@@vyxenthemua unfortunately some women are in denial! We must take red signals in the beginning of relationship seriously and ask the other person if they are willing to stay committed inspite of all the situations and circumstances
Not only did he NOT want to get married, but she said more than once : He didn't want to marry ME. As soon as she understood that, she should've left him then.
Wow. He was mean to her when they met, said she nagged him for marriage then cell phone dies and made no other efforts to check on his pregnant wife? Too many negatives.
She shouldn't have nagged and been grateful and her outcome might've been different. She'll forever be single unless she changes. I'm married and my wife doesn't do anything this snoopy effer did.
she said he didn't want to marry her okay if he didn't want to marry you why would you expect a diamond ring on your wedding day that wasn't a special day to him because he never wanted to marry her in the first place so that was nothing for him to get a fake ring so you get with your beg for💯🤪 she's clueless.
She got mad and walked off at the end after saying she's done and wants to just coparent and he agreed but she really wanted him to say he wanted to make it work.That relationship was over when it started 😌
So true...he was mean and didnt like her from the start..she chased him down...forced him to marry her (which he stupidly did)...chased him down during the marriage which STILL didnt work and is surprised that he's mean at the end and STILL didnt want her. Im so confused how all these women on this show are so pathetic and desperate😬
I don't think it was that she wanted him to say he wanted to work it out .. I mean, she clearly stated, beforehand, that she was done.. I think this lady was just over everything after having all their marital/relationship woes replayed in the court room. It finally became painfully clear that this man didn't EVER actually want her.
@@Shellygrrl2573 First you can't force anyone to do anything. Second all the so called women are not women they just adult girls or if they are women they just don't have common scene plus they know what they doing so they ain't stupid. They just don't have common scene.
It was tough not having Judge Toler. While I miss her, I am starting to appreciate Judge Faith's approach. Judge Toler's Tolerisms were so powerful and memorable, but Judge Faith drops knowledge too. She's more subtle.
I don’t think he ever loved her. He just went through the motions and caved because he thought that’s what she wanted. He wasted this woman’s time. 🤦🏽♂️😒
She moved in with him because she had no where to go and never left. She pushed all this b.s. on him and he stupidly capitulated. She ignored his actions because she wanted to be a wife and mom by any means. So instead of being an appreciative wife, she nagged and ran him off.
@@jaycesmith7899 i agree..he didnt waste her time. SHE wasted HER time bc he told her from the beggining he did NOT want to marry her. How many times does a guy need to tell you he doesnt want you?
@@Shellygrrl2573 Many men fall victim to this also, especially entertainers and athletes. They get caught up with a nice body who only like them because of their money and status. These dudes couldn't pull before they had success, so red flags are ignored. They end up with trap babies, paying support and alimony and being miserable. She ignored them too.
@@jaycesmith7899 oh people see that all the time..with athletes and generally well off successful men. Its a damn shame people just cant be with someone who loves them the same as the other.
@@Shellygrrl2573 It's pushed on "reality" tv and in music especially rap. "Get the bag" is all this generation of women hear and perpetuate and it's a scary thought because I have 2 successful teen sons. I push heavy vetting and focus on discernment with their peers but especially with females. I'm a 6 fig dude in the south, I get plenty of attention but it's only because of my earnings. I go home to my wife because she's been there before I had anything.
I think people are saying "pressured" because, in 5yrs, he hasn't even acted like he wanted to marry her, but sis still chose to nag him and gave him an ultimatum... if it's about your time not being wasted, then you need to just go.. after 5yrs and not even a HINT at marriage, but he wants to pump a baby into you, your time is already being wasted - it's time to skidaddle.
A perfect example of dating/marrying someone you actually like. What's the purpose in pushing someone toward marriage when you can't even stand each other? You want to be married that badly
I think he did fall in love with her cos he just doesn't seem like the type of person you can force into anything. When you're cheating you'll treat one person nicely and the other like crap. I don't think he seriously wanted to lose her cos at the very end when she was saying it was over, he said maybe they can make it work. Just glad they both agreed to be the best co-parents. I keep thinking he'll end up missing her and at the end of the day they'll get back together.
He gives me downlow vibes, anybody else? His body language, hand gestures, the way he talk and how sly sassy he was from the beginning. He was content with shackin up & having a kid & eventually marrying her but it feels like it’s for a straight image!!! He loves her but not as a lover. & no sex in 3yrs.. he got a man on the side and finally exploring that side if he haven’t before. Maam coparent and exit, bc this was all doomed from the start!
You're married to a person and haven't had sex in 3 years? Yeah he's definitely cheating, you forced yourself into the relationship, he's been checked out, doesn't love you I doubt he ever did and they both a little slow
Paying attention from the beginning, it was her forcing him into a marriage that I honestly don't think that he really wanted and the result is that they are in divorce court.
Agree. What is baffling is that he never wanted to marry her, he isn't attracted to her so why did he marry her in the 1st place. I don't care how much someone badgers me I ain't marrying you.
@@msp9810 Exactly! But im stuck on the part where she said, he told her to her face he didn't want to marry her. Who wants to force a guy into marriage when he just said he doesnt want you? Is she that desperate bc it looks like it and this whole mess is HER fault and now they brought a baby into it. Wheres her mom at? Lol...id never let my daughter come off so pathetic..smh
He didn't even want the RELATIONSHIP, let alone the marriage.. he was mean to her, from jump, and she still pushed to give him another chance. Sis should've been like ✌🏾😐✌🏾 "OK, bye!" from day one.
Don’t get into relationships with someone who doesn’t even *like* you. He seems to be repulsed by her and made every excuse to not be in her presence. How embarrassing!
I never agree with the idea that a person is "pressured" into being in a relationship because the other person desires to understand where their significant others mindset is. You can always say no to the relationship, if you're not ready for marriage. 🤷🏾♀️
Well its like Nature mate, if you don't go after what you want meaning pursuing then you will never get what you want. Its not about being open minded or love its about common scene have the scene to know if this person not right then leave don't stay get the hell away from them, that's how I found my mate and I'm glade because my mate treat me like a goddess and we do everything together.
She so beautiful and deserves so much more. All the signs were there from beginning that this wasn’t going to work. I hope they’re able to have great co-parenting relationship for their baby boy.
They just co exiting, I don't see love or chemistry 😭😭😭😭. Some pple are literally together not to be alone .and that all , nothing more 🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
I believe she is truely in love with him, but he didn't seem to be ever have loved her. She probably was something that went too far. She seem to have been the one.pushing for commitment bad marriage. That's why I tell women don't propose to a man. Let him pursue you.
Started bad with him being 'mean', and she STILL pursuing him (I doubt if he made the move). Then they're living together for 5 years, and forcing him to buy the cow, or lose the milk (c'mon, if you have to force someone to marry you after 5 years of playing house......single ladies, learn from this, and don't be this desperate). And everything else that came after.....WHEW! Judge was right....total coldness!
Witness: if it wasn’t for me, they wouldn’t know each other Judge: oh we have you blame for this Defendant: yea I blame her Me: 🤦🏾♀️ Why they let these two get married.
I love judge faith. She's definitely pays attention to detail with everything.. Girl move on that man don't want you no more. U wasting time. I don't even think he wanted her from the beginning..
The narrative that men paint where it only matters if they are attracted to you is toxic and it’s because we’ve made it that way. Like they are the prize.
Trust me in this: If a man is ugly, it doesn't mean that he should consider all women as attractive. Sometimes it is "the ugly looking men are the ones who have high expectations" 😂 🤣 World is complex. Many don't compare things with themselves. Say. I have just $5 dollars in my bank. My brain will still not consider a person with $10 dollars as a rich person. In this girl's case, I feel that she deserves someone who will love and appreciate her. She is not unattractive at all. There will be definitely a gentleman who will find her attractive but unfortunately she settled forcibly with a guy who doesn't find her attractive at all. She did herself dirty. 😭
He was telling the truth about not physically cheating on her...he looked straight at the judge when he gave his answer. But when he was questioned about an ex calling under the niece's name....he looked everywhere BUT at the judge. He was lying then. Checked out of the marriage? Pssshh....he never checked into it! I personally think he swings the other way and that's why he was no longer attracted to her.
@@mechielehardwick2844 Right...plus some of his movements in court had me questioning....I mean, if he is, so be it. It would just explain why he never really fell in love with her or wanted to marry her. He didn't even want the baby...not really.
Smh he didn't like you or even love you from the beginning...but he'll regret it bcuz no female out here will take his bullshit...unless he sleeping with his homeboy...
Mean when you met him, questionable interactions with ex-yet you married, and procreated with this person?! He’s told you in MANY different ways he didn’t/doesn’t want you!
He want a child and she want a marriage. They tried! He tried to avoid all that baby mama drama for 40 years and lucked up got a single woman no children without all the baby daddy drama. They both nice people just did not work out he really not attracted to her at all.
"It's in a woman's nature to demand good treatment." -Hon. Elijah Muhammad Being treated well and with respect must be a non-negotiable prerequisite if romantic relationship health is a goal. We give a man the perception of reality of who we are. Unfortunately, my sista allowed and accepted poor treatment in the beginning, which painted a picture for him that she will take anything. Hopefully, sis will take her lessons, learn from them, and move forward more empowered in knowing that she truly sets the standard for how people are allowed to treat her. All the best!
Do they even know each other... I’m confused as hell !!! She talking in circles he seems like he a lil slow ... and he just settled ... I guess unattractive ppl cheat to... ion get it
I was really surprised at the very end to see him say, maybe they can work it out. But she said kept saying it was over. I just felt really sad for her when she was saying she needs a minute. He married her so he was obviously in love with her, he just kept treating her bad cos she allowed it. I'm thinking they'll probably miss each other and get back together. For now they both need a break.
He's weak AF!!! After wasting five years living together she wanted a ring. He was too weak to just say no! She needs counseling or she'll never get past this relationship.
Her: “We haven’t had sex in three years” Him: “I’m not attracted to her” Me: “Chileee this about to be GOODT “😂 13 minutes later, they seem a little special 😑😑😬.
Because she's like an apple laying on the ground, desperate and begging to be picked up instead of being that Apple high up in the tree where it takes effort to get too!
He has a lot of excuses. I really believe you have to pay attention to what he says and definitely what he does. When you step back and quietly watch you can see everything you need to know. He knows he’s trifling
This two people are just confused human being, (he is mean to me I stayed, I don’t really love her but I still marry her). Just look at their excuses in both circumstances.
The Man don't even want the cooty cat. Ma'am, YOU allow him to treat you like that gadget placed in the back of the basement until the Owner finds what to do w/ it!! He never wanted you from the BEGINNING. He was mean from the BEGINNING. He left before it STARTED b/c it never started.
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" How many times did he have to tell you he didn't want you"
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"Never let a man tell you more than once that he doesn't want you!... Judge Lynn Toler
Didn't she also say " Don't do wife duties at girlfriend prices!" as well
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Exactly!!!
365 times plus 1
The judge said 'It seems like he has checked out of this relationship.', but to be honest it sounds like he had never checked in. Lol.
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Seriously!!!! He either needed a place to stay or she was his beard or sumn. Like he told her and showed her in so many ways that he didnt want her
@@vyxenthemua unfortunately some women are in denial!
We must take red signals in the beginning of relationship seriously and ask the other person if they are willing to stay committed inspite of all the situations and circumstances
Fact
She forced herself into this relationship. Even a blind person could have seen them headed to divorce court.. They both are a little slow!
Yes and what's sad is they are same amount of slow
@@Novakane78 🤣🤣🤣 THAT PART!
A lot of the guests act slow like that. I’m wondering where they find these ppl. 🥴
@@JCQNSH they find them on ValenTIME's Day
@@JCQNSH they stopped the short bus looking for participantes 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I can't even imagine marrying a man that doesn't want to be married. Don't you feel pathetic? I feel second hand embarrassment for her.
Low self esteem
No she just don't have common scene, she know what she doing period.
Not only did he NOT want to get married, but she said more than once : He didn't want to marry ME.
As soon as she understood that, she should've left him then.
@@mlm1916 He is lucky to get any queen. They are both too old for a 3 year old.
Never let a man tell you he doesn't want you twice..one red flag is enough
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You have the American Flag and it got Red on it, a Red Flag in American no Wonder its so backwards now.
Especially that red flag. 🚩
She can’t stop looking at him. She’s been in love this whole time but BY HERSELF 😢
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Hot mess.
So sad 😥
He was looking disgusted
He was looking disgusted
This man is obviously in a whole other relationship🤦🏾♀️it's sad
No doubt
Your projection is hilarious!!!
@@Mariatheemermaid I wrote that same thing just now.... and i didn't even read your comment.
@@jackieagard537 lmaoo okay so I’m not tripping
He's in a whole nother relationship with a man. She's his beard but she just doesn't know it
Wow. He was mean to her when they met, said she nagged him for marriage then cell phone dies and made no other efforts to check on his pregnant wife? Too many negatives.
She shouldn't have nagged and been grateful and her outcome might've been different. She'll forever be single unless she changes. I'm married and my wife doesn't do anything this snoopy effer did.
@@jaycesmith7899 What would you do if your wife decided to cheat on you with a girl?
@Candy L : Mean from Day 1‼️
It’s not rocket 🚀 science sis 🤦🏾♀️. You said it, “he’s not into you.” Let this bruh go on his merry way, pick your head up and get on your grind!!!
she said he didn't want to marry her okay if he didn't want to marry you why would you expect a diamond ring on your wedding day that wasn't a special day to him because he never wanted to marry her in the first place so that was nothing for him to get a fake ring so you get with your beg for💯🤪 she's clueless.
@@34Nails 😭🤦🏾♂️
She got mad and walked off at the end after saying she's done and wants to just coparent and he agreed but she really wanted him to say he wanted to make it work.That relationship was over when it started 😌
So true...he was mean and didnt like her from the start..she chased him down...forced him to marry her (which he stupidly did)...chased him down during the marriage which STILL didnt work and is surprised that he's mean at the end and STILL didnt want her. Im so confused how all these women on this show are so pathetic and desperate😬
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I don't think it was that she wanted him to say he wanted to work it out .. I mean, she clearly stated, beforehand, that she was done.. I think this lady was just over everything after having all their marital/relationship woes replayed in the court room. It finally became painfully clear that this man didn't EVER actually want her.
@@Shellygrrl2573 First you can't force anyone to do anything. Second all the so called women are not women they just adult girls or if they are women they just don't have common scene plus they know what they doing so they ain't stupid. They just don't have common scene.
@@jjohnson6382 half of everything u said was illegible but..sure. Ok. And i agree..they are little girls
It was tough not having Judge Toler. While I miss her, I am starting to appreciate Judge Faith's approach. Judge Toler's Tolerisms were so powerful and memorable, but Judge Faith drops knowledge too. She's more subtle.
true had the same reaction
Yeah she’s growing on me!
Judge Faith is a wise woman… i appreciate her sound and sometimes very biting evidence…
I don’t think he ever loved her. He just went through the motions and caved because he thought that’s what she wanted. He wasted this woman’s time. 🤦🏽♂️😒
She moved in with him because she had no where to go and never left. She pushed all this b.s. on him and he stupidly capitulated. She ignored his actions because she wanted to be a wife and mom by any means. So instead of being an appreciative wife, she nagged and ran him off.
@@jaycesmith7899 i agree..he didnt waste her time. SHE wasted HER time bc he told her from the beggining he did NOT want to marry her. How many times does a guy need to tell you he doesnt want you?
@@Shellygrrl2573 Many men fall victim to this also, especially entertainers and athletes. They get caught up with a nice body who only like them because of their money and status. These dudes couldn't pull before they had success, so red flags are ignored. They end up with trap babies, paying support and alimony and being miserable. She ignored them too.
@@jaycesmith7899 oh people see that all the time..with athletes and generally well off successful men. Its a damn shame people just cant be with someone who loves them the same as the other.
@@Shellygrrl2573 It's pushed on "reality" tv and in music especially rap. "Get the bag" is all this generation of women hear and perpetuate and it's a scary thought because I have 2 successful teen sons. I push heavy vetting and focus on discernment with their peers but especially with females. I'm a 6 fig dude in the south, I get plenty of attention but it's only because of my earnings. I go home to my wife because she's been there before I had anything.
After 5 yrs its not being pressured to be married ..its dude you can't be wasting my time
Exactly
wise words from a decent man
Thank you. I don't know where everyone is getting "pressured" from.
I think people are saying "pressured" because, in 5yrs, he hasn't even acted like he wanted to marry her, but sis still chose to nag him and gave him an ultimatum... if it's about your time not being wasted, then you need to just go.. after 5yrs and not even a HINT at marriage, but he wants to pump a baby into you, your time is already being wasted - it's time to skidaddle.
Kevin samuels says it best after the 3rd date find out if he looking to marry, if not don't waste your time
A perfect example of dating/marrying someone you actually like. What's the purpose in pushing someone toward marriage when you can't even stand each other? You want to be married that badly
I think he did fall in love with her cos he just doesn't seem like the type of person you can force into anything. When you're cheating you'll treat one person nicely and the other like crap. I don't think he seriously wanted to lose her cos at the very end when she was saying it was over, he said maybe they can make it work. Just glad they both agreed to be the best co-parents. I keep thinking he'll end up missing her and at the end of the day they'll get back together.
He gives me downlow vibes, anybody else? His body language, hand gestures, the way he talk and how sly sassy he was from the beginning. He was content with shackin up & having a kid & eventually marrying her but it feels like it’s for a straight image!!! He loves her but not as a lover. & no sex in 3yrs.. he got a man on the side and finally exploring that side if he haven’t before. Maam coparent and exit, bc this was all doomed from the start!
I get those same vibes
@@simply_thegreatone3663 I knew I wasn’t trippin 🤦🏾♀️
@@smittynumba9310 nah your Spidey Senses on tact!!! Definitely gay
He gay AF!
We was doing “MAN STUFF” who tf says that?
"I trust you" is better than "I love you" you can always love the person you trust.
ELLA totally agree
Yep
@@julinalilly7439 WTH? Lol
That was brilliantly said
This hit hard!!! So very true!!!
The relationship was a problem from the start it sounds like.
His ass got another family on the other side of town sis 😂
You're married to a person and haven't had sex in 3 years? Yeah he's definitely cheating, you forced yourself into the relationship, he's been checked out, doesn't love you I doubt he ever did and they both a little slow
Judge Toler would say this is a hot ghetto mess! 😪😌😱
i miss her so much!
@@AndyinMTL me too but she is above these raggedy episodes
😒 u still can watch her she in marriage boot camp reality stars going off in they mental ass
Paying attention from the beginning, it was her forcing him into a marriage that I honestly don't think that he really wanted and the result is that they are in divorce court.
Agreed
Agree. What is baffling is that he never wanted to marry her, he isn't attracted to her so why did he marry her in the 1st place. I don't care how much someone badgers me I ain't marrying you.
@@msp9810 Exactly! But im stuck on the part where she said, he told her to her face he didn't want to marry her. Who wants to force a guy into marriage when he just said he doesnt want you? Is she that desperate bc it looks like it and this whole mess is HER fault and now they brought a baby into it. Wheres her mom at? Lol...id never let my daughter come off so pathetic..smh
Uhh he has a mouth and feet he could say no and bounce like he did for a whole 21 hours
He didn't even want the RELATIONSHIP, let alone the marriage.. he was mean to her, from jump, and she still pushed to give him another chance. Sis should've been like ✌🏾😐✌🏾 "OK, bye!" from day one.
Don’t get into relationships with someone who doesn’t even *like* you. He seems to be repulsed by her and made every excuse to not be in her presence. How embarrassing!
True, it's her fault, and they should have never got married.
Him never like her from the beginning, so sad.
I think she knew that, but decided to get married anyways. Low self esteem!
@@dunkinjunkie5868 well she also said he was pressuring her about having a baby.
@@brishaberries0101 no one can make you have a baby unless you want a baby!
@@dunkinjunkie5868 right
I never agree with the idea that a person is "pressured" into being in a relationship because the other person desires to understand where their significant others mindset is. You can always say no to the relationship, if you're not ready for marriage. 🤷🏾♀️
Well its like Nature mate, if you don't go after what you want meaning pursuing then you will never get what you want. Its not about being open minded or love its about common scene have the scene to know if this person not right then leave don't stay get the hell away from them, that's how I found my mate and I'm glade because my mate treat me like a goddess and we do everything together.
Why would she hang around when he treats her like trash
She so beautiful and deserves so much more. All the signs were there from beginning that this wasn’t going to work. I hope they’re able to have great co-parenting relationship for their baby boy.
He does not love her! She wanted to be married… sad
Divorce Court make me not wanna date ever again
Right? LoL 😂
Exactly 😂
I feel the same way
No. Just date people that actually like you. It’s not hard. Some men actually like you all but you don’t care lol
Yo facts 😅😅
They just co exiting, I don't see love or chemistry 😭😭😭😭. Some pple are literally together not to be alone .and that all , nothing more 🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
I believe she is truely in love with him, but he didn't seem to be ever have loved her. She probably was something that went too far. She seem to have been the one.pushing for commitment bad marriage. That's why I tell women don't propose to a man. Let him pursue you.
Why do people who stayed together bring up each other's shortcomings when it's time to end things
Because ,they want you to see ,the red flags,while ,they seen them ,and ignored!
Bitter their love didn’t change them
They want to cause hurt and embarrass the other person.
Shortcomings?
Started bad with him being 'mean', and she STILL pursuing him (I doubt if he made the move). Then they're living together for 5 years, and forcing him to buy the cow, or lose the milk (c'mon, if you have to force someone to marry you after 5 years of playing house......single ladies, learn from this, and don't be this desperate). And everything else that came after.....WHEW! Judge was right....total coldness!
True brother 👍
Sis made the best decision walking away. This man is no good. Move on sis. There is a man out there for you
No good!? He took her in, took care of her and she was unappreciative in the end.
@@JESS-di1fm 😆😂🤡
This man is so pathetic. He been shown his true colors from when they first met. The excuses he making I just can't.
Shes the pathetic one
Witness: if it wasn’t for me, they wouldn’t know each other
Judge: oh we have you blame for this
Defendant: yea I blame her
Me: 🤦🏾♀️
Why they let these two get married.
Judge Lynn would have empowered this woman. I truly miss her 😩
This is so true😌this women really needed some type of motivation speech
Judge Faith keeps putting women down instead of helping them as if when they get played it's their fault too. Smh
She would have given her her book and everything and lit into that messy dude
OMG 😲no sex no marriage for 3 years. It's over
I love judge faith. She's definitely pays attention to detail with everything.. Girl move on that man don't want you no more. U wasting time. I don't even think he wanted her from the beginning..
"This man doesn't even want to date me. I think I should marry him and have his baby." 🤦🏾♀️
Yes just crazy
Go where you're celebrated not tolerated.
Sweet statement 👍❤️
Him:”I’m not attracted to my wife anymore”
Me:”sir you’re not attractive”🥴
The narrative that men paint where it only matters if they are attracted to you is toxic and it’s because we’ve made it that way. Like they are the prize.
Trust me in this:
If a man is ugly, it doesn't mean that he should consider all women as attractive.
Sometimes it is "the ugly looking men are the ones who have high expectations" 😂 🤣
World is complex.
Many don't compare things with themselves.
Say. I have just $5 dollars in my bank. My brain will still not consider a person with $10 dollars as a rich person.
In this girl's case, I feel that she deserves someone who will love and appreciate her. She is not unattractive at all. There will be definitely a gentleman who will find her attractive but unfortunately she settled forcibly with a guy who doesn't find her attractive at all. She did herself dirty. 😭
@@brittanyr1456 exactly like sir you need to keep yourself up too😂
@@cynthiajosiej1833 agreed...he’s still ugly & can’t have who he truly wants even when he leaves her😂💯
Buuuurrrrnnnn! I luv ur comment.
He was telling the truth about not physically cheating on her...he looked straight at the judge when he gave his answer. But when he was questioned about an ex calling under the niece's name....he looked everywhere BUT at the judge. He was lying then.
Checked out of the marriage? Pssshh....he never checked into it! I personally think he swings the other way and that's why he was no longer attracted to her.
I kinda feel like that too. Only time he was happy is when he mentioned man stuff and his friends.
@@mechielehardwick2844 Right...plus some of his movements in court had me questioning....I mean, if he is, so be it. It would just explain why he never really fell in love with her or wanted to marry her. He didn't even want the baby...not really.
Judge Faith will be fired once her contract is over.
GREAT advice Judge Faith!!! Get it girl
Smh he didn't like you or even love you from the beginning...but he'll regret it bcuz no female out here will take his bullshit...unless he sleeping with his homeboy...
I was getting some vibes while he was talking. I was like 🤔
Ooh that was a power packed statement sis!
Judge Faith will be fired once her contract is over.
The cases get worse and worse! Sad! That these situations happen better to be alone!!!!
Mean when you met him, questionable interactions with ex-yet you married, and procreated with this person?! He’s told you in MANY different ways he didn’t/doesn’t want you!
I don't think she has to worry about another WOman.
Exactly what I was about to type😂😂😂
I just commented that under somebody else's post
Yesssssss, I just peeped that.
@@sweetsweet81 lol happens to me all the time.
@@ChristalClearCarma girl....he got to rolling his neck a little....🚩🚩🚩🚩
So who’s gonna tell her he’s batting for the other team ? Cuz baby it’s evident.
I hope she heals..she's going to make the right one very happy. Very amazing lady.
This post hurt. He dont love her. He just made a baby. He realized he stuck paying child support.
He want a child and she want a marriage. They tried! He tried to avoid all that baby mama drama for 40 years and lucked up got a single woman no children without all the baby daddy drama. They both nice people just did not work out he really not attracted to her at all.
Oh, after he said he wasn't attracted to her anymore...that would have been it...no more conversation, just done💯
Yes
Lady good that you leaving. His cheating,he left the marriage long time ago. He is not inlove with you at all. Move on. Love is out there
Sounds like he wasn’t down for the marriage at all in the first place
Tbh I’m not even mad at this dude because for the most part he told you how he was from the beginning! We can’t make people want us!!!
Smh she wasn’t 9 months or nothing smh really?? She could’ve went into labor early!
All three judges are awesome Very smart and knowledgeable.
He gotta be slow. Too indecisive. Make a decision and stick with it.
The way he looked at her at the end when she walked off really made me burst out laughing 😅🤣😂
Don’t let a man have to tell he doesn’t want you more than once …
"It's in a woman's nature to demand good treatment." -Hon. Elijah Muhammad
Being treated well and with respect must be a non-negotiable prerequisite if romantic relationship health is a goal. We give a man the perception of reality of who we are. Unfortunately, my sista allowed and accepted poor treatment in the beginning, which painted a picture for him that she will take anything. Hopefully, sis will take her lessons, learn from them, and move forward more empowered in knowing that she truly sets the standard for how people are allowed to treat her. All the best!
The Woman is beautiful! She deserves better.
ROTF! Woo, I needed that. Thanks!
Him being mean to her when they first met should have told her not to mess with him
The fact that she kept repeating that "he didn't want to marry me" and still chose to marry him baffles me
Do they even know each other... I’m confused as hell !!! She talking in circles he seems like he a lil slow ... and he just settled ... I guess unattractive ppl cheat to... ion get it
Unattractive to you. But confusion nonetheless.
His eyes and head clearly show that he's lying + i've only seen seconds of the video -.-
Right? Somehow it doesn't seem to matter tho because they're going their separate ways.
Damn....I caught that too!!!
Judge Faith will be fired once her contract is over.
She repeats the fact that he didn’t want to be married. You can’t make anyone do what they don’t want to do. You deserve better 🏃♀️
He is too slow to be so picky 😂
2:32 What in the Alfonso Ribeiro is going on up in here Judge!?
Don't marry over an idea or pressure either boss up or move on
Agreed, he should've had some grapefruits to tell her to gone get.
You get what you ask for...smh
I dont think she needs to worry about him with another woman.......😬🧐
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This dude is definitely cheating.
Brother on the down low!!!
Right
The relationship was doomed from the beginning. It was forced. Loneliness is real and makes people desperate and settle for less. 🤦🏾♀️SMH
I Believe This Man Is Sweet !!!
Exactly!
@@briteinwilson8148 I'm glad I'm not the only one that noticed it
He had to make it clear “man stuff”😅
😂😂 he seem a little sweet to me
That was questionable
He moving that neck isn’t he
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🤣🤣
Judge Faith will be fired once her contract is over.
Does he have a speech impediment 🤷🏾♀️
The opening of them speaking of one another already showed me where this was going
So sad, he never wanted to be there. Its sad that she put herself in a relationship with a man that was abusive from the jump.
I was really surprised at the very end to see him say, maybe they can work it out. But she said kept saying it was over. I just felt really sad for her when she was saying she needs a minute. He married her so he was obviously in love with her, he just kept treating her bad cos she allowed it. I'm thinking they'll probably miss each other and get back together. For now they both need a break.
Marrying someone doesn't mean you love them. Some people settle to avoid being alone.
He got nerve! Bought her a trash ring, then buys himself 2 rings
This dude! This chic! Should have never been married.He’s so sorry and her ultimatum didn’t work.
He's weak AF!!! After wasting five years living together she wanted a ring. He was too weak to just say no! She needs counseling or she'll never get past this relationship.
18:42 No fault divorce itself normalizes disfunction. Shacking up and having premarital sex normalizes disfunction.
It has nothing to do with that, it's a myth obviously spread by religion which is as true as flying unicorns.
@@ScarlettRoseOfficial Everyone I know who's had premarital sex has gotten a divorce.
@@MiguelDLewis Everyone I know that has had is still married and going strong! (Including my grandparents and their friends, 50+ yrs marriages)
@@ScarlettRoseOfficial Good for them. If they don't pay in this life, may God have mercy on them in the next.
It’s him rolling his neck for me 🤣💁🏾♀️
That intro was deep 😩
Her: “We haven’t had sex in three years”
Him: “I’m not attracted to her”
Me: “Chileee this about to be GOODT “😂
13 minutes later, they seem a little special 😑😑😬.
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It appears she forced herself into his life....and she is extremely needy.
I just have a migraine watching this
they are both a mess. he made it clear he did not want her from the beginning and she just would not let him go.
You're the first woman I see that didn't come after him and see this for what it is. You give me hope.
@@jaycesmith7899 He could have just been a man about and broke it off 🤷
I feel like Judge Faith is on this mans side.
She's always on the man's side. I miss Judge Toler so much
Lies all lies he's mean and cruel why would you want this man 🤔
Because she's like an apple laying on the ground, desperate and begging to be picked up instead of being that Apple high up in the tree where it takes effort to get too!
@@missjackie7983 ooh I like that comment girl go head miss Jackie
I’m 6 minutes in and I ain’t hear them say “your honor” or “judge” not once 🤔 that’s a first
I cabt really feel sorry for her because she forced herself into marriage and he gave u a fake ring girl that should've been your time to go
She is beyond ridiculous
He doesn’t love her. I think relationships are like puzzle pieces. You can’t force two different pieces to go together if they do not want to.
You have to take a second and listen to what the man was telling you. He didn't want you in the beginning, middle or the end.
After some years it's not force
She is a beautiful woman inside and out.. she will be blessed and prosperous with a great man .
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Been over!!
He has a lot of excuses. I really believe you have to pay attention to what he says and definitely what he does. When you step back and quietly watch you can see everything you need to know. He knows he’s trifling
Actually he's not making any excuses at all he's being very honest
This two people are just confused human being, (he is mean to me I stayed, I don’t really love her but I still marry her). Just look at their excuses in both circumstances.
The Man don't even want the cooty cat. Ma'am, YOU allow him to treat you like that gadget placed in the back of the basement until the Owner finds what to do w/ it!! He never wanted you from the BEGINNING. He was mean from the BEGINNING. He left before it STARTED b/c it never started.
Smh this is sad I hope they find somebody else because they are not working at all.