Good advice from Jane if you’re marriage is abusive get out as soon as possible don’t wait for you’re partner to change you may not be lucky enough to survive!!!
Crazy person, he stayed isolating you. Good to hear you finally left, nobody deserves abuse here on earth. You have incredible genes, one can’t tell that your children are are adults with children! Wambui your dress is beautiful.
Been waiting for this all day...since the first video I watched yako wambui...sasa mazienda back to back zote umewahi fanya.... You are very patient.... Class ya Lynn Ngugi.... Nakupenda bure
Once Someone abuse you even before marriage, that's enough RED FLAG terminate that relationship immediately,That's how Narcissist behave,they don't like you to associate with anybody even your close relatives. A bad man he was!!
Wambui mii nishaa toroka uchii kwa jirani ndahurirwo giona space ya kuraa akinyita night dress gemeruta niguo nditharee can you imagine na ndiekiraga thiruarii gikoma believe me nilingia kwa jirani hivyo mzee wa jirani akatoka inje nikapewa lesso na hapo ndio ilikua mwisho ya my marriage up to day kuolewa ilinitoka but I thank God kids are big all na yeye alikufa yrs back marriage is hard nikikupee my story woii
I have learnt that 'not all that glitters is gold' don't be desperate to be with someone beautiful physically if the soul is rotten. True love is not obsession, where someone is not allowed to leave the house because their spouse is so insecure. This wasn't love, the guy was a psycho.. .
One thing we have to put in mind is that forgiveness doesn't mean you stay or go back to what hurt you.If a person demands you forgive them and then reinstate the relationship as before,that person isn't remorseful and just wants to hurt you the more.
Hmmmmm, women go through so many challenges, it is only by the grace of God that one survive and testify, Jane is very smart and bold, while Wambui is beautiful, patient and very smart, thank God for a happy ending, God bless you and MERRY CHRISTMAS too, 🌲🌲🌲🌲.
Though people think that the many things that happen in the family are normal and traditional I never advocate beating of an adult. You're both adults none of you is a father or a mother to the other so displain doesn't apply here. Bad manners people stop this madness. Don't allow yourself to get to this point, kiura ruga. Wambui thank you for job well done God bless you I love you and Merry Christmas to you. 🙏🙏🔥🔥🤗🤗🤭🤭
This is pain God help the people who are in a violence marriage or relationship.my opinion on such relationship is the first day you a slapped just left that relationship better stay single for the rest of your life and have peace than to be living big but in tears and abuse
I know mama Martin. We used to fellowship together. I didn't know she was going through hell. She is very strong and we'll composed while narrating her story. I salute you
So so sad how men treat women,sorry for what you went through mum,your story is similar to mine,i wouldn't go to the toilet at night,he would tell me I should go at around 8,alafu nkienda salon nichelewe jioni hiyo ni vita ati nilikua umalaya,anavuruta twists zinangooka,so much pain😢,no one was supposed to look at me coz alikua anasema ati ni wanaume wangu,I also couldn't use a phone ati ni ya umalaya,I wouldn't wear a tight dress or a trouser juu ni za umalaya,he would come at night and gawanyisha watoi anasema wenye wako named after his mum and dad ni wake lakini mwenye nimename after my mum si wake ni wa umalaya,drama after drama,yaani jina Malaya was a my second name.I wouldn't even go to the market ati naonyesha wanaume matako,it was drama after drama,one day nilichapwa vibaya sana and didn't go back home coz I was tired of going home Everytime with my three kids,my son was 10,he asked me a very mature question,and I qoute "mum kai wimukigu atia nikii wikaga guku na baba ndakwendete"😢this really hit me,and I started digesting all these and I didn't even finish a month after that incidence,I left and never went back till today,but after four years in our separation he died coz of excessive drinking and some drugs.Its been 8 yrs down the line now and I have phobia in getting into another marriage,I don't see the need.
That guy was sick,a narcissist why does it soo long for a woman to make a decision to move😢the moment a guy hits you once or even twice my sister run as fast as you can mwili haina spare part🙆♀️
i have followed this story and i have concluded that ...her mothers story repeated itself in her marriage life...that demonic altar was present in her marriage...i wish that she went to church and tithe before starting that marriage..well too late for her...but not for her daughter...she needs to break that covenant for the sake of her children
sorry for laughing aki its sad n hilarious ...thats a nerssist i lived exactly that life kuchapwa uchi .kuvunjwa mkono ...kuzima tv ...i left n am breathing again wah!!suffocation
@@luciangatia3367 usimuelezee..she is one of those protestants who think Catholics sio wa mungu .They forget that the catholic church was started by the apostles.Thats why its universal .We all belong to God.The moment Christ shed blood and water at calvary,He saved all of us.And provided you acknowledge that ,you are saved. Lets all worship in our own ways and leave judgement to God alone.He is the only perfect one.
I don’t blame Jane, but her story teach us that the abused is the person who continue to reenforce the abusers abusing behaviors. Never allow someone beat the second time….. the first time it may happen without your knowledge, but the second one? Noooooooo this is too much…..
Why would one tolerate abuse mm ata Kofi singojei my current guy seems very obsessive and jealous am already planning on an exit plan juu tuko in a long distance relationship mm Red flags am very keen
Any violence in marriage should not be tolerated, you are lucky you came out alive. The ist slap was a red sign. Man or woman should not abuse the other in either way. When it happens, kindly don just sit there and hope for a miracle.
Crazy story but interesting and sad. Wambui please stop rushing your guests, just give them time to give their stories fully. You seem to rush them or get tired listening or something.
When God is warning you about someone you will see this sign's 1, uneasiness, dissatisfaction,joy gives way, true nature comes to light, jeolousy, insincerity, frowardness, integrity becomes questionable 👈
Weeeeeh akh the first part was abit humourous ,,,the second one is painful slapped on your wedding day it's very painful ,,,think the red flag was the first slap she was slapped during dating
Just wondering why women would have such low self esteem to accept a man to treat them like shit in the name of "my husband" love yourself first so u don't have to put up with a man's shit, immediately a man starts mistreating u, he's no longer a his, he's your enemy. Start treating him as an enermy. If he puts a finger on u, hit him and leave.
Let me tell you men who obsess you are very dangerous. No 2 men who Don't talk but are able to express themselves when drunk are fierce animals. Now you know
Wewe huwa unachapwa??swali tu. Noone has a right to assault anyone. Kama bwanako anakuchapa na unavumilia, wewe jiulize kama wewe ni mtoto wakuchapwa, kids are disciplined but not grownups especially someone that loves you and is going to sleep with you. It very shameful
No one should lay their hands on another be it a man or woman,better to leave each other,too many killings in families,children shld not be left orphaned,long time u cldnt hear of such.
Have learned alot of lessons from your story,have laughed some parts ur hilarious,Jane i like your dress your smart.
Good advice from Jane if you’re marriage is abusive get out as soon as possible don’t wait for you’re partner to change you may not be lucky enough to survive!!!
Crazy person, he stayed isolating you. Good to hear you finally left, nobody deserves abuse here on earth. You have incredible genes, one can’t tell that your children are are adults with children! Wambui your dress is beautiful.
Annoited lady with a very BOLD heart,full of joy and life....This life is for the BOLD
The way she narrates her story . Funny n sad at the same time. She wet through alot. Najikuta nikicheka na kumhurumia at the same time.
Aki life ni safari ndefu na mapenzi hufanya mtu anapitia mengi.Thenks for sharing the story❤❤
This story is painful but the way you have shared it, it comes out so much as a lesson to learn in life and I love the hilarious part of you
😱! Forgiveness doesn't say you go back to the same relationship , it means you release the offender from your heart and be free .
Wambo , some time uwe ukiweka picture za hao wababa "tusi fill in love kwao
Unafall inlove na kila kitu bora inapumua
Aki Wambui this second part umeharakisha like you were impatient.too little time.
Hathawise she is an inspiration
Been waiting for this all day...since the first video I watched yako wambui...sasa mazienda back to back zote umewahi fanya....
You are very patient....
Class ya Lynn Ngugi....
Nakupenda bure
Once Someone abuse you even before marriage, that's enough RED FLAG terminate that relationship immediately,That's how Narcissist behave,they don't like you to associate with anybody even your close relatives. A bad man he was!!
Hope Jane will be advised to break failed marriage alters,it started with her mum ,then her,she should do it for the sake of her daughter
Gutire itathekagwo. Women we are strong. May God bless you Mama 🙏. May God meet the desires of your heart.
Reminder on 👌👌
Wambui mii nishaa toroka uchii kwa jirani ndahurirwo giona space ya kuraa akinyita night dress gemeruta niguo nditharee can you imagine na ndiekiraga thiruarii gikoma believe me nilingia kwa jirani hivyo mzee wa jirani akatoka inje nikapewa lesso na hapo ndio ilikua mwisho ya my marriage up to day kuolewa ilinitoka but I thank God kids are big all na yeye alikufa yrs back marriage is hard nikikupee my story woii
Huuie hata hayuko uhai🤔
🙊🙊you don't look like you have gone all through this mama coz you look great ...
I have learnt that 'not all that glitters is gold' don't be desperate to be with someone beautiful physically if the soul is rotten. True love is not obsession, where someone is not allowed to leave the house because their spouse is so insecure. This wasn't love, the guy was a psycho.. .
You know I’m thinking of the handsomeness she had seen…… scam
One thing we have to put in mind is that forgiveness doesn't mean you stay or go back to what hurt you.If a person demands you forgive them and then reinstate the relationship as before,that person isn't remorseful and just wants to hurt you the more.
@eunice Njeru that's very true...run away from any person who apologizes just to get you back
@@gracegachoka5411 yees
🙉🙉🙉🙉Ati ruhi chwaaa!!!njohi igithira mutwe,woooi
The story is very interesting though is painful
Waa nie maundu mangi ndugihota gukiriria maa.kwanja bara ndigihota ona hanini
Hmmmmm, women go through so many challenges, it is only by the grace of God that one survive and testify, Jane is very smart and bold, while Wambui is beautiful, patient and very smart, thank God for a happy ending, God bless you and MERRY CHRISTMAS too, 🌲🌲🌲🌲.
Wow, what a moving story 😯! Thank God that you survived that marriage. God was not done with you 💕❤️
Red Flags Is God's Language...Let's Learn This Language....
Waiting
Though people think that the many things that happen in the family are normal and traditional I never advocate beating of an adult. You're both adults none of you is a father or a mother to the other so displain doesn't apply here. Bad manners people stop this madness. Don't allow yourself to get to this point, kiura ruga. Wambui thank you for job well done God bless you I love you and Merry Christmas to you. 🙏🙏🔥🔥🤗🤗🤭🤭
This is pain God help the people who are in a violence marriage or relationship.my opinion on such relationship is the first day you a slapped just left that relationship better stay single for the rest of your life and have peace than to be living big but in tears and abuse
A wonderful story..be blessed
I know mama Martin. We used to fellowship together. I didn't know she was going through hell. She is very strong and we'll composed while narrating her story. I salute you
Eagerly waiting
Aki nimengoja hii finally....
Waiting sana
Hiki kimtu nacho si kinafight sana wooooi
Tiga arararia ee strong maundu mau nomagurukie Mundu 🙄🤔mundurume muuru biu niahuruke uhoro .
Waiting ohhh
Waiting on this
So so sad how men treat women,sorry for what you went through mum,your story is similar to mine,i wouldn't go to the toilet at night,he would tell me I should go at around 8,alafu nkienda salon nichelewe jioni hiyo ni vita ati nilikua umalaya,anavuruta twists zinangooka,so much pain😢,no one was supposed to look at me coz alikua anasema ati ni wanaume wangu,I also couldn't use a phone ati ni ya umalaya,I wouldn't wear a tight dress or a trouser juu ni za umalaya,he would come at night and gawanyisha watoi anasema wenye wako named after his mum and dad ni wake lakini mwenye nimename after my mum si wake ni wa umalaya,drama after drama,yaani jina Malaya was a my second name.I wouldn't even go to the market ati naonyesha wanaume matako,it was drama after drama,one day nilichapwa vibaya sana and didn't go back home coz I was tired of going home Everytime with my three kids,my son was 10,he asked me a very mature question,and I qoute "mum kai wimukigu atia nikii wikaga guku na baba ndakwendete"😢this really hit me,and I started digesting all these and I didn't even finish a month after that incidence,I left and never went back till today,but after four years in our separation he died coz of excessive drinking and some drugs.Its been 8 yrs down the line now and I have phobia in getting into another marriage,I don't see the need.
Thanks for sharing,me too watoto wangu alikua anasema sio wake nikamwambia ni watoto wangu na Mungu
cheers mum, i also went thru the same am strong now🌹
That guy was sick,a narcissist why does it soo long for a woman to make a decision to move😢the moment a guy hits you once or even twice my sister run as fast as you can mwili haina spare part🙆♀️
i have followed this story and i have concluded that ...her mothers story repeated itself in her marriage life...that demonic altar was present in her marriage...i wish that she went to church and tithe before starting that marriage..well too late for her...but not for her daughter...she needs to break that covenant for the sake of her children
Waooo pole and what we’re you really doing… l think l love myself soo much… you dont touch my body
Prisoner in marriage you cannot enjoy life you are strong woman and humble thank God you moved out of this prison
That was a sick guy 👦hata kama ni mapenzi,that was too much😡😰
Happy ending this is a true servant of God..she will heal marriages
Nice ending❤❤
Story of my life so much similarity but i thank God am alive....
Blessings from p.mwikali schmidt
Almost set an alarm for this
Waa what a painful testimony,aki hio nguvu ya kuchapwa huwa inatoka wapi 🥲
sorry for laughing aki its sad n hilarious ...thats a nerssist i lived exactly that life kuchapwa uchi .kuvunjwa mkono ...kuzima tv ...i left n am breathing again wah!!suffocation
🥺😳 kuvunjwaa mkonoo!!
Pole sana Linet! Congratulations on identifying abuse and finally leaving. Nobody deserves abuse here on earth.
Merry Christmas too
Ndio na watch leo nimechelewa
Wah apo kwa arusi nimecheka sana
Kaî mutangîakia kamuaki hau muote mukîria story😁😁😁
So sad,some men aki.
Pole sana Jane for all that you went through
Waaah! It's crazy how gender based violence is tolerated.
Huyu huwa ama mis kuchapwa
You went through that? Sorry for what you went through.
sometimes love is not only blind but also stupid.
But domestic violence should be totally condemned.
Dathiga catholic diari muhonoku. Mnaokolewa na church. Can you stop mentioning churches. Wengi wetu tumeokolewa na mungu sio church.
Onanii hau ndanangenia
Amen,she ment,she became a born again christian,she gave her life to Christ Jesus,best decision in life.
@@bethtoox9435 I know what she meant. I understand kikuyu my dear.
😂😂😂😂😂i just laughed it off.. it sounded like catholics arent christians....
@@luciangatia3367 usimuelezee..she is one of those protestants who think Catholics sio wa mungu .They forget that the catholic church was started by the apostles.Thats why its universal .We all belong to God.The moment Christ shed blood and water at calvary,He saved all of us.And provided you acknowledge that ,you are saved.
Lets all worship in our own ways and leave judgement to God alone.He is the only perfect one.
I don’t blame Jane, but her story teach us that the abused is the person who continue to reenforce the abusers abusing behaviors. Never allow someone beat the second time….. the first time it may happen without your knowledge, but the second one? Noooooooo this is too much…..
Merry Christmas Jane
Strong woman
You tauch me one day it's over. This is serious the guy was sick.
Wambui anaharakisha hii story
Hee wee niwahuraguo muno nawe ..ushio Ari muhurani njorua waah karibu Kila siku .me I can't, haiwezzzz
Living with a narcissist is so unpredictable,,,, every day new cases ,new accusations,,,,
Mimi na sagaaa sana nini watu hugonjea upigwe mara ya kwanza ya pili na tatu unagonjea kifo.....
Why would one tolerate abuse mm ata Kofi singojei my current guy seems very obsessive and jealous am already planning on an exit plan juu tuko in a long distance relationship mm Red flags am very keen
Any violence in marriage should not be tolerated, you are lucky you came out alive. The ist slap was a red sign. Man or woman should not abuse the other in either way. When it happens, kindly don just sit there and hope for a miracle.
Pole Mama.... please woman run for your dear life's........why stay in abusive marriage?.....Men who abuse women are devils
Thy are total snakessss
Waiting.
These are just gas lighting traits. I am so sorry for what you went through.
How now?
Shocking story 😢
I'm a Catholic but she made me feel confuse 🤔 ,ati hakua ameokoka,hatukuangi tumeokoka? confused again 🤔 waah haidhuru
True..am Catholic and for life
Crazy story but interesting and sad. Wambui please stop rushing your guests, just give them time to give their stories fully. You seem to rush them or get tired listening or something.
Ngai iyo ningati
It pains so much when kids are mentioned in violence 😥😥😥 but thanks God you left
Thanks
A strong woman you are
Browning alifanya mambo
Then akua ciana ciaku niciamugaire
When God is warning you about someone you will see this sign's
1, uneasiness, dissatisfaction,joy gives way, true nature comes to light, jeolousy, insincerity, frowardness, integrity becomes questionable 👈
Ha. ha...
Reke nemwo sipigwi na mtu na nikae
Mimi siezi kaa na mtu kama huyu the moment you dare the first slap utabaki ukishamgaa
Weeeeeh akh the first part was abit humourous ,,,the second one is painful slapped on your wedding day it's very painful ,,,think the red flag was the first slap she was slapped during dating
Kiu gitiari kihiko ni gutee
Sweet voice
I like the way women stay in abusive marriage to tell their stories. Nonsense
She went through alots
Why wait all this?
People go through hell, gaiii, even going to the toilet your timed?? That's a narcissist, a crazy narcissist
Kwani watu wa Catholic hawajaokoka ama???
She face a lot in marriage
Just wondering why women would have such low self esteem to accept a man to treat them like shit in the name of "my husband" love yourself first so u don't have to put up with a man's shit, immediately a man starts mistreating u, he's no longer a his, he's your enemy. Start treating him as an enermy. If he puts a finger on u, hit him and leave.
He was narcissistic. Very dangerous personality.
Tag me part 1
Let me tell you men who obsess you are very dangerous. No 2 men who Don't talk but are able to express themselves when drunk are fierce animals. Now you know
That was a narcistic character.
This lady enjoys battles anajua vizuri what hubby hapendi but she repeats...learn your man vita iishe.anyway Kuna watu huvumilia kichapo
Wewe huwa unachapwa??swali tu. Noone has a right to assault anyone. Kama bwanako anakuchapa na unavumilia, wewe jiulize kama wewe ni mtoto wakuchapwa, kids are disciplined but not grownups especially someone that loves you and is going to sleep with you. It very shameful
Ata wewe vile eongeo utapitia magumu ƙuliƙo hayo ,hope labda umeolewa na maraika ya mwanaume just wait for ur tym why talk liƙe that really????
No one should lay their hands on another be it a man or woman,better to leave each other,too many killings in families,children shld not be left orphaned,long time u cldnt hear of such.
Ahem, so if your eating annoys someone you should stop eating??
Am tempted to ask kama you have another brain ama ni hii tu🤭