A Drunk Hot Mess: Dezzie Rumph v Quintavious Hardeman Pt 2
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 มี.ค. 2023
- Dezzie says her fiancé is an alcoholic and is ready to call off the wedding if he doesn't change. Quintavious says he doesn’t need help and blames her mother for their quarrels!
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I couldn’t be with him after he left my daughter at school. That’s an automatic no. And then instead of apologizing he just acts as if his excuse is acceptable human behavior.
Exactly! The unmitigated gall!!!
💯 the babies gotta come first and if he’s not stepfather material why bother. Her and her daughter need to go
He's a disgrace, court jester
@@Passion85031 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 percentage
@@Passion85031 he's 27, he needs to learn his responsibility
His lack of self awareness is almost as bad as the alcohol
He’s not taking any accountability for his actions. There’s an excuse for everything and it’s never his fault.
@@paralegalkc It is HIS fault
You nailed it❤
@@paralegalkc OK! no accountability! You're right he thinks it's never his fault!
It's common addict behavior. He doesn't want to face that he has a problem
Ridiculous! When he left my sick daughter at school that would have been IT! He blames her for his alcoholism; BYE!
Exactly
The fact that he doesn't think throwing up at every event he attends is a problem is grounds to walk away. He's immature at lacks self-awareness.
Telling her to not listen to her family is textbook abuse
It's scary to think of how deeply this man has buried his behaviour into this young lady's head. The fact that he's done so much wrong over the span of 11 years, and it took a whole divorce court intervention to get her to finally take that ring off, wow 🤦🏿♀️ I hope she listened to everything the judge said, and never takes him back.
Of course 💔
A whole entire Divorce Court.. Part 1 & 2!!! It's terrifying to witness a beautiful young woman willing to accept the absolute bottom of the barrel. This young man is living in the lowest of low social media delusions. I truly hope he gets some help.
She slow
Why would you want to marry someone like this…. He blames her and sees no wrong doing
On my worst day I can do better than this … girl please move on.. he’s a simpleton.
He’s such a drunk they didn’t even need part 2 but I’m all for it! 😎🍿
I BEEN waiting & peeping for 2 days for part 2...Y'all don't do us like that 😅
I said the same thing😂😂😂😂 I kept checking for part 2
Young man needs a wake up call.. He’s totally in denial. Drinking a pint of liquor a day.. Dangerous.
Miss Rumpf did the right thing for herself and her daughter…
I know right!!! Do we have a regular program set time for Judge Star??? Hmmm???
Right they had me stalking the page 😂😂
Exactly!!! I was mad yesterday 😂
Not the mom making sound effects when she threw the ring at him… the “bloop” had me weak 😂😂
😂😂😂I know right!!
Man is in complete denial. Talking bout in 11 years he knows her in & out...look at what he has put her through in those 11 years. He's not bringing out her best self, he's slowly damaging her growth and the safety of her child
His "Wow" and "that's crazy" responses make me sick.
Her King? Her King? Sorry. Not even a Pawn!😂😂😂
I had to bury a friend last year from cirrhosis of the liver. She used to say the same things!! “I can stop any time, it’s not my fault”!!!! He tripped me out when he said she won’t find better!! And he can stop anytime he wants.
He is not even cute then on top of it has disgusting behavior. He's already hard to look at then he's hard to be around as well🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤭
Exactly he need to come out the closet he got that side look like one
Thank you , you took the words right out my mouth .
He think this is a joke and so disrespectful to her mom. Nobody is allowed to talk to my mom like that
Right. He don’t respect her mom, her daughter, himself and I know we aren’t hearing the things he does directly too her. He needs help.
@@VashtiPerry facts
That's goes both ways
Exactly. He vomits everywhere he goes, including the church, her parents wedding anniversary, and the picnic. And not picking up her child
I'm so glad she listened to her mama and is putting her child's life, and ultimately her own, before her relationship. If she hadn't, and they got into a car with this 🥷 behind the wheel....they wouldn't be alive. He kept claiming that he could stop at any time....but he didn't. He never stopped. He doesn't even see a problem....and that's a HUGE problem. He's not going to change. At all.
He's married to the alcohol. That's his lover.
Yes, Miss Lady! Choose you and your daughter!
WOW! the Mom's look said EVERYTHING! I LAUGHED OUT LOUD! she NEED! to take him back to the corner & LET HIM GO!
The fact that he says he can stop, but doesn't think all of these episodes of drunken foolishness are reason enough to stop is a problem
He drinks a lot of WATER😂😂😂😂
fire-water
It’s the fact that he seems so flabbergasted at their reactions 🤦🏻♀️
Judge star read him for filth and I love it😂😂😂
The part that really did it for me was when he said, "Her mom started yellin at me for NO REASON!" BOY.....if you don't even feel even a little guilt for that, you are too broken to be fixed. Throw the whole man-child away!
Drinking before church. Throwing up at church. Throwing up at family events. Getting a CPS case opened on me. We would have been over. I hope he comes to the light soon. Alcoholism is taking over him
I never knew that there is such thing as a “Pre-TurnUp”😂
And he says it like it’s a real thing.
It's is. I do that sometimes but not drunk smh. Mature
😂
He lost his family because he was unwilling to admit his problem was affecting the day to day life. He was an embarrassing mess and he did not show up as a functioning responsible adult. He wanted everyone to overlook major public behavior that caused problems for everyone in the community around him. He still called himself King when he was not acting King like. He never tried to fix any problem outside of saying she should have done it herself. He is a liability not an asset.
What family? Child is not his.
@@persephone2268 🙄 He doesn’t have to be the father . They were trying to be a family before his poor behavior ruined the relationship.
Her poor behaviour left her child with no father. She is worse than him.
@@persephone2268is it crack or meth that’s helping you out these sentences together?
Girl you didn’t need to be on divorce court to tell you that you don’t still need to be in that disaster of a relationship
The child has seen this behavior for 10 yrs!!! SAD. I pray he gets help 🥴😩
The child is 6
He is embarrassing. Not sure why he doesn’t have a problem with how he is choosing to behave and represent himself. Liquor or not he has a choice on what he consumes and how he acts. Hope she sees he is not taking responsibility for his own actions, he doesn’t think he needs to change because “everyone is doing it” smh RUNNN Sis
Correct!!! He is not even sorry for his behavior but continue to make excuses !!!
It's in his eyes,poor child.
Jesus, help this young man. He doesn't know how far he is gone.
You can legit see it in his face and eyes how it's affecting him. This breaks my heart to see how far into the addiction he is. I hope he's able to come out of it.
He thinks he’s being charming. It’s disgusting.
Yes he looks like a alcoholic!!
Thank God - She picked her child over "The Town's Local Drunk". Please Don't Take Him Back - At All. He had over 50/11 times to redeem himself. EPIC FAILURE 🚨🚨🚨.
vomiting multiple times lmfaooo this is some peter griffin in the flesh
Girl, don’t walk. Run away! He’s not mature enough to take care of you, your child and his drinking problem.
You can play a drinking game. Drink each time he says I CAN STOP ANY TIME😂😂😂😂😂
He's a total embarrassment, if she chooses to stay she deserves all that comes her way by dealing with him. His Flag is redder than her jacket.
Exactly
He never apologized once. He clearly thinks that time means staying with him. 11 years of trauma. Hell nahhh
He looks completely sanitized 😅😂😂 wake up bruuuh
You know it's real when they couldn't put the video up for everyone to see 🤦🏾♂️
He's so deep into his denial and his alcoholism !!! It is so sad. He is just not ready...😩😯😳
"Denial is a river in Egypt"😅
*Whew* I’d been WAITING for the part 2. The way the mom came walking in there like 👀 had me choking on my salad 😂🤣 This dude has 0 redeeming qualities and is a walking liability.. Personally, I would have been done after the school incident with the daughter, but that’s just me.. Listen to your mom! She knows what’s good🤘🏾
She ain’t have to throw the ring. I hope he gets therapy or coaching and goes to AA. I’m glad she decided to leave.
Yep! Throw dat in di trash an don't look back
Nope the ring needed to be thrown! He could’ve gotten her child taken away
Finally! A young lady with the courage to walk away! Choose her child over a man! Realize he ain't her only option! And by doing so, she's already in a better position leaving than when she walked into the courtroom!
Hats off to ya! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Mrs. Thomas coming into the courtroom with that “I am going to kick his ass” look. And I know that respecting the courtroom decorum is important, but if I was Judge Star, I would allow Mrs. Thomas to do it.
I'm dead🤣 but facts
Considering how disrespectful he was towards her mom during the courtroom an during the family function, an her child really he lucky no one beat him, wished she slammed dunk that ring into the trash
The alarm bells are ringing so loudly. The man is costing her custody of her daughter.
Just from the things we’ve been told, think about how many things we haven’t seen. How much more does he have to let you down and embarrass you before you let it go.
He must be a completely different person when he sober and she holding on to that
@@Lboogie0101 When my brother was sober, he was the sweetest kind of guy very very smart but when he was drunk, I did not know who this ferocious wild beast was I get what you’re saying
Round of applause for this brave woman who had the strength to stand up for her and her daughter! It CAN be done!!! I wish her and her little girl all the best!!!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
My question is why does she want him? Something is wrong with her too but she sitting here putting him down about his issues.
Why were there 2 parts? After the child being left at the school and the fiasco at church, it should have been a wrap. He’s incorrigible and she needs to leave him alone. He’s toxic and gross.
The way he came to the school looking disheveled and creepy 😵💫😵💫😵💫
Girl!!! When they showed the picture of him in that torn up T-shirt, and then too small sweatpants, I hollered I screamed so loud. It was hard for me to continue to watch this. It’s cringe was a person it would be him.
@@paralegalkc right! And he was around her daughter 😵💫😑
I lost a close friend and co- worker to alcoholism and spent years trying to help her but to no avail. The sad part is dude is one of those people that will either die from his alcoholism or worse kill someone else .I really hope the young lady has the strength and support of family and friends to stay away from this dude.
Just from what happened in this episode, she should have left him before coming to court.
Star is just so pretty and classy. The older she gets, the more graceful she becomes. 🕊
I used to be like the defendant in terms of drinking everyday. It's been 7 years since I had a drink.
Her saying he can’t get it together yet still preparing and planning for a wedding… I don’t understand, you’re willingly choosing to tie yourself down with a drunk nuisance!
Out of respect for the court Mama Thomas had to hold her tongue on what she really wanted to call him...tell me you don't like someone without telling me you don't like soneone
Baby there were so many words on the tip of her tongue that she knew she couldn’t say on tv but we knew. We saw. 😂
@@Des_fitness exactly💯
His terrible behavior is awful and still drinking, he needs to go to a facility
Part 2 of the foolishness
exactly why even bother bringing him to court
Dude is acting like the court jester!
I am sooo happy she walked away, he is sick,he needs help, but, he is not willing to take the help that is offered to him
How do you keep throwing up in public places and saying it isn't a big deal????
Ooof I haven't met one person who married an alcoholic and later said, " You know that chaos was so worth it"
He keeps talking about everyone else drinking, it's not our problem if you can't control it. If someone offers you a drink, say no if you don't want to or can't, if you're tempted, get something else. Go get help, sir.
This one needs a follow up!!!!! Did she really leave that 🤡...what a bona fide bum....
Probably not! These girls these days all they want is a man and they don’t care if it’s a piece of man just as long as they can say they got a man😂
Is this guy serious? Pre turn up? Only at the club in the 1980’s and 1990’s
This girl has some serious low self esteem to keep letting him humiliate her and himself!!! She needs some help to love herself and require better!!
I just pray that she sticks to her decision. That’s where the work starts.
Homie looks like he just had a taste in the green room
I love this show
17:31 BLOOP 😂👏🏽💍
Whew ion think a man has ever pissed me off so much as this one smh THE NERVE of him smh
I'm in the UK and been waiting for this part 2. Woohoo
Her self worth and child comes first I’m glad she didn’t settle.
He’s smiling now, but he won’t be smiling when he on dialysis
She's strong for even putting up with that. HE needs help and she wants to get him help but he's very deep in his denial. I feel for her but hopefully she makes a good choice.
An Amazing Outcome! Very hard for Any Woman in Love to let go! She was Brave and had a Loving Family to support Her! That's what it takes...A LOVING FAMILY ❤
YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY CORRECT !!! A LOVING CARING FAMILY NOT A EVERYDAY ALCOHOLIC DEADBEAT!! 🙏
Girl I hope she leaks those forbidden courtroom videos Judge Star couldn’t show I need the Tea sis lol
If "in denial" was a person. Lord have mercy. Then he had the nerve to double down talking about he's a king. Judge Star had the right of it with the court jester analogy. I hope he reviews his episode (when he's ever sober) so he can really see how he appeared on the show. That might be the only thing to make him look in the mirror and change his ways.
I can’t be in a relationship with a alcoholic it’s very unattractive and he will never be able to an example to her child. Plus he is an embarrassment 🤦🏾♀️
If my name was Quintavious Hardeman I would stay drunk too.
When he said "King", I thought court jester. Judge Star was intuitively on point today. Then to make matters worse he was still in denial and downplaying. He needs help and male mentor.
My only question is why does she want him? I mean you brought him all the way to Starr to show how bad he acts but him acting bad reflects on her too since after all that she stayed. I really hope she heals herself and gets some self-respect and confidence in herself.
The face he made when momma walked in the court😂
This dude will puke on your wedding dress then be proud it's caught on video.
he give me he needed somewhere to live.. also when he started naming off he knows her favorite color, and food chile BYE SIR!
He sounds so ignorant. He is completely unaware of this problem.
He’s in denial bad he needs some serious help may God help him 😢😢
OMG😂😂😂when judge said looking like Chester the molester😂😂I had to rewind back to see the people on the monitors laughing at his picture😂😂that took me out and I know the judge saw them and wanted to laugh too when she took them glasses off!😂😂
I needed to add a comment. Iam so happy that she made the decision to walk away to make room for the right man to come into you and your daughter s life.
Please don’t get back into that.
Please please don’t even Consider returning unless he is cleaned and healed, that’s emotionally, physically, mentally, socially, All around! Choose better right now
🤦🏽♀️ if self esteem went on sale somewhere this girl would need to be among THE FIRST in line
That lady ENDURED THAT UNATTRACTIVE ALCOHOLIC FOR 11 YEARS?!?!?!?! It seems to me that SHE NEEDS SOME HELP; She should start with GAINING SOME EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE & SELF-ESTEEM. 🤐😱😖
Listen to your mother before you will regret it for the rest of your life!
I was married to a drunk trust me it was very embarrassing!!
Mom should not equate her worth as finding a better man. She should say you are worthy of having a better life without him.
I'm more mad at her than him. She is out here telling all these beyond EMBARRASSING story of a man she choose to be with, when she could have left his drunkard ass long ago before it even got to neglecting her child and vomiting in church.
Shame on her for tolerating such nonsense even when her child is involved ‼️😠
4:22 WE NEED TO SEE THE VIDEO. You may not have to show it on the courtroom monitor, but you can post the evidence on the Show’s social media page.
😂
He gave her that bubble gum ring to further manipulate her. I hope she doesn’t take him back.
I’m looking at her side eye. You know your dude is a drunk & took him to your family’s church anyway! Clearly she’s cool with his whole situation.
I'm madder at her than I am at him... !!! Why on earth would she stay with him for so long...?
She deserves better and her child does to. She is her child role model being an example for how she should behave and how she should handle issues. If she marry this active alcohol she is showing her child that this is exceptable
If she didn't call the wedding off. He would have showed up to their wedding drunk and threw up on her. That would have been their wedding picture. He needs to make a serious commitment to AA. Alcoholism is a real disease