I Need Things To Change

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.ย. 2024

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  • @DegenerateJay
    @DegenerateJay  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    If you decide to comment, please watch the full video. I get into a lot here. If you're interested in joining me for something new, here's the link for that. JayRPG Link Here - th-cam.com/channels/59hGHjKM3LKJDz-zO6H9PQ.html I will still be uploading here and enjoying this channel too. Same with Degenerate Plays which I hope does better in the future. I just can't keep putting my happiness last. I don't want to look back when I'm old and all I did was work to try to impress people... it's stupid. I also need to eventually figure out my finances and be able to make a living, whether that's here or elsewhere. Finally, I'm going to start just removing, muting, whatever, malicious people who comment just to attack me or others in this community. It's honestly to the point where it's not even hurtful, it's just annoying and makes the community less fun. I'm tired of this community and channel not being as fun as it can be.

  • @slcmof
    @slcmof 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    Jay you are a legend, if there's anything I can ever do to support you let me know. Keep up the great work and can't wait to see what 2024 holds for you!

  • @eon001
    @eon001 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    Sorry to hear about your father. I know what it's like to work to take your mind off negative feelings. I'm in a bit of a mental funk myself. Work is my only escape.

    • @arthurfleck629
      @arthurfleck629 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Sometimes it feels like the only answer doesn’t it? It often feels as though just burying yourself in work or turning to addiction is the only way to numb the pain.
      No amount of sleep ever seems to make one feel truly rested and ready for the challenges of the day, not anymore anyway

  • @Ravenetic
    @Ravenetic 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Glad you’re putting your happiness first, I hope it’s easy keeping up with the passwords

  • @gamerboy6787
    @gamerboy6787 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Just went over and subbed (to the new channel).
    My man, always take care of your health - both physical and mental. Take care of you first. I know creators are always beholden to the almighty algos, but nothing is worth sacrificing your health for. Thank you for all your hard work.

  • @Imadeyoumadlol
    @Imadeyoumadlol 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    As the self-proclaimed leader of the Metal Gear fandom, and definitely not Hideo Kojima, I want to say that I support you and look forward to seeing what you do both here and there.

  • @triple-dunc2119
    @triple-dunc2119 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Happiness is always important to have. I have supported and watched your videos Jay. Just have been busy as of late and honestly a lot of bad stuff has happened to me: last semester of college was a total bust, mom's parkinsons getting really bad, family drama, loneliness, thoughts of dark stuff, etc. I am sorry of my ramblings but happiness is very important and its also something for me to find as well. Keep it up! Support this channel and also to your new one. Merry christmas Jay!

    • @DegenerateJay
      @DegenerateJay  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It’s always nice to see you in the comments, I’ve always appreciated you being a channel member, and I really hope things start to look up for you. I will keep your family in my prayers. I’m very sorry at how bad things have been. Watching a parent have their health decline is also also one of the worst feelings in the world, because a lot of other people, assume they know what it’s like, but they’re not there. Some thing that helped me was realizing that there were other people out there who did have similar experiences, and there are a lot of support groups and stuff like that online that are pretty good about it. I’m not the best at sharing, so it’s not always the best approach for me, but it is something to consider I think. I hope things start to get better this year.

  • @anelliefingarred7169
    @anelliefingarred7169 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This channel deserves a lot better from TH-cam

  • @thequestionable1413
    @thequestionable1413 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I'm personally very excited both for this channel and JayRPG. I also love the let's play channel

  • @BenjiDWJ
    @BenjiDWJ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I for one tremendously enjoy your content regardless of the genre or subject matter. 😄👌

  • @ronniefazzio6979
    @ronniefazzio6979 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’m sorry to hear about your father man. It’s good to hear that you’re putting yourself first and trying new new ventures. It’s in times like this I remember when Stan Lee talked about the creation of the Fantastic 4. He was feeling tired and thought that he was gonna be fired. Then his wife told him to write the kind of story that he’d like to read and the rest is history.

  • @_zaldivar2590
    @_zaldivar2590 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Allowing yourself to express yourself through your work might bring you both more inner prosperity and more outer prosperity. All the best, man!

  • @AJ-09-06
    @AJ-09-06 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Whatever changes you make I’m here Jay, been here for years and nothing you change can make me leave

  • @Spiderman030
    @Spiderman030 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    i love you jay, i hope things get better. It seems things have been hard for you but i support you no matter what you change. have been watching you since the arhkam days and i love hearing your opinions. Good luck.

  • @icemantopgun1008
    @icemantopgun1008 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I hope these changes benefit your life and give you the happiness that you deserve. You’ve helped all of our lives and hope the new channel helps things in your personal life. Again I’m sorry about your father, I’ve lost my parents and hope you never forget them but also have a healthy outlet to talk about him.

  • @jangofett1172
    @jangofett1172 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Put your happiness first Jay! You got this!

  • @FadedPanda0
    @FadedPanda0 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I really hope things work out for you dawg you’re one of the most genuine people on this platform

  • @justinsider7890
    @justinsider7890 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You definitely need to be happy too. It's awesome to want to entertain people but don't ruin your life getting there. I am excited for the future of all of your channels and I hope you will try to relax more and be yourself.

  • @ScottCoffinRepublicanFan
    @ScottCoffinRepublicanFan 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    To quote a meme I saw on Twitter of some sports guy - "I will be there no matter what."

  • @bandawin18
    @bandawin18 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is a problem I've seen a lot of creators have: they spend so much time doing things that please other people that they get burnt out of content creation as a whole.
    It's always best to just do what you love and enjoy, and the if some people don't like it? Oh well, can't please everyone, there'll still be the people out there that appreciate the content and even more out there that may not be fans yet but will find out about your content and become new fans.
    It's like our gym teachers said before we'd play some random sport for the week: it's all about having fun. That's what's really important

  • @isaacmeredith9421
    @isaacmeredith9421 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hey man I hope you find a way to spend your time wisely and find ways to take time for your passion

  • @duckseverywhere7087
    @duckseverywhere7087 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Best of luck with the new channel, looking forward to see what you do there! I hope it helps you find that passion and happiness again.

  • @Gamefit28
    @Gamefit28 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Your a great guy i know youll work things out take all the time you need ill be here, i felt the same im not gonna ruin my life to make anyone happy, im focusing on just me.

  • @theAverageJoe25
    @theAverageJoe25 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I hope this change works out well for you and brings you the joy and funds your work efforts should earn you

  • @Goldnfoxx
    @Goldnfoxx 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jay, I follow you because you think what you think and speak your mind. I certainly don't always agree with you: you enjoy the RPG AC games and I think they have no business having the AC label on their boxes. But you're not a shill and you stand for what you actually think. It's rarer and rarer to find in these spaces, and I respect the hell out of that. Focusing on trying to make other people happy is almost always a losing proposition. Do what you enjoy, whatever you're called to do, and let the audience who enjoys that find you. If you're miserable doing what you're doing, I promise you that it will eventually seep in to your output.

  • @SnowCrow97
    @SnowCrow97 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love you guys as people and I love your guys’ content. You’re into all the same nerdy stuff I’m into and you’ve expanded my interests as well by introducing me to new things. I watch the main channel and/or the let’s play channel every single day. I’d be so sad if you left TH-cam cause like I said I love you guys. Hopefully this new approach will work for you and make you happy. I’ll always support you

  • @theoutsiderjess1869
    @theoutsiderjess1869 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have sickle cell and multiple health issues so I feel you on a personal level when you say your pushing yourself to unhappiness and the same thing happened to me. I wantef to do youtube since I was 14 now I hate the idea of making videos amd that upset me cause this is a dream job

  • @LucasPereira-gk9me
    @LucasPereira-gk9me 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I LOVE YOU JAY, Thanks for being the best youtuber ever!!!!! Hope everything works out for you and Jill, cheers mate

  • @paulazygmunt874
    @paulazygmunt874 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What you said about YT recommending only things exactly like what you watched and liked for a while now is sooo annoying... I watch one video of something and then it´s all that appeares for me... even though I wanna see the things I watched before and new things and generally my interests are not really fitting more often than not and YT fails to cater to than with their algorythm.
    That being said, I hope very much this plan works out for you and just as there is a handful of things I watch on this channel, I probably will find some on your other channel as well X3

  • @TheCondimonyKing-jo2xc
    @TheCondimonyKing-jo2xc 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am rooting for your success

  • @isaacwall3713
    @isaacwall3713 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well spoken, I love how honest you are and not afraid to say that you're stressed or that you're tired. People should talk about it more because we are all human
    So credit to you
    I'm not you so I can't say that I know what you been through
    But I aswell for a long time put other peoples happiness before my own and it does in the end break you, and ive had struggles w lonliness, im 21 and lived on my own for a yesr now, its peaceful but again ir messes w your head, so i go to the gym, i write stories i keep occupied and the day flies by
    Your taking a risk in what your doing but I think this will be a massive reward, can't say this channel will be a huge success but it will supply you with a breath of fresh air and really finding your niche in TH-cam, never compare yourself to other streamers you supply and edit content that's unique to you, your videos are art and your voice and their videos are theirs, YOU MATTER
    Sorry, it's a long one
    Keep your head up, man. I got ya back, I think we all do

  • @dantelaw1710
    @dantelaw1710 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm sorry about ur dad. That's gotta be awful. But I appreciate you trying to be more happy and positive. It's also important to take care of yourself too. Live life to the fullest and focus on the simplest things. But it's also important to have fun too 😁 Just keep up the good work and don't work yourself too hard. Just continue to be the awesome person that you are 👍👍

  • @muntaseerhamid1545
    @muntaseerhamid1545 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This video accomplished what I think you set out to do. Congrats

  • @solredqueen
    @solredqueen 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Holy shit Jay, you look awesome bro.

  • @anelliefingarred7169
    @anelliefingarred7169 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I also wanted to say I will be watching the new channel. I love kingdom hearts and soulsborne a lot so that sounds really fun for me

  • @joshuacoleman6248
    @joshuacoleman6248 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I hope this new move helps you out. Appreciate your content

  • @theoutsiderjess1869
    @theoutsiderjess1869 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is the most relatable video to me I also made the same promise to myself and try to find the fun in making videos again

  • @zombiegamercat777
    @zombiegamercat777 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Take care of yourself bro. As someone who used to have a variety channel, yeah, they're hard to grow. I still do variety, but ever since I narrowed the things I do, growth is better.

  • @REALWALKINGJR
    @REALWALKINGJR 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All I can say is based man and do what makes you happy and I'm all for it. I been Herr since 5.5k subs and with you all the way through man.

  • @danglin-wang7633
    @danglin-wang7633 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Final fantasy is amazing so very excited. This channel also one of my favorite on TH-cam

  • @bertanderny8927
    @bertanderny8927 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    No! Sit down, suck it up, and tell me which you think are the best 5 shades of grey used on the various batman suits! And when you’ve done that, tell me the worst 5.
    I only catch sporadic vids and so am only here for 5 mins now and then, but to be real, my mum has fibro, and that is a slog, so power to you dude. I will say to you what i say to her. You do you, the only person you do a disservice to is yourself when you push to hard. Learn to / allow yourself to chill, and bollocks to whatever other peeps think.
    Do what you dig, and dig what you do. The rest will fall into place.

  • @andson02
    @andson02 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Daily upload or twice a week; I will catch it either way! Always looking forward to another fun vid. Not every topic is for me, but I watch it. Maybe I get to learn more about said topic and it get into it 😊

  • @Dylanisa_BasketCase
    @Dylanisa_BasketCase 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm sorry you've gotten so stressed. I hope 2024 ia better year for you. I hope your mental health improves

  • @BatMan-io7zi
    @BatMan-io7zi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'd argue, making more channels is going to stress you out more. Love your work Jay! Keep it up

  • @OffGridAlloys
    @OffGridAlloys 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yessss! So excited for the rpg channel!

  • @bradleydias425
    @bradleydias425 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sounds good, my dude. You are very negative about this stuff and making a new channel is good. Keep it up and make a new one too. That's great! Let us know and link it to us.

  • @AllyC_Rhythms
    @AllyC_Rhythms 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy New Year! I hope that you find an equilibrium with You Tube, love the channel. Is there anyone at You Tube that helps creators? Without creators, they have nothing

  • @NobodyNowhere888
    @NobodyNowhere888 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dealing with my own disabilities, I don’t get the opportunity to tune into the channel as much as I’d like to. Moreover, I believe I can somewhat comprehend where you’re coming from in terms of existential burnout. As a longtime viewer, I would hate to see you go for good, but I would love the idea of you turning things around in your life, off camera, astronomically more than the bitter prospect of your permanent content creation departure here on TH-cam as a fellow recipient of your passionate pop-culture output.
    If you ultimately decide to shut the book on TH-cam sometime down the near road, I request that you at least do not delete your channel off the face of the platform because there are some people around the globe with similar health shackles and other day-to-day quagmires as your own, which you may already be aware of, that use your content as a sort of haven to temporarily escape predicaments outside of their control. You do not owe us an iota of your limited time, but I believe that a chunk of us would, very much so, appreciate giving you a final sendoff via a livestream to aid you in concluding the TH-cam chapter(s) of your life.

    • @DegenerateJay
      @DegenerateJay  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I really appreciate what you said here and it means a lot to me. I don’t wanna leave the platform or have to back off a ton unless I end up in the position financially where I have to, but I’m finally open to the idea of it just because I’m realizing that the way I was living was not very good for my family, friends or myself. So I’m trying a different approach here with all of my channels, and really hoping that I can make things work this way and be happy. If I ever did decide to stop posting, I would not delete my channel, rest assured, as I’m very proud of what I have made, and I really do care about the people who watch it, including you. Thank you for reaching out and I really appreciate you.

  • @fexizp4272
    @fexizp4272 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We don't matter more than your mental health and own happiness its important that you let yourself do what you want because it's your channel im glad you are able to see that and are fixing that

  • @Chill_Guy247
    @Chill_Guy247 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Always do what you want Jay, life’s too short to spend it making everyone else happy

  • @shinecomics
    @shinecomics 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m rooting for you Jay!

  • @donalejandrodraper9347
    @donalejandrodraper9347 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You do not have to create antoher Channel in my Oppinion. You are on a Journey. As we all are. And probably you have a bad time right now. Just keep your Channel and do what makes you happy. People will come, people will go.
    The core of your Fans gonna stay and grow with ya. They probably don't even care about the topic, just wanna hear you. Your voice.
    I suggest not to do another channel. Do your stuff here. The other way may loose you your fans, who probably haven't noticed there is another channel.
    Good Luck Jay!

  • @cathylickpriest7775
    @cathylickpriest7775 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Shoutout to Jill falling asleep

  • @raymondkuczewski6499
    @raymondkuczewski6499 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you are good guy there jay and i will still support and watch your vid every day

  • @abgaming3629
    @abgaming3629 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please don’t quit! Never, never, never give up! As Sir Winston Churchill said. I will be following you on this new journey and keep watching this channel and Degenerate Plays. ❤❤

  • @miguelgarcia6170
    @miguelgarcia6170 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I missed when people made TH-cam videos for fun.

  • @benjaminwitham8142
    @benjaminwitham8142 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Keep doing what makes You happy man your doing amazing work

  • @amirsteez05
    @amirsteez05 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You could take some inspiration from Star Wars theory or The Professional. Sw theory has many channels. T P Has a certain niche that is still pretty wide.

  • @hyperonrex
    @hyperonrex 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Of course I did get it here with all of this want to check out or try to play some new games and see some new movies and shows that I were be curious or interested at to get me enough to watch or play it as I been doing lately from 2020 up until now it start to grow more and more for me ever since I start this that my point of view anyway I will support you no matter what the content you want to make

  • @TevyaSmolka
    @TevyaSmolka 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i understand man and i am hoping you have happiness. ;)

  • @LonelyGamr
    @LonelyGamr 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    watch the film "about shmidt" sums up work etc well

  • @Theachivmentsearcher
    @Theachivmentsearcher 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's a bit different for me I'm going to try and upload a bit more cause I only did for a bit of i do achivment guides its just having the energy to edit so this year I'm going to upload more next year

  • @carlkolchack3012
    @carlkolchack3012 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Praying for u my friend ! Jesus is the only repetitive positivity I have found and I hate things.. be safe u matter !

    • @NobodyNowhere888
      @NobodyNowhere888 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, let’s all clasp our hands in prayer and indulge in fairytales to quash world hunger, reverse disease and death, obtain existential euphoria, and make Jay feel better about constantly burning the midnight oil entertaining his loyal niche viewership despite his unfulfillment with the algorithm plus more.
      Let’s also not forget to thank “Jesus” for Jay’s and other people’s disabilities that makes them rely on thankless grit-siphoning, capitalistic platforms like TH-cam to make ends meet and survive day-to-day in a bleak economic system. /s

  • @electric__1900
    @electric__1900 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😮😮😮

  • @shizuwolf
    @shizuwolf 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Adulting sucks

  • @Requsio
    @Requsio 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    W thumbnail

  • @TracerX
    @TracerX 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You look like rennsreviews.

  • @speedsterstyle3541
    @speedsterstyle3541 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The only true change we can get from our lives is through accepting Jesus Christ into our lives. I really mean it. He changes US. He changes inwardly which ultimately changes our lives outwardly. He died so we can live eternally, because we can’t go to heaven which is perfect with our evil, that everyone has done, everyone has sinned, so Jesus Christ God himself, lived a perfect life we could never and died as a punishment we deserved. When we put our faith in him we become the righteousness of God. And we can be righteous and live because Christ rose from the dead on the third day showing he is God, we can live because he lived. I hope you can all accept this and know he loves you and wants you in heaven more than you do. I love you all

  • @StoneShot1
    @StoneShot1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    first

    • @NobodyNowhere888
      @NobodyNowhere888 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Would you like an *Olympic medal* for this “achievement”..? What is the purpose of this comment? What does it contribute to Jay’s content creation conundrum that he speaks about in this video?

    • @StoneShot1
      @StoneShot1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@NobodyNowhere888 aww nothing like someone getting upset over one word that has nothing to do with them.

  • @maddieisjuicy2618
    @maddieisjuicy2618 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s really important to take care of yourself too and enjoy your life.