I still don't understand how people can be so inhumane and let greed blind them. My two late brothers left kids and wives. We took on the responsibility of educating those kids all the way to universities abroad and in Kenya. We divided the land equally among all of us. We even gave plots to the widows and all the money that we collect from rental properties is divided equally. We don't differentiate those our blood or those who got married into our family. This is how we were raised and our late parents would not allow any enrnmity or greed. I believe that's why God has been faithful to us, we're all thriving in our jobs and businesses. Please choose a blessing, not a curse. We'll all die one day and leave material things on earth
This young girl is suffering severe depression. At a young age she lost a Son and a husband.. it is painful. The in-laws should have held her hand by keeping her informed. The fact that her Mother In Law disinherited her tells the full story. There is no justification for that at all
Waaah this goes to show that our African culture has not fully accepted the effects of depression, this is a silent killer and the most untreated among our African people. Depression kills just like any other disease. God please bless this woman and fully provide for her and the kids
Pple are obsessed with earthly things..wanaulizanga mtu atakufa lini wamuibie shamba..shame on those inlaws..4*6 ndio unaweza sema niyako penye utazikwa
Mathira ni nene mathira niku Uri nginya mathira parts Kuri mathira east Mathira west Mathira north Mathira south Niwapi mathira Na mathira ni kubwa in a potion Mimi niwa mathira na first nikaileka muthinga Na mama ya bwana gu akaniingilia nikatoka Na kisha after akaoa But kukaa nikashikia ameaga na siku enda mathisi juu huo wakati nilikua abroad Ama niwewe ulioleka huko
between bwana kugonjeka all the way to dying the lady is not opening up enough,ana pause pause something that is leaving alot of???the other side of the story is important. pole sana anyway
By the way eater weee ndio ulijiletea shida juu ulipouliswa na mother inlaw bona hauendi home ukasema hauedi madharau ulianza hapo,but all in all nitakuambia ujipe nguvu maisha haitaki stress,sahau yote uedelee na kushugulikia watoto wako na mungu ataitervin
Inlaws may not have been perfect but hata huyu msichana ako na shida. Wewe mama alisema uende home ukakataa, i don't understand, u wanted watu wa shags wakuje nairobi mashakaya?
Lessons to young lady... anytime you get an opportunity of being helped to pursue a career make...it a priority matter what...marriage will come at it right time....they only power of a woman is her own money. It makes of more frustrated
Why did she refuse to go for the machakaya at husband's family place or where they were in the first place. That was a mistake.. she could have gone. Deciding to stay fonher own meetings with friends was not a good advise whoever may have advised her or not a good decision if she decided. Wacheni kusumbua waKenya with these TH-cam fundraising.
Young lady you are the one with the problem. How do you bury your husband and leave the same day ? Your in laws are good people. Wewe uko selfish. May God rnlighten you.
Your story is exactly like mine but mine was worse because I was even taken to the do's office but the D.O favoured me but my case at now is at the court waiting for what God of the widow's will do
As much as I feel sorry for her the only laws have done nothing wrong ,your husband passed on and if he didn’t leave anything for you and your children please wachana na mambo ya inheritance tafutia watoto wako
Pole sana Esther, but through your statement you're blaming inlaws for nothing, because i don't see the reason why you didn't cooperate with inlaws during matanga. You are the one who keep distance but inlaws were ready to be with you. Because even after burial they give you the money were left they help you to raise hospital bills,.... Esther jipeleke kamkutano na never ever goes to media's saying negative things about inlaws.
@@puritywangui1203Exactly. This lady went through a lot with her husband. Nobody came. She learned how not to depend on them. I have learned that even if I die on my own it is very much ok. I am unwell but my family never understood my mental health and that’s ok not everyone can understand. I then got diagnosed with a clinical illness. They still did not care. They had already given up on me. I became tired of reaching out and explaining. Since then I took a step back from them. I am very peaceful. I accept my conditions without feeling sorry for myself. I cry less. I am not angry with anyone, nothing is a big deal. God has given me very many mornings to witness. I chose to understand them instead and forgive them. The comments they make about me is the reason I have kept away from them. The comments are about what I should do or not do. My conditions are annoying them. It’s me who is not trying. Being told off and shouted at. Not that I am an alcoholic or on drugs. I have been sick for too long I should sort it out. Simply because mental health is not physical. Very difficult to contextualise. I chose to stay away to guard my heart. The only recent concern is that my memory is not very good not serious but it’s not normal.
But pesa alipewa amesema ni ile Tu offering watu hutoa during the burial n was given to her by the clergy.But hawa in-laws blaming her eti hapelekangi bwanake hospital was wrong considering the man was not a child n venye to convince a man aende hosi ni ngumu.The death of her son were so close so let's try understand her pain
My humble advice to you, nothing beats a forgiving heart so forgive yourself for not going to your inlaw home to mourn and Bury your husband. Then learn to let go of any anger, bitterness and unforgiveness, don't over share much with your kids ,they might not have the stamina and capacity to digest yet and lastly make God the epic centre of your life.
Mbona hukuenda nyumbani na umesema hukua na meeting town???pia wewe ulikosea huyo alikua bwanako ukifaa kwenda if utafukuzwa atleast inheakua afathari na understable but kukataa mbona???
Anaeleza nikama hata yeye alijibeba kama mshukiwa. She failed in everything. Taking husband to hospital without involving his parents, boycotting matanga without a reason, hata kama........
I like your channel but you never consider the us who don't understand your language,we always want to follow your channel as we did to tuko and Lynn gugi
I know easter she worked at my friend's saloon in githurai. What happened after the demise of her son i don't know because she relocated to zima. Pole sana mrembo God is able.
Trust in God not land,many were brought up in villages but still living happily.that lady , please have faith, trust,love and hope in God.God says he has better plans for your future.continue working for God says I will bless the work of your hands.The land belongs to all,and many parent today know that,a girl or boy they are your children blessed by God with a purpose in their life .when your brother depart to glory, don't misreat the wife or children, love them ,for you will never know blessings awaiting in their future life.As I mentioned ,' some were brought up in villages to day they own mansions.
Your inlaws are very good people,jichunguze you have a big problem kwanza hate nd pride ju hadi watu wa kwenyu nka you are not okay with them,apologize to ur inlaws ju nka inheritance is all you needed it seems.
I went through the same predicament. My husband died 2010 i was only 32years back then . I was blamed for causing my husband to die of oesphagus cancer. No body in the family wanted anything to do with me after the burial my mother inlaw even prevented me from sleeping in my house after the burial. As if that was not enough i lost my job 2 weeks after burying my husband. But trust me you there is God in heaven who uphold His servant. I am a reminant of Gods Grace and a living testament that , Kwi Ngai wa ihinda ringi. My sons are now grown men in university. I wish i can have a platform to share my story and encourage young widows.
Let's be gracious with other people, those who are blaming her that she did not go to the mother in law for morning. When life hits you so hard, making sober choices might be difficult, at such time one is sensitive and all they need is grace and love. Those calling her proud, she already gives credit to her mother in law for showing her how to live. If she choose to morn her husband in that new house that they had lived together the past one month, then its ok. And even if Esther was very bad, proud and arrogant as some are stating, the family was not justified to take away the inheritance, if not for her, Atleast for Wanjohis Kids. If the husband woke today, would be happy that his Family did not recognise his children? To Esther, you are a diligent and hard working woman, may God open doors for you. And heal your daughter.
My husband died back in 2011 left me with two son's, though the first boy i got married with him,,but for sure nilipitia adi nikajituma saudi in 2017,,am sure he was paid over million coz he got accident and the lorry had insurance,but niliekwa gizani until now sijawai uliza anything 😢😢😢😢
What really happens with in-laws. My husband died on 2022 and I was chased away hio siku ya mazishi ata nguo sikubeba, I have been hustling na vibarua.. My kids one is in form 2 now n the small one is in grade 4. Jeremy Please sir nilipie passport nikahustle gulf please please
I still don't understand how people can be so inhumane and let greed blind them. My two late brothers left kids and wives. We took on the responsibility of educating those kids all the way to universities abroad and in Kenya. We divided the land equally among all of us. We even gave plots to the widows and all the money that we collect from rental properties is divided equally. We don't differentiate those our blood or those who got married into our family. This is how we were raised and our late parents would not allow any enrnmity or greed. I believe that's why God has been faithful to us, we're all thriving in our jobs and businesses. Please choose a blessing, not a curse. We'll all die one day and leave material things on earth
Mungu awabariki Tena na Tena juu ya mioyo yenu safiii Hadi mbingu zinashangilia,,
May God continue blessing u n your family,mwina handû ngoro- ini ya Ngai for what u did.
Ttue mercy. May all who will read this, develop love for our diblings and all relatives.
@@joycewangui9780 amen, my prayer too
@FaithImani-qj1ci amen. I just thank God 🙏
Ester and her kids needs councling. So sorry
This young girl is suffering severe depression. At a young age she lost a Son and a husband.. it is painful. The in-laws should have held her hand by keeping her informed. The fact that her Mother In Law disinherited her tells the full story. There is no justification for that at all
Even if wanjiru was not good to the husbands family,the inlaws could have considered their sons children
Pole sana my sister, lakini us nyerians nítuí kuhanda moko thí na gwethera ciana, kunja sharti mwana witu.
Waaah this goes to show that our African culture has not fully accepted the effects of depression, this is a silent killer and the most untreated among our African people. Depression kills just like any other disease. God please bless this woman and fully provide for her and the kids
Huyu mama alikua na shinda nyingi sana kwanini alikataa kwenda kwa maombolezi na mother in law alikuita wewe sio mama mzuri
This woman has depression
I also smell a rat,but God forgive me
dont worry you will understand when time comes
Psalms 40:1-4 it is well Esther and your children ..be stiill and know HE IS GOD
I would like to hear from the the family coz huyu mama nampa pole kwa kufiwa but kiburi ndio imemfikisha hapo and she should change..
You are sick in the,agent of the devil,you seem to be their elder sister
Why say so Ben?
Anakaujinga Fulani ka ujeuli
True even kuomboleza the hubby she stayed in Nairobi
Sometimes what you hear from others is very different than the involved person, utakanyuiriire ndoi ke Rita. Mundu niwe ui haria kiratu kihihinyaga.
Pple are obsessed with earthly things..wanaulizanga mtu atakufa lini wamuibie shamba..shame on those inlaws..4*6 ndio unaweza sema niyako penye utazikwa
Be strong mamaa
Power of names. I have a cousin whose father's name was Wanjohi, he used to drink mpaka intestines zika isha. He later died.
Mathira ni nene mathira niku
Uri nginya mathira parts
Kuri mathira east
Mathira west
Mathira north
Mathira south
Niwapi mathira
Na mathira ni kubwa in a potion
Mimi niwa mathira na first nikaileka muthinga
Na mama ya bwana gu akaniingilia nikatoka
Na kisha after akaoa
But kukaa nikashikia ameaga na siku enda mathisi juu huo wakati nilikua abroad
Ama niwewe ulioleka huko
between bwana kugonjeka all the way to dying the lady is not opening up enough,ana pause pause something that is leaving alot of???the other side of the story is important. pole sana anyway
English version please for us your followers who don’t understand the Mt. Kenya language
By the way eater weee ndio ulijiletea shida juu ulipouliswa na mother inlaw bona hauendi home ukasema hauedi madharau ulianza hapo,but all in all nitakuambia ujipe nguvu maisha haitaki stress,sahau yote uedelee na kushugulikia watoto wako na mungu ataitervin
Inlaws may not have been perfect but hata huyu msichana ako na shida. Wewe mama alisema uende home ukakataa, i don't understand, u wanted watu wa shags wakuje nairobi mashakaya?
Dipression is real please
Lessons to young lady... anytime you get an opportunity of being helped to pursue a career make...it a priority matter what...marriage will come at it right time....they only power of a woman is her own money.
It makes of more frustrated
I don't think the family had a problem with you i don't know why ulikuwa unajishuku
This woman was into depression. Lets thank God kuwa hatujafika hapo , lets not judge.
But they wanted his Id immediately 😢
You are beautiful and strong , May God visit you
Nie ndatunyirwo cia muthuri akua nginya cia theiini na noni uyu!...wihe hinya urio munini!
Why did she refuse to go for the machakaya at husband's family place or where they were in the first place. That was a mistake.. she could have gone. Deciding to stay fonher own meetings with friends was not a good advise whoever may have advised her or not a good decision if she decided.
Wacheni kusumbua waKenya with these TH-cam fundraising.
Until u are in her shoes jst 🤫n pray never to be in problem
She was already undergoing depression after the death of her son, she needed support.
You have freedom to say anything you can because sio wewe umefelewa.there must be a reason for everything.
Lord Jesus have mercy and come through for struggling families. Girl be strong and encouraged in God. Joshua l:9🙏🙏
The bible says i am the God of orphans and widows... trust in God.
Sorry for the loses but the lady is arrogant.
Gutiri kindu kiabata ta muthuri waku emwoyo,muthuri wakwa akwire ndina mwika 24,nake agikua na 26,ngitigwo na kana ka miaka ena na ihu ria 3m
Hugs
Why peddle lies ...three weeks before this story Cucu was there to visit...and Cucu has been supportive😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢Why not investigate before posting....
Both parties kunakuanga maneno....because of world wickedness
Why denie her what belonged to her husband
You need to give your side of the story what you know. There is always a right of reply but from her side there is something fishy from in laws
Hi mambo weeeeenikuachia mungu hata hiyo family iko at least aje tumpe story atacool but anyway trust God
Young lady you are the one with the problem. How do you bury your husband and leave the same day ? Your in laws are good people. Wewe uko selfish. May God rnlighten you.
Hapo alifanya makosa ya kuzika the hubby the same day na kurudi...hukumupea heshima
I did that, and got my share.
Must you spent the night there. Am not aware.
That's not the cause.
Family manenos.
don't worry you will understand when time comes
Wewe ndio uko na kashinda sioni sinda ya in-laws ata kindogo
Kama alikuwa mgeni kwa plot si ageenda nyumbani akaobolenze na wengine ako na malingo sana
Si maringo ni ujinga
Your story is exactly like mine but mine was worse because I was even taken to the do's office but the D.O favoured me but my case at now is at the court waiting for what God of the widow's will do
Me too
its wrong for inlaws to behave like conmen
As much as I feel sorry for her the only laws have done nothing wrong ,your husband passed on and if he didn’t leave anything for you and your children please wachana na mambo ya inheritance tafutia watoto wako
Pole sana Esther, but through your statement you're blaming inlaws for nothing, because i don't see the reason why you didn't cooperate with inlaws during matanga. You are the one who keep distance but inlaws were ready to be with you. Because even after burial they give you the money were left they help you to raise hospital bills,.... Esther jipeleke kamkutano na never ever goes to media's saying negative things about inlaws.
Kabisa
I went through the same. Utakanywirire ndoi ke rita
@@puritywangui1203Exactly. This lady went through a lot with her husband. Nobody came. She learned how not to depend on them.
I have learned that even if I die on my own it is very much ok. I am unwell but my family never understood my mental health and that’s ok not everyone can understand. I then got diagnosed with a clinical illness. They still did not care. They had already given up on me. I became tired of reaching out and explaining. Since then I took a step back from them. I am very peaceful. I accept my conditions without feeling sorry for myself. I cry less. I am not angry with anyone, nothing is a big deal. God has given me very many mornings to witness.
I chose to understand them instead and forgive them. The comments they make about me is the reason I have kept away from them. The comments are about what I should do or not do. My conditions are annoying them. It’s me who is not trying. Being told off and shouted at. Not that I am an alcoholic or on drugs. I have been sick for too long I should sort it out. Simply because mental health is not physical. Very difficult to contextualise. I chose to stay away to guard my heart.
The only recent concern is that my memory is not very good not serious but it’s not normal.
Ata Mimi hapo pa kujitenga iko shida
But pesa alipewa amesema ni ile Tu offering watu hutoa during the burial n was given to her by the clergy.But hawa in-laws blaming her eti hapelekangi bwanake hospital was wrong considering the man was not a child n venye to convince a man aende hosi ni ngumu.The death of her son were so close so let's try understand her pain
God please remember Esther
Amen
It is well Esther it is well..
My humble advice to you, nothing beats a forgiving heart so forgive yourself for not going to your inlaw home to mourn and Bury your husband. Then learn to let go of any anger, bitterness and unforgiveness, don't over share much with your kids ,they might not have the stamina and capacity to digest yet and lastly make God the epic centre of your life.
You only need councilor with your kids then work hard coz your kids and your life matter
May GOD see her through
Mbona hukuenda nyumbani na umesema hukua na meeting town???pia wewe ulikosea huyo alikua bwanako ukifaa kwenda if utafukuzwa atleast inheakua afathari na understable but kukataa mbona???
Anaeleza nikama hata yeye alijibeba kama mshukiwa. She failed in everything. Taking husband to hospital without involving his parents, boycotting matanga without a reason, hata kama........
You can't understand but me I do coz I've been there
@@faithnjeri4179 nothing to understand she failed as a wife
She should have put the differences aside n attend the maombolezi first
@@eunicendungu8868 exactly
kitu kama Id ,titledeed na ATMS hizo ukiitishwa na familia usiwapee waambie apo inahitajika utawapeleka
Can we have some translation, so we can all understand what is going on?.
This story not adding up,mbona alikataa kwenda macakaya,hakuna mtu alimfukuza ata niwazuri inlaws walimpea pesa kiasi,
Jeremy, something is not adding up here with this story.
But pia ww una shinda mbona ulikataa kwenda macakaya ocha aaaiii
This is depression
This girl is depressed and the family is already here commenting negatively
One of the family anafaa akuje aseme side yao
I like your channel but you never consider the us who don't understand your language,we always want to follow your channel as we did to tuko and Lynn gugi
She is depressed
I know easter she worked at my friend's saloon in githurai. What happened after the demise of her son i don't know because she relocated to zima. Pole sana mrembo God is able.
Trust in God not land,many were brought up in villages but still living happily.that lady , please have faith, trust,love and hope in God.God says he has better plans for your future.continue working for God says I will bless the work of your hands.The land belongs to all,and many parent today know that,a girl or boy they are your children blessed by God with a purpose in their life .when your brother depart to glory, don't misreat the wife or children, love them ,for you will never know blessings awaiting in their future life.As I mentioned ,' some were brought up in villages to day they own mansions.
Ulikua unata family watoke nyeri mpaka nrb na sio kwa nyumbani
Damaris talk to her ako na shida kiburi ime mzidii
My sister be strong cheer the Lord will take care of you and your children.
Liver cirrhosis..and alchol withdrawal .sound like
Your inlaws are very good people,jichunguze you have a big problem kwanza hate nd pride ju hadi watu wa kwenyu nka you are not okay with them,apologize to ur inlaws ju nka inheritance is all you needed it seems.
Woi pole mungu awakubuke
please bring the husbands familly its good to lisen the other side of the story
Huyu mama ndio alijitoq kwa hiyo familia wakati alikataa kuenda ocha waombolese
She need to revoke the grant and get her husband's share....
I went through the same predicament. My husband died 2010 i was only 32years back then . I was blamed for causing my husband to die of oesphagus cancer. No body in the family wanted anything to do with me after the burial my mother inlaw even prevented me from sleeping in my house after the burial. As if that was not enough i lost my job 2 weeks after burying my husband. But trust me you there is God in heaven who uphold His servant. I am a reminant of Gods Grace and a living testament that , Kwi Ngai wa ihinda ringi. My sons are now grown men in university. I wish i can have a platform to share my story and encourage young widows.
I'm so sorry for what you went through
God is where you are u have got a very beautiful girl 👧
Huyu mama ako na kashi da
Let's be gracious with other people, those who are blaming her that she did not go to the mother in law for morning.
When life hits you so hard, making sober choices might be difficult, at such time one is sensitive and all they need is grace and love.
Those calling her proud, she already gives credit to her mother in law for showing her how to live.
If she choose to morn her husband in that new house that they had lived together the past one month, then its ok.
And even if Esther was very bad, proud and arrogant as some are stating, the family was not justified to take away the inheritance, if not for her, Atleast for Wanjohis Kids.
If the husband woke today, would be happy that his Family did not recognise his children?
To Esther, you are a diligent and hard working woman, may God open doors for you. And heal your daughter.
Something is not adding up here
True huyu mama kiburi ndio imemfikisha hapo
I don't like when they use this Kikuyu language how some pple will understand
Hence the name KDM
My mum ni Kikuyu dada sio ,so ulikua nanatataka watumie lughs gani kale ama mijikenda nonse
See your self
@@MargaretWaithera-w6w nonesence too watumie kiswahili amna akili
It feels real in kikuyu we ❤️our mother tongue
Mwathani aromûtirîra gîthithi. 😥
My husband died back in 2011 left me with two son's, though the first boy i got married with him,,but for sure nilipitia adi nikajituma saudi in 2017,,am sure he was paid over million coz he got accident and the lorry had insurance,but niliekwa gizani until now sijawai uliza anything 😢😢😢😢
We're you legally married?
This is sad
Widows go through a lot,wee!
What really happens with in-laws.
My husband died on 2022 and I was chased away hio siku ya mazishi ata nguo sikubeba, I have been hustling na vibarua..
My kids one is in form 2 now n the small one is in grade 4.
Jeremy Please sir nilipie passport nikahustle gulf please please
Ulikua unaishi home kwa your late husband?
Yes, I healed accepted and slowly moving on
Widows go through alot. It is easier to criticize her because you're not in her situation
Hugs 🫂 the same story still from Mathira but God got us
Pole sana Esther 😢