comments coming to Rues aide. And Why? The "Fandom" is only upset because the truth is Tim and Ella have almost never disciplined Rue on camera. They've used Rue for views and let him do as he pleases while on camera. When others in the household are speaking on camera they allow him to interrupt, when he acts up they turn the camera on him and laugh it off for views. And the fans gobble it up saying Rue is so cute and so intelligent. The Fandom is upset because they are not used to seeing Rue disciplined because Tim and Ella have groomed them in that way. While Rue is a very cute, intelligent little boy; the truth is Rue is a 2 year old and like any two year old boundaries need to be set. NOW I do agree in a family this size discipline needs to equitable, not partial and applied consistently for ALL the children. Yet even in the short videos they show us .. Tim and Ella often have shown partiality to disciplining the children depending on what child is involved. Heze, has an obsession with the soccer ball that is not healthy. Look how he could not put the ball down when they were loading the skiff. Look at him playing soccer in the aisles at the store. He is a 10 year old and his soccer ball is like a "blankie." On the other end poor 4 year old Harper is disciplined on camera and even told to "woman- up" and not cry. Harper is a 4 year-old and she to needs to be validated by her parents but many times on camera Tim and Ella show little attention of criticize her. There is no question Tim and Ella Love their children dearly, but as I said, in a family this size in order to help children grow, with confidence and humility, discipline needs to be equitable, fair, not partial, but most of all consistent.
The main reason I love this channel and this family is the way you speak to your children and discipline them when needed. You're always fair and kind. You children are a real credit to you
Great parenting skills and show of discipline under control. It's very critical that parents remain in control, each reinforcing the rules, and maintaining the presence of adult authority. Oftentimes, when parents openly show frustration or loss of control over a situation, a child will seize that opportunity to challenge and attempt to usurp power over them, becoming even more rebellious and disruptive. Little Reu will understand, as he always eventually does, that Mommy and Daddy are doing what's right and good. I do think that Big Bro. Heze should refrain from playing with his ball in public venues... at least not in shopping marts/malls or grocery stores. In all, your children are so sweet and affectionate...I simply Luv The Grimwade Gang!! 😘😘💞💖💗
Perhaps Rue should not have been given his treasure to walk with at first before being required to hold Heze's hand. After all Heze was running with his ball all over.
I love you guys a lot but like many l think Heze should leave his ball in the car when at the shops or any public place....and maybe sometimes in certain parts of the house
💜💜💜💜 He should also NOT play with it when he's holding Houston. I've seen him do that before at the house. I know he loves his ball but there's a time and place for it.
For all the viewers that keeps complaining Ella and Tim needs to vlog in the park or shopping, they have no idea what its like to have a big family, trying to get out of the house is a task in it self much less filming and keeping an eye on the children. their style of vlogging is perfect it's their real life, its not a reality show that have cameras make up artist and perfect lighting.
As Tim was talking to Rue in the buggy, and mentioned it was close to naptime, Rue was rubbing his ear. I loved how Tim took off his glasses and looked at Rue and told him that it isn't that I don't love you, and went on to explain that he needs to make sure he stays safe. You don't really see that here in the states.
Tim & Ella,love the way you are with your children,how you both explain situations to them for their safety and let them know that you love them.....LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!Stay save and masked!!!!!
When I was younger I was never allowed to have a ball in the store it’s just disrespectful. I can’t believe you let your son run around in the store with a ball. It’s also weird that people in the uk put there babies in the front seat.
Lotte Johnson if you did a google search it actually says that children under 3 can go in the front if there’s no room in the back for their car seat. The airbags must be disabled and they must be in the correct car seat.
I just hope Pops addresses some of the comments on here (especially regarding Hezi with the ball) as I can see that they go through the comments, and heart the ones who agree with everything they do and say. That’s all.
Nope its not likely. They can't take constructive advice. In the next video they have deleted comments from anyone who expressed concern. So looks like that will be the new norm in the future.
Actually, some of the comments with a heart heart Are some of the comments regarding Hezi with the ball. From people who didn't "agree with everything they do and say". Jus' sayin' :)
The fact that he didn’t even fight back or kick when dad put him in his pram 👏🏾👏🏾he understands then 👏🏾👏🏾 amazing parenting fr! 👏🏾👏🏾
@Cathy Burnham That's actually right my 4 year old nephew gets Frustrated easy so we have to teach em to calm down in different ways
Yes. They are great parents. Could have given mine a few lessons.
My thoughts exactly, every parent should be grateful if their 2yr old meltdown is this calm!! Amazing 👏
Honestly! No tantrum nothing. It simple listened
I am sure that these videos are probably greatly edited. There are no perfect parents or children. We get to see only what they want us to see. I enjoy the show but I hope parents who are watching do not become discouraged or too critical beating themselves up because of what they see on the show. Remember, this is entertainment!!!❤️
When Houston stopped crying at ur presence ❤️🥺adorable
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Sooo cute. Baby whisperer tim
We know who daddys girl is for sure!!
DADDY HAS THE MAGIC TOUCH. 💯💯❤❤
Is anyone else waiting for a meltdown? When I saw the title I was thinking, "I can't imagine Rue screaming and hollering and throwing an outright tantrum. He proved me correct!!! Because you all are teaching your children to reason at a very early age, they're able to still be children and yet know what is expected of them, no matter how hard it is. Bravo Rue and kudos Dad!!!
CRC Singleton I agree with you I thought the same as you did....
I am amazed at such a awesome and amazing parenting.
Bravo Tim, I am so proud of you Rue You are really a big boy.
The terrible twos trying times nip it early
right I'm thinking he was about to act a straight fool lol. That was nothing and they handled it well. dad talked him thru it. he all ready know the deal
S Morris Hello I’m like family I love them and I family that’s funny and your baby sister is funny
Rue acted more appropriately for his age than Heze did. If Rue is old enough to be taught that there is a time and place for play, then so is Heze. It's quite unnatural to need to take the ball EVERYWHERE.
Can I just say how sweet our Miss Harper was this entire film? She went to calm Reu and help him several times. I've seen her do the same with Houston in other videos. She does it quietly too. She is a good "leader" of the "littles." Heze was a great helper during this one as well. Way to go young man.
Poor harper doesnt get much attention
It would be great for them to do an interview with each child separately. What are their fave foods, movie, activites? What do they want to be when they grow up?
Ceelle2 very good suggestion, it would be nice to see the children on their own.
Tim did a great job with Rue, but Heze can cool it with the ball in the store. What if someone came around the corner and he hit them with the ball?
I agree love the family but the ball isn’t appropriate in a store.
Yeah and it wasn't really fair coz they told Hazariah he can't run in the shop but Heze was running in the shop maybe sometimes he can leave the ball at home
I was thinking the same thing
I agree!
Yes I think it was unacceptable behavior for the older brother to be maneuvering the ball in the store
I think you handled it perfectly but just bear in mind that Heze was running around with the ball so he just wants to be like his brother.. He is just wanting to be like his siblings x
@@ReResAllsorts so true
Yes! That's what I was thinking. They're doing a awesome job with their kids.
I think that it’s not him playing. I think it’s more of a thing that he‘s young and doesn’t really know when to stop and watch his surroundings..they asked him if he was going to hold Heze‘s hand, he said no..
@@KathleenEd I agree with that they handled it well
@@babygirlcharlene re
I agree with the parents but the football should not be taken into shops...it's not the place for it.
It’s his safety mechanism
Why does he have to take it everywhere?
@@amelieml1996 I hope he doesn't feel pressed to do it. To have to be the best, get better, rehearse 24/7...I think that as a parent I would definitely tell him that one day a week is totally without touching the football, to let the body rest.
Agree with the comments. REU handled being disciplined in a perfect manner, that was defo not a melt down he is cheeky but he is a good boy. I also feel heze running around with the ball in the shop defo gives reu mixed messages
I agree with you that was not a melt down. Ive been through lot worse and seen alot worse
Rue was so cute. He was sleepy but he did wave goodbye to everyone even though he was pouting. Hahaha. He made sure he waved to his audience. Lovely family.
I agree with you disciplining Rue, but why is Heze running around kicking a ball an exception? Very unsafe. And just as you told Rue, the supermarket is not a park!
Totally agree, I would be so shocked to see this at the supermarket, otherwise fab as always guys
He old enough to know better (Hezi) whilst Rue gets told!
So the store should not be a play ground for Hez, leave the darn ball home sometimes.
@Ernestine Bernoudy It already is to Heze.
@Lisa Ming you summed it up better without the hate!
How does a 2 year old know his left and right I didn’t learn until I was 12 😅🤣😂 RUES SOOO SMART!!
Don’t really like to see Heze with ball in the shop - he can practice all he wants at home. Not fair to his younger brother, for sure! Otherwise, great handling of the problem. Love your stuff.
They somehow have closed some of us from spelling out just how they favor Heze over every other child.
@@faithkiyunzu5037 I see what you mean. I have seen them give all the other kids correction but I have never seen them correct Heze. I never could understand the whole favoritism among siblings. And that is why the other children are better behaved than Heze. Heze is going to be very difficult to discipline when he becomes a teenager. All they care about is Heze kicking a ball.
@Louise sarver What's not fair? There is a big different in Heze playing with the ball in the store and Ru not wanting to hold Heze's hands, and that's age and that I'm sure Heze would stop if told. From what I have seen Heze is quite mature and knows how to handle himself; can't say the same for a 2 yr old.
Older boy plays football in shop could knock some 1 over u told little boy not to be running in shop then put in stroller it works both ways nice family doh
@@carolinerheaa1504 True and I also noticed that the girls would be helping around, helping mom and dad an heze just playing or watching his games.
breaks my heart to see rue rue like this he is tired but then heze was kicking his ball in the store
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I felt that too :(
Love Tims discipline..your such a man's man in your household and such a good help to Ella in raising your children
Help ??? In this day and age it's equal.... dad's don't get to decide to participate lol. It's their responsibility...
Yes your right it is equal in this day in age. . But there are also many families out there who are affected by dad's deciding not to participate .. Not disregarding that they have a responsibility but actively not choosing to do what ofcourse they should be doing. Where as, Tim on the other hand each video without fail he plays his part and does it well so he is a role model for the many men that don't.
No word of a doubt this is how the home should be but we see daily the reports of people suffering and dysfunction.
He said it does not mean I do not love you. Aww. You both are doing a great job.
Raising kids definitely needs a support system... Tim is a such a present dad and husband. Ella is so blessed
Ella is married to a working class man covered in tattoos, I would be ashamed. My father only had 2 kids as that was all he could afford to support on his own, it's so unfair how Tim gets free government money to support the endless kids he makes every year
@@sanamhusain691 And money from TH-cam pimping out his kids and wife. He keeps his wife pregnant all the time to make more money on TH-cam and then makes her his maid. He never does anything but edit videos and play with his video games. That is not a husband. Ella is basically a single mom.
Dad handled Rue right. He's learning to listen and obey when hes told. Rue is more well behaved than some kids Ive seen. 😍😍 Big ups Tim and Ella.
Love this family.
And Hezi?? Footballing in the store??
What about Heze running and kicking a ball down the aisle and swerving in and around people? Tim told Rue that the market is not a playground but it isn't a soccer field either.
Aww Rue it's ok daddy loves you that's why he did what he did he doesn't want you to get hurt...Heze I love you but I thinks it's not right to play soccer in the store it's not polite especially after Rue just got a lecture from dad on why he shouldn't run around in the store
Totally agree; apply discipline for all(Heze w/ball)inside the store appeared awkward for his age and the maturity level he's demonstrated.
@@deborahriley8914 yeah I hope they sat him down and explained that, what he did is not acceptable especially for his age he should know right from wrong
I just commented the same think I actually said I believe because he looks up to Heze and Heze not doing anything wrong he just love his football but for Reu to see Heze in store with ball he may try to imitate Heze not to say he wrong but maybe better to not have soccer/football in the store
And... he refused to hold Heze’s hand!
@@glo7974 we get that but Reu got in trouble for running around in the shop when Hez was doing the same thing but didn't get in trouble that's what we're saying
Hi Fam it was so nice to see Houston instantly stop crying when daddy started talking to her. Reu didn’t cry that much great explaining to him dad the what and why. Such a beautiful family.Blessings & Love Always 🙏🏽😍❤️.
I do believe that all the children should be treated equally no matter what. Rue was disciplined because he did not listen to his dad, but what we have to remember here is that he is still very young, and he sees his brother playing ball in the store, so quite naturally he will want to run around. Heze is older and he should not be playing ball in the store anyway. There is always a time and place for everything... just my opinion.
I agree with you totally. I honestly don't think it's appropriate for Heze to be playing ball in a store.
@@ladyisioma7473 neither do I he is too old for all that sometimes leave the ball at home
y’all’s first mistake was getting in their business, let Heze be Heze
@@aubreymata7347 Exactly. I'm reading this wondering if they're also parents to Heze.
Je suis entièrement d'accord avec vous. Pauvre Reu qui ne doit pas comprendre... 😿
I love this family so much ... realest and the most humble family on youtube ❤️❤️
When a two year old knows his lefts and rights better than you ♥️😂
This!!!!!
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Star 👦
The older boy shouldn't be running around with a ball in the super market ......
He can just leave the ball at home. We understand he's passionate about football but taking it everwhere🤧
Exactly. He was running up and down isles kicking a ball swerving in and around customers which is ridiculous. And Tim should have checked him. Tim told Rue that we are not in a park but Heze treats a supermarket like it is a soccer field. And that is ok. Since his parents won't check him the store manager may have too next time. And what is it with no masks on the older kids? I guess in England kids don't have to wear masks.
@@carolinerheaa1504 100 percent true facts
I was a little surprised when i seen him with the ball he could have ran into a customer. I'm surprised they allowed that. Idk... Awesome parent tho there doin very well.
@@carolinerheaa1504 just to answer your last question, kids under 11 don't have to wear masks! 😀
Only the Grimwade kids have polite meltdowns! Lol that was the most polite quiet meltdown I have ever seen.
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That's not even a meltdown. People have to stop calling them meltdowns when it's a tantrum
It’s sad to Rue crying he’s so nice for his age but discipline is everything love their family
Love,love,Love all of you.Brilliant parenting and beautiful children!!! I'm a single mum of five since my youngest daughter was 18months old she is now 17years old,19 years,25 years,my only son would be 26 heartbreaking to all of his family he committed suicide when he was 21years old. His older sister is 27 years.liam was an exceptional artist and amazing talented martial art and kick boxing champion,he was in his 2nd year at John Moore's Liverpool university studying fine art. We miss him terribly could you please keep us in you're prayers thankyou ♡
@@paulinequinlan3106 So sorry for your loss. The loss of a child is unbearable but especially in such a violent way. I too had a suicide in my family but not a child. It would be devastating if I lost any of my three adult sons. Many people struggle with mental illness and see suicide as a way out. Depression is real. RIP liam.
I absolutely LOVE the way Tim and you parent your children. They are so well mannered and we'll rounded people because of it. Good job mom and dad!
You are great disciplinarians coz you are not harsh while correcting the kids. Love from Kenya
Reu crying broke my heart. Good boy because he listened to daddy. Love you Reu baby😘❤
Guys, I was expecting to see a REAL “meltdown” but Rue was actually really well behaved... Bless him xx 😘 and Tim... **ahem!! How can you tell Rue that the supermarket is not a playground, yet have Hezi running around playing football in between shoppers??? 🤔 it's a pet hate of mine to see children running around in supermarkets causing obstructions.. and parents saying nothing. especially the bigger children, and Especially with a FOOTBALL?? and this is coming from someone with a child who has ADHD!! And I STILL don’t let him do that! You can’t have double standards.
Anyway, it’s all love from me..
love you guys same way ❤️😘
I agree. Why do Hezi gotta have a ball with him wherever he go?? I get that he a footballer but c’mon guys.. yall gotta be more considerate .he can’t always play ball inside!
@@hollywoodchic2 He drives me crazy when I see him taking that ball every where Then Reu will want to do the samething. You would think the parent would have told him, leave the ball in the car.
Great to see parents diciplining their children WITHOUT violence.
i really respect how you discipline your children and you mean what you say-it's so inspirational. Even the 'meltdown' Reu had wasn't bad at all for someone his age. He got over it so quickly and that is because you, Tim and Ella, are such amazing parents.
You really need to get heze to not have his ball in supermarkets. It's really not safe. In fact I'm fairly certain Sainsbury's wouldn't be happy having a kid rushing around with a football. I tend to walk quickly round supermarkets, so to turn the corner only to be faced with a kid flying into me with a football... like I'm young you know, I can get out the way but if it was my granny... it would be a different story.
Plus the dad done told the little guy the supermarket ain’t no place for play. That ain’t fair.
Setting a bad example.
Lotte Johnson true.. can’t have double standard. Consistency is key. If I bend the rule for one child there must be a really good reason that the child being “called out” understands.No shade. A village can still raise a child
@@hollywoodchic2 I think the difference is that, the Grimwale family does consider Heze's balling as "play". That is professional development. When you guys see him signed and making millions for playing football, it all will make sense.
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@@ccccandycane I don't think it matters if it's 'professional'. It's still a football in a shop. You wouldn't expect a bmxer to be in a shop, 'but he's professional' doesn't really work does it?
I was holding my breath when Hez was kicking the ball through the store. Especially around the dishes. Goodness it gave me anxiety.
Same
And around a shopper
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However, neither parent disciplined Heze..I don't get it. Sometimes you can't take your"safety blanket"
Did heze get a lecture as well?? I think its rude that he plays soccer in the store where people are trying to shop. Rue is the baby hes just trying to copy heze. Love those boys we know he loves the sport but he needs boundries. There is a time and place for that
Angel Shakur I did think they should have had Hez keep the ball in the car. He's a very good young man, but there is training a child to know he can't be a grown up and play sports in a store. I cam appreciate Hez' dedication though.
is it safe to be having the older boy running in the store kicking around the ball...not a good example for Rue
I thought the same Rue must be thinking ( why can he run around and I can’t 🤔🤔 )
Ikr
I agree
They're hard on rue, it's cool,(but not really) he's just gonna end up being their chain breaker kid. I love him the most cause they are mean to him the most. They always talk on rue like he's different and difficult and that's the kid I was in my famm too and it totally effects us
You are correct. A beautiful, wonderful family but I don't understand bringing the ball everywhere.
That’s the reason your children are so well behaved,you stick to strict discipline.
It's firm and fairness....big difference.
Yes! Will someone please share this with other families like Gabebabe, her little girl Reagan has made her channel very hard to watch. Reagan is Rue's age and they don't discipline her at all. The little girl is rude demanding and has no manners.
The same with the Rush Family especially Cali. Both of these families need a dose of Tim to get them in check. This is why I like this family. Parents that actually know what their doing.
Marlee D , to be honest I’m a grandma, and since watching this family, I took a page out of their book to discipline my grandkids, and let me tell you big difference, so they’re good examples,
@@marleed6532 That is very rude to come at other content creators. You can just look at the Grimwades and stop watching these family channels if little kids get you so upset. Unsubscribe real easy.
@@marleed6532 Heze was running all over the store and should have been disciplined. He is 9 and should know better. Rue is only two.
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you, for showing us how you discipline your children out in public and most importantly by keeping your word. You gave Ru-Ru many chances to follow directions, all while "TALKING" not "SCREAMING" like I see so many parents do. I am single with no children and I have to admit nothing makes me more upset when people's children are acting out and the parents just ignore it like it is not happening. You guys ROCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ♥♥♥ I just love your family. Ru-Ru is going to be the jokester in the family, I love watching him so much. He has so much personality and is so tender-hearted God Bless Grimwade Family !!
The ball should have stay in the car the store is not a place to play..
Exactly
Or even stay at home.
thank you!!
True facts
Kalema Beautiful vegan family there is a time and place for everything. The store was just not the place.... that’s only my personal opinion though.
Every time I watch you guys I tear up a bit . I came from a completely different family. I wish I had the respect and love like these kids .
Most of these comments are about heze having the ball in the store. Lol
Heze should stop running around with the ball in any shop, he can bump I to things and might not be setting good example for reu
.....and bump into PEOPLE.
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Hezie should NOT be playing around in any store ANYWAY!! I love all the children BUT right is right!!
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Exactly. Heze does not need to be kicking a ball around the store. That is very rude. He checked Rue but he should have checked Heze too. Leave the ball at home. We all know you love football but in public that is not cool.
So true!!! Why do they let him take the ball at the grocery store or at any store. Those places are not play grounds. Maybe they will stop him from doing that in public after they see these comments. They definitely would not tolerate this at a lot of stores in America. They would consider that to be horseplaying .
Smh
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black tulip. You are so right, the Lord always shows up in his timing, not ours. Thank you for sharing this encouraging reminder of truth. 😇
@@arethamorgan6613 your welcome
TGBTG! Thank you for this word of hope and encouragement. God bless you!
Such a loving family Houston heard her daddy’s voice & stopped crying aww 😌blessingsGrimway family♥️
Oh no, I felt sad when he wanted to cry. And that was not really a meltdown, he actually controlled himself and didn't throw a tantrum. Such a sweetheart. Beautiful kids.
Right?
on behalf of Rue how come you let Hezi 10 years old running around in the store full of people with the football He should know better and Rue he's only 2 years He's experiencing a little of freedom in the store. He's Curious, I dont think was fair....
I agree. Heze needs to stop taking that ball everwhere like it is an extra appendage. It is getting to be a lot. He took that ball into a hospital waiting area and he was kicking it around the supermarket. He even has taken it out when they go out to dinner. He has become neurotic about this ball. He needs to contact one of the famous soccer players and get some advice as to whether his behavior is normal. To me, it is not normal. I know it is important to train and practice but it should be done at home or a football field or a park.
@@carolinerheaa1504 100% agree he took it to the hospital during Ella's scan and to the GP when he hurt his nose and I feel like if they just said to him Hez leave it at home he wouldn't have an issue but they leave him to take it everywhere all those professional footballers that he looks up to don't take balls everywhere they go and I can tell you that for free Heze would be one to take a football to a red carpet event the ways he's going on that needs to be nipped in the bud
Reu was tried. At the end of the day he was trying too be like Heze running around with the ball, he is trying to be like his big bro. Heze needs to set an example to Reu!
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No one should be playing ball inside a store OR house! That’s my opinion! Blessings.
I agree; Hezie . . . . honey, you should NOT be playing ball inside, either!!!! Remember, you are also setting an example. Blessings.
I would have to agree with you on that one.
This the first time I'm seeing my little rue fall apart.i get that it's his nap time though. Thanks for bringing us along Grimwade family. Blessings to you all ❤🙏🏾🙋🏾♀️
Reu is the cutest boy I've ever seen. Omg😘
I don,t think Hezie should be running around with the ball
Je suis d'accord avec vous, d'autant plus que Reu est "puni" pour avoir fait comme son frère... 😊
Can he leave the ball at home sometime?
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Amen!
I know he loves his ball and I admire that about him but I agree he shouldn't be running around in the store with it. Just thinking if I was in a store snd someone was doing that it would annoy me. Btw, I adore this family❤
Sorry to say Heze should not have his ball with him when you are going shopping, the store is not a playground.
RUE looks up to Heze as the big brother, so Heze should be showing Rue what's right and what's wrong
Exactly...
Does Hezy have to take his ball into the shops seems a bit extreme?
I was the same with my kids when they were younger and now they are grown everyone compliments them on how well mannered they are and how well they carry themselves. Discipline may seem harsh to them but as parents we need to teach our kids right from wrong.
You guys are just great with the kids, but I'm curious why it was ok for the older boy to run around kicking a ball in the store but the little one get's scolded for not being mature?
I hope Heze was checked too on his behavior. I doubt he was.
I think because heze is older, less likely to get lost, or bump into other people. Reu is more likely to hurt himself. I may be wrong. Sorry for bothering you
I'm thinking Reu was going to scream and cry loudly. That's not a meltdown he's just cranky... Awww, Reu bear♥️ Tim, you handled that perfectly.
Hi y'all, that's not a USA meltdown 🤣. Yeah although I love Hezes ⚽️ skills, he should only hold the ball if he can't part with it. Definitely no playing in stores bcuz it could be consequences 🤑. Still ♥️🤸♂️Rue 🤗. Btw Heze wouldn't be able to hold Reu's hand while playing ⚽️🤔.
@@mitzilawrence9935 Exactly the point a lot of people and Tim was missing as well. How is Rue going to hold Heze's hand when he is in the middle of a game kicking a ball around? Rue got blamed but Heze should have stopped his behavior as well. He is 9 and should know better. Reu is only two and was just asserting his independence.
@@carolinerheaa1504 How? Because holding Heze's hand gives them both something to focus on other than playing.
Oh Daddy is so affectionate to his children. Love the way he interacts with Huston.💞
You two were ABSOLUTELY made for each other! Stay strong in the Messiah!
Love this family SO much!!!
Why was it ok for hesa to run around playing football in a shop thats a no no so he should of been told how to behave in a shop to sorry but you dont kick a ball around in a shop should of left the ball in the car
Agreed. Tim jumped all over Rue a two-year-old toddler but a 9-year-old is running around a store kicking a ball as though he was two years old. And neither Tim nor Ella said anything. I get it that Heze likes football to the point he is attached to the ball like a baby to a bottle. The point is that he should not be running around the supermarket kicking a ball like it is a football field. He is acting like he has no home training. The girls stay close to mom they are not doing gymnastic flips down the isles of the supermarket or dancing.
@Patrick Wotton I am not giving Heze "hate." He should not have been kicking a ball and running around a supermarket. Point, blank period. Now if that is the behavior you would let your kids get away with that is on you. Heze is 10 years old and should know better. And Tim said that the market was not a park. So where do you play ball? In a damn park. Not a supermarket. And if a child or older person on a cane or walker trips on that ball Heze getting "hate" will be the least of his problems. In the US security or a manager would have immediately asked him to stop running and playing in the store. That is common sense. And most people in the comment section beside you can clearly see that. And that is why most people are calling out Tim on it. So looks like you are of the minority opinion.
@@carolinerheaa1504 I watched the same video and he didn't JUMP all over a 2 yr old. You must not have kids because a 2 yr old walking by himself in a store will touch everything not to mention knock things off the shelf not to mention potentially get lost, not to mention, which is even worse, get snatched.
@@carolinerheaa1504 Leave the boy alone you know he has a passion for football
I don't think it was fair to tell one kid not to run around but let his brother do it (whom is older and should know better).
It is fair because the child could get kidnapped
But the older one must be able to have more privileges as he is much older. And the older one will not run away and hide or something stupid, but the younger one might.
mrsC Mac ye
@@tsjdiaries5076 So could his brother. Pedophiles don't discriminate.
They are very well-behaved but running in stores is a NO whether 2, 10, or 12. I cringed at the thought of Heze or the ball running in to the customer on the aisle.
Parents of the century!!!!!!! I love all your kids too. God bless you all.
It is ok for dad to discipline Mr....it was fine and yes he was tired but he has to learn too. They are wonderful parents and their kids are examples of it. Love you guys!!
Rue: can I have that. Daddy:no rue sit no bad rue: crying Heizi: playing with ball unfai
Heze should be taught when and when not to play with his ball. Yes, he's good at it and he loves it. BUT not in the store! Its rude. If my kids saw him they would go and try the same thing and probably hurt or break something. Its not fair to the others especially Rue when he wants to be just like him.
Exactly!
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Tim is so sweet with Houston ♥️
Ella is so beautiful. Train up a child in the way they should go..... Great job Grimwade family. I love you guys.
What a beautiful Bonny baby!! And the way daddy’s voice just soothes her is just lovely😍
Why did I cry when he cried , I’m so over dramatic but his little face aww my heart 😒😍
The Magic Touch of a father love good job Mr Grimwade firm and loving
Am I the only one that had an issue with Hezze running around the store with the soccer ball? Poor Rue being disciplined ( rightfully so) for running around, not listening and older brother trying all his latest maneuvers with the soccer ball! Love the Grimwade family but the ball should stay at home or in car when indoors in public spaces. JMO 🙄
Here needs to be more disciplined too like hosana
Wonderful parenting, all your kids are a testament to that, Rue made a choice and then had to suffer the consequences, he handled it well 👍
Beautiful family, Houston is so loved and loves the attention. Rue is spooky smart.
I love ya'll, this channel has become a daily place for me. I love how ya'll don't hide anything and are straight up honest. I pray more and more people subscribe to your channel because this world needs more families like ya'll showing how it's done.
In Reu's defense he's so young in a big store so he wants to explore it's only natural that he would behave this way and he was also following Heze plus seeing all types of things he was excited
And if he gets lost then what???
@@kudzichidemo5718 They look for him he was just excited was my point maybe your lost
People parent different is my point. They have 6 young kids honestly so if they shopping together they need to have a close eye on them. If you have kids do as you may but don't tell other people how to parent. The previous 5 kids are great so they are doing a really good job.
I love how you all keep it 100% real. Your children are a credit to you, such wonderful parents
I absolutely love how you guys handled Rue in this situation!! Love and kindness💜💪🏽💯
Oh my God Halle, cute with your glasses , all your kids are adorable can’t wait to see Houston crawling God Bless your lovely family👍🌹.
God bless you guys! Every time I see your notifications I click immediately. Houston is soooo beautiful. Well actually the entire family is gorgeous 💕💕💕
I love how both of you are so patient with all of the children. Then take the time to calmly explain the reason for things happening. Discipline with logic and compassion to help them learn, rather than discipline with fear and anger. It genuinely makes me happy to watch.
🤙🏽This family is way too cool for me🤩 even Mr. Tim with his perfect hairdo / shades on😎 and fresh gear👕👟🕶 Mrs E is soooo posh and chilled. 👸🏽She says she sweats but I didn't see not 1 drop of perspiration throughout this whole scene 😂 Rue bear🐼 baby boy is just feeling himself.. I don't blame him he comes from a very Dynamic unique blessed family! Love❤ how you guys show the real deal of parenting and life in general with your beautiful family! Much blessings to you all🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
this show much how you take control at home and outside in public space nothing to cover up make no scene it surely will comes out .God bless y'all 🙏💙💟
When Houston stopped crying at your presence x adorable xxx
Simply amazing parenting Tim, Rue is so cute, and he knows his left and right, I’m just astonished to see such a bright and smart young man. The whole family is amazing, God bless you ❤️❤️
Rue obviously wants to continue “ self isolation”. LOL. Seriously, after being cooped up for months I believe we all react to going into public. Love ❤️ him.
Shouldnt heze be running around in a shop with a ball.shouldnt he got discipline too?.just asking.
Agree on this point he could easily fall or hit someone accidentally so I agree he should not have the ball when shopping, and when we go I to the store, all toys, etc stay in the car can't bring in..
No
I think bc heze is a lot older and actually very responsible on the ball it’s different. Discipline should be age and experience related. What’s not safe for a toddler may be perfectly safe for an older sibling
I agree, no ball in store. We all know that Heze has a special bond and connection to his soccer ball, it's like an extra appendage, but to be fair it sends a confusing message to other children, especially our little Reu. I think it will become more challenging for Reu as he grows to see the double standard. All in all I Love the Grimwade family and believe you do a phenomenal job, but suggest you rethink this one. Thanks!
@@audreychanetngaleu1966 It's not a double-standard. He's 2, Heze is 10. He will learn the rules are not modulated due to favor but maturity. He cannot be allowed the same latitude as his 10 year old brother. Now the ball in the store is something I think Heze should not do. But Reu's choices were "hold Heze's hand" or "in the buggy". He chose neither, so by default, in the buggy.
Ella u and your Angel's are always so beautifully dressed - u're parenting is outstanding.
Can watch u Grimwades everyday.
Thank u for sharing your beautiful Family with us.
Awwww bless Rue, the fact you were making a point about not walking of and being safe should also apply to not playing football in a retail store lead by example for all.
Well here we see the truth. Look at the number of comments coming to Rues aide. And Why? The "Fandom" is only upset because the truth is Tim and Ella have almost never disciplined Rue on camera. They've used Rue for views and let him do as he pleases while on camera. When others in the household are speaking on camera they allow him to interrupt, when he acts up they turn the camera on him and laugh it off for views. And the fans gobble it up saying Rue is so cute and so intelligent.
The Fandom is upset because they are not used to seeing Rue disciplined because Tim and Ella have groomed them in that way. While Rue is a very cute, intelligent little boy; the truth is Rue is a 2 year old and like any two year old boundaries need to be set.
NOW I do agree in a family this size discipline needs to equitable, not partial and applied consistently for ALL the children.
Yet even in the short videos they show us .. Tim and Ella often have shown partiality to disciplining the children depending on what child is involved. Heze, has an obsession with the soccer ball that is not healthy. Look how he could not put the ball down when they were loading the skiff. Look at him playing soccer in the aisles at the store. He is a 10 year old and his soccer ball is like a "blankie."
On the other end poor 4 year old Harper is disciplined on camera and even told to "woman- up" and not cry. Harper is a 4 year-old and she to needs to be validated by her parents but many times on camera Tim and Ella show little attention of criticize her.
There is no question Tim and Ella Love their children dearly, but as I said, in a family this size in order to help children grow, with confidence and humility, discipline needs to be equitable, fair, not partial, but most of all consistent.
The main reason I love this channel and this family is the way you speak to your children and discipline them when needed. You're always fair and kind.
You children are a real credit to you
I love how Tim, disciplines Reu. And I could tell that Reu was a bit sleepy 😴
Great parenting skills and show of discipline under control. It's very critical that parents remain in control, each reinforcing the rules, and maintaining the presence of adult authority.
Oftentimes, when parents openly show frustration or loss of control over a situation, a child will seize that opportunity to challenge and attempt to usurp power over them, becoming even more rebellious and disruptive.
Little Reu will understand, as he always eventually does, that Mommy and Daddy are doing what's right and good. I do think that Big Bro. Heze should refrain from playing with his ball in public venues... at least not in shopping marts/malls or grocery stores.
In all, your children are so sweet and affectionate...I simply Luv The Grimwade Gang!! 😘😘💞💖💗
Perhaps Rue should not have been given his treasure to walk with at first before being required to hold Heze's hand. After all Heze was running with his ball all over.
I looooovvvve RUE, he is the most adorable kid 🥰
I love you guys a lot but like many l think Heze should leave his ball in the car when at the shops or any public place....and maybe sometimes in certain parts of the house
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He should also NOT play with it when he's holding Houston. I've seen him do that before at the house. I know he loves his ball but there's a time and place for it.
Heze should not be playing ball in the store
Yeah there was even times where he's taken it to the gp and the hospital like those are the worst places to take it
I wonder what Hezi would do without his ball... have a 2 year old “meltdown” maybe???
Beautiful Ella! Your skin is perfect! You don't need a drop of makeup! Eyebrows look great! Love and Blessings to you all!
For all the viewers that keeps complaining Ella and Tim needs to vlog in the park or shopping, they have no idea what its like to have a big family, trying to get out of the house is a task in it self much less filming and keeping an eye on the children. their style of vlogging is perfect it's their real life, its not a reality show that have cameras make up artist and perfect lighting.
Wow Tim and Ella your family are well blessed 😇🙏 I always pray for your family and you are such wonderful ❣️ parents 🥰
As Tim was talking to Rue in the buggy, and mentioned it was close to naptime, Rue was rubbing his ear. I loved how Tim took off his glasses and looked at Rue and told him that it isn't that I don't love you, and went on to explain that he needs to make sure he stays safe. You don't really see that here in the states.
Tim & Ella,love the way you are with your children,how you both explain situations to them for their safety and let them know that you love them.....LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!Stay save and masked!!!!!
When I was younger I was never allowed to have a ball in the store it’s just disrespectful. I can’t believe you let your son run around in the store with a ball. It’s also weird that people in the uk put there babies in the front seat.
No, youre not allowed to put a baby in the front seat in the UK. Trust me, it's NOT how other families operate.
Lotte Johnson tree this is the second TH-cam family that I have seen do this. The other channel was meet the greers
Lotte Johnson if you did a google search it actually says that children under 3 can go in the front if there’s no room in the back for their car seat. The airbags must be disabled and they must be in the correct car seat.
@@emmawilson8868Yeah, absolutely, however its not recommended, the safest place for baby is in the back.
Tim, all we need is the touch from the father and everything is calm. God and us you and Houston
I just hope Pops addresses some of the comments on here (especially regarding Hezi with the ball) as I can see that they go through the comments, and heart the ones who agree with everything they do and say.
That’s all.
Nope its not likely. They can't take constructive advice. In the next video they have deleted comments from anyone who expressed concern. So looks like that will be the new norm in the future.
Actually, some of the comments with a heart heart Are some of the comments regarding Hezi with the ball. From people who didn't "agree with everything they do and say". Jus' sayin' :)
Hezi should not be kicking a ball in the store. ☹️