ISTHEMBU EP 18| Polygamy |

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  • @nathanieladonispondwa206
    @nathanieladonispondwa206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    If a girl is working(to feed you) and is also in school, and hence gets home tired and late, the most selfish thing you can say especially as a bro ís "she doesn't make time for me, I feel neglected"

  • @thembiclementine1984
    @thembiclementine1984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Some of the men don't know what is love,can't even be patient for someone who's fighting for them to get a better future for both shit

  • @thinakhanyi1461
    @thinakhanyi1461 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I don't see him stops making babies outside , he don't loves mbali because he hide the ring shame lerato next time please takes your time and use protection and congratulation may god protect you and your unborn baby # to be a mom is a gift from god

  • @itsmenatoragain220
    @itsmenatoragain220 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    This guy is dreaming you can't propose isithembu but you broke.

  • @bandilenqindi1525
    @bandilenqindi1525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Mbali is so beautiful damn... she does not deserve this boy

    • @rbee2062
      @rbee2062 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mbali is a smashing beauty

  • @busisiwerosalia2823
    @busisiwerosalia2823 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    How can you be in a relationship just for few months and get pragnant.This is selfishness and greediness.Mbali just walk out of that relationship before you hurt yourself further

    • @siya-mthanda
      @siya-mthanda 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't separate ppl she's always busy so they must stay together once threesome

    • @ninahmbatha1890
      @ninahmbatha1890 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No protection

  • @shevshenko1432
    @shevshenko1432 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Great respect for the lady who is so hard working and going to school and for the guy to blame her for time is so disgusting. Mistakes can happen as we are all human but please man up and take the responsibility, please don’t blame someone who is looking out for your future.

  • @Mimi-gj1fq
    @Mimi-gj1fq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    A kept man is never a loyal man..i wish women knew & understood this..you are not building him up for yourself sis hel always endup with some1 els…let him work n give back as much as you do if not mor💜

  • @rufarochirenje5279
    @rufarochirenje5279 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I love drama and CMTV you've been delivering it on the spot....🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @buhlebuhle2651
    @buhlebuhle2651 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Mbali is so cute

  • @joyfulmusicreloaded6204
    @joyfulmusicreloaded6204 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yazi people are not smart. From what I gathered, Mbali and this guy went to school together so if I were him, instead of cheating, I was going to ask her if I could help her with her schoolwork so that at night all she needs to do is maybe go thru what he did. That's a way of spending time together and it lessens the load on her which frees up the time that he says he wants

  • @catsandtvshows1704
    @catsandtvshows1704 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    If he was a breadwinner then she wouldn't have been working so hard.

  • @sabeliswarts1337
    @sabeliswarts1337 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Mbali is beautiful, sy mooi muhle xem

  • @anele.dlaminiii
    @anele.dlaminiii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    WHAT A GOOD MEDIATOR & PRESENTER!! ❤

  • @thandopanda8624
    @thandopanda8624 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "Ziyakhala ziyatetema ziku loudspeaker"😂 I love this presenter befeth😘

  • @vince-1216
    @vince-1216 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Times have surely changed, the guy is hustling and both his chicks are both working yah neh .. gents let's take notes 📝

  • @gilfordpitso3929
    @gilfordpitso3929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Iyhooo ...is the always the unemployed one wanting sthembu

  • @jaykefh8310
    @jaykefh8310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is not as bad as i thought it would be, but taking this to Duncan he should have engaged Mbali of how he feels, the "hunger", the lonelyness and what sometimes comes to his mind, then from Mbali's response he was going to make a better decision as to leave for good or try maybe propose isthembu, endorsed by Mbali if at all they agreed of which from the episode i think there was that room from Mbali as she has accepted the baby without any objection. Mbali is really commitment to Duncan, she bought the ring for engagement, but she needs to give Duncan the fruit maybe twice a week Wednesday and Saturday, le ene a fokotse matswai Mbali mannn. Mbali, you level of maturity is high, the only challenge is that she undermined Lorato, if it was a gal her class or above i foresee she would be loud but selective in her utterances, she's mature enough because with the baby she didn't mince her words she understood it fats and accepted, which is awesome it's a credit to her but her disrespect to Lorato was uncalled for, both Lorato and Duncan were suppose to apologize to her and maybe make her understand how they came to be together since Duncan has explain the presence of Mbali. Lorato, expectation was for her to try to remain calm, even though uncalled for insults were hurled at her, she should have taken the maturity stand and politely told Mbali that she's not her friend nor her buddy to say such words to her and she's not that type of person who will entertain such. After engaging Mbali at that level then immediately shift to Duncan and tell Duncan to reprimand her galfriend, throew the ball and wait how the two will handle the ball. Long story short, Duncan took Mbali's corner of which he was suppose to but not at 100 but rather at 60/40, then with the flow he shifts the attention from 60/40 to 50/50 because he's the link. But he's a lucky guy the two beautiful ladies are gonna be together looking at the conversation from minute-1.

  • @nelisanelly7038
    @nelisanelly7038 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Mbalie is very beautiful

    • @ronaldsello7078
      @ronaldsello7078 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      True but she does not give kuku to this guy🤣🤣

  • @ntombifuthimthabela5670
    @ntombifuthimthabela5670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Mbally is beautiful jealous down

  • @diwaunitymasuku4548
    @diwaunitymasuku4548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    4months sekunengane aibo kahleni ,asehle i speed bosisi

  • @pulanemonyele7208
    @pulanemonyele7208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    the Lonely person that was assisting your lonely man🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 bathong Nizzy

  • @lindelwademocracy897
    @lindelwademocracy897 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This guy was confessing more than asking for isithembu.. This is not confessions it's ISITHEMBU 🙄

  • @vanessandlovu7891
    @vanessandlovu7891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Neexy is just Gorgeous yooo♥️☺️

  • @siyabongatorres6474
    @siyabongatorres6474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Mbali akekho ryt how can u propose ur self ai ugal uyafosta uthanda izinto

  • @mahunamothiba4464
    @mahunamothiba4464 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    How do you buy a man a ring to propose you 🤔 🙄🤣🤣🤣🤣, mbali where u from Mara 😂😂😂😂

    • @mahunamothiba4464
      @mahunamothiba4464 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@luyandaluh4554 it's still not right 😕, look now what is 😄 happening 🤣🤣🤣

    • @thabisilemakhoba4758
      @thabisilemakhoba4758 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Imali yokudlala

    • @cynthiambatha3758
      @cynthiambatha3758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yazi I'm shocked 😲 some women are so desperate for this marriage thing they don't value themselves

    • @geniuspuzzles101
      @geniuspuzzles101 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😅😅😅😅😅

    • @phililemhlongo2526
      @phililemhlongo2526 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The ring Mbali😮really

  • @collettemasitara4331
    @collettemasitara4331 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What i don't understand is men do this to us all the time?!.. We are expected to stay home & be grateful that hes working hard to provide...

  • @laoneabigail7955
    @laoneabigail7955 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I thnk Mbali deserves better 😢😢

  • @mzohmhlongo2029
    @mzohmhlongo2029 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Ngu mjita mpela koda ezinye zinto esbuye sizenze as amajita zyanyanyisa

  • @alwabamfihlo58
    @alwabamfihlo58 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That "hay nina la gula shame" Yeses 😂😂😂

  • @nashbusi7103
    @nashbusi7103 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I can’t add a wife in my relationship than to add another Car in my house

  • @sikhathelencube7648
    @sikhathelencube7648 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sorry to Mbali you deserve a man who will appreciate you

  • @GCvideos5383
    @GCvideos5383 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    and how can u not be bored when ur always at home while people are at work? haaiiiiiii

  • @hopetozana496
    @hopetozana496 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Another one of my faves! Nice episode! Welcome back sis

  • @nokukhanyandlovu4035
    @nokukhanyandlovu4035 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Ziyatetema 🙆🏻‍♀️ mina ngingamshiya ne new girlfriend

    • @fredrick5696
      @fredrick5696 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mncenge ayeke ukjola,nibonisane kwakhiwe umuzi uma unothando

  • @andrewmacebele6783
    @andrewmacebele6783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Duncan, this is disrespect not only to Mbali but to her family as well. You haven't paid lobola as yet.

    • @sihlenxele4760
      @sihlenxele4760 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Aww lomgita uyabheda loo🤣🤣

    • @andrewmacebele6783
      @andrewmacebele6783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sihlenxele4760 Uyabheda ngempela🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @nduminjingolo934
      @nduminjingolo934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Just leave them Mbali , know your worth sisi don't succumb to this rubbish , he doesn't deserve you , take your ring , doesn't appreciate your efforts of working hard for a better life for both of you and now this nonsense sis.. marn! jump to polygamy , the man is not even financial stable , does he even know the meaning of isithembu!! man look down on us as ladies and we allow them tsek marn..! run Mbali there is no future here

    • @jacobtheson_
      @jacobtheson_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This guy is crazy, Mbali should leave his dry ass nje once

    • @andrewmacebele6783
      @andrewmacebele6783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nduminjingolo934 Absolutely

  • @ntandoe_Nonduh
    @ntandoe_Nonduh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I missed you Neezy❤️❤️🔥 gojasinesi emntaneni

  • @krza116
    @krza116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dankie neexy looking like Edna from the incredibles😂😂😂

    • @neexynazmic2231
      @neexynazmic2231 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂 loool wow that’s new

  • @siyabongadjtour9170
    @siyabongadjtour9170 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    KaZulu we call dis cheating asyazi lento eniyenza la sthembu kwi engagement mhlola🤔😑

  • @nondumisomarafu3584
    @nondumisomarafu3584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Ay men are using us🤞

  • @yvonnemotsugi7242
    @yvonnemotsugi7242 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yhooo mbali you deserve better yerrh yini nje le Ducan yakhona

  • @mthitohmthiyane8680
    @mthitohmthiyane8680 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Mina ngikubona njalo uhlezi ulit la kweyami inhliziyo woza mamazi ekhaya akunamuntu 🙏🙏🙏uwena wedwa umphathi wohlelo osezingeni eliphezulu

  • @nokukhanyandlovu4035
    @nokukhanyandlovu4035 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You lit indeed as always 🥵🥵🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️

  • @phumzilemadlala9201
    @phumzilemadlala9201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Abanye bathi ba lonenly abanye bathi bafunu ukukhulisa imndeni yey hhyi kodwa nkoc yami amadoda kaz sawenzani esizwisa ubhlungu obunje

  • @aldrinchauke9418
    @aldrinchauke9418 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Not with the ladies agreeing
    Lerato: "Duncan uya yi kutlwa uri eng?
    Mbali: "Akazizwa"
    Lerato: "Wena ima hanyane"
    😂😂🤣🤣

  • @nashbusi7103
    @nashbusi7103 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love sthembu show But these young guys doesn’t understand Sthembu wat is it n wat holds.having two ladies money house,you die young it will never work,

  • @thabiso4193
    @thabiso4193 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Neexy’s reaction at 16:37😂😂

  • @snayenothando924
    @snayenothando924 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Mbali u wrong cc you took your money and buy the proposal ring for the man??,ay shame you wrong darling,,it means you'll be preparing for marriage,I am a girl like you cc and I am warning you not to do it again,uzozisola

  • @tngtng9929
    @tngtng9929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    4 years vs 4 months 🙆‍♂️

    • @lungiledlamini6050
      @lungiledlamini6050 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      4 months relationship n pregnant yoo kuyashesha 🙄

    • @ninahmbatha1890
      @ninahmbatha1890 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      , 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @nnagempulemahlako2814
    @nnagempulemahlako2814 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Mbali xe is so beautiful, hard working, live nice thing in future, real material xe has all . I don't know man like Duncan what the want.

  • @NoviaEats
    @NoviaEats ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Mbali needs a man who will appreciate how hard working she is

  • @just_justin6411
    @just_justin6411 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Mbali has misguided anger.. she insists on hating the wrong person let alone she doesn’t allow herself to calm down to talk properly with Lerato and get proper answers

  • @cwengangewu1144
    @cwengangewu1144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Abo Mbalie are proposing...............😁😆😁

  • @tiegokhunou7192
    @tiegokhunou7192 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Can I have Mbali’s number please. Sometimes culture is not fair for our black women. Mina I will marry Mbalientle

  • @nokuhulazulu-3571
    @nokuhulazulu-3571 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mbali you so beautiful you deserve the best oawa ❤

  • @geniuspuzzles101
    @geniuspuzzles101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A very humble ,nice presenter

  • @metv411
    @metv411 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    my favorite presenter 😍

    • @PaulDFJ1
      @PaulDFJ1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      youre missing the point like the sister there, love means different things to people. this guy wants connection from his partner, all this chic could have done is balance both sides of the argument. because in reality even if you can work 24/7 for someone, if theres no connection in the house you're just an ATM. this is not new, it happens alot to women who are married to rich guys. time, connection and sex are things you should be generous about when in a relation for it to work.

  • @magagamocumi3109
    @magagamocumi3109 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    12:49 Mbali is waiting for Leon Schuster to tell her that the whole thing is a joke 😂🤣😅

  • @cymbahyathithah24
    @cymbahyathithah24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Our host
    ❤️❤️ I like you a lot 👑

  • @nkosinamandlamarasy4167
    @nkosinamandlamarasy4167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ai kwa department of love kunzima, angfuni ukungasho 🤔

  • @ninahmbatha1890
    @ninahmbatha1890 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Where is the ring? In the car 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @CynthiaMutshindu
    @CynthiaMutshindu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mbali you are still young for isithembu phuma kulomfana udlala ngawe

  • @collettemasitara4331
    @collettemasitara4331 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mbali leave this guy, seems lyk a nice guy. But hes not on yr level thays why u r working so hard to compensate. Walk away sis and find a high flying man like you. Hes fibd with tje new chick..

  • @wildg236
    @wildg236 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Duncan for president 🙌

  • @sabelozondo7179
    @sabelozondo7179 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    aaaaaarh bafwethu!!!! this presenter though it is what it is before it was what it was!!!!

  • @shantelm2013
    @shantelm2013 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mbali you deserve better

  • @gogomantabenionline2196
    @gogomantabenionline2196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hhay loosing a daimond while picking stones

  • @phemelopatrickkgopisisir9961
    @phemelopatrickkgopisisir9961 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    At times we men are selfish. Ngwana o mongwe mara

  • @sibongilenhlapo7562
    @sibongilenhlapo7562 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh modimo, may we raise girls that will never fight to keep a useless man who cheats.🥺🥂

  • @josephnaweng8449
    @josephnaweng8449 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Please tell mbali that I'm single n searching

  • @mx6477
    @mx6477 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    4 months bhudi liyahluleka boys alizame ukubuza abaphambili boys boys awusebenzi ngapho uyahlanya boy

  • @LifeWithSimvu
    @LifeWithSimvu ปีที่แล้ว

    For the fact that he feels so entitled without putting a ring on her finger, yho!! I don't understand why women put themselves through this.😢

  • @lindokuhleschomane8984
    @lindokuhleschomane8984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Duncan uyazibhayizela nje

  • @ntokozondlovu4237
    @ntokozondlovu4237 ปีที่แล้ว

    Neexy remind me of Taraji p Henson with this hairstyle

  • @blessingmusanxumalo144
    @blessingmusanxumalo144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Uyakuthanda umbali wena slima ulibele ilesisfebe esikumithele

  • @edmondmukuku7620
    @edmondmukuku7620 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mbali and Lerato meet each other 😂😂😂 can someone contact king ginger and ask him about those people rest in peace my man kkkkk

  • @david_ramoraswi1711
    @david_ramoraswi1711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    4 months to 4 years = disaster, loool

  • @delightmsimango6427
    @delightmsimango6427 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Vafana the boys 😂😂

  • @YvonneHungwe
    @YvonneHungwe 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    T shirt ka broe it's not make sure

  • @simmz..774
    @simmz..774 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ahhhh fumbling the bag again a big L

  • @damiensuresh8125
    @damiensuresh8125 ปีที่แล้ว

    This broke man doesn't appreciate a hard working woman who pays the bills and takes care of him and he still has the nerve to go get another woman pregnant

  • @samuellephuting2450
    @samuellephuting2450 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mbali find a batter man the guy don't deserve u

  • @sabinahriba1124
    @sabinahriba1124 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why do this men who come here are complaining about the women working and being busy as if they don't benefit from her working. It's not a crime to work as a woman.

  • @mirriamduiker7407
    @mirriamduiker7407 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a problem with south african men, how does someone be promiscuous and blame it on someone who works hard? is this how relationships are handled in SA

  • @igorconstanca3817
    @igorconstanca3817 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Roles reversed that is why most women cheat on their boyfriend and most of their reason is exactly the same as Duncan.

  • @GCvideos5383
    @GCvideos5383 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    now I see y he is unemployed🤣😅 he does not think for him self! how can you marry 2wifes while u are still wearing mrprice?

    • @Thabile4851
      @Thabile4851 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @carolthembelihleneta508
    @carolthembelihleneta508 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When watching this show kuyayangisa shame and according to culture our elders have failed us in terms of teaching us about isthembo

  • @Irvinmorumudi
    @Irvinmorumudi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lerato end up leaving me and m back with my wife

  • @WatchTheDroneTV
    @WatchTheDroneTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I got lost after 12:09 .....

  • @karisian1472
    @karisian1472 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Presenter💯👌🧡

  • @PhumzilePhumza-p2v
    @PhumzilePhumza-p2v ปีที่แล้ว

    😂😂 this is a joke hey,the guy he's not working😂😂 but ufuna sthembu ayibo

  • @ntuthukongcobo3361
    @ntuthukongcobo3361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mrs girl🤣🤣🤣

  • @faithgift
    @faithgift 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bannaaaaa🙌

  • @mlindelibright6058
    @mlindelibright6058 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can you bring back these episodes

  • @simphiwengwenya4337
    @simphiwengwenya4337 ปีที่แล้ว

    for sure that "Koloi" is mbalis car .🙂🙂 mbali accept what? please don't do this to yourself lala, am sure you can find a guy who you studying with 😳😳he doesnt even have the money to raise that baby .....oh my goshhhh

  • @peacekwenda8299
    @peacekwenda8299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Can you translate 😔

  • @gloriamotsemme8434
    @gloriamotsemme8434 ปีที่แล้ว

    INJA lomfana on the other side he is unemployed. Mbali should leave this ungrateful immature & irresponsible person. How do you propose to a side chick with a ring bought by another lady... There is no future🤞🤞🤞🤞

  • @samuellephuting2450
    @samuellephuting2450 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Some guys are useless hay i wish Mbali can find a batter Man

  • @sithobisomoyo9628
    @sithobisomoyo9628 ปีที่แล้ว

    Duncan is not serious , ufaka kanjani 2 women in 1 house hayibo iba yindoda mfethu , buy your mistress her own house angithi ufuna isithembu...isithembu sifuna amadoda angempela...Duncan usadlala icat n mouse

  • @PeakanyoSethobya
    @PeakanyoSethobya ปีที่แล้ว

    Mbali u don't deserve this Duncan guy